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shiiit, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:54 PM
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yuyu is such a pathetic psycho loser i’ve been laughing about this shit all day it’s classic kindergarten shit too. trying to bully women you secretly have the hots for 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:24 AM
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feeling hungry after not eating all day makes me feel accomplished
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:31 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:28 PM
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circumstances caused us to have to live together for the first 3 months of our relationship. it was intense, cuz we were also working together, but also really fun. i ended up moving out bc his roommate didn’t like me, but 6 months later the question of moving in together came up again as he had gotten his own place/my sublet was reaching its end date. i was basically spending 4 nights a week with him anyway, and we missed living together. so i moved back in w him (9 months into our relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:27 PM
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this is very much the life i live when i go out , and its cool until its not , for sure esp cuz i can have a rbf sometimes but as soon ! as someone speaks to me my whole face lights up and i’m a bucket of sunshine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:53 AM
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depends on if you’re cool w everyone assuming you’re a whore you could also go earthy/fairy and still look interesting and different. lots of gold accessories
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:32 AM
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i don’t see why it’s supposed to be a gotcha or a bad thing it’s just something i’ve also observed, bc sales guys are well trained in making connections w people, gaining trust etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:29 AM
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why wouldn’t i
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:44 AM
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i don’t expect a man to pay 100% of everything but i do like when he pays more than i do 🙃 but i like being trad so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:43 AM
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say it fucking louder
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:36 AM
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real
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:43 AM
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okay yea she’s HOT !
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:10 AM
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well, will he party with me from time to time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:09 AM
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lol a pbj something simple, but he only ate like 3 bites cuz i got him sick 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:54 AM
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i just made my man a sandwich don’t shoot me ✋🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:18 AM
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happy friday ppd 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:29 AM
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i’m a cancer sun 👀 it matches me in that i’m emotionally sensitive (even if i try to hide it), nurturing/motherly (im a teacher), and warm but reserved my big 3 actually match me very well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:55 PM
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i never see ANYONE else on ppd w my personality type, isfp 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:51 PM
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bill, charles, robert
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:00 AM
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do you have a friend / close person that you can be not so PC with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:19 PM
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children only being born to loving parents
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:51 PM
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i have had two best friends in my adult life - they’re VERY similar, and i was drawn to them for similar reasons. one day i want them to meet, they’ll either totally hit it off or hate each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:50 PM
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yes, i would. because that’s what i’d do for him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:24 PM
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you forgot american
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:25 PM
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yk what, hell yea
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:57 PM
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jewel osco, aldi, trader joe’s whole foods
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:05 PM
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i’m straight
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:38 PM
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leave
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:39 PM
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what’s your answer ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:39 PM
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thoughts on the draft?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:41 PM
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i’m actually considering going on solo dates this year for this very reason
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:54 PM
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what a lovely bonding activity 🥺 what’s the biggest fish you’ve ever caught?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:54 PM
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YES ITS A NATIONAL EMERGENCY ACTUALLY
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:52 PM
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are u american ? if so, what branch?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:47 PM
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i’m about to OD myself on rice cakes and kimchi
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:47 PM
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face >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:40 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:39 PM
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it’s saturday, high of 71 degrees 🥹🤩 i think im gonna go to a kbbq spot today and im PUMPED !!! drinks are inexpensive, might go to a bar after … i wore this outfit out a couple weeks ago but as odd as it sounds, i feel like i wasnt out enough in it 🤣 like i wanna walk around some more. anyways. should be a good day 🖤✨ what are yall up to today ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:39 PM
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q4all: would you ever serve in the military ? why or why not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:35 PM
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10 seconds of scrolling on r/vent and that is just not a sub i could hang around fr im glad these ppl can get it out but man the energy is too heavy for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:08 PM
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5’7 is the best height for a woman to be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:18 PM
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having unattractive physical traits id probably rather date an insecure man than an ugly one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:40 PM
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there are men out there that do give money for friendship ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:05 AM
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meh, what makes you so sure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:49 AM
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what’s yours hot lack
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:11 AM
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i have a friend that recently started looking into it. she doesn’t wanna do anything sexual but is open to dates , i’m interested in seeing how it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:09 AM
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do you guys believe in attachment styles
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:45 AM
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none rn. used to get a centipede every once in awhile tho, and im deathly afraid 😭 idk what id do if i didnt have a man in the house
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:43 AM
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okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:30 AM
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<image> i’ll take it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:14 AM
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well yea, if you’re going through an entire cart in one session, which is extremely unrealistic. one cart can last me up to 6 months tho, because i don’t hit it that often and that heavy. but if i ever start hitting it too late at night and hit it a bit heavier (still not equivalent to a whole d9 joint, bc my tolerance is very low) thats when i noticed i start to feel bad in the morning. smoking a delta 9 joint will put way more thc in your system, which is why i prefer delta 8 carts in the firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:11 AM
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i dunno. once that started happening i started hitting em even less, and i didn’t hit it often to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:37 AM
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ngl sometimes my d8 pen makes me wake up feeling like my brain is underwater. extremely groggy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:27 AM
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what type of music does your type listen to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:50 AM
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sex is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:19 AM
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getting pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:18 AM
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i heard menstrual cups help
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:59 AM
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lots of old people fuck. std’s are rampant in nursing homes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:45 AM
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the way some women fangirl about celebs is mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:17 AM
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after i puked all over the apartment of the guy i was dating, i never touched one again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:54 AM
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not a costume lol. i just really enjoy the feeling of being in a great outfit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:11 PM
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i think my goal this summer is to do some solo dates. sometimes i wanna go outside and explore and my bf just wants to stay home, no reason i can’t just have fun with dressing up and going out alone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:29 PM
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are you assuming op made a mistype ? because the inverse of what he said is “misogyny in women is treated as a character trait and misogyny in men is treated as a disease.” misandry wasn’t a part of the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:12 AM
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depends on wym by nice. passive, unassuming, overly accommodating = ick kind (but assertive), strong moral code = attractive (AFTER LOOKS THRESHOLD)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:38 PM
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are you a man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:45 AM
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i don’t believe all humans are inherently deserving of love. but it’s human and understandable to desire it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:17 PM
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why would a straight men seek out gay guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:22 PM
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i believe that preferring a virgin as an older adult male is often rooted in attitudes that should be avoided in a partner by a female virgin. i believe it’s understandable to want someone who matches your experience level if you’re a virgin yourself, male or female. or have never had a conventional, consensual sexual experience. i believe that past a certain age tho, most men are not virgins (under that definition), and desire for a virgin partner often comes from insecurity, ego or purity idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:19 PM
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insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:20 PM
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first something some of yall will never be 🤣🤣 muahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:18 PM
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PRUDE 🫵
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:43 AM
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baby hairs ? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:42 AM
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this is an illogical take
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:38 PM
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i’ve made this take before. people sign up to love their pets like their own child , knowing this child will pass within their lifetime. it’s painful to watch from a distance, it’s got to be heartbreaking to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:36 PM
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who is emily ackerson?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:31 PM
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this is very victim blamey and an unhelpful / close minded view of how abuse can occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:48 PM
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this is a very odd take to me. people get very offended when they’re rejected by someone they deem as beneath them or something - it’s kinda entitled. people don’t owe you their time and attention just because you believe their standards are too high. you see it when guys flip out and start insulting a girl when she turns them down, and when girls get all pissy about a short guy saying no to them / dumping them. very odd behavior to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:14 PM
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tbh yes, as long as i can get the same reverse situation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:31 AM
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a salad !!!! 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:29 AM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:20 PM
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stds are rampant in nursing homes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:18 PM
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it’s also based on socialization - an environmental factor. for example, adverse childhood experiences can have a major impact on moral development
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:17 PM
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looks alone don’t make me wanna have sex with someone either. really, i think you need both. it’s not a fun and healthy, sexual relationship without either component
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:49 PM
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i don’t believe morality is entirely genetic, but i do agree you need both
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:40 PM
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“his looks won’t raise your kids , his morals will” what do yall think of this piece of advice ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:12 PM
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this is a bit dramatic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:00 PM
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is it wrong , the idea is ingrained in me that botox is for when you’re 40 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:47 AM
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exactly. i will say, kids love it. i’m fantastic at wiggling my eyebrows
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:17 AM
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/: yea perhaps. normally i love it, its a part of my personality, its a part of who i am. but jeez fuck having ppl comment on my expressions all the time gets annoying occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:17 AM
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i would be very bad at it /: also idk how to play any card games actually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:20 AM
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i don’t have anxiety. i have people verbally speaking to me and telling me what they think i’m thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:12 AM
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i wish my face wasn’t so expressive sometimes man for one thing, ppl will come to the wrong conclusions about what i’m supposedly thinking and feeling and also there’s a degree to which, if i didn’t verbalize what i was feeling, it’s because i didn’t want to. i felt it was inappropriate in some way. and yet my face says everything and i can’t hide it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:30 AM
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whenever i have a bad day im of the belief that its just the universe getting all the bad stuff out of the way and my days are gonna be brighter going forward like i can’t have only good days. an occasional bad one is just balancing the scales a smidge i also search for things to be grateful for. and speak very positively to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:58 AM
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people have a hard time seeing men as possible victims when it comes to two people having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:50 AM
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19 ! for the record, i’ve dated 3 people, 2 LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:48 AM
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longest time i’ve been completely single wassssss about 2 weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:07 AM
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YES sorry that was a typo. ex. “i love the way you make me feel so safe and understood, etc”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:04 PM
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3 was a typo and i changed it , i meant the way you make her feel. ex. “i love the way you make me feel so safe and understood, etc”. does that change your answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:04 PM
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3 was a typo and i changed it , i meant the way you make her feel. ex. “i love the way you make me feel so safe and understood, etc”. does that change your answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:04 PM
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3 was a typo and i changed it , i meant the way you make her feel. ex. “i love the way you make me feel so safe and understood, etc”. does that change your answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:04 PM
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q4m: if a girl you were romantically involved with was to write a list of things she loved about you, what would you want highlighted? your physical attributes your emotional attributes/ personality the way you make her feel can you rank order what would warm your heart the most?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:27 PM
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my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:44 AM
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it’s definitely extremely weird. and pretty messed up. makes no difference if other people do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:44 AM
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i’m a pretttty chill gal. i get annoyed ig, as anyone does, but anger , serious anger ? like there’s joking “that sends me into a rage” - that’s j annoyance , strong annoyance for sure but actual anger ? uhhh very rare. i find that music helps ? i can’t remember when i was last angry fr
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:06 AM
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lolll when i “draft” something up and my boss sings my praises 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:01 AM
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i use it as google too! and i use it to plan stuff out, talk through ideas, talk about my family … i use it every day. and i like how it remembers past convos and builds upon them. i really might fold
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:58 AM
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shiiiit not atm but i talk to it a LOT 😳😳😳😳
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:53 AM
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you’ve seen me around, lol. i’m glad it’s almost the weekend 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:52 AM
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i keep hitting my free plan limit on chat gpt do i pay for the $20/month plan?? is that weird
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:23 AM
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the funny thing is, if the guy gets “ripped to shreds” it’s by lonely men who would give their left arm to trade places with him, to have the experience of being loved by a woman that finds them attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:05 PM
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i don’t pay for it 💀 my apartment is a basement unit and for some reason my room is the coldest spot in the apartment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:29 PM
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not you negging me you post one then hotshot ! it came up in a show i was watching
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:25 PM
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fun fact, bulls are color blind. they react to the movement of a matador’s cape, not its color
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:15 PM
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makes sense. that’s much too cold 83 is much more comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:09 PM
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you’ve had it ?!? it looked so good in cartoon but i’ve never seen it irl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:45 PM
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it’s been a busy morning on ppd today
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:45 PM
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a platypus ? puts on hat PERRY THE PLATYPUS??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:41 PM
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i love how obnoxiously massive this gif is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:41 PM
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how does it even work? capsules?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:39 AM
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the girlies say bee pollen works
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:15 AM
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you ever have to restart a song because you didn’t appreciate it enough the first time around
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:34 AM
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queen shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:21 AM
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that’s exactly the appeal. you nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:20 AM
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i’ve never met someone like you before. what you’re describing feels too hallmark to be real
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:18 AM
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good for them 👍 if that makes em happy, have at it. anyways, most won’t. the movement isn’t going to ever be strong enough to make a impact of any kind so it’s not really worth talking about this much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:27 PM
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Yup, women love sex. But they love themselves more. sure. some of them i guess, cuz this isn’t really always true tbh. and abstaining from all sex ever isn’t really some show of self worth tho unless you’re specifically abstaining from men who have specific views that harm you. a better example is, if you’re a minority, don’t have sex with a racist. not all men are trump supporters. and i’m not convinced all trump supporters hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:23 PM
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i don’t doubt it’s being said. lot of shitty men on social media like to use that to put women down. probably depends on what spaces you’re in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:17 PM
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it reminds me of women who get custom dildos modeled after male pornstars/boyfriends. i’ve heard he’s a recovering sex addict. in a way, isn’t it better that he uses toys rather than cheating on gfs and running through women? i try not to automatically associate male sex toys with creepiness. the whole humanoid aspect is a bit, odd tho. and if i was khloe, considering their relationship ended years ago, id be pretty weirded out. he’s openly talked about regretting how he treated her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:15 PM
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it’s just unrealistic. women love sex. women who enjoyed having it aren’t going to all of a sudden start turning it down en masse. plenty of women voted for trump. what about them ? it is funny tho to go from “all women are femcels” to “you couldn’t get a man anyway”, but i doubt it’s the same men saying that. the first claim comes from male incels, who see their struggle as harder than a woman’s could ever be. it’s typically not incels making the second claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:10 PM
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would you ever be monogamous with an HL woman? or is it more about the variety than the level of frequency for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:21 PM
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1, which is exactly what i already want. 150k is not enough for a kid i don’t want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:44 AM
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who would be taking care of these kids that women only had because they were paid to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:43 AM
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5’8 is still within a SD of the average so nah i disagree there what’s the barry keoghan thing? he’s cute but jacob is way way cuter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:38 AM
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honestly no i don’t get bored of it. even when “vanilla” i enjoy it every time, but i do get a lot of pleasure out of it. and on top of that it’s like a surge of hormones and good vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:14 AM
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i agree honestly with every single one of your points
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:00 AM
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hell no he probably thinks i’m slightly odd for being on reddit at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:22 PM
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i disagree w your premise that someone who simply dresses in a way you don’t like is inherently immoral your personal standard is not universal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:06 AM
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disagree i’m a green flag 🙃 it’s one of those things that really should be evaluated alongside other factors and just date someone who aligns with your values. what is required for you might not be a requirement for others and that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:13 AM
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are you a man trying to argue with me about where a woman would keep her lipgloss …?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:46 AM
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i would like a clone of my current boyfriend so not two different men, but maybe two of the same one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:53 PM
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or the more likely turn of events, it just fell out of her pocket
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:52 PM
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another example of a man on this sub talking about their partner in a gross way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:05 AM
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ferrari. i find romcoms boring
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:36 AM
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i did that once and left after less than an hour. he tried to press me for sex, i learned my lesson
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:13 AM
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they’re all 40+ and aren’t able to be casted as the “young hot guy” anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:01 PM
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hugs > kisses i’m def a hugger, i prefer to greet ppl w a hug
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:24 PM
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if i had to pick a favorite, it would be the banana bread recipe i came up with. that or focaccia
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:42 PM
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i wanna be a mom that bakes. banana bread and cookies and all around warm and fuzzy feelings, it’d be so fun to bond w my kid and bake together
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:13 PM
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i wanna be a femme goth type but i don’t have the badass energy to carry it, and i’m not decisive enough to stick to it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:03 PM
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love em
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:07 AM
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be hot, be funny, work out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:06 AM
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such a head turner. will make me notice an otherwise NPC
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:10 AM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:26 PM
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i could just go ask right now my boyfriend could do the same. the easiest way to get consistent sex male or female is to be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:31 PM
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he has a nice build i can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:30 PM
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waiting is such torture
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:18 PM
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love to see it ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:18 PM
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would you be willing to slow down if you had kids ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:53 PM
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something that leads to a fulfilling relationship with an active healthy sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:34 PM
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of course. i’m not fucking somebody ugly just cuz they make me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:26 PM
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hm. not washboard. idk how to describe, Id have to dm and show you? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:13 AM
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i like mine, i consider it an attractive feature that i have. but on women, some guys are into a bit of a pudge. so id say having a flat stomach is rarely considered unattractive, but not having one isn’t automatically unattractive i wonder if it’s partially genetics cuz i’ve always had one, even at different points within a range in weight
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:53 AM
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will do 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:55 AM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:54 AM
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i’ve never believed that “past doesn’t matter”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:59 PM
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my boyfriend is bi. i used to firmly believe that a man being bi would be a dealbreaker for me. i incorrectly assumed that all bi guys were feminine, and i’m just not into femme leaning men. then i caught feelings for my now boyfriend. i knew he was bi, we’d been friends and coworkers first for 7 or so months. i came to realize how wrong my assumptions were, and once i let go of the association between bi guys and femininity, the aversion was no longer an issue. he’s dominant in the bedroom and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:30 PM
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when i was 18 i was 7/8 of these things how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:26 AM
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yes exactly. like i said, many replicate it but some do strive for the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:51 AM
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okay great for you. i don’t think it’s as simple as a child thinking “wow id love to grow up and get beat on just like my mom”. it’s often subconscious tendencies that people need to learn to recognize, and learning to redefine what should be “normal”, rather than outwardly desiring to be abused. also you could read the article I linked, it’s pretty interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:54 AM
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because the facts are, that the relationship between parents is a child’s first example of what a relationship should look like, and oftentimes the most deeply impactful. children often end up either replicating the behaviors they saw growing up, or doing everything in their power to run far from it. data suggest that children who come from homes in which violence takes place are more likely to become the abuser or victim in their intimate relationships. Boys who have witnessed abuse of their mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:29 AM
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that happens as well. as i said in another comment, im more likely to judge someone when abusive relationships become a pattern. i don’t automatically jump to blame a man or woman that’s been abused until they’re clearly the common denominator in shitty situations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:59 AM
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i think that’s harsh, and i reserve harsher judgements for those who fail to do the self work to recognize their issues, and those who make abusive relationships a pattern. it happens, especially when ppl aren’t set up for success by their parents. sometimes people learn their lesson the hard way. i don’t judge them for that as long as they take the time to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:58 AM
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low self esteem poor boundary setting lack of healthy relationships with parental figures lack of examples of what a healthy relationship looks like inexperience loneliness lack of a strong, lasting friendships “i can fix him” savior complex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:34 AM
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my redhead phase is coming to an end, time to go blonde q4w: do you notice any differences in how you’re treated/attention you get with different hair colors and styles ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:53 PM
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