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Yep. Introvert purgatory pretty much perfectly describes my struggle.
/r/seduction21/04/16 11:49 AM
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Like pretty much everyone else has said, most people at the gym aren't judging you or even paying attention to you. Everyone feels out of place at the gym at first. It's a new and different place, so that's natural. However, there is a huge misconception that the out of shape get mocked, which couldn't be farther from the truth. I've battle my weight for all of my life, and have been called fat and made fun of in lots of places, but never the gym. Sure, there may be an asshole or two, but they'r…
/r/seduction07/04/16 02:41 PM
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I think you should have waited for her to stop playing, even for a few seconds, then approach. I totally understand not wanting to interrupt someone when they are in the zone, but you wanted to say something before you even realized it was a cute girl playing. That sort of genuine interest in something you have in common is golden. Your mistake was thinking about what to say to her, when you probably knew what you were going to say before you realized that she was attractive.
/r/seduction16/03/16 06:05 PM
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Assert dominance? Really? Sounds like a great recipe for being the creep she and the other guy make fun of all night, before he takes her home and fucks her!
/r/seduction12/03/16 04:06 AM
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Send more messages, get more responses. Who'd have thunk it?
/r/seduction10/03/16 04:17 PM
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Yes. It doesn't force an answer from her, which can be awkward for you and her. Also, in the OP's situation (a talker), you can just throw it out there to sort of cut her off without doing it in a rude way.
/r/seduction19/02/16 08:24 PM
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Approach anxiety. I get in my own head, but I'm actively working on it (it's why I'm here). I've always be able to close like Mariano Rivera, but the initial interaction is a big hurdle for me.
/r/seduction19/02/16 08:20 PM
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You aren't entering into a business transaction. You are trying to kiss a girl. It just seem really sterile and inorganic to me. If you want to use a direct, verbal, approach to the situation, I would suggest a declaration instead of a question; like, "I really want to kiss you."
/r/seduction19/02/16 08:11 PM
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I agree. The only time I would ask like that is if I knew I had her wrapped around my finger, and as more of a tease than an actual question.
/r/seduction19/02/16 08:08 PM
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Yes, but it really depends on the woman. Some are receptive, others are not. And you don't want to push it is with the ones who aren't. However, it's important to make intent clear, which can ride a fine line.
/r/seduction13/02/16 11:32 PM
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Whatever looks good on you. That's the key. Get the advice of a professional and a woman you trust. But try to avoid the mindset of having to hide it. That's how comb-overs start.
/r/seduction11/02/16 11:33 AM
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The people saying own it right, but you don't have to go super short or shave it bald. The key is to go pay for a good haircut, let them know you want something stylish and aren't trying to hide that you're loosing some hair. Generally, the less hair you have, the shorter you should go, but the key is finding good a barber or stylist and getting an appropriate haircut.
/r/seduction10/02/16 11:05 PM
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I drink a water every couple of beers. It helps regulate my buzz, and feel better the next day.
/r/seduction06/02/16 03:28 PM
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You can spin the awkward logistics of holding hands or locking arms into playful interaction. Height, length of arms, etc. makes holding hands and locking arms a little different with different women. Like sex, there are bodily logistics to figure out. You aren't afraid to move a girl around a little to get her into optimal position during sex and vocalize those logistics, so don't be afraid to do it holding hands or locking arms. I straight up say something like "let switch around and grab your…
/r/seduction06/02/16 03:20 PM
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This. Demeanor goes a loooong way.
/r/seduction06/02/16 02:58 PM
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Agreed. I wish many of my ex-girlfriends a happy birthday, because I want to wish them a happy birthday. Someone who flakes? Hell no.
/r/seduction01/02/16 05:25 PM
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You have inside information, ask your best friend for intelligence. You know she is into you, which is another huge advantage. I would be direct, and go with something like "we seem to hit it off, let's go (fill in the blank) on (fill in the day)." Your friend can help you fill in the first blank with something that would interest her. Also, find out if she knows your friend told you she is interested. If so, even more reason to be direct and to the point.
/r/seduction01/02/16 05:13 PM
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You made a big mistake in my opinion. You have to react firmly when someone basically assaults the girl you are with. Not saying you take it to the point of getting into a fist fight, but when someone gets physical with a girl you are with you must to react strongly. Personally (not saying this is the right approach), but I would have tripped out (and I'm known for being very calm and collected) and would have risked taking a few punches to the face. Everyone, man or woman, wants the person they…
/r/seduction31/01/16 03:46 PM
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