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| 21 | Need PerspectiveWow my husband would be in the world of pain after single F— you. Not allowed in the household. Defend your boundaries! No one else can. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/03/21 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Non-frumpy (but comfy) pajamas?These are the only non expensive PJs I found that match this description: https://www.target.com/p/women-s-beautifully-soft-long-sleeve-notch-collar-top-and-pants-pajama-set-stars-above/-/A-81211942 I get them size smaller than my usual size. I also love addiction lingerie sleepwear, super comfy, but cost quite a bit. Good gift idea! Edit link: https://www.addictionnouvellelingerie.com/products/douceur-long-sleeve-t-shirt-clothing doesn’t look like much on the pic, but it’s super thin, soft, war… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/21 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Do you believe everyone has a soulmate?I think you choose your soul mate, grow into each other. Stories about people immediately falling for each other with some insane connection are just stories of being compatible on one specific level. I was convinced that a guy was my soul mate, connection was incredible. I was ignoring that he was treating me poorly, we didn’t align on like anything in life, and eventually became emotionally dependent on him in every way possible, which felt awfully a lot like being soulmates too. Breaking up w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/20 03:18 PM |
| 17 | He makes me want to "Submit"That’s nice! Just want to mention that you don’t have to be low maintenance tho, submitting and being treating like a precious princess are totally combinable and sometimes good amount of challenge. That said — whatever you’re into is fantastic! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/20 02:33 AM |
| 16 | I(22f) can't figure out how to bring up an issue to my bf(29m)Even aside from the latter events, the fact that he lied to you is kinda unacceptable. It would have been to me. “I lied so you won’t be upset” is the most bs exuse out there. “I know i was breaking your boundaries but I wanted to do it anyways so I lied to you instead of having a conversation “. I mean it just happened too, I think you should continue that conversation. Even if we give him benefit of the doubt and assume it’s a completely innocent trip, it’s just unacceptable and a huge red fla… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/20 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Hello all. I’m in need of a mentorI brought it up pretty early on, and saw same with my friends who feel this way too. It happens typically when it’s already pretty clear that things are gonna get exclusive. I think at some point conversation happens about how do you see your future, and then if they have family in it then what kind of family would you like, what family did their parents have. Pretty much same happened in my case, only I was just realizing that that’s what I’d like (temporarily at least). He kind of had general … | /r/RedPillWives | 24/11/20 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Hello all. I’m in need of a mentorMaybe say things like you are looking for a gentlemen. I don’t think implying any more on your profile about traditional values is actually safe and may back fire. And say that you are interested in finding a partner, or in long term relationship. That may scare off some people but likely none of the interesting ones anyway. I think who you go on a date with matter too: do they initiate meeting? Do they pay on the date, do they follow up? Many people will automatically show that you have differe… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/20 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Avoiding Burnout?Hi from fellow messy person 🙋🏻♀️ 1) I know cleaners seem expensive but 100% worth looking into — there is a range! We are paying for weekly cleaning service a lot less than many of our friends, because a) it’s weekly, b) we had a budget, so we just found a team of people who were working for less. They are not perfect but a huge help. You can ask you husband nicely, explain that you feel burned out/overloaded and just need a bit of help to be your best help. 2) And the another thing that helped… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 20 | Why You Should Read TRPhonestly TRP is terrible, like flat earthed terrible. I only like red pill because that’s the only outlet for people who like traditional relationships, and because it’s nothing like TRP and people here actually diverse and flexible and united by their varying degree of like of a traditional relationship values. TRP is opposite of this, and only cherry-pick the part where women are to be submissive to some degree and make that already questionable part triple worse by distorting it to fit their … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/20 08:31 AM |
| 7 | Is expecting/believing the man should be paying for dates without complaint or hesitation a red pill woman value?I think it’s def RPW thing though. Or at least part of liking traditional relationship. But it’s a sliding scale and everyone is different. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/20 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Is expecting/believing the man should be paying for dates without complaint or hesitation a red pill woman value?You don’t owe anyone explanation! I just say something like “I don’t expect it, and obviously I can pay for myself, but I like and appreciate it, it makes me feel cared for and feminine, and that I lean traditional this way. In fact I don’t let my make friends to pay for me because it makes me feel like I am on a date”. Sure it will grind a few gears, but like who cares. You are not making anyone pay, you just like when someone likes doing it already. With my husband he likes paying on a date, b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/20 03:29 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else grinning and bearing through a career while hoping to be a homemaker one dayI have that feeling too, although I think I only want it for a year and then figure out how to go part time, unsure how to do it in tech though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/20 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else grinning and bearing through a career while hoping to be a homemaker one dayI think it’s about balance! It’s wonderful you found yours! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/20 04:55 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else grinning and bearing through a career while hoping to be a homemaker one dayThat’s a very toxic way to talk to your gf. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/20 04:54 PM |
| 6 | What’re you girls doing for Halloween?My favorite femininity + haloween inspiration is Christine McConnell. I usually go with her vibe + Harry Potter stuff for decoration. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 6 | Am I a failure if I take psychiatric medication?I have my issues too, and my husband is incredibly supportive. He is my only hope in moments when I go insane (in my case it’s due to exhaustion from work and PMDD). He brings me flowers, sweets, validates and distracts me. He helps me in my journey of resolving this too. I can’t imagine how much worse it would have been if he was “annoyed” when I am low, and “irritated” when I am in high mood. Huge red flag to me. I don’t really see how this lack of care and support in these moments can be sust… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/20 09:01 PM |
| 42 | I used to be the prettiest girl around but I’ve hit the wall and I’m struggling with self confidenceDude therapy. There is no way your best days are behind you at 28. You need to dig deeper into this feeling and address the root cause. You can focus on self care and beauty in parallel. Def would help if your husband start expressing his love in ways that make you feel loved (you guys are up to date on love languages?). Him making you jealous is unhealthy and not gonna help you love yourself, therefore you won’t care for yourself more (which is what helps to make you beautiful). But ultimately … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/20 08:32 PM |
| 9 | How to bring up the ‘no sex before commitment’ to a guy during early dating and not scare him away?I don’t think you need to bring it up as like announcement. If it goes that direction just say you need to get to know him better first. Or that you are only comfortable doing it in relationship, and relationship is something you can get into if you know a person better if you want to be more detailed. But like I don’t see why it even need to come up on first couple of dates, or be anything other than “i am not ready” at first. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/20 07:24 AM |
| 3 | Thank you for making me feel like femininity is normal.Yay, so happy for you! Yeah same! I don’t necessarily agree with quite a bit of anti feminist things, and am left leaning on a lot of stuff, but I so appreciate the normalization of femininity and desire for traditional values. And frankly feminism should not be about telling women they should be masculine now, it’s about letting them (and their partners) do whatever the hell they want. So I even more disagree with with how that “masculine feminism” and “50/50” life is forced as the only way to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/20 02:16 PM |
| 2 | How do you take care of hair ‘down there’?I’m doing at home laser treatment that slowed it down a ton. I also use post shaving spray (tree hut) and oil (parissa) and haven has bumps since is started. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/20 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Two questions: too feminine for workplace and too masculine for menHey, also engineer here, in a very male dominated field. I’m not gonna lie, it’s hard to balance masculine energy and it sips into my personal life all the time. I try to maintain the balance and not let the work convert me into something that I need to be when I work. I haven’t found a silver bullet, but I actively try to do a lot more feminine stuff and wear dresses, etc. it is uncomfortable at times to switch, but ultimately it’s like smiling — sometimes you smile when you are happy, sometime… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/20 03:35 AM |
| 7 | What kind of music do you listen to?I never felt so understood | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/20 04:59 PM |
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