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10

Glorified prostitution. And it only encourages these pathetic men to think they’re entitled to pursue/harass young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:36 PM
30

It’s well known that they’ll have girlfriends in medical school who they will heavily rely on to pull the whole relationship. They’ll grind the woman down to a nub and then promptly dump her once completing their fellowship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:00 AM
167

Do people forget that dating is a vetting process to whether you want to legally hitch yourself to someone for life?? This loser doesn’t make the cut and it’s not her problem to solve/lower her standards for. I hope she takes the trash out ASAP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:09 AM
13

Nope. That’s pickmeisha code for “settle for his shortcomings because it’s better than potentially remaining * gasp! * - single”. And along the same vein, if his natural scent is a turn off for you then I’d end it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:54 AM
7

Yes!! So happy for your new chapter :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:24 AM
22

I can smell his Dorito breath from here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:19 PM
1

Nasty. My ex was like that after he gained some weight and his diet was shit. It was like living with a musky ferret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:16 PM
7

Absolutely! I’ve been focusing on my physical fitness, made some improvements on my house, got a new job in the field I’ve always wanted. And I’ve finally had the time to work on my baby (‘73 Camaro) so I’ve been ripping around in that all summer. Meanwhile my married friends are complaining to me that their husbands aren’t doing shit all as far as housework/childcare. Sorry babe, can’t relate! 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:13 PM
22

Don’t forget having your nice bedsheets turned yellow by their constant sweating. And you can’t ever get that smell out completely! I threw out my pillows and bedsheets too when I tossed the guy :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:10 AM
12

This is so painfully true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:52 AM
20

I think they all do. When they say “I don’t watch porn” what they really mean is “I don’t watch professional videos”. Amateur/homemade isn’t porn apparently. Or they’re on insta/fb jerking off to beach pics of female friends. But it’s genuinely sad how defensive they get about porn. Coveted to the point of one of Maslows physiological needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:50 AM
6

Don’t forget the old “oops profile says 30 but I’m actually 45, dunno how that happened!” Ya you’re so sly at trying to connect with women half your age. Fucking nasty toads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:00 PM
8

💀 love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:38 PM
8

And shocker, there were scrotes in there defending these disgusting predators because LeGal AgE of CoNseNt iS 14 So iTs NoT WroNg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:57 AM
23

*shave but without having stubble the next day. Or wax without the grow out in between. I’m convinced what scrotes really want is a woman with alopecia universalis wearing a wig 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:58 PM
273

He told me he broke up with his ex because she was asexual and it killed the relationship, he felt unwanted etc. Me being dumb went “you poor thing, sexual connection is so important. I would never blah blah pickme blah”. Unsurprisingly, he’s just fucking AWFUL in bed and I never wanted to fuck him either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:56 PM
19

These idiots think that dark eyes = enlarged pupils and therefore obviously wanting his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:38 AM
24

Scary part is it’s not a troll account. He’s has plenty of normal posts mixed in with his hateful ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:25 AM
28

I think women are fooled into thinking older men are done with games and know how to treat a woman when in reality they’re just balder, more wrinkled, fatter and further set in their ways. Losers remain losers no matter their age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:37 PM
20

Yeah, it’s twisted as romantically “stealing a kiss” instead of what it is: unwanted sexual contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:54 PM
80

Yep. There’s plenty of creeps taking secret pics of women (and young girls) at the beach/public pool as is. Fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:25 PM
1

Ugh. You made the right call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:22 PM
3

All good points, but I just want to add that it’s not a great idea to get into any man’s car on a first date. Regardless of whether he’s showing all signs of a HVM or not. Gotta stay safe!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 11:46 PM
3

As in you live in different parts of town? I hope you don’t mean to have him pick you up at your house... He should be eager to make plans and impress you. And that includes driving out to you! If it feels like he’s dragging his feet then he doesn’t value your time - cut him loose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 11:43 PM
48

Pickmeishas will say anything to be accepted by men 🙄 it’s revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:21 PM
39

I think it also helps them rationalize their own abusive acts as normal: “His ex would hit her, but I only yell at her when she makes me mad. I’ve never laid a finger on her - I’m a good guy. She just likes to start fights and knows how to make me mad.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:40 AM
10

So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 11:12 AM
14

They’re some of the worst people in my experience. The young ones anyway. Conceited ass holes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 11:11 AM
12

Good riddance. In saying that to you he pretty well admitted to using pics of women he’s friends with to jerk off to as well. He’s a loser and creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 11:40 AM
10

Thank you. I’m in a much better space now. And I’d say it’s very common. Men view the women around them as potential fuck fantasies first and foremost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:43 PM
82

Oooph! That was a painful flashback to my last long term relationship. Only difference was he started using his fb friends’ beach pics to jerk off to as well. What pathetic pigs these men are. I hope she leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:31 PM
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It’s insane how any of those subreddits are allowed to exist too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:47 PM
4

I stopped having panic attacks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:26 PM
5

Well 30lbs isn’t nothing depending on your height...If you’re gaining substantial weight without explanation -in your midsection especially, then it’s something worth getting a doctors visit for. Bloodwork to rule out hormonal or thyroid issues, A1C. That type of thing. ETA: her partner was definitely being a prick about it regardless of whether there’s an underlying medical issue or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 11:58 AM
19

If only I knew about this sub years ago I could have saved myself so much hurt. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:15 AM
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Yep. If you’re looking to live out porn fantasies you can leave. I was with a man until I found out he used to have threesomes with a friend (who he’s still close friends with) of his and a girl he was casually seeing. So gross. Completely lost all interest after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:17 PM
10

Oh they definitely know. They’re testing to see whether you’re a pushover they can take advantage of. It’s all part of the fucked up social expectation that girls/women are to be nice and not make a fuss that ends up with us being harassed, assaulted, or killed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:30 PM
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This!! If he said it to OP in person she’d have been creeped out and rightly so. We shouldn’t feel pressured to put up with these demeaning remarks in any circumstance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:27 PM
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Fuck. I’m not surprised. I was listening to an interview of an ER doc the other day who was saying he’s already seeing an increase in child abuse cases coming to his hospital. He said they experienced the same thing in the 2008 recession.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:34 PM
6

I carry a pocket knife when I jog even though I’d be charged if I used it even in self defence. Fuck that, I’d rather take the charge than feel like a lamb for slaughter whenever I jog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:17 PM
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Eh I might be considered callous then because I don’t think entering an affair can be written off as an oversight/mistake. It’s a choice people make which they try to write off as mistakes when they’re caught in the backlash. Either way, super pickmeisha and pathetic of her to do. Equally pathetic and gross of him too. Good news is that his wife was a champ and dumped his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 08:24 PM
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Kristen Stewart is definitely still dumb for having an affair with a married man. Anyone who knowingly signs up to be a side piece is an idiot. ETA: she was already famous and admittedly called it (the affair) exciting. So I don’t see it as an imbalance of power like with Clinton and Lewinsky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:50 PM
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Please read the info in the sidebar. If he wants some of your time he should (and will want to, if he’s a hvm) pay for dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 11:32 PM
9

Don’t split bills after the first either. If he wants your time he should pay for the date. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 10:55 AM
15

We were talking about high waisted jeans and I mentioned that they rub against my belly button ring and I don’t like how it feels. He quipped back with “29 with a belly ring? A little old for that don’t you think? You’re not 17.” I told him not to worry because he’d never see the piercing anyway and blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:38 PM
12

Oh 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:05 PM
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I love how he points out that he has to take care of his son and RUSHES home from work to do so. Someone get the man a medal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:00 AM
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Referring to women as females makes me think incel for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:07 AM
10

I’m not surprised at all. Anyone who goes into law enforcement is power hungry. Some want to use that to actually help uphold the law and others just can’t wait to abuse it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:39 PM
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Yes! My ex burst into tears and cried about his ptsd whenever I called him out for his cruel or controlling behaviour. And of course he continued to treat me like shit without skipping a beat. Ladies, never date a cop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:29 PM
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They don’t give a fuck so long as they get ad revenue and don’t get caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:40 AM
10

Nah it mentions the beards have more human pathogenic strains than the dogs. My guess is it’s because of how often we touch our faces, mixed in with less airflow and more moisture in beards. Plus the average man has no idea how to wash his hands properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 01:06 AM
40

And that we have self-respect to not put up with their abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:35 PM
7

They don’t understand that they’re telling us to trust a total stranger who can physically overpower us with absolute ease if they so wish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:42 AM
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I’ve never known a straight man to regularly use sunscreen. By 35 their faces are as wrinkled as their ballsacks. Bleh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 01:47 PM
10

Reminds me of university papers where you’re trying reach that page limit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:05 PM
10

Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:39 AM
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I had a guy call me a douche and unmatch because I didn’t immediately respond to all of the five questions he had asked me at once lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:53 PM
25

It’s incredible how many men bitch and moan about having no reproductive rights as if they’re being forced to not use condoms. But ask any man whose partner takes birth control and I guarantee he has no idea what the drug name is, when she takes it, the window of effectiveness for taking it, what medications impact effectiveness of it, when she starts a new pack, or any of the many risks and side effects that come with it. They have zero fucking interest in birth control other than when it doesn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 09:44 AM
8

I bet you the OP of that thread is already prowling tinder in pathetic hopes for a 19y/o side piece because “he’s just so stressed out”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:45 PM
11

And if she’s dealing with postpartum hair loss then I don’t blame her in the least for wanting to cut her hair short. That’s a challenging time to go through as is and feels even worse when you’re seeing long hair strands all over the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 12:48 AM
17

They’re looking for a free live-in nanny that they get to fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 12:27 AM
2

Match is a great option!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:16 PM
5

Anti bacterial soaps are different than regular soaps but they’re not any more beneficial to be using in the home. They usually have triclosan or a derivative or if it. Regular soaps aren’t anti bacterial - they don’t destroy the microbes on our hands, they loosen them so we can rinse them off. There’s no benefit to using anti microbial soaps in the home because you don’t have the same risk of pathogenic bacteria (even when you’re out in public all day) that you would in a hospital setting. In f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 07:28 PM
10

No. You shouldn’t even wash your hands with anti microbial soap when you’re at home never mind your genitals. Unscented soap is enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 07:11 PM
15

Good for you. The jackasses who whine about not being attracted to their pregnant partners are the same ones who won’t want to have sex after the baby is born either because now his sad peepee doesn’t like that his partner looks different. Best to leave these losers in the dust!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 07:08 PM
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Nah he’s the type to call them females, not even women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:24 AM
8

HA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 12:08 PM
23

It’s insane how pathetic they can be. I have one loser who tried contacting me for over 6 years. Just found out he and his new wife had a daughter. Imagine my surprise when I hear the baby and I share the same name!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 02:06 AM
3

This was my ex 100%. Alcoholic family/dysfunctional upbringing that he never dealt with. He ended up admitting that he was using me to make himself happy, thinking he could outrun his problems. How fucked it that? So when I upset his facade with any issues I had he would melt down. OP, if this man hasn’t been through intense therapy then you’ll end up being his emotional support/fuck doll and nothing more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 02:58 AM
15

I’m a nurse and same. It was actually my family physician who sat me down and explained that to me. Narcissistic sociopaths will chew you up and spit you out but somehow leave you feeling like it was all your fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 05:28 PM
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Women in the health care industry should also be aware that they’re often targeted by narcissistic men. They know it means you have a caring personality, that you went in to the field because you’re a helper by nature and they’re going to advantage of that. They’ll disguise their abuse as being “troubled”. They always have a sob story of a bad family life, or bad breakups. They know you’re more likely to put up with their bullshit and abuse because you just want to help them help themselves. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:50 PM
8

Never would have thought about that. Thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 01:13 AM
7

Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:40 PM
9

If someone asks me for a date and wants some of my time then he can pay for the date. Only low value men don’t understand that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:40 PM
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I would want to know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:33 PM
4

Clean your fucking ears. I can’t believe how many times I’ve seen the side of a guys head and his ear was full of wax. I’ve had to teach TWO grown ass men about the importance of washing their ears in the shower with soap and water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:07 PM
5

Her response wasn’t rude. It was clearly fun banter and there’s nothing wrong with being confident. Along the same vein of that “oh stop it, go on” cat meme. The guy was expecting her to grovel after a basic compliment, which apparently is more your style. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:47 PM
2

If there’s more than a week before meeting, I like to have a phone conversation first. That way you can get a better sense of a connection and things don’t fizzle out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:25 PM
5

If he grew up with his father treating his mother like dirt then it won’t matter how many sisters he has. That cycle of abuse will continue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 01:41 AM
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Not homophobic, and frankly I feel the same way. Everyone has preferences or things that are a strict turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:07 AM
2

You’re not stupid. The first advice is to say nice things about yourself. If you have a question to ask someone, just ask it without apology. Listen in your class and notice how guys never apologize when asking a question, or preface with “I know this is probably a stupid question, __”. Fuck that. Own the space you’re in. Don’t apologize for it. My second would be to say don’t bother dating right now, not for a while. All those relationships you see in school are going to end sooner than later a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:58 PM
6

Use an app that makes the person pay to be able to send or respond to messages. It’s slightly more effort and the cost would shoo away some of the fuckboys. I used match and liked it a lot because I could filter out men who didn’t put that they want a relationship or kids one day. The only thing a little disheartening I’ll warn you about is that it shows the age range everyone is looking for too. So Id come across crusty looking men looking for ages 19+ and felt pretty grossed out. I called a fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:39 PM
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That’s a great point. A man with no savings is broke regardless of his income. I went on a few dates with a firefighter who just became captain. Captains make ridiculous money where I live. But the idiot told me he was living at his absolute max and always depending on that next paycheque with no emergency fund at all. He said because he gets a good pension in the end so he doesn’t need to save 🙄 why would I ever want to build a family and tie myself financially to someone so foolish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:44 AM
7

Yeah self confidence and sexual connection makes the difference, regardless of age. I think you’re right that sex is better for women as we get wiser about deserving to be pleased. Faking orgasms and putting up with jackhammering fuckboys gets old real quick. That initial comment by OP just rubbed me wrong -we have to deal with enough bullshit with men trying to pull us down, let’s not do it ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:15 PM
22

Let’s not do this odd competition. ETA: a word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 09:09 PM
13

Yep, they’re looking for a free nanny they can fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 12:50 PM
17

B-b-but fellow female, they bought us a drink/dinner so we totally owe them rights to our body after!1! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 11:16 AM
6

Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 06:29 AM
4

Ugh I’m sorry to hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 08:46 PM
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Last guy I was into jerked off three times a day, everyday. Surprise, surprise, he was fucking terrible in bed. He was rough and clumsy with how he touched, sex was all about his pleasure, and jackhammered away the whole time. Mind you, this idiot is in his mid-late 30s now. I can’t even tell you the number of times he left me bleeding because he kept skipping foreplay. Never. Again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:16 PM
3

Love that response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:08 AM
14

I have one to add: if they ever get frustrated that their technique isn’t working, or don’t bother remembering what you told them you do/don’t like -drop them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 12:09 PM
10

Good on ya!!! A guy has to prove they’re worth your time and affections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 02:47 AM
8

BuT meN aRe ViSual CrEaTures!! And this is a side note, but I can’t believe how many men I’ve seen who lack basic hygiene. So many walk out in public with dirty ears, or nasty unwashed faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 12:59 PM
2

Try out one where you have to pay for full access, like match or e harmony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 04:26 PM
15

“A key that can open many locks is useful, while a lock that opens to many keys is worthless.” Spoken by an older male sibling. And my parents can’t understand why we aren’t close...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 09:52 PM
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