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000654/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 09:56 PM
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Right all of those things are concerning! It would be nice to know what he has done to try to get her some help, but if he treats her like how he talks about her she’s probably fucking miserable too….And yet all he SEEMS to be worried about is getting his dick wet.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 11:24 PM
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Maybe there is more to your story but this does read like you kinda suck here man.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 10:21 PM
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The lesson I’ve learned is that no matter what I do or how much effort is put into it… it’s never enough. Always some reason of why I fucked it up.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 12:56 AM
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Yeah it’s creepy man. I don’t think many are going to defend you here lol. As far as advice I guess just own it and learn something and use that to become a better version of yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 12:47 AM
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It scares me to think of where society will be in another 30 years when I think of the differences in mother/fatherhood/family dynamics. There’s going to be some messed up kids.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 10:38 PM
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Don’t put my shoes on the shoe rack. (She typically didn’t and doesn’t lol) At one point I asked her if she was messing with me because I found a pair of her shoes in the middle of the kitchen, the bathroom and beside the shoe rack instead of on it. This was just two days after I was told how terrible I am for leaving mine by the rack. Fucking insane lol
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/26 09:17 PM
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Very much appreciated!
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/26 07:11 PM
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Can you share this with me as well please?
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/26 03:56 PM
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Intellectually I know you and the others are right! I just don’t want to think that badly of her. I’ve never known her to not be sweet and kind….until now. It’s really screwing with me
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 11:00 PM
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I’ll check it out. Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:54 PM
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I know. It doesn’t make sense. Her sister and her husband were shocked when they found out about this. They actually took my side and are like what the hell is she thinking.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:54 PM
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It’s funny you say that. So we were/are planning on selling our current house even before her divorce bomb. With this year she’s given I told her yeah I guess we will sell sometime around the summer and then find something to rent for awhile. She was very turned off by that. I’m thinking why in the hell would I sign on to another mortgage with all this hanging over my head. No fucking way
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:49 PM
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She makes ok money. Is a teacher. Likes the DoorDash and other conveniences a little too much for the budget she would have to stick to though. Also wouldn’t be able to afford the desired neighborhood unless shacked up with someone
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:46 PM
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She’s a teacher. She leaves at exactly the same time every day. Not very long after the students are dismissed. The extra work she is doing is at home, working on her masters and prep work.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:43 PM
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Yeah I’m beginning to accept it. Don’t fucking want to though
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:40 PM
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I had that thought for a split second. It would explain the abruptness but I truly don’t think so. I don’t know when she would have the time. We have each others locations all the time. She is where she is supposed to be, doesn’t go out or disappear. Isn’t on the phone a lot or at weird times. I asked her (not that she would be honest) and she said that she plans on being alone after we split.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:39 PM
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Yeah I’m not really seeing a way out of the hole here. Even if she completely walks it back today, I know it can’t be trusted. Completely fucked
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:36 PM
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Absolutely our child’s happiness is my main concern. She is just old enough to understand families and she is always talking about her family and how much she loves her family. Freaking sucks that she is going to have to deal with this.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:33 PM
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I did have the thought on counseling. It is also interesting how she needs to blow up our family I order to find her happiness how in the fuck does that make sense. How does she even know that would make her happy in the end?
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:30 PM
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I really really want to hold out hope for the sake of our child but as more days pass I’m leaning more towards that viewpoint.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:25 PM
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Yeah and no actual walking it back like “sorry I was worked up and shouldn’t have said that didn’t really mean it” nothing just that she would give it a year to see if her feelings for me return
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:23 PM
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I would never of suspected someone else until that moment. It doesn’t seem to be in her character at all. Never gave me any reason to think so. And still literally no signs and I’m looking for them
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:09 PM
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That we grew apart. That I wasn’t as attentive as I should have been. Oddly the only specific she gave me was that I didn’t rub her feet while she was pregnant. (Not that she asked as I said no, that I didn’t do it on my own)
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:05 PM
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Obviously divorces are happening for some reason or another but I can’t understand how women can be so fucking cold and disrespectful. It’s insane to me.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/26 09:00 PM
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I’m sorry my friend. I don’t really have any meaningful advice to offer. I’m in a very similar position. I’m strongly empathizing with the loss of the sense of safety. So lost right now. The only thing helping me right now is envisioning what a happy future for me looks like without her.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 02:24 AM
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