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Yup I'm a classic shitlord. Are you feeling triggered yet?
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/15 04:21 AM
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I see, so you cannot dismiss my argument so you look at my post history instead. Classic SRS redditor move. Why am I not surprised? Its also not a throwaway. I use it pretty regularly.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/15 04:19 AM
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what a mature and thoughtful response. Have a lovely day.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/15 04:17 AM
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and some students are stubborn and unruly. I don't know why you automatically buy in the students story. She is suing the school in a civil suit. Of course she has a motive to lie.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/15 04:12 AM
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So why did the teacher want her to leave then? personal vendetta? you seem to be assuming alot given that the video shows zero context to what happened
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/15 04:01 AM
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Foster kids frequently have behavioral problems, so that doesn't surprise me. I'm curious what motive the teacher had for wanting to remove her from the class if she truly wanted to learn and not be on her phone. On a side note, the officer was fired. So I would hope that would assuage any outrage, yes?
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/15 04:00 AM
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You do know those are made up by humans right?
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/15 08:58 PM
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Then maybe oppression is intrinsic to being human
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/15 08:30 PM
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I'm not mad on the Internet I'm mad about the oppression in America If you think America is oppressive, heres a tip: never visit any country outside of 'The West'.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/15 08:09 PM
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I'm curious, does it ever get tiring, being outraged all the time by stuff on the internet?
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/15 07:58 PM
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Go cry about it on /r/shitredditsays
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/15 07:48 PM
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It was because she was using her phone during class. AKA being disruptive.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/15 07:43 PM
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And just stop teaching in the meantime? and what if the parents don't give a fuck? (and lets be honest, given this students attitude its likely they don't)
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/15 07:39 PM
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And what is the teacher supposed to do in the meantime? stop teaching while she disrupts the class? I don't think you've thought this through.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/15 07:38 PM
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I'm distressed that temporary defiance is seen by too many police as if it were literally a physical assault. Passive resistance needs to be treated with a reasonable amount of passive coercion. In this case 30 seconds is an absurdly short period of time to begin initiating force. You're leaving out a lot of context here. First the teacher asked her to leave, she refused. An administrator was called in, asked her to leave, still she refused. It wasn't just 30 seconds, it was likely much longer t…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/15 06:17 PM
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So how would you have reacted to a student who refuses to leave a classroom and you must physically remove them? ask them again nicely?
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/15 06:15 PM
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I tthink its this type of thing that will force laws to get changed eventually, as more and more women outearn men and start to feel the financial sting. This will get them to change their tune. Conversely, I encourage more college-age men to start making rape accusations at women who they slept with while drunk. Fat or ugly women you otherwise would not have slept with if you didn't have beer-goggles on. You could not consent. Once women start paying the same price in society as men, then and O…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 06:24 PM
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Size matters, of course it does. Why else would we have evolved to have one of the biggest penises in the animal kingdom? however I still don't see anything about 1/3 of attractiveness being accounted for by penis size. I seem to remember a study that found over 80 percent of women are satisfied with their partners penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:26 AM
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I didn't see anything to back up your statistic in that banal video. Granted, those were some nice looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:20 AM
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Depends on the individual, but on average I'd say yeah. For instance, black men tend to have higher levels of trait narcissism. However on a group level, no, since most ethnic groups tend to look down upon them and dominate them economically, and the almighty dollar is a power unto itself (although you are more likely to just be BB if thats all you got).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 03:53 AM
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I think what he means is that, in biological terms, they are similar. For instance, a woman being raped is losing out reproductively not only on gaining commitment in case of possible impregnation, but also she isn't choosing the mate, her mate could be quite undesirable and thus inflict a huge blow on her chances at successful reproduction. Rape is thus very costly to a female of any species where the female uses sexual selection to maximize her reproductive efforts. Cuckoldry is somewhat simil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 06:09 AM
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guys who were Asian asked how they can do better with white girls or the hot blondes What is it with asians and blonde women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 12:48 AM
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Its a gender role, sure, but its a fixed one. No use raging against nature my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 11:11 PM
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Yeah, no. I mean, maybe a few really fucked up ones, TIL only fucked up women like wealth, power, confidence and high status in a man. Whatever helps you sleep at night buddy Make up whatever little word you want for it, pumpkin, but the adults call it gender roles. How condescending of you. I'd debate you but its clear you've already made up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 11:09 PM
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No shit. Many will even seek out "inferiors" as to not insult their superiority. They seek them out because thats what women find attractive It's called gender roles. Its called hypergamy The rest of your post is just typical mudslinging. The OP was about why educated women have a harder time finding dates. TRP explains why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 07:46 PM
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No shit. Many will even seek out "inferiors" as to not insult their superiority. They seek them out because thats what women find attractive It's called gender roles. Its called hypergamy But your angle is that this behavior, confirming to gender roles, somehow makes men morally more righteous than women conforming to gender roles. And that's some bullshit. Youre right, morality doesn't enter into this at all. Attraction is non-negotiable, you can't shame someone into being attracted to you. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 07:46 PM
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I'd be interested in seeing the stats on that as well. I wouldn't be surprised if its higher than 70% for educated women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 07:43 PM
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That article does not mention divorce initiation, only rates of divorce. Two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 07:31 PM
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They feel superior, but are fine with dating their inferiors. They don't see it as a bad reflection on their potential mates character. Thats the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 07:27 PM
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Wow that routine explains it perfectly. Saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 06:43 PM
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I cant wait for them to do sociology and women/gender studies and anthro. oh god please let the do gender studies. i would have a stem rage boner. These fields do not conduct experiments like psychology, so it would not be possible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 07:00 AM
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Also, I was under the impression that many of Freud's ideas have fallen out of favor/been strongly challenged in modern psychology. Some, but certainly not all. His discovery of the 'unconscious' is probably his most significant idea that has endured the test of time. The 'talking cure' (psychotherapy) would likely take 2nd place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 06:59 AM
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It was social and cognitive psychology
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 06:57 AM
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Women are attracted to men who march to their own beat and are financially rewarded for it. Hence tingles for drug dealers. Theres also the whole 'he will give you drugs' angle, which is not insignificant in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 04:58 AM
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Why are indian guys so fixated on blonde women? It seems worse for them than almost any other ethnicity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 02:53 AM
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Maybe not in the popular discourse, but Margaret Mead's work on the 'free love' societies in polynesian communities has been widely debunked. It appears she gathered the majority of her information from teenage girls who were basically pranking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 10:47 PM
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Chastity is a more extreme version of not wanting to marry a slut, and I think you'll find that even in Europe that matters to men. Again, culture is merely exaggerating a natural human proclivity. I also think human biodiversity plays a role when comparing East Asians to Europeans in matters of sexuality. East Asians are generally sexually conservative, even when they move to culturally more liberal places like the West. They have something of a slower life-history.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 09:43 PM
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Gender does have a very large cultural aspect While this is true, what is traditionally 'masculine' and 'feminine' characteristics is generally consistent and universal across cultures, suggesting that while specific practices in gender expression may vary, the patterns emerge from biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 09:32 PM
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Not saying that gender/mate preferences are entirely social, just that they have a strong social component. What is usually the case is that culture notices something biologically engrained in us such as a mate preference, then adds onto it/enhances it. For example, most women are generally hairless in their armpits, not because they don't have hair there, but because they shave it. Its environmental/cultural. But women also in general have less body hair than men biologically, and men generally…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 09:27 PM
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Feminine men? You can find us in the manga section. Lol its true, if you're a skinny white dude with no game, go to Asia and you'll be swamped in pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 08:46 PM
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Makes sense. On a related note, all the people I've met who described themselves as 'communists' tended to be losers who didn't make much money and had weak educational credentials.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 07:59 PM
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Back, sex was good. Trolls on PPD still suck tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 04:32 AM
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I'm actually about to head out to bang a tinderella I've been seeing the past couple weeks. Of course you needn't believe that, its all the same to me ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 09:56 PM
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You are beyond strawmanning at this point, because I haven't even complained about creepshaming. Its just an explanation of the social mechanics behind it. Why this offends you so much, I dunno, maybe you can share it with your therapist later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 09:40 PM
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The only thing that will save us from all the problems I see in this thread is technology. Free market capitalism is what has consistently allowed technology to blossom, and so long as we can keep it relatively unhindered, we will see a new golden era.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 09:38 PM
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Your comment makes zero sense and I'm not sure why you wrote it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 09:33 PM
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I don't agree at all. Creep shaming is shaming people with low social skill when they mess up and come off as creepy. The way you put it pretty much blames the shamer, it's a bit delusional. Blame the creep for his ineptitude. I think youre missing the point. Its not about 'blame'. Its about examining the function of social labelling and the associated stigmatizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 09:06 PM
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Unless you have cases where a men carried out the exact same crime, under the exact same set of circumstances, with the same same background and the exact same criminal history, you really can't compare. LOL then I guess we can throw away all psychological and sociological studies conducted ever. /u/yo_radical_one said they ain't rigorous enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 08:47 PM
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This is interesting coming from people who constantly complain about 'rape culture' and power-tripping police officers. Solipsism 101 right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 08:45 PM
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Lol someone doesn't understand the demographics of cheaters. For men, its typically high status professionals, i.e. doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 03:27 AM
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In other words, you have no source. Carry on making up bullshit then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 03:26 AM
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If there is a big slant, then she would probably in hot demand. Maybe, maybe not. Profession alone isn't enough to sway anyone on dating someone, let alone marriage. If it is, you should really reconsider your priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 03:25 AM
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My point is that most STEM guys go for STEM girls, not younger, educated sexy women as you guys seem to think. I still find that hard to believe. Sure, a big fraction probably do so. But a majority? Considering the male dominance in STEM, the math doesn't add up. Maybe in softer sciences like biology, but engineering and mathematics is a different demographic makeup altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 03:18 AM
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Okay I see your reasoning. But none of it addresses my original point. Sure people hook up while in grad school with their peers, but after grad school is a different story. And again, while sexual pairings between profs and grad students may be verboten, it happens more than you seem to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:58 AM
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I'm in grad school. And a professor dating one of their graduates students is one of the best ways to lose tenure and destroy your career. So I'm pretty sure you either live in an odd place, or you are full of shit. Kind of a game ender there. Lol you're obviously not in the know then. Yep, professors are all playing by the rules. You should visit /r/gradschool sometime and see how it really is. And I have not seen that trend too much. Usually the two are roughly equals. Two out of the three cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:18 AM
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Male doctors may date doctors but bang nurses on the side. Let me guess, you didn't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:14 AM
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Please provide a source for your stats
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:13 AM
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So, from what I've seen in my research building, the notion that highly educated men go for young, uneducated women doesn't hold true. They may go for others in STEM, but usually its the professors dating their graduate students, or senior grad students dating more junior grad or undergrab women. Source: I'm in grad school. I've seen this first hand. But this is besides the point, placentajerky is about to graduate in a couple years. After graduation, if you haven't locked down a husband, well, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:02 AM
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OR. Or. I could live my dream, marry a man in my field whom I find interesting and will treat me as an equal, and if that fails, wipe my sad post-wall tears with the massive stacks of cash I will have accumulated from living the vida loca. I think I like that strategy. More efficient. The first possibility is a long shot - men with a strong education are in short supply and high demand these days, and they realize this typically. That means they won't waste time with someone who isn't significan…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:19 AM
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Thats very pessimistic. Men judge women's apperance on more than just skin color.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:13 AM
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Yup. Ain't life a bitch? But seriously, its not as if there aren't ugly white women and beautiful black women. Race is only one variable of many involved in attraction. TRP is about self-improvement, and you can improve yourself and your appearance too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 12:59 AM
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Yes they do, I don't really understand that either. SSRIs seem to help with both depression and anxiety. The brain is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 06:51 PM
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Your ancestral environment wasn't anything like what we have today. There were no 'black, white, asian, etc' women to choose from. In the countries of Africa, if a man doesn't want to date a black woman, then his genes will go extinct. My theory why other races of women became more attractive has to do with lighter skin. Essentially, lighter skin shows age quicker than darker skin. Since men find cues to youth attractive, a young woman with light skin is showing a more 'honest' signal of her fer…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 06:49 PM
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Why do you exist? Thats a silly question. You exist because your ancestors evolved in a particular climate and geography that made dark skin adaptive. The curly hair thing I don't really understand, nor the facial features. Dat ass tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 06:50 AM
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Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 06:46 AM
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one interesting thing to note is the historical reason for the attitude problem. in order to maintain power, plantation owners made sure to encourage loud, angry, masculine outbursts from black women and quiet suffering from black men. they knew that if it was the other way around the black men would rise up against them, so the women were used to keep the men down. This just sounds so ridiculous. Its like a cultural 'just-so' legend. The reason american black women are sassy has nothing to do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 06:44 AM
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Anxiety can be related to a specific phobia, but it can also be a generalised mood disorder like depression. I think you mean Generalized Anxiety Disorder. Depression is a different construct than anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 04:19 AM
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Psychotherapy isn't a quick fix. But certain kinds of anxiety disorders such as simple phobias can be cured in a single day. So I would say you are wrong, anxiety is far easier to treat than say, bipolar disorder or depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:32 PM
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The massive research literature on how effective psychotherapy is for anxiety disorders?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 06:15 PM
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Is it because you feel you'll be treated like white people treat minorities? Considering the track record of many of these ethnic groups and their own relation to minorities, we'll likely be treated worse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 05:23 PM
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Finally, from a wider perspective, TRP seems to be wholly based in outdated views with regards to sex and relationships and ignore all of the advances of the last 50 or so years, to the point where it actually attacks them. Yeah there is a sizable contingent in TRP like that. Unfortunately a lot of people in TRP are a part of the MGTOW-type crowd, who aren't using it as a way to personally improve but instead just really dislike women. Ideally, the average TRPer celebrates those advances, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 06:40 AM
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What does the red pill have to offer already happy people? Nothing. The redpill is about personal improvement vis-a-vis the opposite sex. If you are perfectly satisfied with those relationships, then yeah, it has nothing to offer you. Feel free to ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 06:24 AM
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Now, carefully explain why I should ignore the women who were attracted to me, in exchange for the crippling paranoia and bitterness that the red pill wants to offer me Your anecdotes aren't evidence of anything, so I won't address it. Crippling paranoia and bitterness? Those are definitely characteristcs of many on trp, but you're mistaking that for something it preaches. It merely attracts that type, because those men have had negative experiences with women that have molded them that way. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 11:36 PM
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Redpill tactics are basically PUA tactics, and these have been observed to work on every kind of woman, but most especially attractive ones. From evolutionary psychology, we know that men and women are attracted to different things. Women are attracted to signals of social status in men, such as wealth, social skills, confidence, etc. So what RP preaches is basically how to 'fake' having a high social status. Maybe you can't do that by flaunting wealth, but any man can learn to be more confident…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 11:31 PM
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Most of my female friends in the dating scene have a ridiculously small window of opportunity available between "In a relationship" postings, LOL. A guy looking to hook up with them has to squeeze in as soon as they hit the market... Thats because most women don't end a relationship until they know they've got another thing setup on the side. Most have a ready supply of men waiting in the wings. Further, even if they do not once they see the writing on the wall of their relationship breakup so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 08:42 PM
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Shyness is almost by definition social anxiety. No jump at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:35 PM
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I've never met a shy extrovert, but I definitely know some awkward ones. They love to talk to people, but its painful to witness. They seem almost oblivious to their own awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:34 PM
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Theres nothing wrong with liking alone-time, but having poor people-skills is going to hold you back no matter what you are doing. Plus, social anxiety is one of the most easily treated conditions, if you are properly motivated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:25 PM
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Nah I'm staying with family, and not at a vacation destination. There are gyms around, but the cost for a drop-in is a bit steep (something like $15 at the cheapest) so I settle for going for runs/doing pushups
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 09:37 PM
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I try to work out, but I've been on holiday away from my usual hometown for the past few weeks. Its annoying, I definitely feel my gainz slipping away :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:02 AM
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Yeah, this. OP, you need to have more sexual experiences of your own before you settle down with any particular girl. Until you do, you will be haunted by your past, and all your relationships will be more tense/strained as a result. Heres what you do, date multiple women at a time. Tell them youre not looking for anything 'serious' right now. You can't just say ever, just say for now, you don't want anything serious or exclusive. That will make them go crazy over you. Then, you just keep bangin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 06:50 AM
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Yeah ooookay buddy. Cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 10:06 PM
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You're trolling right? Please, someone tell me this person is trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 09:14 PM
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Why is it good to have equal representation of genders across different professions?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 08:51 PM
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Of all the gender differences in behavior that have been studied in psychology (and there have been quite a few) the one with the biggest effect size (i.e. biggest difference) has been career interests. Men and women have vastly different career interests, and thats okay. I'm really annoyed with the constant attention feminists give to equality of outcome. If there is equality of opportunity, then it doesn't matter if you have a differences in outcome. Those can be natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 08:41 PM
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Intelligence and attractiveness is actually highly correlated. So yeah, I and you yourself likely meet these types all the time. One of my exes was both valedictorian as well as one of the most attractive women I've ever dated, she had guys fawning over her and tons of beta orbiters. Once a guy she didn't know sent her a love letter (creepy). Needless to say, I had a lot of trouble getting over her after the breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 07:52 PM
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Its the male equivalent of a guy celebrity saying 'if a woman looks good without makeup, thats the key. If she has to wear makeup to look pretty, then she is lame'. Maybe not the best analogy, but I think it fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 07:14 PM
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Do not underestimate the current power of the SJWs man! Its funny, I've always considered myself a centrist and maybe more left of centre than the typical guy. When during elections the right wing party candidates raised their hackles about 'liberal bias' in the mainstream media, I just dismissed it. 'Truth has a well known liberal bias' as Stephen Colbert once quipped. But now? Now I feel like I'm seeing the Matrix. The media really is heavily biased towards liberal values, and the radical left…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 06:03 PM
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Guess we'll have to agree to disagree - I personally think evopsych has a lot to do with current relations between the sexes, culture has some influence to be sure, but it doesn't change the ground rules. And women have always feared raped, its probably one of their biggest fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 05:38 PM
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Yeah while all of that is true, its much to recent to affect female human psychology. We're pretty much stuck in the stone-age mindset still. Hence why a bitch doesn't get the tingles for a gentlemanly liberal-feminist beta, but will happily slobber over the dick of a burly healthy looking Chad Thundergronk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 05:23 PM
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you have to put the /s at the end silly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 05:18 PM
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Once this whole "rape crisis" recedes, lawyers across the country will shake their heads at the collective idiocy of our democratic citizenry. Is it just me, or do these 'crises' seem to come in waves ever decade or so? in the 80s it was the satanic ritual abuse stories that came out and got a lot innocent people jailed. Then 9/11 happened and Americans seemed to lose their collective minds about every single guy with a turban, accusing tons of people of being terrorists and locking them away (s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 04:56 PM
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When you consider that in a state of nature, a single woman is often helpless before the wrath of a single man, a woman must be careful not to incite the rage of men. Their only weapon to defend themselves from men is social shaming, which is why theredpill has become heavily stigmatized all over reddit and the internet in general. Women fear it, some actually think the men on it will try to rape them (I think such fears are vastly overstated, but I'm just trying to describe their psychology, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 04:51 PM
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No, its not a bad thing. The anger puts people off though, especially women. Women fear mens anger, and for good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 07:34 AM
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They are angry because they feel threatened by feminism and how its created a generation of strong independent women who like to play video games and succeed at school/business. Just kidding. Its guys with low SMV, who are angry about it, and looking at alternative approaches to sex relations as a way to solve that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 03:39 AM
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Anybody who knows anything about alcohol intoxication knows, that if a woman is so blackout drunk that she is incapable of consenting to sex, then there will certainly still be alcohol on her breath and in her system the next morning, and in some cases, into the next afternoon. It may not be high, but somewhere in the neighborhood of a BAC of .02 to .05, if she was "blackout drunk" the night before. Not saying youre wrong, but I'd be curious if this is forensically valid. In any case, I'd be sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 12:31 AM
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next-morning toxicology report on both parties, as proven by a breathalyzer, shows unequivocally that she was drunk and man was not Wait, how drunk is drunk? Does that mean anytime a drunk woman has sex its rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 12:21 AM
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Men also seem to scoff when a woman orders a salad and much prefers a woman scarfing a chili dog. Both those women must be slim but the appearance of effort is less attractive.... People are weird. I didn't know that was a thing. Those guys are pretty stupid, I like someone who shows appropriate levels of restraint. It may be deemed unnecessary but women tend to work very hard to be attractive too. Makeup, clear skin, clothes, styling and coloring hair, and being hairless in specific areas? That…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 11:58 PM
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If it was more about pure sexual release, more people would visit prostitutes. A ton of men already do. And if were legal, probably the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:58 PM
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Asian girls are definitely more work though if they are virgins. You'll have to invest some serious time before sex happens, especially if they are still a teenager. But yeah, asian women are notoriously more sexed-up than their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 08:31 PM
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Asians. Asians are becoming a huge demographic on ivy league universities. They are typically more sexually inhibited, and are far less promiscuous than cough ...other peoples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 08:12 PM
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So we agree? Beta traits do attract women? Within the context of maintaining a stable long term relationship, then beta traits are a good thing that keep most women around, yeah. But don't twist my words, alpha traits are still what get women aroused. No amount of 'choreplay' or whatever beta behavior is going to do that. It doesn't matter if it's rare an effortless "alpha" (confident, attractive, charismatic) with streaks of "beta" (considerate, reliable, invested) is what women want so beta tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 08:04 PM
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Except that many woman are attracted to them especially when mixed with some "alpha" traits Women are not attracted to beta traits, at least not in the physical sense. They may find it intellectually attractive, but they don't get tingles for betas. Of course the ideal is a mix of alpha and beta traits, but this is more rare than the bimodal either/or alpha/beta dichotomous male behavior. Aren't most attractive traits more attractive if the person didn't have to work for it? "I'm a supermodel bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 07:33 PM
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Natural alphas have no reason to have more beta traits. If anything, they are less likely to show beta signs of behavior because they've never had to. There are literally zero incentives for it. It sounds like OP is just rationalizing why she prefers guys who are just naturally confident and 'get it' without having to read up on how to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 05:55 PM
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Buying a girl food? pfffft beta af
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 05:53 PM
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I spent leisure time doing this, but you spend your leisure time doing this. ok cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 04:13 AM
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Think about it, you spend your free leisure time posting on an internet site about how much you generalize and disrespect women. Think about it, you spend your free leisure time posting on an internet site about how much you dislike misogynists and how women need protection from words! that's so fucking lame hahhaah Pot, meet kettle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 02:00 AM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 12:48 AM
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Please, don't hit me Mr. Internet Toughguy! I've learned my lesson, I'll treat women ohsonicely from now on!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 12:42 AM
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Natural alphas tend to have parts of both alpha and beta -- he will show times of vulnerability Lol. Run hamster, run.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 12:22 AM
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Its the more liberal, young adults segment of that geographic area. So yeah, kinda.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 07:18 PM
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Civilizations the world over have followed similar scripts - that can't be an accident. It certainly isn't. Not to circlejerk too much, but how in the world is it possible to see every social group the world over follow the same scripts, and then conclude that human sexuality has no biological basis? I think its because most bluepillers are hardcore idealists who hope that they can remake the world into harmonious perfection, and that isn't possible if theres such a thing as human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 07:02 PM
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“Young women’s expectations of safety and entitlement to respect have perhaps risen faster than some young men’s willingness to respect them,” says Stephanie Coontz, who teaches history and family studies at the Evergreen State College What drivel. There are plenty of men who respect women. They are the ones who women refuse to sleep with however. Men are just people, and people respond to incentives. Women reward the behavior that they complain about, then write long-winded diatribes about how …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 06:49 PM
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And he says that's actually treating women equal. o_O; either you are being purposefully obtuse or you should see a doctor for your early-onset dementia
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 08:15 PM
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Sure, but don't lie and say its OPs example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 08:06 PM
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Yeah, so he didn't say that at all in other words....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 07:48 PM
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What? where did OP say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 07:28 PM
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It is possible to do nothing wrong and still lose. That isn't a weakness, that is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 07:20 PM
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Literally every person has "suffered" through the same thing that twerps point to as their defining, life-altering trauma. Everyone has wanted more sex and more love than they're currently receiving. This may be true that the quality of suffering is very common, but the degree and severity? not at all. Again, you've never had to deal with such issues so you can't sympathize. You aren't here to debate anyway, just to troll and hurl insults and snide language.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 07:01 PM
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the people who defend rape and domestic abuse as parts of their "sexual strategy" toolkit seem like good people to channel that negativity toward. See, its this attitude right here take elicits a lot of the TRPers vitriol. Being told you're a rapist or a wife-beater because youre seeking an alternative way of relating to the opposite sex is going to get you a negative reaction. Then again, this user does have 'troll' in their username so what can you expect...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 06:52 PM
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Outside of Jersey Shore, I don't think men care if a woman is tanned or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 04:59 AM
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Men prefer light-skinned women because its a more 'honest' signal of youth. Men prefer youth because its a signal of fertility. 'Black don't crack' is true, but it also hides a woman's actual age. This is an advantage for black women when they are middle aged, but not so much when they are young. This is also why blondes are preferred, blonde hair goes grey quicker than other hair colours. Again, a more 'honest' signal of fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 04:58 AM
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Aside from that, they're working to change paternity laws and divorce laws to be more equal. Is that why France and Germany have it so that a man can't get a paternity test for 'his' children? Yes, the genders are equal, but some are more equal than others, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 04:52 AM
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If thats the best example you can find, then I don't need to read anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 01:40 AM
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Thats a quitters attitude. You're looking at it from a male perspective, and truly if your wife stops being attractive to you, you probably should move on because there ain't much that will improve that unless she just got obese and needs to lose weight. For a woman, attraction is MUCH more psychological. Enter dread game. Psychological techniques to increase attraction. All is fair in love and war, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 01:21 AM
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Errr before you said this: I was doing sex work long before my partner came along. And now you're saying this? We got together and married before I got into this work I'm calling BS on this story. At least try to be consistent with your story before you try trolling this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 12:58 AM
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Its as if these bluepillers actually think media is all that matters. I guess when you have nothing better to do than rage at misogynists on the internet, you probably binge-watch netflix all day every day until you truly believe media is all-important to everyones lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 12:55 AM
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Your husband lives off the avails of prostitution. He is a pimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 12:48 AM
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At first I was fairly bewildered by why your hubby would allow this lifestyle if he were 'alpha', but then I pay for both of our university tuition and our rent/bills/groceries/living etc. This makes way more sense now. I would be careful if I were you. While you may be married now, I could see him using this as a free ride through university. I wouldn't mind being married to someone temporarily if I liked her, and she paid for my rent and my schooling. He may even be cheating on you. There was …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 12:44 AM
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TIL my social safety net and advocates as a man are the movies I go to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 12:38 AM
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There's no "right to be free of social consequences from the shit I say on the internet". It's just how it works. Yes there is. Anonymity should be protected, and going after someone because your offended by what they said makes you a bully. If you cannot grasp this, then you clearly lack respect for freedom of speech. Also law =/= morality. You should learn to grasp that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 12:36 AM
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People lost their jobs cuz they voiced their opinion is not comparable to getting death threats. They lost the job cuz the employer decided that they no longer want to associate with someone who voices that sort of opinion. I'd much rather receive a death threat (which in light of how common they are, isn't a real threat at all) than lose my job. And the reason they lost their job was because people messaged their employer telling them that they were misogynists. Its terribly intrusive, and a mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 11:27 PM
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Asian immigrants tend to be the smartest and brightest (they need to be to even make it out of Asia). Immigrants in general, actually. They average higher IQ though, which is why they have better outcomes within one generation. Anyway, arguing about socioeconomics and IQ is misleading based on the data. Consider this statement from the American Psychological Association. The simplest such hypothesis can be framed in economic terms. On the average, Blacks have lower incomes than Whites; a much hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 11:06 PM
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When you have a narrative, you focus on the outlier to such an extent to bend it to fit your narrative, rather than objectively and dispassionately look at the data. Feels > Reals. Thats just par for the course when you argue with people who have equalist social-constructionist notions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 11:02 PM
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And that's misogynistic Hating sluts is not the same as hating women. Sorry, the two are not equivalent. People are allowed to judge a person for their sexual behavior, especially as it pertains to career advancement. I agree that the rape and death threats were unwarranted and should be condemned. Threats haven't all been one-sided in this though. Some people lost their jobs just for voicing their opinion over gamergate, thats a whole lot more consequential than just receiving a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 11:00 PM
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It isn't an either/or situation mate. Clearly people wanted to bash her for being a slut, but its also extremely likely that if there wasn't a massive censorship campaign there would have been no traction to the story. Sluts fuck their way to the top in just about every industry, its an old trope at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 10:04 PM
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Poor career and college performance has more to do with the cycle of poverty than skin color. This hasn't ever been demonstrated, however. Many immigrants from Asian countries arrive completely broke, work shit jobs, and their children end up in the ivy league. So your premise is inherently flawed unless you rely on the 'racism made me do it' argument of poor performance, which is also specious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 09:54 PM
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It looks like Pacific Islanders took that spot. By 1 point. Given the amount of noise in the data, I would count it as a tie. Okay Great input there, now THIS is debating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 09:41 PM
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It was and continues to be useless gossip, but for some reason it touched a nerve for gaming journalists and their websites, as well as pretty much all social media. Then it just spun out of control as people got more and more outraged at each other. The funny thing is its STILL going, but has transformed into a political movement of sorts on /r/kotakuinaction. The complexity of the characters and factions involved is enough to write several novels about, if anyone has the time/inclination.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 09:17 PM
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I think it's a dumb idea for a game, but the fact that her weepy ex's unsourced, unproven blog post accusing her of being a cheatin' whore for sweet, sweet reviews gained so much traction is dumb as shit, too It wasn't so much the blog post itself but the huge and widespread cover-up that followed that made it blow up. See: Streisand effect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 09:09 PM
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Did you even look at the stats? They respond to black guys the least. Which is funny, because they of all people should know about negative stereotypes about their race and the harm of discrimination, yet they're as hypocritical as anyone else. Its really amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 09:00 PM
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Well they prefer them more, if the okcupid messaging stat means anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 08:25 PM
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I think its only natural for an in-race preference, but whats truly interesting is that not only do white women prefer white dudes, women of other races (other than black) seem to also prefer white guys. I suppose this is due to the cultural perception of white guys being higher status, and women crave a guy with a higher status than them. Also I don't know why, but asian/indian guys just seem to be more shy, awkward, and less socially charismatic, which does not do them any favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 08:17 PM
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I'm just saying joining a sports team is a bit untenable after a certain age. I guess you can join a beer league just so you can meet women, but their mostly couples in those teams.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 05:08 PM
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Sorry, I thought the implications were obvious. The black civil rights movement hasn't made as much progress because they suffer from cognitive weaknesses that permanently impair their ability to achieve in modern society. Hopefully this clarifies things for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 05:05 PM
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Not everyone is a teenager or in college. I'm 28, what competitive sports teams are there that I can condition in one summer to get on? I've never been athletic, I think that opportunity is long gone. However getting into better shape is totally within the realm of possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 05:01 PM
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Did they split the women up by sociosexuality? Because if they didn't,that is going to skew the results. Only if the unrestricted group was the majority. Otherwise it just shows that women in general prefer that type of guy. But I don't remember, probably not. As to saying one thing and doing another. Low N count women marry low N count men. This is almost certainly entirely due to religiosity. In that light, it makes perfect sense. Further, among the married couples, a higher discrepancy betwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 03:12 AM
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Women with unrestricted sociosexuality like players. A contingent of women that grows everyday. Even so, it is possible to say you want one thing and actually do another thing. Research has shown that women are more interested in an attached man than a single man due to 'preselection'. If you're really interested, I can find the studies if you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:57 AM
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Ahem Practical validity is indicated by a significant and predictively useful correlation of a measurement with some educational, economic, or social criterion that is deemed important by many people. The g factor (and highly g-loaded test scores, such as the IQ) shows a more far-reaching and universal practical validity than any other coherent psychological construct yet discovered. It predicts performance to some degree in every kind of behavior that calls for learning, decision, and judgment.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:53 AM
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Yes there is controversy, its strange though that twin studies have found IQ to be 60 - 80% heritable, yet the race gap of 15 points is entirely environmental? Its at the very least a mix of both genetic and environmental differences. Its pretty much verboten to speak of this in academic psychology though, so you only really hear the environmentalist side with a couple of notable exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:49 AM
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Its right at the bottom of the picture...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:47 AM
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Yeah but those cultural groups women tend to just ignore everything their feminist sisters say, whereas white girls nod in agreement to everything their radfem professors rant about. In other words, its a question of solidarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:45 AM
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Joining a team sport won't make you attractive necessarily. A lot of times you have to be fit just to 'make the team'. So you can join a non-competitive sport, but then you probably won't be getting many of the positive attributes you listed off. Really, all a guy needs to do is lift. Lift, eat right, and get enough sleep. That'll help a lot, but social skills are even more complex and take even more rigorous dedication to master, and for that, you need PUA teachings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:40 AM
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Past 30 for women and past 35 for men is going to lead to a drastic decrease in SMV and overall interest in sex. Past 35 for men? Lol maybe if youre a blue collar pleb. Men don't go down til their late 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:13 AM
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I know plenty of shy athletic types. You need social success to be confident with women. You need success with women. Its a bit of a catch 22. Thats why I try to advise guys to start small, practice their game with less attractive women before going for the big leagues. Slow and steady wins the race.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:11 AM
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The problem is there are two groups of men within TRP. Group 1: has no issues with Sandberg, because they love the new hookup culture and are busy getting a piece of it. They use TRP for self improvement and seduction/strategy, etc. and to hang with other like-minded men. TBP loves to pretend these dudes don't exist on TRP, but they do, and in vast numbers. Group 2: AFCs, basically. A bunch of overweight, bitter, and unattractive men who use TRP as a place to basically bemoan all the sex women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 01:16 AM
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You're trying to argue rationally about something irrational. Women like players. They like men other women like, and what higher form of expression of 'liking' is there than sex? Otherwise, you make valid points. Too bad women think with their tingles. E: I will say this though. Once a man reaches a certain number (25 - 50 partners) he should stop giving honest answers to women who ask about his number count. Usually the question is driven by insecurity in the woman, she suspects he's just usin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 01:01 AM
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Thinking of it, there is an alpha I know who fucks around a lot. But the more I think about it: When he is drunk, he always talks about one woman, his past "big love". Almost like she has alpha-widowed him. And looking more closely, he always pretends to just have casual sex with no intentions, but somehow...you could be right. He could have but doesn't have ONS, but mostly spins plates. Maybe he really is looking for a LTR, but none of his fuckbuddies measures up to "the one". I think that happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 07:54 PM
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Speaking from the male perspective, I can say that men are also suseptible to this issue of 'settling'. I notice a lot of dudes who were at one time Alpha in high school or college no longer are able to hold down relationships once they can no longer pull the same quality of woman anymore. They basically eschew commitment because none of their current partners look as 'hot' as what they had in the past, so they hold out hope that maybe the next one will be as good. Women do this too of course, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 07:34 PM
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Yeah I actually think the majority of men died in warfare back then. People forget how brutal warfare used to be, by the time you even got to the frontlines you'd often have lost a ton of your army to disease, hunger, accidents, exposure, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 06:04 AM
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Okay I listened to those songs, and they aren't even comparable to what I posted lyrically. The amount of violence was barely even present, I would have to listen very, very carefully to understand what is even going on. Its actually quite tranquil, in comparison. And in terms of misogyny, you still haven't given me anything. You want studies? here's a number of them. These are psychological studies by the way, meaning they actually measured attitude change and perspectives, not just 'sociologic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 05:35 AM
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The interesting thing is the contrast, far, far more female genes have survived
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 05:30 AM
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run hamster run
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 04:13 AM
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[Citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 04:09 AM
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SRS is a global anti-reddit site, doesn't count. atheism clearly doesn't try to parody anything.TRP gets more hate than any other subreddit. Its interesting to consider the reasons why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 04:03 AM
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Also, lol, rap is the only one who does it to that level? Have you never listened to country music? Bitches ain't shit Kill you Bitch suck dick Lol you are just so ignorant about rap. I dare you to find country music that even approaches this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 03:54 AM
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Feminism won't criticize anything that isn't white and male. Because reasons Just kidding, they don't have any legit reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 03:42 AM
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but after actually dealing with the establishment I've realized it is just better to work with it. It's a change in internalized views that came about from experience. Because of this change I act in a way that better gets me to my goals. permalinksaveparentreportgive goldreply More like you realized its easier to just join the establish and lie to yourself that youre a trojan horse when really, you're going to serve the establishment and maintain the status quo just like everyone before you onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 03:25 AM
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How many male maids do you know? Or men cleaning up old people's rank bodies? Those are usually immigrant women who do such labor, lets not pretend its the white liberal feminists scrubbing anything dirty. They'd recoil in disgust at even the thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 03:43 AM
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I don't even need to ask anything direct like that to determine sociosexual restrictiveness in a womans past sex life. Slutty women with high n counts are easy to spot after you've observed enough of them in the wild. There are two general types, the political deviant and the party girl. The Political Deviant The first type practically oozes a certain sensibility, most noticably in their political convictions. They'll snarl at the slightest mention of something slut-shaming, and then lob questio…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 03:15 AM
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I'm wondering what the endgame of this will be if it's practiced en masse, in terms of health care costs, in terms of social structures, in terms of just everything. Well, it won't catch on because the vast majority (>95%) of humans are socially monogamous (note I said socially, not sexually). But if it did, we'd see birth rates plummet even more than they already have, and a huge spike in divorces (because multiple marriages means multiple divorces). It would overall complicate things even more…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 02:40 AM
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I only became aware of this as more than a fringe thing because several of my friends practice polyamory. In threads in this forum, I pointed out that they get more sex, more partners, and more varied practices than anyone I've ever known. The women do. The poly men are often stuck trying to find a woman who is okay with the fact that he already has a girlfriend. Do you know how many women are going to be okay with that? not many, and the ones who are will only be okay with it if you are very at…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 02:36 AM
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I don't think most RPers are necessarily opposed to the idea of a conservative marriage culture. They seem to hate the whole hookup culture thing but suggest that you should 'enjoy the decline'. Whether they hate it or not, its here to stay, so yes, enjoying it is the only rational decision (unless you want to move to Saudi Arabia). So, while most TRPers would benefit from the extra sex that comes from a feminist culture, they seem to think that it's just the best of the bad options Since when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 06:37 PM
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Then get into that top 20% of men. Being good with women is not always an innate talent or ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 05:17 PM
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And thats why you become an alpha, or at least you learn to simulate alpha-traits. Its easier for some, and harder for others, but theres no excuse if you want to make the system work for you instead of against you. I see a lot of people on TRP that just want things to go back to the way they used to be, so they could lazily cash in on sex with a partner who is forced to be with them. Thats never going to happen, no chance in hell are we going back to that now. But it is possible to change yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 05:07 PM
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I wouldn't say being a male feminist necessarily gets you more sex, but having a feminist culture almost certainly increases the amount of sex that is being had. Think about it, feminism removed social mores about women not being able to sleep around, have casual sex, and keep pushing marriage further and further into the later years. The end result is more young women for me to have casual sex with. Feminism is a great thing really, TRPers who hate feminism don't really understand how awesome i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 04:47 PM
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Well you clearly would know better than me about this particular situation. She sounds like the she's in the top >.01 percent of attractiveness from what you say, so age might not really be a factor here. This is only true for women who don't take care of themselves. Most women who have maintained their looks still do well in the dating game post 30. True, its more like age 40 when things go really downhill. 30 somethings can often be very attractive, and an ugly 18 year old is still less attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 01:17 AM
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Fair enough, I have no idea what this man is like. But from what you tell me, beta personality traits sound more than likely, since he could easily be getting hotter stuff on the side from younger bodies. Something must be holding him back, or this engagement is a farce.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 08:08 PM
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and doesn't really matter once those circumstances change. Well, obviously. Thats a pretty meaningless statement. "If the Bushmen have nuclear weapons, then they wouldn't be enslaved!" well yeah of course, but they would never have had such circumstances because of a variety of factors, both intrinsic and extrinsic to being an African Bushman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 06:30 PM
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Godwins, nice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 06:28 PM
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Men have not been proven to be more intelligent than or mentally superior to women, which is why I think that women, all other things being equal, would be no less capable of coming up with the things Atlas_B_Shruggin mentions than men. This is actually demonstrably false. Psychological studies have shown that men are more variable in their traits such as intelligence. Thus, there are far more male geniuses than there are female geniuses, women just tend to cluster closer to 'average' than men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 06:26 PM
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So basically, the researchers themselves declare that their findings are inconclusive and that more work needs to be done. I guess this is the type of thinking you get when you major in Gender Studies and neglect to take any research methods courses
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 06:22 PM
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You'll also have to convince men that they should stop giving free shit to women all the time. A lot of men actually like giving stuff away to women, its almost perverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 06:08 PM
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Just hit the 20 mark a few months ago. It felt like a milestone in a way, but now 50 is feeling like the new benchmark to shoot for. I'll probably never reach it, and truth be told I should probably stop counting as it doesn't really matter, but my ego enjoys the knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 05:49 PM
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I think that men tend to be more egoistic and look out for themselves more than women, whereas women are less egoistic, and giving. I'll grant you that women tend to be more nurturing, but when it comes down to making the biggest of sacrifices, I seem to recall 'women and children first!' being a thing. And lets not forget how men will throw themselves in front of a hail of bullets to save their girlfriends lives. That sort of thing happens everyday, but women making the ultimate sacrifice for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 05:31 PM
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You can be handsome and have a high income and still be beta as fuck. These guys you describe are probably doormats. Ever date a doormat? not a very fun time, according to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 05:18 PM
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If thats the case, given that he is far younger than she is, this may be an 'extended engagement', broken off just shy of the wedding. Time will tell. She better pray that he is steadfast and loyal, because if he wastes even just a couple more of her years, its going to cost her a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 04:44 PM
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The only moral of the story here is that very attractive people win at life. You forgot to mention that if you're a man, you can't just be 'very attractive', you have to pull at least 100k before a woman that is equally attractive gives you a chance. Thus, men have to constantly be proving themselves beyond what a woman has to do in order just to succeed with women who are already their equal in physical looks. Its ridiculous, but thats the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 04:41 PM
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Here's my theory, and its based in demographics. Black women are far less likely to marry than nonblack women. Of course, black women voted for Obama en masse. This artificially inflates the 70% number, when with nonblack women is was probably closer to 55-60%. Still, there is a tendency to vote democrat, probably because of issues around reproductive rights, which republicans have a very, very BAD track record with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 12:19 AM
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Happens all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 12:10 AM
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Online dating is a boon for guys who fit the media-promulgated aesthetic ideal (tall, muscular, white). Hey, i'm only two of those and....yeah, its true, online dating has made me way more of a player than I would ever have been without it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 11:58 PM
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Men are just more open to having casual sex, or to having sex with most anyone. Even people we don't like or respect. We will do it, because sex. In terms of the amount of sex men and women both crave, I think theres a marginal difference favoring men wanting more sex. But theres some low libido men just like theres low libido women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 12:29 AM
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You're finally understanding the concept of "patriarchy." Being seen as helpless and perpetually a child is not a privilege. TIL being given handouts and special privileges is not a 'privilege'. You really are blind. Humanity is 50% men, 50% women. So you're telling me that all men, or virtually all men, are capable of supporting a full time housewife, and have enough personal assets for a court to intervene with a settlement in the event of divorce? Because that would have to be the case if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 03:33 AM
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The problem that this book (and feminists in general) makes is that it frames all of the issues within a system of 'patriarchy' without actually providing any evidence of how patriarchy can causally be blamed for those issues. It is, in other words, a non-falsifiable theory, much like psychoanalysis, in which any issue can be explained away as being the result of 'patriarchy'. Within mainstream feminist dogma, all power is static, and remains within a rigid heirarchy with white men on top. Its a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 06:22 PM
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Heres my take, everything you've said is correct, however the difficulty starts to change around age 30. If you as a man did the bare minimum of either getting a job and climbing the ladder, getting a good education, or getting into some skilled trade in your 20s, you'll be set. You can finally date women of equal attractiveness to you, and if you have other good qualities even higher! But if you just sat around playing video games, working dead-end jobs or being unemployed, you'll still be unat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 10:19 PM
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I could try to change your view, but given the general tone of your post I doubt its possible. The thing is, all those behaviours you listed as being 'low value' are only effective because they fool the woman into believing you are 'high value'. While on paper that might seem ridiculous, but people aren't that rational. All they see is that the person they care about is acting flighty, like they might not be that invested in the relationship after all. Thats 'high value' behaviour, of a sort. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 05:03 AM
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The difference is theres always a significantly large subgroup of young women who really, really like older guys. I'm talking middle-aged. Its weird, but I've seen it often enough that its almost cliche to me now. I suppose on the flip-side there is a subgroup of young men who fetishize older women, but I'm not sure the numbers are comparable. They certainly don't seem to be forming serious relationships with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 07:46 PM
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I see a lot of TRP users claiming men are more loyal than women, and in some contexts that might be true, but in others, we are most definitely not. When a woman gets sick or disfigured, most husbands run for the hills. Not all, but most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/15 08:27 PM
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It seems TBP could say the same thing. Once a wife is of little utility, the husband leaves for something better. Thats actually a very good point and one of the reasons I take issue with how TRP has a 'male supremacy' complex. Men are not any morally better than women, we are just as selfish as women but in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/15 04:30 PM
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Women do understand the hardships men go through, because they went through the same thing. Lol. Thats so invalid that it destroys the entire credibility of your post and I stopped reading right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/15 04:24 PM
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Manson to me represents the 'sensitive PUA' who markets well for men who are looking for long-term relationships. While his advice will also help with getting laid in general, its not as good for having lots of sex as say, Mystery Method.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 03:10 AM
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That doesn't say men are more likely to cheat - it says when women are the breadwinners men are more likely to cheat. Pretty important distinction there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 01:22 AM
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That's because most truly successful people are married and stay married. The economic, legal, and social benefits are well-known and indisputable. The benefits of divorce if your the woman are also indisputable - sole custody, cash and prizes!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 01:11 AM
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Wow, you're third source totally contradicts you: Contrary to popular belief, the results showed that the wealth status of divorced women wasn't significantly worse than that of divorced men, in terms of real money. You should actually read your own sources before you post them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 01:10 AM
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You're right, I was looking mostly at the 4 or more times per week, where the ratios are pretty drastically different, likely due to having children. Although once you hit 40, you see the married couples having even less than 2-3 times per week as compared to partnered couples, likely due to sex getting really old with your spouse by that point. EDIT: actually look at the men's partnered data, you'll see they seem to report more frequent sex than their married peers (if you exclude those that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 10:41 PM
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Thank you for admitting you were wrong about the study! Very refreshing. Lol what? Yes I know about ONS's. Not guaranteed sex on tap though is it? The vast majority of the time you don't happen to pull. Eh, maybe if you're unattractive or your standards happen to be too high for the men you have available.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 10:37 PM
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Interesting how getting married seems to drastically reduce frequency of sex across all age groups as compared to being 'partnerred' (barring 18 - 24 year olds)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 08:21 PM
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In the study, infidelity is defined as “cheating on a spouse, leaving spouse for another partner” and the example given is I wouldn’t put up with her boyfriend. The person citing infidelity is citing their partner’s infidelity. This is pretty obvious. Thats not obvious at all. It does not specify the direction of the infidelity. Also, key phrase: 'leaving spouse for another partner' should tip you off that it could also mean initiating a divorce to leave for someone else. The researchers honestl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 07:46 PM
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HPV and herpes are not typically tested for. I suppose if you want to be extra-careful you can screen for people who will submit to this sort of thing, but I wouldn't even call that being promiscious because you'll be dating them for a good month before you get the results back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:52 PM
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Not everyone is as conscientious as you. In fact, the vast majority aren't. And as a responsible man, you cannot assume every slut will be, thats stupid. Also you likely do have HPV at the very least. Lets hope its not the tumor-inducing kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:44 PM
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When I say it isn't a thing, I mean it's not a female-specific behaviour and, if anything, is more common among males. Agree to disagree then. It seems to me women are far more afriad of being single than men, and are thus far more likely to wait until they have another man lined up before dumping their current SO. Last I checked, it was 19% v. 23% You read it wrong then. It was 23% for women. If a woman cheats, what do you think is more likely: she files for divorce citing (her own) infidelity,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:12 PM
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You're assuming that promiscuity necessarily leads to disease, which it doesn't Don't be stupid. Promiscuity is a pretty major reason why STDs exist and are becoming such a huge public health concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:09 PM
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So the study is absolutely irrelevant as to whether its easy for women to get sex, as street propositions are not remotely an option for women. Have you ever heard of a one night stand? women take home men that they barely know all. the. time. Just because its 'not an option' for you doesn't mean the same thing for all women. Ever been to a house party? a bar? or a club? C'mon now, you aren't really that naive are you? I'm pretty sure you would need to be autistic not to already know this. You'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:08 PM
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You're implying partner count can be an important consideration in a partner, therefore you are shaming slutty women How's that follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 01:53 AM
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Outside of TRP, women "branch swinging" isn't a thing. TIL women don't leave their men for other men. You are joking right? Men are more likely to have someone waiting in the wings before divorce (probably one reason why they tend to remarry quicker than women post-divorce). Source? It's unlikely that they're citing their own infidelity when you take into account that men cheat more and are more likely to dump a cheating spouse. Most recent research shows equal amounts of men and women cheating …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 01:50 AM
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The problem with that study is it doesn't say whose infidelity. The man or the womans? Women are known for 'branch-swinging' when their relationships start to unravel, so its quite likely that they are citing their own infidility in the divorce initiation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 06:36 PM
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Oh, so they do test for herpes now? What a nice step back you just took. Not routinely, which is what 99% of what people usually get. It's not that expensive, and it's just one of the costs of being a sexually active adult, no big deal. I don't know why you felt this was something worth arguing about. Here its $200, and for a student thats pretty expensive and not something I would ask a casual partner to get unless I was seriously worried. Its worth arguing about because you act like partner co…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 06:26 PM
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Pretty much everyone who is sexually active has HPV, but some strains are far worse than others. For instance, theres been a huge spike in cases of throat cancer in young men due to HPV which rivals the number of cases caused by smoking. I could be wrong but I don't think they specifically test for any particular strain. Thank goodness I got my Gardasil shots, and I'd advise everyone else to get it as well. Also, the test for herpes is a blood test that is pretty expensive and not something to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 06:13 PM
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Why would you believe a daily mail article over a scientific journal? Wait, no, I know the answer: because you don't have a clue. Nice presumptions by the way. I could tell you all about the sex I've been having lately, but why stoop to your level?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 05:48 PM
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STD tests don't test for HPV or herpes without active lesions, but you should know that if you actually get tested right? or maybe youre full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 05:46 PM
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Its similar, but again, dread works far more effectively with women than with men. Because dread ties into status, and status is always more interesting to women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 11:55 PM
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By keeping in good physical shape, you ensure that your man will continue to find you physically attractive. This is a good thing, because men usually only stay in relationships with women they find attractive. Also, being needy is annoying to anyone, both men and women. Being a less annoying girlfriend/wife by being less needy and doing your own thing is always nice. Dread game with women is making her think you might leave them, by doing things like waiting long periods to respond to her, brin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 11:52 PM
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I would say it works on men, yes, but for different reasons than why it works on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 11:50 PM
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Yes. Sorry, what was your point exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 11:46 PM
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How did you get to this conclusion exactly ? Personal experience and observation. Its also common knowledge within the PUA community. Say what you will about them, they know quite a bit about relational dynamics between the opposite sex. Dread game is about taking care of yourself and making yourself more attractive. Exactly. You are investing in yourself rather than in the relationship, ergo, you are less invested than she is. So that how it relates to 'idealistic love', men don't need their wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 11:41 PM
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So you don't think psychological research studies prove anything? I mean, I knew must bluepillers were scientifically illiterate, but this still surpises me. Would YOU fuck even 50% of women if they propositioned you on the street? See, heres the problem of female solipsism laid out so well. You can't even consider how much sex is important to men, how much we desire it. You don't understand male sexual frustration, because to you, sex is a luxury you can pass up if you feel like it. To answer y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 08:40 PM
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I guess you didn't read the study, because you couldn't be more wrong. For instance, they used confederates who were of average attractiveness. And 75% of men are apparently not 'in their right mind' according to you. You've been proven wrong, just accept it. You are the one being immature here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 07:41 PM
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Its because women lose attraction to men who are more invested in the relationship than they are. So if a man and a woman love each other, but the man starts to love her more than she does him, she falls out of love with him. Its as close to a law in romantic relationships as you can get. This is why 'dread game' and other tactics are so useful for keeping women in relationships, they need to feel more invested than their partner. Men don't give a shit though, they are happy to love their partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 06:17 PM
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Which is funny, considering that TeRPers often argue that men are the staunchly logical, analytical sex. Given youre male and your post history thus far, you've clearly proven this assumption to be false :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 06:14 PM
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Okay, I went through the trouble of finding a different link to the same article so please read it. It basically shows the difference between how easily obtainable casual sex is for women. Pay particular attention to Table 1. All you have to do is walk up to a man and ask for casual sex. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 04:59 PM
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Maybe if you are in the hottest 1% it's more likely to find someone on any given occasion, but that stands for both genders. I honestly think the only reason more women aren't getting sex easily is because they aren't trying, they wait around for a man to do something first. The idea women can't get sex whenever is an illusion brought on by female passivity, which is arguably an inborn trait, so you may have a point. Here is a study that should show you how wrong you are though. Please read the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 09:07 PM
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I think you are thinking of courtly love. That was a very narrow slice of the population that believed in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 08:45 PM
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Romantic love as a concept is a pretty recent invention. It basically came about as a reaction to the lessening of arranged marriages and increase in courtship as a way of finding a mate. It served as a way to distinguish men who were interested in long-term relationships (marriage) with a woman from those who just wanted to have sex. We pretend it still exists because society tells us that a relationship without 'love' is an invalid relationship. So we say and act like we are in love so we can …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 08:42 PM
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Maybe, but not from what I've seen from a brief comparison of men and women's magazines. Although, because sex is so much more difficult for a man vs a woman to get, maybe men do value it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 07:32 PM
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...But my point is that for some people it causes them to be a sexually frustrated female? Which is the exact equivalent of a sexually frustrated male. Those women are dumb. No one cares who you're having sex with, its all in your head, and the socialization process that used to make women scared of sex is very rapidly becoming a thing of the past. Women have it easy in some regards, and getting sexual release with the opposite sex whenever is one of them. Its not even up for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 04:36 PM
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I am a Man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 03:46 PM
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Except, oops Men become more distinguished as they age and women, well, we just keep getting older. And if this isn't bad enough, a new study shows that the female skin actually starts to age faster than the hides of men. Using a new laser imaging technique, researchers looked at the deeper layers of the skin and measure the amount of damage from sun exposure and aging. The imaging of collagen and elastin, whose degeneration causes wrinkles and loss of smoothness, revealed that women lose collag…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 04:49 AM
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Once I find someone good enough to marry, I assume that they won't be the type to be an asshole about wealth and possessions during divorce. Thats pretty dangerous thinking. You'd be surprised at how much a person you once trusted can turn on you once divorce proceedings begin and lawyers get involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 04:38 AM
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But you don't remember the sex? what it was like? That strikes me as very strange. I can remember fairly well even some of my ONS if they went really good
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 04:33 AM
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I get to enjoy the fruits of their past sexual experience. Warts, painful lesions, and pus. Possibly one day, tumors in your throat as well. Such bounty!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 04:20 AM
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You'll begin to shake that fear once you get laid with an attractive girl. Until then, those doubts will never go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 04:16 AM
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Being a slut has never been easier. Being a slut is easy and actually becomes more and more acceptable every year. Getting oppurtunities for sexual satisfaction is easier for women than men. And slut shaming is actually a very tiny issue if you think about it, because its ramifications are honestly pretty minimal. Some people will smack talk. Just let them. Some men will not enter relationships or marry you. You could actually lie about it to alleviate the latter ramification, if you care to. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 04:14 AM
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I do tend to suffer from bouts of one-itis, but that should work itself out once I've had a couple relationships. It never really goes away. Oneitis is a constant battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 03:01 AM
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It just seems like a way for INTJs to understand normal human behavior. Theres a certain irony in this statement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:21 AM
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I've seen men stick out all sorts of problems their partner has (as long as she stays fit.) Yeah but the fitness is extremely key for men's loyalty. I've seen some studies on cancer and divorce, and the number of men who leave their wives when they fall ill is huuuuge compared to vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 10:31 PM
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Lets make 'mattress carrier' a thing. It deserves to be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 09:03 PM
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He's black, he can't be racist silly /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 09:01 PM
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Studies show the majority of people(men and women) don't do one night stands and extremely few have open relationships. I'm not saying I don't believe you, but could you cite some studies? I feel like in the younger demographics this is starting to change very rapidly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 08:59 PM
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Except you didn't measure anything, and aren't offering any precise measurements, just reporting your perceptions. Too bad perception is known to be biased as fuck. So, nope, still not objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 11:32 PM
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fair enough, but my point stands - feminine men were helped vastly more by the gay rights movement than any other
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 11:04 PM
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I think youre confusing explaining the actions of someone with saying those actions are morally sanctioned
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 10:50 PM
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Theres is nothing objective about anything you wrote so far. Its all your subjective opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 10:43 PM
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They are different movements. Quit trying to steal credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 10:32 PM
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He had a history of autism, but I don't think you can dismiss his stated reasons for the shooting as not having any causal role. Would he have gone on a shooting spree if had lost his virginity by some miracle? who knows, but imo...probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 10:29 PM
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That effect is certainly possible, although it's just as possible that like in many other areas, there will be an implicit agreement not to provide a forced illusion of enjoyment (or at least indifference) to an unattractive client. It really could go both ways. I think the free market will correct for this. Clients are the consumers, and thus have the power to demand what kind of experience they want, and the market will react accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 09:41 PM
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I'd credit this more to the rise of homosexual activists than feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 09:38 PM
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Depression isn't caused by lack of sex. Nobody dies from lack of sex. Ahem Life is not fair. Agreed, so why do we redress economic 'unfairness'?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 09:33 PM
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If it was legalized, it would be easier for the less attractive to shop around for prostitutes who did a better job at making their clients experience a positive one. Its actually no wonder feminists are so against legalizing sex work. They realize implicitly that it would take so much of the power of the pussy away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 09:32 PM
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OP just got told
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 09:29 PM
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Its such a cherry-picked photo, I mean look at his hair, the lighting. Objectively ugly? I'd like to see your face for comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 09:25 PM
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Your understanding of irony is about as strong as your understanding of what an inventor is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 03:09 AM
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Marie Curie wasn't an inventor. And everyone always cites her, like haven't there been any other major female geniuses?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 03:08 AM
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That is not true. There are quite a few female inventors and scientists. Theres a few dozen, but their inventions are kinda weak. I mean, chocolate chip cookies are awesome and all, but nuclear energy is the shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 02:38 AM
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Who needs to be interesting or have cool hobbies when you can be attractive? just go to the nearest bar and start drinking. Being the 'sexy girl at the bar' is like being a minor celebrity for a night, can you blame them for not changing the status quo? Unattractive girls who just binge on netflix in their rooms all day truly are a sad sight though. Definitely neckbeardy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 04:30 PM
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Anecdotal. Some 18 year old girls love older men, and only seem to be attracted to them. Some are like you. Men can't really tell which kind of teen you are until they hit on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 04:25 PM
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Thats not a heirarchy if its egalitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 09:43 PM
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You're really going to take two, just two hunter gatherer tribes, and use that to extrapolate to all humans in pre history? Wow. Some social scientists must be getting pretty desperate to prove that egalitarianism is the 'natural' way societies run.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 09:36 PM
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Exactly, they refuse to see how culture evolved the way it did for practical reasons. There is a function to culture, but its often very subtle and difficult to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 09:28 PM
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This is a correlational study. Correlation =/=causation. I would wager there may be socioeconomic and genetic reasons why daughters of working moms were more likely to get supervisory jobs or a higher income. When only one parent works, its harder to pay for a childs education so that they can get those managerial ppositions. So many factors other than 'hurr durr role models!' can provide a explanation for these results.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 09:12 PM
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our desire for leadership is largely a culturally created and reinforced trait Lol, there are so many social constructist theorists who love to rattle off feel-good stuff like that, without a shred of evidence to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 09:08 PM
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if youre saying its best to know the truth earlier, we need to be harsher on men, not easier, do you understand? Except you aren't harsher on men, at least not the men who should be harsher on. The men who are more anti-social, risky, and oftentimes dangerous are some of the most successful with women. You seem a bit out of touch with how sex and love gets distributed by women to men. Men who do not drink, have no criminal history, etc tend to have fewer sexual partners. Its sad, but part of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 02:51 AM
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Speaking as someone neither out of touch nor old, it makes sense as an approach to getting laid as any other
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 02:45 AM
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I'd argue the process of finding out how awfully you can get your heart and soul crushed by the person you love is far worse a fate than going into something with the full knowledge that such a thing could happen. Being naive is only nice until you get your heart stomped on. Then you end up jaded and cynical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 02:41 AM
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Interestingly, I've found that most women who don't subscribe to that BP ideology to be more forthcoming about their desires. They will straight up say they want a tall, muscular guy that makes them feel small and delicate. I remember feeling miffed when I heard them say things like that, because I was attempting to fit the progressive 'ideal' of the man I thought I was supposed to be. Too bad I didn't listen to them more....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 09:04 PM
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the fact that men and women cheat at roughly the same rate indicates much more faithful women are than men in the face of temptation. I don't thats ever been demonstrated. Men and women admit to having cheated ever at the same rates, but we have no idea at the number of partners, frequency, duration, etc. And thats an incredible overgeneralization, are women tempted more than men? I think it depends on the woman. Regardless of gender, the higher your SMV the greater the likelihood you will cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 03:40 AM
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While it might be scary to think women are more likely to be tempted on some days than others, consider that men are tempted pretty much every day. The difference is, its a lot harder for a man to make those temptations reality - he has to make a conscious, deliberate effort. Women merely need to be receptive to the advances that are made on them (in the case of the attractive ones) every single day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 02:12 AM
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being in a relationship with someone who's hormones cycle monthly makes it - to a small degree - like being in a relationship with someone who has some degree of bipolar issues. That's a little scary. Welcome to being a heterosexual male. Heres a brochure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 02:10 AM
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One of the arguments made in favor of being homosexual as being an inborn orientation was to reference how in nature, we often see homosexual couplings in mammals. Likewise, look to nature in this case, is rape seen in the animal kingdom? Why yes, in fact you see it across many different species, from ducks, to dolphins, to ticks! (the male ticks penis is a spike that actually drills through the abdomen of the female to lay its sperm, more of a knife than a penis). Given women have rape adaptati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/15 01:23 AM
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I agree with your last point especially - there are a number of mental disorders characterized by malingering (both consciously and unconsciously), and there is a large sex difference in that far more women are disposed to such disorders. Being a victim is an attractive position in many ways in todays culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/15 11:33 PM
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But once they are in power, the cycle would repeat itself. Or not. Without a time machine, this is all speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 08:54 PM
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I'm not even going to CONSIDER what happened to the distribution of fathers when the Mongols or Vikings swept into town, took over, and raped everything that moved/killed everyone who looked at them funny. That was far more recent though, just around 700 to 1000 years ago, and I think the gender ratio of reproduction was still far more even during those years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 05:48 PM
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However, 1:17 is huge - I have a hard time explaining it with a large swath of men getting killed and the top dogs among the survivors having soft or hard harems. Even if loads of guys died, there would still be enough betas left who could easily say "hey, that's a shitty deal for us, let's gang up on the big guy" (Hobbes' state of nature - no man is strong enough to be impervious to what another man can do to him). My pet theory is that a lot of men were turned into eunuchs during that time per…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 05:45 PM
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I guess we have to define what 'staying a boy' and 'not taking responsibility' really means, because it seems pretty subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 05:42 PM
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men can stay boys forever and still get toys and sex, yes Those sorts of luxuries don't just automatically happen for most of us though. Gotta earn all of those privileges first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 05:21 PM
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Given women have rape adaptations (non-specific sexual arousal of the vagina being the major one) I would say that rape is apart of the natural history of humanity, so in other words, yes men naturally do rape women in that it happened in nature before recorded history to such a significant extent that natural selection helped women with adaptations to cope with it I mean think of it this way - men who evolved a psychological mechanism that allowed them to force sex had a key reproductive advant…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 02:37 AM
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A man who isn't able to get a woman to sleep with him feels powerless, & may resort to rape to get what he desires. Legalized prostitution gives him the power to go & get the sex he desires without resorting to rape. This is all just theory, but I think it could be true. I think you are confused. A man who feels the lack of power to get sex is motivated to rape, but not to get sex but to get...power? what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 02:31 AM
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not many
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 01:56 AM
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Still wouldn't be comparable rates
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 11:09 PM
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infanticide is far more rare than abortions. Doesn't happen at even nearly the same rates
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 02:07 AM
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In other words, you have no evidence. I just posted an article backing my claims a few posts ago, and you even claimed to know of evo psych studies that found the same thing. Do you have dementia, or are memory lapses normal for you? Divorce can and does damage women far more. The man is free to build up a business, build his career, find a new relationship without being impeded by children. What is alimony? what is child support? I'm starting to think you are being obtuse on purpose... For both…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 03:29 AM
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What evidence do you have that it's an inborn instinctual fear? The studies in question are evidence of it, given the only manipulated variable is sex. They fear it because of loss of money. Women are largely NOT financially independent AND if a man leaves them, they get left with the children, with little chance of building a career (besides not having built up a decent career due to having kids in the first place). You could say the same thing about men as the consequences of divorce usually d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 12:00 AM
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Yeah but mainstream feminists disavow Christina Sommers as a 'true' feminist, mainly because she makes too much sense and uses actually good research data to support her arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 11:02 PM
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Basically, while there is a pretty big system (the most important part of that safety net being individual men who are willing to wife women up even if they don't contribute much) put into place that shields women from their failures and tries to pick them up even when they totally screwed up, as a man you are left in the dust For evidence in support of this, I would also like to point to the far higher rate of homelessness among men than among women, as well the primary societal focus on allevi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 10:56 PM
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There is no natural wiring in a woman that is okay with her husband having sex with other women (with or without emotional attachment). I never said that it didn't bother them, just that it bothered them less than emotional affairs. Plus women are already have become extremely financial independdent, thus the reason they fear emotional infidelity is not, as you say, a loss of money, its just an inborn instinctual fear. Have you been paying attention or is this still the 1950s? They got those res…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 10:48 PM
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Oh, so you did read it after all? In many cultures to demonstrate one's masculinity one has to show virility by sleeping around lots. Are all those men insecure? The realization that women can (and do) this with ease in our society has a lot of ramifcations for the male psyche (see OPs post for further details) But I see you're poly and bisexual, so you probably follow a sociosexually unrestricted mindset anyway and can't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 08:01 PM
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Fewer than you would expect given random chance. Some of course do though, thats the beauty of humans, we vary in all kinds of ways, but there are all sorts of unconscious processes and hidden variables to account for. Yeah, maybe that guy stays with her, but he's actually been banging his secretary all the while she's been sick. Sure, she stays, but only because she has three kids with him and her parents are very religious and would disown her if she divorced. You get the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 07:57 PM
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Not to quibble too much about the details, but I wouldn't call it sexual skill so much as sexual talent, as in, its more inborn than anything. But otherwise I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 04:01 PM
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And therein lies the crux of the difference between what men and women want in each other Men want a healthy, fertile woman that can give them lots of babies (even if consciously they dont want children) Women want a high status man who can provide resources to provision their offspring (again, even if they consciously don't care about this) Love is a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 03:57 PM
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I agree with you to an extent. Based on personal experience, after having LTRs with an 8 or 9, then having broken up, I find it very very difficult to feel emotionally satisfied with a woman who is, say, a 5 or 6. Even if that woman is awesome in many other ways (great personality, treats me great, etc) I still find myself feeling restless and unable to properly emotionally attach to her. It actually kind of stinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 03:35 PM
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I hate to be rude, but you should join The Night's Watch, cuz you are at The Wall. A bit mean but still
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 03:31 PM
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Didn't read? your loss
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 03:20 PM
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One of my exes refused to let me tell her what my number was. I knew hers was only 2 (including me) so maybe it was an insecurity thing, but maybe she was like you and didn't want to think of me in a repulsive light (I've been with 19 women)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 03:11 PM
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Just because you personally want to believe that men and women are the same doesn't necessarily make it so. Thats the biggest gripe I have with bloopers on this subreddit. They constantly confuse the world as it is with the world as they think it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 03:07 PM
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This is changing as women become more financially independent. Women care just as much about sexual cheating as men do. This is simply not the case. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/07/sexual-affairs_n_4747121.html 72 percent of men said sexual affairs were worse than emotional affairs. 69 percent of women said emotional affairs were worse than sexual affairs. 76 percent of women would forgive their partner for a strictly sexual affair Only 35 percent of men would forgive their partner for …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 03:03 PM
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I think in addition to the well known 'social proof' effect of having alredy acquired a mate, there is also a tendency for women to be more forgiving of their spouses sexual cheating. This is a well-known finding in the evo-psych literature: women are more bothered by emotional cheating, and men by sexual cheating - further, women married to high-status men are likely to have an understanding, spoken or unspoken, that the man will step out and thats okay, because he provides her with so much pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/15 11:48 PM
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They report having cheated, but there is little to no information about the type of cheating. That is, frequency, duration, number of extramarital partners, etc. I think you would find quite a few discrepancies in the nature of the cheating, rather in the data from the simplistic 'have you EVER cheated?' poll item
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/15 11:43 PM
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Might you have an idea, or are you just going to pose rhetorical questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/15 11:41 PM
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Okay, you should have specified. Theres a lot of places in poverty outside of that region.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/15 04:07 PM
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The link you gave talks in far too simplistic terms. Overpopulation can certainly be a problem. Its not an unsolvable problem, but it undeniably a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 10:28 PM
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Overpopulation is a problem in poor countries, and a shrinking population is a problem in the West. There, wasn't that easy to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 10:01 PM
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I could only see that being true in sub-saharan Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 09:56 PM
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How can you reconcile the frequently observed completely different levels of rythmical intuition, or even in any other field, with a one dimensional model of intelligence? And reconcile the observations of individuals that display remarkable ability in one area and none in another? I'm fine with calling it intuitive ability. But its NOT intelligence. Intelligence has a completely different definition, the ability to use reason to solve problems. There is no reasoning involved in rhythym, it poss…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 08:34 PM
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balls deep
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/15 12:52 AM
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Because of the free market. The most highly sexualized and attractive media representations will be the best sellers, because its what people like and gravitate towards naturally. You cannot negotiate attraction. Thus, companies will outcompete other ones by providing sexualized media representations, their interest isnt whats healthy for childrens self esteems, its their profit margins. You cannot regulate that either, not without turning into a repressive state.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/15 10:08 PM
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Sexual selection will make the future's babies healthier, more robust, and more attractive to boot. Yes, because contraception isn't a thing....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/15 12:44 AM
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He wounded her pride. Esepcially with the part about being 'spoiled' by younger women. Dave must still be in the mindset that he can 'do better', so he gives no fucks about offending this woman, she's likely just another 'plate' to him. I thought older people were more open about these sorts of things, its no wonder Dave was surprised by how badly she took the news. You got to be a bit more accomadating sexually as you get older, things don't work like they do when youre in your 20s (I'm assumin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 03:04 AM
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I didn't think my respect for Orwell could grow any further. I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 02:53 AM
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Youre asking for a lot of number crunching, because I would need to compute rates of accidental pregnancy, rates of abortion, then compute the probability of a women marrying a beta while young and still youthful/fit, compute the average number of offspring in a family, etc. Rates vary depending on ethnicity (for whatever reason black women deceive a lot of their partners), but I think wherever they are floating now (1-2%??) makes sense given an intuitive understanding of the above numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 11:44 PM
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No never, I'm a top tier alpha overlord platinum league player. But in all seriousness, I'm not paranoid about all the women cheating on their beta husbands and possibly me. I just think its a poor argument to say that low false paternity rates mean attractive women aren't still fucking around more with dominant men then settling for more submisive, meek men once they get old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 11:33 PM
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No one really uses the phrase 'check your privilege' anymore. SJWs eventuallly realized it made them sound incredibly lame, and so eventually stopped using it in favor of more targetted slurs e.g. 'masplaining', 'manspreading'
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 11:05 PM
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A major flaw with your conclusions is that it ignores the historical trend of richer, more affluent families being the ones who generally had the most children, because they could afford to do so and had enough resources such that each survived childhood, whereas the poor would reproduce but most would die. Thus, it was the rich and the poor following an r-selection method for most of our evolutionary history. R-selection type-behaviours may be more economically motivated, as they allow poor par…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 11:02 PM
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, false paternity should be common and yet false paternity is rare. Its rare in the West, where contraceptives and abortion are commonly practiced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 10:47 PM
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It argues against the social component being the strongest factor. Nature provides the basic template of attraction, with a little flexibility/leeway added in by culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 10:46 PM
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White skin is popular everywhere, especially for women (my opinion is that its a more honest signal of youth that explains its attractiveness, 'black don't crack' etc). My personal opinion is it is more aesthetically pleasing in a sexual sense. I still find darker skinned women attractive as well, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 11:39 PM
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Its just been revoked!
/r/PussyPassDenied29/03/15 11:08 PM
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In parts of Africa like Mauritania overweight women are considered very attractive to the point young girls are taken to camps to be fattened up before marriage (often causing health problems). This is dependent on how rare food is, flat stomachs are still considered attractive no matter where you go (its a signal of fertility as its a sign of not being pregnant). Thigh/bum/breast fat is what is primarily considered attractive, regardless of culture. In places where women regularly go topless br…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 10:38 PM
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Not really that weak. The whole reason we are interested in sex in the first place is for reproductive purposes, albeit this is unconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 09:25 PM
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Its a myth so far as that women aren't paid less for equal work. They simply do less equal work. You can argue about why women are so reticent to chase money and high status work positions, but its clearly not because of discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 09:25 PM
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breasts primary function is reproductive as well, i.e. sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 08:36 PM
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How anyone could argue that attraction is socially constructed and not biological when everything in nature suggests otherwise is a demonstration of the irrationality and plain insanity of social theorists that currently dominate a good deal of the social sciences (I'm looking at you sociology, anthropology). Experience will also shape attraction to some degree, but its most primarily a biological response (see heterosexuality vs homosexuality. Its not a 'choice' or something you can change)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 07:46 PM
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street harassment, rape statistics, pay gaps, stuff like that. How do you feel about the fact that most of those problems are distorted by feminists who exagerrate for propaganda purposes? e.g. 78 cent pay gap myth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 07:41 PM
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It would be normalized, but it would still be sexual anatomy that men would gaze upon, evaluate, and compare to other boobs. Not all boobs are created equal, and I foresee some women being very uncomfortable with this shift in social norms. If it was okay for men to show their dicks everywhere, would dicks suddenly lose their sexual appeal? no, of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 07:25 PM
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Thats the funny thing about so-called 'female sexual dysfunction'. Once they get a new partner, suddenly the disorder is cured!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 07:13 PM
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Yup. Women can't be rapists though, so she found a loophole
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 07:12 PM
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What is 'natural intelligence' in rhythm (please spell this correctly, its annoying me)? How would you measure it? What are the standards for it? What counts as a 'problem' in rhythm? You must first answer all of these questions before you can count this as an 'intelligence'. You should really do more research into this area instead of relying on your own intuition, as its blatantly obvious you are doing. I'm a graduate student in cognitive psychology, believe me when I say I've looked into the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 03:12 PM
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Hopefully this will finally get the NYT and other media to stop glamorizing her as 'the voice of a generation'. If Ms. Dunham is the voice of my generation, I'm going to leave and join another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 10:43 PM
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Yeah, its also why people in 3rd world countries tend to be happier and more satisfied with their lives than us. They have closer knit communities, and everything feels more meaningful because its that more challenging to get by.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 09:06 PM
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True. I once read an interesting theory that one reason depression is so widespread these days is no one can really tell if their friends are 'fairweather' friends or ones you can trust to rely on, because actual challenges to mortality and a need for cooperation to survive has become so rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 09:02 PM
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I agree, but people can also develop bonds of friendship comparable to kinship. True, but that is the exception to the rule, and usually occurs only after grand gestures of altruism have been made (with the implicit expectation that such gestures will be reciprocated).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 08:51 PM
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Okay, glad we agree that early humans most likely did not provide equally amongst their members. Thats the only point I wanted to make. Altruism certainly is a thing, but it varies systemically and according to kinship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 08:43 PM
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I don't know for certain, no one can. But I base my ideas off of current hunter-gatherer societies, wherein it has been observed that not all are equally looked after by the group. Extended familes are another thing. Tribes would have some relatedness, but not totally as that would be incest and that would decimate the tribe within a few generations. And even if they weren't blood relatives, people need each other for survival. Affections and bonds would develop with or without genetic connectio…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 08:04 PM
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I'd say in early human history no one had any idea about paternity and they likely didn't give a shit. People would form pair bonds and protect each other, women would sleep around, men would sleep around. The whole tribe would take care of the resulting kiddos. From a genetic point of view, that would make no sense. Genes seek to replicate, and early human history was extremely dangerous and fraut with threats from the environment, predators, other tribes, and even rivals within your own tribe.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 07:14 PM
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I think you should re-read the wikipedia article, specifically this section: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theory_of_multiple_intelligences#Critical_reception You can accept the theory without questioning it if you want, I guess, but you're ignorant to say that scientists who study intelligence accept Garner's theory of intelligence. It also has no empirical basis, in other words, no research actually supports it: its entirely based in theory, i.e. an idea with no scientific basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 06:21 PM
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Scientists(who are by the fact of having attained their profession are very gifted in one form of intelligence and probbly less so in others have inherent bias) said it does not = scientific Um, no. Scientists say what is and is not scientific. Are you more of an expert in science than actual scientists? rhythm is not an intelligence either. You can't just redefine words because you find it convinient. You are bastardizing the word intelligence. Intelligence is about using reasoning to solve nov…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 01:31 AM
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No, none of those things are a form of intelligence. Not according to the scientific definition of intelligence. What you are describing are talents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 12:05 AM
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being of a similar pedigree does not necessarily imply an equal level of vulnerability. During men and women's younger years, women have more options as they have a higher SMV, and have inherently less vulnerability in any relationship they enter into. This changes as their window of fertility drops drastically around age 30, the same period that most women these days begin to get serious with relatioships. At that point, they are the ones who are more vulnerable. This is why I think an older ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 09:32 PM
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Finding equal vulnerability is a rare situation though. You can search for it and hold it as an ideal, but you'll be a single for a long time if you don't accept that you probably will never find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 09:18 PM
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Lena Dunham as a primary thinker. Sadly probably the best example of what young feminist women are like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 09:02 PM
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You speak about intelligence, but OP was talking about creativity, a related but qualitatively different construct. Are you trying to say the same rule of higher male variability applies to creativity? why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 08:53 PM
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Isn't the definition of insanity to try the same things over and over again while expecting different results? diving back into vulnerability without a better understanding of the sexual marketplace, social dynamics, and human psychology is foolhardy and a recipe for more heartbreak.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 08:40 PM
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No. Real life experience with romantic relationships convinces you you need it. When you get dumped by someone you loved, for no obvious reason. When you wonder 'why me? what did I do to deserve this kind of loneliness?' Such pain demands an explanation. I've heard it said that men take breakups harder than women, and take longer to recover from them, and I believe it. Look no further than redpill for proof of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 02:09 PM
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I think a lot of redpillers are actually romantics at heart - I know, I know, the same people who talk about spinning plates and that 'All Women Are Like That'? hear me out. What they really want is a safe woman they feel they can commit to 100 percent, but have found there is no such safety in relationships, especially not nowadays. This creates anxiety for them. They thus have developed 'redpill' strategies and theory to feel a sense of security and stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 02:08 AM
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No they weren't, rape is a different subject entirely and came entirely out of nowhere Dressing has everything to do with self expression, and if you dress sexy, well, obviously you are trying to project attractiveness to the opposite sex. Duh. Depends on the club, but the most popular ones all tend to play the same kind of music, which is loaded with sexual lyrics. I avoid clubbing these days, because I'm not a giant douche who pretends that having experience with a lot of different clubs is so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 07:47 PM
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this guy is really interested in your girlfriend, Reddishblack I think you may have been right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/15 04:26 PM
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dude you are on a roll in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/15 04:24 PM
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You should use a combination of things, included statistics. Thats part of the reason social scientists collect such data. It doesn't mean you'll be 100 percent correct, but it will improve your odds of making a good decision. Life experience alone can be a terrible source of data too. It comes with waaaay too many biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 03:52 AM
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Picking your partner based on statistics is never a good idea... I think it can help guide decisions. Its the basis for a whole lot of other important decisions we make, why not romantic ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 03:16 AM
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that is the most incomprehensible run-on sentence I've read today
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 07:52 PM
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I guess you'd have to stop the permavictim cry of men being disposable, though. Not really, the vast majority of the frontline military will still be men. Getting 50/50 representation is a pipedream (just like it is in most cases)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 07:16 PM
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Good question, why did you bring it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 07:03 PM
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The ones you met, you probably only chose to interact with because they did not seem like what cxj is talking about. Sampling bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 06:53 PM
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He's complaining that people can't take a male perspective in dating, and now you're accusing him of the same thing? what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 01:55 AM
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I feel like a more fair system would be that if a woman is pregnant, the father can opt to abort and the woman will (barring medical reasons) have to abort, whether she wants to or not. In exchange, if a woman wants to abort and the father does not, too bad, she still gets to abort. Under this system, there will only be children that are born to parents who both want them in the world. No man will be coerced into paying for a child he did not want. In this day and age, abortion is incredibly eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 08:58 PM
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your research seems to indicate that it is in fact natural for them to slutshame
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 02:39 AM
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If you read the study, you'll see that they controlled for potential confounders. And it still doesn't explain why those who do more traditional gender-role housework (men does yardwork, for example) have MORE sex than other couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 12:11 AM
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specially when you have a conservative man who sees housework as women's work Pretty sure the most recent research has shown that men who do more housework have less sex, so that whole stereotype is totally wrong Source: http://www.asanet.org/journals/ASR/Feb13ASRFeature.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 10:08 PM
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Good news for "older professionals." Speaking as someone who was one of the lonelier guys in college - this is my ace in the hole. Its already starting, grad school has been ten times better for sex and dating younger undergrads
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 09:03 PM
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I'd like to say its made my dating/sex life better, but I find I am way more picky about girls faces. Even one flaw (bigger chin, weird eyebrows, curly hair, etc) is enough for me to mentally discard them as LTR material
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 08:58 PM
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I would switch your 6 and 8 around in numerical rating. I don't really like my girls to be so skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 08:48 PM
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I think you are conflating 'aggression' with 'competitiveness'. TRP is more about celebrating the latter, in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 12:26 AM
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Guys that are in gangs in HS will end up in jail later on. Guys don't get a lot of sex with women while in jail, even if they have conjugal visitation, its a rare thing, rare enough that male on male rape is an epidemic in the USA. So yeah, I'll still be pushing my son to be strive hard academically. Even if he is a virgin til he's 20, he can still crush it once he is a late 20s / early 30s professional (and believe me, thats the easiest time to get 18 - 25 year old women to sleep with you, hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 12:23 AM
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I see people employ this tactic in every day life and fail because it's not in line with their personality. How do you know it fails? maybe it achieves more than you think. Social situations are too complex to reduce to a 'pass/fail' system.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 11:48 PM
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To be fair, ugly women also will never leave yu and always desire you. But men have a harder time getting past the 'ugly' part than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 07:56 PM
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You ought to look into the whole 'foreign brides' / sex tourism thing. I've always thought that if for whatever reason my SMV takes a steep dive, thats what I'd start getting int.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 07:32 PM
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I think youre conflating different issues. Is a single man with friends better off than a single woman who also has friends? I'd argue, yes. But women tend to be better at making and keeping friends, they have a whole 'tend and befriend' instinct that is well studied. Men tend to lose their friendships more easily, unfortunately, and so they rely more on their women partners for companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 07:29 PM
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thats why arranged marriages used to be (and still are in many places) a thing. Your parents are, believe or not, generally better at deciding who a prospective partner should be for all those various tings you mentioned. Of course, attractiveness is still an issue, but thats rarely a constant anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 07:17 PM
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Could be that your mom isn't very attractive (yes, I went there) and thus enjoys the commitment she gets in a BP context since she likely wouldn't have got it elsewhere from more dominant men. I think a lot of women that skew towards the lower bell end of attractiveness (i.e. <= 5 on a 10 pt scale) tend to drift toward BP style men, if only out of necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 07:08 PM
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Anecdotally, the femininsts I've known who were more outspoken tended to be more sociosexually unrestricted (i.e. slutty). The more moderate and egalitarian feminists tended toward being more focused on monogamous long-term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 07:04 PM
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Yes, lets make it all about rape. Much more rhetorical 'oomf' in doing that than staying on point, since dressing provocatively clearly has nothing to do with desiring attention. Don't even get me started on the music that everyone dances to, which is all sexual innuendo and about grinding one's body on each other. But! nope, people just want to dance, right? thats why theres such a diversity of genres being played! everything from salsa to ballroom! Nothing here about craving sexual attention. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 10:32 PM
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The fact that you left out the wage gap actually makes me kinda happy. Thank you. The information campaign must be finally working.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 03:52 AM
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yeah, thats why women go to nightclubs in nothing but the most modest of clothing. You'd think it was sunday morning at the local nunnery.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 03:50 AM
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If you don't pay when you get into a club, that means you are the merchandise. That comes with some serious perks, though. You have to admit, for an attractive woman in a nightclub its kind of like being a minor celebrity for a night.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 03:49 AM
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1- divorce rates have been falling for years now. Still pretty high, and its due mainly to higher rates of cohabitation and people (mainly men, I think) eschewing marriage altogether, so that those who actually go through with it try to stick it out 2- have you considered that marriage isn't necessarily less successful now, but rather that it has simply become more acceptable to leave a miserable situation? Marital satisfaction of the past is impossible to accurately survey. However, we can take…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 03:46 AM
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Sex is a bigger deal for women, and relationships are a even bigger deal. When they can't find stable relationships, they end up getting used for sex by a lot of men. This exacerbates the underlying neuroticism and instability that led to their difficulty with romantic relationships to begin with. Thats my take on it, anyway. Would be difficult to prove experimentally
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 02:09 AM
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Doesn't really contradict my point. Alcohol and smoking has a 'culture' that isn't so dissimilar to other drug cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 12:50 AM
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People who are involved in drug culture tend to have more sexual opportunities. Thats why there is a relation here between substance abuse and casual sex for men. Its not that casual sex causes substance abuse, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 10:37 PM
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Cold, hard data right there. There is literally nothing one could counter that with. And if I recall the OKCupid study correctly, it was based on showing men and women pictures and judging attractiveness only on that. Men universally prefer the younger, most fertile women. Women would probably change their attractivenes ratings towards a more older man if other information other than just visual data was included, e.g. occupation and income
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 10:34 PM
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Tha's often because we realise that we're talking to an idiot and it's pointless. Or maybe you were proven wrong? nah, that can't be it. Redpillers are ALWAYS in the wrong. Tumblr and my women's studies prof said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 10:31 PM
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Feels before reals, all day eery day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 10:27 PM
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Its funny that even short girls can be picky about how tall a guy has to be. I know a girl who is only 5 feet tall, but any guy who is 5 '8 or under is considered effeminate in her eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 10:25 PM
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A one-off, single episode of sex isn't that satisfying. I, and most others I'd wager, find a consistent partner with regular sex to be the most satisfying and enjoyable type of sex. So of course these guys want a relationship - they want more sex, and they want it to be more enjoyable. They probably get exactly zero romantic attention in their day to day lives, so when it suddenly drops in their lap their like swarming pirahnas, they need and ache for that regular attention that most people enjo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 10:04 PM
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Doesn't sound like you've married him yet. Give it time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 11:37 PM
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et surveys show that the partner count for both men and women can be broken down to similar numbers. citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 11:34 PM
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I think that society plays a large role in determining/defining attraction (fit vs. unfit, white vs. minority, etc) and that the specifics of attraction vary widely based on individuals. Eh, most evo psych research would say otherwise. Men are pretty universal across cultures in what they find attractive. Likewise, women everywhere find status and power attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 11:33 PM
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Problem is, divorce rates are sky-high, higher than almost any other time. Even for those couples that aren't divorcing, people are cheating on each other like crazy. Healthy marriages are in the minority. I'm going to speculate that its maybe around 25% of all marriages are actually between people who are satisfied with each other and will be in the ffuture. Thats the problem with alpha fux/beta bux. Ultimately it leaves women unsatisfied in the long term. Maybe she persuades herself before the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 11:26 PM
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Medical school standards are much higher, such as the MCAT scores. Ivy League schools are maybe 30% white (I'm excluded jewish people, but they are usually considered white but somehow still ethnic)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 04:18 AM
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I think lesbians can certainly be alphas, in that they can essentially imitate the male cultural stereotype, and do so probably better than a hetero woman could.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 10:59 PM
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Whining about this sort of thing displays an inability to truly grok the situation. For those interested in improving their "game" it's nothing but a way to hold you back. I see this as the male equivalent to feminist bitching about women being paid less and hired less often because they are more likely to take maternity leave, work less, etc. and issues of that sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 10:40 PM
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Re publication bias: The effect sizes found in stereotype threat studies are gigantic. You don't get effect sizes like that by performing the same study 20 times to clear an alpha of 0.05 at least once. You should really look up meta-analysis of stereotype threat .22 is NOT a 'gigantic' effect size. Methinks you need to go back to intro stats class.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 03:21 PM
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truly it was a golden era
/r/PussyPassDenied06/02/15 05:48 AM
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This ratio is changing rapidly as women realize there's no stigma with marrying younger men. Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 02:56 AM
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Theres always prostitutes and mail-order brides. Not exactly what they were planning on, but I can see that being Plan 'B'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 01:45 AM
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Of course, I will leave it. My standard is to understand that all sex is a risk, but then again, everything we do is a wager. I'll wager on this bit.
/r/seduction15/01/15 04:56 AM
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Enforce your social norm all you want, you can't make people abide by it. The fact STI's are so incredibly prevalent despite the low chance of contagion in any single act of intercourse is testament to how everyone espouses opinions like yours in public, but defies them constantly in private. I see through the hypocrisy, and will act accordingly
/r/seduction15/01/15 04:20 AM
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Yeah, but who gives a shit? really, its a nuisance but the only thing that makes it difficult is the stigma.
/r/seduction15/01/15 04:12 AM
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Actually flooding can work very effectively as well, but it can also be traumatizing if bad stuff happens (e.g. ridicule, public embarasssment etc). So yeah, incremental is probably the best way to go
/r/seduction12/01/15 10:28 PM
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Type 1 is incredibly prevalent, so you won't be able to infect most girls as they already have it. You probably don't even need to tell partners.
/r/seduction12/01/15 05:27 PM
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glad you finally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 01:54 AM
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Strength doesn't matter much in the age of the gun. Hasn't changed the gender difference in violence, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 01:46 AM
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Not sure what your point is. Still waiting for you to name a culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 01:41 AM
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Find me one culture where the women are more violent than men. Just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 01:36 AM
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Its not strange when some cultures develop similarly. You know what is strange? When they ALL develop the EXACT same way. Do you know how many cultures there are on this planet? thousands get the picture yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 01:14 AM
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men are naturally more likely to be criminal FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 01:07 AM
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No, I believe in human nature so it makes perfect sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 12:47 AM
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I see people misuing it all the time then, with few bothering to correct them for fear they'll come as ___ist. Too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 11:40 PM
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TIL all cultures are sexist in remarkbly similar ways...because...uh...patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 11:37 PM
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Women attempt suicide as a cry for help. Men attempt suicide because they want to die. Do you really think women are so stupid they can't pick an effective means of dying? I have more respect for women than you do, evidently
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:21 PM
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Except his experience resounds with mine, and likely many others. Most people (and feminists in general) have never actually read any academic feminist writings. Its crazy shit. The stuff that people post on tumblr - all heterosexual sex is rape, for instance - can be found within mainstream, peer-reviewed feminist academic journals. Read up on some of what people like Dworkin write. Within academic feminism, 'radical feminism' is just....feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:15 PM
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you are really on point with this post. Great summary of my feelings on modern feminism as well. Saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:05 PM
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For all of your questions, the answer is: it depends. Some men benefit disproportionately from feminism. These are the men who were already attractive to women, but now are even moreso. Rich get rich, poor get poorer-type scenario, unattractive men are now left more out in the cold because of feminism. Thats why so many are bitter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 05:52 PM
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Props for developing such a deep caricature
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 05:39 PM
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Which is obvious BS. Why do we see the trend universally across cultures when not all cultures are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 05:30 PM
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the two tend to be correlated
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 04:40 PM
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they are super silly, but exist in frightening numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 04:26 PM
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Should people be ashamed of any of their privileges? I think that depends who you ask. Some would say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 04:07 PM
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you'll rarely hear them give accurate appraisals of their less attractive female friends to their faces, only sweet lies Women's ego s are far more sensitive and given much more gentle treatment then men's. Even amongst men, we often 'tell it like it is', not to be purposefully hurtful but so that our fellows can improve. Although, of course there are bullies of both sexes that like to hurt for hurts sake. But an insecure man is rightfully scorned by both sexes, because he will never improve, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 03:56 PM
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I suppose so, though some studies have looked at gender differences in things like sexual jealousy vs emotional jealousy, and mate-guarding at different stages of the menstrual cycle. I'm too lazy to look those up however.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 03:14 PM
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I don't have one, the idea comes from my readings on evolutionary psychology theory. There are some good introductory textbooks out there that do a better job explaining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 02:14 AM
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because sexual infidelity is less threatening to women than emotional infidelity, and vice versa for men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 07:41 PM
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Yeah most likely. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 07:18 PM
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(women are more often financially worse off than men post-divorce) Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 06:15 AM
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You'd be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 06:14 AM
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Heh, its funny, in one thread I get accused of being red, in the other, I'm blue. Well I'm not sure what your arguments are, you haven't really explained them. So I can't give any rebuttal. And youre right, I haven't explained why your thesis is flawed. In my opinion your thesis is flawed because saying that men's sexuality is damaging isn't an insult or a negative against men. That shows the power of male sexuality. It can damage, but it cannot be damaged, its invincible. That sounds like power…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 05:47 AM
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Slut shaming comes from the costs of paternity uncertainty. Men who were not jealous and did not guard their mates for 'contamination' from other men did not pass on their genes. In other words, jealousy and prizing womens 'purity' was positively selected for in our ancestral past. It makes perfect sense, since women have hidden ovulation. Also, women who are less inhibited sexually are more likely to cheat. This seems intuitive, but somehow it gets lost in all the ideological ranting that goes …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 05:36 AM
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Thats because women hate prostitutes because they innately understand it hurts their bargaining position. If sex becomes less of a commodity, then how can one sell ones SMV at an inflated price?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 05:28 AM
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All that happens in reality is the most attractive men simply get more sex while the others do without. Rich get richer, poor get poorer, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 05:25 AM
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He made you get a prenup, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 05:17 AM
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maybe it's just that I'm from New York Bingo. Why marry when you have a plethora of mate choice? NYC makes it seem like you have all the options in the world. That is, until you don't. Not that marriage is 100% secure against divorce, but sooner or later, you will grow (visibly) old. Fewer men will want to be with you, far fewer, and the ones who do will not be of the same quality that you may be used to now. Get the picture? You may not think you could become desperate, desperate for love, for …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 04:48 AM
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TIL to use game you must consider someone unequal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 06:00 AM
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oooh you and your passive aggressive emoticons ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 02:03 AM
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it was at least an A plus (the A is for Alpha)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 01:55 AM
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If a man marries a woman while she is young, he is most likely older than her (naturally, older men and younger women tend to couple up. Its an evolutionary thing). That means by the time she is menopausal he is like in his late 50s or even 60s. Men's testosterone is in the shitter at that age, and when a mans t-levels are low he cares less about 'spreading his seed' and more about kicking back and investing in his offspring and family. Evolutionary, thats simply how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 01:04 AM
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you don't go to parties, who're you kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 01:01 AM
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Quit before you have to try rebutting, smart strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 12:55 AM
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TIL dating women by using game is 'discrimination'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 12:48 AM
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and at that point you need don't game to keep a woman. You've never had a girlfriend before have you
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 10:40 PM
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28 percent in the USA is a ridiculous number. That would mean each of us would have siblings or cousins who were only half siblings or not related at all, and given my own observations that doesn't seem to be the case. Now maybe if your a poor inner city black american then maybe.... By the way, a review study is a study, and as a published author he is basing his statistics on actual studies, so I'm not sure what you mean by him not conducting any research
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/14 11:35 PM
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the 1 in 10 statistic is inflated, generally speaking http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misattributed_paternity its more like 4 percent, and it varies widely by geography and ethnicity, but yeah its still fucked up
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/14 03:03 PM
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Send her a few of the articles you can find EVERYWHERE on the web about it
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/14 02:49 PM
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