0597ThrowRA Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are Yes and it’s this way for almost every species	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 02:58 PM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are It’s really this simple, women being able to have their own bank account and mortgage, and more opportunities presented to which they aren’t required to rely on men anymore. This is all fairly new in the grand timeline of marriage and dating, the 60s and 80s opened up a lot of these new opportunities. Women I think are finally choosing careers and themselves first, instead the idea of relying on men for marriage and what they need in life after high school and college age. I say they choose them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 02:57 PM
2	It's beneficial for society when women experience negative consequences for choosing the wrong man Men and women who fall under a narcissist’s spell are victims. More women get involved in abusive relationships than men do. It’s often difficult to discern these yellow flags in a partner when lovebombing is happening and everyone around you tells you how great of a partner they are or seem to be, until they show who they actually are. It’s not as simple as someone just choosing to be with someone who is obviously a low life or bad influence, while that can happen as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 04:52 PM
1	It's beneficial for society when women experience negative consequences for choosing the wrong man Have you ever browsed r/narcissisticabuse ? There are lots of cases of people, mainly men, as NPD is more common in men, putting on a facade and there being no blatant signs to which women marry and have children with an abuser	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 03:42 PM
2	The 4B movement is just female MGTOW. Women also want to avoid the biases of marriage and dating in 4B, but also with choosing not to have children for understandable reasons in today’s climate. Both genders have a lot to lose with dating and marriage, they are risks one should opt in or out of	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 09:06 PM
26	The 4B movement is just female MGTOW. 4B is from Korea in 2019 and the Bs translate from 4 words in Korean all beginning with “b”	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 03:16 PM
7	This crap really affected me, and sometimes I feel... unworthy Who would say that women don’t like gaming and comics 😭 have you seen Comic-Con? Or gone to the theater to see a marvel movie? It’s equal amounts of men and women. There are also sooo many Twitch partners who are women	/r/ExRedPill	02/11/24 03:18 PM
1	Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not create Imo the biggest reason American women are less inclined to date Asian and south Asian men is the culture shock. It’s the most different from American culture from personal values, patriarchal family values, and expectations. The beauty standard in itself is also pretty different. Even for Asian and south Asian men who are a few generations in to living in America, these values are still engrained and it makes dating difficult for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 02:26 PM
–	The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insane I’ve had a couple of guy friends who have similar mindset as you. From my perspective it sounds like the result of many times of negative reinforcement. I totally understand where your thinking comes from, but I don’t condone it either. Others have recommended self healing and reflecting on fixing your perspective and it’s really the best advice. I know it’s so difficult to get over the negative reinforcement. But it can totally be the mindset projecting onto your friends/women that is the reaso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 02:28 PM
2	Would you pay $2500 to join a dating service/app if all the women on there were thin, had a partner count under 10 and wanted marriage and kids? It’s incompatibility regarding values nothing good nor bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 04:31 AM
1	Would you pay $2500 to join a dating service/app if all the women on there were thin, had a partner count under 10 and wanted marriage and kids? Not really how that works. People can find the body count question an unreasonable measure of character, regardless of their own number.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 10:36 PM
1	CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of males I agree. Also, plenty of women get harassed in modest clothing as well, if men are going to harass they’re going to regardless and the clothes aren’t an excuse for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 08:07 PM
4	Is it fair to say something about a woman existing as a self-sufficient relatively accomplished adult turns off many men even if she's a kind beautiful woman? A self sustained woman who is secure in herself needs a specific kind of man who can be equally secure in his masculinity and lift the weight off of her, and set her in her femininity when she is with him. A woman who can have a position of power in her professional and social life can still be wanting to have a man take over when it comes to dating and relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 06:10 AM
10	Who is the worst red pill YouTuber in your opinion? If you can list top five or even the top 10. If you want you can also explain why. The comments on pearl’s content are cringey also. Her whole persona I believe is either rage bait or due to her being mistreated by one man she dated a couple of years back.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/24 06:22 AM
29	"What do you bring to the table" is a horrible take as love shouldn't be something that can be calculated by the numbers When this question is asked blatantly, it is offensive or brash because the answers to it should naturally come in conversation over the course of the date or getting to know the person. They can also come through context and usually is a pointless question anyways, because you can know what the person does for work or whether they have accomplishments, etc. if someone asks this question, it would give me an impression that they aren’t the type of person I would want to be with anyways. No, love…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:21 PM
2	Women: have you ever exploited a man's interest for you own gain? Equality as far as respect yes, should be a given. There are nuances in dating due to cultural upbringing, societal and class. While your points may be correct by definition of the word exploitation, it isn’t default opinion by both men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 06:31 PM
2	Women: have you ever exploited a man's interest for you own gain? Equality exists in mutual respect and consent here. If it is such an issue that a man doesn’t want to pay for a first date, he has the right to convey that as it is not, unfortunately for most, default belief. And unless it’s a blind date, it’s generally not difficult to have a conversation or clues on what type of person you’re going out with and what they are expecting. Many people go out for coffee, split bill, and cost-free first dates. It’s unfortunate to feel like you are being exploited a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 05:59 PM
3	Women: have you ever exploited a man's interest for you own gain? Equality is a given. Nobody is better than anyone else. Blame the dating game. If you have luck finding women who you can split the cheque with be my guest, I choose differently and that is my own consent to. It is harmless to offer to pay for dinner for someone. I do it all the time with my friends. And they do it for me, too. Paying for a woman on the first date doesn’t mean you will be exploited or exclusively be the one paying always lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 05:00 PM
3	Women: have you ever exploited a man's interest for you own gain? I think that’s where we differ in ideology, as I and many believe that the man should step up in certain ways for a woman even if there is no modern reason. Men are always the ones who biologically are inclined to want to find a mate and have a more difficult time, therefore, offering a little more than another man (albeit, paying for a first date) is one way to stand apart. All women vary of course, there are plenty who would agree to a split-cheque coffee date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 04:26 PM
3	Women: have you ever exploited a man's interest for you own gain? Was it about work or about chivalry and respect? Culturally, it varies around the world. While women are able to work in India as well, they are still traditionally “pawned” off to men socially when it comes to marriage and the men still have to prove themselves as worthy to her and her family. Eastern European women also expect men to provide naturally. There; women are able to work as well. Western women also like to be dressed up and wear makeup and accessories which both cost quite a lot of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 03:54 PM
2	Women: have you ever exploited a man's interest for you own gain? I am confused here, if a man is inviting a woman out and is initially the one more interested than she is, why shouldn’t he cover hers as well? It isn’t exploitation for a woman to agree to a date with a man who wanted to invite her out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 03:31 PM
–	Why do men make fun of things women like? I don’t believe in chakras, energy fields or the like lol, I believe in evidence and preventative measures and sometimes that can be as simple as understanding a healthy mind can lead to a healthy body. And that everyone’s biology varies slightly based on lifestyle and choices, so what may work diet-wise for someone won’t work for me. It isn’t all black and white, and published studies do have biases. Looking at the viability of the study is important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 04:09 PM
–	Why do men make fun of things women like? The reasoning and funding behind studies matters. Chinese medicine and functional medicine roots in finding the overall cause and full-body and health related causes versus western being rooted in finding disease and curbing the disease. Both can have their faults, and both can have their truths. It’s just different “roots”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 03:57 PM
–	Why do men make fun of things women like? Western astrology doesn’t have a lot to back it up. Vedic astrology, however, is practiced and taken seriously and dates back thousands of years. https://vedicastrology.net.au/blog/vedic-articles/jyotish-the-ancient-art-of-vedic-astrology/	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 02:50 PM
–	Why do men make fun of things women like? Hmm this is a very western point of view. Chinese medicine may be seen as snake oil to westerners and western medicine but it has been practiced for thousands of years and has its own merits where western medicine is faulty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 02:48 PM
4	Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity. Makeup is only there to enhance. Like wearing a tailored suit or fitted jeans that enhance the natural features of a person’s body. Most makeup is done for the female gaze anyways, and men’s opinions doesn’t matter for it. More artistic makeup is done for the style, trends and with purpose and there are plenty of beautiful people with flawless skin who choose to wear makeup for the fun colors it provides. To further go into this depending on culture and subculture (like gothic as an example) mak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 07:11 AM
1	The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them. Did you not understand anything I wrote? Hormone cycles affect both genders differently. Women have ups and downs depending on their menstrual phases, and to negate this is to be ignorant and unwilling to understand biology. Men do not experience these ups and downs, and their circadian rhythms are generally the same every day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 05:58 PM
–	The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them. https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2022/04/13/womens-scholarships-and-awards-eliminated-to-be-fair-to-men/ Are you also not aware there are male only scholarships? And do you find the Native American genetic scholarships unfair as well? There are plenty of scholarships for everyone of all backgrounds and genders. How is any of this an argument against that both men and women are able to go through rigorous training to become doctors, engineers, mathematicians etc? And make the same demandi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 05:53 PM
–	The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them. Openly biased how?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 05:43 PM
1	The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them. Men run off of a 24 hour hormonal cycle, which is perfect for them to get up early every morning, fully energized, and take on the day. Women run off of a 28ish day hormonal cycle, which is impractical to have the same rigor and schedule every day of the month, every day of the year. That is biology. Men are physically built to provide and take on the hardships every day. Women are not physically built this same way. This doesn’t mean women can’t choose to learn their ups and downs, and take on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 05:28 PM
–	The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them. There are plenty of women breadwinners and in STEM jobs now. Physically demanding and mentally demanding both take a toll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 05:22 PM
–	Do you realize that claiming “men are trash” actually outs YOU as being on par with them? What does thinking that way accomplish besides jumping to conclusions about others lives and safety?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 02:37 PM
2	Being short it s a huge problem in males “Male height in developed countries correlates with protein quality.” Link	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 08:42 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread If she is in peace living that way, where is the harm and why the judgement?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 04:15 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Almost hit all the buzz words	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 05:08 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Fair, I’ve known women over 30 who are bubbly and not either of those ways, and I’ve known women in their early 20’s who experienced bad from men or dated the nice guy who ended up being terrible, and became “jaded” by 23. Age isn’t always congruent with experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 02:44 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I wouldn’t say so, there are plenty of average and below average couples out there getting married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 02:38 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Jaded as in she refuses to get over something traumatic that happened to her and move on to be a good partner, or jaded as in knows a lot more about what she doesn’t want, therefore being more direct about it, where as younger women don’t /yet/?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 02:35 PM
1	Nice guys aren’t really that nice I understand more now. It sounds like grounds for seeking help in that attachment style for trauma, to be able to manage those triggers in a healthier way. We can’t control how others are going to treat us, but we can control how we react to a situation and our boundaries we choose to put up from the start. Both genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 11:38 PM
3	Nice guys aren’t really that nice Exactly. And even though this isn’t their intention: they fail to give autonomy to the woman because of their over-bearing nature. Autonomy for her to be her own person. And he projects his insecurities and anxious attachment behaviors onto her, thus pushing her away. If “your time” is the only thing you can offer, and not direction or a leadership and strength (common healthy, masculine traits) she will compare the niceguy to one of her girl friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 02:36 PM
2	Nice guys aren’t really that nice What if women consistently responded to him with the same behavior, when those same women responded to other men with different behaviors?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 02:29 PM
3	Nice guys aren’t really that nice It’s a misunderstanding of behavior on part of both men and women. Plenty of men out there aren’t jerks /or/ r/niceguys. An asshole of a guy only appears like a better choice than a pushover man because the asshole of a guy displays how he can make choices and not be a doormat. Women aren’t usually attracted to pushover men. Luckily though, there are a lot of men out there for women who are neither pushovers or assholes and are direct with their thoughts and intentions, meanwhile being truly res…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 02:21 PM
-1	Nice guys aren’t really that nice This exactly. Classic niceguys don’t know how to regulate their emotions, making them dangerous potentially. You never know what is going to make them burst because they are always /acting/ nice. A lot of times they will do acts of kindness for transactional reasons, and not out of kindness of their true hearts. To expand on this thought too: Women aren’t only dating either nice guys or jerks. There are a lot of good men who are truly respectful to women, emotionally mature, and have their lives…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 02:15 PM
2	If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on? It sounds like you don’t know how female anatomy works. A person can obtain an std from ONE sexual experience, and a person can never get an std with 100+ partners. It only takes one infected partner to get an std. And I thought people knew by now that the vaginal cavity is a muscle? Do your biceps get loose by using them? No? Then a vagina doesn’t either. Women vary just like men and their penises vary. Pelvic floor muscles can be flexed to regain muscular strength after a woman gives birth - t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 04:16 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread This, but what’s scarier is endocrine disrupters (included in some plastics, such as styrofoam and takeout containers). These are in virtually everything in every household, store and restaurant. Receipt fronts have more bpa in them than water bottles. Teflon pans scratch extremely easily and release hormone disrupting chemicals. Detergents and fragrances are hormone disrupters. Plastics are only the top of the iceberg of it all. Generationally, there is evidence showing declining testosterone a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/23 04:17 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nearly all the food in the United States is processed with seed oils and people prefer convenience over cooking and eating with care. Added sugar is hidden in everything from spaghetti sauce to bread. The real conspiracy is how a person actually loses weight after living abroad in Europe, eating “unhealthy” foods while they gained weight eating “healthy” foods in America.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 04:21 AM
1	Hookup Culture and N-Counts That chart is poorly done, because if you count all of the days listed, you’ve got a 50+ day period which isn’t how periods work. A usual cycle is 28-32 days. “During menstruation” is 7 days right there yet only gets one check mark. The “unlikely” column covers 14 days total. The “possible” column covers 10-14 additional days, so that’s 28 days total where it is either unlikely or somewhat possible. The remaining days which are listed “possible” can overlap because some women’s cycles are shorte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 07:19 AM
2	Hookup Culture and N-Counts https://drbrighten.com/can-you-get-pregnant-any-time-of-the-month/ https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/can-you-get-pregnant-right-before-your-period https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC27529/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/7477165/ Here are a few. All state a 5-6 day window of conception due to the egg only being able to be fertilized within a short window of ovulation. Give or take a couple of days for the sperm to reach and attach to the egg, equaling 5 days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 11:02 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Exactly, arguably there are more people who have casual sex than a small minority. It does not mean that there is anything neurologically wrong with them, or that all of them had experienced childhood trauma or broken parenting. The logistics behind people choosing to have casual sex are different than people being coerced into believing casual sex will fix their problems. And those two are in a whole different category than the neuroscience behind mollesters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 05:10 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread hoe is a pretty subjective label compared to a pedophile	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 05:05 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Typically, the brain chemistry of a person who molests innocent children without cause, is extremely different than those who choose to harass or molest a convicted molester once in confinement. Still confused how your original claim of a pedo equaling the same as a woman choosing to engage in consensual adult activities?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 04:57 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Assuming said pedo isn’t raped endlessly in prison, which is usually the case	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 04:51 PM
1	Hookup Culture and N-Counts Exactly, there are also only 5 days of the entire month where a woman can even get pregnant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 04:50 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Do you think it could possibly be because one is illegal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 04:39 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread How do those two equate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 04:29 PM
9	Does giving women less attention work? It goes both ways though. Secure individuals, whether man or woman, shouldn’t just drop their plan for someone. Exceptions of course, but within reason. I respect someone much more when they keep to their current plan and tell me they can meet a different time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 06:46 AM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Never thought of it that way. That explains the comments section.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 04:01 PM
13	Daily Community Chat Megathread The alpha male and red pill podcasts on YouTube present numerous logical fallacies. What gets me the most however, is when people will start the argument with “you may not like to hear this truth, but…” or: “you’re mad because they’re speaking the truth” Who’s truth? Because those arguments don’t apply to me or my experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 03:55 PM
1	I think I found a way to prevent friend zone from happening So you spend couple of weeks or a month to get to know her. At that point you are just an acquaintance not a friend. Acquaintance is good. You shouldn’t wait too long before she gives up on reading your signal that you’re into her, because then it gives her too much time to think “he’s just looking for friendship”. Be upfront, sooner rather than later. I thought girls didn't know the difference between an acquaintance and a friend. I don’t really understand this? I don't want to waste time getti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 05:47 PM
1	I think I found a way to prevent friend zone from happening Where I’ve personally experienced the best luck, was when the man was kind, shown attention, (bare minimum expectation) then promptly asked her out within a week to a month. Upfront, no games, no guessing, no overthinking. Just a respectful man asking a woman out. You get to know her while dating. If she respectfully declines the date, you try again with someone new.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 05:32 PM
1	I think I found a way to prevent friend zone from happening Women don’t just complain about losing guy friends. Women justifiably get upset that a guy she was friends with, was only choosing to be friends in hopes that she could eventually change her mind and date him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 03:46 PM
1	Whats with all the buzz around confidence Confidence can also mean a person is secure in who they are. Not all confident people are secure, though (narcissistic disorder). But secure individuals will portray an air of confidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 08:48 PM