07paradigm Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Being short in public areas: Demoralization. It’s not about the size of the man but the size of his balls	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/23 12:52 AM
1	This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why? Because honestly, girls in this era are pretty immature and dumb. Not all, but a lot. They want toxicity because they want to have fun and hook up and then years later after their “hoe phase”, they want the nice guy. It’s rampant in this era. Much more than in decades prior. Even if she’s not a hoe, her perceived sexual value is through the roof (because of social media and the rise of simps and low tier men drooling over her) so she never gives a man the time of day unless he has money, looks, …	/r/seduction	11/08/22 05:50 PM
1	Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks..but.... I don’t think that exists anymore. I would say dictators, kings, and sultans of our archaic past. In third world countries, eg my parents’ home country in Latin America, it’s common for men to have multiple wives and concubines. These men are usually the ones with the most resources. Land, cattle, money, etc. Although it’s not as one sided as op described. It has similarities	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 02:46 AM
1	Going on a date with a woman more than twice my age. I think she’s beautiful and I’m very excited! Older women love BDE	/r/seduction	20/07/22 07:36 PM
1	If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap. Agree all the data on that is misleading.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 05:45 AM
2	What is the appeal of submission in women? Yes that’s true. I was trying to describe to OP how it’s way more nuanced than that. evolution and biology are much more complex than one simple chemical. Sometimes yes sometimes no, sometimes something in between. There are counter examples to everything. There are examples of chemicals and hormones modifying peoples behavioral in all sorts of ways. Which is why we should be wary of stereotyping. I’m only sure about this… in the “wild”, where our ancestral evolution came to be, you get certain …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 03:57 AM
2	What is the appeal of submission in women? I’m glad you read this. I thought it’d get lost. To answer your question. Yes but mostly in scientific studies. It’s really just basic biology. Chemicals in our body drive behavior	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 03:33 AM
1	What is the appeal of submission in women? Lots of it is bio-evo-psycho instinct. Most of it is. Our ancestral pasts forged much of our brains this way. There’s a lot of truth in the alpha/beta paradigm. Usually the alpha man is the one with the most survivability in the harsher natural environments of our evolutionary past. High testosterone, domineering, egotistical, aggressive, territorial, leadership, etc all made for a creature to survive thus led to more selection by females. This specimen was the most fit and most capable of survi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 02:59 AM
1	Are most hot women boring as fuck or have I just been unlucky? No maidens?	/r/seduction	27/05/22 01:23 PM
4	Are most hot women boring as fuck or have I just been unlucky? Ahh yes what a dizzying conundrum, what hope is there for our hero? It’s not a matter of intelligence OP. It’s simply that you cannot enjoy that person’s other qualities. Hot women are not for philosophizing, art, culture, and all these other noble pursuits. They’re not virtuous. However, they do have virtue in other forms, but you must know how to bring it out of them. The number one rule about hot chicks: never be boring. Be unpredictable. Focus on excitement and fun. Make them laugh, cry, afr…	/r/seduction	27/05/22 01:13 PM
1	Sleeping with lots of average girls to gain confidence? Sleep with who you find attractive. If you’re not corny for her, why do it?	/r/seduction	27/05/22 11:15 AM
4	I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looks Younger girls would be giving their power away by complimenting you. I see so many men complaining about how women never approach or compliment them. Bro it’s not going to happen. It’s not a confidence thing. It’s very rare for truly gorgeous girls to approach first. It’s very risky to their egos and status. Even their safety. There are exceptions but it’s definitely not significant enough to warrant any man to sit and wait to be approached unless you’re already established as high social status…	/r/seduction	21/05/22 11:00 PM
1	Something a woman can do that gets you weak at the knees? lol it’s the little things. it works	/r/seduction	14/05/22 10:12 PM
10	Something a woman can do that gets you weak at the knees? Make him feel manly and strong	/r/seduction	14/05/22 10:23 AM
1	Q4ALL: Am I supposed to assume every nice thing a guy does for me is to get in my pants? It feels wrong A lot of guys yeah. But if I’m into you, you’ll know. I’ll make a move, I’ll tell you, flirting etc. Even if I wasn’t into you (just as friends) I’d probably still pick you up. I’m cool like that The chances of me doing that because I like you romantically are higher though. It seems like your friend is a typical nice guy. Very shy. There are nice guys who have confidence and you will know. Not all are trying to only get in your pants and actually want a genuine relationship. It’s an interesting…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 05:06 AM
3	Need a smooth answer for when she asks the question "Who do you think you are?" “[First name, last name]. Is that a problem?”	/r/seduction	24/08/21 05:15 PM
1	Cold Approach That’s a classic conundrum that I went through. But that’s the wrong way to look at it. There’s nothing wrong with being a better version of yourself. You want to get laid and that’s perfectly fine. But the goal is also to develop a ton of self-esteem and confidence and ability to have fun and be independent of the outcome. You will have to kill parts of you. Then when you start getting results, you’ll realize quick sex with lots of women is kind of like using each other for masturbation. It’s c…	/r/seduction	22/05/21 09:34 PM
2	Cold Approach You’ll be surprised. If you have game, women will want more of you. Besides the mall is mostly for getting numbers to set up later dates. Once in a while you can get dates on the spot. Like coffee or drinks. It’s creepy when the guy’s game sucks.	/r/seduction	22/05/21 09:18 PM
1	Cold Approach You don’t need a coach. It’s optional. There’s guys on YouTube dropping free game. If you’re not getting results, there’s a reason and it can be identified but it’s very hard to identify it in yourself. It could be your vibe, your methodology, your looks, etc. You can be stuck at certain level for a very long time. No there’s no ancient knowledge. There’s no secret to it bro. If you go to the gym and do whatever, you might build decent muscle but a trainer will definitely save you years. Watchin…	/r/seduction	22/05/21 09:12 PM
1	Cold Approach Bro you need to get feedback from someone with better game or find a method lol you can’t coach yourself. I mean you can, but you don’t have the knowledge to critique yourself. You don’t know what you don’t know. Relax. Seek knowledge or coaching before you beat yourself up. Keep approaching though. That’s a good thing. Props	/r/seduction	22/05/21 09:03 PM
3	What's a great substitute for handshakes when meeting women for the first time? “what those fingers do?”	/r/seduction	29/10/20 09:39 PM
1	You guys got it all wrong Preach my brother!	/r/seduction	21/10/20 03:24 PM