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9	If you’re bad with women, don’t feel bad. Most of us men are until we put in the hours of research and experimentation. Here’s where to put your efforts. For thousands of years, men had no trouble seducing without these fucking books. This just isn't true. Not all men have been successful with women throughout history, end of story. Did you know we have nearly twice as many female ancestors compared to male ancestors? Why? Because a greater proportion of females successfully reproduce. Imagine that all the women who have ever lived have averaged one child. Now imagine that half the men who have ever lived averaged two children, while the other ha…	/r/seduction	16/02/19 07:53 AM
1	Got rejected brutally Have manners and human decency, couldn't agree more. As if that runs contrary to anything I said.	/r/seduction	12/02/19 02:19 AM
1	Got rejected brutally This is an incredibly ignorant assumption. If you believe this then you believe that not a single girl anywhere ever could overreact and be rude to someone who didn't deserve it. Edit: And like I said before, anyone who is putting themselves out there socially is bound to make a mistake or "do something wrong" from time to time. You learn from it, and you move on. You seem to place "don't risk bothering anyone ever" as your absolute value above all others. In my opinion there is just so much wro…	/r/seduction	11/02/19 11:54 PM
1	Got rejected brutally Ok I think we've reached the heart of our disagreement. I think your philosophy that a guy can't interact with a woman unless she smiles and makes eye contact with him first is incredibly naive. Is this specific to opposite sex interaction by the way or should a man wait for a smile and eye contact to talk to another guy as well? I've had a long term relationship which was very meaningful to me which was the result of an approach I did where I didn't wait for a smile and eye contact. So that m…	/r/seduction	11/02/19 11:36 PM
1	Got rejected brutally What if you aren't 100% certain whether the girls want to engage with you? What if you aren't 100% certain whether or not they are giving you an 'in'? What if you didn't know that if you went and got in their space you would get hard bounced? This is the sort of grey area that I'm talking about. I'm not saying you should go talk to (bother) girls who you know for a fact don't want to be talked to, and who you know for a fact will give you a hard rejection on the spot. Like you are saying, it's…	/r/seduction	11/02/19 10:47 PM
1	Got rejected brutally I'm sorry, I'm not sure what you're suggesting. Try starting the set with confidence? What do you mean be that? I'm taking it as a given that the person approaching should do so with as much confidence, authenticity, and social calibration as they can muster. Why would they do anything less? For men who aren't yet very successful with women, clumsy approaches will happen. It's unfortunate, but in my opinion it is the lesser of two evils. They can either talk to other human beings and learn and…	/r/seduction	11/02/19 09:14 PM
-1	Got rejected brutally Did you even read the op? He literally said that the hard rejection actually boosted his confidence for the rest of the night because it helped him to not give a fuck, and then he went on to have a great night. Given that, how does your advice make any sense? Would he have been better off not approaching them and just waiting around for girls to show interest in him? No, he would not have been better off.	/r/seduction	11/02/19 05:38 PM
1	How to feel good going out at night? Why do you feel like you don't belong? You have to accept yourself for who you are, imperfections and all, and start interacting with people. Then view any interactions that go badly as an incompatibility issue rather than a judgement of your worth relative to theirs. Once you become proficient at engaging with people while being yourself, and laughing off any interactions that don't go well, you're right where you need to be. Then the real fun begins when you come across people who you're more …	/r/seduction	11/02/19 07:38 AM
1	12 Rules For Life Poster - for those who are looking for a change in 2019! Yeah, the rules themselves aren't all that relevant. You have to read the book to see what he actually means by each rule. The information he actually seeks to distill only has vague connections to the rules.	/r/seduction	29/12/18 05:50 PM
5	12 Rules For Life Poster - for those who are looking for a change in 2019! The rules are explained much more comprehensively in the book, but I will try to summarize them for you. For rule 11, he basically describes skateboarding as something that children do to push themselves to become competent. It is dangerous and challenging, and that's why it's engaging and meaningful. He uses skateboarding as a metaphor for anything that is challenging and voluntarily undertaken which develops competence, encourages character growth, etc. So it's something like: Get out there an…	/r/seduction	29/12/18 05:36 PM
6	The odds are good, but the goods are odd. False dichotomy..... Having standards doesn't mean loneliness. Of course having standards doesn't always result in loneliness. I am speaking specifically about men at the bottom of the dating pool. In the previous sentence I was clearly talking about a man who doesn't receive any interest from women for a long period of time. He will naturally not have the same standards as someone who has tons of opportunities with the opposite sex. The person with more opportunities can be pickier about who th…	/r/seduction	12/12/18 06:55 AM
42	The odds are good, but the goods are odd. You make some very good points and I agree with your advice for the most part. But I think part of the problem is just unavoidable. Whether or not a guy has a connection with a woman starts to become secondary when he can't get anyone at all for a long period of time. Standards start to get lower and lower when a guy has zero opportunities with women, and there is nothing inherently irrational about this. The fact that this lowering of standards (sometimes called neediness) makes a man even less…	/r/seduction	11/12/18 08:13 PM
4	"Everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear" I agree. The problem is that if you are in a negative emotional state, you literally won't know what to say other than awkward forced shit, and you won't be able to keep a fun conversation going. If you don't get your emotions to shift and move, then it's literally impossible to have a fun conversation, and your brain knows this. This is why it tries to keep you from approaching. But what that part of your brain doesn't understand is that your emotions can shift and change, and when they do, you…	/r/seduction	28/10/18 07:05 PM
1	My gf broke with me. How to get into the game with her? There is literally nothing special about how you are feeling. Almost everyone has a strange feeling that it's not all lost when they are broken up with. There is a reason people are saying you need to let her go. It is the tried and true thing that you have to do. It has the backing of thousands of people's personal experience.	/r/seduction	04/10/18 11:28 PM
1	Tried talking to a girl and failed miserably. Need advice on how to keep a conversation going? Well you're probably not wrong. Anyone who tries expressing interest in girls will probably creep a girl out from time to time because dating is just pretty tricky in general. The advice he is giving isn't good for OP, but just because he says that doesn't mean he's being creepy. It really is about delivery. You could say much more grotesque things than that and still have it received very well if the delivery and subcomunication is all excellent.	/r/seduction	24/09/18 03:19 PM
1	Instagram can help your Dating Life If you're starting from scratch, it takes time to build up an IG with enough likes, interesting photos, etc. that will make it a net positive in attracting women. Before your IG is good, girls looking through it can actually hurt your chances with them. If, on the other hand, they only knew you by the good experience you had with them, they are more likely to be attracted to you. In my opinion, for those guys who don't have a strong social media presence, I would recommend that they should NOT r…	/r/seduction	28/06/18 09:24 PM
1	Instagram can help your Dating Life I think the point a lot of people here are trying to make is that IG can definitely be helpful for some people, but for others it can hurt them, and those people are better off not investing in it. If you are a person who gets a lot of likes on your pictures, has large groups of friends, frequently hangs out with attractive women, and are constantly doing cool shit, then yes, IG can be very helpful for you. But if you are not that person, then wasting your time on IG and encouraging girls to fol…	/r/seduction	28/06/18 08:24 PM
1	On Confidence... Nah picking up women isn't quite the same as flying a plane. Confidence/self belief is a turn on for women whereas confidence/self belief alone helps you zero with flying a plane.	/r/seduction	08/05/18 07:55 PM
2	“Fuck It” -- The Magic Words -- How I Learned to Approach Any Girl. Everyone has underlying issues that they're still grappling with. No one is perfect. Waiting for the day you are at peace within yourself and confident is a mistake in my opinion.	/r/seduction	06/05/18 04:26 PM