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08Winchester/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 02:03 PM
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08Winchester/r/askMRP18/07/18 02:52 PM
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We all have that knee-jerk reaction. I sure have. Best advice: leave this here, follow the advice, and stare at it next year as a 6 or 7 with pride. Stick with merit. Grow your body the right way. Ignore other men’s women. You’ll feel like gold when that single hot chick zeroes in on you just for being you. You’re a fucking train. Be a fucking train.
/r/askMRP21/01/19 11:54 PM
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This is the best advice right here OP. What’s happening here is your wife managed to set off your internal flags. The suspicion is there, your questions are most likely valid, but you’re probably facing an awful lot of gaslighting and the problem here is you’re entertaining it, thus now you’re trapped in the mental mindfuck of that and thoughts of your wife giggling as some dude is motor boating her. Any reaction you give allows her to feed of your insecurities, and the fact is the moment she kn…
/r/askMRP21/01/19 05:55 PM
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I was open to verbal spankings correlating to messages of “be a man and put that shit aside” or a “OYS faggot” or 2. And of course valuable insight that would help me tool up to put my anger in check. Anything that would not only enlighten me but others in the same shoes perusing the thread. Your response fell along the lines of drama queen nonsense. Unproductive.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/18 05:35 PM
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I’m disappointed in that reply. I think you misinterpreted.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/18 03:16 PM
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Great insight!
/r/askMRP03/08/18 07:19 PM
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Where there’s trickle truth, there’s a big fat lie that’s never going to come to be confessed. Roughly the same age as you, have 4 children, and with my wife overall 26 years. I’m almost a month in to the RP and am getting immediate results. Blowjobs on demand, sex when I want. A suddenly submissive wife that contributes to the household just a bit more. Am I happy? With myself, yes. With her, no. Found evidence a little more daunting than yours. Trickletruth, gaslighting, smokscreening followed…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 06:05 PM
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Took 8 years off from the gym, not training. Survived on calisthenics and dumbbells. Helped me maintain muscle memory to press 275 on the bench upon my return to the gym 2 months in. All natty btw; zero enhancers, protein powders or anything injectable. Pure food. Pure determination. No, there are ways to work around a back injury. Strengthening the erectors around your spine with the right training is the right approach unless one wants to be the old guy walking around moaning, “ugh...mah back.…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 10:02 PM
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Pile shot himself on a toilet. That’s all I could see after reading this thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 03:43 AM
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This week’s OYS brought two weaknesses to mind. People pleasing. Oh what I Dingbat beta I was with that. 3 weeks into the RP and I quickly realized the difference between the idiocy of people pleasing and applicable courtesy. I cut that vine in half. Actually, I pulled it by the root and tossed it at some dude sporting a man bun. My second weakness I’m wrestling with: anger. I find myself in bouts during the day with the appropriate IDGAF attitude and get real excited about my future as much as …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 01:55 AM
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He’s still a man, and what are men who run from a challenge without at least trying to overcome it? He’s fairly new to the manosphere and still sees an obstacle he thinks he can overcome. Let his evolution dictate the timeframe for which he eventually decides its time to walk away. The marriage will serve as his boot camp in the meantime; let him complete his training.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/18 02:22 PM
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There’s a serious red flag here.... I once thought my wife was the sexual dud you describe yours as. We’re together over 26 years. One day I hid an audio recorder hoping to hear something else...but heard what I never imagined I would; my wife mastrrbating. Pissed me off for claiming she never did so in her life. Kept my mouth shut. Kept activating the recorder. Guess what - turned out my wife masterbated on a near chronic level. I knew on that level it must come with tons of fantasy. I eventual…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/18 01:52 PM
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That was a sweet reply to that post. Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 03:41 PM
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That was a tough read. High-five to you for escaping.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 04:14 PM
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Excellent insight and just exposed the same realization of my in laws. They and my wife prefer the couch over anything indoors. T’was a screwed up household for them all back then. Your comparison about it just enlightened me further in this moment. Pure Gold. Thanks. Wisdom truly is everything.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 03:18 PM
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My man, I know exactly where you are. If you’re ok with unsolicited advice... Continue to engage the RP mindset and roam your home as if you were a 50’s dad - calm, cool and collected. Treat her as a child where need be: “good job,” “good point,” “I’ll look into that.” Don’t go off on the praising and keep all rewarding statements short and sweet. Never engage an argument. Never promise or offer to act on any of her suggestions immediately. If she tries to impose a thought or idea on any househo…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 03:01 PM
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I agree with this assessment. Was hard to admit, but when I realized my wife was BPD (shortly before stumbling into TRP) I jumped into a crapload of reading and realized I was the problem - no matter the hell fire she sprayed on a daily basis. My codependency was partly to blame and I had to realize it was there, regardless how it got there. And 2 weeks into the red pill and I’m having a blast here at home. Was never beta - just a conflicted alpha. Once I started utilizing RP concepts my home li…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 01:16 PM
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Where in detail have you provided this info? Provide it again here for us to digest.
/r/askMRP25/07/18 06:30 PM
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What was the extent of the abuse on your son? This was asked already for which you skimmed in favor of posting selfies. Truthful answer. Then all here can provide a better assessment.
/r/askMRP25/07/18 06:06 PM
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Insanely true. Oh so insanely true.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 05:07 PM
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Several days later and I’ve had sex on demand a few times and I literally have her kiss my cock before she leaves the house in the morning. Started gaming. Holding the 10 second kiss count and she actually goes for the tongue. I smack her ass in passing (not too frequently) and send dirty one-line texts she responds with a happy face. This is all fine and good but not quite near her chasing me yet. That’s my bar in this. Been a long time since she chased me. No big time shit tests that were poll…
/r/askMRP24/07/18 07:30 PM
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I’ll pm you a pic of me feeling offended. Please stand by. You can run off to your college hazing ritual afterward. Don’t forget the carrot.
/r/askMRP20/07/18 08:49 PM
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Not at all. Matter of fact, I chose to regard matters as a new day upon discovering the RP. If I had something to hide I’d have deleted previous posts. I instead left it there for further reading and the insight that’ll be funneled down the pike in my direction in the form of Gunnery’s virtual fist. That being said. I downloaded NMMNG (audio) and remain STFU. We resumed real estate hunting for which I took the lead and put the kabosh on anything unworthy of my attention without arguments or nega…
/r/askMRP20/07/18 03:08 PM
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Yes. Child is mine. 99% test result. Big sigh of relief. :-)
/r/askMRP18/07/18 09:19 PM
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Agreed...and enacting.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 09:09 PM
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Here’s the thing - all of you are 100% right. In the world of matrimonial dynamics, you are indeed right. And I need to make something clear: nothing would make me more happier at this juncture of my life than divorce. It would be hallelujah if I can wake up, makes my kids breakfast and sit at the table knowing this woman moved out and the kids were in my full custody. You divorced dads know - especially if you live in a big liberal city - the miseries of divorce with children involved. Sure, yo…
/r/askMRP18/07/18 08:15 PM
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That was a good read and a fine example to never get lazy. Many thanks. This reply goes right into my memory bank.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 06:06 PM
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That’s the insight I was looking for fellas. Ya’ll got a clearer handle on my situation, and ya’ll understand my stance as a father. My kids future is bleak at best should I divorce. My goals here are long term self improvement alongside short term housing sanity/peace with a big dash of “cease the games because you’re no longer gonna manipulate me.” My earlier posts were before I came across the red pill. This past weekend (with all the RP reading) was enlightening. I feel better equipped to ha…
/r/askMRP18/07/18 05:41 PM
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I’ll look at it as you describe. It just puzzles me that years of relenting for the sake of peace and a greater good only yielded a hurricane that continued to expand. The RP has me questioning everything since my toddler mind came online and began the assimilation/accommodation process. It was all wrong. But I get a new start, and that start in and of itself begins with wisdom. Hopefully I find myself the levels of serenity you men have landed on.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 03:53 PM
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Makes sense.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 03:02 PM
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This. This right here. I’ve come to realize “people pleasing” is a detrimental mindset I need to toss. And reading info related to this sub opened my eyes to women and I kicked that pedestal away. Been STFU all day. Light communication with the wife involving house and kid decisions. Took the lead on all, kept my words short, sweet and neural, and went about my day with an open mind toward all the work I got ahead of me. Wife initiated sex talk by lunch. My head spun on that but i’ll Go with the…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 11:22 PM
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Thanks! Confirms my realization I created my own garbage.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 03:13 PM
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I’m on it. Returned to the gym 6 months ago. Reading everything I can. Stopped looking at the why-did-she’s and started looking at the what-am-I-doing-wrong’s. Putting myself into STFU mode until I can sort my own mistakes.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 03:11 PM
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Was not aware. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 02:19 PM
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Very true good man. Amazing how a nightmare relationship will wisen a man if he can instinctively climb out of the black hole. The world becomes beautiful once the bleeding stops.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 01:26 PM
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Here’s a question: any guy here stuck with a wife that cheated, went googlistic, found the red pill, then kept the marriage going with newfound RP insight?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 07:20 PM
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I mostly agree with you but get confused when a woman cheats on a man with the excuse (once discovered of course) “oh, he listened to me.” It’s an awkward balance to maintain. I’ll let mine bitch about the usual (work or how she thinks done other chick is out to get her, etc) whilst allowing my mind to wander elsewhere - but still alert for keywords that I’ll comment on that makes her think I’m still listening.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 04:25 PM
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