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| 8 | What a Pick Me's future looks likeUgh... That facial expression. I've seen too many Wendys gaze at their Peter Pans that way. It's an open ended love triangle. She loves him, he loves the game, the game loves no one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 12:44 PM |
| 124 | I knew I wasn't crazy to think that BDSM/rough sex is wildly incompatible with respecting someoneUnreliable narrator: She stalked the everloving fuck out of him, made friends with his friends, and loved the bad sex he gave her. And then said she don't want anything either and bounced. The truth might be closer to the fact that the sex was horrible and she realized this guy ain't shit but just let him down easy for her own safety. Or that this entire story is fake or mostly fake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 11:47 AM |
| 161 | This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually.There are literally gay men who have successfully done this. 20 year marriage, children and everything. Imagine the mindfuck a wife like that must feel, her gut telling her this guy isn't into her, but she's being gaslit 24/7 into thinking her gut must be wrong and blaming herself for his lack of attraction to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 10:20 AM |
| 24 | I don't know who needs to read this, but you don't have to put up with struggle love.I really hate the people (AND THERE WERE SOOOOOOO MANY OF THEM, both IRL and online) who kept insisting that this is what normal love is like and that I'm a clueless dreamer for not wanting it and for being angry at me and accusing me of lying when I would say that I and my (whichever boyfriend at the time) actually had a good relationship where this kind of toxic drama doesn't happen. I hate the people who tried to gaslight me and tell me that I must be an idiot and the guy is obviously cheatin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 09:31 AM |
| 170 | Never call a man out for negging youThat's such an embarrassingly bad thing to say. Like... I really wish he'd said it in front of more people so that everyone could have just stopped to stare at him as if he'd said "mummy I made doo-doo in my nappy!" because that's basically the same level of cringe. This absolute toddler! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 05:39 AM |
| 13 | FDS stance on BDSMIt is so incredible to me that we even need safe spaces like this to be able to discuss everything that's wrong with BDSM (spoilers: EVERYTHING) without people (including people who don't even participate in or watch BDSM or don't even like BDSM themselves) tripping all over themselves rushing over to fight us and tell us we're kink-shaming. How did this happen? What is this hive-mind urge to defend something that doesn't even affect you? How did BDSM get normalized in the first place? Who decid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:06 PM |
| 962 | Racist scrote had it comingIt's not invasion of privacy if you're screaming your racist shit loud enough for your neighbors to not only hear you but get a clear enough recording where your voice can be recognized as you. And women, please don't consent to a man screaming racist things at you during sex (or ever.) Honestly, I really hope this is a troll post making fun of those "diversity consultant" people those big companies are hiring, because I feel so bad for this woman. What kind of head-space do you have to be in wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:17 PM |
| 3 | The simple, foolproof way to get your partner to contribute his fair share to chores, cooking, and household management.What? That's awesome!!! (And I love your username) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:55 PM |
| 170 | The simple, foolproof way to get your partner to contribute his fair share to chores, cooking, and household management.I'm low-key waiting for the day those cleaning product commercials show men cleaning the house, and the tagline is something like "I'm an independent man and I can do it myself!" or "Mommy wow! I'm a big boy now!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meIt's like reading a post from a space alien. Who the fuck is this clown? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 06:59 PM |
| 20 | Saw this on insta today. How cool is this? I've never taken Bcp's for the same reason that they fuck around with your hormones. Same for the morning after pill.Seriously, dude, you abandoned your child with a woman who lied to you. Yes, you are the asshole. You are not the victim here. THE CHILD is the victim here. These clowns are so selfish! I stopped going to AITA completely about 4 months ago, and I swear to you, my stress levels improved so much. I'm sure many of those posts are either pure fiction or exaggeration, but still, seeing evidence of so many horrible people every day was really affecting my morale, especially the ones where the entire f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:45 PM |
| 134 | Saw this on insta today. How cool is this? I've never taken Bcp's for the same reason that they fuck around with your hormones. Same for the morning after pill.These are the same clowns that throw a tantrum about "missing out on the experience of" a woman swallowing their cum. They think their precious spermies have magical powers. You can't reason with delusional assholes. (I mean, you're 100% right. My tone is just because I'm exasperated by them, not you!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 12:37 PM |
| 566 | Saw this on insta today. How cool is this? I've never taken Bcp's for the same reason that they fuck around with your hormones. Same for the morning after pill.Of course women are going to have to be the ones who invent this stuff. Men don't care enough to. I'm so proud of her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:10 AM |
| 47 | Let me guess, she initiates every single date, too. Oh wait, she confirmed in the comments that, she in fact, does.This is a great point. We should not be around people who make us feel like we can't bring up tiny, minor VALID points with them because we're scared they're gonna flip out. These people won't change, and it's not our job to change them in the first place. The best thing to do is get away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 01:14 PM |
| 220 | Let me guess, she initiates every single date, too. Oh wait, she confirmed in the comments that, she in fact, does.Girl, you let him put his dick in your vagina, but you're too scared to tell him "Hey, I need you to pay for your own food/entertainment during dates." This isn't just a her problem, this is a HUGE PROBLEM for millions of women out there, they are terrified of saying basic things to men because they know the men will create drama and leave. This is not healthy, they are emotional hostages. If you see yourself in what I'm saying (whether it's with a guy, or with a friend, or family member) please… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 10:21 AM |
| 45 | Very weird pre-date invite condition/terms given. Thoughts? Anyone else come across this before?No Kyle, I am not open to "physical connections" on this "drink date" / "looking at dinosaurs date." (Also, friends don't let friends says yes to drink dates.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 10:17 AM |
| 40 | SiNCe whEN dO i hAVe to pUt in effORt??Thank goodness I'm Gen-X and will be dead before then (but then again the way these scrotes are living they will be prematurely aging and won't last past age 60 at this rate, so I might witness it after all) but when this current generation becomes old men, I can just see them waddling around on the streets in their shit-stained sweatpants screaming "I need my dick sucked" at anything remotely female that passes them by. You will be able to sense them approaching by the stale old-man stench that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 42 | “My love language is PhYSiCal TouCh”Yes! there's such a huge difference between a giver and a taker! A giver gets actual pleasure from seeing you enjoy what he's giving you! It's the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:21 AM |
| 451 | SiNCe whEN dO i hAVe to pUt in effORt??I swear, this is stuff men used to know. It really weirds me out to see these baby-scrotes re-discovering the wheel in 2021. Old scrotes completely dropped the ball and didn't pass the ancient scrote secrets onto the younger generation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:19 AM |
| 164 | “My love language is PhYSiCal TouCh”What I've noticed on this sub and elsewhere regarding men who say "my love language is physical touch putting my penis inside you" is that they never ask the woman what her love language is and they never prioritize her love language or do anything with her love language. Women are always supposed to care about the mens' love language but it's not reciprocated. So it's not a love language, it's just more bullshit. I don't even believe those men have read that book or whatever it is. They just le… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:45 AM |
| 18 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.So you are too dense to understand basic social cues. You are shy, nervous, have social anxiety, can't function in social setting, have a fear of rejection and no confidence... And yet you want pussy to walk up to you and impale itself on you? Well, you sure as hell aren't lacking in entitlement or audacity, LOL. No thanks. Stay home. Remove yourself from the gene pool. You are not needed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:58 AM |
| 45 | REMINDER: Observe people's actions and reactions carefully.I'm gonna tack on another thought under this. If you falsely accuse a guy of something, and his response is immediate anger, verbal violence/intimidation tactics, and screeching at you, RUN! A lot of kids got traumatized by shitty parents who accused them of things they didn't do, which caused them to develop toxic behaviors as adults. We are not their therapists and it is not our job to psychoanalyze them or put up with their shit. If they can't handle accusations like a full grown adult, and t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:46 AM |
| 276 | REMINDER: Observe people's actions and reactions carefully.Yeah, if you accuse them of something they didn't do, usually they just get confused and ask you for more details to try and figure out what you're talking about. For your own sanity and peace of mind, you can always test it out by accusing them of something they 100% didn't do, just to see how they react. Then you have a baseline of what to expect in the future if you need to confront them with something they actually did do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 04:41 PM |
| 84 | The AUDACITY of my abusive exI don't understand. How can someone who speaks to other humans like this: Him: It was just the one, and she’s out of town for the weekend hence why I was asking you if you wanna get railed. Him: She also wouldn’t allow ass stuff so yeah…. You coming up here or nay? And his life situation is this: he’s an unemployed 30 year old with severe social anxiety that’s literally living in his mom’s basement that’s addicted to video games and starts drinking at 10 am, he spent 99% of his time on the Pc wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:08 PM |
| 208 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.He is checking other women out, he is playing mind games with you (telling you that story so that you doubt yourself and convince yourself that you're not like the bad ex girlfriend who accuses him of stuff. He's basically triangulating you with her.) Dump him. Also, I've witnessed relationships where the woman accuses the man of checking out other women and he really isn't! This really does happen. But the difference is, those kinds of men don't open a new relationship with "I was a victim of f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:57 PM |
| 25 | My friend just posted this and it's so depressing.....Yeah, I do want to apologize to you and any of the other single moms out there who read my comments. I come on here to make fun of men and to help other women see men for the clowns they are, and to help them find the good men that are hiding like tiny pearls in the ocean of bad men, and sometimes I just run my mouth without thinking (though I must have been thinking a little bit because my subconscious did say "I'm probably an asshole for saying this" I need to listen to that little voice more … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:22 PM |
| 67 | My friend just posted this and it's so depressing.....I'm so sorry both for you and your son! That sounds like it was green flags all the way up and then... WHAT HAPPENED??? He was great with everyone else's kids, but not his own? That's not fair! What really sucks is I'm sitting here victim-blaming, telling women they need to vet better, when in reality we as a society should be shaming the ever-loving fuck out of these men to stop being shitty dads. Before we can even do that, society would first have to stop gaslighting everyone into believing t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:56 PM |
| 32 | My friend just posted this and it's so depressing.....I don't want this to get too OT but I get so angry when I think about the fact that so many women are programmed from birth to believe that they are incomplete unless they become mothers. So many of these women don't want to be mothers and resent their children, and so many of those children grow up miserable and traumatized. I'm sure you all talk about this stuff in the CF community all the time. It's literally the world's biggest pyramid scheme and nobody wants to admit it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:23 PM |
| 130 | My friend just posted this and it's so depressing.....It's not actually that the IQ itself decreases, it's more that your brain is dealing with so much stress and trauma that it wont prioritize the kind of things IQ tests test for, because it's too busy being in survival-mode. Once you are away from the stressor and have a chance and time to heal, that IQ score should pop right back up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:18 PM |
| 35 | My friend just posted this and it's so depressing.....You're right, there's no way to 100% know for sure. It's just a matter of picking up the red flags, but if the guy is super-smart and not dropping any, what are you supposed to do? The only thing I can think of would be to start dropping red flags myself. "The moment you fuck up, I will leave this baby with you and divorce you. Enjoy being a single dad." But playing chicken like that with an innocent child's life is cruel. What will you say to the kid when they are grown? "Your father was planni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:55 PM |
| 184 | My friend just posted this and it's so depressing.....LOL a triggered man-baby downvoted my last comment a second after I posted it. IDK why this particular topic is hurting their feelings so badly. If you hate kids, don't have kids. If you're sitting at home miserable with a wife and kids, lurking on Reddit downvoting on FDS, YOU are the problem, not your wife or kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:24 PM |
| 63 | My friend just posted this and it's so depressing.....Yeah, I keep seeing it over an over again on Reddit on so many different subs. These sociopaths pretend to be angels until they get the woman caught in the baby-trap and then their true personality comes out. Women have to be hyper-vigilant and never ignore a red flag. And always have a Plan-B (and Plan-C, and Plan-D, etc.) if they choose to marry and have kids. The man needs to know that the moment he starts acting like a piece of shit, she will be gone. Really the men have to be put in the pos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:16 PM |
| 217 | My friend just posted this and it's so depressing.....I'm probably an asshole for saying this because I'm never getting married or having kids, but I really feel like women should figure this out BEFORE they marry a guy and have his kids. Don't have kids with a man who doesn't care about you or the kid enough to do father stuff. And it shouldn't be just doing it like a chore. It should be a pleasure. He should LOVE getting to spend time with his little mini-me and helping him or her grow and become a mini-human. (I mean I know he's not going to lov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:15 AM |
| 258 | Funny?? - women are treated worse than pets."And then I told the whole internet about it because I need validation that this is normal and that every woman deals with the same thing and I shouldn't cry myself to sleep at night or contemplate divorce." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:01 AM |
| 92 | What’s the standard trade for the entire human being I pushed out of my vagina?That is a fantastic way of putting it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 08:41 AM |
| 248 | 122k likes on reddit 🤮If he cooks the meal, do the dishes. If he does the laundry, help him fold it. If he vacuums the carpet, change the vacuum bag. If he cleans the toilet, buy him a new toilet brush. Okay, where are my upvotes and internet prizes? I'm waiting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 06:53 AM |
| 558 | What’s the standard trade for the entire human being I pushed out of my vagina?I feel like the problem is becoming more and more apparent. Men want to be treated like queens and princesses too. They want us to take them out and buy them dinner and expensive presents and make them feel like the only girl in the world, but they don't want to go through the effort of shaving and waxing their entire body hair, putting on make up and cute clothes and perfume, making themselves sexually attractive to us by wearing tight and revealing clothes, and they aren't even capable of sexu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 06:40 AM |
| 21 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … VileAgreed. I really wish people would just completely ignore people like him and report, because every angry comment he gets just feeds him and makes him happier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:23 AM |
| 44 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???Exactly! He has to be giving off a vibe. Because usually, I feel like if a guy is out walking with his dog, he's not planning on robbing or attacking people, I even usually subconsciously associate "dog owners" into the category of "good people" (I suppose he might want to use his dog to attack the victims? But thankfully I have never heard of anyone actually doing this IRL) But this guy is creeping these women out. He is noticing them, first of all, and sometimes you can tell when you're walkin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:09 AM |
| 81 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … VileOh 100% he's not joking! He's just telling his truth in a passive-aggressive way while pretending "I'm just joking/trolling." He legit believes girls who don't provide sex on command are assholes who deserve violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:45 AM |
| 137 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … VileI went to Twitter and it's obvious he's doing it for trolling purposes (NOT AN EXCUSE anyone who would joke about this is a monster) and it's like Gabby's father (I'm specifically saying father because I saw his posts begging for Gabby's safe return, it was heartbreaking) and family and friends are on Twitter, they will see this. This piece of shit doesn't even care that he's hurting actual human beings who love this girl, because getting negative attention from trolling is more important to him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 11:55 PM |
| 82 | Pick me cultureMegan, sis, women have been wearing these sheer dresses for a few years now, nobody cares anymore. You're not doing anything with these outfits, especially nothing that benefits womankind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 04:09 PM |
| 36 | Update: I posted here a few days ago about a longtime male (now ex) friend in his 30’s randomly sexualizing my 13 yo daughter (check my post history for more details). Many of you prophecized that he would say “it was just a joke”. And well, received this from a mutual friend tonight.Oh it definitely was! Both a shit test and an attempt to groom! I saw it when he doubled down with the comment about her learning better after the older guy (I'm too disgusted to go back and check what exactly he said) but that part pissed me off so much!) If the first part was a "bad joke" then why double down and keep going once you see the "joke" didn't take? Gaslit isn't the correct term for it butit's a similar kind of thing bullies and abusers do when they keep repeating false info until y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:11 AM |
| 42 | Update: I posted here a few days ago about a longtime male (now ex) friend in his 30’s randomly sexualizing my 13 yo daughter (check my post history for more details). Many of you prophecized that he would say “it was just a joke”. And well, received this from a mutual friend tonight.Blocked by over 50 people! I love it! And nobody tried to defend his ass, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:02 AM |
| 8 | It’s not funnyMale grooming literally has a name: Toxic masculinity. "Female projection" is misogyny. It's called projection. The only results I get when I search online to see if this term actually exists are pick up artist sites and incel sites. You have some valid points regarding the inherent difference between men and women that I already I agree with but your insistence on continuing to be rude, condescending, disrespectful, and hostile means that I'm done engaging with you. Have yourself a fantastic da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 11:45 PM |
| 7 | It’s not funnyYes. Hostile. Negative. Rude. and Hurtful. Also misogynistic. There is no such thing as "female projection." It's just called projection. You are the one having the visceral reaction. The one projecting is you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:56 PM |
| 10 | It’s not funnySis, you read my entire comment. But I don't feel bad for them. We women were groomed to eat shit, but we all resisted and ended up here. The men can resist the grooming too. At this point they are just CHOOSING negativity and misery. Please don't turn FDS into a hostile place by doing things like this. "Stop the female projection." That's both rude and hurtful. There is nothing "projection" about saying that society grooms everyone, both men and women. Every single one of us, including you and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:12 PM |
| 39 | It’s not funny"Oh no! Can't have my friends thinking my girlfriend loves me and can't get enough of me!" These clowns need to just leave us all alone and go suck each other's dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 08:06 PM |
| 42 | It’s not funnyWhat's so amazing is that they could get plenty of POSITIVE emotional reactions just by being kind, caring, and sweet. I don't know what's happened to these scrotes in their childhoods, but somehow they learned to thrive off negative emotional reactions. They don't want a woman to squeal "Aww! That's so sweet! Thank you!!!" and hug them and shower them in kisses. They'd rather have a woman tense up, get mildly irritated and confused, and then get defensive. That's what makes their dicks hard. Be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:58 PM |
| 11 | It’s not funnyGet rid of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:54 PM |
| 170 | This is a new low…I don't understand how every single human being involved in the making of the cake topping isn't embarrassed? The woman for, well... * gestures at the fucking cake * WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS??? The man for being an overgrown toddler. The man's parents for raising an overgrown toddler, the woman's parents for raising a daughter to become a mommybangmaid to an overgrown toddler, the friends of the woman for allowing this to happen, the friends of the man for being friends with such a creature in the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:29 AM |
| 68 | No hiking dates— everWouldn't it be awesome to have a hiking woman-squad? Just a bunch of women and their dogs, hiking and protecting each other and not making each other miserable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 12:40 AM |
| 125 | No hiking dates— everSeriously, hiking used to be one of those words on dating websites (yes, before the apps, there were websites) that implied "I am a fit and healthy person and I need my partner to be too." If you saw hiking on there, it was safe to assume this was either a legit, granola-eating healthy lifestyle guy, or a faker who just puts hiking to sound fit on his profile, but has actually never hiked in his life except for walking up hill on grass that one time ten years ago. These men legit managed to FUCK… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 12:38 AM |
| 30 | Oh shit here’s another one😆 Scrotes big mad about this sub and my activity on it. See my last 2 posts in this sub for more context.AGAIN, scrotes, I just want to remind you that you are choosing to spend your weekend obsessing over a stranger on Reddit who has a child affected by covid. Somehow you have managed to make yourselves and your penises her victims and are now sending her fan mail about it. LOOK AT YOURSELVES, LOOK AT YOUR CHOICES. THIS IS WHY NOBODY WANTS YOU. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 12:29 AM |
| 16 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.RE: your update ON WHAT PLANET is accusing a 13 year old child of going to orgy sex parties a joke?? What kind of joke is that? It's a joke that only pedophiles would find funny. And honestly even pedophiles wouldn't find it funny, because what's funny about it? What part of it makes a person laugh? Where is the punchline? AND he doubled down and played stupid with the "knowing better after learning from the older dude" line. He's a fucking asshole who wanted to force his sick fantasy on you and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 11:57 PM |
| 55 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.THE FUCK? Nobody was having "petting parties" in the 2000's when he was a teenager! Especially not 13 year olds with college freshmen! There is something seriously wrong with this dude. This is some random idea he's picked up from somewhere and has been fantasizing about. I'm glad you said in your other comment that you blocked him now. This is not a normal thing for a normal person to say to anyone, least of all to a parent. Would he have said any of this shit to you if you were a man/father? H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 06:16 PM |
| 156 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.I'm so glad! This person does not belong in you or your daughter's life in any capacity!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 05:04 PM |
| 54 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.A petting party? I don't think those things have existed since the 50's or 60's? How old was this scrote? You should have said something like "You were petting 13-year-old girls as a college freshman?" and just given him the stinky up-and-down look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 05:02 PM |
| 37 | Some quotes that I feel are relevant in current times with liberal feminists and their ‘sex work is work’ propagandaI don't know if the anecdote is going to make sense, but these quotes reminded me of it. The scene is a 9 year old's birthday party with lots of moms/women gathered around at one table and lots of kids running around. One of the moms (a Regina George type) is just going on and on sucking all the air out of the room talking, and she punctuates her story with "Well, is the sky blue?" (in a "does a bear shit in the woods?" sort of way. The answer is meant to be an obvious YES!) and one of the kids … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 11:06 PM |
| 39 | “20/20 Report - Are Short Men at a Disadvantage in Romance?” Spoiler alert: yes, they are!Honestly I'm so sick of hearing about this short man shit. Charles Manson was 5'2 and he gathered a whole army of young hippie girls to pimp and have sex with and murder people with, and he was creepy, ugly as fuck, and had a prison record a mile long. If any of you watch Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, Tom Girardi, Erika's husband, is only 5'4. He's not only a famous millionaire lawyer, he's also 8 billion years old, looks like a wrinkled old scrotum with liverspots, and is currently facing m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:34 AM |
| 596 | “Coersion isn’t Consent”You can add nagging along with the whining. These men will literally throw a tantrum like a 2 year old toddler at the grocery store candy bar aisle until they nag and wear a woman out with their incessant sniveling. And then they have the nerve to gaslight themselves into believing that the woman wanted it and enjoyed it because she finally said okay after ten thousand no's. AND THEN they have the nerve to attach the word "nagging" to women. Men are the kings of the nag. When women nag you they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:17 AM |
| 141 | Remember ladies, it's not misogyny if it makes your peepee hard! Can't believe I'm an anti misogyny sub people are still spewing this bullshitHate to break it to the guys lurking here, but any "woman" you talk to on that sub is either a dude with a sexual degradation or being a sissy fetish, and/or a dude who gets off on sexually fooling other dudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:21 PM |
| 18 | Vent: Pick me relatives are absolutely depressing why the hell are you valuing male validation over your sexual and physical health?I don't understand her texts. Is she disappointed that she isn't pregnant yet after having unprotected sex with three men? I think you need to get away from her, but don't ghost her, either calmly explain (if she lets you) or write a letter or long text or something and explain to her why she is toxic to you, to herself, to everyone else, and to her future children, and why you need to hit pause of this friendship until she can pull her shit together and act like a proper human being and not lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 05:49 PM |
| 7 | Hotels in Turkey are banning men from staying without women because "they're harassing girls to try and hook up with"No such country exists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:36 PM |
| 13 | Men use the evolutionary psychology argument as a tool to prevent societal changeWhenever a man starts talking about one of the beloved evolutionary psychology topics, I go full Regina George on them and say "So you agree that you're a pedophile?" That usually takes the wind out of their sails real fast, though the ones that double-down and start mansplaining about how it's natural for over-the-hill men to lust over 12-year-olds really show their asses. All I have to reply is "So... yeah. You're a pedophile." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:31 PM |
| 174 | I don't give a shit about what men think or what men care for in a womanYou know what? 99% of the time, the people who said this kind of shit to me were older women who were trying to police me and my behavior. Like sis, it's none of your business if I'm fuckable enough for a man. Stop playing handmaiden to his penis and fuck off. And you never hear older women OR older men telling men to police themselves based on what women want. Even pick-up artists don't teach each other to mold themselves into what women want. They teach each other to manipulate women and make … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 05:35 PM |
| 53 | Dating your friend is okay in the FDS strategy book?The 8.5 seconds is not "falling in love" it's falling in lust. You can't love someone you don't know. And I don't know about 14 days for women, because I've fallen in lust in 1.5 seconds. Teenage hormones are a hell of a drug. On the flip side, ideally the people you date should be people you are either already friends or acquaintances with. Dating strangers will never stop being weird to me. I understand what you mean by "if he wanted to, he would" and yeah that's kind of "hmmmm.... suspicious"… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 04:59 PM |
| 88 | Thoughts on long-distance? UPDATEI only realized after re-reading that he was expecting you to sit there with your legs closed for 5 YEARS. He wanted to spend literally ages 23, 24, 25, 26, and 27 not dating, not having sex, not having any fun, not with him and not with anyone. LIKE.... ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME? Those are your 20's! So many people would give anything to be able to re-live those years again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:10 PM |
| 108 | Where is the lie?I guess I'm too old for this kind of humor. I couldn't get past the "girl, you saw how he's living and you crawled into that floor bed and had sex with him anyway and now you're surprised??" thing. Ladies, you know that little voice in the back of your head that keeps whispering to you "Don't judge a book by the cover. Give him the benefit of the doubt. If you don't give him a chance you're a bad person." TELL THAT VOICE TO SHUT THE FUCK UP, AND RUN. This is literally like picking up a dirty mol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:08 PM |
| 525 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?It's so confusing to me. Do the LVM want to get married at 24/25 nowadays? Because these are the same clowns that get upset when their 24/25 year old girlfriend wants to get married and have kids. SO then they should stop dating the 24/25 year old marriage-ready women and let the 35+ year old men have them, and they should focus on standing outside of the high school and trying to find the 18-19 year old girls. (I am not serious about this last part. SCROTES DON'T DO THIS. THOSE BABIES DON'T WAN… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 10:05 PM |
| 51 | Anyone else thinks advices from tradwives are terribleI didn't know anyone took clownwives seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:35 PM |
| 48 | Some 'men' chime in on who should pay...The pickmes are the most hilarious of all. SIS IT LITERALLY DOES NOT AFFECT YOU. It actually benefits you. If all of us food prostitutes are eliminating ourselves out of the dating pool, you have more scrotes you can pay their dinner for them to show what a cool girl you are! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:38 PM |
| 22 | Woman says she prefers big dicks and you can imagine how the response is.Yeah actually you're not the first person I've heard this from, that men with huge dicks have ED problems in that they have a hard time keeping it erect and often can't ever get fully 90 degrees hang a towel off of it level of erect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:25 PM |
| 13 | Some 'men' chime in on who should pay...I don't know how old you are or where you're from but you've probably just never met any "masculine energy" men. These are the kind of men who take pride in working hard and protecting and providing for a woman and family, this doesn't just include wife and kids but also parents and even siblings, nieces, and nephews. To them, a woman offering to pay is like a personal insult. They are the providers, they pay. It's a huge part of their identity and how they view themselves as manly men. The majo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:22 PM |
| 116 | Guys Always Seem to Think I’m So in Love with Them I Won’t Cut Ties, Even When I Hated ThemBecause they create a fake romanticized version of you in their heads, and anytime you coincidentally act like that, it validates them, and every time you don't act like that, they ignore it because it doesn't validate them, so they end up never really knowing the real you. I've dated guys like this and it's amazing how little work you have to do, you can just sit there and go "yes" and "uh-huh" and "and then what happened?" and nod and smile every few minutes, and the you that lives in their im… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 01:31 PM |
| 119 | When he says he needs at least ten years to think if I’m “the one” for him. 😂🤡Does he think he's immortal or something? Say you're both 20, he waits until he is 30, decides you ain't it, taps out. The next lady he dates from 30-40, taps out, the next lady 40-50 taps out, the fourth lady 50-60... Wow! She's the one! 4th one's the charm. Okay they get married, have kids. They're both 60... Now what??? Wait for retirement (only a few years away!) buy an RV and tour the country? I know I'm just joking about an extreme scenario here but if you are so stupid that it takes you 1… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 10:45 AM |
| 129 | Why are some men’s egos so damn fragile?I really don't understand the logic because they are setting themselves up to fail. When has "hey baby how are you?" worked EVER? Even a really hot male-model type of guy standing on the street corner screaming that at women would creep people out. It just gives off creepy vibes. You immediately think "there must be something wrong with him if he thinks this kind of behavior is okay." Unless maybe if you have extreme pickmeisha-itis and ANY kind of male attention at all makes the happy chemicals… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 05:30 AM |
| 435 | How do you come to peace with the money you spent on an LVM?That was the tuition you had to pay to learn that men ain't shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:45 AM |
| 80 | Some 'men' chime in on who should pay...Any man who is stupid enough that he needs to be explained why he should be paying is an LVM. If you live on Planet Earth in the year 2021, you know why you need to pay. If you genuinely don't know, you are not fit to date. If you are a man and you view women as opponents who need to be defeated, and leeches who deserve to be resented, you've already lost the game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:27 AM |
| 161 | Some 'men' chime in on who should pay...He's so hostile and angry. I think someone needs to explain to men that they do not have to go out on dates with women if they don't want to. No one is forcing them. They are free to remain single for the rest of their lives. They are free to date other men and suck each others dick and split the bill or take turns or whatever they like. They are free to jerk off to porn until their dicks fall off. They are free to purchase sex dolls from the internet (but those ladies won't pay for themselves e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:21 AM |
| 170 | Some 'men' chime in on who should pay...And they're all speaking about paying for the "first date" meaning in the future they expect to woman to pay... What in the actual fuck happened to this generation of men? They have no masculine energy or instincts whatsoever. They are all just passive betas waiting for alpha mommies to baby them. And the clown in the clown car blurting out "if we're all equal why do men have to pay??" like he just said something so profound. The reason is because we're not all equal, Steve. That's the reason. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:49 AM |
| 70 | Difference in social class and family. Should I do LDR?You are 23. Go live your life. You are going to meet so many other men. Why settle for the one with the mother who already plans on living with you? Stop feeling guilty. You only have one life to live. You will only be 23 for 365 days. You don't owe these people even one second of your life. This traditional mama is already making plans to suck the soul out of her son's future wife. Don't let it be you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:15 PM |
| 370 | Woman says she prefers big dicks and you can imagine how the response is.Just hear me out. I completely 100% blame this dick size discourse on men. It was them that started with the 6-inch, 8-inch, 10-inch discourse in the first place. The average human male dick is allegedly 5.16 inches. I say allegedly because it has been scientifically proven that men WILL lie about dick size even to scientists, so the only trustworthy numbers are from studies where the researchers themselves measured the erect penises rather than taking the men's word for it. But men couldn't jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:07 PM |
| 69 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?Socially, women are only allowed to voice two preferences in the first place: height, and penis size. Anything else we try to complain about (fat, bald, ugly, lack of job, undesirable hobbies) society gets weird about it. Men can't complain about us complaining about penis size because then they'll out themselves as a member of the teeny-peeny club. But we can already see with our own eyes if they are short, so that's a safe topic to use to point out how shallow and evil we are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 07:57 PM |
| 694 | Women aren't morally obligated to have babies.I never see these men bleating about enforcing the fathers of these babies to step up, marry the women and be a full-time father to the baby. It's almost like all these women are having immaculate conceptions or something. HOLD THE MEN RESPONSIBLE. IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO. Why do these men insist on having a nation full of broke-ass single mothers and fatherless children? If they care about the children so much, their #1 goal should be to urge men to stop being pieces of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 02:17 AM |
| 76 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himBack when I was dumb enough to share my location, this guy tried to flirt with me online. I already had a boyfriend, I just went on his profile to see who TF he was out of curiosity, and saw that he had commented to one of his friends "I need some vagoo." Vagoo. .... VAGOO! The fuck??? Like, are you kidding me? Anyone who calls it vagoo is never getting the vagoo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 08:24 PM |
| 21 | My mother’s analogy on BDSMI think people really need to accept the fact that "Consent" isn't a magic word that erases all culpability. I consented to going to school and doing homework as a kid because I had no choice. Consenting isn't the same as actually wanting to do something. A lot of the time, Consent is coercion. Because the coercion is so complex and multifaceted and nuanced and sometimes needs a long explanation into the psychology of the consenter and the relationship dynamic, people just choose to ignroe it al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 08:14 PM |
| 70 | My mother’s analogy on BDSMLOL this is true. They want to be the baby that opens his mouth while the mommy lands the airplane inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:48 PM |
| 88 | Men who date multiple womenLook, dating didn't used to be like this. Everything happening right now is so extremely unnatural. To meet random strangers online and chatting for a minute and then going out somewhere alone with them. That is weird and unsafe as fuck. Back in the day, when communities were closer, you either grew up in the same town as the people you ended up dating, so you knew them back when they were eating boogers in kindergarten, or you knew them through school, or someone else in your circle knew them f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:20 PM |
| 96 | My mother’s analogy on BDSMIt always amazes me when people who are THIS LEVEL of looney-tunes somehow manage to find each other. I can't even find someone with the same first name as me (and it's a pretty common one for my birth year.) Their brains need to be studied for science. I'm not making a joke, I'm really amazed by this. There are guys out there going "boohoohoo I'm an incel forever alone!" and then there is the guy that's like "I want to find someone who will consent to me eating them and watching them die slowly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:04 PM |
| 6 | Even China knows the detrimental effects of too much video games and they are protecting the next generation. Our millennial addicted men however are addicted to the point of reneging on adult responsibilities and sharing choresHoly fuck, and none of these are even the guy I'm talking about! Reading through them I remembered he was playing Starcraft also. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:06 PM |
| 10 | Even China knows the detrimental effects of too much video games and they are protecting the next generation. Our millennial addicted men however are addicted to the point of reneging on adult responsibilities and sharing choresThank you! I hate when I can't verify something with an actual source, but someone else in the thread actually knows what I'm talking about!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:45 PM |
| 124 | Another scrote exploiting a teenager.If I can tell women one thing: STOP WORRYING ABOUT HIS FEELINGS. HE IS NOT WORRYING ABOUT YOURS. He knows you are unhappy and uncomfortable and he does not give a fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 29 | Even China knows the detrimental effects of too much video games and they are protecting the next generation. Our millennial addicted men however are addicted to the point of reneging on adult responsibilities and sharing choresI think it was a Korean guy, but I'm not sure. He held his piss so long while playing his game that he passed out and died. Those games really do something addictive to your brain. The happy chemicals you get from playing override all your body's other signals, even if it's a medical emergency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:46 PM |
| 275 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveI love so many people and so many people love me. I also love plants and animals, and food and books and TV shows and cities, and places, and so many fucking things. My life is filled with love. How much is the love of a man going to add, really? Scrotes who are reading this, how much is your love worth to me? Is it as delicious as a slice is pizza? Is it as precious as the purr of a cat? Is it as beautiful as the roses that I grew with my own hands? Really who the fuck are you that I should low… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:40 PM |
| 129 | Alfred Molina dates younger woman while his wife wastes awaySuch a fairytale ending to rot away with alzheimers in a home somewhere while your husband dates other women. I'm not saying he needed to crawl up her ass an be like the guy from The Notebook. Everyone needs to take care of their own mental health, but don't fucking word it like "fairytale ending." When Alfred Molina is 83 and shitting in a diaper in a home somehwere and this lady starts dating her aerobics instructor, will his family call that a "fairytale ending" too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 12:07 PM |
| 65 | Stumbled across this… 😷Imagine being so proud of the mess you made that you see fit to brag about it on the internet. LIKE, seriously were you THAT TRAUMATIZED by you mother telling you to clean your fucking room when you were growing up that you developed a coping mechanism that made being a dirty disgusting piece of shit your entire personality? There are so many homeless people out there and so many people living in abusive situations that would love to have a room with four walls to call their own, and they would … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 09:30 AM |
| 93 | Cheating isn't okay butttttt FIANCE of 11 years? Bro you basically asked her to leave. Court marriages are still valid & cheap. There's no excuse for this.If you have a "Fiance of 11 years" barring some extremely extreme scenario (fiance in a coma/ kidnapped by aliens/ idk) you are both assholes. The one in control is an asshole for dicking the other one along for 11 years, and the one who's been waiting for the wedding for 11 years is an asshole for allowing a clown to waste 11 years of their lives. We are not immortal. 11 years IS A LOT. Those are years you will never get back that you could have spent with someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 09:24 AM |
| 495 | No. No thank you. Please don't. Don't give stalkers more toolsReason #232424735345 why no pictures of me exist on the internet or social media. Because people literally have no chill. This is disgusting. Maybe I will never stop wearing my covid mask, IDK. I just want the whole world to leave me alone for fuck's sake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:52 PM |
| 356 | She’s only asking this because she know deep down her fiancé sucks and she’s settling. Why not wait until you’re no longer students?Traditionally, the entire point of the ring was to provide some sort of financial security for the woman. If an emergency scenario came up, she could sell it and support herself for a few months until she got on her feet. That's why the more expensive the ring is, the better. Unfortunately, it doesn't sound like this clown can even afford to buy her a ring pop, let alone an actual ring. He doesn't care about her future or her financial security. The point is, he can get a ring from Claire's for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:35 PM |
| 64 | VC Andrews laying down some truths! From My Sweet Audrina (book 1)But... I thought sex workers were so empowered, so how can whore be an insult??? These people always show their asses so quickly. A profession which is also an insult can never be empowering. No one ever uses doctor, or electrician as an insult. Used car salesman, or janitor, or McDonalds/Target employee maybe, but even that's frowned upon and viewed as classist and in poor taste to insult people who are working hard to make a living. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:28 AM |
| 53 | Can we make ‘Weaponized Incompetence’ a flair? A dangerous hurricane is on its way and hubby pretends he can’t do something as simple as buy nonperishables from the store for his familyhear me out - this woman and this man deserve each other, 100%. She deserves a clown that mocks her by buying bags of celery during a deadly emergency, and he deserves a clown that laughs like a chihuahua in heat and advertises his stupidity all over tiktok. The only people who don't deserve this are those poor children. They deserve a father who cares about them and his #1 priority is to make sure they are safe and well-fed, and emotionally secure and un-stressed during this emergency, and a mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 06:40 AM |
| 48 | we need to protect our girls from predators. it's sick to romanticize student-teacher relationships!When you're a 14 year old girl who feels fat and ugly and friendless, and your home life is shit and your mom is so far up her own ass, she barely knows you exist, your siblings are getting all the attention due to being fuck-ups, your dad is too busy fucking other women to be a father to you or maybe he's not a part of your life at all, the kids in school either bully you or are indifferent to you, all the hot guys are dating the hot girls and not even looking your way, and your hormones have y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 08:03 PM |
| 75 | Dude makes 6x more and refuses to adjust the 50/50 budget100% I kept getting completely mixed messages. "Boys/men only want ONE thing, and you're a whore if you give it to them." but also "Your entire life's purpose is to get married and shit out babies." OH? You mean get married to and have babies with the men who only want one thing? Because from one side of your mouth you are telling me that these are horrible people and that I will become horrible by association, and from the other side of your mouth you're telling me my destiny is to mate with on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 05:20 PM |
| 393 | Dude makes 6x more and refuses to adjust the 50/50 budgetI get so angry at the adults in these women's lives who COULD have taught them these important life skills (like not being taken advantage of by a gold-digging man) but chose not to, because gaslighting the woman into believing that she would be an absolutely worthless lump of flesh without a man was more important. The fact that the man is making her life objectively worse? * BIG SHRUG * | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 01:31 PM |
| 704 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingMen can literally fuck a trashcan, a poo filled butthole, or even an animal and still get it up, but they can't get it up for their own wives' "down there" region. If it's THAT "disfigured" he should be concerned for her health and see if she wants to go to a doctor to make sure everything is okay. Notice he doesn't mention how SHE FEELS about her own "down there." Her opinion doesn't matter, her health doesn't matter. Only his pee-pee matters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:10 AM |
| 51 | Expose them early and often!We really need a flair that says "Scrotes cockblocking themselves." Literally all this clown had to do was call you, set up a date, and take you on the date. Instead, he chose to do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 05:41 AM |
| 6 | Buddha supports FDSThat does make me feel better! Thank you!🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 09:33 AM |
| 53 | I…am speechlessPlease tell me they roasted the fuck out of him. There is no excuse to be this stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 04:58 AM |
| 238 | Beware when researching fitness instructorsMen are so pathetic and embarrassing. Imagine spending so much time and energy sexualizing a stranger and finding anonymous internet friends to do it with. Like......... These men could be spending all this time and energy making the world a better place, but instead they are dedicated to making the world a worse place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 04:53 AM |
| 7 | Buddha supports FDSSometimes I really hope God is real so that the people who use religion to abuse others go to the extra special part of hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 04:49 AM |
| 216 | Buddha supports FDSAnd notice how he specifies better or at least equal. LVM are always on the hunt for lesser women that they can manipulate and control and feel smarter than. Buddha encourages men to find women better than them, or equal. And this was written over 2,000 years ago! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 01:59 PM |
| 169 | Thanks to FDS men's language classes, I now know that what this means is "we want to be useless and play video games our entire lives so we're victimising ourselves."Have these clowns not been watching all the Disney Princess movies we were forced to watch? Their entire job is to be prince charming and then they get all the love and adoration from their princess, and their future children. It's right there, the roadmap to eternal true love has been handed to them on a silver platter. Every fucking Hollywood rom-com is like this. Women are brainwashed from the day we're born into this end-goal. Meanwhile this clown is like "boohoohoo nobody loves me for who I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:46 AM |
| 20 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.I wish there was a way to forward this to his place of work so that all his coworkers can mock him mercilessly for being an "alpha professional" (and for being a creep.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:40 AM |
| 76 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.Tell me you're a total piece of shit without telling me you're a total piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 03:39 AM |
| 413 | Men actually do know how dangerous other men can beYou can tell how little they trust other men by how they react when their female relatives try to date one. It's become a meme, how older brothers are supposed to act like possessive brutes towards their sister's boyfriend, and how fathers are supposed to threaten their daughter's boyfriend with a shotgun, and how sons don't want their moms to date, because they all know who men truly are, especially towards women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 11:57 PM |
| 19 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑I'm so sorry. I've witnessed it with my own eyes. People will post videos of literal ex-pornstars wha are trying to explain what they went through, and people who've never lived a day of that life will be tearing those women to shreds in the comments. It's so cruel. They want to support sex workers but only if they say things they agree with. That's not how it works. Supporting sex workers means they call the shots, not you. If an ex-sex-worker says their negative opinion, you shut up and you li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 04:52 AM |
| 290 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.Can a man who spent years viewing women as moist holes change? Can a man who spent years viewing women as prey and as conquests change? Can a man who thinks sticking his dick into as many women as possible with zero regard to their feelings as success change? Can a man who's had sex with 100 women but given an orgasm to 0 change? Can a man who views bragging to himself and other men about all the sex he has as more satisfying than actually having the sex, change? (I will give an example of this.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 96 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑I hate that "supporting sex work" is the new purity test now. If you stick a toe out of line and say you'd rather these women (and men) have the option to not do sex work if they don't want to, and that it sucks that their livelihood depends on sex work, and that they don't really have a choice, and without choice, you can't have true consent, you are a monster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:03 PM |
| 66 | A Pickme's LifeI never understand why some women feel the need to embarrass themselves on the internet like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 02:59 AM |
| 32 | I don't like women with stretchmarks!Seriously, I hate that as a society we've gaslighted ourselves into believing that stretch marks is a woman-only issue. Men have stretch marks too. On their asses, on their bellies, on their armpits, on their lower backs, on their hips, on their inner thighs. They don't even have to be fat. If they grow tall too fast, it happens. If they work out and build muscle too fast, it happens. It's very common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 123 | If anyone gives you a backhanded compliment or neg at the start of a conversation, walk away...When I was very young, I had no idea how to handle this type of unexpected hostility or passive-aggression, especially from people I barely knew or had just met, so my defense mechanism was to just play dumb and act like I had no clue I was being insulted. I would even thank them, and smile and remain super-polite. Of course, this only made them more hostile towards me and angry because their 'clever joke' was a complete waste, and also caused them to underestimate me and convince themselves tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:51 AM |
| 31 | A therapist and coach shares her dating advice. What do y’all think of this? Screams massive pick me vibes to me.There is a HUGE DIFFERENCE between 'he's not a texter' and 'I wouldn't hear from him for days.' That's point one. Point two is, why settle? If I want vanilla ice cream, why should I settle for chocolate? I want the ice cream that texts me every day, not the ice cream that I don't hear from for days. The advice here is to put down the ice cream that isn't compatible with what you need, and go find the ice cream that is. Anyone telling you to lower your standards and just eat the ice cream you don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 02:29 AM |
| 723 | Is she high maintenance tho?Even platonic female friends say "I'm going to get food, do you want anything?" Even if it's not "I will buy it for you," it's "Give me the money and I will purchase it for you and bring it back so that you can eat too." This guy is so incredibly selfish, he can't even do this tiny courtesy. But I also have to say, "Sis, he told you this is how he was all the way from the beginning. Why did you think you could change him? When a guy tells you about himself, BELIVE HIM." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 03:25 PM |
| 7 | Label TimeStop giving control to the guy. It's up to you to decide this. You go out with a guy on an X amount of dates, you interact with him on the phone, and then you evaluate. Do you want to keep him as your boyfriend, or not? If not, get rid of him. If you do want to keep him but he hasn't made any move to go exclusive and call you "my girlfriend" you need to re-evaluate, if you arrived at the boyfriend-girlfriend stage, and he's still trying to dick around in the 'let's not label things' stage, get r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 06:24 PM |
| 7 | Are you kidding me?? Men can't do the bare minimum for their partners... even just take off their socks during sex.Holy fuck he wants to keep his socks on so bad he needed to make a post on Reddit about it? The fuck is wrong with you? It's SOCKS. Literally nobody on this entire planet gives a fuck except you. And the only reason you care is either because you have ugly feet with foot fungus that reek, or because it got on your nerves that she complained so now you have to be stubborn and never take your socks off ever again because you can't let her win because it's just the principle of the thing. Grow up, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 04:02 PM |
| 27 | Does seeking marriage decrease your chances of ending up with a man who's not serious about committing to you?This is what I don't understand. If we come out and say "I'm looking for marriage and children," we're the assholes. If we say "I just want to be dicked down by dudes, no strings attached," that's a red flag. (Even though this is actually what they want to do to us. It's just too confusing if they actually hear it.) The only thing we're allowed to say is "Oh, I just want to keep it casual, let's see where it goes" and where do you think it's going to go, George? Either you're going to waste our … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 03:56 PM |
| 19 | "Like a toddler at a dentist's office"-- and this pick me thinks it's cute 🤢Yes, they do this with pets too, cats, dogs.................... Babies.... Something to keep her occupied and stuck while he goes out and does whatever he wants. I'm so glad you were able to get out of this situation and be able to look back and see the truth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 07:59 AM |
| 820 | TW: rape - OP doesn't KNOW WHAT TO DO and feels KINDA uncomfortable when her bf openly talks about her being his slave!! RUN!!!! THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD DO!!!! I can't believe my eyes reading this post!!!Women in Afghanistan are losing everything, meanwhile this prick's dick is getting hard. And this poor girl has been raised completely unprepared to deal with depraved pieces of shit like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 05:47 AM |
| 32 | "Like a toddler at a dentist's office"-- and this pick me thinks it's cute 🤢She is so proud of it too. She's announcing to the whole planet that she's a clingy person who would crawl up her boyfriend's asshole otherwise so it's adorable that he got her a video game to keep her occupied. Look at that smile on her face? She loves it. Have some respect for yourself, sis. This is so embarrassing for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 05:42 AM |
| 49 | The vindication of the prudeThe only "downside" is that people who don't respect your boundaries show their asses by trying to shame you for being one, which might be uncomfortable in the moment, but then you just distance yourself from them later. If someone keeps coming at you and nagging at you and you can't get away, just own it "Yes, I'm a prude. I'm a horrible person. You should get away from me before my prudishness rubs off on you." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 05:35 AM |
| 71 | Does seeking marriage decrease your chances of ending up with a man who's not serious about committing to you?Edit #2: Interesting how men are never admonished and told pushing for sex will "scare women off" and "you have to get to know each other first." This is so true! It's amazing isn't it? It's awesome that you're waiting until you find someone you actually trust. Here is one way I scared off scrotes, I would ask: "So are you even capable of giving a woman an orgasm? Have you ever done that?" and watch them get painted into a corner and squirm. Every single one of them that took up the challenge wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 05:04 AM |
| 201 | Does seeking marriage decrease your chances of ending up with a man who's not serious about committing to you?There's no way I'm going to be able to find the screen caps now because this was over 5+ years ago, but I remember seeing an interaction on OLD that went something like this: Woman: Did you read my profile? Scrote: (says scroty thing that indicates that he did not.) Woman: You should read it. Scrote: (makes scroty joke and goes off to read it.) Scrote: LMAO you're crazy, man. You put on your profile that you're looking for marriage? (blah blah blah negging negging) Woman: I'm here to find a dece… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 04:03 AM |
| 238 | Men nag for sex. Your job is to not reward it.The minute he gets naggy and whiny, leave. He is showing you his true personality. He was the little brat who flung himself to the floor and started crying at Walmart when his mom wouldn't buy him the Snickers bar. He's been rewarded for this shit behavior his whole life, and he's banking on it working on you too. That you will just give in to him to make him stop. It is not your job to fix this behavior, just get up and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 02:01 AM |
| 32 | FDS position on lube?The issue isn't the lube, some women need it due to medical reasons. The issue is men using lube as a short-cut and skipping over foreplay and everything else that would get a women wet naturally, AND THEN ON TOP OF THAT blaming the woman for being "inexperienced." The issue is that women have been trained by society to have sex with men they aren't attracted to when they're not even aroused. When I was younger, it was drilled into our heads that sex will hurt and you will bleed the first time N… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 02:37 PM |
| 609 | I feel like more of our message is getting out there!!The family wants an apology? LMAO What kind of family is this? Centering themselves in the son's break up? A clown family! He seriously ran to mommy and daddy and cried because big sis wouldn't let him financially abuse his girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 03:07 AM |
| 189 | I feel like more of our message is getting out there!!Yes, I need him to explain this logic to the sister and family. How is she supposed to pay for things with imaginary money? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 03:04 AM |
| 41 | Made a 3 min tiktok about how dangerous life is for women, and pointing out actual male privileges. I pointed out that even if men actually experience more violent crimes, those crimes are pulled off by... MEN.It's incredible to me how irresponsible and selfish these men are. They are willing to doom their own child to be trapped with a woman they hate for 18 years (but really a lifetime) in exchange for a few minutes of bad sex and an orgasm. And then they have the nerve to play victim. THE CHILD is the victim, not you! You did this to yourself. Don't have sex with anyone you wouldn't want as a parent to your child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 02:24 AM |
| 10 | "Activity dates are best for first dates because they enable you to get to know each other better and in a lower-stress manner": solid dating advice or liable to make women lower their standards?Ah! Good point! Last time I played a board game, I must have been 12! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 01:01 AM |
| 17 | "Activity dates are best for first dates because they enable you to get to know each other better and in a lower-stress manner": solid dating advice or liable to make women lower their standards?Maybe a board game or something, or playing cards with another couple. Something calm and relaxing so you can actually play and talk at the same time. That would be fun. Double-dates are so underrated! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:33 AM |
| 8 | In a post asking reddit to ban incel subs after an incel shooting in the UK, comments that FDS needs to be bannedThese clowns are operating under the idea that if your repeat a lie long enough, and enough idiots believe it without checking for themselves, then in effect, the lie will become the truth. Unfortunately there are too many dum-dums out there who won't check for themselves, and even more that are personally invested in perpetuating the lie, even though they themselves know it to be false info. They are weak men, they can't win against the truth. The only thing they can do is point their finger at… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:31 AM |
| 80 | "Activity dates are best for first dates because they enable you to get to know each other better and in a lower-stress manner": solid dating advice or liable to make women lower their standards?Absolutely not. I want to sit my ass down and concentrate and actually get to know a person. I don't want to be sweating and climbing up rocks, or trying to shout over people at a noisy arcade or whatever bullshit. If they want to go on an activity date, they can follow me around in the mall and hold my purse while I go shopping. The fuck I'm gonna go on an activity date?? Don't make me laugh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 126 | Made a 3 min tiktok about how dangerous life is for women, and pointing out actual male privileges. I pointed out that even if men actually experience more violent crimes, those crimes are pulled off by... MEN.They have reproductive rights. They have the right to wear a condom, get a vasectomy, and not ejaculate inside of women. They have the right to not fuck. They have the right to talk to a woman BEFORE they fuck and explain that they do not what children. They DON'T have the right to tell a woman what to do with her own body after the fact. I 100% frown upon women insisting on having the child of a man who says they do not want the child, because every child deserves a good father who wants them. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:32 PM |
| 32 | What do you all think about this?So she traded one violent clown for another. This is not a cute story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:03 PM |
| 82 | “wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?”LOOK. You never have to answer this question, because the moment a man asks it, he is telling you "I am a scrote. I am not worth your time." If you are on online, block instantly. If somehow someone has the nerve to say this to you IRL, laugh in their face, get up and leave. You don't need to have the last word. You don't need to explain your worth to a clown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:46 PM |
| 8 | This was shared by a pickme who is currently the target of a NVM I and my friend group recently cut off due to his gf finally breaking up with him and sharing all the messed up stuff he did to her. This type of thinking will lead u right into the arms of an abuser. Save your best for yourself.You know what? I don't see the good in women like this. They are selfish and delusional. They act like they are being selfless and open-minded by giving "the devil" a chance, and they want to be praised and celebrated just like a munchausen-by-proxy mom, but the truth is, they have let hormones hijack their brains, they are in lust with the guy, and their vagina is at the wheel. They don't see "the good in everybody" or else they would give the weird, ugly "nice guy" a chance. Somehow, magically… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:06 PM |
| 223 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑Society already has a script for a proper date in place for over a century now. It used to be called "Dinner and a movie" but now we don't even ask for the movie, we just do the dinner. It's a fool-proof way for the two people involved to vet each other. This is a script that both the men and the women for the previous generations agreed to. But noooooooo. Scrotes of 2021 need to reinvent the wheel and go on dates where they stand outside in the scorching heat, trying to teach a woman how to loo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:07 PM |
| 26 | This man does not deserve to have sex. Also note the age gapHe said this to her in the middle of sex??? "STOP. GET THE FUCK OUT OF ME RIGHT NOW. GRAB YOUR SHIT. GET OUT." This level of disrespect cannot be tolerated. Limp-dick having cock-strangler probably grips his own dick so hard, he's got no feeling left on his pencil dick so he wants to use your butthole? No, bitch. Go get yourself a boyfriend if you want anal. Get the fuck out of here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 03:59 PM |
| 27 | What's the most insane thing you've heard from a pickme friend?I will never understand how so many women got conned into thinking handing out free vagina = sticking it to the patriarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 04:10 PM |
| 61 | What's the most insane thing you've heard from a pickme friend?This is really heart-breaking and I'm not making fun of her at all. I was just so horrified when she said this. For context, she is a single mother with 3 different kids from 2 different fathers, and at the time she was with a new fuckboy who she considered a boyfriend but he didn't consider her anything and she was aware of this. I was talking to her about how I don't want kids, and she goes: "You should have kids. It's good to have someone love you. They have to love you, they have no choice."… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 04:08 PM |
| 394 | Why should men pay for anything?I'm cut pasting this from a comment I made a month ago: When men start putting on makeup and getting their hair and nails done and eyebrows waxed, and wearing tight clothes and special underwear to make their bulges and butts look nice and perky for us, and waxing their assholes just in case we feel like digging around back there, maybe then we can talk about going halfsies. When men start to fear that we could just take them someplace and do whatever we want and get them pregnant, and they have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:52 PM |
| 66 | Confused pickmeishas on social mediaLike... "Sir? Who hurt you?" Scrote sobs and points "It... It was Olive Garden!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 02:05 PM |
| 281 | Confused pickmeishas on social mediaThere are two types of men: those who treat you like a human, and those that make memes crying about having to take a woman to Olive Garden. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 12:12 PM |
| 116 | Scrote goes to brothel and gets serviced by his obviously miserable friend. Reports on reddit for awards and mostly pats on the back.Yeah, this is fake. "You did not even choose me on purpose..." How does she know this? Is she psychic? And they live in Holland but writing emails to each other in English and she's giving permission to post on Reddit? Like..................... Also, why is he struggling to pay uni fees when the system is very different in Holland? https://www.studyinholland.co.uk/tuition_fees.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:02 AM |
| 125 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!So they admit it. They are content with being losers and angry that we won't lower our standards for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 02:53 AM |
| 156 | Man leaves girl for someone else but tells her she still owes him her virginitySociety breaks us down to the point where we can't even say 'I don't want to have sex with you.' I feel so bad for her, and how clueless she is, and how disgustingly entitled he is. She cares so much for his feelings, he sees her as a fleshlight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 02:30 AM |
| 92 | Scrote keeps gf as bangmaid, grossed out by her wanting future with him?Honestly, they both are the problem here. He told her straight up that he doesn't want marriage + children, and like many women I've known, she's saying yes yes yes while secretly thinking that if she waits long enough, he will change his mind. Meanwhile HE KNOWS that this is the case, his gut is literally screaming RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG at him, but he needs to keep his pp wet, so he's dicking her along until the very last second before the big dump-a-roo. Women need to listen when men say … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 10:27 PM |
| 85 | Leveled up, but feeling alone: everyone I meet seems to be a LVM or LVWI'm so sorry you're surrounded by negative and insecure people who need you to fail so that they can feel better about themselves, but I'm glad you realize it. Maybe there are women like yourself at the gym that you can befriend? Or at your workplace? It doesn't even have to be specifically from your office. Depending where you work (for example, a building with many offices, or a street with many offices similar to what you do) there is bound to be other successful high-value women just like yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 02:36 PM |
| 67 | I despise the way the porn industry has made it normal to be abused.I really don't understand why oral sex has become so normalized when it gives ZERO PYHSICAL SEXUAL PLEASURE to women. I mean, that's a lie, I do understand why. We live in a society where girls are PRESSURED to have sex by boys and put in situations where they can't say no, so sucking on dick you don't want to suck is slightly better than having vaginal sex you don't want to have, and there's no chance of pregnancy. But when women gaslight themselves and each other about how much they love it, i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 09:17 PM |
| 516 | Why is it the most hideous men that are Ethically Non Monogamous (ENM)?I don't really know enough about these types of people to give an educated answer, but I'm reminded of that time when I was watching Tiger King, and I was like, wow, this guy married two young straight guys, how does that work? And my friend was like "With enough baby tigers and meth, you can do anything." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 08:09 PM |
| 79 | I despise the way the porn industry has made it normal to be abused.Yeah, I don't trust my neck to people who end up damaging their own dicks from jerking off too hard. These men have some nerve trying to do this shit to women without even asking. They are rapists who somehow managed to get preliminary consent and used that to kick the door open and do whatever they want, and then play dumb later when she croaks out "WTF WAS THAT? WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 06:56 PM |
| 78 | I despise the way the porn industry has made it normal to be abused.This is such a good point. It IS strangling. That's what it should be called. And let a scrote try to "Um, ackshually..." that, and then try to explain the difference between the two words. What is it? "Choking makes my pp hard, strangling makes my pp soft." Is that the difference? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 06:03 PM |
| 262 | I despise the way the porn industry has made it normal to be abused.What's interesting is that when choking during sex first became a thing (early 2000's) (and when I say "a thing" I mean when average people started hearing about it) it was promoted as something pleasurable for the receiver of the choking. Autoasphyxiation became a word that everyone knew. There were news stories about people dying from it, and it was usually men who died while trying to choke themselves and masturbate at the same time. Nowadays, nobody even bothers with the lie that the choking… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:46 PM |
| 224 | Why do so many guys and girls say size doesn't matter? Do they genuinely believe this? Because it does matter for me....Too big and too small both matter. Too long and too short both matter. Too thick and too thin both matter. Shape matters. People have different vaginas. What feels good for one person might not feel good for someone else. People who say these things don't matter aren't being factual, they are being "political" they are living in a theoretical fantasy-land where it shouldn't matter but the problem is that it DOES. Penis isn't just about what's pleasing to the eye, it's 100% about what's pleasing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:27 PM |
| 139 | Who else has heard “wear pretty underwear in case you get hit by a bus/car”? So, even when severely injured/dying, women must ensure they’re sexually arousing and visually pleasing the patriarchy. This is not cuteImagine your daughter is in an accident or hit by a car, and you're worrying if her panties are too ugly for the ambulance guy. I'd be like, wear the ugliest fucking granny panties you own. Anyone who, instead of helping you, is fixated whether your panties are pretty or not, is going to use those images to masturbate later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 10:49 AM |
| 171 | LVM love to complain about high body counts but can’t help talking about how desperately horny they are when you just started talking to them. As if you are supposed to help them fix that.I wish women could get to the point where they can tell guys like this: "Why would anyone have sex with you for free? Are you even capable of giving a woman an orgasm? What makes you better than her own finger?" Men need to get it through their stupid heads that no matter what lying pickmeishas say, women are going on dates to look for future husbands. They're not going on dates to get pumped and dumped by scrotes. Stop wasting their time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:48 PM |
| 311 | LVM love to complain about high body counts but can’t help talking about how desperately horny they are when you just started talking to them. As if you are supposed to help them fix that."I'm sorry that you are not attractive or competent enough to get your dick wet for free, and that tricking a girl into thinking you might be available for an exclusive relationship of love and respect by buying her a plate of food and pretending to enjoy her company for one hour is too much work and money." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:37 PM |
| 550 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”If you wear makeup in front of my boyfriend you are weird LMAO 😂🤣😢😭 I know we shit on the girls who say "I don't like girl drama" and "I'm not like the other girls" and "I get along better with guys" but sometimes when THIS is the only type of girl you're surrounded by, it's so hard.... Like, I always give a small benefit of the doubt that whoever is saying these things really might be the lone average-girl drowning in an ocean of pickmeishas who act like this. Can you imagine? All you want to d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:59 PM |
| 138 | 🤡🤡🤡LOL, He really does have a thumb-head, doesn't he? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:26 PM |
| 177 | 🤡🤡🤡Imagine your husband is staring at a giant metal dick on the TV screen and this is the story you need to tell yourself so that you don't cry yourself to sleep. Girl, what conversations are you having with him for hours while he's wearing those headphones??? Stop embarrassing yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:25 PM |
| 449 | Just seen on relationshipadvice... guess it's about usI've never seen anyone use the term "sperm donor" here. When we evaluate men, we evaluate them to be FATHERS not "sperm donors." If we want a "sperm donor" we can find one at any bus stop in America, don't worry. This is a fake post written by one of our fans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:22 PM |
| 130 | When Asks her husband to go Shopping, this is what requires *facepalm*I don't understand this. Are Clown-Wives having a competition on the internet to see which one of them has the most useless brainless husband? Why do so many of them love posting this embarrassing shit on the internet? The worst part is, they're telling on themselves. Their husbands have them fooled with this fake "I don't know what bananas look like or where they are located" shit, and these wives eat the shit up with a spoon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 07:22 PM |
| 41 | Gamer husband, I can't believe what I read.💖💖💖 I'm so glad to hear you're doing better and you have support! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 02:19 AM |
| 140 | Gamer husband, I can't believe what I read.All joking aside, in 2021, a lot of people have a lot of reasons to be depressed (not that depression even needs a reason) but you're 100% right. Even if this guy is legit clinically depressed, he has no right to treat this woman as his live-in mommy-maid. He is taking advantage and taking her for granted. If it weren't for her, he'd be doing this shit at his parents' home, or he'd be homeless. Yet I see no gratitude or effort to improve, only entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:44 AM |
| 165 | This is enough internet for me today I’m done. Porn addicted scrotes are out here getting used items mailed to them from cam girls and giving themselves yeast infections and lord knows what other diseases. (warning extremely nsfw language)AHAHAHAHAAAAA OHMYGOD I'M DYING!!! This is the funniest thing I've read today. He has absolutely no shame publicly admitting to eating gummi bears that were in someone's butthole. This is how privileged and entitled these scrotes are. Meanwhile women are shamed for even having buttholes and bodily functions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:26 AM |
| 8 | And they say women are sensitive, sometimes you have to be glad you asked ladies. “Account disabled” 🤣"Don't forget to read meditations" ???????? Google Translate doesn't have Delusional Scrote --> English yet. Someone help? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:21 AM |
| 249 | Gamer husband, I can't believe what I read.I'm dying to know what the suggestions of the split friends were? Give him blowjobs for every chore he completes? A sexy dance if he remembers to wash his ass after pooping five times? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:45 PM |
| 258 | Red flag I recently picked up and wanted to shareSeriously. If he's this obsessed with expectations, it's because he fucked a girl and told her right afterwards "I'm not looking for a relationship right now" and she did not take it well, and that's basically the most exciting thing to ever happen to him his whole life, so it's his entire identity now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 10:49 PM |
| 47 | Women are crazy because they’re people?So what you're saying is, you are of lesser quality and worth than a pancake is to a pig. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 10:46 PM |
| 248 | Gamer husband, I can't believe what I read.Take the video game machine, the games, and the man, and throw them all in the garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 10:43 PM |
| 91 | Ugh, expect?Yeah, he really thought he did something here, and that makes this all the more embarrassing. "You ARE a sex object tho, because you inserted a cucumber!" is really not the argument you think it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:44 PM |
| 195 | Ugh, expect?Imagine whining on the internet because she'd rather have sex with the pointy end of her hairbrush than with you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:41 PM |
| 3 | This makes me sick....This is so depressing to watch. Like, girl, why did you participate in this video? It's not funny, it's just two men making fun of you. (The reason I'm focusing on the woman is because WE CANNOT CHANGE MEN. What we can do is choose to not let scrotes like this humiliate us for clicks on the internet. Women need to be proactive in their own lives and block and delete men who want to play 'adorable scamp vs. angry shrew.' They get off on this dynamic where they act like brats and the woman has to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 08:38 PM |
| 142 | Regretting meeting and old male "friend""such long nails, how do you finger yourself?" Fuck the society that taught men that it was okay to talk to women like that and who trained women to act like deer in headlights when it happens. Good on you for getting up and leaving and blocking him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:24 AM |
| 95 | Scrotes Rushing into every thread about r/MGTOW being banned to bring up Female Dating StrategyOH is that what was banned? Why can't they just go their own way already? They're like that toddler that screams "I'M LEAVING!" and then throws a tantrum when nobody cares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 08:29 AM |
| 67 | Don't give ugly scrotes a chance. They will neg you and disrespect you."I imagine you with a fleshlight that hasn't been washed in months." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 08:26 AM |
| 92 | Why is he single ladies??? Where is his queen??FIYAAAAHHHH https://media.tenor.com/images/02c09a90acd2e2b11327f8e126b4b54c/tenor.gif | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:01 AM |
| 100 | Why is he single ladies??? Where is his queen??It alarms me that adult men of today type like how I imagine 10 year old girls type. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 12:58 AM |
| 73 | I can’t evenBut seriously, these women act like their sons are God's gifts to womenkind like... He's not that special. If he fell off the face of the earth tomorrow, nobody would even care. And the nerve of this woman like "I don't like you and I never will." Okay, Queen Incestia, way to be a toxic generational trauma inducing creep. This is why you will never have grandkids, unless you give birth to your own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 12:55 AM |
| 14 | "But whooo is going to care for your husband!"I love it too, though I think I haven't watched since season 4? I thought Frankie's husband should have been written as bisexual, because (I don't remember which episode/season) but it did seem like he and Frankie had so much chemistry, and didn't they hook up? I don't remember 100%. That would have really thrown a wrench into things and added a lot more nuance if he was bi, especially because Sol is depicted as this sweet cuddly little old man, but in reality he's a cheater who cheated on his w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 12:52 AM |
| 257 | Mere MINUTES after a particular toxic male subreddit was banned, scrotes in another male subreddit are planning to infiltrate and brigade FDS 🤡All we want to do is hurt and hate women! Why don't they want to have sex with us?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:01 PM |
| 10 | Everyday I am reminded that not starting a family with a scrote was a good choiceI'm just waiting for him to shit himself in protest and start crying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 10:38 PM |
| 45 | Everyday I am reminded that not starting a family with a scrote was a good choiceI don't want to over-analyze it to death, but it feels pedophilic to me in a way. Why do women want to be romantic and sexual with mental-toddlers? She's even rewarding him with disney princess stickers. And how differently is he dressed in comparison to a toddler really? Even his hair is a fucking mess. All he needs is some food stains on his shirt and a bib. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:51 PM |
| 295 | I can’t evenNo thanks. Stick him back up your vagina where he belongs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 07:26 PM |
| 196 | "But whooo is going to care for your husband!"First, as a Bi, congratulations and welcome to the family! Second, NOBODY ever asks the gay men who pretended to be straight "but who will take care of your wife and kids?" The moment they come out, they are treated like heroes, and if the wife dares say anything, she is immediately labeled as a homophobic shrew. He could have literally been accidentally outed through cheating on her with male prostitutes, and society will still find a way to make him the victim and her the monster. The only thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 07:18 PM |
| 5 | Public Displays of DisrespectI think they enjoy having sex with people they hate. It's a weird domination thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 06:36 PM |
| 442 | Everyday I am reminded that not starting a family with a scrote was a good choiceBoth of these people are clowns. As a Gen-X, I don't see how the Gen-Z and Gen-Alpha can look at dynamics like this and go "Oh yeah, I totally want this to be my future!" Look how miserable the guy looks. Look how "manic chipmunk energy" the woman looks? They both fucking hate their lives. I feel so sorry for their kids. Imagine being raised by these two assholes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 262 | The Devil’s Advocate! I wish we could delete and block these men in real life situations…A coworker of mine trapped one of these devil's advocates once, and it was epic! I don't want to get into details but basically he told a story, and Mr. Devil's Advocate rushed in to throw his monkey's wrench into it. And after he was done, the storyteller was like "That's great that you agree then, because Character A, the one you disagree with, is you, and Character B, the one you agree with is all of us, so stop doing (annoying and rude action that everyone in the office hates!)" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:36 PM |
| 16 | Public Displays of DisrespectI wish there was a way to report those so that the original sender gets penalized by reddit for abusing the service. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:09 PM |
| 15 | Public Displays of DisrespectI really don't understand this mentality. They create a toxic situation, make both partners miserable, and then they want to maintain that misery status-quo where they know their partner is unhappy, and they themselves are unhappy, and they both just hate each other. It's like buying a nice house and keep shitting in the living room carpet and leaving the poop there and keep shitting and keep shitting and keep shitting, and you're living in this shit smelling house where the living room is fille… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:06 PM |
| 73 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationSucks that that happened but happy that you and your daughter are doing better and are safe! You know what would be nice? Something similar to a senior community but for women only, or single mothers with children only, and NO MEN. No ex-boyfriends, no current boyfriends, no anyone with a penis unless it's a son or a ward. And all the women are vetted to make sure they're not internalized misogyny pickmeishas like your ex roomie. They all have to be FDS certified! Ahh... Will never happen but on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 12:49 AM |
| 202 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationI understand that women roommates can be total pigs too. I visited my cousin's apartment once (three girl roomies) and it smelled like hot trash and there were gobs of hair, filth and a USED TAMPON on the floor. Like, I don't know if it fell out of someone's vagina, or how it got there, but was just chilling on the floor, nowhere near the bathroom or a trash can. But if only women, especially single mothers, could suck it up and cohabit with each other in a platonic way, it could be so great. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 11:47 PM |
| 37 | The Hook-up That Ended All Hook-upsDuring which he informs me that he is not looking for anything serious and I need to leave. I have never wished more for the existence of a time machine in my whole life so that you could go back to that moment and tell him "I'm not looking for a micro penis right now, goodbye." What a clown! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:24 PM |
| 64 | I’m so sick of hearing “don’t undermine your value” in terms of having sex. Stop talking about “value” and “worth” when it comes to women and sex. This isn’t a market.I think the same way about "losing" virginity. Sis, you haven't LOST anything. No one has TAKEN anything from you, least of all a grubby little scrote with a dirty penis who pretends not to know where a clitoris is. You've GAINED experience, and if you selected well, you've EXPERIENCED some pleasure too. Nothing is MISSING after you have sex for the first time, (and if you say "umm... hymen?" I will throw up on you! stop it!) but society keeps using these words to rip pieces off of girls and wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 09:59 PM |
| 15 | “YoU haVe loW vIbrAtiOnAL eNerGy”, tHat’s wHy YoU aRe sIngLe”Huh... So not neutral 0 energy but negative -1 energy? I think this guy must have pulled this "vibration" business out of his butt. The closest I can think of is maybe "Resting bitch face" or the "get the fuck away from me" energy that I push out when I'm walking down the street. And I'm not going to be stopping that anytime soon. That's literally protection, LOL I mean there are people out there that I get vibes from that are like "This person is a boring person" or "this person is going to mak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 08:40 PM |
| 67 | “YoU haVe loW vIbrAtiOnAL eNerGy”, tHat’s wHy YoU aRe sIngLe”I don't know how old you are, but if you remember the MTV show Daria, I'd consider her very low energy, everything from her posture to her clothes to her monotone voice and her mood, whereas her sister Quinn would be high energy. She was confident, popular, knew what she wanted, knew how to talk to people... And actually, now that I think of it, Quinn was a total FDSer! She always had a rotation of boys chasing after her, taking her out on dates and shopping. Sometimes she would forget who she w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 04:54 PM |
| 137 | “YoU haVe loW vIbrAtiOnAL eNerGy”, tHat’s wHy YoU aRe sIngLe”I have no idea about "vibrational energy" but I read something similar about Marilyn Monroe once, how she could turn her charisma off and on just with her posture and body language. She could go somewhere public with low energy and be basically invisible, and then she could turn Marilyn on and suddenly it was like a light glowing from within and everyone recognized her. I tried this myself, and it really works. When you change your energy and become a happy, positive, friendly, good-energy chara… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 04:47 PM |
| 55 | The level of pick me that is expected of you of you if you're a black womanPeople who "keep the peace" have caused more harm in this world than they will ever know. If all the "keep the peace" people had just said "NO! YOU CAN'T DO THAT!" our world would have been so different today. "Keep the peace" people are just as guilty as the people they enable. (I'm not talking about the victims who have no choice, I'm talking about the ones who have a choice and choose to side with the abuser because it's easier.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 04:33 PM |
| 142 | The level of pick me that is expected of you of you if you're a black womanThis is heartbreaking. (I'm not black or white, so I'm sure I'm missing some cultural things when reading this, and I apologize about using a white culture reference but) it again reminds me of the Peter Pan and Wendy dynamic. Peter gets to fly around and be a brainless asshole and do whatever he wants, and Wendy's job is to be his adoring mommy-maid-girlfriend. All the men in these examples are just living their lives, not loving the woman back. Even going off to love and marry other women. The… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 03:11 PM |
| 156 | The date isn't happening until he contacts you ahead of time to confirmHe could have just called at 7 to ask "are you on your way?" Even then he'd have been 10 mins late, so 6:40 or 6:50 makes sense. He didn't have to try to turn things around and win an argument. he could have just apologized and blamed it on excitement/misunderstanding. How do people this daft even survive in this world? Everything they do works against them, they constantly sabotage themselves, and yet still never get the hint that they are the source of their own problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 395 | The date isn't happening until he contacts you ahead of time to confirmDear internet, I made a date with a girl, and I did not go to it, didn't call ahead to confirm or cancel or postpone, just totally flaked, as I am entitled to do, and now she blocked me. Why do girls not want to have sex with me? Why am I forever alone. Life is not fair. Please validate me by agreeing with me that all women are gold diggers who want free meals and that I dodged a bullet, and the trash took herself out by blocking me. The girl worthy of my penis would have called me to see where … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 02:08 PM |
| 61 | The truth about the "honey moon phase"My family does picking on/teasing as a sign of hate disguised as a sign of love ("Why are you so sensitive? I'm just jooooking!") and I hate it. Bad faith players have ruined teasing for too many people. If you tease someone and they get upset and tell you to stop and you don't, you aren't teasing. You're being an asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 02:01 AM |
| 205 | The truth about the "honey moon phase"I love this! Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. I bet he feels so smart! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 12:55 AM |
| 221 | The truth about the "honey moon phase"I hate that this honeymoon phase is so much reinforced by women, especially older women. And if you tell them you and your partner are doing just fine, they get mad and sometimes even get bold enough to accuse you of lying. STOP TRYING TO NORMALIZE YOUR SHITTY MARRIAGE. Of course I blame the men for ruining things in the first place, but I also blame pickmeisha mentality for gaslighting women into believing that marriage is supposed to suck and couples are supposed to hate each other and men are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 12:54 AM |
| 288 | “Soft” sex-work…?I had a friend who was SO EXCITED to apply for Hooters, and for the whole week she was worried "What if my boobs aren't big enough? What if they don't want me because I'm black and they only want white girls? What if I'm not pretty enough?" And it's like she wanted this SO BAD that we just couldn't say anything to her, because it would have been "Why are you trying to crush my dream???" It's like she needed to be hired by this place so that she could have the validation that she was good enough.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:52 PM |
| 161 | Part of vetting is seeing if he can grocery shop and cook without being spoon fed like a toddler.Why are some women so proud of being with incompetent losers? I can see texting a guy an exact photo of a product (for example the medicines) because there are similar products on the shelf with the same name, but photos of grapes and blueberries? No, sweetie, you just have some kind of stupid man fetish and you get off on making all of us witness it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:08 AM |
| 26 | LVM Moocher!! Thank GOODNESS she got some solid advice in the comments to DROP! THAT! SCROOOOTE!Any guy who does this ;) is insta-block. Any guy who does the above is not only insta-block, but also, the friend who gave the number is getting YELLED AT. Who the fuck raises these toddlers? They have no shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 08:19 AM |
| 23 | Myth: Women are “naturally” more monogamous. Men cheat because of “biology” and their “natural” desire for variety.It's hilarious to me when scientists try to use biology to justify cheating. Cheating is a choice. It will always be a choice. If he has no self control, then he shouldn't marry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 08:04 AM |
| 159 | Liberal feminism will be the death of womenYour friend didn't get 🚩🚩🚩from the fact that this scrote even has access to date rape pills? She didn't get 🚩🚩🚩from that fact that the girlfriend could have died? People at the table started justifying why a woman deserves to get drugged against her will? 🚩🚩🚩 Even if people in the friends group secretly believe it was wrong but decided to vocally agree both parties were faulty just to keep the peace, 🚩🚩🚩. If they can't even stand up and say HEY, THAT'S FUCKED UP, and YOU'RE FUCKED UP for not rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 07:22 PM |
| 112 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsThat's so sad, and you're right! You know what else I think it is? I think these women are really, like Stockholm Syndrome level brainwashed from the moment they're born so that they truly deeply believe that women are incomplete until they are married and have kids. So they think they are doing you a huge favor by trying to hook you up with any human that's breathing and has a penis. They don't get it that we don't feel the way they do. We're already complete. We were born complete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:15 PM |
| 111 | Beware of shady matchmakers, ladies.This is just a pimp with extra steps. She's not in it to find you or him the best match, she's in it to make $$$. The faster she hooks two suckers up the faster she can move onto the next client. (I mean you already know this, I'm just agreeing with you.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:05 PM |
| 199 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsEvery time you trigger a piss baby, an angel gets her wings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 03:01 PM |
| 577 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsHAHA I wish you had asked her "Why in the actual fuck would you want that?" LOL I've dropped several acquaintances who've pushed for me to be with LVM. Like, first of all you shouldn't be so personally invested in my love life, I didn't ask for your help! And second of all, you think that scrote is good enough for me? Clearly you don't have my best interests in mind! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 02:22 PM |
| 531 | No post has ever made my blood boil this much. This man treats his disabled GF like a servant and wont even keep a CHAIR FOR HER TO SIT IN. Women need to be taught from birth that its better to be alone your whole life than put up with a man who doesn't give a fuck about you!!Yeah, in the comments she was saying that the bf wants a certain aesthetic in the house so she can't just buy her own chair and it's like.......... What about the aesthetic of a disabled human sitting on the floor like a dog? That doesn't bother you, but an ugly chair does??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 11:36 AM |
| 104 | Male fragility means that a picture of a small sausage in a South Korean ad makes men there feel bad about the size of their genitals. So the answer is getting back at feminists by playing cancel culture towards the supposed companies they work for. (You can't make this shit up!)Imagine not being too ashamed to publicly admit that a tiny pinch emoji makes you insecure about your small penis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 10:49 AM |
| 482 | No post has ever made my blood boil this much. This man treats his disabled GF like a servant and wont even keep a CHAIR FOR HER TO SIT IN. Women need to be taught from birth that its better to be alone your whole life than put up with a man who doesn't give a fuck about you!!OT but what in the actual fuck is wrong with that sub? A handful of ass-clowns seriously sat there and downvoted every new comment whether pro-scrote or anti-scrote going 100 comments deep. There are over 300 comments but all these selfish fucks can't even upvote each other. So many comments are sitting at 1 or 0. I can make a comment about a fart here and get 100 upvotes. You ladies are so supportive and amazing. Sometimes I just sit here for 10 minutes upvoting every comment on a thread (it al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 10:03 AM |
| 28 | Obviously this isn’t the right place for this, but it kinda does relate to dating so hope the mods will let it stay up.Haha, now do psychotherapist! Yeah, exposure therapy for sexual trauma sounds like a horrible idea. I don't know what the video contains, but whether it's a hardcore rape scene or a loving, cuddly 'making love' scene, it doesn't make a difference, With the 'making love' scene, deep down, the viewer knows that these are paid actors who are having sex and for money. You are not actually watching loving, gentle, consensual sex, you are watching people who don't want to have sex with each other have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 08:39 AM |
| 9 | This man got up & left the date as soon as the bill came... and she still decided to be his girlfriend after thatShe looks like she's enjoying telling the story too. I don't know why some women really get off on the idea of mothering stupid men. It's like a Wendy & Peter Pan kind of thing. A disgusting dynamic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 05:48 AM |
| 18 | This man got up & left the date as soon as the bill came... and she still decided to be his girlfriend after thatSo he was wriggling around and doing the pee-pee dance for 5 hours, unable to leave because their conversation was so fantastic, and the moment the waitress says 'Hi, I have a time-sensitive issue that needs to be resolved ASAP or I will be financially harmed' he says FUCK YOUR SITUATION and runs off to pee? If he wanted to pay so badly, he could have left his card or some cash, she would have returned the change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 05:46 AM |
| 12 | This man got up & left the date as soon as the bill came... and she still decided to be his girlfriend after thatThat's fine, make the scene. The people who are judging you aren't the one who have to pay for the scrote's meal. And I'm sure they would judge him for trying to be slick and not pay as well. Not that their judgment even matters, it's all about shaming the scrote. What does CBA mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 05:43 AM |
| 79 | This man got up & left the date as soon as the bill came... and she still decided to be his girlfriend after thatI would have said loud enough for everyone sitting nearby to hear: "OKAY, We'll just wait for you to come back from the bathroom so that you can pay. But hurry though, she needs to get to her other job." Loud enough so people turn and stare at all three of us and its really awkward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 08:39 PM |
| 104 | This man got up & left the date as soon as the bill came... and she still decided to be his girlfriend after thatSo at a fundamental level, she understands that what he did was weird and fucked up. The date was "phenomenal" they sat there and talked for 5 hours, and yet he was extremely rude to the server. She said she needed to get to her other job so he decided this would be the perfect moment to leave her hanging and run to the bathroom to piss? Like..................? Girl, it's obvious you have zero respect for yourself, but you pretend to care so much for the server, and yet you co-signed this man's … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 08:36 PM |
| 128 | "You look like my ex...""Wow... She still lives rent-free in your head, huh?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:07 PM |
| 230 | "You look like my ex..."You look like my classmate in 5th grade who shit his pants and started crying and then his grandmother had to pick him up. I mean... Since we're talking about random people who don't belong in this conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:05 PM |
| 169 | Don't accept shitty behaviour just because "every man does it"!!!It doesn't matter if EVERY MAN IN THIS PLANET, ALL 4+ BILLON OF THEM do it. If it makes you uncomfortable, LEAVE. If all men drink water, and you can't stand men who drink water, you must leave. If all men breathe air, and you can't stand men who breathe air, you must leave. All men doing it is meaningless. What matters is that you don't like it. Now it's true that you're most likely not going to be able to find a living man who doesn't breathe air or drink water, but at least you will be happie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 12:23 PM |
| 52 | Men using lots of emojis is a RED FLAGIf you are on windows and you rightclick into the box where you are typing your comment, on the pop-up on the very top should be "Emoji" For me it also pops up when I press the windows button and the period button at the same time, that's how I did all the ones above! I think you mean these guys: 🥰😏🥺 Honestly, it's just so cringe. Just be honest and do this: 🍆🍑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 12:14 PM |
| 116 | Men using lots of emojis is a RED FLAGEvery time I've seen an example of texting between men and women on this sub, and the man starts using emojis, a red flag pops up in my head. It's not even up front where I notice it, it's more in the back of my head like an instinct, 'Oh, this guy is a clown...' I never even thought much about it, but now I think it's because these two people just met and he's already lowering the quality of the conversation by going 😎😘🤔😛💩 And these men are always making that cheesy kind of internet 'forever al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Western Desi women marrying men from "back home"there was foil on the bottom, like this, and the the "diamond" was rather large. Also no 14k or anything else on the "gold." It was embarrassingly bad. https://www.etsy.com/listing/577465584/100pcs-crystal-rhinestones-tin-cuts-high?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=foil+backed+rhinestone&ref=sr_gallery-1-7&organic_search_click=1 The bot deleted my reply because it thinks I'm posting a different sub. Let's hope this works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 10:58 AM |
| 158 | Do you think childfree men are less inclined to provide or less or more likely to be HV than non-childfree men?This is just anecdotal advice based on one couple I knew IRL. They were coworkers of mine, the wife working in my office and the husband working in another office. They were childfree (she was infertile, but he married her knowing this and they both decided that life would be more fun without kids. They aren't planning to adopt. So technically they are CF even though they don't know this terminology.) And he treats her like a woman. Opens doors for her, brings her flowers, picks her up from work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 09:50 AM |
| 46 | Article: Has The Sex Positivity Movement Peaked?because it implies that it was a good thing at some point. Like... It could have had the potential to be good. I was raised by a woman who came from the generation where women couldn't breastfeed in public because breasts = sex. Where women were taught that only whores enjoyed sex. Good girls just put up with sex to have babies and to make their husbands happy. Women were literally not washing their vulvas properly because even touching yourself in the shower down there was bad. Masturbation was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 05:08 AM |
| 20 | Cat Person - a slow descent into the true horror of dating an LVM. This should be mandatory reading for teenage girls everywhere.And women, especially when they are younger, are willing to look the other way and put up with so much questionable shit, so if they saw this relationship and it felt like such a huge red flag that they collectively decided to vote her off the island, then she either has a really spotty memory, is delusional, or is actively lying to herself about how not-quite-rosy this relationship actually was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 03:50 PM |
| 40 | Cat Person - a slow descent into the true horror of dating an LVM. This should be mandatory reading for teenage girls everywhere.Seriously, she was 18, he was 33. 🚩 They had to sneak around because they were a favorite topic of the whisper network. 🚩 Even when they spoke about the article on the phone, he was too much of a coward to admit he knew the author, and she didn't feel safe enough to ask. 🚩 We only have the fictionalized version of the author's depiction of "Robert" but it's interesting how "Margo"s interactions with "Robert" are so different than Alexis's interactions with "Charles." She tries to make "Charles" … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 03:11 PM |
| 34 | I’m really effing tired of the ‘give a short man a chance’ propaganda.This is so true. Apparently this lady is 5'2 to Shaq's 7'1: http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BEOwONeMnAQ/TzUPPYH7nMI/AAAAAAAAB4w/_dXKZ3yLeEI/s1600/shaquile.jpg Men love "petite" women, short women have no problems getting much taller men. It's not fair telling them "Sorry sis, you're stuck with the shorties." Of course they can have whoever they want! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 10:25 AM |
| 88 | Cat Person - a slow descent into the true horror of dating an LVM. This should be mandatory reading for teenage girls everywhere.This is a bit OT because your whole post is 100% solid gold facts, but I can't resist posting this article. It turns out Roupenian based Margo on an actual person and Robert on the guy they had both dated. (Spoliers: Robert Charles died.) https://slate.com/human-interest/2021/07/cat-person-kristen-roupenian-viral-story-about-me.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 10:05 AM |
| 126 | I’m really effing tired of the ‘give a short man a chance’ propaganda.This is actually kind of a new thing because when I was growing up the media always pushed the cliche of "tall, dark, and handsome" on us as what every woman is supposed to want. (Of course "dark" meant white person with dark hair LOL) Short men knew their place. They either had to go after women shorter or same height as them, or be a little daring and go for the girl who is 1-2 inches taller. He had to be a real charmer with an amazing personality to nab a woman taller than that. (Notice I'm n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 07:31 AM |
| 37 | Western Desi women marrying men from "back home"This makes me so angry. (I'm angry at the guy obviously, he's the one who chose to be a liar and abuser!) But I'm also mad at her family for not vetting him thoroughly. They didn't meet his parents? They didn't tap into the whisper network and find out everything about him?? But I'm mad at her too. By this time, she was an adult, already a mother and divorced. She just believed all his lies? She ignored all the red flags. (And the red flags must have been the size of Texas if you were able to sp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 05:25 AM |
| 129 | Western Desi women marrying men from "back home"I'm not Desi, but similar culture. When I was little, my mom would go on and on about how easy it would be to find me a husband from the old country because I'm an American citizen. Me and my 8-year-old ass was like "But why would I want to marry someone who only wants to marry me for a citizenship?" and imagine the beatings and shriekings I got for daring to use my brain. (I never asked her "Why would I want to marry someone who is supposedly in love with me and my soulmate and my Prince Charmi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 04:13 AM |
| 40 | Scrotes wanting to split the bill always make me laughThis is very smart! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 04:41 PM |
| 130 | Scrotes wanting to split the bill always make me laughTheir goal isn't to just stick their dick in you. It's a game. They want to be able to stick their dick in you for as cheaply as possible. If they get you to pay for part of their meal or their whole meal, they score extra bonus points, because it's almost like you're paying them to dick you down and humiliate you. Imagine the ego boost. And to play on a more difficult setting, they also wish to insult, humiliate, and degrade you as much as they can, and see how low they can push you and still g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 04:39 PM |
| 17 | Grateful for FDS - Realizing the urgent need to openly and loudly nurture, guide and discipline the new generation of young girls and take a proactive attitude in helping others recognize the need to re-parent themselvesIt's so awful. Our society is grooming girls and women to get taken advantage of, sexually assaulted, and raped. The outdated or non-existent guidance from the parents coupled with boys raised on hardcore fetish porn is a recipe for disaster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:17 PM |
| 573 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?Sweat has urea in it, hence the yellow. But I assume it's also a build-up of oils and dead skin too. Probably the men don't wear sleep clothes either so their bare backs are touching the same gross sheets every day. If their backs are covered in zits and blackheads, you can guess why. How to prevent? Wrap him in saran wrap, use black or dark color sheets, make him sleep on the floor (on top of some old newspaper so he doesn't stain the carpet.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 01:11 PM |
| 50 | Grateful for FDS - Realizing the urgent need to openly and loudly nurture, guide and discipline the new generation of young girls and take a proactive attitude in helping others recognize the need to re-parent themselves"Look at how scantily that girl is dressed. Such a disgrace." Are they kidding? These women really out there pretending they weren't wearing coochie-cutters (tiny denim shorts) and bra-tops in the 90's or microminis and midriff shirts in the 00's?? They didn't live through celebrities wearing literal see-fucking-everything-through garments in the 2010's? Girls nowadays are actually more covered up in comparison. I'll admit it's very hard and thankless, babysitting other people's children on the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 07:15 AM |
| 15 | Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄Yeah, I don't know if you watch real housewives but in RHoNY there is one woman, Leah McSweeney, and when you first look at her, you think "Wow! What a beautiful woman! I bet men are tripping all over themselves for her!" But then you watch her and she has such toxic energy. It's not rabid-chipmunk, it's something else much darker but you can totally see why both HVM and LVM avoid the ever-loving fuck out of her. She cannot relax until she makes everyone around her miserable and afterwards estab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:00 AM |
| 22 | I seriously question when men on Reddit say they've been in an abusive relationship with a womanWhen you've never actually been abused before, every little inconvenience feels like abuse. It's like the Princess and the Pea. You never see men who spent their childhoods being beaten and abused by their parents/guardians write "Boohoohoo she mad I spend all my time being gross and playing games with my internet friends! This is literal abuse, I am a victim!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:07 AM |
| 32 | Am I overreacting?He cannot follow basic instructions. Or. He chooses not to follow basic instructions. Or. Maybe he thought it was a shit-test and he was supposed to pass it by showering you with attention because those silly women always say the opposite of what they mean. Every time he messaged you, he thought he was passing the test. All three options are red flags. The thirds one because he's already primed to play games and is okay with relationships where people communicate stupidly by saying the opposite … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 06:05 PM |
| 47 | Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄Open minded women who aren't prejudiced against scrotes who don't own bedframes, apparently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 05:38 PM |
| 232 | This is why women must be selective in what men we allow in our lives. Most men are jealous and possessive if women. They'd rather kill us than see us be happy without them or with another man.It's so terrifying that so many women go through this. They fall in love with a guy, they marry him, have his kid, and then he hates her so fucking much, he kills her. Like... Can you imagine that moment when your gut instinct whispers to you for the first time that the guy you chose to spend forever with FUCKING HATES YOU? It's incredible how often this happens. (Not the murder part, thankfully, just the hate part. The murder part, even one time is too much!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 04:32 PM |
| 234 | Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄OKAY OKAY RELAX WE GET IT YOU'RE NOT LIKE THE OTHER GIRLS YOU'RE A COOL GIRL! Her rabid-chipmunk energy is so grating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 04:28 PM |
| 44 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Maybe you can pop out a few and his mom can take care of them too. Like... Mind your own business and drive, dude! Some people really do create their own hell on earth. Who told you to have not one but TWO kids with a woman you hate? He doesn't even want his own kids, but he thinks you should have kids? What in the actual fuck is wrong with everybody?? Sometimes I feel like we are living in some kind of Twilight Zone where most people are cum-brained zombies, and for some reason us FDS are immun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 208 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Say "Well, because I'm not married yet..." and watch the unmarried and divorced ones seethe with rage. (I'm childfree, I just do this for trolling purposes. I figure if they want to troll me with their fake concern, the polite thing to do would be to return the favor.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 10:02 AM |
| 1 | He KNOWS where the clit is, he just doesn't careI'm so sorry for what you and your whole generation are going through. How bad is it in schools now (or back when you were in school?) Are they all pornsick clowns, or are there any normal ones left? Are the girls pornsick too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 09:17 AM |
| 1 | female athletes deserve better. use this to vet your boyfriend, see if he’s the type to justify this double standard by saying “women’s sports have low viewership & sponsorships so they need to show some skin”. 🤮Weird, you posted 5 days ago but your reply showed up just now! Anyway, if they're going to do this, why not just make them all compete naked, like they used to do in the original Greek Olympics? It's so obvious the women's uniforms are all about catering to the male gaze, it's disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 03:31 AM |
| 289 | Ladies, it’s OK not to force yourself to feel attraction.And it's ironic because if you ask a lot of these women their thoughts about arranged marriage, they'll tell you all about how awful it is for parents to force their daughter to be with someone she isn't attracted to, and yet THEY FORCE THEMSELVES to do the exact same thing. At least the arranged marriage daughter can blame parents/society for her situation, what's your excuse? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:12 PM |
| 53 | He does his own laundry. What a catch! 🤩🤩Amazing! Does he wipe his own butt too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 10:50 AM |
| 29 | This is just ridiculous (don't forget to swipe)Yeah, that's a real good point. Porn forces the viewer to experience it through the male gaze. Even the porn where men are abused is actually just to fulfil a fetish for the male viewers. EDIT - I just noticed your username! LOVE IT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:57 AM |
| 42 | This is just ridiculous (don't forget to swipe)Thanks! I'm going to go read that right now! And I was also thinking after I posted that that women probably watch waaay different things than what straight men watch. I've read online that for some men the addiction starts when they start looking for more and more extreme, hardcore, violent, disgusting stuff, whereas women probably are just looking for clean and pretty porn, not porn where people are shitting and throwing up on each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:45 AM |
| 78 | This is just ridiculous (don't forget to swipe)Yeah, I've been wondering about this. There are women out there who watch a lot of porn too. Someone shared a stat that possibly up to 1/3 of gay porn viewers might be women. How come they don't get addicted to porn the way men do? Is there a scientific reason, I wonder? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:32 AM |
| 65 | This is just ridiculous (don't forget to swipe)I have a feeling by the time the generation after Gen Z (Gen Alpha?) grows up, there is going to be such an extreme epidemic of Limpdickitis that they are legit going to ban all forms of porn on the internet with harsh fines and prison sentences for anyone who puts it online. (which will probably go about as well as prohibition did, but that's another story...) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:30 AM |
| 25 | my ex in a nutshellCan someone explain what the rectangular thing above the weed is and what the percentages with A B or C are? Also, congratulations for losing the scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 03:13 AM |
| 50 | Couples and MasksAnd also that she doesn't feel strong enough to tell him to put his mask on because she knows he's going to throw a tantrum like a toddler. Don't be with a man if you don't feel safe or comfortable enough to tell him to put his mask on. The only acceptable reply from him should be "Oh! Yes, thank you! I almost forgot!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 03:08 AM |
| 14 | Hypothesis: You can tell if a man is ready to “settle down” by looking at his hairline. 😂😂Will add link in comments.LOL it sounds like someone from FDS wrote this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:36 AM |
| 170 | Hypothesis: You can tell if a man is ready to “settle down” by looking at his hairline. 😂😂Will add link in comments.But these are still bitch-ass men that you don't want to marry. Remember, don't settle for anyone who is settling for you. He still wants to date the 21 year old in the club, but you're the only one who's willing to give his fat bald head a chance. DON'T. (EDIT - I don't mean you personally, OP!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:35 AM |
| 416 | 😕You know what I wished she had done? Paid for herself and left by herself. I'm not saying this to criticize her, poor girl got her heart broken, she was in no position to react, but I'm saying it for the ladies reading right now. You have the right to stop the waitress and correct the situation. "NO. I will only be paying for myself. If the gentleman cannot pay, he better call his rich relatives to come bail him out." Pay your portion, get up and leave. If he tries to grab you or get in your way… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:18 AM |
| 259 | 😕The sad part is, even if she tells the whole school what this clown did, there will still be pick-mes lining up around the block for their turn thinking "I'm special! He won't do that to me!" or worse, justifying his shit behavior "It's the 21st century, men and women are equal, only a golddigger would expect a man to pay for anything on her birthday! That ungrateful girl doesn't deserve him! Pick me! Pick me! I love to be abused in exchange for crumbs of oxytocin!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Sex should never put you in hospitalThis is awful to hear. These men really HATE women with all capital letters. I feel like there are so many delusional Rodger Elliotts out there with this mentality and they are poisoning everyone with this garbage. If you hate all women so much, then just go fuck each other and leave us alone! Thanks for explaining it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Sex should never put you in hospitalWow, this is depressing. Thanks for explaining it to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:04 AM |
| 106 | He KNOWS where the clit is, he just doesn't careThey watch enough porn to know where the clit is. It's not like PornHub blurs that part out just to keep men in the dark. I haven't heard about it in a while but back in the 90's "the G spot" was all the craze. Do you younger Millenials and Gen Z know about this? A guy helped me find mine and it's pretty awesome. You can come without even once touching your clit. I have a feeling nowadays young guys have no idea what this is and would act all bothered if you asked them to help you find yours. It… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 12:44 AM |
| 385 | Men on Reddit are Porn SickI'm just sitting here looking at my screen horrified because as a species who has literally been fucking for thousands of years, THIS is what we managed to teach the newest generation of humans about sex. You noticed her pussy was wide, bro? Maybe you need to crawl back in there head-first and bake for a few more weeks so you can come back out fully developed, because it seems like you came out a bit undercooked the last time you were in the womb. He's been jerking it to "gaping holes" porn for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 09:35 PM |
| 41 | Sex should never put you in hospitalExactly! And I don't care what kind of "consent" she gave, she did not consent to broken ribs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 09:26 PM |
| 44 | Sex should never put you in hospitalI asked her if he had at least accompanied her to the hospital and obviously he hadn’t, she said a friend brought her in. Actually, she said some “simp” brought her in. Okay, before I make this comment, I need some help here from the Gen-Z ladies in this sub. I am Gen-X and words keep changing meanings. The last time I looked up the meaning of "simp" it meant basically a man other men look down upon because he dares to treat women like human beings. Right now I looked up the meaning of "simp" ag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 09:24 PM |
| 84 | Pick me WAKE UPWhat a weak, pathetic little man that exudes small-dick energy. The only way he can feel good about himself is to convince himself that you have low self-esteem, are broken, and that your friends think your accomplishments are a joke. Feels like heavy projection to me. He is the broken one with low-self esteem. Healthy people with good self-esteem would not need to do what he tried to do to you. You are not broken, you just need to wash the shit off your hands and block him. No closure, no expla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 09:48 AM |
| 44 | This is What LVM consider “great dating” and gaslight us into believing is acceptable. Hope the PickMe Woman Who Settled for these Low Effort Dates Wakes Up...This is something you do with a cat or dog you find on the street. I bet she didn't even take him to the veterinarian to make sure he didn't have any fleas or diseases. She should have got him spayed and neutered too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 10:41 PM |
| 168 | It’s pathetic that this level of scrotery is so normalizedTis entire picture bothers me. The lipstick logo (this is what defines women right? The items we use to make ourselves appear fuckable to men.), the "Girl Life" name (You're a woman, not a child.) the 47.9K likes (are there that many of you lady clowns out there? Clowneishas need to go back to the circus!) The fact that she is doing wife shit for her boyfriend. The fact that he is such a disrespectful prick that he can't even be bothered to put his stuff inside the hamper. The fact that she need… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 10:36 PM |
| 9 | Seen this repost on FB today. Are men really this stupid?If you don't want a selfish, clueless pickmeisha to have and raise your kid, then don't put your dick in her and then cry about it on Facebook. That was the most expensive orgasm of your life, congratulations. You have no one to blame but yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 08:28 PM |
| 34 | Why you shouldn’t be a stay at home momNo sound for me too, I had to click on the link Platipus6 provided. Glad to know it wasn't my laptop that was the problem! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:26 PM |
| 124 | "Male feminsts" tend to focus on the "sex work is work", "sex work is empowering" and are heavy porn addicts.That's the ultimate shit-test for "male feminists", isn't it? Paint them into a corner where either they have to tell you that they would be proud if their daughters became empowered liberated sex workers, or they have to explain to you why this lifestyle is okay for other people's daughters, but not theirs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:57 PM |
| 234 | "Male feminsts" tend to focus on the "sex work is work", "sex work is empowering" and are heavy porn addicts.In my personal experience the men that have displayed the most feminist mentality and behavior never called themselves that word because they never even realized that's what they were thinking and doing. For example, the guy who never really thought about feminist stuff until he had a daughter, and now that his child is the victim of patriarchy, suddenly he's papa bear and girls can do anything boys can do, and girls are people too, and girls can play sports, and fix cars, and climb trees too, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 01:40 PM |
| 636 | What tell-tale signs or How to vet for a guy that won't cheat after x amount of years?Is he mentally and emotionally fulfilled, or does he have empty holes in him that he's always trying to fill that will never be filled because he's always trying to plug them up with the wrong things? Does he feel like a complete man, or does he feel like there's something he missed out on that he needs to achieve before he can be the best version of himself in his own mind? Does he look at you as his best friend and soulmate, or does he look at you like you're the best he could do at this momen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 11:54 AM |
| 130 | Why you shouldn’t be a stay at home momSis, you birthed six kids for a man who won't even empty the dishwasher for you. I can see the pain in her eyes and I feel so bad for her. It's obvious she can't ask any of the kids to do it either. She started out life as an independent human and now she's trapped serving 7 people for the rest of her life or until the last child can support themselves and move out. Motherhood wasn't supposed to be a prison sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 11:31 AM |
| 110 | Post-NVM Blues - How Do You Move Past It?First accept that you do not need a relationship. You are already complete just the way you are. Second, understand that oxytocin is a hell of a drug and it can be your worst enemy when it decides to pick an NVM as it's primary source. You need to feed your brain with oxytocin from some other source. Pet some cats or dogs, hang out with some kids, look at pictures of bunnies, IDK. Eventually your brain will go through its withdrawal and you'll get over him, and enough time will pass and you won'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:37 AM |
| 122 | Thoughts on the manosphere. Why redpills and incels direct their anger at women.You are 100% right! The patriarchy isn't for all men, though most of them do benefit from it when compared to women, but really the patriarchy benefits the top 0.0001% of men while shitting on all the other men below, but men are too much "simps" for other men to understand this. They are so desperate for approval and validation and status from other men that they will drink piss and vomit, allow themselves to be anally violated, rape women as a group (You think I'm exaggerating? Hello! Fraterni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:20 AM |
| 356 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒Agreed, never be around this person again, and seriously side-eye anyone willing to hang out with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 07:53 AM |
| 101 | If he wanted to he wouldSis, it's $90. Buy it for yourself if you want it that badly. You don't need to embarrass yourself and show the whole world that you have to act like a clown in order for your boyfriend to buy you gifts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 05:06 AM |
| 125 | Meme inspired by another FDS postNow that they've basically sucked women dry, policing us from our eyelashes down to our toenails, I really want the beauty industry to go after men. Shame those scrotes, really make them hate themselves as much as women have been forced to do all these years. I want scrotes to believe they have to buy and use 1,000 products before they can even have a chance at meeting a real vagina face-to-face. Advertising companies did this to us. Women were washing their hair once a week, and shaving their l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:37 AM |
| 301 | Canadian Scrote sues woman 6 years after date for "mental anguish". As if there isn't enough good reasons to vet *before* going on a date...(reposted to remove info)In Canada they have something called "Vexatious Litigation" (basically someone suing someone else in bad faith either to harass or for profit.) Hopefully the judge will see right through this. Sometimes the vexatious litigant ends up having to pay the defendant's legal fees and a penalty on top of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 02:04 AM |
| 173 | The new "shit test" and Another common Neg Found on OLDRe: The first shit test: Anytime any man tries to do this to you, even if they are fit as hell with minimal bodyfat and bulging muscles, just look down at their boob/belly area for a beat too long and go "Uh-huh..." in a skeptical way. Re: The second shit test: "Yeah, go work on yourself bro. You really need it. Good luck!" What's hilarious is that instead of doing all this, if they only worked on becoming good men, husbands, and fathers they would be so much happier. They are like Wile E. Coyot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 01:52 AM |
| 72 | Even after her murder *the prosecutor* for her murder blames her. I can’t even.“This was a woman who did nothing despite the warning signs. His past abuse. Everyone telling her — her friends, her father — that this man was a waste of time. She believed that she could save him,” Assistant District Attorney Matthew Bogdanos said in Manhattan Supreme Court. I keep harping about this and you smart women of FDS already understand but EVERY WOMAN on this planet needs to understand this. You can't save him, you can't change him. Save yourself before it's too late! I know "love ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 12:51 AM |
| 42 | I can’t stand the older generation of pick-mes that made men so damn entitled.HAHAHA OMG I immediately assumed she meant Kathy Bates in Misery, smashing that man's ankles. I don't even know why I didn't even think twice about the fact that it really didn't make sense in context. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 10:17 PM |
| 22 | I am enraged.Looked at you daringly for what? Is he that insecure? I bet every time he sees those two pieces of corn now, he can never pick them up because picking them up would mean letting you win. He's going to have to live with those two pieces of corn on the floor forever to prove what a strong man he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 10:13 PM |
| 77 | I am enraged.Parents should be ashamed of how they raise boys and girls differently. People feel so proud of themselves for the blue-eye/brown-eye racism experiment, but I'm amazed at how clueless they actually are. We already have two groups that get treated totally differently: Boys and girls. Girls spend an entire lifetime being treated as the lesser while boys are given all this privilege, and then parents act all passive and clueless like their own shitty actions didn't cause all this. (This is the expe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 07:46 PM |
| 147 | I can’t stand the older generation of pick-mes that made men so damn entitled.Honestly, blame the older generation of men. Back when the sexes were more divided and the sex roles more defined, it was the mother's job to teach the daughters how to do the housekeeping and mothering, and it was the father's job to teach the son how to be a good husband, father and provider. The women of this generation are still able to housekeep and mother just fine, it's the men of this generation who insist on living like toddlers, playing video games, shitting themselves, surviving on ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 07:14 PM |
| 20 | I don’t need to have children to be a real woman and I’m tired of my conservative family telling me im not a real woman and most men telling me I’m not a real womanSee, the problem is, these people don't define "woman" the way you do. To them a "woman" is a cow that can birth to human babies and evolve into a "mother," and eventually, their final form "grandmother" or their legendary form "great-grandmother." If they defined woman as just a human being who happens to be female, you wouldn't have had to make this post. Stay away from people who dehumanize you like this. You deserve so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 07:02 PM |
| 104 | Why are all female halloween costumes sexual??I feel like it's just another part of Pickme Culture. These women don't see Halloween as a fun time to spend with your friends and impress with the creativity and uniqueness of your costume, they see it as an opportunity to display and advertise their goods in hopes that someone will pick them. It's a real shame. Like, live your life, sis. Don't let hunting for dick be your whole life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:39 PM |
| 89 | So sorry her period is annoying to you! 😡 And how proud he seems of his complete ignorance of female bodies. Notice she's already used her amazing body to create his children.This is such a good test! One guy was like "You mean I have to go to the maxi-pad store?" Like, yes doofus, there is an entire store at the mall called Maxi-Pad City, that's where you have to go! But he did it, and he went to the drug store and took a picture of the whole display area and even did price vs amount of pads in the package math (Like "This one costs X amount but there are only 24 pads inside, but this other one costs Y amount and there are 28 pads inside, so it's actually smarter to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:09 PM |
| 247 | So sorry her period is annoying to you! 😡 And how proud he seems of his complete ignorance of female bodies. Notice she's already used her amazing body to create his children.it depresses me when women humble-brag about how stupid and disrespectful their husbands are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:05 PM |
| 19 | “She’s stressing me out”(Oh haha, I didn't mean you personally! Just screaming at all the women out there who ran towards a situation like this, not listening to anyone's advice, getting mad at everyone and going "You're just jealous!" and then sitting at home alone with the baby too bitter and angry to ever admit they were wrong after reality finally hits. Now they are doomed to make these sort of phone calls for the next 18 years, and look their kid in the eye and tell their kid, "Yeah, this is the father I chose for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 04:48 PM |
| 226 | How on earth is this romantic?And did someone finally pick her after she posted this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:31 AM |
| 91 | “She’s stressing me out”Okay, so did you learn that you're not special and that you can't change him and that a baby won't make him love you? Did you learn this? Please learn this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 08:27 AM |
| 200 | This is why pickmeishas are dangerous… she wants to be instrumental in causing a girl’s trauma all to be friends with her bf’s friends 😠😠Honey, stop trying to crawl up Robin's ass. He already told you what he thinks of you. Just stop! This is the type of girl negging works on. The guy straight up told her she is less than garbage to him, and now she's ready pull random girls off the street and throw them in his bed just to gain his approval. It's incredible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 08:17 AM |
| 52 | To the women here who are childfree: how do you define “childfree”?Ughh... SO many people do this. They find an identity label that they like, and they they change the definition of the label to fit them, and then they get upset and accuse you of gatekeeping when you try to tell them that that's not what the label means. We all know what childfree means. It means free of child. Not free of child until the right man comes along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 04:08 AM |
| 87 | A common DM I get from scrotes - “you’ll be forever alone”. Let’s discuss this..I am 100% fine with being forever alone. I enjoy my own company more than I enjoy the company of a smelly hairy scrote. Before they say this line again, they should really consider, would they want to spend the rest of their lives with another man just like themselves? No thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 10:50 PM |
| 363 | "My well off husband is "guarded with money" because of pAsT eXpErIeNcEs and sits by as I flounder. How do I convince him I'm not a gold digger and ask him to please help me so that I can stop crying myself to sleep?"Why do these women sound like they are married to absolute strangers? She says they've been together for 9 years total, and yet he doesn't even care that she's struggling financially and crying herself to sleep? Why are they even married? This sounds like a roommate situation. Like two roommates accidentally got married one day. What is going on here? Why did you marry this guy? If they have kids (please don't have kids!) will the kids need to pay rent? Will the kids be viewed as selfish leeches… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 10:42 PM |
| 92 | As much as I hate war, I agree with her response. And "a period"? 🤔. Yeah it's not like I pick and choose when menstruation begins each month.A "penis" is not an excuse to be a dick, either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 09:09 PM |
| 75 | No more friends in abusive relationshipsThere is this TV show called What We Do In The Shadows. It's about a bunch of vampires on Staten Island, and one of them is an energy vampire called Colin Robinson. (He is basically that asshole in your office who will not STFU and bore you to death.) And in one episode, he starts dating an emotional vampire called Evie, who just sucks the energy out of people with her tragic stories about herself. The "friends" in these relationships remind me of these two characters so much. Sometimes it feels… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 08:02 AM |
| 20 | Reminder: You can twist a man's arm to make him say/do almost anything. In the end, a choice that he makes in the absence of pressure is infinitely more reflective of his feelings and intentions.It's so amazing to me because I see it all the time. A person's gut instinct is trying to tell them SO HARD that something is wrong, but the person's coping mechanism is doing everything in its power to prevent the person from hearing it. The coping mechanism was like "See? He luh luh luhs you! You can relax now!" Like... It's so sad how our own minds sabotage us like this. To prevent a small hurt right now, it ends up causing us life-ruining levels of hurt later on. (reddit is doing a weird err… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:20 AM |
| 66 | female athletes deserve better. use this to vet your boyfriend, see if he’s the type to justify this double standard by saying “women’s sports have low viewership & sponsorships so they need to show some skin”. 🤮So the men are also wearing little speedos when they play beach handball, right? Right??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:12 AM |
| 11 | They even use our sexual boundaries against us to get offIf a guy ever wants to come on your face, RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 04:03 PM |
| 174 | Reminder: You can twist a man's arm to make him say/do almost anything. In the end, a choice that he makes in the absence of pressure is infinitely more reflective of his feelings and intentions.I'm not going to be able to offer a concrete example because there have been so many shows and movies that do this, but even as a little kid, when the woman wanted something, and the man didn't want to do it (for example, propose marriage, go to the ballet, opera, or take dancing lessons, buy a present, remember a birthday, or say 'I love you.' You know the episodes I'm talking about, where the guy starts stuttering like 'I lu--- I lu--- I lu-lu-luh you..." Even as a kid I felt so uncomfortable … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 03:59 PM |
| 140 | There is no such thing as a "pRuDe"I'm a prude, I don't give a fuck, you're not doing anything with my body unless I'm into it. Notice how this prude thing never works on men when you ask them if you can stick a candle up their ass. Suddenly it's okay to be a prude when male boundaries are involved. Prude is just one more word they use to control and manipulate us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 04:07 AM |
| 63 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?Exactly! They are all personally invested in one way or another. They would rather sacrifice this woman than to face the discomfort of reality! Happy cake day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 11:30 PM |
| 123 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?First of all, I want to know WHO is giving your friend backlash for leaving this creep? Who is sitting there thinking, I am entitled to have an opinion about this? Who is sitting there thinking, this woman needs to stay with this man because... BECAUSE WHY? What reason could there possibly be??? Doesn't he have other girlfriends to support him through his polyamorous relationship? Maybe the backlasher can go support him? I mean, what the fuck is this? Who are these clowns? Support your friend, p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 10:11 PM |
| 2 | The new dating scam.There is a book by Pete Walker called Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/20556323-complex-ptsd And it talks heavily about fight, flight, freeze, and fawn. I highly recommend it. As women we always need to be mindful of our safety. If arguing with a guy can get us hit or killed, (or if he has a different kind of power, get us fired or ruin our lives in different ways) we need to be strategic and sometimes not responding and removing yourself from the situ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 03:26 PM |
| 29 | The new dating scam.I think it's the opposite. They feel proud that they were able to trick a woman into paying for them. It's such a "beta-male" mindset. They know can't get a woman by being "a Chad" so in order to protect their pathetic little egos, they convince themselves that "Chads" are "simps" and that women deserve to be punished and outsmarted. Who ends up getting outsmarted is these men. They poison the well that they drink out of, they have children with women they hate, they hate their children, their c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 01:58 AM |
| 40 | The new dating scam.Absolutely! It took me so long to stop freezing and being bewildered when someone breached the social contract of politeness and took advantage. I had no idea how to react. No one had given me a script on how to deal with this or what to say. I was only trained to be polite and not take up space. Women are not prepared (by those who are supposed to raise them) how to handle this shit. Instead, we are punished whenever we try to stand up for ourselves. I remember being in 2nd grade and getting ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 11:51 PM |
| 54 | Return of the city scrotesHave you learned to use your purse as a weapon/battering ram yet? It's so much fun to smash into a scrote with your giant purse and he can't say shit because technically, he's the one who plowed himself into it by coming at you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 08:14 PM |
| 123 | The new dating scam.I feel like this is the last step before they go "She's paying," and wink at her like "Women's equality! Tee-hee!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 04:56 PM |
| 103 | "How come you are still single?"I say really weird and awkward things to that question like: "Because nobody wanted me." (Fake pout mocking the asker.) "I'm too young to get married." (I'm in my 40's) "Why would I get married?" (With a WTF is wrong with you? facial expression.) It shuts people up real quick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 12:41 PM |
| 1515 | The new dating scam.This is where you need to be assertive, interrupt, and don't worry about being rude. Us women have been socially conditioned to keep quiet and take it, from birth, and we need to fight the programming. They are depending on us being passive. "Wow, it's not enough that you want separate checks, but you want me to pay for part of your food too? Are you broke?" Shame him in front of that waiter or waitress. And then look directly at the waiter or waitress and say "I'll only be paying for the things… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 12:36 PM |
| 77 | As she should !She doesn't understand how that's a joke. She understands that it was a joke, what she doesn't understand is why you think it's funny or why you think that she should think it's funny or why you thought you could call her a hoe and then act like the victim when she didn't laugh. Weak men hiding behind "Y U No Understand JOKE??" is such cringe. YOU are the joke, my dude. You just aren't funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 08:45 PM |
| 46 | "You earned my respect by not sleeping with me, actually", said the man who tried to relationship-fake me into banging himA guy said that to me a long long time ago (I must have been somewhere between 19-21?) and I tried to gotcha him with: "So you don't respect girls who sleep with you?" But he didn't even get it, he proceeded to explain to me how all those girls are skanks who don't deserve to be respected, and I passed the test because I'm not like the other girls. Like.......... Oh. Never spoke to him again after that. Men who put women into categories of 'to be respected' and 'to be disrespected' are trash. He… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 08:32 PM |
| 15 | A police man text me today after a very non serious incident that I wasn’t really even involved inForget Officer Scrote for a second, I'm horrified by your parents' reaction. This cop digs out your number and texts you, and they think it's okay to minimize your feelings and make you doubt yourself?? No, this is not okay! It's very inappropriate. The cop was throwing out a fishing line to see if you would bite. His aim was to get into your pants. Trust your gut! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 02:26 PM |
| 10 | How to raise boys with HVM values and traits?That's so smart of him! I would have never thought of that! You might also want to get the cat's teeth checked. It might be a dental problem that prevents him from chewing the food. Hope everything turns out okay. But you are so right! Teaching empathy towards animals goes a long ways towards empathy towards humans. And most men I've met who love cats end up being pretty decent people! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 01:39 AM |
| 215 | Women can predict a man’s interest in short-term uncommitted relationships just by looking at his face - Scientific study resultsIt's good that their gut tells them he's a fuckboy, now if only they could find a way to silence the little voice that tells them "Ya, but I can change him tho!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 10:52 PM |
| 70 | we can’t do anything right…Honestly, whenever someone tries to do this to me now, I just say loudly "IT'S NOT YOUR PROBLEM! It's not your problem." Really. It's not your problem. Shut up. People need to know their place, and our bodies ain't it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:32 PM |
| 56 | How to raise boys with HVM values and traits?Yes! Both boys and girls need to know how to do all chores and how to cook and do laundry and take care of themselves. The era of raising little husbands and little wives is over. Parents need to be raising complete human beings who are self-sufficient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:29 PM |
| 42 | How to raise boys with HVM values and traits?I'm not going to be the best one to give advice because I don't have kids or want kids, but I also want to point out that no matter how much good information and instruction the kids are getting from the parents and family, the friends group is also very important. One rotten friend can ruin all the work you've done if you haven't raised strong children who don't worry about fitting in. Your kids have to be leaders, not followers. And it's so hard being the only kid in a group of 30 that says 'n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:24 PM |
| 127 | Wild Take I received while vetting:So he plans on being sick of you in 2 years and filling that hole with some kids or a dog, or am I reading this wrong? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:15 PM |
| 18 | Marketing low effort to People on InstagramAw, that sucks! I'm sorry! I really don't understand these cellphone adverts at all. I play a few cellphone games meant for children and some of the advertisements are so sexist and disgusting. Like there is one right now for HomeEscapes and it's about a small girl who enters a room and sees her father having an affair with a woman in a maid costume and then her mother rushes in and starts crying??? LIKE WTF??? I'm just trying to play a cute game, I don't need to see this stuff! There is another… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:11 PM |
| 47 | Marketing low effort to People on InstagramThe advertisement is so bad, I can't even figure out what the service it is that they are providing? I went to the (dot com) website and it seems to be some sort of site for artists and content creators?? Then I realized that's not even the website, it's a completely different company. This one's website leads to a cellphone app that seems to be a version of yelp. I am seriously in awe of whoever made this ad. How much money did they get paid to mess up this badly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:00 PM |
| 7 | A minor peeve but still annoyingHe doesn't wash his face? (I hope at least he showers every day and the face gets washed during that time?? I mean... Does he even brush his teeth?) But you can tell it's pickme behavior from the way she's typing. A normal question would be "Recommend me a moisturizer that absorbs like silk and feels like there's nothing there." NOT "Here is me apologizing and excusing my overgrown toddler for not knowing how to human. Tee-hee! I still have sex with this thing though! It's the best I could do, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 07:26 PM |
| 149 | Marketing low effort to People on InstagramI don't even have to pick up the restaurant? I don't even have to write grammatically correct sentences that make sense? Why bother? Customers will just do my job for me and figure out what I meant to say. Low effort advertisement for low effort people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 07:21 PM |
| 188 | Disgusting scrote sought out SA survivor to fulfill his “kink.” Reason #485949 to NEVER reveal your trauma to a man when you first start dating. ALWAYS vet for this behavior! I hope she leaves his ass for good!Anyone who ever tells a rape victim that being squicked out by rape fetishes is kink-shaming deserves a special place in hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:45 PM |
| 49 | Disgusting scrote sought out SA survivor to fulfill his “kink.” Reason #485949 to NEVER reveal your trauma to a man when you first start dating. ALWAYS vet for this behavior! I hope she leaves his ass for good!This is why I never post that kind of information about myself anymore. There is always some pervert pulling his dick to it. I feel so bad for this woman. She's trapped in a foreign country now with this asshole. Her entire marriage is a lie. And her brain is trying to self-soothe and do a coping mechanism by trying to convince her that he's not all bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:42 PM |
| 74 | Survey: Single Men Change Their Bed Sheets How Often?!Imagine if that's the average, (and imagine that men lie about the numbers, because men certainly have a track record of lying about the numbers) then that means that there are men out there who haven't changed their sheets in years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 05:31 PM |
| 76 | This is the most laughably pathetic thing I've seen in a long time.Huh, I guess we should be glad she didn't put 'when to be a daughter.' (Ignoring the disgusting interpretations of that sentence) It's quite telling that she expects women to take a motherly role with men, but doesn't expect men to return the favor for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 03:14 PM |
| 582 | Watch how men treat you when completing tasks they want to “do themselves”One of my best friends comes from a whole family of HVW's and HVM's. One day we were at her brother's house, which she was staying as a guest, and apparently he'd just bought a new flatscreen and hadn't had the time to program the remote control yet, so his sister/my friend asked me to fix it, since she had no idea how. When he came home and saw what I did, he genuinely thanked me like I'd taken a huge problem off his plate and asked me to show him exactly what I did, and then he thanked me agai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 11:27 PM |
| 106 | I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme yearsIt's so sad, and so hard to break the cycle because these women were brought up with the Pickme lifestyle and end up raising their sons and daughters the same way, (I would blame the men for "raising" too, but somehow I don't even believe they stick around enough to do any of the raising. So I will blame them for their absence and refusal to father their kids.) I'm so glad you were able to break the cycle and get out. There needs to be a whole cultural shift from the bottom up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 04:03 PM |
| 342 | I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme yearsImplying that you may be bitter? LOL It looks like that friend might be projecting too. It sounds like you are living your best life and haven't even thought about these scrotes from the past until the friend brought it up. It's so sad, especially in small towns like this, girls are brought up to believe they need a man to be happy/valid while men are brought up to... I don't even know what? You tell me. It doesn't look like they are being brought up to keep their dick in the pants, be good husb… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 03:25 PM |
| 143 | Why does society accept men screaming and raging over dumb shitIt's the "boys will be boys" shit. Girls get punished and shamed for the exact same behavior until it's completely socially conditioned out of them, meanwhile boys get to act like shit flinging babboons and get reinforcement from society that it's acceptable for them to be like this, and then everyone acts like girls are "more mature" from birth. I know it's both impossible and unethical but it would be nice to see a study where girls were brought up in an environment where 100% everyone gives t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:27 PM |
| 115 | Again with the height thing....LOL exactly, she called him 40 minutes before the date and he was already standing in front of her house? 🤣🤣🤣And then he says she make him wait 20 minutes, but in actuality, since he was there 40 mins early, and she got ready in 20, that would mean she was 20 minutes earlier than the agreed upon time. Scrotes can't even come up with proper "that happened" material! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:18 PM |
| 54 | Again with the height thing....Snow White's 7 dwarves jumped out of the trunk and began to clap! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:15 PM |
| 6 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???LOL Yeah I wanted to reply "It's a prehistoric texting system used by cavemen" but jokes don't come across too clear on the internet sometimes and I didn't want to come across sounding mean/rude when really it's meant to be fun/playful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 05:43 PM |
| 120 | Be careful around your friends’ boyfriends/husbands. Vet them & NEVER get too comfortable, no matter what.Back in college, I was friends with a coworker who turned out to be a LVW dating an LVM guy. He went to medical school and thought himself hot shit while she was supporting herself through community college, so she had all her hopes and dreams tied to him. She was going to marry him, he was going to be a doctor, and her future was going to be secure. One day he showed up at our work to come pick her up. I'd met him several times through her but this was the first time we were alone together whil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 01:13 PM |
| 28 | What does FDS think of men who post a lot on social media?I am extremely private. I don't have a Facebook, and my other accounts are super-private. You wouldn't even be able to find them if you knew me IRL and tried to search for them. My face is never posted, nor my last name or any other identifying info. I don't even look at porn or do creepy things on any of those accounts. I just value my privacy. I feel like most HVM will be the same, they value their privacy. They might have an instagram or some other account where they share stuff with old scho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 12:51 PM |
| 68 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???You're right! I did some digging and some dude named Craig created it back in 2010 (even then AIM was old news.) Here is the link to al lthree pages of the application: https://issuu.com/cmw092883/docs/the_official_girlfriend_application | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 12:19 AM |
| 180 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???AIM preferred... AIM still exists??? This dude has to be at least 50. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 12:03 AM |
| 108 | Rejected a man due to his height - family are giving me second thoughts +gaslighting me!I'm from a similar culture as you so I get it, but your family needs to pull their heads out of their asses. Your mother birthed and raised a child for how many years and now wants to gaslight you and push you towards the first available scrote? There are plenty of girls shorter than 5'4 that this guy would be suitable for. Heck, there are plenty of taller women who don't mind, or even like sort guys. I've found a few short guys pretty awesome (but they had great personalities, and were attracti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 11:56 AM |
| 121 | It isn't "classist" to want a guy who is financially stable. Some FDS followers are working class women. I cannot think of anything more privileged than telling women who have known poverty, that it is shameful to want a man who won't drag them back to poverty level.It's absolutely incredible to me that anyone thinks they have the right to dictate to us who we should be dating. If we don't want to date broke scrotes, we don't want to date broke scrotes. We don't owe anyone an explanation. If they love these dudes so much, let them date them. Do you want to know what my senior citizen HVM dad says? That before a man is qualified to marry a woman, he has to be able to financially take care of and provide for her. He shouldn't take a girl out if he can't affor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 01:19 AM |
| 18 | men are self-aware, when they truly want to help, they give FDS type of advice. HVM agree with FDS, only the misogynists whose tricks are exposed by this sub slander it.Look at all the awards this dude received for saying the same exact shit we say all day every day. (I'm glad he said it though. I'm just pointing out that again, we are not equal.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 06:27 PM |
| 76 | Is this meant to be belittling?Ask him when his classes start at Clown College. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 02:37 PM |
| 47 | Random, but an update on Bill Cosby.We need to boycott every single human being and company involved in this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 09:23 PM |
| 139 | I'm done 😪I feel so bad for women who have the children of LVM. (I feel bad for the kids too, but that's a different sub.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 09:20 PM |
| 128 | have you ever done something sexual you didn’t enjoy? too bad! you now owe it to all future partners /sWhat is he being deprived of?? Shit-dick? These guys have such fomo over the most ridiculous things. If he wants to put his dick in a butthole so badly, he should date another guy. Also, I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I'm glad you're away from these creeps now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 09:11 PM |
| 240 | have you ever done something sexual you didn’t enjoy? too bad! you now owe it to all future partners /sMen are seriously under the delusion that they are experiencing something when a girl swallows a load of cum. Like, what are you experiencing exactly? A girl pretending to enjoy swallowing something disgusting? Why does degrading a girl turn you on? Why does coercing a girl into doing something she doesn't want to do turn you on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 09:09 PM |
| 83 | So true. I may not be where I want to be at 31. But I am wayyy happier.She is clueless. They will catcall you when you look super-confident because they enjoy knocking strong women down and humiliating them. I've seen them catcall literally everyone except girls younger than 10 and women who are granny-aged. The only time I consistently 100% never have been catcalled is when I was very sick, had lost a lot of weight and was looking like a walking corpse. I looked like I was literally dying a slow death. (I'm fine now.) I think sick women, old women, and pre-pubesce… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:40 PM |
| 344 | So true. I may not be where I want to be at 31. But I am wayyy happier.I'm in my 40's and I can tell you it just gets better and better. But you do have to take care of yourself. Drink plenty of water, exercise, take your vitamins, don't smoke cigarettes, keep alcohol to a minimum or not at all. Eat plenty of protein and vegetables, take care of your hair and skin. And do all of this FOR YOU, for your eyes when you look in the mirror, for yourself when you're existing inside your body. Don't do it to accomodate the male gaze. Their eyes don't even deserve to look a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:31 PM |
| 112 | Is this the logic they are using??? 🤦🏽♀️ So which is it? Are men rapists and violent towards women inherently or not?? Are men on board with this excuse?? 😹So she thinks that men are just rape-machines that can't control themselves? The only thing keeping us safe from these monsters is sex workers? Like I know we live in a dystopia and everything, but I didn't realize it was that bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:25 PM |
| 214 | 33 women by 21. These are the men who will dunk on promiscuous women for a body count they were traumatized into and the sexual encounters they did not enjoy but endure. His poor gf, you can't turn a hoe into a husband (he's also active on cheater/porn subreddits lol)"I've added 16 bodies to my list" Like..................... We're not even humans to them. I don't even believe that 34 women had sex with this clown, this just seems like an elaborate "ihavesex" story tempered with an embarassing STD to make it feel realistic, but it just goes to show, men see themselves as hunters and us as their prey. They brag about how many fish they caught on the fishing trip, they brag about how many bodies they had sex with. It's not even about us or about the orgasm, it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:13 PM |
| 130 | Lingerie is NOT a giftWe live in a society where men don't wear lingerie for women. Lingerie-type garnments exist for gay men to wear for each other, but I haven't found anything except novelty underwear (like a thong with an elephant face/trunk penis pouch in the front, or a Christmas themed thong with a peppermint stick penis pouch in the front. How sexy, right?) Google 'lace lingerie for men' and you're just going to find fetish stuff. For who's pleasure? Men's of course. I know lingerie makes some women feel sexy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:10 PM |
| 65 | This is what breeding with a LVM will do to youBut what happened to 50-50? Why isn't he holding up his end of the bargain by carrying the child in his womb for 4 1/2 months? Fair is fair, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:53 PM |
| 40 | Weekly FDS Check-InI think one of the big problems is that they have no role models or examples in their lives where other women they know IRL are being taken out on fancy dates. If the fanciest place your best friend has been taken to was Burger King, and if your mom hasn't seen a penis since your father dumped her 10 years ago, and your other best friend, who is married, just keeps complaining about having to pick up after two kids and a sloppy husband who picks his nose in front of her and hasn't remembered her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Why ?Yeah, I've seen this so much as I grow older. These young new girls of every generation think they know best. They have to split checks now because having the guy pay is old fashioned (but what's really happening is that they know if they even suggested for the guy to pay, he would laugh in their faces.) They have to have sex on the first date because not having sex is old fashioned (but what's really happening is that they know if they don't put out, there won't be a date #2.) They say they lov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 12:30 PM |
| 23 | I confessed to a fat man and it lowered my value in his eyesYeah I think your gut is right about that. My friend thought there was something wrong with people who were attracted to him too. "That someone who liked him while he was fat wouldn't be good enough once he shed the weight." I think he definitely would have agreed with this. Sadly, he never shed the weight, and as far as I know he's still sitting alone in his room, miserable, wanking it to Swedish looking dudes (he's really into the Nordic types, had a whole fantasy about moving to Sweden and ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:46 AM |
| 31 | Scrote ShitI invite you to eat some WAP if you're hungry. (but not mine, someone else's.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:16 AM |
| 61 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!"My standards are so low! How come I still can't find a man??" All kidding aside though, this cultural gaslighting that other women participate in is mind-boggling to me. I know a huge part of it is that they need to convince and reassure themselves, that's why they come out so forcefully defending this garbage, but women need to realize that they are 50% of society and (I don't really know what % to blame them for the mess we're stuck in now but...) This is really harmful to all women, includin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:03 AM |
| 104 | I confessed to a fat man and it lowered my value in his eyesI don't know him and I wasn't there, so I'm asking: Do you think what he said was true, that "he really hates being fat and doesn't want to date anyone who liked him while he was fat," or... What do you think he was actually saying? "I don't like you so I'm letting you down easy?" "You can't handle all this jelly?" "I am negging you because you are not good enough for me?" My gut instinct just from reading the few sentences above (so good chance of being inaccurate) is that he was being 95% hone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 06:48 AM |
| 18 | Is the transitioning stage always this hard?This is fantastic! I love it! This is exactly what happens when you've been a doormat your whole life, and suddenly decide to put up boundaries. The HVM and HVW in your life (who were already respecting and not using you) are happy for you and respect your boundaries right away. The LVM and LVW throw tantrums like you are seeing. It sucks, and I'm sorry that you've had to deal with it, but I'm so glad you've leveled up like this! It's wonderful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 05:21 PM |
| 396 | WHAT IN THE PICKMEISHA DID I JUST READ? 🥴They will definitely pick her now that she said this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 05:15 PM |
| 287 | Expecting men to pay for a date is apparently toxic now? Like anyone cares about his opinionAnd women shouldn't be looked down upon for showing up to a date in a t-shirt, jeans, and sneakers with no make-up on and a messy bun atop their heads, and yet here we are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:21 PM |
| 122 | “So okay, I don’t want to be a traitor to my generation and all but…”They have the "provide for me but pretend I'm providing for you" feature instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 11:40 AM |
| 28 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meAnd it's very telling that a man would never write this little speech on the internet. "I'd totally love it if my wife got a second husband. We could hang out in the house and be besties!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 10:29 AM |
| 106 | Scrote needs pats on the back because the woman he infected with an STD is upset with him; misinformation and woman-shaming circle-jerk ensuesMaybe an HPV infected squirrel crawled up her uterus trying to find a place to store his winter nuts, and that's how she got it! Don't feel bad, bro! It's not your fault! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 10:15 AM |
| 73 | “So okay, I don’t want to be a traitor to my generation and all but…”How do these people have enough life skills to even survive on a day-to-day basis?? Male privilege must be a hell of a drug! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 10:12 AM |
| 169 | “So okay, I don’t want to be a traitor to my generation and all but…”Hahaha what an overgrown toddler! I'm glad he's out of your life now! Imagine being the liar, and then acting like you're the victim in all this, throwing a tantrum, hurting yourself due to your own lack of sense, and the person you're mad at has to drive you to the hospital because you're that much of a clown. Too bad it isn't safe to laugh in ther faces, really, they deserve it so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 09:25 AM |
| 616 | “So okay, I don’t want to be a traitor to my generation and all but…”I like when they punch the wrong type of wall and hurt themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 08:28 AM |
| 17 | When women swap stories about their spouses’ parenting failsYeah, something similar happened to me. One woman got super defensive like "well, you just don't understand men." And I was like, "No, but I do! That's why I would never marry one!" She hates me now. 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 06:51 AM |
| 16 | When women swap stories about their spouses’ parenting failsYeah I'd be a total party-pooper, get a traumatized, distant kind of look on my face and say something like "I remember a time when my mom/dad forgot to pick me up when I was little. I was so scared, I couldn't stop crying, it thought something horrible happened and I had no idea what was going on. I still remember it years later, it was so scary." LOL. Make them feel bad. They should feel bad. They are letting their own kids down in order to cater to scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 06:48 AM |
| 16 | When women swap stories about their spouses’ parenting failsThose stories are not cute or funny. It's amazing how brainwashed society has become that men acting like incompetent bozos when it comes to their own children is seen as something funny and cute. Men can rule the world, create wars, fly airplanes, go to space, but they can't change a diaper because their scrotum-brains aren't wired that way, tee-hee! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 06:46 AM |
| 92 | Girl please 🤦🏻♀️"Is there something wrong with me?" Yes, you've been conditioned by society to be with this clown and blame yourself when he shows you who he really is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 06:37 AM |
| 29 | Beware the ones who “forget their wallet,” ladies.If he "forgets his wallet" pay for yourself and leave. He can call one of his friends (if he has any) to rescue him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 03:56 AM |
| 73 | FDS to the rescue!He already showed you who he is, sis. He's a guy who wants a mommy/chef/maid/personal assistant while he sits on the couch and watches TV. This is the guy you chose to serve. The only way to break the cycle is to get rid of the guy. You aren't the "bitch" in this situation, HE is. (I normally don't use this word, but I'm using it because she used it.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 03:28 PM |
| 18 | Don’t.do.this ladiesIf you even try to tell them the truth, they will get mad and start screaming at you. Believe me, I've tried. Their fantasy of the relationship has overtaken reality, and they truly believe that if they can only solve Problem X, the guy will finally realize that they are meant to be together and they can get their happily ever after. It's really sad to witness the delusion and not be able to do much to help beyond picking up the pieces. (I don't mean to make it sound hopeless, everyone is differ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:20 AM |
| 20 | Don’t.do.this ladiesHE. DOES. NOT. WANT. YOU. I understand this mentality. Some people develop a coping mechanism where they lie to themselves to protect themselves, and she's been lying to herself and giving herself false hope that there is a future between herself and this dude for a while now. The coping mechanism makes her ignore and make excuses for every red flag and obvious 'I don't want to be with you' signal, including the dude literally saying 'I don't want to be with you,' and makes her snatch at every c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:09 AM |
| 242 | Why ?This is ridiculous. The parents should insist on separate checks where the parents just pay for themselves, the scrote is forced to pay for himself and the mini-scrotes, and OP is stuck in the awkward situation where she knows Scrote won't pay for her and it's "too old fashioned" for mummy and daddy to pay for her, so she has to pull out her own wallet and pay for herself. This would cut that behavior out real quick. I feel so sorry for these parents that they have to entertain this clown just t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:48 AM |
| 9 | I am just now realizing that I was negged hardcore and I fell for it...If it was really a joke, they should be able to explain how it was funny, and why they think you would think it was funny. "You think I look like a lizard? Why do you think I would think that's funny? Was the point to make the both of us laugh, or just yourself?" If he's arrogant enough to try to explain why you should think that's funny: "I think you're not capable of making funny jokes, so you shouldn't try. You're only embarassing yourself." And then walk away, or if online, BLOCK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 04:30 AM |
| 17 | I am just now realizing that I was negged hardcore and I fell for it...There is logic that says if I kick a cat, it won't let me pet it. But if I hurt a girl, she'll still let me do whatever I want, and it tastes even sweeter to have a girl that I've humiliated, broken down, and dominated through emotional abuse, than a girl who just wanted me because she was attracted to me. That's the really sick part about it. This is how scrotes think. HVM's instinct is to protect and provide for a woman, scrote's instinct is to break a woman down so that he can feel like a man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 04:06 AM |
| 13 | I honestly think that when women say they want a nice guy this is what we are talking about. This man is masculine but also very sensitive and kind to his wife, it is so nice and attractive. thoughts?If only American movies could be like this. I feel like American scrotes don't even have decent men in media to look up to and try to model themselves on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:46 PM |
| 291 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”"Once a month, my ex-boyfriend from high school emotionally cheats on his wife with me, and I've allowed myself to believe she's cool with it." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:35 PM |
| 41 | I refuse to believe this is real but if it is… Holy MolyIf this doesn't convince women to NEVER send nudes, I don't know what will. None of the men in this story believe that the woman has rights or final say over her own body. (I don't mind if the story is fake in this case, because it can teach women not to send nudes.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:31 AM |
| 196 | The caption 😂If they hate being short so much, they should normalize walking around in 5-inch stilettos. There is literally nothing stopping them except their own fragile masculinities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 10:06 PM |
| 29 | do men just turn into complete POS when they hit 50 or is it that generation?"Midlife Crisis" was an excuse popularized by men in order to excuse the feeling they get as they are aging, their hormones are plummeting, they are having penis problems, their hair is falling out, their body hair is multiplying, their stomach is getting bigger, their health is getting worse, and they are coming to terms with the fact that they are not 22 anymore. They feel like the "midlife crisis" entitles them to acting out, whether it's the cliche of buying sports cars they can't afford, ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 09:53 PM |
| 59 | They don’t listen, they just deflect, lie and make it all about them 🙄Okay... I see a lot of women engaging with men like this and I just want to explain something to you. They say provocative things to get you to react like this and engage with them so that they can debate you and frustrate you BECAUSE IT MAKES THEIR LITTLE PEE-PEES HARD. Do not engage. Even if you are hurling every insult in the book, even if you are 'defeating' them with your debating skills, logic, and facts, they are just enjoying wasting your time and sucking your emotional energy. This guy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:45 PM |
| 13 | For folks you ended up dating the hvm, how did you guys meet. I don’t want to get into OLD - had the worst experience last year.At work, through friends, or from knowing them a long time from living in the same area, or when younger, school. I have never dated a stranger. I think this is a huge problem for younger people, they are going on dates with unvetted strangers. Nobody in your social group knows him so there is no whisper network to tell you if he is a good guy or a creep and to give you all the gossip. There is no social pressure for him to act properly, because it's not going to get back to his mom that he took… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 06:54 AM |
| 77 | EXPLAINING WHY 50/50 IS BAD FOR YOUNGER GENERATION OF WOMEN (TEENS)When men start putting on makeup and getting their hair and nails done and eyebrows waxed, and wearing tight clothes and special underwear to make their bulges and butts look nice and perky for us, and waxing their assholes just in case we feel like digging around back there, maybe then we can talk about going halfsies. When men start to fear that we could just take them someplace and do whatever we want and get them pregnant, and they have to roll the dice each time and pray that it doesn't hap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 06:54 PM |
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