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I have lied about listening to certain songs or watching movies to make someone interested in me in the past (as a high schooler) You're going to jail son. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:03 PM
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The iron laws of market forces apply to biological life as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:27 PM
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"Instead he leveraged his good qualities" His good qualities being a foreigner in a different country? Hey I respect the game though. Anytime I travel I feel like a god damn celebrity on dating apps. Good for him honestly. Looking at his profile he's a fairly okay looking guy too! I tell people this constantly but the heightism shit is way less important in other countries. I'm kinda short myself and it just isn't a big deal in most of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:21 PM
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It depends what community you're from. Where I'm from there are women can be considered "fat" by normie standards but they are extremely shapely. But that's because their bodies are built a certain way with fat distributed mainly in the ass. I'm willing to bet you're right and if he wants a slimmer girl he needs to drop some more weight. Or start interacting more with people in real life and not use dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:19 PM
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I'm thinking the same thing, now. Apparently he went from 200+ lbs to 180. That is fat as fuck and I don't think he is jacked at this weight at all. Still fat. Dude needs to lose more weight if he wants to be more selective when it comes to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:16 PM
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Kind of meaningless without looking at body fat percentage. 5'6 at 180 makes me think he's more on the strong fat side if he says he looks good in mediums. Which is still dad bod fat anyway, and I'm willing to bet it's bloating his face. But he asks the wrong question. He should be asking how should he get leaner while retaining as much muscle mass and how to meet thinner women (ex, move to Boulder, CO).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:09 PM
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Money doesn't turn anyone on anyway I don't know why so many Men think its for anything other than a lifestyle booster. Jeff Bezos and Zuckerberg are not sexual icons just because they're the richest dorkiest nerds in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:31 PM
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No he's literally just a gay man trying to date and that is extremely normal in that community.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:28 PM
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These guys haven't internalized that no one cares and they need to get over it. You did all that work and are successful and attractive now? Great, enjoy the fruits of your labor. I know guys who never dated until they were 32-35 (autism spectrum), and while their lack of romantic success caused them much heartache they completely forgot about it once they found someone. Now how they deal with their very first relationship in their mid 30s with women who have a had a lifetime worth of experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:25 PM
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Dating apps just aren't that good if you fall under a certain level of visceral attractiveness that's easily assessable through photos. However, no ones putting the genie back in the bottle and pretty much any platform can be a dating app if you allow messages and photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:58 PM
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Are all your friends from a certain country near the equator?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:04 PM
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I lean more sub than dom sexually but I learned through my experiences with lots of different women that women who want to take the dominant role are pretty rare. So I had to get good at playing the right role. There are way more guys into it than girls which is why dommes can charge a lot of money to cater to those fantasies. Being a switch is a lifesaver. The most submissive dudes are kind of fucked (ironic since they usually don't fuck) to a degree. After lots of discussions with them someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:17 PM
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The men complaining about the "loneliness epidemic" are not the ones responding nonchalantly to women texting them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:43 PM
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I'm from the early internet so people pseudo self doxxing always scares me because super psychos with time on their hands can be extreme bad actors. I believe your story because it's pretty banal, I've traveled a lot and seen some of the same things. I personally would say take anything identifying your real name down on a public forum it's not actually safe bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:24 PM
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Doesn't make sense when you scale it up or think too deeply about it so don't take it too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:09 PM
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Competitive I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:30 AM
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I now know three guys who are married and already complaining about their sex lives and honestly I have zero sympathy. Not even 30 with no kids. Relationship is always described as "great BUT" and looking from the outside in it's so obvious that they just slacked and stopped putting in effort. And no it's not because they don't do enough damn dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:07 AM
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As long as you're fucking his brains out and treating him well who else cares
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:04 AM
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My testosterone levels are too high to suffer from this level of neuroticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:01 AM
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People like having sex and like traveling at the same time. A concept invented tens of thousands of years ago when human tribes made contact with each other. Nothing has changed besides the technology. Yes some Women like fucking hot guys in different countries too. This isn't nuclear physics or requires the imagination of Salvador Dali or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:30 AM
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Lol "offenders". People fuck. People travel. People meet other people on their travels and fuck. What's with the theatrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:26 AM
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I would at least set it up so he thinks the woman is legit and not getting paid. Tyrion style.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:19 PM
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Billionaire. In the future no one rich will be ugly at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:18 PM
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You know 3 girls that would pityfuck a dying teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:17 PM
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There is no race. Just stop giving a fuck. I myself will tell you your 16 year age gap will statistically make your relationship unstable but why care? You know the risks, aren't doing anything illegal, and if you can stomach side eye from people and still not care just do you. It's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:10 AM
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"Do you see your female friends completely non sexually in a way where even any sexual contact with them would feel disgusting like if they were a sibling" Yeah I have zero interest in fucking any of my female friends but the idea of sex with them doesn't gross me out like it would say my cousin or sisters. If a friend were to ask me I'd decline out of respect for my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:47 PM
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Yeah I've seen some of his videos he certainly is entertaining. Can't say I agree with all of his conclusions. But the point is you can't really ban it without getting extreme. Either you need a hyper authoritarian technological system that would make a Soviet commissar or SS officer salivate, or you make the conscious choice to not have any technology exist past 1965.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:30 PM
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There is no solution to any technological problems we face that don't amount to a ban on general purpose computing. The cards were wrapped as soon as the internet existed and everyone had a device in their hand capable of more computational power than the flight trajectory systems for the Apollo program. May you live in interesting times is a Chinese curse not a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:22 PM
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Tallness, hotness ect wont change that you are invisible to people. It literally does. More physically attractive people are more visible in public. That's why if you're super hot you're more likely to get stared at walking down the street vs an average person. You have to get peoples attention somehow. Guess what being hot does to how much attention you get. Funnily enough being super ugly can do almost the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:12 PM
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How would you know if they just lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:01 PM
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Now, that’s not common case, obviously Yeah exactly it's like getting orange juice by smashing fruit with a rock instead of using a juicer. Just do what's more common and effective! Which ain't being super duper kind duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:59 PM
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Some guys think they're lucky to have any girl at all. I think that's nonsense and an easy way to get emotionally abused. A society going from "women suck amirite" to "men suck amirite" still fucking sucks!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:01 PM
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Physical health is the foundation of mental health. Move more, get better quality sleep, and eat better food. Very hard to withstand life stress if you physically feel like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:59 PM
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There was an old lady working the toll booth who said I looked handsome. She was very nice and definitely looked hot 50 years ago. We could make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:58 PM
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A lot of these guys are extremely lonely, desperate, and just plain fucked up and mentally ill. It gets fucking dark man. Real dark. It's like the fentanyl of the BDSM community. Also doesn't help there's like 100 sub dudes for every domme girl so they can only get their outlet paying some girl who's not even into it like that. I think it's pure evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:43 PM
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What site
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:38 AM
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Oofy doofy theory? Do you people listen to yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:37 AM
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I still remember his war in chiraq series. I think the clout and money got to his head. Getting robbed of 500k by some thot is some sucker shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:36 PM
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If you look good. But are incredibly corny and lame. You do not get laid. That is called having no game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:08 PM
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Gender norms are constructed because one group has babies and the other doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:40 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:38 PM
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Reminds me of this post of this guy who had a castration fetish and the idea made him SUPER HORNY. One day he goes through with it but immediately becomes engulfed with despair as the reality hits since he is no longer capable of being horny. Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:31 PM
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It would seem then that the age-old debate: "Women are just as sexual/horny as men" can finally be put to rest. No that was put to rest about...100,000 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:20 PM
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Now that's true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:08 PM
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Make an ig and use AI pics to craft a fake dope life but not too fake that it's unbelievable. Start following girls in your city and if they follow back AND watch your story, send them a message after you watch theirs. From there start a convo and meetup for drinks. Every market is gameable including this one. Ed Thorp taught me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:07 PM
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=/ Respect for her keeping it real. That's the best case for most couples after a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:02 PM
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I wonder what the answer is if you ask your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:56 PM
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If you believe in the dissolution of gender roles and progressive values but also believe due to biological constraints and evolution the goals are literally impossible and therefore stupid to try and implement hamfistedly... What would that make you? Like to me it would be great if Men didnt feel they had to be strong, or confident, or manly to be fulfilled or Women didn't feel they had to be ultra feminine paragons of beauty who shouldn't age or else they're worthless. But we are literally ani…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:24 PM
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This is a therapist that's supposed to be dispencing advice and proper mental models for people to better navigate life??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:23 PM
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My pet peeve are people who think they're speaking directly when they aren't. Stop with the "Well you should have known..." stupid shit. Just say what you fucking mean and say whats on your mind. If you don't feel safe enough to communicate openly with your partner why are you even with them? This is such a common thing, people expecting to have someone always read you while you write nothing. A person shouldn't need the position of the stars and the sun to determine how you felt about something…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:05 PM
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He looks fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:01 PM
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It wasn't about the chocolate but how many times do humans have to learn men and women are different and this leads to conflict due to lack of understanding. We can ameliorate this by having better mental models of your partner. Women tend to give a shit about things Men think are trivial and vice versa. Add in no open communication and resentment just festers. Yes she is being OD as fuck over some dumb shit because it's the straw and she never feels heard or seen but in my experience subcommuni…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:53 PM
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Because gender equality as it pertains to behavior is total nonsense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:41 PM
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I will never fault a man in the arena for trying. Good on him, more balls than most guys his age will ever have. And you don't need to let the opinions of other people knock your confidence. This becomes easier as you get older are get a bunch of life wins under your belt or go through really hard shit. Why the fuck would you care about some random cunt when they weren't there seeing you battle your lifes problems. Just laugh it off, on to the next one. You guys care way too much what some rando…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:17 PM
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Female women as opposed to??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:58 PM
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Because they're chicks. If they were all dudes theyd just call you a fag
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:48 AM
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Girl Math: Facetious observations about being bad with numbers or math Boy Math: Facetious observations that have nothing to do with numbers or math So weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:08 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5745404/ How many people actually bother to read the entire contents of things instead of the title. Most of the time it aint even the damn abstract. Always take these as data points and not gospel and understand the damn limitations of these studies. There's a reason half of these studies can't even be replicated. If your study participants are always 20 year old white girls trying to get credit or WEIRDs how reflective will it be towards certain dem…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:59 AM
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Boy science is realizing her complaints may just be reflections of guys she fucked meaning those behaviors are correlated with success. Ever met a girl who complains a fuck ton specifically aboout white dudes? Yeah because she's always fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:31 AM
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That's great! You are above average and an outlier. In general women communicate much more than men do. At least verbally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:58 PM
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Might as well just go all the way at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:32 AM
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Being more physically attractive means you probably win more times you try not that you win them all. The hottest men on the planet do not literally have every woman interested in them no matter what cmon now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:32 AM
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It's acceptable if the wife is okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:56 AM
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People with a higher sex drive will actively seek out sex more which is why gay men stereotypically have circuit queens and gay women largely do not. Women do not have a higher sex drive than men. The bell curves overlap though. Like height.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:52 AM
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https://twitter.com/Ruesavatar/status/1743617525290504628 This is the reason why large age gaps mostly fail. You can be 42 fucking 20 year olds but making them your wife? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:49 AM
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It isn't impossible but you really need to be plugged into a tight knit religious community. At the very least that helps a lot. Hope it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:20 AM
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They'll pretend to be born again virgins and fornicate anyway, or they were never all that interested in sex anyway which is why they are also able to be virgins at 30 yo. In my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:12 PM
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So you wanna play penpal with your pretend girlfriend who you never met. The advice is find someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:20 AM
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I see the vision. This guy could pull a specific niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:17 AM
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If a girl looked like a 10/10 model but only to my eyes and she was ugly to every other dude in the world I would never complain. No competition whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:42 AM
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Vaping while pregnant 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:36 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/18s832n/have_you_ever_had_a_profound_sexual_experience/ I dont understand guys who put a womens enjoyment of sex as a non priority. Bro you can legit steal a chicks soul by fucking the shit out of her right why are some dudes so lazy. Durrr female orgasm isn't necessary. Knock that shit out of the box and just watch what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:28 PM
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He has an extremely small niche and he's 5'3 to boot. It really is a massive uphill. A Henry Cavill lookalike could pull this off but he'd definitely have less matches than a version of his profile that wasn't so anime specific. He's 21 so he has a lot to learn. The height is super tough so I get it depending on his environment. It's like the equivalent of being obese as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:06 PM
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You know that most 5'3 indians are happily married? How? Literally I claim no ability to determine the validity of this in the negative or affirmative I'm legitimately curious how its possible to even determine this. Unless you just made it up to try and counter a point on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:43 PM
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I don't take these "just a" things seriously because the devil is always in the details and humans have a penchant for just confabulating their true desires or not even being aware. So what comes out of peoples mouth is different than their real preferences in behavior. For example I don't think if they met a guy who made $2 an hour selling hot dogs in the park and he was a nice guy they would hop on and start dating. Aka it isnt JUST have A job and not be an asshole. Most people in general aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:24 PM
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By changing aspects of yourself to make it more likely to get what you want. Whether it be your location, your social skills, your physical appearance. Everyone who goes "I dont have to change anything" and still complains about their results is foolish. And life isn't fair so asking why some guys have to change everything about themselves to become dateable and some guys don't is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:18 PM
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The reason men struggle with getting dates is because they're a "bad person" List examples of women being abused or terrorized by their partner and serial abusers. You have to pick one (the answer is 1. Isn't valid). My issue isn't that being a "bad person" makes you a worse option to date. It's ultimately that in my experience it's almost completely irrelevant at least on the front end. I have had way too many girlfriends, in fact literally every woman ive talked to has dated a guy or had a fli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:53 PM
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I would never ever be this guy myself or put myself in this position and I wouldn't want my friends or someone I really care about to be this guy either. However, I am happy for all of them especially the kid as they seem to be getting a great step dad. So I'm not like "omg what a beautiful love story he's a real man and if you don't want to do what he did you're bad" Cuz fuck that. And I'm also not like "omg what a cuck and a loser single moms deserve to die alone!!" So kinda neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:50 AM
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If his brother is old enough to "do well with women" there's very little if anything to "protect" him from like he's a 10 year old accidentally getting taken by the youtube algorithm. Also OP agrees with his brothers views obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:50 PM
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It's more rare but I've seen it. The guy was just extremely absurdly hot. At least she thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:43 PM
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Have a chip or don't. You're getting what you wanted now right? You have more options. Exercise them if you want. Settle down if you want. Be the fuck boy you always wanted to be out of "revenge" if you want. It's your life why should we care how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:36 PM
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Someone who is super hot. And people meming about Margot Robbie being "mid" isn't the "patriarchy" it's people taking the piss. There's a pretty general consensus on who is hot and who is "ugly" with most people clustering in the middle. There is no objective "hottest woman" but there's patterns and traits you tend to see mathematically in people who are concensously deemed the most beautiful. Beauty not being 100% objective does not mean you can't tell that some people look very hot to a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:38 PM
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Poor lady :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:16 PM
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What if he watches porn of you and him having sex or has like a VR simulator where the only girl is you and it feels like hes fucking you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 10:36 PM
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Because she's a little ass girl why are you going toe to toe with a high school kid lmao why even take what she says seriously cmon dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:26 AM
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Pareto distributions everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:18 PM
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Girl I had a thing with years ago (she was dating some guy at the time) hits up again through my venmo. Thought she was blocked but we started talking again. We only speak for a few days and she blocked me out of nowhere. Droll conversation but I get it. What tipped me off was her trying to acknowledge I thought about her after all this time. I mean yeah it was a weird coincidence you popped into my head right before you venmoed me but like I deleted your nudes years ago. That was some good shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:10 PM
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"I love him, but I was never in love with hi" Mayday mayday engage emergency ejection. Crisis terminal. EJECT. Also is he the poor guy. Dude sounds like he totally sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:02 PM
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I was once uglier and know all too well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:01 PM
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https://twitter.com/soupinthering/status/1738955714800836681 I love social media jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:41 PM
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This is so dumb cmon now lmfaooo. Yeah if his name was InfiniteBuddhaAweseomePerfectHuman I'm sure that changes things too. Lmfao really hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:57 PM
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For every red flag you ignore the lower peoples sympathy will be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:50 PM
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You turned "escalating" which in this context means making the first move into suddenly being a predator. OP isn't talking about raping people so your comments just look silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:42 PM
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I was always very skinny, didn't notice a change in my dating life until I put on muscle mass and boom there you go. I only speak for myself, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:58 PM
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The only thing that matters is what she thinks as she is a 27 year old who ostensibly pays taxes after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:54 PM
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You've never met a super hot guy or pro athlete before?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:07 PM
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Nope. Almost no one is actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:29 AM
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It's the norm because it's biological
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:24 AM
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The women who had to escalate with me didn't prefer it and I lost a few opportunities becsuse I didn't push things forward and they lost interest. Mostly because I came across as clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:00 AM
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Most bisexual people end up with the opposite sex long term that's part of the reason why dyed in the wool gay people are constantly accused of "biophobia" for not taking bisexuals too seriously and don't really consider them gay. Because they accurately see that for a lot of "bisexuals" their bisexuality really isn't that much of a thing. Everytime a girl tells me she's bi I just roll my eyes internally. I won't take it seriously and most dudes aren't gonna be afraid their chicks gonna leave th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:20 PM
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You like him due to some ineffable trait by your unconscious mind that your conscious mind confabulates to tell other people. Anything you say about him that you like can ultimately be said about someone you don't like. Just roll with it not everything needs explanation and you aren't meant to actually know why you like your specific dude. That's just life. "There's just something about him" Yeah, we know, and you don't. That's called being a girl. Jk. But not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:11 AM
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What does casual sex have to do with the selling organs, sex work, or capitalist exploitation. It's two people who just have a temporary relationship that's just about fucking. Two or more people can just agree to have sex and like it. Idk just thought that was weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:59 AM
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Because. They're less horny. That's literally why they are acting like that. Just look at trans men who start taking testosterone and finally understand to some degree what a more male libido is like. It's just hormonal at the end of the day. It's just a bell curve and yes some women can be as horny as guys but the horniest people are mostly going to be dudes. The same way the tallest people tend to be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:30 PM
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I was never a stereotypical masculine guy. If anything I was always a bit more sensitive than my male peers and more of a girlyish guy. It certainly made me a lot of female friends. Girlfriends? Nope. Im not even 30 yet but my entire life experience taught me to be more traditionally masculine over and over again. And it's not even something I WANT to do it's just what works best with the most people. It would be great if I could shirk male gender roles and still get the results I want but....I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:54 AM
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That's mostly irrelevant. Everyone wants something from other people even if it's as simple as their company.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:31 PM
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The internet isn't real life. Just a subset of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:51 PM
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This is not saying that women are hornier than men at older ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:32 PM
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I only like british accents on black girls and I have zero idea why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:17 AM
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You honestly sound like my youngest sister
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:00 PM
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I took it to mean "I haven't thought really hard about this Im just saying words based on immediate emotional reactions don't take my response too seriously nor can I predict how I actually would feel if this was reality again don't take my hypothetical response to this hypothetical situation as anything other than banter"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:11 PM
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Who are self interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:24 PM
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Not a woman thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:13 PM
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Meh sure I guess it depends Sure Ehhh if a guys invested you wont need to. If hes not he might just bounce Yeah nah Pointless That's just stupid as fuck Should be paying you 30 to listen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:11 PM
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As an addendum I've met more gay women who fucked men than gay men who fucked women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:42 PM
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Ive met more misogynists with girlfriends than misandrists with boyfriends because misandrists tend to just be gay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:39 PM
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Actually biology created the "80/20" "problem". It's the norm across multiple species including humans, chimpanzees, and bonobos including other genetic cousins. I'd reckon monogamy as a cultural invention allowed us to form much more stable and larger communities and civilizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:33 PM
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One has pussy One is pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:00 PM
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Yeah and McDonalds stole my wallet by marketing their product and making it appealing to me enough to eat. Gun to my head I was manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:31 AM
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The internet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:23 AM
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I actually know a guy like this. Facially pretty ugly and 5'2. Nice enough guy, makes good money in tech, never had a girlfriend in his life and just married a chick from Vietnam at age 35. Now if he was broke. Yeah I have no clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:18 AM
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My friends always sending me this stuff. Like dude just lose some fucking weight bro and stop watching these videos that make you feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:44 PM
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Oh how could I forget that part too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:44 PM
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https://youtu.be/dDgbett4_Ps?si=YUzTX2ASAqiWikam Videos like these are always so odd. Could sum it up in 30 seconds but it's really an excuse to show off. Lift more get jacked, dress well, walk down the street. The end. That's the entire video.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:39 PM
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Contrary to popular belief women in other countries aren't stupid and they're playing the game too. Some guys get fleeced that way thinking a 25 year old girl is truly truly in love with a 60 year old fat dude who is rich relatively speaking. Maybe <1% of those partnerships end up being genuine but everyone gets what they paid for anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:06 PM
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If I was a dude traveling to another country to either just get laid or find a wife I don't think I'd have any shame about it anymore than if I went to a different state in the US for the same reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:57 PM
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Your audio gonna get scraped and cloned brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:55 PM
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when I see men lean into the persona of being this successful alpha male As a neutral observer I think the OP of your reply finds irony here because they think you are also doing this. Also there's levels to the game. It's pretty pointless comparing yourself to other people. Someone will always be faster, smarter, richer. Someone will always be slower, dumber, poorer. Jerking yourself off to feeling superior feels nice but you're still naked with your dick in your hand when we all die.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:28 AM
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Because the "love of your life" is about actual love. Not just lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:25 AM
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What's wrong with you? A short man stick his penis in your asshole? Get a grip. Anyway. Yes what people say they desire and what they get are two different things. Because it's not possible to obtain what you really want in all cases. We have statistical data regarding the saliency of height with regards to men's attractiveness along with wealth. Men who are taller than other men are more attractive on average. Men who are wealthier than other men are also more attractive on average. Showing dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:16 AM
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That is one aspect. The same way antlers were sexually selected for in deer or elaborate feather designs in peacocks. Ronald Fishers principles regarding sexual selection also apply to humans. However we are different in that cultural evolutions happen much faster than our biological ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:08 AM
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You're confusing selection effects. The majority of men being stronger and taller than women does not explain why women tend to choose men who are stronger and taller than other men. It isn't random. You are being the dummy here lol, I don't like insults but you said it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:03 AM
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What's physically attractive in human beings hasn't changed. Im not quite sure what relevance your question has to my explanation. Regardless of whether you accept the notion that men are more "feminised" or not, masculine men and feminine women are generally regarded as more attractive, cross culturally. Physically speaking and behaviorally. Doesn't mean a feminine man or masculine woman can't be however. Again I still think your question isn't relevant. But if I had to nail it down, I would su…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:00 AM
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Evolved traits don't go away because the environment changes. That's why our bodies easily store fat when it's actually not really needed in an age of carbohydrate hyperabundance. Everything that is extremely attractive in both sexes is from thousands of years of evolution. This is like getting confused people get fat when they eat ice cream and not knowing why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:03 AM
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When the substance is no longer needed the symbols which represent them act as proxies. Fiat Masculinity is like Fiat currency. It doesn't need to be backed by anything besides trust in the symbol and the ability to exchange it when needed if you needed to. Women don't literally need a protector or provider as most of that has been abstracted away by the state and technology. However. Our biological programming based on 50,000-100,000 years of evolution don't change just because society changes …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:50 PM
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Drink water. Get a good nights sleep. Eat enough greens. Get enough protein. Avoid consistent drug use. Get out in nature more when you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:27 PM
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Lol good luck you're not a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:46 PM
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It's real enough that memes about "when you dated a guy and find out he was the ugly friend" exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:57 PM
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The reality is people have always traveled to find a partner, short or long term. Whether it be the next town, next city, next state, next country. It's a global world. I think shitting on women from your home country is lame but there's nothing to "defend" about "passport bros", or "attack". It's just people leveraging their global arbitrage in a market that values them more. Can't care if women do it their way, can't care if men do it their way. It's a free world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:51 PM
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If you have zero clue what they really look like, yes it's a lot easier. People are falling for chatbots that have no physical form. And before that falling in love on discord while only knowing a username and pfp. This wouldn't work as well with humans because once you meet in real 3D space your mind could get turned off by the way they look even if you know what they're like on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:47 PM
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Yes it's very big in America to not split
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:43 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:22 AM
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I don't think libido is the root cause of the urge to propagate. Narrator: "It literally is."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:26 AM
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Extinction of humanity except for the ones with a genetic mutation that made them more aggressive to fuck more and have more children. Thus replacing the super low sex drive ones leading us back to where we are now. We are the result of humans who generally like to fuck a lot. The ones who didn't.... Aren't here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:25 AM
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Women do not find the majority of men physically attractive either. Of the men that are the most attractive their wholesomeness is orthogonal to their sexual success so they can essentially do what they like. You aren't getting princess treatment from a guy who can fuck 10 girls on speeddial. This was less of an issue 30 years ago but societal changes accelerate our worst behaviors in each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:26 PM
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Quality is a subset of attraction in this case so thats not a real answer. The real answer is people are bad at holding two logical conclusions at the same time if it makes them feel bad. Why I don't know. It doesn't bother me the average woman finds most men unattractive. That's just how our biology has always worked. Even in fucking Bonobos. In most mammalian species the vast majority of males in a population are not selected for. Humans aren't any different we just created this thing called s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:23 PM
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Lesbians commit too quickly to someone they aren't compatible with and women in general are harder to please. Add in two people who are simultaneously overeager to commit and hard to please and you get...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:16 PM
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Your solution literally prescibes a way to fake being less vulnerable. Some problems have no solution and input from anyone else isn't gonna do shit. Talking about it with some women WILL make them see you more negatively than if you said nothing. Personally I'd avoid those who can't handle any male emotions that aren't pride or anger myself. But being "vulnerable" is inherently about exposing your weaknesses. Which is not as socially acceptable to do as a Man and never will be. It's your life t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:14 PM
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My Dad cried once and my Mom was disgusted by it. So sample size of N=1. The term "man flu" also exists for sort of the same reason. If a guy gets sick he's just being a big baby. Ironically that's the reason my dad was crying. He was super super sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:11 PM
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Patterns can be observed and then used to your advantage when you figure it out. And human nature isn't actually random. People aren't that special, male or female. We tend to act in very predictable ways. And attraction isn't completely subjective or magical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:32 PM
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so a guy who is machiavellian is high value because he lies and manipulates women? If a lot of women value him yes. would a violent rapist be high value because he gets a lot of women by physical force? If a lot of women want to be with that violent rapist. Yes. Just look at Chris Brown. Note: this is not an endorsement!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:13 PM
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You need society to tell people not to be promiscuous. Not the other way around. They are capable of doing so naturally. So naturally in fact religions separated by time and space routinely pop up telling humans to avoid aspects of their own nature because when scaled up it can lead to certain problems. Like STDs destroying your entire tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:11 PM
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That's why its step 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:37 PM
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Look better. Talk better. Fuck better. There you go the three pillars of getting laid more. Every man must know his limits and whether his goals are worth trying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:32 PM
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Not my type but I always reiterate. "High value" whatever just means how many people value you (outside of their stated preferences). She's conventionally hot so yeah it's easy for me to see how a ton of men find her attractive regardless of whether she could potentially be a crackwhore who spent 20 years in jail for murder. So yeah no shit a billionaire warlord El Chapo type who has murdered thousands of people is "high value" because a ton of women in his country want to marry him. To me being…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:15 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:16 PM
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It's important enough that people will complain if they don't get enough. Like most people are actually not capable of being totally solitary. Im not even speaking intersexually. Just in general. I personally don't care that much but it's trivially easy for me to observe that in general it's kind of important. So to me it seems kind of odd to pretend it's not the case. Or maybe you're mixing an is with an ought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:11 PM
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It's "easy mode" comparatively speaking since you only have to sift through suitors, which is generally the female role vs being the suitor which is generally the male role. Which is simply just how the natural world tends to work anyway, at least at the mammalian level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:56 PM
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Seems people in general have a hard time relating to experiences they've never personally experienced themselves. Personally, can't imagine it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:48 PM
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There are no guarantees to anything but pretending everything is purely luck with no influence on your part doesn't make sense. All the game, confidence, and looking better does is give you more weight to your dice to better bias it in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:19 PM
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A guy who dresses better, works out, starts meeting new people, gets better social skills, and overall works on how people perceive him as a more attractive man is going to do a lot more to "get bitches". The point isn't using the term "get them bitches" which is extremely irrelevant. The point is doing one thing (studying astrophysics) vs another thing (dressing better) is less likely to actually get you more romantic prospects. Some guys don't bother to dress well, make friends, or look good b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:11 PM
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That I had nice veiny hands
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:42 PM
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I don't take bisexuals serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:25 PM
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https://twitter.com/rahsh33m/status/1730364009524699604 People stage all sorts of stuff like this but I have seen something like this in real life. My boy just used the excuse of trying to find the nearest gift shop in Times Square. They are married now with a kid in tow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:11 PM
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Only a minority of straight Men are like that. Why do people here have such a hard time grasping how population distributions work. Individual people != population averages. Yes the person you described is a minority *overall. Anyone can go and find some dude who paints his nails. The average guy isn't doing that though. Id say less than 20% of guys paint their nails in general and its also more prelevant based on specific sub cultures. Like the rave scene for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:33 PM
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Because if these are self reports then people just lie. Like with all self reported anything. Im willing to bet the completely straight group is full of half liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:28 PM
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everyone will spot that you are a poser and you will be mocked Not necessarily. Scam artists who get away with it have always and will always exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:24 PM
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"Deserve" is an empty word here. You get what you can get. There is no deserving or not deserving anything. Simple market forces at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:21 PM
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The normal way. At least in my experience political views aren't that big of a deal if a person really likes you. Also it's called tact. You don't need to lie but if someone really really is diametrically opposed to your views is a long term relationship viable? Idk. Short term, doesn't matter literally at all, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:34 AM
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Do Men who have sex with lots of women and are consistently validated purely for their sexual prowess actually think this way? In my experience, not at all, really. Is this also buttressed by the lack of any super attractive men writing think pieces on being objectified?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:02 PM
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Why is it that gay male bathhouses, the entire circuit queen subculture and glory holes exist and lesbian female ones barely do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:58 PM
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Not necessarily. The friendzone is a direct result of not finding you to be a sexual partner. A lot of women are totally fine being emotionally open with someone they have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:44 PM
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Unless this dude is sending flowers to everyone else what about this specific girl makes him want to do that? Hmmm I can't put my finger on it...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:29 PM
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Is anal even more intimate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:23 PM
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Blowjobs can create a baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:22 PM
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This happen to you? Because I can't relate at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:19 PM
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You can't consume mercury in moderation without long term nerve damage. You can drink alcohol moderately without altering your life span or damage. And have you drank before? What a basic question. It makes people feel good, puts them at ease, and acts as social lubricant. Not gonna kill you in small doses. But Uranium will. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:13 PM
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Outside of religious circles it might as well be zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:10 AM
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Personality does. But its not "rubs your feet and bakes your grandma a cake" its "funny and charming, bold, not a pussy". Which you can be an asshole and still pull off. Easier if she finds you easy on the eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:08 AM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:26 AM
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Doesn't really matter why. Men seem more possessive in general. Just the average guy thinking his wife fucked some random guy he never met years before enrages some. Unless they're Adam 22. Don't ask Don't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:43 PM
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Yeah and some women are also 6 feet tall. In general though they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:36 PM
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Masculine polarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:33 PM
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Obviously. Or is every single adult you've met in your life the paragon of emotional maturity? Lucky!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:47 PM
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You can't fix human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:46 PM
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"Genuine" kindness is completely orthogonal in my point of view. Whether you are "kind" because you'll get something out of it verses being kind for kindness sake is that at the end of the day people can only tell who is bad at it. "I can tell when a person is actually x". No, you can't not really. It's just a selection bias for the times you did tell. In the real world genuinely terrible people can be very popular because they're able to navigate with a very good show at pretending to be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:32 PM
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Telling a girl to "shut the fuck up already" when she was pissing me off. She actually enjoyed my brief display of visceral anger and respected my ability to finally put her in her place. Whereas beforehand I was overly accomodating. Mean verbiage but in general I'd say being too "nice" is just being a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:28 PM
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When it comes to pure animalistic bumping ugly sex you'd be an outlier. Like statistically we do know that less agreeable, less "spineless" men do get laid more. This says nothing of the quality of their relationships, however, and the metric is purely focused on having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:25 PM
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It is actually possible to do both? I don't understand the obsession over certain things. You tell someone to "eat healthier" and all of a sudden they need to bomb a Pepsi factory. Someone needs to spend less time jacking off and smoking weed now they need to become a buddhist ascetic living in a cave somewhere. No moderation abilities whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:50 PM
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Yeah instead of pre filtering you just swipe left if you see a height you don't like. Changes almost nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:16 PM
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Something be true or not doesn't hinge on how good or bad it makes other people feel 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:38 PM
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Man like you more likely to get head smashed in by big rock in 50,000B.C. and get all your meat stolen by Grug Grug. Man too nice, man too weak, Gruginas no like as much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:24 PM
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Nonexistent. I was a popular kid and had a ton of friends male and female. I however was shorter than a lot of girls and very skinny. So no pussy for me despite my popularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:13 PM
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I only feel bad for a stripper if she's really young or a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:12 PM
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Men are more likely to overrate their attractiveness and their competency because of higher levels of testosterone. These are good things as fortune favors the bold.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:05 PM
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Beautiful girls are still getting dick they're just not showing him off
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:03 AM
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Don't go out to eat unless she ate you first. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:00 AM
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Drugs are bad mmkay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:53 AM
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Tinder like all technology just allows you to do whatever you wanted to do just easier. The platform doesn't matter. Not like people 70 years ago needed the internet to know how people act in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:49 AM
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The red pill is just what everyone already knew like 40 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:47 AM
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Every guy has a subset of women who are naturally attracted to them off the jump purely based on their phenotype. What matters is how many women of those exist, how practical it is to meet them, and whether you like them too. For some guys they appeal to a ton of women because they're conventially hot. Some guys have very niche appeal. Some guys appeal to 10 girls on the face of the planet and all of those women are blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:33 PM
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"Oh man there's this extremely beautiful woman who looks like a literal 9/10 yeahhhh idk if i wanna date her lets wait 8 months first and just have sex while she also fucks other guys too". If you're super hot guys wanna lock that shit down asap unless they also bag like 3 other super hot girls at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:30 PM
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100% although girls always considered me "cute" facially. I didn't start getting laid until I started lifting weights, dressing better, and getting nice haircuts. Linear correlation for me between more muscle mass and more fatty ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:26 PM
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I schedule dating locations to be the most logistically pragmatic with respect to my apartment. I also always pick her up and make an effort to do so. Not really for her sake necessarily but because it makes it easier to just go back to my place. Sometimes we go to my apartment first and she might leave something there so we definitely have a reason to go back. We both know what we're doing but the subtext and subtlety is how humans actually work. Most girls do not really give a fuck about my gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:41 AM
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All that it takes is not being misogynistic Yeah not really this is completely irrelevant. This is like saying "drink water". Not that women literally like a guy who is "misogynistic" although we can split hairs on what that even means in certain contexts, but like, in reality, "not being misogynistic" is not the biggest plus or minus to a guys dating life. Anymore than drinking water. Though you should because if you don't you could die, which would make dating hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:40 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:37 AM
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And my first year after divorce Telling women you were divorced is very different than telling them you literally never had a girlfriend. You realize you getting married in the first place then divorcing is way more positive than if you said you were never able to get married? That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:27 AM
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That's for each person to decide. You guys are way too black and white on so many things. Also just because women generally like older guys doesn't mean you're gonna be like 37 and killing it with 25 year old women. I mean you could but you're probably already attractive to many women already. If you had loads of trouble dating and are still pretty "average" I don't really see a guy hitting his 30s and getting lots of attention although in general I do see guys get more attention than they got b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:15 AM
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my age (39) Uh yeah that's why dude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:10 AM
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It's crazy how dihydrogen monoxide and water are both able to quench your thirst
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:09 AM
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Evo psych has no real explanatory power as to WHY the cognitive differences evolved that way. But evo psych opponents lump in obvious differences we can observe in multiple different societies across time and space that are clearly sub cultural and therefore biological as "evo psych" when it's just psych.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:05 PM
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Yeah people lie. All the time. Sometimes they don't even realize they're lying. Anyone else born yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:02 PM
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Think of it like sales. If you think the product you are selling is crap, automatically think the buyer won't like it, already think no one will ever buy do you think you're gonna sell more than the person who thinks it's the best in the world (regardless of whether thats true or not)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:41 PM
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Generally better since I didn't psyche myself out of a potential yes who was waiting for me to say something but would never make the first move. Never taking a shot might as well be an auto miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:37 PM
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Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:22 PM
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Stuff like this happens all the time. Ive been both guys in the scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:45 PM
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It was honest and hurtful (because it made her feel bad). Guy was just dumb enough to actually be too honest. Yeah no shit when she was uglier and fatter he wouldn't have dated her. Complete goober for saying that out loud. You get no points for telling the truth. Just lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:27 PM
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Your ability to obtain and retain muscle mass is genetic. Also chicks do like athletic physiques which you obtain by...doing...athletic...things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:34 PM
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Also some men will fvck anything! I've literally had dudes tell me they're only type is "girl", period! Yeah which is why there are looser beauty standards in women by men. They simply don't care as much. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:32 PM
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AI chat bots. AI girlfriends/boyfriends. Shits already here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:39 AM
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Drive me places, buy me food, crash at her apartment, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:51 PM
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Bro wtf this is so gross and weird lol they sound so lame im ngl. Bringing shame to the family. If this was a girl I could understand. Sort of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:27 PM
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No woman who is banging a complete neanderthal himbo idiot is saying "I just love the fact that he has the emotional intelligence of a grape".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:55 PM
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The average person has no idea how juicy most actors and athletes are. Which is bad because people think all these sauced physiques are even remotely attainable naturally when they just arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:52 PM
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OP: "I used to feel bad about other people getting good jobs but now I feel happy for them" Therapist: "That's great dude! We've made progress! How is the new job treating you as well?" OP: "The what now?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:50 PM
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The initiated know the ego inflation that comes with a guy pulling a baddie just one time. It's like the super soldier serum for your confidence. Lol fake it till you make it my left asscheek. Once you made it you know you can and will do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:48 PM
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Half of my family is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:28 PM
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Perfect recipe for never being able to close the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:17 PM
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Mandems funny innit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:16 PM
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Someone who falls for someone and ends up getting abused is "mentally challenged". Yeah ok 👍. Lets tell all the women in battered shelters they were just complete retards. I got a new anti domestic violence slogan. "It was your fault you fucking dumb slut!". Genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:14 PM
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The "tEsT" is just them passing his standards lmao. Also who cares if someone wants someone who is physically attractive. He just said "beautiful". Ok big whoop, wow ick. Lets be fucking for real right now bro. Everyone wants someone they find "beautiful", subjective or otherwise. Also mans a centi millionaire. Nothing he said here was even remotely problematic compared to the vitrol in the comments. People are losing their minds over the dumbest shit now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:09 PM
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This always ends up being a just world fallacy type thing because if what you're saying is true no good person ever would end up in an abusive relationship anddddd that shit happens all the fucking time...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:10 AM
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FDS for black chicks, sort of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:43 PM
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If you could take a pill that permanently locked your looks at a certain age what would it be. I would choose 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:27 PM
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Typical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:22 PM
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Never met a super hot girl or a hot guy who hates men and vice versa women. May not take them super seriously but no hate. They were treated too well and don't have a litany of bad experiences to have an axe to grind. Every misandrist or outright malevolent misogynist was just kinda ugly or had something terrible happen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:24 PM
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Yes mens and womens sexual attraction works differently but mens isnt any more or less pure just because guys need less context to fuck. Men don't get pregnant. Women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:15 PM
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I think no one actually cares that much about this or else they'd raise the age of consent to like 25 or something. An 80 year old woman with the body and looks of a 22 year old would be hot as fuck too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:11 PM
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They aren't lying they just don't know they're not even telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:07 PM
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0th world problems lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:05 PM
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👑💪
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:13 PM
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He's only 22. If he is a combination of really facially ugly + short + neurotic it will be very difficult for him but not impossible. The feedback loop of feeling defeated is what will kill his chances. I understand where he's coming from. Personally because he's talking like this I don't think he has the mental character or what it takes to become a "good looking guy" that can easily have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:01 PM
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I need to see a picture of this guy because honestly so many blackpilled dudes just look normal as shit. Just have negative sub zero game and are overly neurotic or try to talk to women like they're men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:46 PM
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Cmon I can think of at least one thing which would be good to shame people for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:41 PM
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Money is not that important when it comes to getting laid. You should make money for your own sake. Trying to get rich to appeal to women is absolutely the most fucking stupid shit I've ever seen in my life. Who do you think the bored wives of rich guys who work 80 hours a week cheat with. The richer guys working 100 hours a week? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:18 PM
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I have in fact it's a running joke now how some of the hottest girls we knew in high school ended up marrying guys who look NOTHING like their ex boyfriends. Boyfriends being tall hot jocks. Husbands are short, kinda fat, shlubby looking. What do all these husbands have in common? Extremely well paying jobs! Hey get it how you live it I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:31 PM
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Generalized male sexual strategy by looking at the average differences between men and women and what they generally respond to in certain situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:12 AM
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Lower class signaling. Like face tats.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:22 PM
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Being old kind of sucks. Savor your youth, energy and lack of real life problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:18 PM
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If you took the extremes then yes it is clearly easy to see more men who are disagreeable and violent have more success with women than their complete polar opposite. Some of whom post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:08 PM
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It's not apps It's the internet. Every app is a dating app if you can exchange messages and pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:06 PM
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Of course you can be hot in your 30s. And your 40s and your 50s. It's just unlikely a person is gonna continue to get physically hotter the older they get. We don't have an entire beauty industry around preserving features associated with youth because we think looking 40 is better than looking 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:21 PM
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My friend started crying over the situation in Palestine. He's a very empathetic person and honestly extremely soft for better or worse. It's good that he cares but it's always some new issue he feels bad about. Dude you have real life problems you ignore but spend so much mental energy over situations you can't control and constantly watch and read things that upset you. Maybe don't fill your head with images of dead kids all day then wonder why you feel like shit? I think all that stuff sucks …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:01 PM
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Still telling on yourself. Like when guys say women dont cook for them or clean for them or buy them things. No no women definitely do that just not for most guys. Become a guy women do that for if you want it so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:57 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:30 PM
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They want guys who have a ton of options and don't want to settle down. They're annoying as fuck. You know when you aim higher and higher the game changes. At your high school you may have been the best sprinter. At your college you may have been one of the best. At your recruitment trial you find yourself in the bottom 50% of all recruits. Only gets more competitive. This is NYC. How many influencer type chicks want to date some guy with an average job who looks good. How many rich, talented, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:16 PM
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You can and will be sexualized no matter what you do so it doesn't really matter. People sexualize women in burkhas or even feet. Lets be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:48 PM
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This is like trying to solve a headache by shooting yourself in the face. And no it wouldn't work. You are already seeing the effects of male productivity crashing when its libidinal energy is just directed at nothing. Now imagine it not existing at all. You have no economy. You think guys with zero drive and aggression are the ones working on oil rigs or 100ft in the air repairing energy lines? Guys with zero aggression are sitting at home laying around. Low testosterone means hard work doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:47 PM
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It is useless because it doesn't mean anything. It's like saying "breathe air" in order to pass a job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:38 AM
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How the fuck is this gonna get some dude a "virgin". If you want a girl that's a virgin then move to Saudi Arabia. This isn't 1450 A.D. that shits not real anymore after age 19. And if you happen to meet a virgin who is 30 years old guess what. She doesn't like sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:28 PM
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If you want to date online make an ig profile and look cool at social events then dm the girls who look at your story
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:26 PM
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Why would you give a fuck about that at age 27 dude. Only 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:16 PM
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This is a story of a passport bro who went to sri lanka to rape some girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:57 PM
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Say something zany or out there. It helps if theres something stupid in your bio. No compliments just do something that could either flip into a conversation or is actually interesting to read. Also don’t overthink it I literally used to say "I will spit in your mouth, respectfully."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:14 PM
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But not really. They're on a decline and Putnam's "Bowling Alone" was a canary's ghost singing on top of a dead coalmine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:40 PM
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In sociology, the third place refers to the social surroundings that are separate from the two usual social environments of home and the workplace. Examples of third places include churches, cafes, bars, clubs, community centres, public libraries, gyms, bookstores, makerspaces, stoops, and parks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:26 PM
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If the person you're talking to has no social connection to you at all then yeah it counts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:22 PM
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Dude idk what you're getting at I'm simply explaining the correlation between perceived failure and tesosterone levels which has nothing to do with society. You can see the same phenomena in chimps. Not sure what you are saying has to do with what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:21 PM
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Unless someone puts a gun to your head you can walk away at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:07 PM
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Losing a lot and failure is correlated with lower testosterone levels so it becomes a bad feedback loop if you are constantly exposed to negative stressors. Winners continue to win more and the losers find it easier to keep losing so they stop trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:55 PM
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Nah im not gay but if you're into that you should just find a guy. There's a few out there waiting to be approached for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:32 PM
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Actually at least one human has thought that so by definition a single counter example disproves your claim. Lol why do you guys always tell on yourself like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:30 PM
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You're puppy zoned. That's even worse. So much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:23 PM
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"Aww"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:19 PM
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Hating women for acting like women and not men is like getting mad your cat doesn't bark.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:25 PM
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You sound like your sex drive is really low and you don't give off the red blooded energy that would fold her like a pancake in bed. You'd make a nice pet though. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:13 PM
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Because too many people bullshit each other by pretending your successes or failures have to do with you "being a good person". Yeah and my rich neighbor has lots of money and wealth because he's just a nicer person than everyone else. Anyone want to buy the Brooklyn Bridge from me? Half off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:11 PM
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Ratio doesn't work like that in real life. Autism is not a coin flip with 50% of autistic people being male. There are more male autists than female ones even when accounting for diagnoses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:06 PM
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Because people here have autism and need an entire Principia Mathematica to prove 1+1=2 for basic social interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:04 PM
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I like dark haired girls because of Shego
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:35 PM
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What's the opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:31 PM
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Of which peoples personal experiences come into play sometimes. But I still think banning minors from the sub makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:30 PM
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Robert Goddard the literal father of rocket engineering was inspired to develop machines that could travel to space because he read H.G. Wells. Jeff Bezos loved science fiction. We have an entire cohort of scientists inspired to create technology because they liked Star Trek. Why is this so hard to understand lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:28 PM
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THANK FUCK
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:23 PM
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You gotta be a special kind of retarded to be a dude and marry someone with down syndrome. That's legal?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:39 PM
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Pretty low bar for "depravity" lets be level headed here and no one said anything about cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:31 PM
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They were too ugly, too lame, too tame, and didn't get enough early positive experiences to make them confident enough to keep trying. Like every late bloomer I ever met. Ex coworker just never had a girlfriend until 34 while being a super awesome guy at 6'2 because the man was just too fat. Lost some weight and bam he's married. Took him long enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:58 PM
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Peggings definitely on a spectrum somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:06 AM
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They could have separate partners too. Even kids. Possibilities are endless!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:29 AM
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Alternative to 3 is being dangerous. Like you don't want to fuck with this guy dangerous. I have literally never met a short violent dude who wasn't getting ass. And not incel shooting up a school violent. More like knocking someone the fuck out for looking at them wrong or defending their friend and proving their mettle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:15 AM
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Some guys trying to date some super young girl is a tale as old as gilgamesh. I personally don't care one way or the other. He (Woo) just shouldn't complain or care if other people don't approve or she's too annoying and immature. Foolish to get a dog and lose your shit when it barks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:02 PM
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How come people never just take some advice, try it out, see if it works, keep doing it if they like it and then stop if it doesn't work or they don't like it. Why does everything have to be a religion to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:38 PM
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https://www.rianstone.com/blog/menarenthappy Also it's obvious why he changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:35 PM
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https://www.rianstone.com/blog/menarenthappy Also it's obvious why he changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:35 PM
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This is stupid as fuck but if it is real how exactly is the dude losing here? He's jacked now and no longer has to have dumb debates about cartoon characters
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:33 PM
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Lately there have been small arguments related to our clashing opinions. Most of them being about how some animated female characters were treat by men (Korra from LOK; Princess Bublegum from adventure time; Mabel Pines from Gravity Falls This is so fucking retarded I hope this is fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:31 PM
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Well no one cares so it won't change. Bodyshaming personally isn't my thing. I just don't take anyone who shames dick size or labia size or being ugly seriously. It's childish to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:17 PM
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They don't really "respect" you more just because you have a large dick. In general there are a lot more women who are into massive dongs (size queens) than there are women into small dicks. In general we all know what a larger penis is supposed to signify. It's called your "manhood" for a reason. Having a smaller dick sucks and everyone knows why. Pretending you don't know why we make fun of it is very stupid. Like pretending you don't know why people call someone broke as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:09 PM
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Because people find it to be a bad thing. Hard to insult someone for something people find to be a good thing. Is it weird that it's very hard to insult a guy by saying "You're such a loser who has a big penis, a hot wife, and tons of money! Ha looooserrrr!". Yeah doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:05 PM
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Not necessarily. But I would say it's a selection thing. Guys who are more likely to experiment with drugs or hang around those circles are 1.) More social. Duh you gotta leave your house and hang around people to get a plug 2.) Higher in openness and novel experiences and less fearful. Never met a xanhead who was afraid to talk to a girl. Never met a dope dealer who was an incel. Never met a coked dude who was afraid of rejection 3.) Around more girls who are also higher up on these spectrums. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:05 PM
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Probably 1-2 years left before the internet is completely unusable. Governments will probably need to issue an online id or something to prove you're human.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:53 PM
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Talking points that were denied like years ago won ultimately. I still remember the sub at 2k subscribers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:39 PM
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Your capacity for evil is measured by agency. People are less threatened by someone they see as weaker and needing of more protection. The wider implications of this are extremely obvious though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:58 PM
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Most men are not ugly they're just average. Ugliness like beauty are opposite ends of the bell curve and most people are in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:50 AM
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Because being short as a girl is cute. "Somehow" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:29 AM
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My boys Raph, Mikey, and Gabe know I'm good for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:51 PM
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The 6 feet thing is a meme based on lower spatial reasoning. It's just tall, not tall, taller than everyone else. It's kind of stupid but I have literally talked to a girl who was 5'1 and she said her boyfriend was "5'6 maybe 5'10?". She literally could not tell. The reason you see the massive jump between 5'11 and 6 on apps is for the same reason. 6 just means "oh tall". You would swear you set your height as 5'9 and some girls will think you are the same height as danny devito when they see it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:40 PM
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As a straight man you don't want her options because her options are other dudes unless you want to suck dick too. You want another guys options. You're in competition with other dudes, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:41 PM
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Yes people assume when they get a girlfriend that this advice is saying they will get if they adhere to it then they will get laid by said girlfriend, yes obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:45 PM
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Ain't that the truth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:41 PM
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Record breaking athletes are on PEDs. Like all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:23 PM
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You should always assume anything you send in a text or dm will end up in a group chat or at least seen by someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:20 PM
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They're stereotypically visibly masculine and they're into that. Talkless of their personalities never met a guy who did construction, was an oil rigger or a fire fighter who had a hard time meeting chicks. Stereotypically attractive women tend to pair up with stereotypically attractive men. The scrawny weesh computer nerd with a hot babe are anonalies. I generally have only seen guys with large frames or short jacked guys with super hot girlfriends. But my own experience
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:19 PM
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Ironic name dontcha think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:30 AM
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Everytime I read about a girl saying money gets her wet I wonder if her panties drip everytime her paycheck drops. Like can we be fucking for real. Your last boyfriend was broke as fuck how are you unable to understand your own internal state and what it actually reacts to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:29 AM
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I am entitled. It's written in my prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:32 AM
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You mean non romantic entity. Many guys like fucking really fat girls they just don't want to go on dates with them or be seen as a couple. It's the reverse of the guys situation. Aka ton of dates but no action.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:30 AM
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Everyone knows that's such bs. A person who wants to cheat is going to even after you provide everything they want from you sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:15 AM
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Confidence is value and morally neutral. No need to add modifiers. It's merely just trusting in yourself or your abilities. You can be a confident person and an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:13 AM
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You don't but none of these things are like super insane. Clumsy flirt big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:05 AM
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I always find stuff like that interesting because growing up in a community that actually was dangerous, people there are actually less anxious than these people. When you don't experience real danger on a day to day basis your threat detection fills the void with shadows. Redditors have never seen anyone get stabbed before (which is good!) and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:47 PM
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You can be less socially inept by practicing but you have to learn from your experience which involves potentially fucking up and being off putting. This issues only gonna get worse when you have less avenues to practice and more consequences for being awkward even when the stakes are incredibly low. And "Well just don't try to talk to people" isn't a solution either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:44 PM
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None. Men and women aren't the same and aren't afraid of the same things that bother the other. He was persistent while she was disinterested but it was such a banal conversation it doesn't set off my "OMG WTF CREEP" sensor, it set off my "Wow who cares, cash or credit" sensor. But then again, I'm not female so I wouldn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:39 PM
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It depends on the context. For short term sex/with people you barely know looks are the primary reason you're hooking up with them. I think another factor here is the population of men that are head turningly hot is a lot smaller than women. Go to a major city in the hip part of town and you can see a fair amount of smoke shows. Most women will usually never walk down the street and see a guy who looks like an Adonis, and most guys will never be friends with one. I had the luxury of having a bud…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:22 PM
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No...no you don't. You don't even realize you don't. There's a reason why a disproportionate number of people who have renounced society to live as ascetics in caves have been men. I dont think the average woman is okay with zero interpersonal contact whatsoever, talkless of the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:36 PM
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Be good because of goodness sake not because of other people. An entire nation of people were in love with a genocidal maniac so being popular in most other peoples eyes means absolute dog shit to me. Hitler was a sex symbol don't take it too seriously. I know being amoral makes absolutely zero difference in getting laid (if anything it makes it easier) but I don't like being amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:13 AM
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He didn't mention being an asshole but you did
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:10 AM
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Humans are self interested. Sometimes those interests align. Sometimes they don't. We can stop pretending humans are anything more than what they are. George R. Price killed himself because he couldn't handle the true nature of our reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:05 AM
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First guy is on steroids and you don't need to be that big
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:43 AM
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If your material needs are met you kind of just need some good dick
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:32 AM
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No. It's some weird phenomena of thirsty dudes leaving verbal offerings on the altar of an idol who can neither hear nor see them. Why worship a fake goddess instead of the real God. Lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:42 PM
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People want the best for themselves and average for everyone else then cloak themselves in righteousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:18 PM
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"Morally upstanding" is orthogonal to being sexy. A guys biggest issue when he's not getting laid probably isn't he doesn't call his grandma enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:05 PM
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Not really. Bad people get laid all the time. They're just very charming. Seems like a just world fallacy to assume a nice upstanding girl has never gotten her heart broken by a pussy hounding wolf. I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:01 PM
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The last 3 are irrelevant but yeah being lazy, whiny, and insecure is a good way to never get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:42 PM
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I think it's fine if she also asks her husband first before making decisions. But usually it's just an indirect way of saying "No."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:41 PM
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"Every generation thinks it invented sex; each generation is totally mistaken. Anything along that line today was commonplace both in Pompeii and in Victorian England; the differences lie only in the degree of the coverup - if any." - Robert A. Heinlein What is old is new again. What is new was once old. Humans never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:24 PM
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They did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:21 PM
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It's because they're not that unpleasant to look at or else they'd show short fat guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:12 PM
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Work on that part then. A generically sexy body isn't usually gonna make most women go "ewww i hate his broad shoulders and nice forearms"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:55 PM
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3 chicks in one month is not semi inceldom be fucking for real man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:54 PM
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Being tall puts less on the brakes not more on the gas. To actually get back to bed you need to be more than tall. A short guy and a tall guy who both are lame as fuck are both not getting laid. The tall guy just has more initial opportunities to fuck up later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:52 PM
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It's psychological masochism. Reading some of the stories of cucks it precipitated after getting cheated on or made fun of for their sexual prowess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:47 PM
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The man works in sales. Do people think you get laid by being mute. He didn't describe an ugly troll just a fairly average looking guy with charisma dripping from his balls. Yes those guys get laid. But obviously less than super good looking guys with just as much charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:43 PM
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Winner take all pareto distributions and no cultural constraints on the worst aspects of male/female intersexual dynamics. It's a free for all. Most males in the wild never reproduce (not because they're bad animals who are too mean either).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:11 PM
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Gay Men are more likely to get their brains bashed in than lesbians. Being objectified is a boo boo problem. Call me when you hear stories of lesbians being burned alive in their home village. My family is Nigerian. Even then it's not tolerated but still given more leniency than gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:07 PM
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My toaster complained when I called it a dirty slut so I just unplugged it. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:52 AM
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Lol thats stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:51 AM
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"AI" aren't people. The turing test doesn't mean shit you can already convince dumber people using LLMs already. Neither are corporations which are just very slow moving artificial intelligences that are real life chinese rooms. So no protections for non feeling code that's just designed to trick people. Not today, not now, not ever. People can have their waifu 9000 fuckatrons who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:50 AM
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It's easier from my perspective because when I was 21 it was harder to have sex with women who were older than me, also I was very scrawny. So it was basically 18-21 girls. At 29 my range is wider than it was at 21, and I'm also less scrawny. Also I have a much nicer bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:47 AM
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Why buy the cow when the milk is free in the land of honeys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:45 AM
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casual sex doesn't mean one night stand it's basically any sex without a defined relationship label which is pretty normal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:44 AM
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Yes, yes he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:47 PM
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Lol that shit is dumb but how is this a "left" thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:45 PM
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Guy's wife got pregnant with another dude, thought it was his kid. Baby daddy died and he now takes care of the kid. Open Relationship and he just helps fund her life and he is perpetually sad. He chose his fate. Grown ass man, I have no sympathy for him. I just feel bad for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:28 PM
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I had a girl into that. It's the outcome of too many submissive guys and barely any dominant girls so the only way they can get off is that way which to me is like drinking seawater hoping to get hydrated. Actually, scratch that. It's like drinking sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:22 PM
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This is the telephone game thing again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:20 PM
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Having a job can be kind of irrelevant if she loves you a lot and the sex is amazing. She'll just get frustrated eventually especially if you're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:19 PM
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everywhere check under your couch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:17 PM
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What if an alien race of super hot intergalactic babes dropped on planet earth???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:17 PM
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The biggest dating app is Instagram. Not Tinder. Honestly any platform that allows you to post pictures and send messages will be a dating app. IG is just the biggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:05 PM
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Well I mean it was feminist rhetoric from like the early 2000s. This is what happens when the train arrives at the last stop then the conductor hits the gas. Nowhere left to go. Not sure what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:43 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:41 PM
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You can be a creepy weirdo and get laid. Some girls are into that. They're also just as weird. But these are bold creepy weirdos not really shy creepy weirdos. Lack just enough social awareness to feel no shame but enough awareness to dress nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:38 PM
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Aroused? Like literally getting a boner? No but I can instantly tell if someones face/body makes me think they're sexy enough to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:05 PM
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Dating is supposed to be fun. Being angry and angsty about it is a highway to nowheresville
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:02 AM
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It's mostly just people not using them correctly or even at all. Baby trapping is also extremely real. Besides that pulling out fails...a lot. Why? Because you're not rational enough to do so since you're super horny and just going with it. It's post nut clarity not pre nut clarity after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:52 AM
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When you're really really horny rational ideas like condom use go out the window. Every girl who was super into me just didn't want to use one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:41 AM
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Human nature hasn't changed in thousands of years. What made you sexually attractive in 50,000BC, 5000BC, 500BC, 500AD, and now is basically the same. That's why Im optimistic for the people who "get it"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:09 AM
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"Improving your personality" doesn't mean become a second Ghandi. It means becoming more exciting and fun to be around. I've seen cute guys perpetually lonely because they're honestly just too nice and extremely boring as fuck. I've seen uglier guys who are honestly kind of shitty people with super hotties. They're just more fun man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:58 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:15 PM
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Men don't have an inherent in-group bias the way Women do. This is like asking Women why they don't stand up to pee.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:02 PM
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Whether they work or not is irrelevant. And some are misogynists and abusers but you don't really need an online forum to learn that. I just look at all the men that read it in the abstract with no real interest in getting laid and instead treating like some Platonic philosophy to discuss. It's simply because they are unhappy and are searching for answers as to why this is the case. The talking points some young guys faced to explain their dating issues boiled down to some variation of they're n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:59 PM
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I've had women tell me about the time they got assaulted on the first date. Way too TMI and fucked up. Just blindsided. Very pathological.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:08 AM
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An unspoken cause of Men who are actually pretty okay looking but chronically single is just overall low sex drive. Very low tolerance for having to "play the game". They may even have a lot of girl friends. But without the actual horniness to go out and make something happen they're pretty comfortable not doing anything. In cases like that the girl will legit have to do all the legwork if she really wants the guy. Even then he could end up being disappointing because he just isn't that sexual o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:42 PM
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If what you're primarily looking for sex money isn't really necessary and basically overrated. Idk why guys keep saying they need to make 100k to date. Broke jobless dudes fuck the most. A guy busting his ass 100hrs a week as an analyst making 120k simply doesn't even have the time. How many stories can one hear of a rich dude's wife who gets lonely because he's always away and she needs someone to break her back. It aint fucking him that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:06 PM
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Idk why some people think a guy is supposed to be excited by the prospect of his wife appreciating how great of a husband he is despite not being that sexy to her. Dad bod my asshole my mans trying to get crazy monkey sex swinging from the chandelier how the fuck he gonna do that looking like a teletubbie!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:20 PM
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I knew a guy like that. Broke. Effectively Homeless. And yet always had a place to stay, always had nice clothes. He was just being funded by all his girls lol. The man had the face and physique of a model even at 5'9 and he was a cool guy. It was amazing to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:16 PM
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Who gives a fuck if a guy wants to date a single mom. Good for him. Personally won't do it myself anymore but I'm not gonna bullshit my friend and tell him dating someone who already has a kid, has a baby daddy, has literally less time to do stuff because of said kid, more likely to have more drama due to said baby dad, is a better prospect for dating than a woman who has zero of that going on. Pick your poison just don't fucking complain to me because I don't wanna hear it. Buddy of mine won't …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:35 PM
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You need to put in a bit more effort than that mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:31 PM
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Is the sex mutually exciting and satisfying Yeah it really is just when she doesn't have a headache for the 8th time this week. Do the ordinary men realize they’ve been settled for and do the hot guys realize their wives are insecure? Nope. The only ones who do are guys who used to be hot and let themselves go. A guy who was never hot has no idea what being seen as really sexy purely for his looks feels like. Not too many people saying "I became obese and my wife wants to fuck me even more!". Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:41 PM
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And a Man would prefer a hot not obese woman who wants to suck his dick like it's the last on earth because he's so sexy. Life is about tradeoffs. I absolutely do not want to be the short balding fat fuck who is a great guy and intelligent when I can be a hot dude with the exact same non physical qualities. Keep lifting boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:37 PM
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That's what some women mean when they say they love dad bods. They do love him. Sure they might not want to have sex with him as much but they feel much less pressure to look good themselves. So if as a guy you want to get laid less by your wife just get fatter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:33 PM
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Seen it too. Guys who look good but are "off" socially. Do people really think some dude who gets his dick sucked randomly in a club bathroom was talking about Roman geopolitics in 1st century AD or reciting the entire Pokedex from Gen 1-Gen 8 from memory? Not that there's anything wrong with a guy like that. I've had friends on the spectrum be married. But the girl was very unique herself and loved his quirks in a way that most women just simply did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:35 PM
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Haha I can say though there was a woman I spent an hour blabbing to about interest rates and the federal reserve. She was enamored the whole time. Reality was she wasn't listening to a single word I said she just thought I was really hot and stared at my lips. So it really depends. A guy who was less hot to her but a super smooth talker would probably go just as far. I guess the issue is with dudes who truly are just themselves they can really only be so with girls who just really really like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:08 PM
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Your looks are just bait. How many times can a girl say a guy looked good until he opened his mouth. In my extremely nerdy days I experienced this myself where a chick just told me to shut up and was visibly getting turned off because I didn't "get it" and actually flirt well with her. My brick for brains just kept trying to talk about this thing I learned in my macroeconomics class. Missed my shot with her then, she went from very interested going back to my room to leaving disappointed. I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:50 PM
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I think it's pointless to opine about the genetic freaks of nature who look absurdly beautiful. Yes if you look hot as fuck you are in a completely different ball game. There are actually no diminishing returns and it's not like you can't also be hot and be a cool person. The hotter you are the better it is all else being equal. Now unless someone invents a magic pill that can turn you into a genetic anomaly theres only so much you can do about your appearance. But there's more ways to be appeal…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:02 PM
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He didn't call himself ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:56 PM
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A girl can think you're sexy as fuck even if you're not hot by consensus. And not because you're a nice caring guy who treats her well either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:52 PM
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The first sentence sounds nice but is empirically just not true even remotely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:50 PM
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Then use ants on a sidewalk?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:46 PM
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Nah just deny. Never ever admit fault, never confirm, redirect, obfuscate and change the frame. Gaslight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:19 PM
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You don't need to pretend you don't care how your partner looks just because you're lonely. Although if that's actually the case more power to you just don't complain you can't get your dick up because you were so desperate you tried to convince yourself to be with a girl you thought was ugly. In fact the short guys I know who are generally successful don't even think like this. They're so confident they believe a hot girl would like them no matter how short because they're just the shit. You ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:17 PM
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Societies go through lengths to mitigate anti social behavior in human beings. Or ought to. You don't come out the womb knowing what good morals are. If you are raised where violence against women is normal guess what you'll become. If you're a genius it just means you'll be even smarter about doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:12 PM
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When it's used to describe places that aren't really patriarchies in any meaningful way anymore then yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:07 PM
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Doing literally anything for money violates consent then. The real problem is that consent isn't sufficient for something to actually be good in your own view. Which is fine but then just say that. You can't so you have to negate the idea of consent but in an inconsistent way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:45 AM
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Hell no are you crazy they are paid to tell you anything you want to hear. If they're really good they know how to get you off quick and make you think you did something. Sex workers generally hate their customers for obvious reasons too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:41 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:02 AM
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It's a hospital not a prison your dating pool extends beyond those walls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:02 AM
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The way I hear nurses and other health care workers talk about doctors is about how attractive their career and income potential is Yeah dude that has literally always been the case. This life observation is what taught me that your intelligence and life ambitions have absolutely no influence on increasing one’s sex appeal. It just makes you a more attractive provider. Yeah dude that has literally always been the case. The gender ratio in this environment only helps if you have sex appeal Yeah d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:58 AM
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The fact is the shorter you are the more exceptional you have to be in some way. In a way that is actually pretty unrealistic for an average dude leading to a survivorship bias. Yes I know guys who were 5'3 and had a hot girlfriend. I know guys who were 5'5 and crushed pussy. But these were not normal dudes whatsoever. If they were 6'4 its hard to imagine what these guys could accomplish. I think it's partially genetic and upbringing. If you are 5'5 and feel like you can't compete you just don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:18 AM
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You could say the same thing about women who fuck criminals, drug addicts, dead beats Not really. A lot of those girls had early life experiences that predispose them to that psychosexual schema in men. A girl like that could meet the perfect guy on paper in her mind and he won't turn her on because she grew up around gangsters. She has more options than that she just won't choose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:42 PM
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For purely primal sex? Not really. Unless by Dad Bod you mean a muscular dude with a layer of fat. Like Mamoa in an off season. If you mean like a not obese but not really defined dude who is cute then that assuages feelings of anxiety because you know your partner isn't going to catch the eye of many other women/also be more vain. At least from everything I continue to observe. If you're a guy what would you rather be assuming you could snap your fingers and instantly get the body you want most…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:07 PM
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Porn industry skyrockets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:12 PM
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The male population stays the same. The number of males identifying as men changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:10 PM
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People don't like playing semantic shell games and having to pretend they don't know you think they're stupid. In this context it's mutual sexual desire with someone who freely wants to have sex with you without financial enumeration. And you know that. Don't play dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:09 PM
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No they do. It's just not necessarily wanted. But it's like getting 100 job offers from firms you never want to join. If you suddenly went flat broke desperate for a job but those leads dried up it would definitely bother you that there are no longer tons of companies willing to hire you. Even if they seemed mediocre before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:06 PM
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Yeah for practical purposes it literally is. You're not a guy so you wouldn't get it. It's like a dude wondering why a woman doesn't like the idea of a guy trying to fuck without romancing her or taking her to dinner or anything. Girl wants me to come over, bang and then leave? Can't say that would make me feel like a loser. In fact that's pretty ideal especially when I'm too busy. Girl wants me to spend time and money and go on 10 dates then not have sex with me. That certainly would bother me …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:01 PM
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No one? That's way too strong a label. I could name around a dozen instances off the bat. No fetish required.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:27 AM
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What exactly is stopping him from making up this entire scenario as well as having people pretend in order to advertise his app
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:26 PM
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I did once in a red light district. Couldn't stomach having sex with the chicks because I felt so bad. We just ended up smoking weed and talking for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:52 PM
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Worse nutrition and sleep will take away from you reaching your natural maximum height which is determined by genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:09 AM
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"but they were in a very close platonic friendship, to the point where she would let him rub her feet ect." Uh huh, they were such good friends, right. How many times did she rub his back, you know, platonically to return the favor like a 50/50 friendship. Or help him move a couch. Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:11 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:54 AM
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Women can think a guy is physically attractive but "feel nothing" for him. That's why you can have identical twins who literally look the same but act different and one gets laid while the other doesn't. Seen it a few times in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:23 PM
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Muscular + larger penises + sex ability. That is literally the only three reasons why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:27 PM
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No one actually cares you're 34 trying to fuck a 21 year old. And if you're easily shamed into not doing so by people who don't give a fuck about you then you're not even the guy that could pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:50 PM
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People will always naturally feel bad for people who can't keep a partner while searching for one. No ones patting someone on that back like "You go girl all your previous boyfriends left you!" "Nice job dude you literally never had a woman love you while you wanted one to" Unless they're a total asshole. It's not reducing peoples value anymore than just observing a sad reality. No mental gymnastics needed for people who looked for love and either never found it or lost it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:43 PM
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Inexperience with women obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:17 PM
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21
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:06 PM
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There is no end game. Learn what you like, find out what works what doesn't and just do what you want with what you got. Most Men aren't going to have LESS options for dating by being richer, more physically fit, more fun, more traditionally masculine, with higher status. But the real world isn't so black and white anyway. Hey there are guys out there who have wives that peg them, there are dudes who are a foot shorter than their girlfriend, I've seen basically every configuration of relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:04 PM
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No wont fix everything but it helps No they are just humans Not necessarily, no. But real life is not an ideal world. Also no, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:58 AM
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Just because they're single doesn't mean they aren't fucking someone and getting their sexual needs met
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:56 AM
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Not at basketball games or art shows or libraries All these places are totally fine. There really is no right or wrong place. People have literally hooked up at funerals. All that matters is if someone likes what they see, likes what they hear, and happen to be emotionally available. The right time is just being able to guage potential interest from a distance which isn't that hard when you get experienced enough to recognize body language. Friends first is also nonsense if you literally try to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:17 AM
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When I was 3 years old I was fundamentally 2 feet tall. Now I'm much taller. Because I grew.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:33 PM
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First off, one night stands are hardly a thing anymore Why do people just come here and lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:32 PM
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Guys who don't fuck say that shit all the time which is very ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:08 PM
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Sure but you still look so dumb lying so blatantly like that. At that point skip the apps or something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:01 PM
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I don't have a crying fit every time some random dude tries to sell me something on the street and I don't want their wares. Lol get a grip it's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:10 PM
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Damn, If that's actually true then I'm sorry that happened. Someone always wins the lottery I guess. Still rare for the average person. That being said I don't tell people to never use a plane because the very rare existence of plane crashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:19 PM
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Yeah obviously just trying to exchange digits out the gate is probably not gonna work but you aren't gonna get arrested either for being so lame. Idk where people are getting these crazy ideas from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:16 PM
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That won't happen either. She will just say no and you move on. Or she gives you a fake one, or she just walks away. All cases in which she's not interested. Do you know a single person personally in real life who has gone to jail that way? A single person? If you do then I could understand. If not you're just bullshitting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:14 PM
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There is no "supposed to". You can and people have literally met their partners anywhere. Some places might statistically be easier than others. "Where are you allowed to strike up a conversation?" Anywhere. Literally. You are not going to get assassinated by the secret illumanti police and publically shamed and put on a watch list by the shadow government for saying "Hey how's it going" in a library, on a boat, at the train station, waiting for the bus, shopping for groceries, on a bridge, on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:12 PM
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Most men will NEVER get the police called on them just for walking up to a stranger and talking to them. Where are all the street salesmen ending up in rikers island? You guys need to stop with these goofy ass fantasy scenarios. Do you even know someone this has happened to? It's so rare it would actually make a news story. A girl might not like you approaching her but there's a massive gulf between inconveniencing someone else for 5 seconds and the 1/1000000 chance you ran into a neurotic psych…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:07 PM
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In general no. I mean there are women out there aroused hearing elephant sounds. I'm obviously talking about extremely weird corner cases that exist outside the norm. But it is possible. I've seen at least one example in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:53 PM
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Ejaculating immediately relieves horniness temporarily. Whether you do it with a partner or by yourself. Point being, they aren't horny because they're sex starved. They're horny because they're dudes and dudes in general are pretty horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:49 PM
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It doesn't because men who aren't sex starved are also still very horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:32 PM
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Because there is no "accountability" to enforce. No woman is getting thrown in jail because she likes fucking a violent man. No man is getting thrown in jail because he thinks women are inferior. In general no one even cares. There are no "shoulds" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:53 PM
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Being nice can be sexually attractive. Also do understand humans are very complex. In the general case, no, having good manners does not make a man a sex object to most women. So if that's your goal as a man focus less on being a super nice guy. Doesn't mean there won't be a woman out there who isn't into that but notice she also said "That led me to getting to know him better, which lead me to notice that he is actually pretty attractive." For me personally, and I speak for myself, I don't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:41 PM
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Extremely linear correlation between how sexy someone thinks you are and how quickly/willing they are to have sex regardless of stated beliefs or values. But that is incredibly obvious to me. The fear of literal eternal damnation can't even stop the ultra religious from fucking around so that should tell you something. Sex is a very physical activity and it's easier to have sex with more people who are also hotter too if you are in good shape. If a woman finds you very sexy/hot she will ignore 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:07 PM
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Online dating was not as culturally relevant in the year 2000 even if it existed in some form. And the cultural problems we see now aren't just due to online dating. Even the economic outcomes for young people are much worse than they were 20 years ago. Human's at their base level don't change too much, but their conditions do, and people are very adaptable for better or for worse. We are speed running dangerous social conditions that lead to the breakdown of institutions followed by a large mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:35 PM
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some men are waiting for an autistic list of stuff they can do to check and suddenly become successful with women Because they're autistic. With enough life experience it really isn't that hard to figure out what women in general find attractive. And women aren't all into the same things either. Guys should focus on what they can control and max those things out. For example, yes being taller will make it way easier to date Women, anyone who says otherwise is an idiot or a liar. Unfortunately we…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:17 PM
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It's a systematic issue that has only recently just surfaced. Respectfully, if you are too old you are indeed way too out of touch and have less than zero idea what's going on out there. People with almost 18 year old kids are not going to say anything useful to current 20 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:09 PM
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Automatic negativity bias when applied to Men in this society. This is due to the assumption of female hypoagency vs male hyperagency. I believe this is mostly cultural, however, and can be changed. Easily? Doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:04 PM
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It's an empty statement and ultimately meaningless self defeating rhetoric which makes zero sense if you just scratch below the surface. It shouldn't upset anyone, though, anymore than a 4 year old saying something that doesn't make sense. Just smile and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:00 PM
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Who cares no one owes anyone anything and no one actually cares. You aren't owed a conversation, and she isn't owed having no one attempt to talk to her. Go up and start a conversation if you like. If she's not into it then exit gracefully and go about your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:53 PM
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but it won't be all it takes for a long term relationship You...would be surprised. Especially < Age 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:46 PM
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You could just throw out all of evolutionary biology with that logic. Nope. You can literally measure allele frequency distribution in a population over time due to selection pressures. You can look at the growing complexity of biological systems in the fossil record and cross reference that with the geological record, radiometric dating, etc. Hell we can even calculate genetic drift through common ancestors between different species. Can't really do that with "Women like pink because they picke…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:28 AM
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Working backwards using plausible sounding stories with no way to test any of these hypotheses along with layers of assumptions is why evo psych is unfalsifiable and mostly nonsense. We have no idea why or how psychological traits evolved and there is no way to know. We don't have a time machine and we can't isolate humans in an ancestral environment and test how they evolve. Just pick whatever story and run with it if it sounds good. Psychological traits did evolve, yes. Do we know how? No. Can…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:59 AM
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"They changed my life by showing me how cheap, easy and stress free the box is. I spend close to $1,000 one time on a shorty and got NOTHING in return. Got a escort and spent 100 something, didn’t have to check up on her, and was 10x more attractive than the other shorty💯" - YT Comment Damn bro. $1k to not get laid? A Glock, some bullets, and a ski mask is like $500
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:53 AM
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It's easy to argue with this. You don't love your grandma the same way you love your child or the same way you love your dog. Semantic shell games are just that, games. Yeah Men don't want to fuck a guy they want to emulate, and for Men they don't need to "respect" or greatly admire the people they like to have sex with. It is what it is, sorry, Men aren't Women and their sexuality works differently. Straight Men are heterosexual because they want to have sex with the opposite sex. That's litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:54 AM
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It would look like Ancient Greece (Not Sparta), Babylon, Egypt, or basically any ancient society and be extremely misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:50 AM
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Yeah so I don't really care about evolutionary just so stories. You can literally make up anything that sounds plausible. For example, what you just said. You literally just made it up. I can easily posit relaxed confident people were the last to die since their lower neuroticism allowed them to plan and think clearly to navigate potential danger while the overly anxious got killed by acting irrational during a disaster like a scared chicken running around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:20 AM
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Men on average indeed are less emotional, less neurotic, less empathetic, and more likely to exhibit traits of psychopathy. This isn't "men bad, women good" or "women bad, men good", just observable traits in human behavior, on average. Men who are too emotional end up in jail or dead. Women who are too emotional don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:16 AM
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I had a very attractive male friend who was bisexual and just cruised sex parties. I was invited to one. Not my scene, personally kind of gross to me but it really selects for people who are more voyeuristic and into random sex/very high sex drives. People have all sorts of tastes and I think the sex party scene is very niche, although you can't tell who would be into something like that just by looking at someone. I'd say a mix of attractiveness/no correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:52 PM
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It's not about "need". People do all sorts of things to have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:44 PM
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Because they like sex with strangers concentrated in one place. "CHadS" are just real people who happen to look really hot. They aren't a different species and have all types of personalities like normal humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:29 PM
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The entire point is to figure out early enough who's into you and who's not. There will be a subset of the population who are viscerally attracted to you from the jump with zero effort on your part, those in my opinion make the best sexual partners. And not the "I spent 8 months getting her to warm up to me". To each their own. Every "strategy" works. It's up to you to find your "Am I wasting my life"-tolerance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:24 PM
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Is that enough for me to say "this is women's nature etc etc etc"? Fool me once. Fine. Fool me dozens of times with almost zero counterexamples of Men doing it to your wife with other Men saying this thing happens all the time, it gets super obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:27 PM
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Reddit posters in general seem to score way higher on the neuroticism spectrum. Female subreddits even more so to the point where you can get banned for the most milquetoast opinions. If you take reddit seriously you'll think everyone is autistic and demisexual and it just ain't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:57 PM
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Due to scaling laws we are encountering diminishing returns in transformer architecture. GPT-4 is impressive but I still think we are far enough away from "can replace a real human being". At the same time we got dudes fucking anime pillows so "good enough" is probably a very low bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:21 PM
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Remember kids it's not cheating if you "go on a break" for 2 days, fuck someone else then restart your relationship after they take you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:06 PM
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Complete dealbreaker. Hot and dumb will get very old very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:29 PM
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Do you even have super good looking friends? They are normal people who are into all sorts of things, they just happen to be hot. It's not the 1950s where only the super geekiest nerds read comic books, cmon dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:28 PM
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Stuff like this is why people from super religious backgrounds end up with a ton of sexual hangups or just overcompensate (seriously what's up with catholic girls and anal). Just weird to me how you spend years scaring the crap out of people growing up making them think their head will explode just looking at someone lustfully and then once they get married it's "ok have at it, it's fine now!". Good luck feeling comfortable with your sexuality by that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:53 PM
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From women in my life - basically "Be nice, be yourself" From men in my life- basically "Learn how to spit game and get jacked" I remember one clear anecdote when I was younger with my two older cousins, one male and one female. Him - "I'm telling you man, lift weights it will make a difference!" Her - "Don't listen to him, you can enhance your muscle but you don't want to look bulky" Him - "shushhhhhh Look she doesn't know what she's talking about. Dude I'm telling you you're short, I'm short. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:40 PM
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Being able to smooth talk and know the right things to say isn't necessarily "putting on a front". Some things are better to say given a situation than others. That's why some guys sound "smooth". They figured out what works for them and what doesn't. Anti Game would be bumbling your words coming across as awkward and saying weird, rude, or straight up dumb things. Ever hear of women saying they liked a dude until he opened his mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:59 PM
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It's not really a race thing either. It's extremely obvious based on culture. Generally the less wealth your community has the less you have the ability to obfuscate the aspects of human nature. You kind of need to be more masculine to survive in those environments anyway. TL;DR: Less time to bullshit about what actually happens in the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:14 PM
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For the same reason some dudes will still watch porn even though they have a girlfriend that has lots of sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:11 PM
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Is it? I'll keep it gender neutral. The person dating the one who is not attracted to them is the bigger loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:07 PM
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Intrasexual competition. Doesn't take a nut and a hammer to figure out the women getting the "most desirable" men expend more effort on their physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:03 PM
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I will say Doesn't matter, just go for it. "Let her figure out why she shouldn't date you.". You never know, you might actually just be her type. Just don't be rude or yell at her from across the street (hell I even seen that work, I don't advise though). You can do that if she interested to some degree. Being hot buys you an extra 30 seconds. Also women aren't fucking stupid, they know why you are talking to them. This is good. This is also good. You CAN go in for the kill immediately but it de…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:25 PM
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refusing ALL men as a direct result of the behaviour you just advised. Man no one is actually doing that shit. Look the reality is men, women, humans like each other, like to fuck, and will do so regardless of how they meet. People have literally found their fuck buddies at funerals. You are making it more complicated than it needs to be. Online shame is just that. Online. Guys just shoot your shot. Obviously don't be an asshole. But a big thing I noticed in my life is the hottest women actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:19 PM
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It depends. Mode One shout out Allen Rodger Currie. RIP. IYKYK!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:15 PM
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Are people just going insane or what? Reddit site wide has become so deranged and neurotic I question how often people actually spend outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:11 PM
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I can almost guarantee this has never happened to you or anyone you personally know or anyone they know so stop bullshitting yourself already.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:08 PM
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No in-group bias based purely on sex. Men don't tend to see other random men and think "oh hey it's a Man another potential pal!". Not unless some other identifier is involved. Men aren't Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:52 PM
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Modern wars?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:52 PM
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Huh? Lol what the fuck does that have to do with what I'm talking about. Dude, if you have lots of testosterone freely flowing through your bloodstream your mind is going to prioritize sex a lot more than someone who doesn't. That's literally all I'm saying. So yes to you sex is not "the most important thing", because, newsflash you can't empathize with someone who has way more testosterone and thus places a higher weight on sex (on average). Just like how I can't fully understand/empathize with…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:30 PM
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Yeah in the real world where real people live and not on the internet getting accused of rape for no reason after someone consensually had sex with you isn't actually THAT common. You guys really need to get real and stop creating entire scenarios in your head over rare corner cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:24 PM
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None of these dorks here who constantly complain about #metoo are even remotely close to getting falsely accused of rape. Can you people get real for just one day here? Sometimes I underestimate the level of autism here because it's not that hard to figure out when someone actually wants to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:20 PM
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Your free and total testosterone levels are pretty low you simply just wouldn't get it. And will never get it. Ever. Unless of course you alter your endocrinology to mimic that of the average male, let alone those at the upper range.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:22 PM
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One of the consequences of raising boys to be more like girls. Men aren't supposed to give a fuck they aren't treated like Women. Complaining all the time (and petitioning other people to help because you can't fix it yourself) is traditionally seen a female thing not a male thing. You can't raise bitch ass dudes then complain they're just bitches but acknowledging raising them to actually be masculine would undermine the whole thing innit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:19 PM
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Seeing how my sisters live has made me just a little less empathetic. None of them are super ugly and are fairly cute so they live in a different reality than a lot of fairly average/ok looking dudes I know. Short of it some guy somewhere bails them out when they fuck up. Wouldn't be possible if they were normal dudes. Not envious, since they have a looser grip on reality since they are insulated from the worst of their own decisions and I at least can say I have more agency over my life. Lower …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:14 PM
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Guys who tend to get a lot of options also tend to date more women regardless of how abusive they are. Matthew effect. By virtue of the fact there aren't groups of women complaining about dating a guy who never gets dates with other women at all that should tell you everything you need to know. Being able to date multiple men is a given as a woman and therefore trivial/expected, whereas it's generally rare for men to be that "successful". It's like asking a fish how the water is. They're just co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:16 PM
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These guys just sound like men raised as defective women and continually confused as to how the world actually works. So bizarre to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:42 PM
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https://imgur.com/hXnBmqe Why is it so hard for dudes on reddit to just get it? You are so close to getting it, does it really need to be spelled out for some of you? This is shit you should have learned in grade school. "when I 'vent' or anything it typically gets ignored and I have a bad feeling that it's because I'm a guy" Duhhhhh. "i've learned not to vent about women to them bc they invariably take the woman's side when I'm not even asking for advice or feedback. Idk whats up with that." I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:39 PM
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What say they do, ignore watch they what
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:39 PM
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How about we censor nothing. If what you are saying is actually illegal then the issue is it's illegal. Anything other than that I do not care about unless you want to provide a list of government mandated things you can talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:32 PM
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There's like a 0% chance anyone who gets married after 2010 is staying together for 20 years let alone life. Get used to it. Society isn't built for that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:29 PM
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They aren't trying to make moves. They're looking for customers and/or followers. Especially if its snap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:26 PM
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Open up about some fake bullshit and if it gets thrown in your face during your first fight just breakup
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:28 PM
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Yeah so don't open up about certain things or things in a non approved way. My best buds can open up to me any how and ive seen them at their darkest. However im not trying to fuck them so losing attracton isn't an issue. For their girlfriends yeah maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:26 PM
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Money has pretty much zero relevance to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:22 PM
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Then shouldn't she just split it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:20 PM
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An example of a community that wants to "help men" but basically has zero to say that is even remotely relevant or useful to the average guy. Like I'm sorry, but the average man's issues are not due to not being able to paint his nails and wear a dress. Or not being super radically feminist enough. Just Get fucking real. And people wonder why clowns like Tate get increasingly popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:01 PM
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Christian or not (being religious and part of a community sure helps though) there's a very good chance your marriage will not stay together for the rest of your life, not under these conditions, in this environment, or in this era. It is what it is, but it's up to you to decide what's worth it and how much you value this specific walk in your life's ministry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:56 PM
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"red pill" as I understand it is praxeology. Take what you need, leave what you don't. If it's boiled down to "here's how men and women tend to operate when it comes to sex" (key words, tend to), it's just a matter if finding what works for you. Or just read the book of proverbs and ecclesiastes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:54 PM
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I don't really give a fuck about her job but she can't be broke. However, I mesh much better with women that have advanced degrees than someone who barely graduated high school. Billionaire Heiress with a PhD in Microbiology? Sign me up!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:52 PM
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I would say do not use staged and/or edited (aka only take the best results) prank videos as evidence of really anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:57 PM
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I would suggest not doing this if you know what's good for you. This is how people end up with false accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:48 PM
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600lbs with no ass, zero boobs, completely bald with burn scars, no teeth and smells like a dumpster. The most obvious beauty standard in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:46 PM
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Dancing a lot at nightclubs or in general showing off dance skills a bit too much. My friend along with multiple people would always tell me it's intimidating and a turn off to most women (some find it super cool, sometimes) but ultimately I do it because I find it super fun, not because I'm trying to woo anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:26 PM
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Someone who likes a guy and waiting to "feel a spark". Your assumption is she knows all that. She doesn't. All she sees is a guy she finds attractive and wanting him to make her feel like these other guys did in a sexy way and she ends up being frustrated he can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:36 PM
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They do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:34 PM
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It's real just super rare in fact really only the sexiest of dudes can pull that off (sexiness is more than just looks btw). Most guys are nowhere near the type to be able to pull multiple hot women over and over and then decide they want to settle down in their 30s. It's simply not how a lot of men operate, because they literally can't. In contrast it aint THAT hard to fuck a new guy who looks pretty good looking if all you want are hot flings if you're an average girl, I got plenty of friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:32 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/qzufyg/nice_guy_sucks_at_being_sexy_and_flirting_which/ I don't like the term AF/BB because life is more complicated. But this is an example of a woman being interested in a dude who she indeed finds physically attractive and being turned off because he's coming across as....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:29 PM
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Yeah uh not acting like a girl isn't a bEhAviOrAl PrOblEm. Did you not read the rest, boys are getting the same scores because they understand the material but are getting dinged on shit that doesn't matter when it comes to their learning style. Imagine being a girl losing points for getting a perfect score but your teacher thought you were TOO QUIET and didn't talk enough. I say we need to balance the parity in male/female teachers if not segregate it entirely but idk. I merely observe the prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:18 PM
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Tell beautiful women they're smart and ugly women they're pretty. Ez.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:06 PM
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https://bigthink.com/thinking/boys-graded-more-harshly-in-school/ https://phys.org/news/2022-10-teachers-girls-higher-boys-italian.html https://www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672 Darn rad prill BBC and their manospear talking points!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:05 PM
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I can immediately tell from his responses he just doesn't come across as cool. AND he's using dating apps which put him at a severe disadvantage. I know guys uglier than him who do okay dating and it isn't because they volunteer at their animal shelter. They just know how to engage women in a way that comes across as super confident dudes who know what they're doing. Dating apps are absolutely terrible guys stop using this bullshit. Has nothing to do with being a "terrible" person. Being boring …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:01 PM
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I listened to it. It seems real to me I've heard plenty of girlfriends say the exact same thing she has. It's simple. There was no chemistry. Some guys can look handsome but come across as not sexy at all. Of course it dragged on for 10 dates the dude was probably completely lame. You could put another dudes brain in that guys body and it would have turned out differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:18 PM
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"He's cute but I don't feel a chemistry". Aka the guy wasn't sexy. End of. It has nothing to do with how many dates you plan or how nice you are or even how handsome you are (seriously) or anything. It's sexiness. Twins can literally look exactly the same and one of them comes across as lame. Men need to learn how to be sexy. Being cute or handsome doesn't mean shit if she doesn't want to fuck you. And you don't need a trillion dates to figure that out either. She literally claims he's attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:13 PM
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I Dm'd her on twitter and we got to know each other then met up. We eventually moved away far from each other for work so it didn't end up working out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:58 PM
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What is up with people building entire fanfics in their head based on extremely little info? Yeah people tend to find each other physically attractive then get to know each other. It's called real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:56 PM
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Is it homophobic if I wouldn't fuck a man but otherwise would if he was female?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:22 PM
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He was basically a dating coach for super nerds. I remember it from a long time ago it was super meh but like most dating advice didn't really spell things out. Which is even more of a disservice given the demographic he was trying to appeal to, which was, extremely socially awkward men. If anything Dr. Nerdlove was liked more by women than men. The advice back then seemed more centered around "Don't be sexist and take a shower". The real advice a lot of men need in order to even get past the ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:48 PM
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it was obvious we were into each other from the start though. Many many such cases. Idk why guys think they shouldn't befriend a girl with a boyfriend. Not like you have to cheat with her. Once he gets dropped you could be up to bat next!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:12 PM
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There are plenty of 30+ women who are virgins Lol why do people here brazenly lie like this. No there are not that many people like this in general, so "plenty" is doing a ton of heavy lifting here. If you as a grown man are banking on your partner being a virgin when you meet them you are absolutely fucking delusional. Not saying you can't find one but you might as well go to the Arab world if you're so hung up on finding a "virgin". There are "virgin" women who still engage in some sexual play…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:44 PM
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Maybe it's only been my experiences but I truly believe a lot of women are way freakier than men think. Due to slut shaming they can't expose that side of themselves to most dudes and honestly most men could not handle it anyway. Women are horny as fuck! If you haven't seen some real down and dirty gully ass shit I can see why you'd think women don't love sex. And it's NOT just with guys who are 6'5 "chads" either you fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:38 AM
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The crimson chin pill is that you can pretty much do whatever you want and most people really do not care what you're doing unless it's extremely unethical or illegal. So go live your life and stop looking for the approval of people who don't care about your best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:20 PM
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Yeah Im talking about the West. Unless you're like my family in Africa you do not live in a patriarchy. No one is excluding the >50% of voters who are female from voting for who they want anymore and no one is stopping any woman from obtaining political or social power
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:17 PM
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Rule by fathers hasn't existed for almost 80 years
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:12 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/TL;DR As a person who likes writing a lot my advice is don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:40 PM
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No one does sex work for validation "No one" is doing A LOT of heavy lifting here. Because I can personally name a few from my hoe friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:46 PM
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The question is assuming the guys know. Of course former sex workers try not to out themselves, they know the vast majority of men they want would not be down with that shit. Date as in hang out sometimes and fuck? Sure. Serious girlfriend they see long term exclusively and want to eventually marry? Maybe if he is also a sex worker or into polyamory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:45 PM
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Nope. A specific type of girl gravitates towards industries like that and it will be nigh impossible to maintain a stable relationship long term. In general. Outliers exist though. But go ahead, marry the woman who is used to massive amounts of male attention directed toward her sexually for money. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:42 PM
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Hit up Latin America or Eastern Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:15 AM
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Reddit used to be extremely free speech. I miss those days. But yeah she was pretty racist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:14 AM
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Are we talking about how to start a relationship from scratch and get dates or sustain a relationship with someone they are already dating? I'm talking about the former. Knowing how to date your own spouse isn't really helpful when telling someone how to get a girlfriend/boyfriend in a completely different era. Grandma's got nothing useful to tell me until I get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:10 AM
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Trying to do the uno reverse card on feminist rhetoric doesn't work and looks retarded. Just say the thing you're opposing is stupid. Trying to make it look hypocritical is a waste
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:07 AM
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Which is the opposite...of gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:05 AM
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single as in can’t turn a date into successful repeated interest. A person who can get interviews and always gets rejected would give great job hunting advice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:10 AM
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Depends what you mean by "single". Single by choice as in goes on lots of dates and fucks around? Single as in can't get dates ever? A person who's been in a successful relationship for the last 30 years has almost zero useful active dating advice for the modern day, anymore than a software engineer who retired in 1998 giving me advice on Java applets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:54 AM
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You are 6'3? Bro just get fucking jacked. Start right now, since it'll take you a few years to look really good. At least 2-3 assuming you aren't fucking around in the gym. Your first year will be noobie gains and figuring out what works for your physique. By the time you're 30 you will look pretty strong for your size but nothing crazy assuming you're natural (I'd suggest not using performance enhancing drugs). Don't let reddit nerds bullshit the fuck outta you, it can make a world of a differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:45 AM
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Look if you have the funds and you're basically a virgin 30+ and you seriously cannot find anyone, get a sugar relationship for the training wheels. Don't go see a hooker, get yourself a glorified GFE but don't fall in love. This is not ideal at all, and in fact don't go searching for the hottest girl either. This is purely pragmatic to get your dick wet and get some experience, even if it's partially synthetic. You should also be working on yourself at the exact same time and not bullshitting y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:25 AM
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This is pretty good advice. I'd drop the "grass isn't greener" shit. Bro, i've been "ugly" and i've been "attractive". Beyond all the problems you might face because too many women want to fuck you, it's 1000x better man. People literally are just more likely to be an asshole to you in general just because you don't look good. I'd rather be ugly and not disabled to be honest. Lol like get the fuck outta here with that shit bro. Somehow everyone who says this puts zero effort into looking uglier.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:38 PM
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Almost zero correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:55 PM
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I had an extremely attractive roommate confide in me he could never get married due to a lack of trust because he fucked so many dudes wives. Well he's married now so...if anything I'm pretty much expecting him to cheat on his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:52 PM
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Literally nothing wrong with this. Breaking the touch barrier is how normal humans with a normal sex drive flirt. You don't need 10 different consent forms and a declaration "IS IT OKAY IF I FORMALLY PROCEED FROM TOUCHING YOUR HAND TO HOLDING YOUR HIPS AS WE ENGAGE IN MUTUAL DANCING". I guess if you're autistic you have to learn by a guide online but this is is stuff dudes learn naturally by trial and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:20 PM
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Next time don't waste your life "building a connection" and never meeting over an entire month. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:16 PM
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You have time on your side
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:55 AM
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It works on anyone susceptible to any degree of marketing to various degrees so basically every human to exist. Every advertisement won't get you but some will. That's why marketing firms hire psychologists. There's not a single person out there who can't be influenced by shiny packaging except maybe the most isolated of spiritual monks living in the desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:54 AM
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Yeah of course "it works". Makeup "works". Applied psychology "works". Putting on a more attractive persona that's not necessarily how you normally are "works". But why is this a "problem"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:50 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Selection_bias
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:14 PM
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how is the women's fault? It isn't. I believe blaming women for your dating problems is stupid. Learn to get good or get lost. Figure out what works, and what doesn't. Don't complain as a Man because honestly no one gives a shit anyway. Either whine about being a loser or learn how to win. That's my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:00 PM
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Devil's in the details but what do you think came first, the rejections and constant failure or the reading internet forums? These guys end up there because they just couldn't figure it out, unfortunately. Unless you're a man who's had to figure it out on their own it's hard to get as well. Passivity as a dude will get you nowhere and confidence doesn't come in a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:57 PM
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In my experience, coming across as a confident sexual being.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:53 PM
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Being kind hearted is not the same thing as being a sexual being (what like 99% of people are). That's what guys like these lack. An inherent sexual nature that makes them come across as a mating partner. That's not just looks but also behavior. A good personality doesn't necessarily just mean you are kind and sweet hearted. I know guys who are super sweet and awesome dudes who volunteer but are basically almost always single. Why? They come across as asexual puppy dogs. Great friends. Not great…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:52 PM
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If that's your takeaway I'm sorry but you are kind of a dumb person. Let me go on r/teenagers as the cultural heartbeat of how teenagers around the world think on a day to day basis. Lol get a grip son.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:12 AM
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I personally can't get super hard if Im stressed out as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:40 PM
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How much do you agree with this statement? "When Women are stressed they tend to not want sex. When Men are stressed they tend to want to have sex to relieve it."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:27 PM
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Responsive vs Spontaneous desire isn't necessarily gendered but you definitely notice distributions. Women tend to have more "brakes" and are thus turned off easily. Men tend to have the pedal on and are thus turned on more easily. "Come how you are" is basically female coded, which is good. Men and Women aren't exactly the same it's good to know how the differences work so people aren't confused. You can't hate what you truly understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:25 PM
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Ice Spice has dethroned J. Cole and Drake as the best female rapper in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:15 PM
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Danger zone is guys who make a decent amount with most of their equity in their home. Not broke but not rich either. Which was the majority of the middle class at least. Was.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:41 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:09 PM
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This somehow makes even less sense than starting a company that sells dollar bills for 90 cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:08 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/tavtbz/men_who_opened_up_your_feelings_has_there_been/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/sgc83k/men_who_dont_express_their_feelings_with_their/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/oo2pte/men_who_have_opened_up_their_emotions_to_your_so/ Men on reddit constantly talk about when they open up it gets used against them. What evidence do you need? Just listen to some people's experiences. The shit has happened to me, it's happened to my friends. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:23 PM
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Interesting. I sometimes observe that and sometimes do not. Or else no good people would ever get hurt yet it happens all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:34 PM
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it’s that men enjoy feeling sexually desired too That's...what makes it better sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:12 PM
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Idk I live in the real world and don't get my views about life from an internet forum. Try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:12 PM
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"Think". Lol you don't have to think it when you can see it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:12 AM
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Collapse of the entire economy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:35 PM
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You guy's are making a big mistake trying to coopt feminist/feminine ways of dealing with issues. Complaining that something is "misandry", lol, lmao even. Women get things done by complaining about it a lot. Men don't get things done by complaining, since surprise, no one cares about men whining. Here's one way to deal with this "issue". Stop giving a fuck. Seriously. Who fucking cares if someone think's you're "predatory". Unless they're fucking you or feeding you their opinion literally does …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:53 PM
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No true physical lust means no true desire. Waste of time to couple up like that but life is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:05 PM
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The problem occurs when your sex life is completely whack, when she doesn't respect you, and/or when she cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:05 PM
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Idk man when I was on sosauve there were definitely examples of dudes who would claim they made "3000" approaches and never got anywhere. I'd say in general meeting more Women (not necessarily cold approaching) is just a good idea. ROI on a cold approach is actually extremely low as fuck unless you are very good looking or have leverage (aka a white guy in south east asia). Warm approaches are much better. Like showing up to the same venue and running into the same people until they get to know …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:30 PM
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Men will only change their behavior in response to the Women they want. Women will only change their behavior in response to the Men they want. That's pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:29 PM
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Higher sensitivity to being judged and on average higher levels of neuroticism on the set of Big 5 Personality traits. It's half the reason most dudes don't know shit because women don't open up to you if they think you'll think negatively of them. Men are more likely to not give a shit which is why there are a disproportionate number of loners/anti social people who are male vs female. I speak in general terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:49 PM
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Why do people still think women give a single fuck about money?? They are getting fucked by your body not your bank account. What do you guys stuff dollars in her pussy to get her off? It's always the men who don't fuck that say this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:23 PM
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I don't ask customers what they want, I figure out what they need since a lot of the time what they want doesn't work or make sense, and they themselves don't know that. Thats why I ask other B2B sales people on my team to better sell my product and not potential customers. What would they know about sales?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:41 PM
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Oh puh leeeeaseee. Can you people get fucking real for one day, my god. Its an ANALOGY.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:29 PM
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Ah yes, the famous demographic of japanese hood chicks living in Atlanta. I'm a black dude who's been on the internet for 20+ years, I know what people mean when they don't explicitly say it. My ears are tuned to a certain frequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:47 PM
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Most women aren't even remotely dominant sexually. Why do you think male subs complain so much and male switches generally say its easier to dom. Just what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:24 PM
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The answer is very simple. He isn't hitting that shit right. How many unmasculine dudes are complete animals in the sack?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:42 AM
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Could probably count the number of times he's had sex in his life on one hand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:29 PM
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Hot girls have always had a ton of options but I will honestly say it just wasn't this bad 5, 10, 15 years ago. Internet and social media made everyone go nuts. Bitchiness rates just gonna up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:13 PM
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Neurotic, nervous, fidgety, anxious behavior will almost always be a turn off in a Man. Feel bad for some of these reddit dudes who want a larger dating pool and are angry women won't accept them for "being who they are". Ok bro continue to do what doesn't work or adapt. Unless you are on the spectrum or very ugly/short I have no sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:37 PM
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I think sex work is whack too, I didn't necessarily mean paying for it like an actual sex worker, but actually trying to date. Just saying someone who falls in love with you might actually exist outside your current environment. But all of life's a gamble. It just seems like a better deal than a lifeless doll. I can’t approach women is because of shame That's certainly an issue :/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:25 PM
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that's a bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:18 PM
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Yeah after this the next step involves Coming across as a sexy individual Which itself may be idiosyncratic with many things that can't really be "taught" outside of trial and error. Like you have cases with two twins and one is getting way more ass than the other but they kind of both look exactly the same. But clearly one has way more sauce than the other when you hear them engage with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:17 PM
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Damn dude wouldn't it have just been easier to go to like Cambodia or something? Super cheap there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:15 PM
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Καλό Πάσχα
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:26 PM
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promote gender stereotype Yeah no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:25 PM
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Here is what I'd tell in general to a young man looking for advice. This is incredibly basic and does not encompass anything above the most basic advice that could be found anywhere else for free. In fact it's so basic it's probably not super useful since it assumes you are either 15 or lack awareness. Dress better: Invest in a few wardrobe essentials, such as tailored jeans, well-fitted shirts, and classic shoes. Choose clothes that flatter your body shape and complement your skin tone. Develop…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:39 PM
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As a 3rd party observer their statement makes more sense than yours
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:48 PM
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Of course they don't just like not every woman requires a guy who's really tall
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:44 PM
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Yeah Men aren't Women that's why this stuff is confusing to men since they have no reference of getting turned off seeing their girl...drowning. https://mobile.twitter.com/IamShainaJaye/status/1531725924869234690 https://mobile.twitter.com/Lil_MissCami/status/1624235629054681089
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:22 PM
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Seemed like Trump was always dating a new model or something in the 80s. Whether you hate him or not trying to pretend a lot of women didn't like Trump just seems pretty dumb. Tall uber rich guy in New York. And those are the chicks we know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:16 AM
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Women do not want or need attention from multiple men. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_n5E7feJHw0
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:03 PM
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You should self improve to make your life better. Part of making your life better would also include being more physically attractive. People treat you better and it's easier to have sex which is pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:28 PM
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Unless self improving gets someone elses dick sucked, it literally is for you. Either way women aren't the MOST important thing in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:26 PM
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Hypo agency vs Hyper agency. Everyone sees Men as having more agency regardless of race, creed, orientation, or political views. Tangentially related to male disposability and why you have multiple examples of underage boys having to pay child support. Can't change, won't change, it's ingrained in our DNA. Collect 200 and pass Go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:30 PM
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Yep had a whole answer written out but you know what. Not worth it. Thats how insane reddit has become. Let me just say society is going absolutely nuts and you can only bullshit about what 99.9999% of all humans at literally any point in any society understood, for so long. Everyone knows what a man or a woman is. I could get a time machine and it wouldn't be confusing to any society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:47 AM
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5'1-5'3 with a 0.7 WHR
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:37 PM
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I had a very feminist upbringing and it made me extremely blocked with any kind of intimacy and sex. As a dude who was sort of in the same boat I can tell you that therapy/sex-therapy is what you need. You gotta get over your sexual hangups
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:38 AM
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Hookers are whack. It's literally fake intimacy. A lot of them hate their customers and if you've had real sex with a woman who really wants you it's not even remotely the same. Idk why any guy would choose this if they had the choice not to. I guess to fuck way out of their league for cash, but to me, not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:37 AM
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People have always been fucking like rabbits on the down low. Sex revolution just blew it wide open. "Passive" men were never seen as sexy by a non trivial amount of women and that is not changing no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:35 AM
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3k an hour?? Damn Kristina Rose was 1.5k when I asked just 5 years ago. Inflations insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:25 AM
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going to a prestigious uni in itself does not make an applicant more favourable I work in recruiting. Wrong. If you submit to an online portal algo will boost your shit based on keywords, top schools being one of em.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:46 AM
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I've found autistic women to be extremely interesting to talk to. I matched with a woman on the spectrum who wrote me paragraphs about her work as a forensic scientist. It was cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:14 PM
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the cuck bullshit is just getting weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:39 PM
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Today in "creative writing exercise or cuck fetishist" we have OP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:28 PM
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I don’t know how to shake this feeling, but I’m really not enjoying sex with my husband as much as I used to. I feel as though it’s a chore or a sacrifice I have to make in order to keep him happy. Don’t get me wrong my husband is an amazing guy, he’s sweet and kind and smart and funny, but lately I’ve been feeling like sex is something I HAVE to do as opposed to something to look forward to. We also have a kid together so things aren’t exactly as care free and fun as they once were either. Mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:24 PM
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The whole "fear and shame" part isn't really a knowledge issue per se imo. If you're super anti therapy in the first place you aren't gonna google "Reasons why therapy is good". People only know what they care about and what they've been exposed to so it's more likely they'll reconfirm their biases if left on their own to "research"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:15 PM
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Not impossible just pretty rare. Not many ugly short dudes who also happen to be really fun to be around, charismatic, and sexy, but they definitely exist. I mean there have been 5'6 NBA players too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:12 PM
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Ignorance mixed with fear and shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:06 PM
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Why not upgrade your boyfriend to husband and downgrade your husband to friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:01 PM
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That shit made sense in the early 90s in very insular communities but people really aren't trying to read whole essays. You are not Sartre. Keep it concise. You are also not Stephen King. Unlikely the novel you're writing is super interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:46 PM
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Fuck dating apps. Live real life bro, get your fitness up, get your money up, but other than that just do what makes you happy. Say Hi to 3 people a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:44 PM
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The golden handcuff princess life with a diamond tiara chained to your bedroom sounds awesome. Until you get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:43 PM
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"fen-phen". Nuff said. Be careful out here. The point is to make a buck and maybe help people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:29 PM
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Yeah I had a friend who was very very short like 5'1 and honestly had a very ugly face. Super nice guy but the way women treated him was just honestly pretty fucked up. We were pretty young then, around 23, but he sort of gave up on the dating thing after awhile and just focused on making lots of money. But yeah for all the shit I tell men about maxxing themselves out you really can do everything right and still fail. And it's no sin, life is just the way it is. That's why I'm not too harsh on p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:58 PM
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Men like Women are not a monolith so it just highlights extremely lazy statistical thinking. 99% of murders being committed by someone who is a Man wouldn't tell you how many Men commit murders (which is barely anyone). This is like Stats 101. But very hard for the human mind to wrap around it. If we go Stats 102 we can learn about Pareto distributions and the fact that a small minority of people account for a vast disproportionate amount of things happening. Same reason why we see the average r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:53 PM
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Yeah we've been doing that. Doesn't help. Men's issues aren't because they dont emote like women. Not only is that extremely unrealistic it doesn't even make sense. In a world where Men were even more patriarchal we had less suicides, less addiction, all these things are multifactorial. Men literally hold hands together in certain middle eastern countries even if they are homophobic as shit. These issues are larger than "men need to be more like women". Yeah, no. They need to be more like Men an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:08 PM
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Both happen to each sex but based on observations we can all tell one happens more than the other if you are male/female. Few Men complain Women only want to have sex with them. Few Women complain Men only want to be friendly to them with zero sexual motive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:05 PM
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Easier to pick chicks up outside the club on a night out. In line for a pizza or just randomly while there's people walking. My friend used to bring a gallon of water while we were out. I asked why and he said "just a conversation piece". 2 girls asked why he had this giant jug of water and a lo and behold conversation started there. Also he looked and smelled nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:01 PM
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force a connection Why
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:59 PM
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Really just depends what your priorities are and your tolerance to rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:55 PM
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Women love sex. A lot. Their selection criteria for the wildest sex they will enjoy is just much narrower. Most guys would be okay getting their nut off with someone they barely find appealing when they're horny. But yeah Women like attention a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:48 PM
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Instantly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:03 AM
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I agree but that is basically impossible without strong religious values
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:20 AM
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Hey there pretty lady😉
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:13 AM
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What show is this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:11 AM
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Married Women are honestly the easiest to fuck. Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:54 PM
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Lol no are you crazy man do not waste your fucking life like this. It's not 1935.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:53 PM
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Your league isn't what you look like
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:16 PM
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Sex appeal is more than a handsome face and being tall. But guys who DONT FUCK have a lot to say about something they have zero experience with
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:42 PM
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Relax dude getting butthurt over some hypothetical guy on an internet forum get a grip lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:24 PM
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A free man in a free world does what he wants if he's not hurting anyone. Break the rules and not the law. I and many others I know have found partners just talking to people anywhere and I literally mean anywhere. Trains, bus stop, coffee shops, line at the amusement park, shopping, ubers, post office, you name it. Our ancestors survived famines, wars, mass death. We can survive looking awkward because someone didn't say Hi back
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:37 AM
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Lol why because they might meet a guy they want to have sex with and become his 41st lay of the year? Unless he sexually assaulted these people it took two to tango. I don't give a shit if a 20 year old man or woman fucks a 30 year old neither or a 900 year old demi god so that's not even a problem either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:31 AM
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Average Man's biggest problem with dating is behaving/acting sexy not necessarily being a "bad person" or a "bad listener". You might just be boring and don't turn her on. Being/Looking/Acting more MASCULINE will almost always be better than being less. You are not Harry Styles. Make a move as early as you can detect that you can. You need a killer instinct, most Women will not make the first move at any stage Sex matters a lot. If the sex is whack and she manages to gaslight herself into thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:02 PM
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Feel like every post you have to mention you do steroids 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:16 PM
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Women like Men with a curvy figure and Men like Women with broad shoulders and a thin waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:09 PM
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Some guys never got to learn through trial and error or from older bros but did learn enough through the internet. For better or worse. I think that's what OPs getting at. I still find the current "manosphere" mostly a joke and marketing but it does not surprise me when it helps some dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:23 AM
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Only one way to find out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:12 PM
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https://mobile.twitter.com/__swaybudden/status/1640759974979665941 Always be nice to the fat girls at the gym. They'll remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:57 PM
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Good. Then don't complain lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:11 PM
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Go overseas itll help. Trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:53 PM
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Oh brother...🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:21 PM
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Just chicken, broccoli, hard work, and divine milkshakes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:00 PM
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The most muscular short dudes (< 5'9) I know are still like 160lbs soaking wet. They're just not that big even when they get ripped. Biggest slayers I knew just look like they could body a dude. Not super lean guys either. Bodyguard type builds around 5'8-5'11. Although I'd say the guy I knew with the most success was basically a clone of The Mountain from GoT. Thinner tall dudes also did fine from what I observed but they still look pretty big.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:59 PM
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D1/Pro Athlete physique gets you the most bang (literally) for your buck. Either that or Firefighter aka raw physical functional strength. Idk how many dudes have engaged in freaky sex where the chick wants to be folded like a lawn chair. But if you meet woman like that you gotta be strong on some level and not a twink pretty boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:47 PM
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I see why all these guys got psyopped into taking steroids and SARMS since an impressive natty physique takes years of consistent effort. But to me it's still not worth it unless you want to be on TRT for the rest of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:25 PM
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Mass shooter? Why do I immediately think the person had a penis...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:49 PM
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why do only men get oneitis? Women get it too. Isn't what that whole "alpha widow" hullabaloo you guys talk about is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:44 PM
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Boredom, free entertainment/food/drinks if she didn't pay, etc. I have an acquaintance who goes on dates with guys she is not super interested in. If something happens, great, if not still got a free meal. She's just bored and it's like a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:34 PM
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there wouldn’t have been a second date🤷‍♀️ Which is good because he would have wasted even less time with someone incompatible. Better to know where you stand early instead of waffling waiting for some spark that never comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:32 PM
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That's why I say a lot of guys who can get dates but frequently end up alone have one simple problem. Not coming off as a sexual being/being sexy. If she thinks you have a cool personality but isn't feeling you, good chance you came off like her brother not her lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:30 PM
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Ok so if he looked like Jack Black you wouldn't necessarily find him hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:37 PM
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If he had the physical body build of Jack Black. Doesn't look like he lifts, kinda fat, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:35 PM
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If he looked like a pudgy jack black vs what he looks like now would you find him more attractive, less attractive, or the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:32 PM
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So he looks best to you when he's not pudgy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:29 PM
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Would you prefer if your husband got a lot fatter? Like if he became really pudgy would that make him more physically attractive to you? Like my friend really loves big boobs but the woman he married has small ones but he told me he would definitely love it if they suddenly got bigger. That reinforces in my mind he definitely really likes big boobs. If he said he didn't care then I would assume he doesn't really care about boobs that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:24 PM
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Because the whole "guys dont like wifing up sluts" thing is a lie. If there's one thing the biggest sluts I know are really good at its turning a man on and getting him excited. Plus being "slutty" doesn't mean you're an idiot, just promiscuous. These chicks know how to get a guy then want and they go do it. A lot of them just cheat tho and the man is none the wiser
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:16 PM
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Unless you're a massive idiot it's pretty easy to disguise your views to get what you want. Like how dumb would someone be to say non pc stuff at work?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:27 PM
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Yeah you're just being an asshole. I now plenty of dudes who have trouble dating the problem isn't their looks they are mostly just kinda lame. If they looked better it would absolutely make up for their lack of charisma but most people in general are average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:08 PM
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Bad vibe: You just feel weird and unhappy around someone. Not relaxed. Maybe it's the way they look? Maybe it's how they talk? Maybe it's the words they use. But you just don't feel good around them. Good vibe: Opposite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:46 PM
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I don't necessarily think guys should go out and cold approach for any reason just to kill their social anxiety. Very low ROI. But it's a good skill to know how to converse with strangers. If you can cold approach 100 people (not saying you should), you probably aren't gonna be too scared just saying "Hi" to a cute girl at a party and starting a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:26 PM
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Because a lot of commenters legitimately act like they just get their experiences from the internet. I can respect a guy who tried and failed. I can't respect a guy who never did and just fucked his shit up because of everything he read online
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:19 PM
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I already said that what you're doing makes you a dickhead, To you it does. To others it doesn't. Why should I care what you think and not someone else? Purely subjective honestly, we can ultimately agree to disagree. I don't think the attempt in and of itself to start a conversation makes you a dickhead. Anymore than someone trying to sell their goods. Pushing forward after your disinterest has been declared is dickish to me. The first No should have been enough, now it's just being pushy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:09 PM
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See but here's the thing... You may "bother" someone just by trying to strike up a conversation. But that's honestly...not a big deal. If you're aware enough you can tell and just you know, stop? Some people actually like talking to people. And that's fine, but you won't know until you do. But the fact of the matter is the universe operates under the assumption the answer is "No". But you won't know you get a "Yes" until you try. There's also a massive gulf between harassing someone who isn't in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:05 PM
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Sure if you want. Probably makes you look like a massive dickhead but it's a free world. What I can say is it would definitely signal to other people not to interact with you. So that's a good thing for your purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:00 PM
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And that's good for you. Some people really don't want others to talk to them. That's fine! Other people, do. But unless there's a sign on your fucking forehead that says "fuck off", just talk to people. It's really not that big of a deal. Your life will most likely be better off ignoring this guy and engaging with real people in real life and ignoring internet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:59 PM
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Took work to get there but I say if I can do it anyone can. Wasn't a huge talker growing up honestly and was extremely socially anxious. Until I realized... It's really not that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:47 PM
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That's great! Everyone's different, do what works for you. But the recent thread has me obviously convinced a lot of dudes on this subreddit, and let me be honest, reddit in general would have a hard time just having a normal conversation with their grocery bagger. Making up entire storylines about getting metoo'd or some stupid as shit...just...talking. Like can people just get fucking real or live a real life and not internet shit for once please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:46 PM
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I have and I do. And the majority of the time she smiles back politely. If she really doesn't want to look at me she just looks away. That's it. That is literally the worst thing that happens. And I'm not some super handsome dude. I'm pretty short (5'6) and look very average, and I'm African so off the jump people are sometimes scared of me just by walking around lol. But maybe I just don't look too intimidating or scary. In any case, from my experience it's not that big of a deal. So I get real…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:37 PM
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If you see someone you like just fucking talk to them. Seriously guys, what is wrong you people? Has anyone here actually experienced a real life threatening scenario just living their normal life? You are literally fucking your head up by consuming so much media and material. If you had the police called on you because you talked to your cashier, fine, I get it. But most of you guys just wanna make endless excuses for being lame as fuck. I can guarantee you saying hello to someone isn't going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:30 PM
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Just no. Do you people live in the god damn real world or just the fucking internet? Holy fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:23 PM
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Sometimes I forget I live in a different area/circle which leads to a massive selection bias because But the way I see it, and the way most women see it, is that she's in a context in which she did not expect to have to be social. Is such a foreign concept to me. Most women I know in real life don't care and welcome it because the culture here is just like that. But the reality is as an individual human do what you want as long as you don't actually hurt someone. I personally do not give a singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:18 PM
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It's unfortunate you were called creepy but those experiences shouldn't bear on you now. The only way to move forward is to try. Even if its just very little steps. The only way to train your brain is to convince it that it's model of your fears are not completely accurate. Just say Hi to 3 random women a day. That's it, a simple Hi. If that's too much, just a simple head nod. I used to have extreme social anxiety when I was younger and forced myself to just start talking to people. I went from …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:31 PM
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she has even more right to feel annoyed by it. Sure and she can either let you know she's not interested or you can pick up on her disinterest. Let her figure out why she doesn't want to talk to you, no need to do it yourself. I'm annoyed when people try to sell my stuff on the street, sometimes I get a good offer but I have no expectation people aren't allowed to try and sell me something. Now once you start harassing people after they told you to buzz off then we have a real problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:25 PM
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If she finds you attractive, likes the conversation and is available to know more about you then there isn't a big deal. But if the only reason you’re talking to a stranger is because you want to stick your dick in her, she’s gonna sense that. Women aren't stupid. They know a vast majority of the time a guy going out of his way to talk to her is that on some level he is interested in her, not to find a new call of duty partner. It's good to know where you stand and it isn't hard to figure it out…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:12 PM
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You know you can just live your life bro and ignore people on the internet. which as a culture we've all agreed makes him a disgusting perverted predator with no awareness of the terror women feel when experiencing it, fearing the absolute worst. This isn't real and mostly fake internet shit. Seriously just go talk to people you'll be surprised. If you're a dude and that worried some stranger thought you were weird for striking up friendly conversation then you haven't faced any actual real prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:08 PM
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Paying for pussy is not the same though. You can tell the difference when there's raw visceral attraction. Pussy grips different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:06 PM
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Legitimate question. How many women have you personally approached in real life with physically real people who reacted this way? Most people are not gonna lose their shit because you tried to strike up a normal conversation. And you'll know pretty quick if someone is just being polite and doesn't really wanna talk. You guys gotta get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:01 PM
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"is there a reason (other than my horniness) we should be talking?" "Because I want to" is a completely valid reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:58 PM
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attempting to talk to women then suddenly gets (re)labeled inappropriate, weird, even predatory The good thing about the real world is you can just ignore people. Who fucking cares what some rando is shaming you for on the internet. If you're that much of a fucking pussy and don't approach people because some women say not to you're just not gonna make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:18 PM
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Get a fucking burner then if you're so paranoid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:14 PM
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If you say "personality doesn't matter" I just assume you don't fuck or don't know guys who fuck a lot. "Good Personality" doesn't necessarily mean being a moral person with upstanding character either. Halo effect aside your looks get you in the door, the hotter the more chances but if you are super duper lame (however she perceives it) that shit is not lasting long. Also if you suck in bed too good luck getting her to come back if she could barely come anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:11 PM
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No that's ambitious. Wanting an intelligent man doesn't necessarily mean a guy who has the entire contents of wikipedia memorized. More so a guy who can navigate, solve problems and handle things without making stupid mistakes or just doing/saying dumb shit. Also can be a status marker. Sure some women will fuck a dumb hot dude for fun but ultimately would settle down with someone going somewhere in life (like a Doctor) even if he doesn't look as attractive. Will the sex be as good? Idk maybe no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:52 AM
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What I noticed personally is some Men who have literally never been told no their whole life (because they're super hot) when it comes to sex just don't stop because they either think the girl is lying or they just don't care. Which is why their victims won't be believed either since "he's a good guy, he would never do that, she's just a slut, I slept with him and it was fine, etc etc etc"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:00 AM
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You gotta feel the vibe, some will like it, others won't
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:57 PM
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See you get it. So many guys get confused when Women say a guy is "Handsome/Cute but not Sexy". Ugly sexy is a real thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:41 PM
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You have less time than you think. Don't waste it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:36 PM
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Money has never mattered when it came to actually arousing a Woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:18 PM
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If you can easily make female friends but are getting zero ass you need to start looking and behaving like a Man who has sex and not an asexual teddy bear or puppy dog. Contrary to internet memes Women can find puppies cute but most aren't going to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:17 PM
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Women's "game" and Men's "game" are different because... Men and Women are different. Why is this such a sore topic, we are obviously not completely the same so we navigate life differently on average and have different advantages/disadvantages. The grass isn't necessarily greener. If you are a Man act like a Man and it'll be a lot easier. Complaining about the rules of the game is not how men succeed because honestly no one cares about men who complain. Just men who "win".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:14 PM
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Because he's irrelevant and no one cares or knows who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:25 AM
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In a place where abortion is legal a baby really only exists because the mother wants to have it or at the very least does not want to terminate the pregnancy or is physically unable to. The buck ultimately stops there. Both parents are at fault for having sex and causing the sperm to enter the egg but only one is responsible for carrying it to term.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:25 AM
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It seems to be working very well for women You sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:37 PM
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Men and Women are both free to be fatter and uglier and are even free to complain about the consequences of being fatter and uglier. You shouldn't actually attach your intrinsic self worth to what is ephermal. Your beauty, wealth, etc. Realistically speaking people still do. It's very hard to separate what "ought" to be from what is. In reality if you are complaining about your dating options you need to increase your perceived attractiveness. Now you are allowed to complain but the way the worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:37 PM
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You are prudish and judgemental with barely any sexual experience as a 30 year old man and you think that makes you an interesting sex partner? It "still being new" is a BAD thing. And I don’t want to sleep with a girl that doesn’t feel the same way. Ok then go date a teenager or someone who is religious and waiting for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:51 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:13 PM
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Women don't have to settle down with a man and give him duty sex just because he can pay the bills (also she would cheat anyway or not fuck him right) so men cannot rely on that. Now they must rely on being sexy. Men should figure out what being sexy means.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:55 PM
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There's multiple factors at play but some women truly find more fat on a dude sexy. However, you get the most bang for your buck as a man by being physically muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:53 PM
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Low testosterone. The guys I know with super high test somehow make time to watch porn, play video games and still fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:51 PM
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Put on at least 20 pounds of lean muscle mass, start dressing better, and walk with more confidence and presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:50 PM
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Your response was to this An ugly social guy is a fun friend. A good looking social guy is a catch. Looks and presentation are primary What about this statement has anything to do with lashing out at the world or believing you are owed something? It's just true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:44 PM
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How is a person who thinks they are really ugly displaying a lack of humility
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:40 AM
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Actually western men should get fatter and stay in the west no more competition please. If I found a gold mine I'm not telling anyone. I'm black but yes dating is way way easier overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:34 PM
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Neutral 3rd party here and didn't watch the video, but upon immediately opening it I don't see how he looks like detracts or adds to anything he's about to say. He's got glasses, a hoodie, and a beard? I guess he's bald. That's it? I was expecting some extremely ugly guy. Lol relax he's normal looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:01 PM
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For young men reading this this is pretty good but pick up the most important stuff first. but rather tall and had nice eyes and broad shoulders. Ok 2 of these can't be helped but get buff shoulders boys. I'm telling you the shit helps. You will never get "too ripped" unless you literally take steroids and workout for like 10 years. Srs. I wasn’t 100% sexually attracted to him the man must do the chase or nothing Now don't necessarily "chase", but you need to engage with women. I witness a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:30 PM
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It's just too hard to ignore at scale is my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:23 PM
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As a man being lusted after is leagues better for me than not. But im a dude so it's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:29 PM
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Lol you're a fuckin ding dong 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:25 PM
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The assumption based on the video is that the "steve" character is into you and you know this. It's not just your friend you wouldn't date. It's your friend who you know wants to date you, is willing to date you and is waiting for you to say yes (if you ever do). And in the back of your mind "Steve" is your "last resort" if you ever had to settle down with someone. You know for a fact he will still be there if everyone else falls through. What you're describing is not exactly what the video is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:00 PM
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Guys that are "too nice" may be handsome but give off no sexy edge or are just straight up boring as fuck, at least to women. Most men's biggest dating problems aren't that they are secretly evil sociopaths who are bad people like really dumb people on the internet like to pretend it's about. Instead, they're explicitly boring, unexciting, and don't give off any sexual energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:51 PM
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Too big for me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:10 PM
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I do not know a single man who got taller or gained more muscle mass and had LESS attention from women. Why is our society so obsessed with bullshitting people. Masculine looking men get more attention. Doesn't mean you will be an incel if you aren't tall and jacked. Hell I know obese dudes who pull. But just stop lying. Women with very nice figures are seen as more attractive than women who are shaped like a cereal box. It's just... Reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:35 PM
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A few. It's not really a secret about what goes on either in certain communities/cultures. Women like to fuck. A lot!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:31 PM
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Lol what. Dude women have their own "rotations". Contrary to popular reddit belief not every single woman in the world just wants a boyfriend or is fucking some guy in hopes that he becomes one. The term "Dick Appointment" exists for a reason. Some women just want some dick, that's literally the "reward".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:30 PM
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Fat chicks in the winter. Slim chicks in the spring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:16 AM
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MAMA MIA!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:27 AM
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Whale hunting is also better in the winter. The blubber makes for extra warmth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:24 AM
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I'm MASA Make America Sexy Again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:20 AM
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They experience zero downsides to what’s playing out. Every player I know has horror stories of psycho chicks, stds, pregnancy scares, baby traps, etc. If you play the game long enough some shit goes down. Overall it's a pretty cool life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:04 AM
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Yes but they are pretty rare, just like hot people are rare. Most people fall in the average range. Slightly above, or slightly below.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:59 AM
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incapable of reading between the lines You are applying a female centered communication framework. Men are more blunt, direct and more likely to take stock of things at face value, to their detriment. So they just assume whatever is said as "up" means "up", when in girl world "up" may mean "down" depending on the tone/time/place/mood/lighting. Now if you're autistic? Fugettaboutit. One thing that was explicitly taught to me specifically is don't take a woman's word as gospel especially if what s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:57 AM
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I thought I was mostly asexual. I suddenly realized I wasn’t in fact asexual. Yeah this happens a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:49 AM
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American dating market is busted for both men and women. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:10 PM
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What women (and men, ever heard of a moped?) say in public and what they do in private are completely different things. Yeah the guys I know who had the most women with the most ease were around 6'5 but I've known men between 5'3 and 5'9 who killed it. Albiet with a LOT more effort on their part. There are women out there with a 5'6 fuck buddy who makes her hollar in the bedroom but are embarrased to look taller than them at public events. Women's taste vary a lot but they are also more salient …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:23 PM
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Yep, and no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:18 PM
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who doesn't have wealth or status Men don't really care about that as much for partners. They aren't women and women aren't men. Short women aren't seen as less feminine. Short men are seen as less masculine. That's why short women don't complain about being too short to find dates while short men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:11 PM
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I know every girl has her own taste on men but I'm trying to see the big picture here. Ok well this is a niche forum on a kind of niche website so you're just going to get a selection bias. The answers here would differ than twitter, and especially lipstickalley so there's no "big picture" to get from asking redditors
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:17 PM
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Not necessarily. There are plenty of women who end up with guys like that and they themselves don't have those qualities, or are we gonna assume every domestic violence shelter is just filled with women who were shitty people? Vice versa with men. This is just another "just-world" fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:14 PM
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Exactly so theres no need to take accountability for some other woman being an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:38 PM
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Geeze someone struck a nerve lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:36 PM
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God tier level looks + average charisma/game is gonna beat God tier level charisma + average looks, when it comes to fucking. It's just what it is! But if you are an average looking dude why compare yourself? Its about using your toolkit available to you to get what you want. Game does matter in my opinion. But it works on a longer time scale, requires more effort, and is honestly very hard to cultivate consistently. Game is just being able to turn her on emotionally using your words and charism…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:51 PM
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Lol it's not the "rhetoric" that causes this. Old dudes have been hitting on pretty young things since time immemorial. Adults can hit on other adults, whomever they want, whenever. I personally don't encourage it but some (not a lot) of young women do date old as fuck guys so there is some market there. If I had a 19 year old sister I'd highly suggest she not date a dude more than 8 years her senior. Got a friend right now who is 29 dating a guy near 50. Nice guy but damn girl, guess you really…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:45 PM
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Women don't feel safe outside so if they want to date, they choose apps You guys really need your internet cut off for an entire year so you are forced to interact in real fucking life. My god. Plus the overly neurotic insane women are not ones you should be dating anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:34 PM
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once I started reading the TRP sub, the MGTOW sub and also other forums like bodybuilding, 4chan/2chan/8chan, I just got a general disgust for most males Why? At best maybe hundreds of thousands of people combined actually read that stuff. Out of a population of say...billions? A smarter thing would be to be less neurotic and treat people as individuals and find out whether your values are compatible. I've been active on the internet since around 1998 or so. Kind of seen most things out there. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:34 PM
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That sounds pretty hot ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:49 PM
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No they are literally more susceptible, overall. Women in pretty much every single culture are more at risk for anxiety disorders and depression due to typically scoring higher on the neuroticism scale and sensitivity to negative emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:47 PM
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the cucks/NTRenjoyers are the ones who now feel at peace with the game Dude just reading the r/cuckoldpsychology sub tells me a lot of men are legitimately at war psychologically with themselves and this causes massive self esteem issues. No, we are not gonna have a society of alpha stud dudes with with 5 female partners who each have their own beta cuck slave. Are you nuts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:42 PM
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We need to inculcate in young boys the notion that they will likely not be chosen by women as sexual partners when they grow up. Lmao goooooooood fucking luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:39 PM
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I never even said I wanted that, but most men don't even come CLOSE and that's the issue. Do you know how hard it is for the average person to make just 6 figures? There you go. It's like me complaining most women don't have cheerleader bodies. Why on earth would I expect that? Most don't even come CLOSE. Your issue is your expectations are unrealistic and you complain instead of figuring out how to get what you want, altering what you want, or being content with what you got. I have never once …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:43 PM
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If 5% people go bankrupt it's their fault. If 75% of people go bankrupt you have a systemic issue somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:37 PM
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Where are the virgin men making 6 figures and owning multiple properties who've never cheated and are in great shape? Where are these men hm? Uh...they are rare, that's the point. You can have ANY standard you want. The issue is the more stipulations you add the harder it will be to find what you want. So what is the issue with me hm? The issue might be you don't offer enough to the men you want who themselves have the ability to be very selective because so few of them exist. You also might be …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:23 PM
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Men have HYPER-agency, Women have HYPO-agency. Doesn't matter what ideological wrapper you put over this, literally everyone thinks this way. Feminists, especially. Conservatives, definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:14 PM
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"Shitty personality" tends to mean an asshole. You can be a social, funny, person who just happens to have terrible character and is a horrible individual. Being autistic just makes you more awkward, not a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:12 PM
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How feasible is it for an average guy? By definition if you are a guy who is successful casually dating you are not average. ex.) Maybe you look average appearance wise but your charisma and presence are on point. ex.) You work with a lot of women at a restaurant and everyones just hooking up with each other and lots of girls get to know you and like your personality even if you just look "average".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:23 PM
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That sucks but the issue is having a step mom thats a bitch not that shes from a different country. If she had the same personality but was born here it wouldn't have made a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:17 PM
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Having a synthetic "relationship" with a robot is not "romantic companionship". It's ultimately masturbation. Also "indistinguishable from biological women", is impossible. We are not inventing blade runner world anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:21 PM
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There is more to dating than sex but lust for your partner (even as simple as just finding them physically appealing) is one of the foundations unless you are on the asexual spectrum. How satisfied are the people in dead bedrooms? Your love of baking together, going to church, going on hikes, doesn't fix anything if she feels unfulfilled in the bedroom in her eyes. That's how cheatings start. Unless you're young and not interested in children yet, or decided long ago that children are not someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:52 PM
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"Dating" advice needs to focus more on sex, how to be sexy, and how to turn him/her on. The entire point of man meets woman is to have babies, eventually. We have an entire culture of incredibly unsexy men and incredibly unsexy women and we wonder why there's no fucking going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:12 PM
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after you have the husband/bf/partner title For a lot of people, not really. Sex tends to be one of the first things that comes to peoples minds because you generally feel lust faster than you experience love. Men tend to want to be seen as a lover first because her lusting for you is important. Now this can cause issues when there is only lust and no emotional bond. Ideally there is both in a relationship. People just don't like being in a situation where they are desired for one thing but not …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:32 PM
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The Women who are complaining about their relationships a lot just tend to be with Men who don't care enough about them to keep them happy. The Men who would keep that Woman very happy emotionally and think of all the "little things" aren't really sexy enough. Tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:15 AM
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Yeah going to have to disagree there. Having a masculine physique is just attractive in Men in general across the entire planet, the same way having a feminine physique is for Women. Did anyone mention autism? He just sounds like a kind of lame dude who is introverted. Being an introvert does not mean you literally have autism. You need to get real. Go and continue to complain about society. I merely offer potential solutions, I'm not gonna cry about it and neither should OP's friend. He's got t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:29 PM
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You know what these are all good points. In any case, I think the situation is overall a bad idea. More power to him if he does this but I can definitely see how this ends badly. Real life isn't "Pretty Woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:18 PM
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This isn't really "simping" imo. He's fucking a hooker. Purely transactional. "Simps" generally don't get sex in the equation. But I agree OP's friend is honestly wasting his life like this. I would not be impressed at all by a guy friend telling me this was what he was up to. I would just think "Dude...cmon..seriously?". Maybe if he was 60 years old I could justify "Ok you're old and lonely", but I'm a fairly young dude and this sounds nuts. I've seen it, and it still is dumb to me. On top of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:47 PM
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Wait so he's a weirdo now? Lol. Sex is valued the way the people who are having it, value it. Is she getting a shitty deal? To me they both are, but people value things differently, so it's ultimately subjective. I think they both sell themselves short in this avenue, but it's their life. She's getting exactly what she's asking for, ostensibly. No one put a gun to her head nor his. If she is a 10/10 like OP claims, and OP's friend is also making bank it's just hard to feel that bad for either of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:34 PM
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Respectfully, his height is not the issue. It's literally just his introverted personality. And from what I can surmise from a lot of SWE's I personally know, he probably just lacks a masculine frame and the ability to project his non platonic interest in a sexy manner. Look, in all honesty, good for him if he truly wants to explore an explicitly transactional relationship as long as he understands one thing. There is no love to be found here so if he "falls in love" with his roommate prostitute…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:19 PM
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Talk to hundreds of Women and have an abundant social life. Seriously, just keep talking to more Women. It's like a sales funnel. Takes some guys hundreds of calls before they make their first sale. At the end of the day find what works for you and keep doing it. You're going to fail, a lot. Maybe look stupid, a lot. But it's your life, you know? The reality too is getting as good of a physique as possible will make things easier. Athletes are rarely *ncels for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:59 PM
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