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3	What happens in real life when you try and date an incel/beta nerd...and why I will never date one again. The thing is, the mean-spiritedness here ("I bathe in their salty tears", etc.) is coming back to you, and it indicates further trouble in the world of relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/18 06:22 PM
2	Why does TRP not say UMC women instead of women? All young women go to parties, get drunk and ride Chad dick. "I have understood the whole social world, and behold, I lord over it like a God; your value is defined by the couple of times you hooked up with someone at a party. I know each of you, even though I have never met barely any of you. I stand on the outside, judging you harshly, because I know what evil is within you." Is this mindset working out for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/18 09:53 PM
4	How are men strategizing about women seen as manipulative and fake? Because the person who manipulates isn't in touch with their emotions. They are in touch with their wants and needs, and the mental framework that translates this into "What buttons I need to press", and the world of appearances which is constantly double-checked for feedback. Its a non-relaxed mental loop which thins out the emotional experience, and constrains the depth of relating and authenticity that is possible. There's a depth of need expressed in the words "If I'm going on a date and I w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/18 03:14 PM
5	Do you like casual sex? Why or why not? haha no. it feels like a soulless misuse of the body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/18 06:50 AM
1	Claiming that most women (or men) do not party, hookup, or go out drinking is a flat out lie. Partying, drinking, or casual sex is not done by every single person, but it's done by a very large portion of the population. Calling it rare is denial. Trying to 'mastermind' your approach to socializing by putting people in categories hasn't been productive for me, so I avoid doing it now whenever possible. When I find myself doing it, I look within to find the anxiety that is causing me to need to 'war-plan my social life' - I then amplify that anxiety in a meditative state until i have felt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/18 09:32 PM
2	Claiming that most women (or men) do not party, hookup, or go out drinking is a flat out lie. thanks yeah, you clarified it beautifully.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/18 09:16 PM
2	I hate that TRP is the truth, but it is. Treating women as equals is seriously that contentious a point? Women are our equals. I'm suggesting we should live within Reality, and treat them as such.	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/18 05:40 PM
32	Is casual bodybuilding and steroid use a direct result of unrestricted female hypergamy? I say yes. Its not ridiculous. If you and OP can even agree on what stereotype you're talking about, I'll eat my own ass on a livestream and post the link to the sub. Donovan will be playing in the background. 30% of women go to boat parties or EDM parties, have an instagram and post pics of themselves on it, are hot, and what else? Dude this post is about OP's fucking instagram spank bank. I can't regard this as the Essay On The Nature of Woman that it wants to be. PS Just kidding OP you do actually need …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/18 11:10 PM
9	Is casual bodybuilding and steroid use a direct result of unrestricted female hypergamy? I say yes. true, true ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/18 10:19 PM
40	Is casual bodybuilding and steroid use a direct result of unrestricted female hypergamy? I say yes. All you need to do is look at the Instagrams of hot chicks who are sub 30 years old, and who they hang out at with at these EDM concerts, beach parties, boat parties, etc. That's it! I caught it! (That subconscious moment where you filter out 99% of the female population and focus on 5 to 15 specific women, most of whom are simply stand-ins for about 3 girls that you actually know IRL, but tell us you're talking about "Women"). Go on...tell me more about the results of your investigative researc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/18 10:06 PM
2	Fucked up my relationship by showing her my vulnerable side even though I didn't believe that this could happen I'm currently trying to put as much distance between us as possible, but I have no idea whether this actually helps or not. I don't know why people think distance helps anything, unless its fear-based (e.g. amping up the fear in the other person of losing you). Distance can be seen as running away from the realities of the relationship. It only 'creates attraction' in women who are willing to project positive qualities onto someone who abandons them. I think distance will increase the awkwardnes…	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/18 02:32 PM
31	Building sexual attraction with a woman is like baking a cake This is how women feel when you shower them with attention too early on. Ha. It was touching to read this because, dang, we've all been there. Such a common experience, to go all in on a half-interested chick, and try to persuade her to love you through showing love yourself. Its beautiful to me now. You see how much love and excitement is in young men's hearts. How a nice looking woman can appear to them as a Goddess. We are all so scared by the strength of emotion we feel!! That's beautiful! I…	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/18 01:51 PM
1	I hate that TRP is the truth, but it is. I'm in the best years of my life dude, the hard stuff is behind me. Trying to help the truly naive here, who are trapped and truly emasculated, with some wisdom. Looking at people as equals - you chose that to scoff at? ugh.	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/18 01:30 PM
-2	"The Talk" is Socially Retarded, Do Not Tolerate It. haha "I don't like to discuss these things verbally." HAHAHAHAHAHAHA What kind of dumbass chicks are you working with where that bullshit will fly.	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/18 08:43 PM
0	"The Talk" is Socially Retarded, Do Not Tolerate It. These dudes are not coming from a place where they are ready to have relationships yet. Follow their advice as your own risk.	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/18 08:38 PM
1	Women prefer the sex of their more attractive lovers than the men they end up with long term. Guess what, some people are inferior to others. I disagree. This requires an acknowledgment of the spiritual nature of reality. We each have a soul. Each soul is precisely as valuable as the next. To think otherwise is to think that accruing a certain amount of external attributes ("see, I'm rich, see, I have a six pack, see, I have 100k") - actually corresponds to the internal value of the person. But its confusion to think so. This is not the case. Worth and attributes are not related at all. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/18 08:17 PM
0	Being controlling doesn't work If you hunt unicorns, all you end up with is a horn up your ass. I can meet and recognize quality women. I don't think unicorn is a helpful concept. Lots of people are loveable, won't betray you, and are worth spending time with. Whether you specifically want to be partnered with someone is maybe a different question, but quality women are everywhere (in my world). The point is you need to be specific and real or you'll end up with something that isn't what you thought it was. You are going to h…	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/18 05:51 PM
1	Women prefer the sex of their more attractive lovers than the men they end up with long term. There has to be a very deep sense of "not measuring up" within the person, to make them want to compare themselves to past loves. Just trust her that she likes you enough, and in the carefree attitude that results, she's likely to like you more. You are not inferior to other men. You are not inferior to women. You are not inferior to anyone. People should be happy and glad to spend time with you. You are sexually desirable. You are worthwhile.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/18 05:23 PM
1	I hate that TRP is the truth, but it is. Yeah, you have to select who you associate with and set boundaries with toxic, abusive people. After that though, when you have healthy people around you, you can open up to them and trust them again. That's pretty important to have a happy, loving social life.	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/18 04:44 PM
5	Focussing on Pussy isnt Beta Behavior Contempt is a two-edged blade my friend. Those who hold others in contempt, also end up holding themselves in contempt, because humans are all connected by a mysterious inner cord, called Spirit. It sounds crazy, but life is crazy like that. Your last post called most men out for being losers. Now you are making a post to justify that you are not a loser, even though your life is focused on sex. See how this "You are all losers" mentality is very close to the mentality of "Wait, am I perhaps als…	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/18 11:26 PM
1	What do you think of these metaphysical principles of reconnecting with women haha you are like a gazelle talking to a lion. If you think I didn't marinate in this shit 24/7 for decades of my life and can read through these lines like a person looking through cellophane, you are in for some surprises.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/18 10:42 PM
4	I hate that TRP is the truth, but it is. Ironically, its RedPill that fvcked you up here bro. You started out projecting an image of something you're not (an invulnerable being without emotions). Then when the juicy stuff of the relationship started (everybody wants to share their feelings with their lady, what else is the point of a relationship?), you revealed your true self (who is a real man who has feelings, not a redpill stereotype). Your initial relationship with this woman was built on the false front of Alpha Dudeness you proj…	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/18 09:08 PM
-2	I hate that TRP is the truth, but it is. I prefer looking at them as equals. Its not good to look down on anyone.	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/18 09:04 PM
2	If AFBB is not wrong why deny its existence/ commonality? the idea that the vast majority of casual sex goes down in any way other than drunk people making bad decisions after a party and having mediocre, forgettable, and usually unfinished sex is pure, unmitigated projection. haha. I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/18 08:30 PM
2	What do you think of these metaphysical principles of reconnecting with women I read this as being that you become very emotionally engaged with women who do not reciprocate. This small subset of women, who you have a very specific kind of interaction with and dynamic with, you henceforward refer to as "women" and speak as if you are generalizing about human relationship dynamics. I see you have a lot of experience with disinterested or half-interested women. All of these tactics and mental calculations more or less exist to counteract the emotional reality that you saw s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/18 05:33 PM
5	Being controlling doesn't work Good to hear. I think a lot of the anxiety you express in the post about being able to rely on a woman to be there for you, can be accomplished by choosing more emotionally stable partners. People who are emotionally mature and stable don't wildly fluctuate and they will want to build something that can last for years.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 07:54 AM
1	Hypergamy - why it's unique to women. First off, no. While women tend to lust after the top 20% of attractive men, men are far less discriminating - it's like the top 50-60% of women that we are drawn to or something like that. So as a man, you are far more likely to fall below her perceived "attractive zone" than a woman is likely to fall below yours. This is the distinction you use to pin this behavior uniquely upon women? Bullshit. You lust for the top 50% of women? Meaning 1 in 2 women would grab your attention? Come on. Nobody …	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 06:35 AM
7	Being controlling doesn't work I agree with you. These are good realizations to have. Meanwhile we were at a little get-together and she wanted me to fuck her the whole time. Also, she just told me she cheated and is hooking up with another guy in about a couple weeks. She was also telling her friend how, I have "great dick" and was all excited when she thought I was going to fuck her. A co-worker at my job also likes to talk to me and says how her bf would be so angry and threatens her not to talk to any guys. It sounds like…	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 06:28 AM
2	Married woman This is a story about 1 woman. That same night, millions of women went home and slept with their husbands, after having some kind of flirty exchange with dudes like the OP.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 04:06 AM
19	Married woman Are you asking if its possible for two people to remain faithful to each other in marriage? Yes, it is. This sub is very distrustful of women and if you are young and just forming your opinions, please take with a grain of salt. You are loveable enough to have a woman stay loyal to you, but you have to actually believe that its possible. Which many cannot ever believe about themselves.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 04:02 AM
2	New plate bringing up exes She has her ex heavily on her mind. There probably is no 'space' for you to really get in there (into her mind/heart) and work your magic.. but of course, I could be wrong. You could certainly plow, but I don't think it will be an LTR. Her head is not out of her last relationship. I'd advise you to get out of the frame of "were my responses good?". This isn't a classroom - do whatever you want. Say what you want. Anything will work, with the right person. With the wrong person the best chosen li…	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 03:55 AM
2	Most men are losers. You can easily fuck their women. thanks for speaking truth. This thread is a goddamn disaster.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 03:39 AM
2	The Problem with “No Means No” is Men always Think it’s Negotiable. I think there are many women who have improved their relationship lives through self-development who would disagree with you there. Inner and outer are linked in mysterious ways, I'll leave it at that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/18 03:14 AM
2	Does anyone else here feel embarrassed for wanting a relationship after reading posts here and elsewhere? Well, I hope it works out. And if not this one, the next. You sound like a really intelligent and well-put-together lady.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/18 08:15 PM
5	Does anyone else here feel embarrassed for wanting a relationship after reading posts here and elsewhere? You're gonna be fine, Powdered. since I am divorced, 30 something with a teen child, of course such a man would see me as a pile of shit because that's their philosophy You're somebody's great catch. Somebody's going to be real excited about getting with you. It then feels embarrassing to want something that's so not conducive to one's mental wellbeing and perhaps overall wellbeing Goodness gracious, it appears this forum has really deeply influenced what you think about men and relationships. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/18 05:07 AM
3	Making girls slutty. I know the reaction that the comment details is one possible reaction to powerful sex. I'm glad you guys are connecting powerfully with ya ladies. I'm only 34 btw, but I still will pull the experience card left and right, more on that later. While not referenced here, when I perform well in the bedroom it actually brings me closer to my current LTR, and we have an excellent relationship by many standards. She feels extremely safe with me, and I would never do anything to compromise her or her sa…	/r/TheRedPill	18/02/18 07:04 PM
3	She doesn't want me romantically but didn't let me go easy My friend who introduced me to TRP told me the same thing, but I don't understand why you guys say this. I feel this girl is a good person, just that situations (conservative society, political tension between countries, religion, long distance) prevented things from escalation. Maybe she is a good person. But she's a poor choice of a relationship partner for you. You liked her a lot, so you excused her lack of availability. She was not available, but you dived in anyway. That hurts, right? You …	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/18 04:59 AM
4	Making girls slutty. If a girl does not give you everything you want then she isn't really that attracted to you, and it's your fault. That's not fair, dude. Girls are humans too. Would you let a woman peg you, whip you, or sit on your face? Maybe, maybe not, depending on who you are. Women are the same. Not everyone is comfortable with everything. Have you ever fucked a girl so well that you scared her? This is disconcerting. You aren't creating relationships with a core feeling of safety, so you're seeing fear ble…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/18 04:12 AM
1	The Alpha and the High SMV woman. Its really inspiring to read your drive and momentum about this. Im an older guy with a different perspective, which, here goes: Relationships should be fundamentally supportive. It shouldn't be about her calling you out, her testing you, etc. That shit is tiresome and dysfunctional and it never ends. I have not fucked up, everything is going great. I am just posting this because Even just using the words "I have not fucked up", indicates a pretty severe lack of emotional safety in the relations…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/18 03:34 AM
3	She doesn't want me romantically but didn't let me go easy I should've come across TRP before in my life, so as not to have chased this girl right out of my life. This girl was not the right one for you. No behavior on your part could have made a relationship workable with a person like the one you described. The fact that you don't realize this is alarming, because it indicates you learned the wrong lesson from this encounter. I would caution you against generalizing too much from this, or thinking "I have learned something". Because you chose a very t…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/18 03:17 AM
2	She doesn't want to be happy There's a lot of poetic feeling behind these words but there is also the paradoxical fact that, in order to write something like this, your experience with women has to have been quite limited. Your talking about one kind of woman, which maybe is the only kind that you meet. Open up your eyes just a touch and you'll find there really are all kinds of women around. Some are loyal until death -- too loyal for you, I would imagine. Some are clingy. Some are too insecure to be in a relationship. Som…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/18 02:56 AM
5	CMV: redpillers are the real alpha/Chad widows I just read 5 TRP posts, not one I read mentioned Chad. It was all from guys focused on themselves and their friends. I actually searched the comments for the word 'Chad' and nothing came up. I wonder if this Chad idea isn't more popular here than it is on TRP. Its like we're bashing this phantom image of something that crumbles, just like the image of Chad would crumble, upon closer inspection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/18 12:43 AM
1	If men want to spend their lives at the gym, go for it! Each word spoken in contempt returns to the person who spoke it, in time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/18 06:34 PM
1	Casual sex is easy to attain, yet at the same time it is hard to believe guys have casual sex? [applause]	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/18 02:38 AM
1	CMV: Chads are just Nice Guys who got what they wanted How long was that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/18 09:46 AM
1	CMV: Chads are just Nice Guys who got what they wanted Have you had sex every night? For how long a span of time was it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/18 09:36 AM
1	Blue Pill Incels it absolutely is. If you love everyone equally, then your family is not that special to you. So clearly you love your family more/differently than a random stranger. You side-stepped my point by bringing in the concept of equal distribution, which is not part of what I was saying. Love deepens organically and unevenly, and equal distribution is a fantasy of the mind. Loving your family more makes you love other people more. Loving yourself more makes you love the world more. Love increases love …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/18 05:15 AM
1	Blue Pill Incels This presumes that the relative value of something ('respect') is based on scarcity. This is not true of metaphysical values like love, faith, respect, etc. The more love you have, the more valuable it is, paradoxically. The more we respect each other, the more we value respect, and each other. It is an upward spiral. Something tells me you are more experienced with downward spirals ;). Sorry, that's me telling a jokey. Admiring someone or something is a choice. As people evolve they often do mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/18 03:48 AM
1	CMV: Chads are just Nice Guys who got what they wanted Its very subtle, distinguishing between what is an addiction and what isn't. Addiction is when you use one thing to cover over another thing, e.g. a person suffers from internal psychological tension, so they masturbate every night because of the internal tension this causes. Most dudes without addiction would be craving sex a few times a week, imo. Hitting it every night isn't sex, there's nothing sexual about that. There's another problem that one is seeking relief from and its using sexual en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/18 03:37 AM
2	CMV: Chads are just Nice Guys who got what they wanted Yeah lets build a bunch of theory about a vanishingly rare social phenomenon probably linked to some sort of mental illness or sex addiction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/18 03:21 AM
1	CMV: Chads are just Nice Guys who got what they wanted its youthful despair that turns a guy who is down on his luck, into a "chump", "beta", "loser" - the observer can't withstand a few losing hands at the poker table of life. likewise its youthful hubris that turns a guy who is up on his luck, into a "chad", "hero", "alpha" - the observer thinks a few good turns is the measure of a person, or that someone who is rolling is something more than the rest of us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/18 08:19 PM
1	Beware of Alpha Males Who don't I know? Anyone who you have thought of as being superior to yourself. You failed to connect to that person, because they are lost in the position of superiority you have imposed on them. In this sense, you don't know them / haven't connected. You don't believe that Alpha/Beta/Mixed of both personalities can exist? Not really. I think its an outsider perspective, looking from the outside in. Its all about how great someone else is. The underlying thought is "we are inferior". It sounds …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/18 04:31 PM
1	Beware of Alpha Males I think you're putting these people on a pedestal. You don't really know them, and you're confusing social confidence and glib charm - with some kind of inner power and grandiosity that you call 'alpha'. From the perspective of someone who could easily feature in your pantheon, its both charming, human and sad. Anyone can be glib and confident. Especially where their heart is not involved. You have problems connecting with people in general and deep-seated self-esteem issues that you're trying t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/18 03:27 PM