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Question For Women0beanboy0/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:47 PM
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Debate0beanboy0/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:14 AM
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Question For Women0beanboy0/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:14 PM
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Okay that’s actually a really good point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:01 AM
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Yes. I thought that was a very common stat. But let’s use your logic. “Women have fantasies about assault because most women have been assaulted” In that same logic, most women have also had consentual sex, yet I never see any women having fantasies about consentual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:32 AM
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Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:14 AM
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It’s not letting me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:14 AM
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No I mean recreate the rape with me. Do you think she’d tell me if she was wanting to recreate it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:12 AM
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Do you think she’d tell me if she wanted to recreate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:09 AM
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So I’m just confused on what you said earlier then. Were you saying that girl I hooked up with was likely thinking of her rape? It was rather vanilla sex to be honest. No roleplay or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:05 AM
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Even in passing when you have new sexual partners in experiences though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:58 AM
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Yeah but that man giving you the ability to choose? Will he be memorable? Will you fantasize about that? Will you think in the future “wow that was nice?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:56 AM
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Sorry for all this. I’m just frustrated. I really don’t want to fall down some “nice guys finish last” pipeline cause that’s immature and awful. I just wish there was more positive talk on consent because women seem to never go into detail. They’ll say something like “consent is fundamental” and not give a single reason on why it increases quality of sex or sexual desire So after consent being treated as such a boring roadblock for so long, it’s so jarring to hear women actually craving somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:51 AM
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You’re saying rape victims will do cnc with women because they’re afraid of men but want to feel in control? That doesn’t sound like a reenactment at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:45 AM
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Well if you hear about women fantacizing about their past consentual experiences way more than their rapes, I’d be very pleasantly surprised if
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:43 AM
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Yeah but it seems like the women who are scared of men are results of consentual experiences. I never hear a woman say she’s scared of men who’s been raped
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:38 AM
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It just seems like you never see a woman that is scared of men because of an assault. It just confuses me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:35 AM
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So genuinely speaking is there a way for a man to consentually have sex with a woman and she’ll fantasize about it? Maybe even want to incorporate some kinks from that time into future encounters? Or is that exclusive for rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:30 AM
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I’m just struggling to find women talk about consent or fantasize about consent the level they do with sexual assault
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:28 AM
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All I hope at this point is that girl I mentioned earlier. I just hope she wasn’t thinking of her rapist while we were having sex, because it seemed so intimate and that would completely taint that memory and my self esteem as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:25 AM
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Okay but if her and the man break up, what are the chances she’s ever going to fantasize about his sex even in passing? Probably never
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:22 AM
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I mean look at how women talk about consentual sex. Awful, forgettable, disgusting, gross. They make fun of it all the time and there’s never any positives about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:20 AM
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I’ve only ever heard of woman going back to have sex again just because of emotional connection. Never because the sex was desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:19 AM
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Okay but that’s different from recreating the assault Recreating is implying that you want it to be as similar to the assault as possible. You want it to remind you of that night as much as it can
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:19 AM
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And let’s use the horror movie debate If someone makes a good first movie (a good consentual sexual experience) they’ll want to make a sequel. But women seem to never want that same consentual partner ahain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:17 AM
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I just wish women showed some desire at all to consentual sex I guess. Even if it is a trauma response, it still feels like there’s more desire than consent Because women seem to show no desire for consentual sex at all whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:16 AM
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The only justification I could see for this, is if it was an intense but different experience Like kinky CNC sex with a trusted partner in order to REPLACE memories of the rape. That would make a lot of sense. In that case, the victim wants you. The victim isn’t thinking good about the rapist. The victim wants your body to control them. They don’t desire the rapists stimulation.. Like getting over the trauma by getting under someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:11 AM
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It’s crazy that as a man, I can respect female boundaries, prioritize her pleasure, and do everything she wants, yet her body is just going to be craving some guy that took advantage of her body. It just feels like the reward for consent is a woman thinking about someone else when you and her have sex, and honestly that makes consent sound awful. It makes consent sound like a way for women to stimulate rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:08 AM
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So you’re saying there’s a good chance she was eroticizing her past trauma while we were having sex? Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:03 AM
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Okay but are you saying when her and I had sex, while I was focusing on her, she was wanting to recreate her past rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:00 AM
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A past consentual event or a past non consentual event?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:59 AM
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More than likely yes at what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:58 AM
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Ruminate ≠ getting off to the thought of
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:56 AM
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Okay genuinely speaking, that still very much bothers me And now it’s got me paranoid considering I’ve been with women who have had past trauma. Does that mean unbeknownst to me, she was trying to recreate her assault without me knowing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:55 AM
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So if a rape victim gets with a new consentual partner, why don’t they want to create new experiences and fantasies with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:52 AM
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Didnt you say earlier there’s no need or purpose for women to fantasize about past consentual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:50 AM
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I was sexually assaulted as a boy by my older cousin. Yet I only fantasize about the consentual sex I’ve had. Never my cousin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:49 AM
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I hear men talk great about consentual sex all the time. Men crave that mutual connection and fantasize about past consentual sex all the time. And women seem not to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:47 AM
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You would just think if consent was actually important and good to women, they would remember and fantasize and get off to thoughts on past consentual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:43 AM
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Well then. I had a manipulative ex girlfriend so next time I hookup with a girl I’ll just tell her to do a certain position “like my ex.” I’m sure that’ll go over just swell
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:40 AM
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So you’re saying they wouldn’t even be thinking of the rapist at all during the cnc?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:37 AM
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“That says more about the man than the woman” So you’re saying rapists are better at pleasing women and leaving lasting impressions than men who respect women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:35 AM
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So in that logic wouldn’t she want a safe consentual sexual context instead of one that reminded her of her rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:33 AM
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I guess what bothers me is that consentual sex just doesn’t seem to resignate with women like it does men. Men will fantasize about past sexual encounters like there’s no tomorrow because of how healthy and good it was I genuinely don’t know any women that actively and erotically think of past consentual sex. It’s seen as forgettable and meh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:32 AM
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There’s clearly something about consent that makes women want to forget about it. Idk what it is can you please explain it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:30 AM
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So me being bothered by women eroticizing rape during healthy consentual sex = me being insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:29 AM
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There’s no way to convince me something you want to repeat is somehow worse than something you want to forget about. I’m sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:27 AM
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My problem is in a healthy consentual encounter, women will be thinking of their rapist while the man will be thinking about his current partner Which one out of the 2 sounds like they enjoy consent more?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:26 AM
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Well that healing process sounds like it’s filled with more desire than like 99% of consentual sex for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:25 AM
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Notice you say your partners pleasure though. Like I said in the original post, if women do talk good about sex, it’s usually just because they want to please their partner, not because they enjoy or fantasize about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:24 AM
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So why don’t women ever want to recreate consentual encounters? Why does consent seem so forgettable and replaceable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:23 AM
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I feel like I hear more fantasies relating to non consentual experiences by women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:21 AM
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So you want unrewarding awful sexual experiences you’ll forget about and not desire? Your loss I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:19 AM
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Okay well as a man I want to give someone a sexual experience that is unforgettable and rememberable and noteworthy, and consent genuinely seems to never create that for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:18 AM
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So do women ever want to recreate aspects of past consentual encounters? Do they ever have fantasies about past consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:17 AM
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So if consent diminishes desires and fantasies, why do women want it so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:14 AM
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You’re saying consent leads to a forgettable replaceable night Yet rape leads to wanting to recreate that with future partners I genuinely don’t think I’ll ever date a sexual assault victim if that’s true. I will not be used as a pawn for some girl to get off on her sick rape fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:12 AM
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I’ve just never heard consentual sex be talked about in this way. I’ve never heard a woman fantasize about past consentual experiences. It just really seems like rape is the only way to give a woman that long term sexual desire Because women seem to never have it for a past consentual partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:11 AM
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I’m going to be completley honest. I know this is a trauma response, but no matter how you word it, it still sounds like wayyy more desire than consentual sex. I have never heard a woman talk about a past consentual experiences with the same desire and eroticization as the way you’re describing cnc. It genuinely just seems like consent leads to an unrewarding forgettable experience, while non consent is an adventure you’ll want to replay forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:10 AM
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Okay I’m going to ask you a question. What sounds like a better sexual experience to you? One you’ll forget about and want to move on from once with your next partner Or 2. One you’ll want to relive and recreate for the rest of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:06 AM
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So why would the woman want to recreate every last aspect of it? Why wouldn’t she want to create new experiences instead of reliving the bad one?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:04 AM
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“Why would a woman want to have sex with another person the same way” You basically just said women would rather fantasize about rape than consentual sex. You’re making consent sound so unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:02 AM
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Okay but what would you say women fantasize more about during sexual activity? Past consentual encounters or past trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:59 AM
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So they loathe the rapist but the crave the rapists touch and body?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:58 AM
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You say one size fits all but damn the moment a woman is raped she wants it to be exactly like that rape every time she ever gets off
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:58 AM
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And this is the exact reason I think men glorify consent wayyy more than woman do. Men do fantasize about their past consentual encounters. They think during their next hookup “I hope it was like the last one” while women are like “I hope this was like my rape!”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:57 AM
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So why would a woman never want to recreate a past consentual encounter? Why are consentual encounters so vastly forgotton, and have no long term want or desire for women? I’ve never ever heard of a woman wanting to recreate a past consentual encounter ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:45 AM
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“Trauma is weird. There’s a bunch of responses” And this is the exact reason why I made this post, because sexual trauma has a plethora of responses for women Yet consentual sex doesn’t. It seems to never have that long term desire like what men have. Women never have a consentual experience and want to recreate it. They move on quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:44 AM
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Okay but the woman would be thinking erotically about her abuser.. and her partner is supposed to be a okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:42 AM
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Yes but you’re saying that woman will be comforted and getting off because it’s reminding her of the assault and less of her partner. It’s to recreate it, which the body will only do if it finds it chemically rewarding
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:35 AM
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Here’s the difference though When you daydream of slaying enemies, are you also thinking about tragedies like Sandyhook and 9/11? Probably not But it seems like a lot of women who have been assaulted.. will think about their assault during later consent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:32 AM
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And also.. are you saying feminist men should just accept the fact their girlfriends will just use them to think of their rapist? Women get mad when men think about exes during sex. But a rape is accepted?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:31 AM
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So let me get this straight If I sexually assaulted a woman, she will think erotically about me with every future partner she has But if I treat women with respect, they will just think about their past trauma everytime I have sex? Trauma sounds better than consent by that logic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:28 AM
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So let me get this straight If I sexually assaulted a woman, she will think erotically about me with every future partner she has But if I treat women with respect, they will just think about their past trauma everytime I have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:25 AM
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But wouldn’t those victims be eroticizing their trauma and thinking of it to get off?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:23 AM
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But here’s the difference If a man has a kink, he will be thinking about doing it to his partner in a safe consentual context If a woman has a kink, she will be using her current partner to chase the high her rapists touch gave her. While he thinks about his partner and the moment, she’ll be thinking about the moment she was raped. Again separating fantasy from reality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:51 AM
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Okay well women have Consentual sex all the time too. Why don’t they ever have fantasies or desires about that? Why is it only when it’s non consentual
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:45 AM
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I don’t know any men who actively think and fantasize about their past trauma during a consentual act though. Meanwhile it seems like according to articles about kink, women will very often do just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:41 AM
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Most articles on female kink will say a lot of it is caused by past sexual trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:39 AM
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Fine it’s a bad analogy. Doesn’t mean it’s not glorifying rape
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:38 AM
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Okay but do you find it not disturbing that during consentual sex, women will often fantasize about their past rapists? Meanwhile men will be thinking of consent and how much he likes her body
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:37 AM
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And I guarentee in any consentual video it’s also just as lopsided. Men like consent too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:34 AM
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Notice you’re not giving any counter evidence though. It’s an appeal to ridicule and nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:30 AM
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I said.. there are many men that do like violent shit like that, but there’s also a lot of men that have fantasies about mutual desire and past consentual events. Meanwhile for women it seems like the vast majority of fantasies come from sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:28 AM
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Having an orgasm during partnered sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:49 PM
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What bothers me about it is how even when men try to please their partners their bodies just don’t react to that stimulation. I get Less is less but how much less?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:36 PM
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But I hear that even when the guy puts in effort and communicates women will just not naturally react to sex most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:17 PM
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I’m going to be 100% honest. I’ve hooked up with a couple women in the past where we communicated and I went down on her and all that, and they said they had orgasms. But online all the time I see something like “even when the man tries, she’s faking it” so I’ve just assumed every woman I’ve gone down on is just a really good faker
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:15 PM
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Let me reword that. You’re saying she feels shame after sexual thoughts that aren’t relating to the assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:15 PM
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So you’re saying she feels shame for sexual thoughts without the rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:07 PM
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You’re saying people would shame them for having sexual fantasies to distract them from their assault? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:04 PM
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Trust me I’ve looked and looked and looked. And the more I looked, the more it just pointed to thinking about the rapist and wanting to recreate it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:39 PM
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What a crazy assumption lmao. I’m fully clothed 💀 But hypothetically if I was wacking off, why would it be bad for me to do it and a “coping mechanism” if a woman does iT
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:37 PM
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Because most women say they feel deep shame and regret after the hypersexual thoughts. So it’s clearly something traumatic they’re getting off to. If they were thinking about other sexual memories that weren’t traumatic, why would there be any sense of regret?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:34 PM
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What sick fantasies? Am I wrong? Look up articles about sexual assault and you’ll find way more about hypersexuality than you will about fearing men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:32 PM
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How is getting off to thoughts of your rapist regaining control? That’s just succumbing to the assault in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:28 PM
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