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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Until men are allowed male-specific and non-feminist spaces the sex war will not end. Also Knight of Pythias, Men's Shed Association, Round Table, and Knights of Columbus, etc. And if you're in the uk then The Travellers Club, Boodle's, the Beefsteak Club, Savile Club, and East India Club. The simple boring answer is that the men complaining about no male spaces are just too lazy to go or these aren't "good enough" for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 01:10 AM
1	Many young men struggle because they internalize internet opinions I mean internet opinions are real opinions made by real people We're now facing issues with bots and ai made content, and it's going to get worse. We're now at a time people are getting bamboozled and their worldview shaped by bots, ai, echo chambers, algorithms, and anon trolls. IG/xitter/fb/reddit subs/etc are having issues with bots and ragebait content. It's time to back when we used to separate offline and online, or at least not take the internet seriously, more than ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 12:52 AM
1	Many young men struggle because they internalize internet opinions People on the internet are still real people People are getting bamboozled and their worldview molded by bots, ai made content, algorithms, reaffirming echo chambers, and anon trolls though. FB/IG/xitter/reddit/etc are full of them. Askreddit and other subs are now having issues with bot making rage bait posts. And then offline freak accidents are now taken as dogma in echo chambers because they trend online. There was time we used to not take the internet seriously separating offline and online…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 12:47 AM
1	There’s Nothing We Can Do to Raise Fertility Rates, Because Low TFRs are Just a Result of Modernity Relying solely on our drive toward sex for reproduction Fertility declining was bound to happen with birth control. We can see each generation have less and less kids in the past century because of it. This shouldn't be surprising neither, for the past two centuries humanity has tried to get sex without the baby. Pull out method, rhythm method, using plants as abortifacients (Rome cultivated into extinction), etc and just had to accept the risk. We're just the century that finally mastered birth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 02:19 AM
–	How the internet destroyed dating Nah there's a slow movement of people getting off of social media completely for both men and women for different or various reasons (waste of time, bad for mental health, weird creeps in inbox, aggressive comments, etc). People are just burned out. So a lot of normal people are either deleting the app, ghost profile, deleting their face off the profile, or privatizing the profile and use IG/TikTok/etc for entertainment. IG is falling out of popularity in favor for TikTok. Of course hot women an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 02:47 AM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid It has nothing to do with being married or single, women overall in every age group are just more likely to take antidepressants because they're more likely than men to seek help. Men are less likely to seek help therapy/etc and prefer to deal with issues by themselves or self-improvement methods.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 02:08 AM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid 4B is overblown in Western media and it's not even popular/common/wellknown in its own country Korea. People living in Korea have been trying tell others on Western social media it's not known in Korea at all, and just supposedly practiced by maybe a couple of thousand snotty college students (go check r/korea). Just like redpill fantasy of "single women will be lonely and miserable in their 30s!", the 4B movement is a female revenge fantasy fantasized by some small a demographic to punish the o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 11:06 PM
1	Do we have to pin women down to a science. They adapt pretty fast, the first generation kid that sits next to you in college algebra is pretty American as you. First and second generation kids from immigrants follow the same fertility patterns as the native people. That's why people say/warn immigration doesn't fix population decline or that its quick bandaid, because the kids of immigrants fall in line with the natives. You'd have to keep a steady incoming flow of immigrants to the population numbers steady.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 02:05 AM
–	Do we have to pin women down to a science. Korea is still a collectivist society. The fertility rate is related to money: apartment, hagwon/academies (the night schools kids go to after public school) fees are expensive, and low wages & raising costs. Korean child-rearing is just different from the West, they want a solid foundation with their t's crossed and i's dotted for a possible child. North Korea is piss poor and doesn't have access to birth control like most medicine, socially/mentally trapped in the 1950s, and other problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 12:50 AM
1	Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern women lol the gay/grindr community, where sex is not gatekept by women, would say different	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 02:36 AM
8	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? If you don’t have the right economic situation I remember back when I was a kid in the 90s I used to hear the phrase "if you keep can't feed them don't breed them". Back then, having kids you couldn't afford was kinda looked down upon because couldn't give your kids a solid foundation to have a chance at a successful life. But today there's people with an odd obsession with population numbers or pissy that women (somewhat men too) are opting out of parenthood will throw the line "but people had …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 12:09 AM
1	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity Most people, men too, are not leader types nor have the qualities. Most people are followers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 12:44 PM
11	Is RP No Longer "I Am The Prize, DGAF, Spin-Plates"? Redpill is basically constantly changing and picking up xzy from different online subgroups. What it is today is nothing how it was many years ago or even how it originally started. It used to be more simple and straight to the point - women and dating are like this and it what it is, women don't owe you shit, get money/muscle/game, and it leaned towards more pick up artistry. When the podcast bros showed up it got more into online gender studies, mens rights, anti-feminism, boohoo, etc. Now the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 12:13 PM
1	South Korea will be the first feminist country in modern history to be butchered. It wasn't a feminist cult, he's talking out of his ass. Park GeunHye's unhinged friend Choi TaeMin was a leader of some bullshit hodgepodge religion shaman cult that had nothing to do with feminism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 02:19 PM
1	Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him. Women tend to do stuff like "showering multiple times per day" a lot more than men, which is arguably completely pointless and even counter-productive for your hair They mean washing their bodies, not their hair too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 11:51 AM
2	Older women over 30 and revenge fantasy The majority of women I work with who are dating in their 30s/40s are having a fine time. Offline in the normal world vs online echo chamber is vastly different	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 11:39 AM
5	South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful? I lived in Korea for a while. Saying the population decline is due to misogyny/misandry/4b is basically just clickbait, and Westerners are getting bamboozled by it. I see it posted on reddit every week. It's economical reasons for most or average people. In the first place, I'd say baby rearing in Korea is different from the West. The West's philosophy is "lets have a baby despite (bad/questionable) situation, because everything will work out". Or see parenting as getting their kid to 20ish and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 07:18 PM
2	South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful? In Korea, a leftover law from this is that it's still illegal for doctors to tell the sex of the baby to parents. At the time 30~50 years ago, if parents were encouraged to only have 1 or maybe 2 kids, they wanted boys only. It wasn't until 10ish years ago the population of men and women finally evened out. (But people are aware aborting girls is no long the case, so doctors will get around the law by saying "oh, you should prepare a pink/blue room" or something like that)	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 07:05 PM
6	South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful? Making contraceptives illegal? Nicolae Ceausescu in Romania did this to attempt a population boom and it lead into a disaster. Orphanages became way overcrowded with unwanted babies and children, children were abandoned, and so on. Many children died because of this and the ones who were adopted out of Romania had development issues. They're called "Ceausescu's children". Those who didn't haven't children by 30 were taxed/penalized. There's a few documentaries about this. The people revolted and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 03:17 PM
9	Korea is the future of western gender relations- and that's a good thing Yea I've lived in Korea for a while and see people constantly getting bamboozled by media's clickbait of "misogyny/misandry/4b is causing xyz in Korea!!!" and spreading it like here. 4b is pretty unknown, maybe a couple thousand only claim to practice it. The birthrate's main cause is just money and housing. In Korea, I would say most taking baby rearing more serious/responsibly than the West. So majority of couples want a solid foundation, all their t's crossed, and i's dotted for a baby. They …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 12:14 PM
1	There is honestly no need to have kids, enter a long term relationship or become married anymore as a man I think many Americans aren't ready for the ugly truth of how far behind kids our today. Parents don't care about their kids nor their education. Teachers know this. Kids even up to high school these days can't read, can't read a clock, can't do basic math, don't understand phonics, can't write an email, can't use a computer (most are surprised at this), can't write, can't read a graph, no research skills, and so on. Back when I was a kid, there were always friends/classmates that obviously had …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 11:30 PM
10	What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America? It's not due to this movement, this is clickbait along with misandry/feminism/misogyny. The whole 4b movement is probably just a couple of thousand bitter snobby online college girls. I live in Korea, and the main reason why the population is declining is because: unaffordable housing (majority consider having a house/apartment necessary for a baby), hagwon (the private academies after school) are expensive from elementary to university (also considered necessary for a child), most are overworke…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 01:14 AM
1	What is happening to men? I am concerned I don't know what you're on about, as someone who has live in Asia for a third of my life; I can tell you that a majority of Japanese women do not fall over and worship white men. There is a tiny little group of japanese women and men called "gaijin hunters" but, again, they're a minority and they're often considered pretty strange themselves. People who marry one of those usually end up in r/japanlife asking about how to get a divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 08:19 AM
3	RIP to Japan, you guys had a good run It's very doubtful that "rampant misogyny" is the cause of low birth rate. It's not, click bait articles will always say it's because of misogyny and feminism, flipping between the two. More reputable sources will say the reality of low marriage and birthrate is economical factors mixed in with traditional culture. In Korea, traditionally, couples want a stable foundation before having a kid... which is a house (a good apartment in the city). It's been the biggest political issue for the past de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 01:35 AM
–	At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out? I guess because single life for a woman is better than a life with a guy to whom she has no feelings. The hierarchy of possible romantical life outcomes for a lot of women looks like this: 1) Family of Me and My Perfect Prince (whoever that is). 2) Me living my life on my own 3) ...everything else, really This is pretty much how my friends think, rather live a peaceful single life than be in a bad relationship and willing to wait for the right one. Plus, I think it's easier for women to get emot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 12:55 AM
0	Population collapse and dating agriculture in Africa and other hot climate nations, not Europe. Poorer countries with already hot climates are struggling with the increasing temperatures. It's one of the reasons for migration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 01:15 AM
0	Population collapse and dating You don't feel it in your comfortable AC/heater home along with a modern lifestyle. But poorer countries are feeling it, that's why many are migrating. Farms are not surviving, ecological system is changing, certain species are dying out or trying to move to cooler areas, warmer and more acidic ocean, etc etc. It's just a slow burn that most 1st world countries won't feel aside from turning up the AC a little more every few summers or shorter in between seasons. Maybe in 50~100 years humanity wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 12:45 AM
–	Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worse I live in Korea, and there's quite a few problems all happening together. Main ones are people are overworked & underpaid, most korean couples want a certain type of house before a kid (which most can't get because too expensive), and probably biggest financial problem is paying/investing into their child's education. I think most people have heard that Korean children go to academies (hagwons) after public school to study more. So kids go to a 9am~4pm public school, then they go to academies fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 11:29 PM
1	Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worse I guess he's referring to children being used as labor? Throughout history until recent technology, working families used children for farming or children worked at factories, shucking oysters, cleaning jobs, or anywhere where little hands and bodies were useful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 11:22 PM
1	Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right? he is the farthest thing from the redpill ideal Broke, half melina's weight, and wears dresses He's the antithesis of what redpill claim hypergamous women go after	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 12:23 AM
1	Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right? He said the only reason why he got into a relationship with Melina is because they both wanted an open relationship. Destiny can't stay monogamous and cheated on all his past ex's, so he wants something where he can fool around and someone who can entertain themselves during his busy schedule. It's just that no one ever predicted she'd chose a guy half her weight, broke, and who wears dresses considering redpill says women always hypergamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 12:20 AM
2	Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right? He never recommended open relationships, and even said they rarely work out. He's always been aware of that. Problem is that he says he can't stay monogamous, so an open relationship is just overall better for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 12:12 AM
6	Why do single women seem so happy compared to single men? Women are more likely to get help, go to therapy, talk to friends/family, female friends will do emotional labor for each other in times of need, etc etc. Men won't go to therapy despite society supporting them to do so, and overall unlikely to seek help for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 03:53 PM
9	The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a whole Not wanting to date someone =/= hating them. What's a common example of a guy showing that he "hates" single mothers? The insult of "single mothers are for recreational use only" that gets thrown around in redpill circles for example	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/23 12:11 AM
7	Passport bros seems like a lot of work. Are things really that dire? the Bible Belt is pretty massive. I grew up down there, tons of traditional Christian classmates of mine got married to their own kind through christian groups, churches, missionary work, university, recommendations through friends, etc. But you can't a redpill nobody demanding a trad virgin wife. They want a trad man who's also a virgin/lowbody count, ACTIVE in church, no drugs, no porn, no clubbing, no baggage, sweet natured, well adapted, etc. That's the tradpill you'd have to swallow because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 11:08 AM
14	Passport bros seems like a lot of work. Are things really that dire? Ha yea the irony of redpillers wanting the traditional woman but can't/won't fulfill the traditional roles themselves. Christian trad women want men who are active in church, no porn, no baggage, no drugs, no clubbing, financially support them to be stay at home moms, sweet and kind in personality, well adapted, etc. I went to a christian high school in the bible belt where a lot of old school trad women and men ended up marrying each other through those social circles (church, christian univers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 11:01 AM
1	Dating for men is a race to the bottom don't you ever want affection, deep intimate conversation, excitement, xes Women can get emotionally fulfilling relationships from friendships, family, and whatever community she's involved with. That's why women tend to be ok or happy being single than the risk of a bad romantic relationship or at least being patient to find the right one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 03:23 AM
1	Women will always die alone Not really, this is common in Japan and Korea too, China too maybe but I never lived there. Both countries have elderly poverty problem (Korea is around 40%) because none of the kids made it out to be stable well rounded successful adults to go back and care for their parents. They both have elderly loneliness problems too. A lot of things have to go right throughout the decades for one's expectations to happen.. where you basically beat the odds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 02:45 AM
1	What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them? Except her parents, family, and friends will most likely talk her out of it which they should.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 03:07 AM
14	Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age. It's just a bunch of redditor types wanting to root for the exceptions when in reality the average age gap is 2~3 years. Most average people date close to age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 01:03 AM
1	Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstated Reminds me of that famous redpiller who posted on twitter that he only dates women under 25 with a photo [https://www.boredpanda.com/man-claims-only-dates-women-under-24-gets-roasted](reminds of this 40 year old dude who claims he only dates women under 25 with a photo of him on a yacht with girls. Then one of the girls from the yacht came forward and said they're all OnlyFan girls, in their 30s, and OnlyFan girls are commonly paid to hang with these type of men. Surprise, social media is fake.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 01:28 AM
2	40 percent of Japanese men in their 20s have never been on a date Cheaper areas are the outskirts of the cities and most Korean parents don't want to live there because the best hagwons (after school academies) are in the cities, and the best ones are in specific areas which is why many parents will pay a pretty penny for a tiny apartment in a good area just for their kid's education. The path to success (or comfortable middle class) is narrow in Korea. That's why parents will pay hundreds or even $1k+ a month on academies in hopes their kid can get into a top…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 02:38 PM
1	40 percent of Japanese men in their 20s have never been on a date In Korea, if you want to afford a small city apartment that starts at $1 mil then you need two working spouses. It's strange to Westerners because we have the concept of starter homes, but many Korean couples won't have a kid until they have a "real" apartment. Korea has villas (small apartments 5 floor buildings), lofts, 1 or 2 room apartments, etc. But the goal is a "real" apartment - they're soviet style, 50+ floor buildings, all utilities, security guard, near a school, etc. And in a status …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 12:29 AM
6	40 percent of Japanese men in their 20s have never been on a date They're referring to farmers buying mail order brides. Farmers, who most likely still live with their mom, kinda still live in an outdated mindset. They do mail order brides from poor South Asian countries and many of the wives get abused from both the MIL and husband, and some have been murdered. So South Korea added some laws to make marriage visas stricter, ex. both must speak a common language, etc etc. Also the government has added programs to help the woman have some safety nets in case th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 12:17 AM
1	40 percent of Japanese men in their 20s have never been on a date They're referring to farmers buying mail order brides. Farmers, who most likely still live with their mom, kinda still live in an outdated mindset. They do mail order brides from poor South Asian countries and many of the wives get abused from both the MIL and husband, and some have been murdered. So South Korea added some laws to make marriage visas stricter, ex. both must speak a common language, etc etc. Also the government has added programs to help the woman have some safety nets in case th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 12:15 AM