0edipaMaas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a man Not really. No woman I know, including myself, cares about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 06:37 PM
15	DEI Dying is Great for Men https://www.axios.com/2025/02/23/trump-attacks-dei-diversity-disability	/r/MensRights	24/02/25 12:14 AM
2	I love how every single conversation of how women are oppressed end up like this.. 😂 Does the reason actually matter? Yes, for understanding the issues at hand. What an inane comment.	/r/MensRights	28/01/25 11:49 PM
1	I love how every single conversation of how women are oppressed end up like this.. 😂 Thank you!!	/r/MensRights	28/01/25 09:11 PM
1	I love how every single conversation of how women are oppressed end up like this.. 😂 Yes, I am aware! I meant for the boredom part. Do you have any sources for the differences of men vs women reactions to boredom within marriage? Correlation does not equal causation, so I’m just trying to understand from a scientific perspective.	/r/MensRights	28/01/25 07:14 PM
1	I love how every single conversation of how women are oppressed end up like this.. 😂 But is “observable reality” not ripe with confirmation bias? I’m genuinely trying to find a source so I can discuss.	/r/MensRights	28/01/25 07:13 PM
-7	I love how every single conversation of how women are oppressed end up like this.. 😂 Ah, thank you for answering! Do you have a source for any of that?	/r/MensRights	28/01/25 05:49 PM
-10	I love how every single conversation of how women are oppressed end up like this.. 😂 Do women get bored more easily than men?	/r/MensRights	28/01/25 04:50 PM
4	4B movement is pathetic No need to be homophobic	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 10:03 PM
3	Why feminist and people see the "gender gap" as an "advantage" but not the spending or dating up gap? That’s not what they said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 05:52 PM
8	Why do men care if older single women are lonely? This almost seems satirical. Well done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 07:58 AM
8	Why do men care if older single women are lonely? Sorry, I just want clarification: what does “dogfighting” mean in this context?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 07:49 AM
8	Why do men care if older single women are lonely? Did you even read the post? You’re victimizing yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 07:42 AM
6	Do lesbians expect to go 50/50 in their relationships? Nothing you say is in good faith. Why are you in a debate thread?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 02:29 AM
3	Women put the bar higher for men than most would want for themselves. Shhh, get outta here with your logic. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/24 04:26 AM
1	Most of the men who have low standards have them low because they aren't desirable enough to have them high. Hilarious that that’s your reference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 11:38 PM
5	Most of the men who have low standards have them low because they aren't desirable enough to have them high. Yep. Chris Hemsworth is who all men are attracted to, not women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 11:35 PM
13	Online dating will not decline in popularity because women aren’t receptive to approaching or being approached Definitely preys on the desperate-ness of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 02:28 AM
5	I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest group Narrative? Remove your feelings from this post. This reaction is entirely emotional-based, therefore it’s impossible to debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 10:10 PM
3	Do women think hypergamy doesn’t exist? Who cares?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/24 03:54 AM
–	Moral character has no bearing on sexual success What publisher are you referring to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/24 07:06 PM
2	Are women aware of what they sexually respond to? Even more wild, absolutely nowhere did I say I participate in one night stands.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/24 06:01 PM
3	Are women aware of what they sexually respond to? Associating what is essentially psychopathy with masculinity is absolutely insane, yes. It’s a good litmus test though…at that point you know when to completely discount someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/24 05:50 PM
1	Are women aware of what they sexually respond to? In dating? I will not date a man whose moral compass does not align with mine. Full stop. Do you mean one night stands?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/24 05:48 PM
9	Whats an acceptable way for men to express their frustration and difficulties in life around/towards women? Shhhhh, you’re pointing out the flaws in his argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 06:17 PM
–	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait Spoiler alert: no, no they cannot, and WILL not see that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 04:36 PM
1	It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women. Hope you don’t use banks then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 02:25 PM
1	It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women. Go ahead and apply!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 11:21 PM
19	It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women. That’s…not what a boundary is	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 11:16 PM
–	Why is there this obsession in the manosphere with wanting to ‘replace women’? And honestly, I’m on board for it all!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/24 10:44 PM
1	TikToker shocks with 'wild' list of things she refuses to do for her husband: 'Not his mum' [Just listening to her voice I feel sorry for the guy, she sounds like a nightmare to share a home with] You think she has a personality disorder?	/r/MensRights	16/05/24 03:29 PM
3	Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? I just asked 3 of my friends if they would seriously date Chris Evans at 20. They all collectively said, “ew”	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 07:09 AM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. That study is no longer promoted or welcome in any academic or scientific community. Source: am recently licensed psychologist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 01:35 AM
4	Do Some Men Prefer Women with Low Self-Esteem? Why? Someone telling you you’re off topic, isn’t the same as agreeing with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 02:58 PM
1	Feminist author Kate Lister uses feminist statistics and feminist logic to calculate that bears are safer to be around than men To separate the majority of men and women.	/r/MensRights	03/05/24 03:39 AM
1	Feminist author Kate Lister uses feminist statistics and feminist logic to calculate that bears are safer to be around than men Yep. The majority of men and women should just be homosexual. They would be much happier that way.	/r/MensRights	02/05/24 06:49 PM
1	Feminist author Kate Lister uses feminist statistics and feminist logic to calculate that bears are safer to be around than men It’s not made up. Did you miss the part where it was a stat for Norway?	/r/MensRights	02/05/24 06:38 PM
–	Do most men want kids enough to do 50/50 childrearing? All of that’s absolutely true! 😏	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 09:24 PM
–	Do most men want kids enough to do 50/50 childrearing? Haha yeah!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 06:26 PM
11	Do most men want kids enough to do 50/50 childrearing? True! That’s why me and all my girlfriends aren’t having kids. We’re lawyers, psychologists, one nurse, and a teacher. None of us having kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 01:21 AM
–	Women accept being alone better than men Well said. That last issue is a HUGE issue though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 01:00 PM
1	"Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in dating That last one I included because I appreciate studies that disagree with what I’m saying… To have more well-rounded opinion, so to speak. I am with you though about the fact that self-diagnosis and masking is possibility just social anxiety, and the validity of it is slim at best. It’s hard for me to quantify, but you really can feel the difference in the therapy room between autistic people and non-autistic people “masking”. And typically I can spot the difference between a self-diagnosis and a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 09:55 PM
1	"Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in dating So in these articles I am trying to assert that “masking” is absolutely a “thing”. One of these studies discusses how autistic people have differences in their actual amygdala, and affects how they interpret faces. That study informs several other studies. And one of the studies above specifically says that while some masking traits are the same, (and can be true for non-autistic people), there are some specific parts of masking that are exclusive to autistic people. Also, the origin of the “mas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 09:41 PM
0	Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sex Please actually try to understand what that study says. It proves nothing toward your supposed “point.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 08:56 PM
1	"Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in dating https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8992921/?ref=popsugar.com&=___psv__p_5332389__t_w_ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S073657480400156X https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0278262607000668 https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10803-020-04695-x https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/aur.2850 https://discovery.ucl.ac.uk/id/eprint/10080352/1/Hull%20AAM%20Paper%20proof3609.pdf https://digitalcommons.pepperdine.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 08:33 PM
1	"Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in dating Yes sorry! I have 3 I can send after I get off work today :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 06:21 PM
0	Why Men "leave their sick spouses" My Experience. Your wife sucks, that may be part of it.	/r/MensRights	12/04/24 12:27 AM
2	Men adapt to women's needs therefore women are the problem You know what she means. Way to deflect though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 12:20 AM
3	Men adapt to women's needs therefore women are the problem Brace yourself for the 4b movement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 12:17 AM
7	Men adapt to women's needs therefore women are the problem He won’t respond to this one! ☝️	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 12:15 AM
5	Men adapt to women's needs therefore women are the problem No, you made the claim. Please provide peer-reviewed sources.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 12:14 AM
2	"Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in dating You got it! Give me a couple hours, I’m looking at Reddit in between clients 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 07:29 PM
2	"Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in dating It also applies to people with severe adhd, as it is a developmental disorder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 03:36 PM
3	"Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in dating Clinical psychologist here! Masking is absolutely a thing. If you want any studies/data, just let me know!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 03:35 PM
1	"Femimist" blowhards assert that women are supposedly more likely to be infected with HIV in developing countries and even suffer more from it's adverse effects and consequences. Is there any truth to such claims or just another case of "self-victimisation" on their behalf? It takes 2 seconds to google something good lord	/r/MensRights	10/04/24 12:37 AM
1	"Femimist" blowhards assert that women are supposedly more likely to be infected with HIV in developing countries and even suffer more from it's adverse effects and consequences. Is there any truth to such claims or just another case of "self-victimisation" on their behalf? Google it. They really do get more infected	/r/MensRights	09/04/24 11:17 PM
0	Defeatism and misplaced priorities on one’s preferences is why many of the men on here struggle Damn. I must be naive then. Thanks for your response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 06:45 PM
2	Defeatism and misplaced priorities on one’s preferences is why many of the men on here struggle Okay so I’m curious. For two people who HAVE been monogamous for 20 years… you think it’s just a ticking time bomb until one of them cheats?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 06:41 PM
2	The only reason women have the upper hand is because men are way hornier and therefore want and need them more than vice versa, yet women won’t even acknowledge this very obvious fact Alrighty then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 06:26 PM
8	The only reason women have the upper hand is because men are way hornier and therefore want and need them more than vice versa, yet women won’t even acknowledge this very obvious fact Sure. But I feel that it’s somewhat disingenuous to just assume what OP MIGHT have meant, esp. when they took care to ensure everyone knew what they said was a joke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 06:16 PM
9	The only reason women have the upper hand is because men are way hornier and therefore want and need them more than vice versa, yet women won’t even acknowledge this very obvious fact Again, do you know what /s means? It means it’s a joke. It’s sarcasm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 05:53 PM
7	The only reason women have the upper hand is because men are way hornier and therefore want and need them more than vice versa, yet women won’t even acknowledge this very obvious fact Do you know how to debate? You’re literally in a debate sub. “Huh” is not an adequate to response to something you don’t understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 05:40 PM
7	The only reason women have the upper hand is because men are way hornier and therefore want and need them more than vice versa, yet women won’t even acknowledge this very obvious fact Do you not know what /s means?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 05:38 PM
10	The only reason women have the upper hand is because men are way hornier and therefore want and need them more than vice versa, yet women won’t even acknowledge this very obvious fact Honestly it seems that you are the one who should get a life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 04:33 PM
9	How valid are womens fears of men? 99% of men will stop when told explicitly? This is a hilarious claim. Absolutely no merit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 02:58 AM
-4	Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victims Okay hang on. I have a few :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 11:18 PM
2	Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victims Are standardized, peer-reviewed studies enough to prove it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 10:36 PM
1	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? Womp womp woOoOoOmp	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 03:22 AM
1	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? Okay buddy boy! Sounds good!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 03:15 AM
1	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? Oh for sure bud, you got me!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 12:43 AM
1	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? My boomer dad and you could be besties! 🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 11:30 PM
1	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? Argue with the academics about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 07:29 PM
2	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? There have actually been a few studies that show the opposite 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 05:31 PM
1	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? How YOU doin?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 05:27 PM
2	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? That’s literally the definition of privilege	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 05:26 PM
6	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? Lmaooo telling a black man about America when you don’t live there is…something	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 05:11 PM
2	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? Again, nope. Adjust to modern day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 05:09 PM
3	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? Maybe YOU do. I personally find it disgusting. Dont lump all women together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 05:08 PM
2	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? I’ve never let any man I’m serious with pay for dates, unless we’ve been dating for a while. Then we’re likely trading off payments. I’ve literally left first dates where the man wouldn’t let me pay for my portion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 05:06 PM
3	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? I would choose this man over any man that can’t fathom “un-traditional” roles	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 05:05 PM
1	Toxic women have little incentive to change because some men are just suckers for them. There’s very little to debate here. This seems obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 06:19 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? I completely agree on needing wider context for everything we have discussed. I will continue to seek alternate opinions and ask for differing perspectives. And again, I will bring up your talking points at peer consultation. Thanks again, and have a good day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 09:00 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? Thank you for your detailed perspective. I will actually take your talking points into my peer consultation I conduct monthly with other psychologists to discuss further.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 08:56 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? I think most people reading this thread would agree I have not crammed anything down anyone’s throats. I have been completely reasonable in our interaction, and have taken each and every point to heart. I understand this subreddit is for debating, but your overall excitability is really detracting from the discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 08:51 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? Okay thank you for the clarification. I’ll look into her further, and thank you for the recommendation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 08:49 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? I see. I guess I misunderstood. I’m having a lot of trouble understanding what you want me to respond to, and what you don’t. You’re obviously incredibly passionate about this, but the extraneous points that are only associated with my earlier assertions is really clouding my overall takeaway from your individual points. Surely you see how you’ve kind of dragged me into a debate that I stated over & over I wasn’t here for to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 08:46 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? Right. This is a debate thread. Why are you debating me on points that I didn’t allude to or mention?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 08:43 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? Just looked up Prim Reaper. Her latest video says ‘therapy isn’t bad for men. Bad therapy is bad for men.’ Which is what I suggested above.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 08:41 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? REALLY shown** typo	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 08:34 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? Further, to dismiss all of therapy in 4 to 5 sentences because “it can do more harm than good,” is made in bad faith. That sentiment can apply to literally anything, be it depression, personality disorders, etc etc. How can having a professional listen to, empathize, and understand you not be worth pursuing? If anything, this thread has REALLY that men really would benefit just being listened to. An objective listener is even better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 08:33 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? You seem keen to debate me on points that I did not make. For example, where did I say men need to be more like women? When did I shame or say men don’t matter as long as women need support & safety?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 08:28 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? Alright, I guess I can delve into this a bit more. Not to be a shill for my profession, (clinical psychology), but there are several nuanced preliminary studies coming out about the very topics you’ve mentioned above, so I wouldn’t completely discount the resources just mentioned. In my opinion, GOOD therapy will ALWAYS trump online groups, and theoretically, it wouldn’t necessarily matter if the therapist is well-versed in pill or similar rhetoric, as long as they’re a good therapist. Admittedl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 07:46 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? I am offering that one person up top advice the best way I know how. If I were to offer him further advice, I would recommend the free counseling sessions that many campuses offer; I know I myself made great use of them. You are offering many articulate descriptive paragraphs of yours’ and others’ experience, which is wonderful, but that’s not why I commented. Again, if a young man can see the “see-saw falling,” as you so beautifully described, then I would point towards counseling, therapy, or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 07:28 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? Okay, again, thank you for your perspective. Agree to disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 06:49 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? Wow, I see what you’re saying, and I’m really sorry that seems to be yours and so many others’ experience. I can’t even imagine. All that’s to say, I still believe that someone as young as 19 has no business in some of the pill and/or dating subreddits, which is what my original comment attempted to address. For the most part, interacting, being awkward, and FAILING is part of normal sexual/social development. Psychologically going through that (again, not ALL. I’m sure it can be traumatic, depe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 06:35 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? I was that person, and so were many of my friends. College represents a new beginning for many people, and an opportunity to reinvent yourself. I dated a grand total of zero ppl in high school, as did many of my friends. Didn’t seem to have any bearing on how we experienced university. Of course, you can’t just go to college expecting to make friends while doing nothing. I joined a bunch of on-campus groups, and of course did my fair share of utilizing liquid courage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 06:06 PM
2	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? Whether that is true or not, I still absolutely do not think a child should belong to any online groups about dating. And yes, I’m categorizing anybody roughly 20ish or under as a child. High school does not represent a real dating pool, so there’s no way to have any true experience prior. In fact I’d argue anyone that still gets support from their parents hasn’t experienced enough in life to take advice from any pill communities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 05:39 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? It’s less the advice, and more the joining of the community itself I object to joining at such a young age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 05:23 PM
1	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? I’m sorry that’s your experience. It is the opposite of mine. Most of my friends (myself included) didn’t even start dating until they were 20 or so in college. I had a large group of female friends including myself, and none of us knew how to talk to the opposite either. IMHO, joining any kind of pill community at that age or younger is incredibly short-sighted. Of course, I understand how it’s easy for me to say, being older & having experienced all this already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 05:04 PM
-2	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? So you downvoted me because you disagree? Interesting. I more meant when you stop focusing on dating, and just have fun, that’s when women will come & go due to the fact that they’re attracted to fun-loving ppl. This is specially aimed at a college aged dude, btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 04:51 PM
-2	Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering? This makes me sad. You’re 19. You haven’t experienced enough life to already feel like this. Just focus on having fun in college and meeting new people. Women will come and go. No red/black pill needed, I promise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 04:32 PM
7	Most women today are narcissists and this is one of the reasons why relationships are unviable Almost every single bit of “empirical data” you have would be rejected by any researching body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 04:38 PM
4	Most women today are narcissists and this is one of the reasons why relationships are unviable I may be in love with you 🥹	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 04:37 PM
1	Madonna/wh*re complex is why so many marriages end up being sexless. That book came out in 2009 and is considered somewhat ourdated by current research. Also one of the authors is a clinical psychologist. Clinical psychologist just happens to be my job title as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 09:01 PM
2	Madonna/wh*re complex is why so many marriages end up being sexless. Lmao no. You now have two women telling you: no. That is not how it works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 08:12 PM
6	Why should women take advice from people who loathe them? I’m a feminist and goddamnit if I don’t love the men and boys in my life	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 04:48 PM
9	Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why? That sub is NOT a good place to get a feel for the average woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 01:47 AM
-1	Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why? Who is killing the men? Who is starting the wars? Who set the standard for men to hold in emotion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 01:47 AM
2	Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in dating This is a great summary	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 08:10 PM
1	Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic Not at all. And I didn’t say it did. It certainly gives validity to such blanket claims though.	/r/MensRights	14/03/24 05:50 AM
1	Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic Okay so please point me toward a peer-reviewed study then?	/r/MensRights	13/03/24 10:53 PM
1	Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men? Productive comment for a debate! Thank you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 10:53 PM
1	Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men? I saw that. But to be meaningful to this discussion, they need to break it up by gender. Who is doing the assaulting and where. That’s why I specified domestic abuse by a male partner, not assault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 06:26 PM
1	Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men? But this doesn’t take into account domestic abuse. Women overwhelmingly experience it more than men. Surely that is a valid reason enough for our “paranoia.” Especially in dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 06:20 PM
5	Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men? Something that never happens? One in four women are victims of domestic abuse, compared to one in nine men. Explain the paranoia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 06:05 PM
10	Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men? You’re comparing that to being violently murdered?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 05:55 PM
1	Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in dating I feel for ya. I know several guys who have had luck joining meeting women through MeetUp! At least then you have an already shared interest to talk about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 03:57 AM
1	Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in dating The scenario you described absolutely sucks, I agree. I commented what I did because I think it’s beneficial for single guys to have women in their social circle. You’ll seem more approachable to women, and there’s a chance they have several single female friends to set you up with! That’s how I met my life partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 02:47 AM
1	Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic Everyone meaning…who? The people you surround yourself with? The people in this sub? Would it be fair to say that your scope could possibly be limited by who you interact with? That’s why scientific studies matter. They account for bias. Don’t you also want to see objective numbers?	/r/MensRights	13/03/24 01:43 AM
3	Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in dating Baiting was not my intention! I just meant to be around more women and possibly expand your social circle further than single men. More along the lines of friendship. It can be eye opening’	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 01:00 AM
6	Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in dating To be around more people that have already accomplished what you’re setting out to do. And because women tend to gravitate towards them!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 12:50 AM
3	Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in dating Well, dang. That IS disappointing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 12:48 AM
1	Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in dating This possibly could have to do with the fact that it’s finally societally acceptable for women to focus on their career, not their “Mrs” degree and poppin’ out babies. That’s what I did. Went to college, then grad school, THEN found my life partner. And no, he’s not some “Alpha Chad.” And no, I didn’t meet him on an app. I really think some of these frustrations will dissipate as you age. I sincerely wish you the best in finding your lady.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 12:39 AM
12	Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in dating There it is! Make friends with men who are in committed relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 12:35 AM
4	Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in dating Do you have any verified stats to back this up? Like from scientific publications, not OkC.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 12:34 AM
5	How significant of a factor is slut shaming in reducing the amount that women sleep around or pursue men on average (compared to other factors). Sometimes women just need time to increase sexual attraction. This can exist without fear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 09:47 PM
0	Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic Why? To cite standardized evidence to support your claim. “Direct data” is often heavily biased and wrought with interpretation errors.	/r/MensRights	11/03/24 10:33 PM
0	Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic Your second point is VERY true	/r/MensRights	11/03/24 07:40 PM
1	Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic I’m in total agreement with you that there absolutely needs to be more studies	/r/MensRights	11/03/24 07:38 PM
-2	Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic It just references back to that OkCupid “study”. Again, do you have even ONE standardized, peer-reviewed, scientific study to support your claim? Additionally, the link you just sent even states “Previous high-profile papers in the field have suggested that sex-specific differences in higher-order processing of sensory information could lead to sex-specific behaviours; however, those experiments remained exclusively at the level of differences in neuroanatomy and physiology without any demonstra…	/r/MensRights	11/03/24 07:12 PM
6	Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they think Nowhere did she say anything to suggest she “trades men like baseball cards.” And she’s been in less than 5 relationships in her life. If someone believes they are being abused in a relationship, then it is absolutely their right to leave. And now she’s happy with her current partner. Also, do you even know the definition of strawman? Because it doesn’t apply here. She gave anecdotal evidence of her own personal experience, and is completely in love with her fiancé. The second half of your comme…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 07:06 PM
6	Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they think Upvote for referencing tu quoque fallacy 🤌	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 06:52 PM
1	Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic Thank you! But I meant something that has been peer-reviewed in scientific literature to support you. This just references OkCupid again.	/r/MensRights	11/03/24 06:36 PM
-1	Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic Them downvoting you is hilarious. Further up on the thread is someone saying that only cults ignore stats and figures. Oh, the irony.	/r/MensRights	11/03/24 06:17 PM
-1	Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic Any chance you could find an actual peer-reviewed study that supports this claim?	/r/MensRights	11/03/24 06:16 PM
-1	Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic Can you find one other study that supports this claim? The one you linked to isn’t even truly peer-reviewed.	/r/MensRights	11/03/24 06:15 PM
2	Marraige is a net loss move for men. Oof, true 😩	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 01:49 AM
9	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym Do not follow a woman in the parking lot to hit on her, ever.	/r/seduction	04/03/24 01:28 AM
5	Marraige is a net loss move for men. Interesting. Thanks for clarifying. This is certainly a growing topic of interest for ppl in the field, and it is ever changing as we’re in a time of realignment of gender roles. I’ll look more at that author. Thank you for the response! :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:57 PM
2	Marraige is a net loss move for men. If you truly believe this, then we have nothing further to discuss. I wish you a good day though! And thanks for the food for thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:52 PM
7	Marraige is a net loss move for men. I’m not worried, I’m literally participating in a debate thread and left my comment to counteract OPs overall position. For entertainment value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:51 PM
3	Marraige is a net loss move for men. Okey doke!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:49 PM
3	Marraige is a net loss move for men. To speak for women who are similar to me, who may be single. OP is lamenting that that kind of woman doesn’t exist, but they do. They just don’t want to date men like OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:48 PM
7	Marraige is a net loss move for men. I am very, very appreciated by my partner. And so thankful. I’m not sour. I was responding to OP, and other men who share similar beliefs. Sure I might have been snarky, but again, that was for OPs benefit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:46 PM
4	Marraige is a net loss move for men. Damn. True that my friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:43 PM
5	Marraige is a net loss move for men. I’m trying to speak of myself as an example of a larger group of women that exist. There are lots of us. Men like OP won’t encounter us often, because of self-fulfilling prophecy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:43 PM
2	Marraige is a net loss move for men. Not close minded, just unwilling to be with a partner that does not believe in the possibility of a woman like me. It’s not that hard to understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:42 PM
6	Marraige is a net loss move for men. To counteract OP’s worldview of women, as I stated. There ARE good women out there that are financially and emotionally stable. You immediately jumped on me, unequivocally stating something is wrong with me. What an odd take off the jump, but hey, if that’s what you think, then that’s what you think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:40 PM
7	Marraige is a net loss move for men. Reactivity where? By standing up for myself? For giving OP an example that counteracts his worldview of women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:37 PM
6	Marraige is a net loss move for men. And how am I bitter? You assumed something was wrong with me from the get go, when all I stated was examples of my success & stability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:33 PM
5	Marraige is a net loss move for men. I’m also taken! Yippee!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:32 PM
10	Marraige is a net loss move for men. As a psychologist, I find PsychologyToday abhorrent, but I’ll indulge you for now. Why do you think that loss of attraction happens? Traditionally, it is because women were expected to be mothers / husband-therapists / chefs and maids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:28 PM
3	Marraige is a net loss move for men. Furthermore, if i am exactly who i say i am, i would never choose you. A woman like me would never choose a man like you. Your disbelief is supported by your own self-fulfilling prophecy. Which is just fine for me and other women like me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:25 PM
21	Marraige is a net loss move for men. None of that is exclusive to women. You must examine on a case-by-case basis, otherwise you’re just choosing a partner because you feel you have to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:22 PM
6	Marraige is a net loss move for men. Just for fun: What if there truly was nothing wrong with me, and that I AM exactly how I described. What would that mean for your worldview and how you approach women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:21 PM
1	Marraige is a net loss move for men. This is so true, and I hadn’t thought about that before. Certainly something to consider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:16 PM
8	Marraige is a net loss move for men. Right? Thank god OP doesn’t want to get married. One less bad apple for women everywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:11 PM
16	Marraige is a net loss move for men. THIS. This is what it’s really about for OP I think, and his defeatist attitude. He likely contains a fair amount of internalized misogyny that he either can’t or won’t examine, and it really comes out with this marriage topic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:05 PM
0	Marraige is a net loss move for men. LITERALLY the first result on Google	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 08:04 PM
16	Marraige is a net loss move for men. He won’t, because he doesn’t actually want to debate. He just wants to complain about women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 07:59 PM
7	Marraige is a net loss move for men. I’m very conventionally attractive, and hold a doctorate. Make 6 figures a year, and I’m not crazy. We’re out there, our standards are just higher than you qualify for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 07:42 PM
23	Marraige is a net loss move for men. THANK you. Choosing not to examine this on a case-by-case basis makes no sense nowadays. Depends on the partner. OBVIOUSLY. Ppl just like to turn it into a husband vs. wife, men vs. women debate for salacious value, and it’s annoying 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 07:40 PM