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| 8 | Feeling depressedI literally took a week off for Christmas but we were bought out 6 months ago and everything is a whirlwind. I liked my job but now we’ll probably hire other people in my department or I’ll be replaced all together. But the work is complicated & sometimes it doesn’t need more people except me. I’m just tired of looking at LinkedIN & seeing all these #hustle feel good posts & all these accomplishments, along with not having any offers for new jobs. It’s depressing. Thank you for the advice though… | /r/MGTOW | 23/01/20 03:14 AM |
| 1 | I’m a 16 year old girl who stumbled upon this sub reddit and I got a few words to sayYour analogy is spot on. Doesn’t mean all women are bad for you. That’s like someone who drinks and has no issues entering an AA meeting and asking why do you guys meet? If you’re not someone who struggles with alcohol, there’s no sense in being here. Only those who have had issues truly get it & should be a part of the meeting. | /r/MGTOW | 19/10/19 06:08 PM |
| -2 | She thinks she's better than you and you should worship her as soon as she gets layers of chemical on her face.I’ve got to say. Why do we care or are judging someone else who you don’t even know? I mean... I get it can be “deceptive” but is she really hurting you to post a pic and talk bad about it? | /r/MGTOW | 03/10/19 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Is There Something Wrong With Me?I’ve gotten better with time. Focusing on my health and just being alone again. I was codependent. It’s harder to do with the emotions but once they simmer down, comforting myself seems to work. | /r/MGTOW | 29/09/19 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Fun Friday - Remember AWALT use the same line on every girl get the same response from every girl. 99% first date tinder Pump and dump.I tried this and got what crimes are you into? Hahaha Not sure what direction to go to answer. | /r/MGTOW | 27/09/19 04:06 PM |
| 1 | I’m at a Loss for WordsThanks for the encouragement. I never did any of those. I literally tried to assist with her financially by giving advice too. I tried to go through Dave Ramsey’s stuff. I feel guilt bc I did lie, cheat, and after seeing her 4 or 5 times drunk, the last time I saw her she was in the closet and I just started raising my voice. I wasn’t physical with her but I was kind of yelling like what the fuck are you doing? Fucks here and there and the In done with this shit. ( I feel really bad bc she lost … | /r/MGTOW | 24/09/19 02:52 AM |
| 2 | I’m at a Loss for WordsThank you. I realize I need internal validation but these comments do help. I did so much for her as well, there could me some gaslighting involved but you’re right. My emotions shouldn’t revolve around women. | /r/MGTOW | 24/09/19 02:19 AM |
| 3 | The day I understood that a woman’s only weapon is her words, is the day I decided I will never argue with a woman again. And there is nothing a woman can say that will insult or offend meHow does one handle living and earning money if they are known as the Scarlett letter around their town? Shame does affect you rope professionally as well. | /r/MGTOW | 23/09/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Late Night BluesYou’re right. I’ve been given terrible karma already. I did make an amends letter and sent it through the only method of communication she hasn’t blocked me on. It just sucks because I’m sulking and thinking how terrible I am, when who knows, maybe she still thinks about me or fucking other people already. Even with saying amends, my conscious does not want to be cleared of these guilty feelings. | /r/MGTOW | 22/09/19 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Should I have sex with my ex wife's new boyfriend's ex-wife?I know right?! I thought it was inspiring and message was great but poor sap. Married the woman who has a kid. Probably giving child support for his own 2 kids and then the new woman birthed another kid. Message was great but the dudes all over the place still with his relationships. Smh | /r/MGTOW | 22/09/19 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Gym questionsI would start by looking at Upper/Lower body split to make the best gains in general. Look up PHAT and implement as much as you can. It goes over the heavy /light but strenuous ways to lift. PHAT is my go to and it explains everything if you search for it. As far as eating and supplements, I would definitely eat no processed foods and stick to the staples of protein & vegetables. If you want to test supplements...always go for whey protein and casein protein at night. Take mono hydrate creatine,… | /r/MGTOW | 22/09/19 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Starting my shopify store. Wish me luck boys!What’s your product & who’s your audience? | /r/MGTOW | 22/09/19 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Will I Regret?Good point | /r/MGTOW | 21/09/19 05:24 AM |
| 1 | How to get out of Memory Lane?It’s all of them. I’m trying to think I’m the prize but I had it good with my ex. Now she’s ignoring me & I’m literally physically hurting not spending time with her. Mgtow doesn’t even help right now it feels. | /r/MGTOW | 21/09/19 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Why Am I on this Sub?It is. He’s still there but not mentally or emotionally. I was too young to remember who he really was as a good dad. And it takes a toll on the family. My mom is by far not a Nawalt but out of the women in my life & the ones I’ve met, she stuck with him through thick and thin & purposed in herself we weren’t going to be split up and that all of the kids would make it through. Anyway, thanks for the reply. | /r/MGTOW | 20/09/19 01:09 PM |
| 2 | We’re y’all ever to hard on an ex?On point... I get myself in the I’m the prize mentality and look at the negatives but that situation was so convenient & I did my own thing. No games...sex continually...submissive & let me stay over/cook...I just have to realize the negatives & her hitting the wall. Plus the fact I have to move on. She’s giving me no other choice. | /r/MGTOW | 19/09/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | New RamboMe neither. Internet is king. | /r/MGTOW | 19/09/19 03:31 AM |
| 1 | We’re y’all ever to hard on an ex?True. You live and you learn. It just sucks bc sure I paid here and there but I always went to her place, sex was always available(I’m the one who stopped doing it less after she let herself go), and she cooked for me. All while doing my own thing. To be honest... maybe I should feel good because if she looks back, she’ll realize she literally did whatever I wanted her to do & then was essentially not interested in her at the end. 🤷🏼♂️ | /r/MGTOW | 18/09/19 07:31 PM |
| 2 | We’re y’all ever to hard on an ex?The thing is she never put me through anything fucked up except at the end when she got drunk too much. But that’s bc of losing a loved one. She literally gave me sex whenever, cooked me food, and always let me come over & see her. I’m the one who got bored of the sex after she let herself go & not go see her as much. Now I realize that that’s hard to come by & pining after those memories in my mind still. | /r/MGTOW | 18/09/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | We’re y’all ever to hard on an ex?Well at the beginning she had a job & could cover her bills. Then she lost her job, her dad, and turned to alcohol within 6 months. She was living off of daddy too and took a hit financially when her dad died. At the beginning though, I saw a smart employed woman who pulled her weight. I lived with my family & made it clear finances were separate & wouldn’t pay for her bills, I just feel bad for having this I’m better than you attitude when I didn’t mean it. I just cared for her financial well-b… | /r/MGTOW | 18/09/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Why i don't view women in the same light after breaking with my toxic girlfriend of 3 years.Just keep focusing on you. Sounds like you have a high SMV so why not enjoy some companionship but not anything serious? How old are you? If you have any good family or friends, focus on them. I’m losing my dad in the hospital as I type & the regret sucks. Redonkulous is hilarious. Check him out. I’m 3 weeks out of a 9 month relationship. I friend zoned her first bc she became an alcoholic, then stopped taking care of herself, then she friend zoned me out of the blue by breaking up first, I beca… | /r/MGTOW | 17/09/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Ghost of past girlfriends. How do you deal with it ?A significant “ex’s butthole” 😆😆😆 My ex had a hairy one so it’s on my negative list to give my thoughts less power when strolling down memory lane. | /r/MGTOW | 17/09/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Ghost of past girlfriends. How do you deal with it ?Never thought of it this way. Eye-opening.... The fact she was an opportunity to produce. Especially after having sex. I have an ex. We broke up 2 weeks ago & we’re together 9 months having sex. How you described this is one of the ways I feel. Good memories +hopeful wishing on opportunities+still lonely & not seeing others regularly= oneitis + obsession+depression. On point man.... besides having an “ex” become enlightened and wants you back( if you’re willing to accept) there’s really only the… | /r/MGTOW | 17/09/19 03:04 PM |
| 0 | Is There Something Wrong With Me?It is. I was there for her when her dad died 3 months ago and a few other traumatic experiences. Having been through what we have, it’s hard for me to let go. Especially since I was the asshole. She broke up with me for reasons that would be fixable but she’s choosing not to. That’s why...If she was in the wrong or I knew I gave it my all, I would think fuck her...but that’s not the case. | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Is There Something Wrong With Me?My dad could’ve died today. Thanks for the advice. | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Is There Something Wrong With Me?That’s what makes me mad. There was a lot to contribute to the split and it wasn’t that she just found someone else. She developed a drinking problem, lost her dad and job too. I was an asshole at the end but I conveyed so hard that I wanted to work through things. Now in a few weeks she’ll just hop on another dick like I never existed & not even respond to me saying my dads in the hospital. It sucks. | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Is There Something Wrong With Me?I’m starting to think that too. I was an asshole myself at times and apologized. I wasn’t the most present guy due to implementing MGTOW stuff into my dating but I was there for her when she lost her dad 3 months ago. She developed a drinking problem afterwards & I understand she’s hurting too. Even if it’s all the stupid stuff I did too. But my dads in the freaking hospital & she won’t even acknowledge me. Sure, I never went up to see her father but I was there for her. It just hurts. Literally… | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 10:53 PM |
| 0 | Is There Something Wrong With Me?I thought she was different. I was an asshole but was there when her dad died and she lost her job. I didn’t just say bye after finding out she developed a drinking problem after her dad died. I was pissed/distant at the end and wasn’t there minute by minute but I fucking cared and she knew I was for her. Now she’s ignoring me & I was fucking honest. I said my dad’s in the hospital and can you at least be a friend right now? No response & that was at lunchtime. I made mistakes & lied to her but … | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | HurtingI’m pissed at her. I’m angry and hurt that she’s ignoring me while I reached out and was honest. I was the asshole and did stupid things to cause the breakup but I was there in time of need when her dad passed away. Now I’m suffering when she’s probably fucking another dude not even caring about me. It fucking hurts. | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | HurtingThis is why it’s so hard. Her dad died 3 months ago and I wasn’t the best guy to her but I made sure to attend his funeral & be with her at times. After my ex’s father passing, my ex turned to drinking and I became resentful and bitter. Didn’t help her like I should’ve when she needed it. Now I’m learning my lesson. I treated her like shit at the end and said my apologies but I was still there for her at times and just long for her to be here. Even if I was an asshole, she knows I did give of my… | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | What Do I Do?Well I haven’t paid for her bills, I haven’t bought any gifts for her, I limit cohabitation and saw her on my time for the most part. Being 25, I still feel the need for short term companionship & get sex out of my system. It was great for a few months but she had setbacks & other factors led to the breakdown. Not female nature for this... I just have done everything to get past this but still have oneitis bc of the circumstances. It wasn’t mainly her fault but mine. That’s why I’m so torn with … | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 06:26 AM |
| 1 | I’m raging..Very true. When she wasn’t ignoring me, conversation was okay and there was sexting. I was imagining the date and what we’d do...then once ignored, I then imagined the reasons and that’s where my ego and jealousy took over. | /r/MGTOW | 13/09/19 10:28 PM |
| 2 | I’m raging..Thank you. This has helped. | /r/MGTOW | 13/09/19 10:26 PM |
| 2 | I’m raging..I admit I’m on the clingier side. I’ve gotten better with age but you’re right....The fact is, this girl had probably 50+ matches and my mindset is when I’m interested is actually be more into them bc if you’re not...you’re not getting anywhere. That’s at first at least. Once we go out and especially after sex, I’ll pull back more bc then it’s easier to play hard to get but initially, if you aren’t on her thoughts before you set up a date....you’re history. | /r/MGTOW | 13/09/19 10:25 PM |
| 2 | I’m raging..It gets to me. Like we were all good...texting and making small talk...I set up a day and then the next day right before plans were made she ignores me bc I knew she’s on social media & then at least tells me “her ex hit her back up”. If it wasn’t for this ego and jealousy.... | /r/MGTOW | 13/09/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | I’m raging..I erased her number and deleted her from Snapchat. She said her ex hit her back up. I’m not for that sloppy seconds and plus I get if someone’s busy but I know she was ignoring me & that just gets to me. Nobody’s got time for that. Except my ego and jealousy. | /r/MGTOW | 13/09/19 10:20 PM |
| 3 | I’m raging..Her ex came back in the pic. | /r/MGTOW | 13/09/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | I’m raging..Nah man...her ex hit her back up hahaha | /r/MGTOW | 13/09/19 07:07 PM |
| 7 | ManipulationThis is me right now. Girl said she’s free this Saturday... long story short...today she’s literally ignoring me & probably just playing or done with me but wants me to “hang” on. Mentally I know I need to move on but emotionally those blue pill emotions are feigning for her attention. 🤷🏼♂️ | /r/MGTOW | 13/09/19 04:58 PM |
| 2 | How these hoes look after you take the red pill.I didn’t realize this. Haha Are you sure? | /r/MGTOW | 11/09/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | I’m STI free baby!That’s the thing. I was at one time but reexamined things. This was after a more exclusive relationship & 1 fling so I’m just relieved I’m negative & can move forward. | /r/MGTOW | 11/09/19 12:19 AM |
| 0 | How these hoes look after you take the red pill.I’m not being a white knight but to film someone showing raw emotions like that and probably feeling humiliated is honestly scum for whoever’s filming. She’s older & cant help her looks & probably deserves some stuff but no one deserves that disrespect. I’m kind of losing my looks myself, even as a man, and can only imagine a camera in front of me & making fun of me in this way. It’s dehumanizing. | /r/MGTOW | 11/09/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | I’m STI free baby!I agree! My mental stress and headaches have not for the most part been worth. It’s just nice after having a bad breakup to get news that you’re clean. It just feels good. Not even for wanting to fuck someone else but just a good feeling. | /r/MGTOW | 10/09/19 03:53 PM |
| 2 | A good laugh for you gents 😂 Happy SundayError? Or someone at ABC a comedian? Haha | /r/MGTOW | 09/09/19 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Words of wisdomI’ll delete if you’d like me to but here’s my post. What if I’m 25 and just broke up with girl number 3 or 4 two weeks ago & have been fapping nonstop to feel better? Haha My sex drive is on emotions instead of logic right now. Logically I’m past her & know she was a bad deal & being single is better but emotionally I’m jealous of who’s plowing her & what dick is she sucking now...will it ever die??? I almost even sent her this message. Whatever. Have fun getting fucked & having guys plow you. H… | /r/MGTOW | 08/09/19 06:08 AM |
| 3 | Sister - offered the world, but would rather watch NetflixI’m interested. Finishing a business degree at 25, work in IT and have saved up money. Entrepreneurship has always been in my thoughts but the idea or product is my tough one. | /r/MGTOW | 06/09/19 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Motivation GoneThank you! It’s the weirdest thing. I’ve been with over 20 women but this hit me hard. I guess the fact that I was there when her world came crashing down and her alcohol issues came out really attached me instead of run me away. & I’m being smart & live with family while finishing education & saving & she had her own place so the fact jealousy is coming up and I’m sure she’s getting plowed as I type. 🤷🏼♂️ The things men do for women... or at least I do. Got a good gym session in though. 💪 | /r/MGTOW | 05/09/19 01:58 AM |
| 1 | EX is still in my thoughts.Thank you for this. This has helped tremendously. Things are better at times since the break & then get worse. Today, I literally went to the gym twice & went to get new workout clothes just to stay sane. I did slip and drive by her place though to see if it was just her. I shouldn’t. Just like you, I realize I am lucky to be out of the situation and free of the issues she’s carried. Being there when she lost her job & her dad really had me caring though. I was supportive the following months bu… | /r/MGTOW | 03/09/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | EX is still in my thoughts.I know man. I got caught up in it. If I felt she was useless I would’ve broken it off earlier but I had hope and wasn’t going to abandon her after her setbacks. The coming to see her at night and seeing her in her closet with an big empty bottle of vodka got me to the frustrated point. I’d have to nurse her back to health & check up on her. I didn’t mind at first & encouraged her to change things but after 5 or 6 times and know the situation I was in....it was a defense mechanism. Now the guilt … | /r/MGTOW | 02/09/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | EX is still in my thoughts.I don’t now. I feel guilty for what she needed the last few months. As her drinking got worse & I became numb, I didn’t think about her feelings and brushed her off. There were so many times she’d text or call & I didn’t answer. So many times she wanted me to come over or spend time together & I ignored her. The worst was one weekend when in my mind I was over things & fucked someone else while she texted asking if I could come over. I drove 2 hours to see someone while she called & texted me as… | /r/MGTOW | 02/09/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Men truly love and women dont?This right here is golden. The best way I’ve seen described. This can sum up most guy’s experiences if they were ever dumped or left. | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/19 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Alpha vs ChadWell since you created the thread, why don’t you do the honors of the bullet format? Haha just saying. | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/19 06:15 AM |
| 2 | I'm new, I need adviceI think he’s referring to how DiCaprio handles relationships and who he dates. He’s always dumped them around 25 I believe. So anything older would not be his kind. 🤷🏼♂️ Maybe that’s what’s meant. | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/19 04:49 AM |
| 1 | A vid that presents a great contrast between BLUEPILL and REDPILL and what happens when you take that redpill. Think of it as redpill v bluepill.What did I just watch? Haha And dressing for a guy isn’t that bad. It’s not just to impress women but gives a guy “class” so to speak. Like it or not, someone who dresses well gets more respect from men & women. | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/19 04:14 AM |
| 2 | I think about all the people who let me down,betray me,stab me in the back, and plain on just didnt even like me. This makes me sad im focus on my future but i still think about my harsh past moments and the terrible people I've encountered everyday,I'm 17 any advice?Wait till you get older. Your faith in other humans goes downhill from here. Haha There’s a few good people out there though. | /r/MGTOW | 30/08/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Anyone miss sex with the ex?The thing is I treated her like shit in the end. I was tired of seeing her be drunk more and more. I’d nurse her for a little bit but it got frustrating & I just shut down & fucked someone else while being with her. Now I feel bad & miss her. | /r/MGTOW | 30/08/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Anyone miss sex with the ex?So she knows I have them. 🤷🏼♂️ It’s more of an ego thing I guess. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/19 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Anyone miss sex with the ex?See I only got the dating sex since we never got married. She’s definitely make the sounds and boy did she suck good. And it was whenever I was in the mood. Then I got tired of her bc of alcohol addiction & she broke it off. Now that dating sex is being craved. Haha | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Can I Have Wisdom from Older Men?I hate to hear you had to go through that. Yeah, the one I saw was an alcoholic basket case. She did lose her dad and it did hit me hard to experience those raw emotions with her but even afterwards I started getting distant and frustrated bc of all the times I’d come over and she was drunk again. To the point of drinking full big bottle of vodka. I tried to continue to care and feel bad about it now but I supported her. I encouraged her and gave her logic. And she’s keep on fucking up her life … | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/19 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Can I Have Wisdom from Older Men?Thank you for the comment and links. The rational male article was an eye opening read. | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/19 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Can I Have Wisdom from Older Men?I’m jerking off about 2 x a day now and still go to the gym/work. The problem is I jerk off & then crave the intimacy. But in my mind, the only intimacy that will ever be great was my last lover. Haha hormones suck | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/19 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Can I Have Wisdom from Older Men?Appreciate the advice! | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Can I Have Wisdom from Older Men?I am & realized that. It’s given me a lot of guilt. Even though she’s a woman, she’s still a person who didn’t deserve to be cheated on. So I’m glad she ended things bc it would’ve even hurt the other person more if they found out the extent to what I was doing without them. | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Can I Have Wisdom from Older Men?At first that was the case, then she became an alcoholic basket case and all I wanted was sex every now & then. Hence why she ended. Bc I stopped even giving her sex while seeking out other people & there was no intimacy. Now I have the guilty feelings & crave the intimacy we once had. | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Can I Have Wisdom from Older Men?Thank you. I do need to grow a pair. The only thing I regret is me cheating and the hurt she experienced losing her father & job. She is an alcoholic basket case I need to forget but when you went through the tragedy & experiences those raw feelings of someone else, it changed me & made me feel guilty/sympathetic to her. Now I’m just concerned if she’ll be okay & get her shit together. | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/19 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Breakup BluesI updated a little. I’ve been seeing someone and ended up getting attached to the point of losing her is causing me to suffer badly. | /r/MGTOW | 24/08/19 09:50 PM |
| 2 | I just got broken up with. In a depressed panic.I feel freer but will a part of me miss the nights moving forward ? Yes... but it does feel like a part of you leaves, even if they weren’t good in your life for you. | /r/MGTOW | 23/08/19 01:45 AM |
| 1 | I just got broken up with. In a depressed panic.Very true my man! The only thing I regret is she didn’t put me through a lot of shit tests. I do feel bad bc I cheated on her and lied to her but that’s on me. It’s not like she didn’t hide an alcohol addiction and lie to me. But I do wish I wouldn’t have been an asshole. | /r/MGTOW | 23/08/19 01:43 AM |
| 1 | I just got broken up with. In a depressed panic.I can’t smoke bc of work but I’ll realize I’m overreacting. What if she starts fucking other dudes? She has her own place. Haha I still live with my parents. | /r/MGTOW | 23/08/19 01:04 AM |
| 3 | First post.... AWALT40 for dinner. 15 for gas. And 20 for sex toys 🤷🏼♂️ Plus 120 more miles on my car. Bad idea and investment. If you’ve gotta use your lizard brain....I’m keeping it close distance at least. Damn... | /r/MGTOW | 21/08/19 03:55 AM |
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