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SEEKING ADVICE0redacted0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:52 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFE0redacted0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 12:28 PM
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Wow. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:02 PM
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Oof! I had to buy my own engagement ring and wedding band well, everything. The
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:49 PM
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That’s what I was coming to say, I think she might be pushing it because she doesn’t want to reach 30 without it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:47 PM
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Is that true your employer can see that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:34 PM
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I’m glad you stood up to him. It would’ve been funny if you would’ve asked him if he wanted to disappoint two women at the same time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:28 PM
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If I had gold I would give it to you. That’s exactly what happened. His real self started showing and he was really manipulative he would say if I did xyz it would be like it was in the beginning. I was pregnant with my daughter and someone had to tell me he was being abusive. I thought it was mostly my fault. That’s how good of a manipulator he was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:51 PM
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I can say that is a fact! The most abusing POS I ever dated wanted to get engaged two weeks into the relationship. Never again!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:11 PM
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I have been married before I don’t recommend it lmao, but before I was always the one they dated then the next girl they settled down with and married. I’m sorry. It hurts when you get strung along. I hope you find the right man who worships you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:10 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:36 PM
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How do you stop that from happening?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:24 PM
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My daughter’s sperm donor, who is now thankfully dead would honest for God (we got back together for a short time when she was an infant) He would grab the diaper bag and make me carry that heavy carry-all all by myself. No shame. He was about 350 pounds and I was 125 pounds both about 5’3”. I won’t do it again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:09 AM
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My ex husband did this! Thank God I got away and divorced him when I could!! We would go to the grocery store and it would take me 20-30 minutes to go shopping and that long to find him. It was so bad that he would talk to people he knew and would completely ignore me, wouldn’t even acknowledge that I was his wife. At first I thought it was an accident but it happened every single time. I was married eight and dated seven but I am so grateful I’m through! Until God has given me who He chooses fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:55 AM
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I asked myself this question about a lot of things in this life but now I want to ask it to you, when are you going to love you? When are you going to love yourself and be good enough for you? Only you can answer that. I think it has a lot to do with boundaries. It takes time. Remember they didn’t care if it hurt you so don’t care about it hurting them. If they weren’t disrespectful then you wouldn’t be disrespectful towards them. We’ll make it! Slowly but surely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:37 PM
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I have a question: why are abusive men even more mean towards you on Mother’s Day? I gaslighted myself for years thinking it was just a coincidence but it literally has happened every year. Last year I was so exhausted working overtime, I was literally shaking from the exhaustion and all I asked my ex husband (who lived with me didn’t work, cook, clean or anything but constantly ran his mouth to me while I was gracious enough to give him a roof over his head after we divorced, I recently kicked …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:57 PM
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Yep, I can’t remember which one but it happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:58 PM
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Trust me, my baby daddy was a malignant narcissistic asshole. A sociopath that had no conscience, he once told me that. I believed him. He put me through so much trauma that I have PSTD because of it. He was such an awful person that when I found out he died (pneumonia and sepsis) I smiled. He tortured me. He was one of those that wanted to be victim and villain. He would do the cruelest things to me and go around telling people bullshit that made it sound like it was me so I was the injured par…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:04 PM
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I wasn’t really doing any wifey stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:57 AM
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It’s the truth! I get along with everyone, I don’t make waves with people and I generally get along. That is true about the common denominator, reminds me of the most toxic ex I ever had. Some guys I dated were good dudes , it just didn’t work. My most toxic ex would say that all this exes were crazy. They were all crazy because he made them crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:47 AM
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It might not hurt to add that the men I have dated have been conservative and generally they think women are not equal to men. They think that women are here to cater to them and have their babies. I live in the south and that’s how guys generally are around here and no women question why it’s wrong. You’re taught as a child that women are subpar. My own mother would make me clean and make my bed but somehow my brother didn’t have to because he was a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:36 AM
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I believe that! They know that you’re too good for them, I would have never believed that when I was younger but they do! Like these guys who are at their lowest they will hate you for sticking by him then will level up when he gets where he feels he deserves to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:02 AM
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It definitely does lower your esteem. It’s such a manipulative behavior because you don’t know if it’s you or them. Like what about me is so bad that you’re this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:50 AM
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I definitely need to! I just wondered if it was just me. I would be good to them and walk carefully on eggshells and somehow they still acted that way. You know it’s sad when you realize you honestly don’t know if they love or they hate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:47 AM
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I have noticed not long into the relationship weeks, months. I just noticed that tonight that it seems like they hate me and that nothing I do is good enough. It began with my first serious relationship. I remember looking at him and thinking if you hate me so much then they are you even dating me? I guess I don’t know the difference between love and hate. It also almost feels like..Revulsion. It has destroyed my self esteem. Maybe it’s internalized misogyny. I just want to get to the root of it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:07 AM
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He was a preacher as I understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:06 AM
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