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| 3 | How to approach the girl from the gym?I met my last GF in college. Do you think she was paying 5k a semester just to meet dudes? lol. | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 04:15 AM |
| 1 | What's up with women nowadays having that ridiculous queen attitude?I've literally seen that in the past month | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/10/20 02:07 PM |
| -1 | What's up with women nowadays having that ridiculous queen attitude?Lol guys hype each other up all the time? You're reading into it too much. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/10/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | 19 What do I need to improveTbh not caring if you fail is confidence.... Always knowing you will succeed isn't confidence, it's cockiness. And also literally incorrect. | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | What makes some guys don't care when they get rejected and others think about it for weeks?What really makes me not care is realize how little the rejection has to do with you. Watch some videos about what girls like, they will completely contradict each other. Which is fine, everyone has their own opinion. But it shows how stupid it is to try to cater yourself (beyond things like hygeine, confidence, friendliness, etc) | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Read the book Yes ManLol | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | The Brain is the biggest sex organ! Female here sharing my own experience— what has been extremely effective with me.That's a no. | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)I havent spent much time there so I cant vouch for it totally, but they seem to sugar coat everything less https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/ | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 03:45 PM |
| 6 | How does Craig Ferguson flirt?I had a fat ugly professor that would constantly say things like this to his female students. Cursed like a sailor during lectures. They fucking loved it. The dude had an amazing personality, funny as fuck, non threatening but dominant, commanding, etc. All the students loved him. I miss that man. | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | All women want confident, strong, dominant men? Really?I'm gonna disagree hard. The ones I know in relationships with quality women ARE the confident good looking guys. The perpetually single ones are the ones with self esteem issues and beta tendencies | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | The answer to "There's this one girl I'm trying to date (or have sex with)" from some of the Founders of the modern Seduction CommunityI heard it long ago but I guess now my self esteem is high enough I can truly embody it, but I've been loving that quote -- if a girls attitude isn't "fuck yes" then yours should be "fuck no". | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 05:58 PM |
| 8 | Don'tHow is tinder rn? Busier? | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 05:30 PM |
| 7 | This is how bars really workI think the best way to apply his advice is that if you are actually having fun, you will go out way more and be authentic, confident, etc Of course you can take any advice too far, which is arguably what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Lost my virginity at 33yo!!Yea not to sound pretentious but it can be very easy to feel cocky. I was having good day and I ended up expecting girls to approach me. Then at the end of the night I got down on myself because the hottest girl in the club turned down my cold approach. The next day I realized how entitled my expectations were and how much it impacted my chances. | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | What are some mistakes you made in your younger years?What are your hobbies or job that puts you in the vicinity of a lot of women? I feel like I fit those categories but my only interaction with women is like one night out a month... My work and hobbies are very male dominated... Plus a dead social circle... | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayIf I was a murderer or violent man, it's not like it's going to magically cure itself by waiting till the next time I see the person. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:57 AM |
| 1 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingIt's almost like there's been feminine men and masculine women for centuries. It's like you are reinforcing gender norms because if a girl or a guy likes something typically from the other gender, woah now they might be a new gender since that doesn't line up!!! | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:54 AM |
| 6 | First Ever Bar Pickup On First TryI'd argue given the Reddit community and the rise of introverted activities today, just being in a conducive environment is one of the most crucial steps you can take. And I think this sub is and should be a decent source for that | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Social Status is KingToo bad friends are harder to get than hookups these days ... | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 08:12 PM |
| 3 | They're just people.Meh, it has merit. Alot of the skills are inner game primarily, and any outer game discussed has a good chance of just being shit advice sometimes. | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | They're just people.You sound very sheltered if you think people who think differently than you are incels lmao.... Like do you spend all your time on Reddit so that's your only reference point? If you think mysognistic people can't get laid you might be stupid | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 04:39 AM |
| 1 | They're just people.I haven't read too much of the stuff here lately, but I do wanna give my 2c. Inner game is very crucial and arguably a prerequisite to outer game / pua stuff. In some ways it contradicts some outer game and I think for the most part you should let inner game make the decision for you (helps with congruency and authenticity) That being said I do think outer game is worth discussing. I.e. getting the girl to gradually invest in you, etc. | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Approaching dancing girls at clubThat's crazy, lounges appears to me to be 10x more intimidating and closed off. Dancing clubs every one seems to be more open IME | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Can you approach on the dance floor?I've had many successes (which I classify as grinding or more) without eye contact first. Tho, I usually do screen for girls who are more open in their body language (looking around, not turned away completely, maybe looking bored) | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Can you approach on the dance floor?Damn ive had success with dance floor approaches but the circle of girls always seems impenatrable. | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Resources for seduction in party environments during travel, cruises, spring break, raves etc?Good stuff. | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Wild pickup line actually workedThat was so awful I am uncomfortable. Part of this just goes to show its all in how you say it, and that taking action is key! Grats. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I got laid once in 2019A few thoughts to help you, coming from a virgin till 24 y/o: Humans are good at what they practice at. You're good at music, your career, working out, because you've put effort into them directly. Yes, working out and having hobbies helps socially, but only indirectly. Don't beat yourself up for not being good at socializing, you haven't practiced. To be mad at yourself for this is stupid. You can be mad at yourself for allowing yourself to go for so long not realizing this or not pushing yours… | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 02:31 AM |
| 2 | WEAR GOOD CLOTHES THAT FITIts all expereince buddy. If youre handsome, throw yourself into the nightclub scene. Worked for my autistic ass! | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 02:16 AM |
| 2 | WEAR GOOD CLOTHES THAT FITDamn bro how lean are you at 205. I feel like a model shirtless 6 2 @ 180, but do look very unimpressive in shirts. | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.If it makes you feel better I'm a pretty fit and tall dude and two of my college crushes married fat short dudes. They are really cool guys. Just goes to show how important personality and similar values are. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Guys who couldn't get women, what changed?Learn that social skills are built like any other skill, you need time and practice. Also learn to accept anxiety rather than try to fight it or eliminate it | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 06:29 PM |
| 19 | have your own fun and girls will join in naturally :)Yea well if you were moping, even drunk girls probably wouldn't do this | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Moving abroad was one of the best decisions I ever madeYou summed up your entire existence in 3 lines congratulations your 10% as interesting as op | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Moving abroad was one of the best decisions I ever madeI was with you a bit until you said this bullshit. You could easily say your life is a cubicle 9-5 with a boring housewife who got fat and expensive daycare or those few years before the kidsget too old to spend time with you. Enjoy your 2 hours of free time, 1 of which might be spent with your "fulfilling family", probably spent watching some mind numbing tv eating frozen meals. Hey, 23 to 1 Isa good ratio I guess. Better hope the boss doesn't ask for overtime. Enjoy your house with white picke… | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Sexually repressed for my entire life, and now that I'm not I've lost interest in everything else?17 lmao.... | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 03:03 PM |
| 2 | The Essence of Game from a former awkward guy who didn’t know how to flirt (reposted due to some filtering problems)I wish I found rsd or mark Manson so much earlier... | /r/seduction | 29/07/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet girls besides nightgame and daygame when I don’t have a reliable social circle and hobbies don’t helpCould you share a bit about that? | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Was this this a shit test, was she just rude, or was my apporach wrong?I do think saying nice features is a bit weird but overall definitely not your fault | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Game then Dance or Just Dance?I got laid from just holding out my hand, she grinded on me and we went home together. Of course I probably was just super lucky. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you overcome the fear of people watching you approachI have the same issue. I actually have to go out alone to be more confident with women. If my friends are there ifeel too much pressure | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | I asked a girl to date me exclusively, she agreed but now is uninterested. How do I smoothly end this.Sounds like there's nothing to end buddy | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | One night ask a girl to dance she starts grinding on me for hours. Next night fast five girls to dance they all give me no.Yea I guess my problem is tho I'm not having enough fun yet to actually go for the sake of enjoying myself. I probably should learn to dance a bit | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 04:17 PM |
| 2 | I get A LOT of first dates but can never get a second date. What am I doing wrong?Maybe the hairiness only comes out in person? Idk | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 02:25 AM |
| 1 | What’s your ‘pro advice’ when it comes to seduction?You're active focus needs to be on removing your filters such as fear of judgment and nervousness while also becoming okay with random silences. that being said in the long run you probably should look into certain topics or strategies for helping you have something to talk about. but just keep in mind this isn't something you should actively think about doing a conversation or try to brute-force it. In the end the old just being yourself is true if you brute force it it will come off as very aw… | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | What’s your ‘pro advice’ when it comes to seduction?Do you feel like nerves or some other filter is the reason? | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Dancing in club/barHaving different amounts of people per group is a hard obstacle. One girl will feel left out and the other 2 will hate that | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 02:31 PM |
| -1 | Tinder likes skyrocketed through a few tweaksI mean fitness is my biggest Hobby and I get like 1 match a week | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | My first experience ever getting laid from a cold approach in a nightclubDid she ever throw out the "were not sleeping together by the way" on your way home? | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Why You Aren't Getting a Second Date | 7 Surprising ReasonsDamn this guy usually bores me but I needed to hear all this. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | YOU want sex. Tell me YOUR biggest problemsBeing unable to enjoy myself without alcohol in club environments. I probably get into my head to much. Not due to AA or fear, just sadness low energy etc. Also living in a small town | /r/seduction | 06/07/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Absolute shit text gameI've seen this advice everywhere and it just hasn't worked for me. Girls say I'm an awful texter and lose interest by the next date | /r/seduction | 06/07/19 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Fuck learning "tricks" or "tips". 99% of the time they dont work and just make you look stupid. Just learn about building self worth and the very basics of attraction and everything else will follow.I like to think that with enough calibration and confidence, realizing a shittest doesnt matter. You're authentic response will just show your actual values in that interaction | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Last Night!Club are for dancing not socializing. I wouldn't beat yourself up but do have more realistic expectations next time | /r/seduction | 26/06/19 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Depressed virgin. I am typing this right now inside my parents' house. I am socially isolated and having moderate amount of FOMO. It is another Saturday night and I have no plans or anything. What would you suggest?I want to add don't rely on only the gym. I've only made like 1 friend and a couple acquaintances in the gym over 5 years. Idk maybe that's just me but if I spent half the time developing my personality as I did my body i think I'd be much more successful. | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Depressed virgin. I am typing this right now inside my parents' house. I am socially isolated and having moderate amount of FOMO. It is another Saturday night and I have no plans or anything. What would you suggest?I talk to no one at the gym but I feel so damn lonely if I just go straight home. | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Depressed virgin. I am typing this right now inside my parents' house. I am socially isolated and having moderate amount of FOMO. It is another Saturday night and I have no plans or anything. What would you suggest?Gym Dress better Good Haircut Progressive exposure therapy Watch RSD and other social skill media. Mark Manson is good. Find a hobby. Mine has been /r/financialindependence lately but I'm super bored and needing to find a new one soon, likely dirt biking. Yes all these are easier said than done, but they are doable. Don't give up.... Social skills are one of the most difficult skills humans can learn. Computers can't even come close. You're likely beig too hard on yourself for thinking you shoul… | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Noobie here: Had a pretty crappy night (got stood up) and tried going to the club. I just stood there. How do you balance not needing a certain state to be social vs. pumping yourself up to a certain state?Thanks for the kind words. Yea hopefully this experience will make me more lighthearted and prepared in the future. | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Noobie here: Had a pretty crappy night (got stood up) and tried going to the club. I just stood there. How do you balance not needing a certain state to be social vs. pumping yourself up to a certain state?I definitely did a poor job of building social momentum. I kinda just jumped in way too hard. Set myself up for disappointment in that aspect I guess. | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 04:59 PM |
| 6 | How can a 21 year old virgin increase his chances of getting laid?If you can't have at least a bit of fun failing, you're going to fail 100% (imo) | /r/seduction | 12/06/19 04:56 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to get over a girl? (tried sleeping with other girls)The one tip I know that's actually pretty great IMO is to not fight the emotions. Don't beat yourself up over feeling bad. Does it make sense that you feel that way? Hell no. But fighting it will only make it worse. Take it for what it is. You're entitled to your emotions. Would you beat yourself up over feeling bad you ate really unhealthy food, or beat yourself up over allowing yourself to eat the bad food in the first place? Maybe a bad analogy, but you're responsible for your actions but hav… | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 11:07 PM |
| 3 | How to pick up chicks on instagram?My buddy met his (hot) wife thru Instagram... He's not particularly attractive (short,skinny) but he takes great photos, has tattoos, dresses well, etc. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Bad reputation at school, known as a weird kid and basically am wondering what the hell I should doWanting a girlfriend this bad will probably kill your chances of getting one. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 01:03 PM |
| 1 | not sure if coincidence or whatCan I ask what area of the country you live in? | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How to Keep a Conversation Going With a Girl | 5 Easy TipsMy problem is I'm constantly in my own head, irrelevant to if I've managed to take my filter off. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 02:52 AM |
| 12 | (Success story) Advice for newbies/virgins who strike out a lotI always try to learn game stuff that is self improvement first in the expectation that sex is basically just like a good hamburger or something. Regardless can you share a bit how you escalated from IG to meeting up? | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | I didn't used to believe in "inner game" now i'm completely soldReminds me of the whole congruence lesson thats taught in the community. Your true feelings show all the time. It's much better to actually improve yourself. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | I didn't used to believe in "inner game" now i'm completely soldIts such a critical necessity. Why the hell it isn't more common (outside of PU) is actually super fucking dumb, but at least its a way to get ahead of the crowd now... Im always jealous that some people can have such solid inner game/confidence/esteem without ever even needing to focus on it. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Give No Fucks Motivation To Smash Anxiety This Weekendhttps://youtu.be/ZxN4iJ8Rhdc?t=1519 this may not make since without watching the context around it, but what Julien says here has really spoken to me lately (and im really not a fan of 90% of his stuff) | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Give No Fucks Motivation To Smash Anxiety This WeekendAlso side note, but its always irked me about the sayings "no one is really thinking about you". Not true at all, people constantly gossip and talk trash. Its actually really sad. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 11:58 PM |
| 2 | 10 Simple Exercises To Build Rock-Solid Self-Belief & CharismaIve only really listened to RSD and Mark Manson but I've never gotten the impression of always needing to succeed. Rather to not be afraid of failure. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Had a fun conversation with a gorgeous girl at the gym unintentionallyThis is sound advice. Doing this and gauging a response is a very viable method for meeting girls (and people). Is there a reason this one stuck out to you since your outgoing? Or did you just want to mention it? Sidenote: Is everyone elses gym like 1 girl to 10 guys? Been this way for every gym Ive been to. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Give No Fucks Motivation To Smash Anxiety This WeekendI heard a bastardized quote of something Mark Manson said, but in a way I actually like more. "Anxiety stems from our unwillingness to be vulnerable." Really has been helping me lately. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Never Give Up.It definitely comes but not as strong. You also get better and smarter about dealing with it | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 01:01 AM |
| 1 | What do you think are the worst YouTube channels for advice?Yeah those are my preferred kind, the "inner game" I guess. | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Tired of failing with women as a 21 year old virgin. How to change this and stop feeling down?Work out and stop being needy. It will be hard but I can guarantee you if you're needy you will repel people and feel like shit at any rejection. | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 02:41 AM |
| 2 | How can I speak clearer?Maybe watch RSD stuff on social momentum. Even talking out loud in a grocery store can do wonders for your mood/confidence. | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Girls that look at you after rejecting/flakingI got rejected by a girl and we talked even more after that. Sometimes I think she wanted to cheat with me but I may be I'm just trying to boost my ego lol. | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 02:30 AM |
| 84 | Never Give Up.I always think I'm in a rut and there's no fix. Then I remember I thought the same thing 5 years ago. And I've definitely came very far. Experience is a hell of a teacher. | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 02:28 AM |
| 2 | These guys made a 12h Tinder vs. Daygame challenge [Documentary]??? | /r/seduction | 26/02/19 03:01 AM |
| 8 | How big is pornography/masturbation impacting my desire and ability to converse with women?Probably a lot. Not in any deep or complicated way, but when you can jerk off vs. going out, spending money, putting yourself out there, rejection, etc. Which do you think is easier. If option 1 was gone, option 2 would not be as avoided | /r/seduction | 26/02/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Dating is a fucking joke when you are a short guy in collegeMy college crush fucked a 5 5 guy at a college party like her 2nd fuck ever. It's all in your head. Also wear a hat | /r/seduction | 26/02/19 02:00 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.Fake will annoy people for sure, it will show through and be annoying. I'm on mobile and don't want to type a paragraph rn | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Would you guys agree that flirting is just letting the interest you naturally have in a girl show through?So you agree with my approach to it, just not that that's what most people mean when they say flirting? | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Best way to get casual sex?Uh that's the point. It gets the point across without being crude or blatant which girls hate | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Why am i so drained from meeting people?I hate this being a catch all excuse. Most times it's probably lacking social skills and confidence issues. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Why am i so drained from meeting people?You're not being the real you which is exhausting. Are you afraid to be your real self? Do you find yourself constantly altering and filtering yourself so others will like you? | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.Also lift. Great confidence booster and place to meet people. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 06:43 PM |
| 10 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.You're an idiot and an asshole. Yes college is the easiest place but it's also the best to learn. Social skills aren't developed for everyone at a young age and you think you could completely supplement that with a few articles or something? Social skills are probably the most in depth skill humans learn. Try learning math when you're on 2 hrs of sleep. That's probably the equivalent of learning social skills with anxiety. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 06:39 PM |
| 59 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.One of the greatest tips I've gotten and I hope it's not too vague "You dont make friends, you give yourself as a friend" Whens the last time you asked someone how their class assignment went? or if they look tired ask if they had a crappy work night? I like to think I'm fairly good looking and the only women I've had "approach" me are women I've had in classes where i talk to everyone but also them a time or two. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Problem with womenNo no no. Just no. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 06:30 PM |
| 8 | Problem with womenIs English not your first language? If it is your writing is extremely poor | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | How can a girl get game?Honestly? Workout+ fake tan+ good skin. Majority of girls can become an 8 with work and being that attractive will get you invited to parties, approached,etc. I knew very shy girls who were pretty constantly invited to parties. This is just one route. Actual skills will help greatly too. | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Tired of being a failure with women; especially being at college right now.Models won't change your life. It will give you a healthy and realistic approach you need to work on changing your life. | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Kissless virgin 20 y.o Asian maleYou need to work on social skills. They are called skills for a reason and are built like any other skill. Reading, watching but most importantly practicing are required to learn how to be extroverted. I recommend the book models to get you started. and some RSD. Every thing else is kind of trash to a beginner. Watch sb party scene on YouTube. Some short Asian dude goes around making out with hot chicks in bikinis because he knows what to do. Also imo watch Nelk and thatwasepic. They show the fu… | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 02:45 PM |
| 3 | #1 — The 100 Girl’s Number ChallengeI am a firm believer that most people do not need to add skills to become socially successful, but need to remove barriers and filters. Perhaps a bit semantic, and far from an original thought, but this mantra helps me get my mind straight. | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Any good YouTube channels or videos that would be digestible in audio only?Thanks any others come to mind? | /r/seduction | 29/10/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Any good YouTube channels or videos that would be digestible in audio only?Thanks | /r/seduction | 29/10/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate in a small class?Make friendly conversation inside class. Ask her outside of class tho, not in front of a lot of people. Also being rejected is only a big deal if you make it one. I got turned down by a very attractive girl in one class and we ended up being kind of friends and she was always pleasant to talk to afterwards. | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Talking to girls in my areaThe fact this bothers you in the first place is an underlying issue. Youre confidence is low. I may sound unhelpful here, but it may be fruitful for you to target it first. Personally I don't really mind if someone was talking about me having courage to do something most guys wouldn't and trying to make myself better. Something is incredibly manly about courage IMO. Remember courage isn't not having fear, it's acting despite fear. Try watching that was epic on YouTube. He shows you can say the m… | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | 21 year old kissless Virgin, idk how to change this.Conversational skills will come to you with practice! It will take a lot of time my man, just like any other skill. You may have to overcome anxiety as well. Personally I do the following to improve Watch funny YouTube videos where they will go up and say random funny shit. It shows that people can enjoy conversation in a lot of situations. Read subreddits for like 30 mins a day. Things like r/datingadvice or fashion or grooming subs. Honestly I made an instagram and followed hundreds of hot ran… | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How to react when she brings up sexual topics?She wants to talk about these things with you. She's very interested sexually in you. There is no points in playing it cool. Yes you don't want to be desperate, but ATM she is extending an offer and you are declining it, either appearing uninterested, dense, or just not manly. | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | how can I ascend being a 23 y/o virgin?There is absolutely shit you need to work on prior IMO. Desperation will show through. Even if it didn't, any rejection will likely crush your spirits. Personally I think if you can't have fun getting rejected you're not really ready. It's a catch 22 I know. And it's hard to break but it's true dude. There is absolutely nothing wrong with therapy. You have the right mindset in this regard, in that there are specific things you need to do to change. It will never be as simple as willing your mind… | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 02:11 AM |
| 2 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?Two super hot girls from my small college used tinder. Whether it was for attention or what i don't know. One was kinda shy tho. | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How to show that youre attarcted to a girl during the date?Is there a reason to do the follow up so quickly? Is it just expected or is the girl actively worrying about how the date went or what? | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 02:02 AM |
| 1 | The 3 Most Common Dating Mistakes Guys Make - as told by a WomanExplain | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 05:33 AM |
| 1 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.What do you mean practical stuff? Just practicing or? | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 08:09 PM |
| 2 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.as long as they go out That alone is an issue for plenty | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.How'd you change it around so well? | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 06:14 PM |
| 2 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.You definitely missed out on key times but there's plenty more to be had. Males peak at like 30 anyways if you put in work | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.How do you know if they are trying to get your attention and not just forced there cause it's crowded? Legit question. I've had girls at raves dance pretty close, but then again everyone is pretty close | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 06:12 PM |
| 2 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.I agree. Making an effort is what matters most if they are attracted to you and you don't royally fuck up | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 06:09 PM |
| 2 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.Yup every one has a type that will be super hot to them even if not conventionally super hot | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 06:09 PM |
| 2 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.I got a buddy who could be a model but is a virgin and has never kissed a girl at 24. He has lots of insecurities, low confidence, self esteem issues, trust issues, socially awkward, etc. He's tall, tan, fit, good face, good hair, etc. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Leaving this here - Fucking amazingMaybe I'm oversimplifying but I don't understand the point of all these "tips" to portray self confidence when one of your first tips is to solve inner issues to actually increase your self confidence. IDK, maybe I'm just not good at faking it. I find self reflection and actively fixing what causes my low confidence works better than faking high confidence | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What type of venue do you have the most success at?Can you explain a bit on how? The ones I've been to are so loud from open to close | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Lost my virginity when I was 16 - I've slept with 22 different girls now, and I'm 18 yrs old. Here's my most honest guide on how I've done it.Share details? | /r/seduction | 28/07/18 01:24 AM |
| 1 | 7 'Trigger Words' That Tinder Girls Can't Help But Reply ToGood idea! | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Cold approached for the first time in a while today.Nice dude! | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 12:58 AM |
| 2 | How to NOT Be Creepy With Girls | 7 Things You MUST AvoidEven if that is true, it could also be said women that into you would fuck you anyways, and the women who were on the fence could find that to be too crass. Just an idea | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaches at the gym?You do you, I just think some may share my sentiment. But then again some won't! | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaches at the gym?Asking a girl to spot may seem like a cheesy attempt to flirt unless she's the only person available IMO. Also maybe I'm self conscious but asking her to film you seems conceded. I've thought the same of all the people who've asked me to film them. | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 03:25 AM |
| 1 | How to snapchat girls?How do you hit them up on instagram? How good are your pictures too? | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 03:12 AM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl smiles + stares while walking past you ? (19 M )Babe sounds so gross, but maybe cause I know a guy I hated who always used it | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 03:01 AM |
| 2 | What to do when a girl smiles + stares while walking past you ? (19 M )Saying hi works good if she responds bubbly ask her her name | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 03:00 AM |
| 1 | She confirmed so much of the advice repeated here.Any write ups on this "universal" order ? not to sound argumentative just curious. | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 11:42 PM |
| 2 | How to talk to anybody (mindset)I really hate how using the word introverted has become an excuse for being socially inept lately | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 04:13 AM |
| 26 | How to talk to anybody (mindset)IMO the problem here is those people naturally enjoy being that way and they get passive practice and benefits from it. If you were to try it, it would become too exhausting and ineffective for the amount of effort. Just because you want that cute girl doesn't mean you want to be the life of the party and everyone's friend. Here is where being direct and purposeful comes into play. My 2c | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 12:22 AM |
| 8 | I recently re-read "Models" by Mark Manson and took detailed notes. I have compiled a study guide to help anyone else who wants to quickly review the book.Getting an attractive man as a average looking girl for other than a 1ns could be hard... | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Average looking thin guy - Tinder. Good idea?/r/gainit /r/brogress /r/fitness /r/bodybuilding /r/bodyweightfitness You can do it man. I used to be so skinny people were worried I was sick now I got a body I love. | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Critique my opening.Hmm makes sense👌 | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Average looking thin guy - Tinder. Good idea?Why cant you build muscle? | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Critique my opening.Too much talking. Also idk if you weren't being yourself but your well meant comment sounds kinda off putting. That's something you really need to have a feel for. It's a hard line to walk, between having banter and this. | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Critique my opening.Do they not match you solely because your good looking? | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 06:06 AM |
| 0 | Why do guys feel "disrespected"?Personally I think your guy is insecure or gets too jealous. | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 03:06 AM |
| 4 | How Nerds See Girls Hotness.Not funny | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Did anybody actually get from zero to an adequate pua? Can you tell your story?Have you read many other books? Would that book be your number 1 recommendation? | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | 4 Lessons I've Learned From Approaching Thousands Of WomenHow much is much earlier? If your looking for LTR is sex still expected to be tried for by the man by the 2nd date? For NSA should there be no dates? Etc. College age if it matters. | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Finally realised a big mistake i made.How uninterested did you act? I took a girl on a date and flirted with her daily and she still said I acted uninterested... Maybr she just had different levels of attention needs idk... Or maybe she wanted to fuck the second date. Dunno. | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Finally realised a big mistake i made.Ugh this so much. It seems like so much about girl advice is not giving them what they want but then they just go for guy #2 who will in a heartbeat. | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 07:16 PM |
| 4 | 18 Year's Old First F/R and Journey Through SeductionOf course there are ways you can improve but you did a good job. You were witty and confident. | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again.Thanks dude. I literally have this shit written down but it always helps to read it in a new situation. | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 03:18 AM |
| 7 | I have every quality a guy that fucks has but I don’t fuckSmall, frequent, but escalating goals are a good idea. Start with a conversation with a stranger. Then complement another girl. Etc. | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | I did my first cold approach!!!Christ. But other other guys are right. You'll be a beast in no time | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 09:02 PM |
| 2 | I know posts like these are seen frequently, but I approached someone today!No. It's not. It's very attractive in my opinion as it shows someone is a go getter. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Hardcore Social AnxietyUltimately just time, exposure, self reflection. I could give more concrete examples but in a nutshell try baby steps but try them often. It gives the experience that we as humans need to learn from. Do anything you find uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Hardcore Social AnxietyThis used to be me. You can do it buddy 🙂 | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Have any of you dealt with just flat-out weird girls?Is it really that weird of her for her to State she's not looking for a boyfriend? If anything I think that would be appreciated buy a lot of people for being so direct so early | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 02:10 PM |
| 8 | Today I finally did it!I really wonder if some girls are just adamant about not giving off clues or if guys are just dumber than we think | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 10:40 PM |
| 3 | How Enjoyable Are You to Be Around?Dude I'm saving this | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 03:42 AM |
| 1 | I keep deleting tinder concluding that it's a waste of time for a guy, I come across some "top 5 tinder hacks for guys" post, re-download it, try out the tips and get the exact same results, the cycle repeats...What exactly do you do on instagram | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Hard time finding someone I am really attracted toLow libido? When my libido is low I dismiss women on trivisl things. When my libido is high I'll take anyone in a healthy weight range... | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | I made my first approach of my life today.Being friendly and trying to improve other people's day can go a long way in people enjoying your company | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Considering avoiding sex my whole life. What to do?Regret will outweigh the pain of failure. Failure isn't as bad as you think dude. | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 04:22 AM |
| 1 | If a girl never texts first or initiates a hangout, despite me doing both of those multiple times so far, is it worth asking out or is that basically a no?Maybe. I'm moving in 3 weeks anyways tho | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | If a girl never texts first or initiates a hangout, despite me doing both of those multiple times so far, is it worth asking out or is that basically a no?So it'd not be a mistake to invite her to what we usually do and escalate from there? We talk about alcohol a bit and I was thinking about inviting her over for a drink or something? | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | If a girl never texts first or initiates a hangout, despite me doing both of those multiple times so far, is it worth asking out or is that basically a no?No.at least not yet I hope | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 11:12 AM |
| 3 | If a girl never texts first or initiates a hangout, despite me doing both of those multiple times so far, is it worth asking out or is that basically a no?She's super christian and always mentions other guys not taking hints of no. But then I mention she gives off the vibe of not being interested and she asks why in a very curious manner. And mentions she always expects guys to initiate everything. But then goes back to guys not taking hints of no Any thoughts on that | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 04:18 AM |
| 1 | If a girl never texts first or initiates a hangout, despite me doing both of those multiple times so far, is it worth asking out or is that basically a no?Yeah I hit her up less than once a week but it's just been going on for months I guess | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 03:48 AM |
| 2 | If a girl never texts first or initiates a hangout, despite me doing both of those multiple times so far, is it worth asking out or is that basically a no?No she always responds quickly and enthusiastically... But never first Also we hang out every once in a while but like I said I've had to initiate every one | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 03:44 AM |
| 2 | LiftI mean youre claiming stats that were significantly better than ronnie claimed. You act like your some kid superior to anyone on the internet yet youre here throwing autism around lmao. And as if subscribing to video game subreddits somehow makes me a worse bodybuilder? l Because i play videogames I "dont know whats good" who says that lol get real edit: he was 215 pounds here http://www.ambal.ru/95206553755.jpg assuming hes 6% bodyfat, 12% would place him at 227 lbs... Youre taller but still im… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 03:48 AM |
| 2 | LiftSorry but, believe it or not, I am not going to believe a random redditor is bigger than ronnie coleman when he was still natty lmao. You act like your the first person to lie about roid use... Statistically I would have to be a moron to believe you. If you are go compete and prove me wrong and be the next Mr. Olympia. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Lift220 lbs lean first year of training LMAO ur fucking delusional. God I hope this is sarcasm | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | LiftWhat were your t levels before trt mines 350 at 21 years old | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Lift1000 club is easy, being 220 at 10% screams juice | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/18 05:44 PM |
| 2 | LiftSorry but i don't believe your 220 and 10 percent whole being natty... That's like 15 less lbs than Arnold stage weight Also in only 4 years of lifting? OK lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Billy the Beta orbiter.Be his friend. Be his wakeup call | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/18 05:39 PM |
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