0x474f44 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. If you aren’t planning on having children you aren’t planning on ever wanting a maternity test.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 06:37 AM
–	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. I think the chances of the guy telling his girl that he would want a paternity test even though they aren’t even planning on having children is about as high as the girl telling her guy that she would think requiring a paternity test is a dealbreaker even though they aren’t even trying to have a child. Both just aren’t conversations people have. It’s planning details of a scenario neither party is even considering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 06:17 AM
–	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. It literally changes everything. You can perfectly trust your partner and not want a paternity test until she gets pregnant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 06:13 AM
–	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Did you read the last sentence of my comment? Seems like you didn’t	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 06:09 AM
–	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. “Hey, I know we aren’t planning on having children right now but if you accidentally get pregnant I would definitely want a paternity test” There is literally no world in which that statement would ever be said. It would lead to instant breakup and do so for no reason. If you’re using condoms getting pregnant might be causing the suspicion of cheating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 06:02 AM
3	Why are western women so hateful toward men? They are different but similar enough. You could technically hate someone you associate positive attributes with but in reality if you think positively of someone, you are unlikely to hate them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 01:32 PM
3	Why are western women so hateful toward men? Ok. First you didn’t open the link. Now you don’t bother reading it but have an opinion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 11:09 AM
1	Why are western women so hateful toward men? I linked a Wikipedia page, not a study	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 10:51 AM
8	Why are western women so hateful toward men? They aren’t	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 06:39 AM
–	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem What a sexist comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 06:00 AM
1	If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates. It’s pretty common in multiple European countries for the first couple of dates being walks in the park or grabbing a coffee together. Most women here are fine with this. Has nothing to do with being “super cheap”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 09:36 PM
1	If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates. So the US is a backwards society in many ways. Among other things gender roles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 09:26 PM
1	If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates. Men shouldn’t be paying for first dates. It should be split. We don’t live in the 1950s anymore - women are allowed to work and earn money today as well. This is a sexist tradition that should die out. Luckily it has already decreased a lot in Europe. From what I’ve heard it’s still entirely expected in the US though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 06:20 AM
-1	Many dont refuse OLD Points not because its "something different" they refuse it becouse its shows the unfiltered truth I thought it was more couples meeting through dating apps but what I do know for sure is that it’s the most common single way couples meet nowadays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 03:03 PM
–	Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive? Most men wouldn’t call women over 25 rotten old raisins and would probably admit that 17 year olds can look good. Also I would say that everyone, including men, are in their physical prime when they’re around 25.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 10:04 AM
–	Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive? I feel like it’s mostly women and blue pillers who claim men shouldn’t find mature looking 17 year olds attractive. What’s unattractive about such young women isn’t their looks, it’s their character and mental maturity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 09:58 AM
17	CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men. Damn, some of the comments here are atrocious. I am not happy with some of OP’s phrasing and I don’t know enough about laws in other countries to make the claim that there are no laws that discriminate against women but I know for a fact that where I live, in Germany, there are laws that negatively discriminate against men and I don’t know of any that negatively discriminate against women. Example: § 183 StGB	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 10:58 PM
3	CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men. You are incorrect. Germany has a couple of laws that actively discriminate against men - including the constitution itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 10:54 PM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? There are tons of people on Reddit who think wanting a partner with a low body count automatically makes them insecure. That is also offensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 11:25 AM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? What do you mean with that question? I wouldn’t date someone with a high body count, partly because I know the statistics about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 09:53 AM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? You’re in debate subreddit. Expect people to know some statistics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 09:37 AM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? Look at the subreddit you’re in right now	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 09:28 AM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? Doesn’t have to be insecurity, sex negativity or misogyny. There is a clear and proven correlation between higher body counted and negative relationship outcomes. Sources. Anyone who doesn’t understand why some might not be ok with higher body counts simply has to replace higher body count with higher marriage count and reevaluate their position from that standpoint.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 09:10 AM
7	They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married. Someone else has already pointed out what diminishing means: earning 100k for someone who only makes 30k is life changing, while for someone who makes many millions another 100k matters significantly less. This is what I was thought at university, although I never really looked into the studies. Intuitively it makes sense though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 06:27 AM
6	They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married. Money has diminishing happiness returns	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 09:38 PM
–	Dating is insanely inequal and unfair for men, yet no one’s adressing it even though it affects fundamental human Government mandated girlfriends for everyone /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 07:00 AM
1	Tinder and Instagram have the same results as Porn Porn, Instagram and Tinder are distorting the views of both men and women	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 06:30 AM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? men bending the rules per usual Pretty sexist statement	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 05:21 PM
0	Quick reference guide to debunking myths spread by the manosphere One cant claim that men cheat more often than women and then only consider physical cheating. Women are more likely to cheat emotionally and this has to be considered as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 07:00 AM
3	We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates. If you have 1 young person and 9 old people, how will a system “not designed around endless growth” make social systems possible?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 06:40 AM
1	If a vast majority of men got laid easily, the United States would be a quasi socialist country right now What makes you think that is the case? Last stat I saw said that 1 in 3 young men don’t have sex. 1/3 isn’t “most men” and the stat was about young men specifically. Also, are you sure you aren’t red-pill?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 08:30 AM
3	If a vast majority of men got laid easily, the United States would be a quasi socialist country right now You just countered only the last point. What about the others?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 05:13 AM
3	If a vast majority of men got laid easily, the United States would be a quasi socialist country right now No country in Europe is quasi socialist… Many are social democracies though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 05:10 AM
1	If a vast majority of men got laid easily, the United States would be a quasi socialist country right now So your claim is that most men are incels? Could you link any objective sources you have?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 05:09 AM
1	Thoughts on the “Tea” app? I don’t think Apple checks the legality of apps. The company that puts them online is responsible for that. And given how little the developer knew about IT security, I doubt they know much about data privacy laws.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 01:10 PM
5	Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratio I love the OkCupid dataset. It would be great to see other dating apps release similar ones. I also don’t remember the women messaging guys they rated below average. If I remember correctly it was very rare for women to message men first in general and if they did, it was with men that got a lot of matches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/25 05:42 AM
1	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? Did it make a difference?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 06:54 AM
3	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? How good/bad of a lover was the guy with a micropenis?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 06:27 AM
1	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? Can I ask, were you in a relationship with these men or were these one night stands? Because from what I’ve read this makes a big difference regarding how much men care about getting the woman off	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 06:25 AM
1	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? Can I ask, were you in a relationship with these men or were these one night stands? Because from what I’ve read this makes a big difference regarding how much men care about getting the woman off	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 06:24 AM
1	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? Can I ask, were you in a relationship with these men or were these one night stands? Because from what I’ve read this makes a big difference regarding how much men care about getting the woman off	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 06:24 AM
2	Men need to stop chasing women. Can you give me one piece of evidence to even suggest it is true other than most necrophiles being male though? Necrophilia is extremely rare so for the vast majority of places it has never been a problem. You also can’t just make a claim and then say that you don’t have to provide proof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 06:57 AM
4	Men need to stop chasing women. I gotta agree with the other comments: I have seen zero evidence to suggest that female morticians are highly sought after. From what I’ve seen this is likely a rumor started by a viral tweet. Also please refrain from making sexist generalized statements about men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 06:15 AM
15	Men need to stop chasing women. First of all it’s on the provider of a claim to back it up. Second of all, necrophilia is incredibly rare. I think this rumor is a lot more likely to be based on that one tweet that went viral a couple of years ago rather than actual data.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 06:10 AM
18	Men need to stop chasing women. Did you read the source you posted? “Even so, necrophilia is an incredibly rare disorder with very few cases reported worldwide.[4] Therefore, the theory that women are primarily hired as morticians because of necrophilia is all speculation. In other words, a rumor.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 06:08 AM
93	Men need to stop chasing women. Some men will have sex with women they are too embarrassed to tell their friends about. So the chances of this happening are basically zero.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 06:15 AM
–	CMV: height boosting products for men are deceptive and a red flag on a first date Do you wear the same make up to dates as you would in your usual day-to-day life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 06:39 AM
–	CMV: height boosting products for men are deceptive and a red flag on a first date Eh, I wouldn’t wear height boosting shoes - it creates false impressions. On the other hand I do get the push-up bra argument others have commented. Maybe both are deceptive and shouldn’t be worn?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 06:38 AM
–	In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for good Where are you getting the idea that IT of all fields will be dominated by women though? I work in IT and I see barely any women working real IT jobs	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 07:06 PM
2	“Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heard The way I have heard the analogy is that both men and women are dying of thirst but men are in a desert and women on the ocean	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 10:38 PM
1	Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egos Nah. Inflated dating standards will eventually come down again by themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 06:03 AM
1	"men need a relationship more then women" is one of the biggest bullshits said by women It’s not just women saying that men need relationships more than them. It’s everyone. Men don’t have the same emotional support from their friend groups. Men have significantly less opportunities to not be judged for being vulnerable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 06:16 AM
–	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. If you have a micro-penis it might still be a deal-breaker but if you’re just a little smaller than average I doubt most women would break up with you	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 05:27 AM
4	Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships. Just make paternity tests mandatory at birth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 11:50 AM
1	Dating Apps Will Never "Fix" Themselves—They’re Built to Make Sure Men Struggle The current dating apps will have to change in order to continue existing. Last I heard all the big ones had decreasing user numbers and revenue. Also, from an anecdotal point of view, most people i know around my age have tried at least one dating app but basically none use them anymore. When the main function of a product doesn’t work, customers typically notice. Eventually better solutions will come around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 12:34 AM
–	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. most men Delusional	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 07:55 AM
4	The female orgasm is a myth He did not insinuate that his wife is never wet. He stated that if a woman gets so wet, she needs a bucket and a mop to take care of it, she likely has a bacterial infection. He purposely ignored that the lyrics is an exaggeration. <image> I don’t like Shapiro but I also hate circlejerks on Reddit. Purposely misunderstanding him is not much better than him purposely misunderstanding the song.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 09:23 AM
–	Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides. Is your mom only with your dad because of what he provides?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/25 02:02 PM
1	Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics Yeah but they’re still working less and caring about children and the housework a lot more than men	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 11:52 AM
4	Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics They get reimbursed because they likely put more effort into child/house caring, making them less attractive on the job market	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 09:06 AM
6	How true is the myth that conservative women cheat less than their liberal counterparts ? High body count DOES correlate with likelihood of cheating and I would assume liberal women to have a higher body count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 03:38 PM
6	Why are you a red piller ? Do you think this is a subreddit for dating advice? What makes you think the people here suck at dating? It’s a debate subreddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 09:36 PM
7	Why are you a red piller ? Are you new to this sub? Blue pill does exist and is absolutely not just “everyone who isn’t red pill”	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 09:30 PM
5	Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you? No, I would legitimately feel flattered. I would likely also stop the friendship right there though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 09:08 AM
1	Why do you think women initiate divorce more, and lesbian divorce rates are higher compared to gay divorce rates? Are you saying you have scientific sources backing your claim up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 11:01 AM
13	Why do you think women initiate divorce more, and lesbian divorce rates are higher compared to gay divorce rates? I’m a guy and I’ve never heard of any of my male friends getting negative feedback to breaking up	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 07:15 AM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. Women are often raised to be people-pleaser and risk having men react violently to rejection. Because of this they sometimes don’t directly say no but try to show that they don’t want it through other ways. When a woman makes it very obvious that she doesn’t wanna do something but doesn’t explicitly say no, men should still get the hint and act accordingly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 05:51 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. Men should learn about enthusiastic consent and women should learn to say no	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 11:53 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Europeans are way less height obsessed. Although height plays a much larger role on dating apps than IRL dating even in the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:48 AM
1	Do you think a younger woman is entitled to leave an older man she's been dating after he's spent? If you think it is a useless piece of paper, you don’t have to get married. Where I live marriage still has a lot of impact. The way you pay taxes changes, everything you earn you now earn as a couple, usually the couple starts having the same last name, most couples have a big & expensive party etc. Similarly getting a divorce here is also very impactful. The couple, which was treated as one for a long time, has to be split into two again. It’s a process that takes 6-12 months here. I assume it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 06:50 AM
1	Do you think a younger woman is entitled to leave an older man she's been dating after he's spent? You want to force people to stay in marriages they no longer want to be in?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 08:49 PM
10	Do you think a younger woman is entitled to leave an older man she's been dating after he's spent? why women support no-fault divorce so much Isn’t everyone supporting no-fault divorce?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 09:15 AM
1	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? Have you ever had someone physically fight for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 06:34 AM
15	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies If it can go either way, why would you risk it when you don’t know the other person well yet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 01:19 PM
19	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies For a coffee date? Yeah I stand by what I said. It can absolutely come off as too much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:40 PM
28	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies Most dates nowadays are from online dating and first dates therefore typically involve first getting to know somebody. Bringing a bouquet of flowers is going to be “too much” for most of these first dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 06:37 AM
3	Calling men incels as a common insult is unproductive. Also Elon Musk has Asperger’s so she is making fun of a disability	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 05:58 PM
–	The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masse The 4B movement has like 4000 members in South Korea. I have no idea why I’ve been reading so much about them on Reddit lately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 08:57 AM
–	Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarray women only sleep with a small minority of men This is simply not true. Lots of men are in relationships and having sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 10:03 AM
2	Most women don't even need to go through a "hoe phase" for the 80/20 dynamic to happen JD Vance is Trump’s running mate	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 01:24 PM
1	Are men not also hypergamous? I am not sure I understand your question. Hypergamy itself is the practice of “marrying up”. Men can and do practice hypergamy - it’s just a lot more common for women. The Wikipedia article actually states that hypergamy can also refer to sexual capital, in which case men would be practicing hypergamy just as much as women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 06:08 PM
6	Men NEED sex. The use of prostitution should be normalized, legalized, and recommended for struggling men. As a heads up, in Germany prostitution is legalized and regulated but we still have the problem that a lot of women are extorted into it. It’s a very tough market to control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 05:45 AM
0	What kind of standards do you think are reasonable and which ones are not? if a given standard will skew a relationship heavily in your favor … it’s unreasonable What does that mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 08:34 AM
0	This sub is helping me not take shit I’m not saying that it’s a good way to pickup women, it quite obviously isn’t but I still don’t think it would justify being insulted.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/19 06:20 AM
2	This sub is helping me not take shit While that makes perfect sense to me, I’ve seen women on tinder have similar things in their bios and while I hope starting a conversation that way is not an effective way of picking up women, I don’t see how it would justify being insulted? He makes it clear he is only looking for a casual hookup, phrases it quite bluntly but what’s so wrong about it?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/19 08:20 PM