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| 1 | [FR] (1st Field Report) One Man’s Maiden Voyage on Picking Up Women – From K-Close to Stood-Up.I think your interaction was fine through setting up the date. I wouldn't have texted on Sunday, called on Monday, or re-scheduled on Monday. Once you already got a date setup for Monday, you didn't need to text or call her, except a confirmation text on Monday. Given your communication pattern, imagine how clingy you'll be when you're even more emotionally invested. People don't really talk on the phone much any more. The re-scheduling for no reason thing to an earlier time is a bit weird. Chan… | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 02:42 AM |
| 1 | I've been doing this for a decade with almost no success. I have a fresh start in a new town and need serious help.In another reply, you wrote that you do get second meetings. Between that and your examples, I feel like your initial approach is good. Sadly, I think you may need to find someone that you can get into deeper specifics with, like exact conversations and so on. I still think you may be doing something sub-optimally and it may be obvious, but it's just not obvious from your posts. Personally, I typically only use texting initially to setup logistics for an in-person meeting. I'd much rather escala… | /r/seduction | 18/06/13 09:00 AM |
| 1 | I've been doing this for a decade with almost no success. I have a fresh start in a new town and need serious help.Where are you meeting women? How many day 2s? Can you give an example of interaction(s) you think went well but didn't end up going anywhere? | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Bar Tenders shit testsI think you might be trolling. She indicated possible interest and you gave her a weird rejection. | /r/seduction | 06/06/13 10:00 PM |
| 1 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itKeep making it clear you want more than friendship, but are you in the habit of eliciting values and connecting on those? I'm decent at going up to girls and getting a good conversation with lots of laughing, injokes, etc. but someone once pointed out to me that if you don't form a connection, she'll wonder why you like her... | /r/seduction | 06/06/13 07:33 AM |
| 1 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itWhat do guys do that make you think you're being treated as a sex object? I'm just curious if there are subtle things guys are doing beyond anything super obvious. For example, you implied late dates seem like a booty call, which may not be intentional. I'm also curious how big of a factor the logistical points you bring up are versus say increasing or decreasing a guy's attractiveness (overall not purely physical) on a 10-point scale? In other words, let's say the guy has set up an earlier inte… | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 12:52 PM |
| 2 | I'm assuming I messed this up beyond repair?I'm so confused by this conversation. I'm not sure why she's upset. You seem to be inconsistent and lacking in confidence. Like, you wanted to talk about car pictures apparently yet you've spent zero time talking about them. I don't know if it's definitely for sure beyond repair, but you've dug yourself a deep enough hole that it probably isn't worth the effort. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 10:24 AM |
| 1 | I consider myself a rational, humble, down-to-earth, realistic man. How do I get delusional confidence?How is this holding you back? What sticking points do you have? I feel like you can see yourself as laid back and modest internally and still come across as a fun and confident guy. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Ok Cupid GameThe image it portrays is you actually know what you're doing. For most girls, once they send two messages they're already indicating interest, so it's not going to be too pushy. Many girls don't want to become too invested in online messaging because the chemistry can be completely different once people meet in real life. You can even say something to that effect. | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 09:11 PM |
| 6 | I think I've read too many articles - I don't know how to be myself anymoreIf you don't follow the advice, it doesn't mean you can't get a girl. However, there are personality traits that are considered universally attractive. For example, a fun outgoing person that other people like is going to be attractive to most women. By showing others you posses these traits, you maximize your chances. I'm not sure you understand the underlying reasons behind the advice. You're basically faking these traits rather than having them. If you're a fun and outgoing guy with lots of f… | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Need advice with a shy girlI take it you're just running into her in passing? I think you need to setup another date, probably one where you don't have to talk much, and then actually kiss her this time. | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Need advice with a shy girlHolding eye contact can be a bit intense, so I wouldn't take her looking away as a negative cue. Playing with her hair doesn't mean she for sure wants to kiss you. Ending up at her place watching TV is a much bigger indicator. I feel like you're trying to go through this checklist sweating all the small details and missing the very obvious stuff. For watching TV, I often find it much easier to transition into a cuddling position and then move in for the kiss. What are you two doing when you meet… | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 02:41 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent to the alpha male? As a woman in the dating world, I would like to know what I can do, besides looking attractive, that will up my game.In Season 2 of Fringe, the characters travel to another dimension with alternate versions of themselves. One of the characters is named Olivia. If you read forum posts by fans of the show, many refer to the Olivia in the alternate universe as Hotlivia. Same actress but why is one hotter than the other? Maybe if you watched Fringe (it's a good show), you will have some possible answers. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you not take rejection personally?Instead of sending a text that has no chance, send something like, "Hey I'm going to grab a drink at <bar> on <date+time>. Feel free to join me." Assuming you haven't already blown up her phone with texts already. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 10:26 PM |
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