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| 3 | How do you guys get quality photographs of yourself? | 0x652 | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 09:25 AM |
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| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/4/15I am insanely busy right now and it is cutting into my social life. How do you guys stay active gaming when you have to hurry from appointment to appointment with only little time for sports /metime | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Just had the shortest date in my life.Good on you | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 05:23 PM |
| 3 | From Text to Sex: The Ultimate Guide To Texting GirlsFlippant but true answer : the percentage that isn't interested, saving you some wasted time | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 10:24 AM |
| 1 | "I'm gonna go now"o7 | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Plate wanted a relationship. I couldn't provide that at the moment. We broke it off, feel like shit. Help with inner game?No | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 01:26 PM |
| 1 | How can I come off as a sexual person who likes sex without being creepy?had a whoah, that's right moment after the 4th line. Upvote for you | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Hey y'all. Just saw the ex of 4 years and could use some support.If she were the one, it would have worked out. The difference between a compatible partner and an incompatible is that whatever happens, both(!) of you try fixing it. | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 03:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out to do the weekly shop, instead I instadate a blonde beauty and head back to her flat to watch a movie.How did you open? I started to improve in daygame, but I currently feel only comfortable open if I see something interesting. So I still have a limiting belief there. | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 10:05 PM |
| 1 | [Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over herNobody here is going to tell you that you're not a stalker. Even if everything happened exactly as you've recounted it here (which I'm sure you sugar coated), you still sound like a stalker creep. You don't need someone blowing smoke up your ass by saying that you're really a good guy who's being misunderstood. You need someone to tell you the cold hard truth so you can start taking steps to correct your shit. Which is part of why I wrote that PS. I really don't want to be a stalker and that car… | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 07:14 AM |
| 2 | [Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over herAm doing that, never again will I emotionally latch on do tight with a girl | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 06:53 AM |
| 1 | [Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over herThat song is one of the few breakup songs with a healthy mindset. It ended-> obviously not the one, because with the one it works out. Doesn't mean you can not still love her. Just that it is over and you move on to the next love/relationship I believe in love, this one simply did not work out. I will get over this, after sleeping for a night I think it actually gave me closure. Still was a bad idea though | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 06:53 AM |
| 1 | [Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over herHow would you show that you are able to move on by contacting them? | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 10:46 PM |
| -6 | [Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over herExcept for the insults, you are 100% right. Upvote for you | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 10:41 PM |
| 2 | [Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over herThe relationship broke apart because of my inexperience,neediness and anxiety, combined with her own issues, one of them the fact she saw her ex as an fallback plan. She may also have cheated on me with him. Regardless of my personal pain in this situation, I personally don't want any part in cheating. I value trust and despise breaking of it. | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 10:30 PM |
| 2 | [Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over herEdit: just properly read your post. If you are properly over her, have never contacted her and she did not say no contact, then you are right. Preedit: As I said, not really over her, just somewhat. 100% of my contacting her is in the OP. No comment on the batshit insane. | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 04:31 PM |
| 1 | [Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over herDon't have Facebook but cleaned out auto completes etc today | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 04:03 PM |
| 1 | [Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over herSecond that thing about idle time. | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 03:55 PM |
| 1 | [Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over herI would deny your distinction . No, don't get over her then contact. Do. Not. Contact. Without. Her. Contacting. You. Period. I was/am somewhat over her. I really just wanted to hear her perspective and hear how she is doing, with some remnant hope of maybe restoring friendship/relationship. I am of course bummed out about her not sharing the sentiment ( and especially the stalker/feeling threatened bit ) but I did not break down, I am not terminally sad and I made the best impression I could (a… | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 03:55 PM |
| 2 | [Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over herListen to this guy. For me it was sort of a last ditch effort just because it ended so ugly, so "fast"...but exactly what you said is what happened. I like my life better than what I had, I will move on, I will at some point be completely over her. I will probably always love her and wish her all the best, but now I feel really tried everything and can allow myself to forget her, even if I won't. Not the one that got away, just not the one | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 03:31 PM |
| 1 | One year after reading 'Models,' life is a lot better, but....Have been trying models since my breakup and am roughly where you are at. Same doubts/fears from time to time. Keep going, keep a diary and record what made you happy every day. Also what made you unhappy. Seek the patterns. Set goals that are not girl related, also set small incremental goals regarding girls/people(I like to make the goals habits, like keep eye contact, talk to a stranger a day). | /r/seduction | 14/08/14 05:46 PM |
| 2 | MINI-[FR]: Hitting on a cute Police Officer who is about to give me a ticket..No, it shows he is aware that this is unusual but does it anyway. And tweaking the words will not "alpha" anything | /r/seduction | 14/08/14 08:44 AM |
| 1 | You have 1 week, money and freedom. How do you improve your life?If you have AA: Travel to a new city every day, read mark Manson and work on direct approaches in day game while sightseeing and gathering stories/ideas. Don't use Google for finding food places or sights. For an extra challenge don't book hostels in advance, try to find people who will host you. Source: currently doing that. On day 3 1 "hey, but random but I think you are cute, want to chat a bit?" rejection so far, 3 numbers from indirect approaches (when I chickened out) | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 01:21 PM |
| 15 | Why you should just approach.Exactly. I am still getting over my ex, but everytime I approach (happens rarely enough, increasing frequency though) I feel like a god afterwards. Draw satisfaction from pushing the process of improvement forward. That is the best motivation. Also, you might get something out of every interaction. I opened with "hi, I know this is a but random but I just had to talk with you. What are you reading?" yesterday. While either she was not interested or I did not make my intentions clear enough (migh… | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 07:07 AM |
| 2 | What's a smooth way to ask, "Do you have a boyfriend?"Escalate until she stops you. Then stop escalating. I'm new to this as, but AFAIK escalating should be fun | /r/seduction | 21/07/14 06:31 AM |
| 2 | What's so great about Models?At least for me, the biggest hurdle is/was anxiety. Models was the first "guide" that actually told me "it is good to fail, anxiety is good, the most important thing is the process and how you go through it" Now this might sound like endorsing a guru, and it kinda is. The book does not tell you anything groundbreaking, all it does is give you a internally consistent view on seduction that allowed me to stop worrying so much. Instead of feeling like i have to act alpha or be high energy, I just h… | /r/seduction | 17/07/14 09:29 AM |
| 1 | I live in Europe and people in their 20s don't go on dates. What do you do when you get a girl's number?If you set up a date with her in a bar and she flirts with other guys, ask yourself if you want to he with someone like that. If you do, you will have to be able to handle that. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 05:13 PM |
| 1 | How does one project sexuality without coming off creepy/desperate? How do you slowly escalate it?I like the mindset from the second paragraph, but from reading the sidebar, isn't saying things the least favorable way to express sexuality? Also I might just be limited by caring too much about perception, but I am not comfortable saying stuff like "how does your vagina taste" without a LOT of rapport or banter beforehand. My issue is turning that banter sexual. | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 06:32 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about dudes that "fall in love" and get married to the only woman they ever had in their life?Still trying, it gets better. But slowly | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree?: 10 Text Phrases That Will Leave You in the Friend ZoneDisclaimer: haven't gotten laid since a bad breakup. Still healing. That being said: This is not helpful. It adds to anxiety. All of these are fine in moderation *if you built enough attraction previously and aren't thirsty *. Someone on this sub said as a rule of thumb, keep texting to a minimum and don't try to escalate via text. That is basically the same message as yours, but shorter and less anxiety inducing. I like emojis, I like the subtext and ambiguity they impart on text, something you… | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 04:13 AM |
| 3 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."Did this. It happened. | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 05:15 PM |
| 10 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."A thousand times Yes. I had a girl madly in love with me. My first relationship, myself also madly in love. Idealizing her, not calling her on her shit, fear and lack of spine and own life ruined that. She also had her issues, but I put the bulk of the responsibility for ruining what we had on me and my lack of inner game | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 04:38 PM |
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