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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Accidentally mislead my boyfriend? How do I come clean? | DATING ADVICE | 0zamataz__Buckshank | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/18 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Etiquette question-when to send flowers | ADVICE | 0zamataz__Buckshank | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/18 02:52 PM |
| 3 | I need y’all to slap some sense into me. | ADVICE | 0zamataz__Buckshank | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Did I (25) manipulate my boyfriend(28)? What do I do about it? | ADVICE | 0zamataz__Buckshank | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/18 07:47 PM |
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| 1 | I need y’all to slap some sense into me.Thanks for the reply! I’ve looked into the FRG, but it’s hard because a lot of their meetings are on base and I can’t get on since I’m not a dependent yet. I guess I’m just feeling selfish and guilty about that because I know he isn’t getting to spend time with me either and has the stress of working so much. I want to refocus so our time together is positive instead of me feeling a little neglected and mopey. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 04:15 PM |
| 34 | How to get married, have kids or both at 21?This is the worst idea lol please don’t do this or think it will work | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Accidentally mislead my boyfriend? How do I come clean?What if he were to hear from someone else? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How to balance good communication and STFU?Thank you! This is great insight. I definitely don’t want to elevate her more. He doesn’t really even consider her an ex girlfriend. In fact, he heard through mutual friends she was calling herself that and he had a talk with her that they weren’t exclusive before he left town for a few months (during which we started talking). I think she was holding out hope he would come back and pick back up with her and she could win him over, but I came into the picture and got the commitment she wanted bu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How to balance good communication and STFU?If you were the guy in this situation, would the whole topic weird you out or just the fact that I’d be reading a letter? I’m afraid if I wing it, I’ll misword something and come off wrong. Maybe bullet points or is speaking more naturally the best way to go? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How to balance good communication and STFU?He has mentioned he doesn’t use social media nearly as much as he used to. It does bother me that he still likes things his exes and past hookups post, because it feels like it’s him interacting with/validating them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | How to balance good communication and STFU?It does seem a little direct for my style. What would you recommend? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How to balance good communication and STFU?Thank you for this. Reading them side by side makes it really obvious how much emotional word vomit I included that isn’t necessary. He’s said he won’t unfriend or unfollow people on social media and sees it as petty, so I don’t know if asking that would go over well. I’ve unfollowed/unfriended/etc. all exes on my end, but didn’t specifically tell him this. What do you think about that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Gifts/preferences?I got my boyfriend a Yeti cooler with a bunch of decals of his favorite sports teams, fitness brands, and interests (bands, etc.) so he can decorate it if/how he likes. Plus a stocking stuffed with snacks and little random odds and ends (his favorite pens, travel size shower gel because he ALWAYS forgets that) and a stocking for his dog with treats, a new collar, and a new toy. I also got him an ornament of an interest of his because it’s a tradition in my family to give each member one every ye… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/17 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with irrational retroactive jealousy over an old fling who still has feelingsI really can’t answer these questions as I only briefly saw the one text. I don’t think they keep in regular contact, and I really believe that text was certainly unsolicited and probably promoted by a night of drinking on her part. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/17 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with irrational retroactive jealousy over an old fling who still has feelingsI do think I’m fulfilling his needs and he tells me I am. I don’t think he’s actively texting her-I think she reached out and he brushed her off like you said. I obviously could be wrong, but there’s no way to know without looking at his phone and I’m not going to do that. Like you said, his actions and words show I’m the one he wants, but I can’t help but be a little jealous since she’s still interested. It’s not his fault and he is very public about us. You’re right, I should focus this energy… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/17 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Share something cute/sweet your SO has done recently or things that are going well!My boyfriend tells me how good a fit I am for him and how he’s always wanted a partner like me, caring, thoughtful, who makes him feel wanted. He said I awoke something in him that makes him feel dominant and masculine in the best way. He says it’s like everything just feels right with me and that he can’t wait to marry me, even though it’s only been 8 months. So thankful for the advice here as it has changed my life for the better in a huge way! I love being feminine for him and making sure he … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Stop hamstering. At least let your hamster be free range!I needed to read this. Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/17 09:58 PM |
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