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10001110101abcd/r/ExRedPill06/12/16 02:27 PM
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Just being alive accumulates baggage, I’d think only abusive people would mock anyone for having baggage of any kind, no matter what genders or relationships are involved. What I was wondering was why this person said that in reply to what I posted. I’m not exactly denying that I’ve been shitty in the past, I’m posting on exredpill after all
/r/ExRedPill23/09/17 07:29 PM
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I feel that a lot of ex-RPers would be able to relate to that, else there won't be such things as dreads, etc...which is the equivalent of shit testing for men, instead of just leaving the relationship or just like you've said, not going into the relationship in the first place. Yes, and many women too. The thing RPers and the women they claim prove AWALT have in common is that they have had experiences that normalize abusive relationships. Practically every relationship I saw growing up was dys…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/17 12:58 AM
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I've always thought "you've got to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince" to being on the right path. How are you supposed to learn about what's important to you in a relationship if not by experience? As a man, how are you supposed to know whether you're a frog or the prince? Seems like TRP/MGTOW guys have turned out to be the frog that got kissed on the way to the prince enough times in their life that they're not going to let it happen again even if they have to destroy themselves to d…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/17 10:07 PM
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One of the greatest pleasures in life is to love and be loved. All we are ever told is that love is the pinnacle of human experience, but it just doesn't do much to improve life for some of us. Friendship, companionship, sex, yes, those are good. But not capital-L romantic Love. Being loved is, in my subjective experience, equated by women to having full ownership of my thoughts and person, while they abdicate responsibility for their behavior because they have emotions. Loving them brings me on…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/17 08:55 PM
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I was a casual browser and not a follower, I had been reading PUA and red pill stuff for years just because I was drawn to how far outside the box it was. Then when my last relationship (with a financially and emotionally abusive basket case) ended I did some soul searching and realized that I had lowered my standards to what TRP claims all women are like. I never got into any PUA stuff, but I had definitely been infected by the AWALT attitude. This part of TRP normalizes abusive relationships f…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/17 03:13 PM
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Thank you. It's understandable to focus on the parts of RP that affect you the most, that's why we're all here, to share perspectives.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/17 03:49 PM
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Yes. Those type of women absolutely do exist, (and men too), but if you believe AWALT you'll find yourself settling for them instead of demanding better. If you don't think better exists, why look for it?
/r/ExRedPill03/03/17 05:54 PM
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I wouldn't still be with my ex because I wouldn't have gotten with her in the first place if I hadn't redpilled myself into believing all women were freeloading parasites. Since she was one, her actions seemed like something I just had to tolerate if I wanted a woman in my life, and that it was going to be the same with any one of them, so it didn't matter how badly she treated me or how much she lied - they all did. RP skews your view of relationships to one where they are inherently abusive. T…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/17 05:25 PM
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I kind of agree. Discussing any of the "pills" just keeps them in peoples' minds where they don't deserve to be. But, I'm glad a real sub for people that want to shed RP views exists, even though it's currently one of those subs that's more of a resource and repository of links than a discussion board. /r/thebluepill is just a circlejerk, there's no support there. /r/purplepilldebate implies this crap is legitimate enough to be debated in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/16 11:35 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm going to level with you and I'm sorry if this gets hard to read. You know how i said my parents hate each other? That's nothing new. It's been that way as long as I've been alive. As a kid, I felt it, an atmosphere of tension, my dad always about to explode. He thought that if he just kept providing and working that it would all be okay because that's what men do. He drank, he abused me. I wasn't the kind of son he always hoped he'd have. My mom sat by and let…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/16 08:31 PM
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I have always gravitated towards women who are artistic, dreamy, and anti-materialistic. People with that mindset don't usually make a lot of money, because that's not a priority for them. Also, I live in a part of the USA where the gender income gap is even higher than normal. I'm a software developer and I'm not wealthy by any means, but I make a decent living. This fed right into the TRP poisoning. What ended up happening is that this became my self-image, I saw my decent earning potential as…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/16 03:29 PM
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Certainly, but men have to learn about them the hard way if they're not aware of TRP. Women have an entire industry of content creators, publishers, and academics warning them about the bad intentions of men and how to spot them. Men are told "women aren't like that" and are demonized for even thinking it possible, until they're bankrupt, divorced, and with weekend visitation of the kids if they're lucky. Hyperbolic example, but the point stands. TRP is pretty much the only way men can learn to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 11:25 PM
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TRP: the best thing about it is the education on disguised manipulation tactics that women use on partners. This is the kind of stuff men don't get taught inside the mainstream box. Also, it is very valuable for men to decouple their self worth from their partner, which is another black art these days. TBP: If mutual respect is actually there, BP relationships are more fulfilling. The worst part about RP is how it undermines the belief in the existence of respect for men, which results in becomi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 12:28 PM
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Since I responded to OP I'll assume you're aiming this at least partially at me. This subreddit is a support forum where people who have been through the same shit, even self-inflicted shit, come to talk to each other because we understand each other's fuckups in a way that people who haven't made the same mistakes cannot. We don't have to justify ourselves to you or anyone else who isn't a part of this group. That said, support reddits do tend to become wallowing pits and reinforce the problem …
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In some ways I do. I didn't go full rp but I bought into AWALT for a while, including the time I was with my ex. The thing is, there are women out there who fit the AWALT profile, who are just out to use men and who are congenial and pathological liars. My ex was one of them. Instead of calling these things deal breakers and running screaming, I accepted them because "all women are like that." I realized that she was a liar very early in our relationship, less than a year in. I'm still uncoverin…
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