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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend.	Discussion	100dylan99	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:02 PM

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1	Men: do you really believe that sexual frustration is worth deeply empathizing with? They're only single by choice because they can't get a man who cares about them, which is pretty similar to the incels' problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/20 09:42 PM
2	The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiated I’m saying that most women grow up watching their moms put their husbands, kids, parents, friends, etc first Most men too? Why do you think there are so many self-help books/sites/whatever directing women to start seeing to their own happiness? What about the huge amounts of that but for men? Why do they buy self help books?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 12:50 AM
2	The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiated I don't see how people not knowing what they want is a gender issue. What you're saying doesn't reflect my life at all. You're either generalizing your experience to all women or you seem to think the vast majority of women are forced to be housewives still, which is just wrong. Again, some feminists seem to forget we don't live in the 60s. I'm curious to know how and when I was directed to put myself and my desires first? All my life I've been told I should sacrifice anything, including my life…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 08:18 PM
2	Being "good at sex" is for ugly girls. Men don't actually care about your sexual prowess when you're pretty. I never said she was imitating porn? And even if she was, why would that mean she can't like it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 08:13 PM
3	The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiated Lol you're delusional Kind of like how Germans considered themselves oppressed and dindu muffin until Jews no longer existed Nah it had more to do with the millions of men invading them	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 07:54 PM
0	Being "good at sex" is for ugly girls. Men don't actually care about your sexual prowess when you're pretty. So? If there are more categories, then you'd have more accurate statistics for the most popular fetishes. Why does it matter who the porn is catered to? Here's another source. If you still want to disagree, either find a better source or just admit you don't care about evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 07:40 PM
9	The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiated Like sixty years ago. Why is this always brought up like women are unable to do anything? Most women today did not live under the crushing oppressive of their parents or grandparents. Casual dating started generations ago. And it's not like preferences are genetic, so what's your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 07:30 PM
1	Being "good at sex" is for ugly girls. Men don't actually care about your sexual prowess when you're pretty. Porn watchers on Pornhub. I never said anything about who enjoys porn more, only about what type each group prefers. It's also perfectly reasonable to think that women who consume porn go to other websites. There's also no reason to think the fetish preferences aren't still accurate. I'm talking about a relative percentage, not an absolute amount.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 06:00 PM
8	Being "good at sex" is for ugly girls. Men don't actually care about your sexual prowess when you're pretty. Yeah, that's not been my experience. My last girlfriend wanted me to be much rougher than I wanted to be. I'm not a violent man. I want to treat my partner with love. I don't know where this assumption that all men (and only men) watch violent porn centered around beating women came from. It's not even that common. Besides, women like violent porn more than men do, statistically speaking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 05:00 PM
2	CMV: 'Women are vapid' is just the flipside to 'Men are immature' I'm weed, not alcohol, thank you very much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/20 07:53 PM
2	CMV: How people find sluts as being disgusting parallels how people find creeps as being disgusting. And neither party should be shamed for their disgust. Long term orientation. What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/20 03:10 AM
2	CMV: How people find sluts as being disgusting parallels how people find creeps as being disgusting. And neither party should be shamed for their disgust. beep boop I am malebot, my operating procedure is to find low n count. I perform lagrange operations minimizing n count with respect to female age in order to maximize paternal certainty, I am male bot. No, what they're saying is that your idea that there is some "scientific" reason to have disgust at promiscuous women is a misogynistic idea, even if it is subconscious. Also, please cite sources that there is a biological imperative to not liking slutty women. All I've seen about this issue is t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/20 12:59 AM
1	Q4women: What is some common dating advice for women that’s actually bad? Guys don't go from working the bare minimum to maximize their wow time to men focused on his realsionship and career. I've known people who have made that change. I don't think it's uncommon to be lazy when you're young only to work harder as you get older. However, I don't think it happens because of a relationship. The exception being (for good men) if they knock up their gf/wife and have to support a family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/20 12:32 AM
3	CMV: How people find sluts as being disgusting parallels how people find creeps as being disgusting. And neither party should be shamed for their disgust. men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. they're referring to this part Quit thinking so narrowly. You're missing the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/20 12:28 AM
1	Why do some people criticize toxic masculinity, but still use "virgin" as an insult? Everyone in this world is hypocritical at times There are multiple people on the internet There you go, OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 12:14 PM
2	Could “just be white” (or white being above all) really be true? Have you considered that she doesn't want to date you because you're extremely vain? Maybe she doesn't want to date a guy who actually believes any blackpills. Most normal women wouldn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/20 01:22 PM
3	Why should any woman take dating advice from TRPs? FDS isn't interested in self development. Most of them already think they're high value for some reason and its everyone in their life who is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 11:47 PM
1	Why is sex considered a MAN'S NEED but not for women? Intimacy in general is a "need" to an extent for most people. Women need intimacy too. A lot of men think that sex = intimacy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 11:44 PM
1	If you are fat and there is nothing stopping you, why aren't you losing the weight? then the struggle is over	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 11:43 PM
1	Q4M: Where do your views on women’s behavior come from? This isn't a useful question. Even if their opinions don't come from experience, they're still going to claim they do. If they admit that their opinions come from their own bad choices and preconceived notions, then they lose all credibility. Besides, to them experience is "my wife was a stupid whore therefore all women are bad" or "why won't any stupid girls in my high school date me?" "Experience" is meaningless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 02:31 PM
2	Why does sex matter so much to guys?? per suite lol pursuit	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 05:13 AM
4	Q4Men : Would you ever consider taking part on a romantic relationship that doesn't involve sex? No. We can be best friends though!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 04:36 AM
1	Q4Men: what do you have to say to the women who try to marry a good man before they hit the wall, but fail? lol do you think anal makes you permanently gaped?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 04:34 AM
1	Q4Men: what do you have to say to the women who try to marry a good man before they hit the wall, but fail? Unless your advice is the reason she never changes as a person and ends up alone. Don't change who you are, but work on improving yourself. That's what I try to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 04:30 AM
1	Q4Men: what do you have to say to the women who try to marry a good man before they hit the wall, but fail? Porn I get, but why are you so against weed and alcohol? They're fun. Everything in moderation. Too much of anything is a vice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 04:21 AM
2	Q4Men: what do you have to say to the women who try to marry a good man before they hit the wall, but fail? I don't see why either of those means that he was personally against dating you or are a reflection of yourself in any way. I wouldn't go out with somebody my grandma set me up with either. That's so awkward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 04:20 AM
1	Q4Men: what do you have to say to the women who try to marry a good man before they hit the wall, but fail? There's no such thing as the wall. And if you're going to date in a nice Christian way, then it's really a numbers game as you say. Good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/20 11:34 PM
2	Q4Men: what do you have to say to the women who try to marry a good man before they hit the wall, but fail? Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/20 11:33 PM
6	Q4W: How would you feel if your husband cheated on you causing a divorce where you lost half of your possessions, had to pay alimony, lost custody of your children, and had to work to support two households via child support? Nobody cares in the real world	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/20 12:38 PM
1	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. No, I don't realize how stupid my post sounds. Don't know why I would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/20 05:58 PM
1	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. If you went through your entire twenties without having a girlfriend, you don't think there's even a chance it is your fault? You really think that you did everything right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/20 08:55 AM
1	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. Luckily, that's not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/20 08:52 AM
2	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. Most of the time because they're hot and manipulative and have basic social skills. They're able to act nice and act like good people, which is technically all you really need. But you're right, most of the time they trick otherwise kind people into being trapped into a relation ship. Although a lot of people just like to pick shitty partners too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 10:38 PM
-1	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. God I wish I was a 10 lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 10:27 PM
1	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. The president has never been a good person, regardless of #CURRENT_YEAR	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 10:26 PM
1	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. I have no idea where you're getting that from. No, not inherently. Although, a lot of people who date abusive people date them despite seeing the warning signs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 10:26 PM
1	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. I look at it more like a wounded animal with its back against the wall lashing out. Maybe so, but nobody wants to own the abused dog that keeps on biting people. That's life and not the fault of any human. My hypothesis was not that only good people can have SOs, but that if you can't find an SO and you're part of TRP or FDS then the answer is probably because you're a piece of shit, not because of the inherent problems within the other gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 10:18 PM
-5	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. How can you actually write that comment with no self awareness? Absolutely over for ugly people in this world, literally blamed in every way possible, can never win. Worst crime you can commit in life is being ugly. This is just pathetic. Nobody wants to fuck or even look at somebody who has this victim mindset. It's makes me want to vomit. You people who write nonsense like that and blame it on the fact you think you're ugly just prove my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 10:13 PM
2	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. Do you have a loving family and kids, or just a bunch of girlfriends? The people I know who have that mentality often have the latter, and I don't consider that successfully romantic. I mean, narcissists do, but I'm not a narcissist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 10:12 PM
2	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. Really? How does that invalidates everything else I say? You're just looking for reasons to invalidate everything I've said, presumably because you know I'm right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 10:09 PM
1	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. Removing people who get angry at my post just defeats my point, so please let them comment. It's the whole point of my post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 10:07 PM
1	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. You're right, it's true that some people are just unlucky. But if you're on those subs, there's either the possibility that you can't find a SO because you're an asshole or you can't find an SO because you're unlucky. Based on how the communities communicate, it's obvious for the majority of them it's the former. If being told that you need to work on yourself forces you to begin to hate the other gender, maybe that just proves me right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:57 PM
2	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. whatever you say to convince yourself that your own actions have no consequences my delusional friend	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:53 PM
2	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. LMAOO Dude. You sound like an incel tears npc holy shit. nah, they're mostly losers too And this proves my point. If you really think that your actions have no consequences, then that's why you're single. You act like an asshole and can't see that that's why nobody loves you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:53 PM
3	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. If that were true then no bad people would be involved in romance. Ergo, the premise is false. No, but bad people are less likely to be involved in fulfilling romance. I didn't say that my generalization was always true in 100% of cases, you assuming that is on you. Understand that all human relationships are fundamentally transactional and fundamentally hierarchical. You can try to deemphasize or forget about these realities all you want, but they won't forget about you. The fact you think like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:51 PM
2	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. That's the point of my post. If you work out and take care of yourself and still can't get a girlfriend, then the problem is your personality. You're probably just a piece of shit or weird. I knew a guy who worked out at the gym all day. He was the strongest kid in my university, but couldn't get a girlfriend because he was an arrogant asshole. No technique will help you except getting rid of your pathology and trying to improve who you are,	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:47 PM
2	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. what do you think women want in a man? they want a man who doesn't make them feel good? That's literally why they date in the first place. Of course the answer is feel good BS. You can inconvenience people, but if you can't tell the difference between standing up for yourself and being a cunt, then you're probably a cunt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:46 PM
-1	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. Whatever you have to tell yourself so you don't have to make it think it's about your personality. If you're an ugly mofo, your parents are probably ugly mofos. And your dad got tail, so why can't you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:45 PM
2	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. it works if you're a narcissist like he is, he'd be a great red piller legend if he knew about the community. But his family doesn't respect him and he's incapable of finding a good long term relationship, so it's not like I look up to him or anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:44 PM
1	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. I get you, being confident/attractive and having a way with words matters, but my point is just that it isn't everything. Besides, guys have different metrics than women do for being good/dateable. Maybe he's a nice guy, but if he isn't empathetic or is lazy than no self respecting woman would want him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:42 PM
3	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. I'm curious as to how you only get LTRs and not casual sex. I'm not really into casual sex but if you think that it's essential then I guess you're right, this post really isn't for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:39 PM
3	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. My father is 5'6", almost 50, overweight, and is literally a male prostitute (tantric healer). For my whole life he's never had less than 2 girlfriends. Dude, it's not your height. It's you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:32 PM
3	Is it immoral to use resources / commitment to get sex? Then it's still not immoral to not fuck somebody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:31 PM
7	Is it immoral to use resources / commitment to get sex? Is a woman telling a guy she changed her mind about wanting to fuck him after he paid for a date "immoral"? No woman ever starts a date by saying she's going to sleep with the dude. This doesn't happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:28 PM
3	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. /r/theredpill and /r/FemaleDatingStrategy	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:26 PM
2	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. That's a fair point, but I was kinda talking about neuroticism and creating huge stories about why you can't get laid. If you overthink things, you can always find a partner who also overthinks things. I know people who've done that. It goes beyond that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:26 PM
3	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. Women are able to have casual sex and they also feel pretty empty. I think a lot of people think casual sex will fix their problem until they realize sex is only good when it's with somebody you really care for. It's worse not ever having sex, but it's not really much of an improvement being able to have shitty casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:25 PM
0	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. I mean, it's kinda obvious? What type of data do you want? 10 year old data from OK Cupid that you can misinterpret?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:23 PM
-6	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. Yeah, in my life that's been the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:12 PM
4	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. I've lurked at a couple of threads where that wasn't the case. I think a lot of men here suffer existential dread at the idea that they will never have a woman love them. Either way, sex is way easier in a relationship for most dudes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:08 PM
-2	Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend. This was about getting a good partner, not just any partner. If you're an idiot and an asshole, you have it easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 09:07 PM
6	Physical and physiological harm are just about equal in the damage they cause.only one is illegal. Suppressing the emotions of anyone is extremely damaging Men can manipulate physically pretty easily. Men can also manipulate emotionally pretty easy too. They just do it in a different way than women. Nobody is forcing men not to react to emotions except toxic men and women. Most women don't want a man who never shows emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 08:07 PM