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Conversation100nhorita/r/seduction07/03/22 01:47 AM
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Escalation & Calibration100nhorita/r/seduction18/08/20 01:21 AM
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This is so beautiful! I’m happy for you!
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:03 PM
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Wow, this is encouraging. I’ve been seeing a guy (with whom I’ve fallen in love) since January. Because his divorce is recent (1 year) and it (still) involves a custody battle he claims not be be ready for a serious relationship. He also got married at a young age and now wants to have a chance to date around. Of course this breaks my heart but sex is amazing, we get along well and I am hoping that by giving him space feelings might develop on his side. I never pressure him or ask for much, some…
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:55 PM
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This makes a lot of sense unfortunately. I don’t like playing games therefore I’m genuine in my actions. If I see a message I respond, if you invite me for something and I’m free I won’t pretend to be busy in order to make you think X, Y or Z. This makes sense to me because I don’t want to act as if I’m not interested and end up attracting someone with avoidant characteristics, however it seems like my actions make me come across as too available. Thank you for the insight, I’m definitely taking…
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:50 AM
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We talked about our previous experiences when we first met, he had been divorced for a year, had dated a woman for almost 5 months but things didn’t work out. He expressed being afraid of relationships, after going on a few dates where women (according to him) started to act possessive. Not sure about the details there. But we both came out of similar situations from out respective marriages, as well as bad dating experiences, there’s where we started to bond I guess. We don’t talk much about th…
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:12 PM
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They definitely live separately, I’ve been to his house a couple of times and didn’t see signs of another woman possibly living there. But no, we haven’t talked abou exclusivity yet.
/r/seduction07/03/22 09:56 PM
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I like your advice, as time passes I feel like this conversation must take place, I’ve been putting it off because we don’t see each other very often and due to my fear of coming across as “needy”.
/r/seduction07/03/22 09:51 PM
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I will, I’m listening to it and it sounds a bit outdated but I’m getting the general idea.
/r/seduction07/03/22 06:48 PM
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This! When we are together he rarely checks his phone, I mean, he’ll leave it on the kitchen table and give me all of his attention. This is what made me suspicious when I asked a simple question he didn’t reply until the next morning.
/r/seduction07/03/22 06:34 PM
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Ouch, that stung a little! Lol
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:37 PM
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Downloading it now!
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:12 PM
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Wow, thank you for sharing your perspective. We only see each other every other week and I do not crowd his space, I leave him alone until he reaches out. We don’t go out in public, we usually only spend 1 night together on those weekends and those little things have made me question his level of interest in me. Then he makes me feel so special when we are together that I started to convince myself that there’s something more. I’ve been really careful when it came to casual sex in the past but t…
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:41 PM
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Yes! I feel like we could be a good match for each other, it’s hard for me to believe that a man who only want sex would, in the middle of intercourse, stop, look me in the eyes wand tell me that I am beautiful. He knows I have some hang ups in the bedroom and he is helping me get out of my comfort zone in a very kind way while respecting my limitations. This is huge for me and I can’t imagine him being oblivious about the possible consequences of such actions. Although I want to keep this as fu…
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:30 PM
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This is usually my assumption. I only got a bit anxious this weekend because I knew he didn’t have his kids and when I sent him a message on Saturday morning he didn’t reply until Sunday. It crossed my mind that he might have been with another woman and it made my stomach hurt.
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:20 PM
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This is very helpful, thank you! I do believe that I need to be honest with me and him. Deep inside I believe that if I can keep it light and easy it could naturally become a serious relationship. I am a very easy going person and that has many times backfired as I end up giving too much of myself and ppl end up treating me as a door mat.
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:16 PM
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It does feel like that. I would like to address the situation but I don’t even know how to start the conversation, plus I’m afraid of losing something that feels so intoxicating.
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:59 AM
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Agreed but… couldn’t things change? I mean, all the things we do are quality time activities like, cooking together, sharing favorite songs with each other, watching movies while cuddling, talking about our childhoods and having loooooong passionate sex. It feels like there’s something there.
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:57 AM
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What a great question, will be going through the comments to find those gems!
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:49 AM
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Exactly how I feel. Right now I intend to wait for him to make a move, I reached out about being workout buddies, part of me fears being rejected if I make a romantic move, however if he initiates things I don’t want to play hard to get. I suspect he might avoid me because my ex is a mutual friend, not a close friend, but they know each other. I have been single for a year now so I hope this won’t be an issue.
/r/seduction25/08/20 10:05 AM
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It’s nice to have a male perspective. Thank you!
/r/seduction25/08/20 09:57 AM
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Ugh, so many mixed messages! I have a crazy, long term attraction for this guy with whom I have just started to workout with, i day dream about him. I think he’s attracted to me and maybe something will happen between us eventually, the only reason I hold back from jumping his bones is that I don’t want him to think I am easy. But I swear, if he makes a move I don’t think I will be able to say no. Ugh!
/r/seduction25/08/20 01:49 AM
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Well, let me tell you the rest of the story. Pull up a chair and have a sit. He’s single. I’ve known him for approximately 10 years. Always found him very attractive. Yesterday I texted him and invited him to workout. It worked, he suggested we exercised in his backyard (I live in an apartment) I went, we worked out and scheduled future sessions for next week. I am being careful to not “throw myself” at him. I want to get to know him better before making a move. He’s not someone I want as a boot…
/r/seduction23/08/20 05:52 PM
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We both enjoy working out and a couple of people have inquired abou why we don’t go out since we’re around the same age and single. A girl even referred to us as a “power couple” when suggesting we hooked up. We both know each other’s exes, we are not close friends but we have some friends in common, I wonder if that stops him from acting on it. And yes, he has options. Lol
/r/seduction18/08/20 04:04 PM
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You might be on point my virtual friend. He’s not shy, quite the opposite actually, he’s a bit flirtatious and his job requires him to speak in public. Confidence is not an issue with this guy. And yes, I’ve known him for many years but we’d always been in relationships, until now. I will do my best to stop idealizing him in my head. Like you said, this might be getting weird. Thanks for the two cents! 😉
/r/seduction18/08/20 11:58 AM
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Yeah, until you have a chance to see them without the mask and they have weirdly spaced, protruding teeth. Happened to me recently! Ouch!
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:10 AM
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