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| 0 | Entering college this fall - should I wait a little before hitting on girls?The thing is, I'm going to a sort of nerdy, academic-heavy school, and I'm not too sure if the culture is conducive to rampant sex. Am I in the wrong here? | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Entering college this fall - should I wait a little before hitting on girls?Hm, what if I'm going to a college that is one of the best academically in the world -- and people there are generally not the hard-party types that you might face in less rigorous colleges? I don't mean to sound conceited -- I just feel like the general culture would be quite different. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Entering college this fall - should I wait a little before hitting on girls?They will come? haha I hope so. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 11:44 AM |
| 4 | Entering college this fall - should I wait a little before hitting on girls?When talking to people to make friends, should I just try to get to know them by face or should I get their numbers? | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 11:43 AM |
| 7 | Arm/hand posture while having a conversation standing upThe thumbs in pocket thing is exactly one of the things I've avoided doing because it seems unnatural. To me it seems forced and insecure. Is that just me? When talking, is it always preferable to use hand gestures? | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How quickly do girls forget? Can girls lose attraction in a matter of a single week?You mention compatibility/connection a lot, but I'm not sure what exactly they mean. Could you explain a bit more? In particular what distinguishes them from attraction and how are they obtained? We've never had a date. I asked her for one near the beginning of the evening, but she did not say yes. Instead she said let's get to know each other better. We basically did just that throughout the evening. I guess you are right that I really should have asked her again for a date. I think what i said… | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 09:30 AM |
| 1 | What to do in a situation where a male friend opens up to you and tells you he likes the same girl you are interested in?The thing is, I think I already have a pretty good connection to her. 80% sure that if I ask her out on a date, she'll say yes. Also, he's the epitome of an AFC -- as in, 0 chance of getting her. | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 07:58 AM |
| 1 | How quickly do girls forget? Can girls lose attraction in a matter of a single week?Hm. In hindsight, I really should have asked for her number. But keep in mind that I am also gaming other girls in the group and I did not want to draw too much attention by showing my interest in public. I could not find an easy opportunity to isolate her, so i ended up thinking I will get her number next time I see her, which unfortunately kept getting delayed. | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 06:11 AM |
| 1 | How quickly do girls forget? Can girls lose attraction in a matter of a single week?Heh. We talked some decent amount. At one point, I sat next to her, and SHE touched arms with me for some significant time. | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 05:56 AM |
| 0 | How quickly do girls forget? Can girls lose attraction in a matter of a single week?Aha. On the flipside, if I managed to stand out, it is still possible that she remembers me well? | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 04:43 AM |
| 3 | How quickly do girls forget? Can girls lose attraction in a matter of a single week?You give much good advice. Greatly appreciated ;) | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 12:56 AM |
| 1 | How quickly do girls forget? Can girls lose attraction in a matter of a single week?Never had a date. It was just a group meeting where I met her for the first time. She was clearly attracted to me by the end though. The next group meeting where I will see her is 1 week from the first. I don't have her number yet. | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 12:52 AM |
| 2 | How quickly do girls forget? Can girls lose attraction in a matter of a single week?... aw shit.. haha. But maybe my situation is different because I'm not talking about doing something wrong. I'm just talking about 1 week of not seeing? | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a girl, made her like me very much, but now I don't like her anymore. I'm trying to get on with other girls in the same social circle, but I can sense her watching me. Why do I keep feeling sorry for messing with her emotions?bwaha maybe i am better looking than him ;) | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a girl, made her like me very much, but now I don't like her anymore. I'm trying to get on with other girls in the same social circle, but I can sense her watching me. Why do I keep feeling sorry for messing with her emotions?Honestly, if I did that, she might try to marry me hahaha | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Went on a date with a girl, made her like me very much, but now I don't like her anymore. I'm trying to get on with other girls in the same social circle, but I can sense her watching me. Why do I keep feeling sorry for messing with her emotions?i really like this answer | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 07:39 AM |
| 3 | Went on a date with a girl, made her like me very much, but now I don't like her anymore. I'm trying to get on with other girls in the same social circle, but I can sense her watching me. Why do I keep feeling sorry for messing with her emotions?I don't fear it. However, I prefer taking approaches that feel natural and are socially fluid. Having a private talk over this seems too abrupt. We only went on a date. As I said in another post, there are many implications, but nothing explicit that I feel necessitates a talk. Also, I say this many times, but I like to overthink, not because I am afraid of anything, but because I want to get better. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 05:09 AM |
| 0 | Went on a date with a girl, made her like me very much, but now I don't like her anymore. I'm trying to get on with other girls in the same social circle, but I can sense her watching me. Why do I keep feeling sorry for messing with her emotions?hahaha good one. However, too much energy needed to do that. Too many other cute girls around, I want to clean this up as fast as possible and get with them instead ;) | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a girl, made her like me very much, but now I don't like her anymore. I'm trying to get on with other girls in the same social circle, but I can sense her watching me. Why do I keep feeling sorry for messing with her emotions?Another detail that may be important is that she is ~10 years older than me (not sure exactly, but I figure she is in her late twenties years old while I'm 21). An optimistic scenario I can think up is that once she sees me giving her less attention and other girls more attention, she will be quicker to catch on because it is easier to understand that a young guy will go out and get many girls. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Went on a date with a girl, made her like me very much, but now I don't like her anymore. I'm trying to get on with other girls in the same social circle, but I can sense her watching me. Why do I keep feeling sorry for messing with her emotions?Hm. I am pretty social with everyone, so if I have to be really obvious about my lack of interest, I would have to single her out as the only one I am not social with. I would really feel bad about that, especially since I really like her as a person (it's just that the physical attraction is gone). Or am I just thinking too extreme here? Would it be sufficient to stay somewhat social but refrain from any extra show of interest? Would that be enough to get the point across? I feel like having a … | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 04:08 AM |
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