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| 2 | Told wife I want a divorce.Good for you. This is YOUR life. No one else’s. Do u man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Told wife I want a divorce.Big decision. Take some time for yourself and let her know what you are going through to help her understand what you are feeling. Marriage is a sham tbh, if you love that person enough, some piece of paper shouldn’t keep you obligated to a life with them. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/20 03:14 PM |
| 5 | I think my wife is cheating (long)If u suspect and suspicion is strong, she is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/20 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Tried to Reconcile this weekend - Monday she’s goneDon’t fall for it. Trust your GUTS, not your NUTS. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/19 04:47 AM |
| 2 | True love.Damn. That’s definitely love. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/19 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Found her magnum condomsThe fuck u go looking through shit knowing damn well how it will make u feel?? U did it to yourself amigo. Get over her and move onward. The sooner the better for you | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/19 10:35 PM |
| 7 | 24 going on a 2nd divorceStop getting married. Wait. Be patient. The earth has soooo many options. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, I need to revisit this Concept of marriage | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/19 07:44 AM |
| 3 | How Many Of You Men Plan On Ever Getting Married Again?Nope. Never was for me. Why do it again. If it’s for you, that’s you | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/19 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Sleeping on my couch under a scratchy afghan blanket...why?Get her help. And take care of yourself and child. Better if mom is in better mental place for everyone. Just cuz u two don’t work, doesn’t mean your relationship to your shared child has to not work. Good luck man. One day at a time | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/19 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Divorcing at 27 with 2 kidsShe won’t get them. Not full custody. And besides u don’t want your kids to not have a mom. Stay cool headed and recognize the pattern. They are your children, no way you are losing custody. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Divorcing at 27 with 2 kidsJust don’t give in to her. Stand your ground. Trust your guts not your nuts. Stay busy with a hobby or kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/19 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Divorcing at 27 with 2 kidsCompletely normal. Don’t rush into anything or anyone. This sub helps realize many more going through similar things. It a new road ahead of you. Make it what you want now | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/19 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Divorcing at 27 with 2 kidsYou will be fine. Better at this age then at 37. Focus on you and your kids when I have them. You have just received a second chance at life my friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | 1st marriage counseling session is Monday but I found photos on her phone...Fuuuuuck. Her!!!! Get out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Wife confessed to cheatingThere’s plenty of help now for “gear maintenance” bro. I was in same boat. Do what makes you happy. Be selfish. It’s your turn | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/19 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Wife confessed to cheating👌🏼. Stay strong man. Plenty o’fish out there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/19 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Wife confessed to cheatingIt is weird getting back into it, but it gets better. Focus on You. Start a new hobby you always wanted to do but couldn’t due to your past relationship situation. Live the life you always wanted to. She did you a favor. Second chance at life. I’m waaay happier now than when I was married to a similar type of woman | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Married 4 years considering divorce. Met with wife tonight about future. She told me in order to move forward in our marriage I need to develop a spiritual practice. I told her I'm sick of paying for everything. We dont have kids and she works. Am I being a bitch or is she crazy?Get out ! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/19 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Getting divorced. What are some things I can do early?You are all you need | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/19 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Getting divorced. What are some things I can do early?Take care of you. Don’t be there for her. No point now. Minimal if any contact to her. Exercise, get out and walk in places that you wanted to but never did with her. You have a new start at life. A do over. A mulligan. What every call it. The point is that now you have a chance to do what YOU have always wanted but couldn’t because of her. It’s a second life you have been handed. Whatever you do, you will be happier since she is no longer around. Take your time with the next one. DO NOT RUSH IN… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/19 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Last night, found out my wife was cheating, she told me "you are more like a family member to me then a husband.Nope. You weren’t wrong to look at her stuff. If you as a husband have suspicions of your partner cheating, green light. Let her go. Tough to do but you will never be able to trust her. Leopards don’t change their spots and tigers will always have stripes. Can’t change her and at this point why would you want to. Stay strong bro!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/19 02:07 PM |
| 4 | I am officially divorced!Congrats on getting YOUR life back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/19 06:27 PM |
| 8 | Ex wife coming back to town and wants to grab lunch. Good idea or bad?Exes are exes for a reason. Especially When it’s a divorce, Left for a reason. Keep that reason in your mind. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/19 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Ex wife coming back to town and wants to grab lunch. Good idea or bad?Exes are exes for a reason. Especially When it’s a divorce, Left for a reason. Keep that reason in your mind. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/19 05:02 PM |
| 9 | Ex wife coming back to town and wants to grab lunch. Good idea or bad?Tread lightly. Be honest with yourself and your emotions. Tread lightly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/19 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Just a nasty womanBitter ass women. Wishing you the best moving forward bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | I’m in grad school and things are crumbling - is it better to initiate it now while we’re poor, or after I’m done and have a good job?Always better before. Look at bezos | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/19 02:28 AM |
| 4 | I’m in grad school and things are crumbling - is it better to initiate it now while we’re poor, or after I’m done and have a good job?Money strains all relationships. Maybe you two need some time to focus on each other. You are not describing any reason that would trigger a divorce other than things are tough. I went through the same thing. Now divorced. Can’t change the past but only learn from it. Grad school is tough while raising two kids. Really think about this Good luck bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/19 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Did anyone have any doubts before you got married?On my wedding day, my ex FIL told my mom “ let’s see how long they last”. It was doomed from the beginning. 2.5 years later I’m pushing for a divorce. Guess he knew his daughter better since I was husband number 3. Yup 3. She was married 3 times in a span of 10 years. Thank god she is someone else’s problem now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/19 12:04 PM |
| 1 | 1 Day BeforeWhat’s done is done man. Print it out. Read it. Then burn it. Can’t change what you have zero control over so why bother dwelling in it. Future self will thank you. Trust me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/19 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Missing the childrenI practically raised my ex’s daughter. She knows me as dad. I consider her my daughter but the bitter bitch of a mom still won’t let me see my daughter. I was the only constant positive person in my daughters life and her mom stop refuses to allow me to see a daughter I raised because she’s not my “daughter”. I hope that bitchs tire is flat when she tries to go home from work today when it’s raining. Be careful with whom you get with men. These girls be on another level with pettiness | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | My ex-wide is dating someone.My ex jumped on a new guy thinking it would make me jealous. Nope. Not a crumb of jealousy. Just went to show how much of a whore she was. We were not even divorced 100% and dude living with her. Someone else’s problem now. Good luck new guy. That dog don’t do new tricks and is always a bitch. He will soon realize what I ran away from. I was ex husband #3. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Start of a divorceHear her out. Let her speak. Then you speak. Let her know how u feel. If she doesn’t see what she’s doing, she doesn’t deserve you and is never going to change. My ex was claiming to change, seek counseling, blah blah blah and in the end it was just to win me back. I didn’t fall for it. She still the same cold narcissist bitch I left. One thing I learned during my divorce is to always always follow your instinct and gut feeling. If your honest with yourself, you can’t be wrong. Love yourself bro… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/19 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Based of your own experience, Has getting divorced change your outlook on marriage?Will be much more selective on my next partner. Never trust a big butt and pretty face cuz that girl poison. -bbd | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/19 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Everything's coming up roses!Yay you bro. My ex is on to her next(4th marriage ) and not even 36 y.o. My career opportunities are on the rise. Healthier than ever both mentally and physically. Roses indeed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/19 03:39 PM |
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