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Could you maybe just stop lying? I understand you're a sensitive loving wife who cannot bring herself to disappoint her man, but you underestimate the impact lying to him has. The impact your subtle rejection and coldness will have on his own sex drive and psyche. You cannot gud that. If I knew my husband is "thinking of England" and never told me for decades, it would break me. He feels something is off. That's why he asks so many questions. Just admit what works and baby step from there. Even …
/r/RedPillWives24/07/23 01:36 PM
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Dude these are living religions. They are thousands of years old. You don't get to pick the most popular version that promotes itself as the oldest version (which is not true either), accept that as fact and declare you've learned the religion. Never worked that way, never will. Also there is no need for "Muslim protestantism" because Muslims don't base themselves in their clergy, because they don't need clergy to be "holy" to make Quran holy. Yes you're using ISIS logic because to question it, …
/r/RedPillWives22/03/23 07:08 PM
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That's pure conjecture. You're literally using the ISIS logic. Oh look here is something old, therefore we're right. And it has been disputed. A lot. Shows your sources.
/r/RedPillWives22/03/23 06:45 PM
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I'm not "changing" a barbaric religion to fit my Western tastes, I'm literally telling you how complex "the religion" is. It's not a one thing. Even Sunni Islam is not one thing. And even one school of sunni Islam doesn't have uniform cultures and practices. And no two people accept everything from anything they belong to, because core of the faith is direct searching for truth with no intermediary. The only shared element all "versions of Islam" have is the Quran which is then still debated bec…
/r/RedPillWives22/03/23 06:33 PM
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Mainstream Islam teaches this is extreme cases, as well as padding it with claims of using weak force, blades of grass, etc etc. Popular Sunni Islam says a lot of debatable stuff. And people who speak against it debating and practicing in opposite ways, tend to be killed, which is why it's rarely done. And haters who speak against Islam to demonize it, tend to retell the version of it that terrorists like ISIS practice. So when you tell me "Islam teaches...", you're either an incredibly ignorant…
/r/RedPillWives22/03/23 03:52 PM
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I wouldn't go into what's "too far" personally, because my whole point is about literal logistics. It does not work. It's not about it being bad, but impossible. Physical violence against people's consent creates terror. Terror disables dissent. Lack of dissent stops the natural feedback loop between partners. This leads to further damage and then PTSD. Opposite of this is healthy fear. For example you FEAR falling of a cliff. But you're not terrorized by the cliff existing. You understand the l…
/r/RedPillWives22/03/23 03:39 PM
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My point wasn't you can't consent. It's that you can't negotiate under threat of physical violence. If you want that, you need to negotiate before the dynamic starts, so that there is clear external law in place that limits power of the person doling out the punishment. I.e. either admit you're in a bdsm relationship, or you'll regret it. What's more dangerous is acting as if it's natural human behavior, leading more people to enter into this dynamic irresponsibly thinking they can just "wing it…
/r/RedPillWives22/03/23 09:07 AM
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What are you talking about?
/r/RedPillWives21/03/23 09:41 PM
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Man's leadership in my religion (Islam) is laid out as based on his obligation to provide and protect. You cannot provide and protect for someone who doesn't obey you. You can only advise and they can choose to uproot your resources and refuse limits that enable your protection. It's entirely an act of service. But... To beat your wife into submission for a small offense is also clearly abuse, and is opposite of provision and protection. Let alone serving her well being and needs. Also, a wife i…
/r/RedPillWives17/03/23 01:57 PM
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You're thinking you've found someone to love you after a few dates??? Lady you should be thinking you've found someone to go eat lunch with until you figure out if he's worth any more investment, like opening up a little more, or giving him more of your time. You're desperate and men sniff it out. I don't know what you're like beyond it, you could have genuine flaws that repel men, but this alone is enough to drive anyone away. Male or female.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/22 08:20 AM
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Someone assaults you in public making it look like you're cheating, and you don't think it's a "big enough deal" to say anything to your bf. Then later you need attention, but instead of saying it, you attempt to manipulate him by performing a minor act of infidelity to make him feel insecure. On top of all that, you maintain friends who actually hate you. And you believe in soulmates. Finally, to finish it off, you're here asking us for a gimmick, to make yourself look like you've matured and r…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/22 06:19 AM
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I guess I'm wrong. ^
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 02:42 PM
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As for his liking being grabbed and initiated on... This is not your hangup. Your boyfriend sounds like a sexual submissive, but unwilling to tell you, or maybe it's not that severe that he's even aware of it. I've never dated a man who complained about this and for me as a woman it would be extremely unnatural to perform. I would probably be a little turned off by a man who demanded I be this aggressive because I'm naturally submissive. This isn't common for women, you're normal. Lucky for your…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 10:35 AM
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I am an introvert as well. What I'm talking about goes beyond that. Google Asperger's, schizoid, schizotypal, avoidant personality disorder, etc. Many men are THIS introverted even though they don't have these disorders at all. This kind of introvert is perfectly ok ignoring you for days in the same room. "I like alone time" doesn't begin to cut it. My best friend would see his girlfriends once a week and he is this type exactly. This is no regular introvert stuff. That's what I meant and if u g…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 10:24 AM
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I don't believe the man should automatically pay. This custom isn't about femininity and masculinity, but about monetary capacity and it always has been. Women throughout history didn't go out to earn and were cared for by the men in their family. To get a piece of a woman's time, you had to approach by offering to take on that monetary responsibility from her father for that period of time. You were also letting her know you can and are willing to provide for her if she were to come into your f…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 10:02 AM
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I am pretty sure he's unsatisfied with your enthusiasm in sex, lack of affirmation and compliments, and low responsiveness in bed, rather than initiation. Often when men complain like that, it's easier to say "you should initiate" than tell you to make noise and beg to be f***ed. xD If I'm wrong and it's truly about you never initiating, he might be hiding the fact that he likes to be (more or less) dominated/aggressively seduced in bed, and trying to subtly nudge you there, instead of outright …
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 09:26 AM
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Oh yeah plenty of feminists shame women for having good relationships with men and treating them kindly, by implying they are pick-me, self hating, slaves, abused, brainwashed etc. It doesn't mean pick-me's don't exist, but the title is definitely abused manipulatively.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 07:11 AM
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I have broken up with female friends over immoral behavior like stringing guys along just to use them, or lying randomly to get something. I don't understand you one bit. People you call friends are people you vouch for before the world implicitly, the ones who make demands on your limited time and energy, and people who have the most influence on you as a person. If you're willing to be influenced by a person like her, drain yourself for her, and keep her close, I wouldn't trust you either. Eve…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 02:53 AM
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Nobody cares. Trust me, nobody. Men who just want sex will tell you within a few dates. Half will be upfront. Men who want marriage and sex if you're not the one, will start of curious, but then change their mind and offer only sex after a month or two. Men who only want marriage will walk after a few dates if you're not it. You don't have to say anything. You answer when asked, and you walk away when offered FwB, or when told he's not the marrying kind. If you're just being offered sex, underst…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/22 02:51 PM
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I come from a mostly traditional developing country where many unmarried girls I know take it, tend to take BC because of acne, or PCOS etc. But it's a private issue and one or two, I'm aware of, we usually don't ask. Yes it's widely used though and normal, just not a public issue because casual sex (my group are single women) is taboo here. And yes those few girls I'm aware of taking it, married/date highly agreeable, high anxiety, feminine looking men. As far as city types...Feminism here isn'…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/22 06:19 AM
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9 months?! Noooo he doesn't really want you. You're not the one, and while he may enjoy being with you a great deal and you may check his list of requirements, eventually, after the pain of almost losing you fades, he'll feel you're not the one again and restart bad behavior. Worst case scenario, "the one" comes along and he drops you like a hot potato in the middle of an engagement, or worse after making a kid. This also shows he has no character. Men with character walk away when they feel lik…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/22 10:30 AM
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I'd have a problem if there was no flexibility in terms of renegotiating on this issue. If you're not allowed to change your mind about what you want in the future, I wouldn't be comfortable marrying, no matter what the guy wanted. If I was automatically fixed in this role he wants, it would be no go for me. With my current partner, we both like the idea of tradition, and both see the benefits of a working wife situation. He's open to both and so am I. All we really want is each other and to fig…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/22 10:17 AM
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I'm happy for you, and not to poop on your parade but that's probably confirmation bias. Sorry. Had you been a single feminist jerk till 30 and then found someone after learning to be feminine, we'd have something valuable as confirmation whatever you changed worked. Like this, you just got your 1st bf as you would have around this time anyway. I do wish you all the luck and I don't doubt life improvements won't have a great impact on the quality of your relationships. I am sure it will, and tha…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 12:02 PM
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Please name these atheist third world countries. So curious
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 11:59 AM
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You have to understand that social science in countries like mine is a corrupt half-assed formality with 0 funding. Whatever data you think you have is probably not true. I'm sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 11:57 AM
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She can't. I live in a "second world country" and majority women (especially rural women) ate stuck in horrible situations. Divorce is not only way too hard without starving but sometimes you get very shamed over by everyone. And maybe it should be harder, sure. But in my not a third world country so many women are suffering beyond your imagination. It's NOT rare I myself know at least 40, and I met them personally, at least. It's fucking common and most people escape this shit hole so some West…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 11:50 AM
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What countries? I'd love to have this info that works. I'm not asking I'm bad faith, genuinely, where is this ideal divorce law you mentioned?
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 11:44 AM
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I live in my country. And know too many women in abusive situations. Who the eff told you that lie??? Also unhappy? Are you trying to solve all marriage issues with divorce laws?
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 11:40 AM
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Where does it work? What does it do other than force people to stay in bad marriages? You don't think that's inflicting damage on good women married to monsters?
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 11:39 AM
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Divorce rate dropped significantly among millennials. It also drops with higher education and age of first marriage. Women do start most divorce but that's because they are more sensitive to negative emotion and can't take abuse and suffering like men can.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 11:36 AM
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My country has weak alimony enforcement to none. Women stay in abusive marriages, that's what you get. Yes bitches who would strip all dignity and assets off their husbands back are curbed, true. But your answer to solving injustices towards men is being unjust to women.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 11:34 AM
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I'm only talking about assets made during the marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 11:29 AM
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So your answer to all the issues I bring up, is getting on government aid? Governments all over the world have that already. Most people in the streets in the developed and developing world are drug addicts and no one else. I'm not talking literally about ending up on the street. My issue isn't that they'll be left with 0, but little/close to nothing. It's that their participation in the marriage aimed at elevating the earnings of their spouse is valued by you as much as food stamps. Think about…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 11:21 AM
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What if there are no kids and just one spouse has all the assets in their name? The other person deserves none of it because they weren't suspicious enough to expect a divorce and push for 50/50 ownership? Are you familiar with how abusive partners trap and coerce spouses in dead ends? There is a difference between a girl who married an established rich guy. That guy should protect his assets coming into the marriage. And same for the wife if she's the rich person. They should have private pre-m…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 10:18 AM
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Dude a housewife who raised 4 kids, maintained the home and quality of life for he family, who didn't work outside the home and then got a divorce, should get nothing just because her husband had all the money in his name??? And you don't think that's unfair? Flip it, what if the wife has the assets in her name for nationality based tax deduction purposes (in my country people do that). They divorce and he gets nothing? Say he was a stay at home dad and she had all assets in her name, fuck him, …
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 10:05 AM
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Lady you're 27 and he's 46. By the time you're 47, he'll be closer to 70. By that time you'll behappy his heart is working, let alone his boner. Besides as we age so much, our taste ages as well. Even if a little, but it does. Plus he loves you and if he's not a psychopath, that changes everything when attraction is concerned. Seriously wtf, leave the poor guy alone. Not judging you about overthinking, it's ok. We all get stupid thoughts like this from time to time. But the adult thing to do is …
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 09:29 AM
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What laws exactly? And how would you change them?
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 09:19 AM
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I don't believe love is a choice and I don't believe it makes sense at all. Yes love is a weird little plant that grows in only fertile ground. And that ground must be well prepared with conditions like friendship, sacrifice, humility, kindness, prayer, self respect, selflessness. But it's sometimes way too hard to kill and keeps regrowing like a damn weed, yet other times, if you mess up just right, it dies too quickly. Others yet may work that soil all they want, but it'll never grow. Good thi…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/22 07:04 PM
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I realized I find men attractive that many other women don't. Think bear-man lumberjack with rough/odd looking face( like say Silvester Stallone ) and body, normal looking healthy fat too, even slight excess can be hot on a bulky guy (just not into the ripped look), scars are hot as well to me, and my boyfriend has a particularly big one on his face that low key turns me on, and many find odd. Now my female friends (95% of them) think my type is literally "ugly guys". While I don't find any of t…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/22 06:39 PM
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Before those comments I thought, maybe he's just really insecure and can't process it on his own without it showing. But after the comments you linked, I'm thinking - abuser alert. OP my only advice is PLEASE don't have any more kids with him. Whatever you choose to do, stay, or leave watch your birth control religiously. Of course it's hard to decide when you feel crazy all the time, and not sure wtf is happening to him and wondering is there a fix... so I don't expect you to be able to just pi…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 09:01 AM
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Go to therapy. Nothing anyone says here will settle in your mind until you pay someone professional to repeat it and give you tools to get out of your own mental prison. Once you have to pay them, you'll stop asking for advice to feel validated and secure. I know this sounds mean, and I don't want to hurt you, but you're literally doing on reddit the same enneagram 6 bullshit that you probably do to your friends in real life over and over. And everyone gives the same answers over and over, and y…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 12:39 PM
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Possibility #1: he feels too inferior to you and can't deal with it. If that's the case, you need to find a man who feels himself more powerful than you, or gamble on his potential alone (a bet you may deeply regret, like some women I know). This is not a knock on men, but some of them just need to be your hero and can't handle another way of things. Possibility #2: He's an abuser and wants to make you dependent on him, so he can trap you and destroy you. Possibility #3: He's an immature idealis…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 12:11 PM
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Excercise is stressing the body. Good stress makes you stronger and energetic, but excess stress makes your hormones disbalanced. If your body is weakened by metabolic disease, the amount of training you can take is smaller than it is for someone healthy. PS. Forgot to mention intermittent fasting. That too is a stress just like excercise, but so beneficial for weight loss and insulin resistance if you know how to pace yourself and stop when your body needs a break. PPS. I guessed because I just…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 01:03 PM
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I don't believe liberal Muslims and Christians are much more restrictive towards women. I do know they don't put them on a pedestal, but plenty of them have early feminist ideas.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 09:32 AM
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Shapiro isn't left on any account I've watched him debate. Not sure what you mean?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 05:38 AM
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I've got an interesting tidbit to add here: The biggest conservative mouthpiece Ben Shapiro, who is all about supporting traditional gender roles can't stop repeating his wife is a doctor. You know she's a doctor. She's a doctor after all. His wife who's a doctor. It's frickin hilarious, he's adorably proud of her. And she is a doctor. Did you know she's a doctor?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 11:44 PM
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You sound sick. Not lazy and fat, but sick. Like you have insulin resistance and like your thyroid and adrenals aren't working. Like someone with PCOS, etc... What helps best to my knowledge is healthy keto, careful supplementation and hormone replacements, but everyone is an individual. Get to a doctor ASAP and start learning all you can about nutrition. YouTube alone has thousands of hours of really good classes. For free. Also if you have hormonal issues and inflammation, skip gym for the beg…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 08:22 PM
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Dear that's all the more reason to not marry before careful and years long vetting process. I don't mean this as an insult at all, but what you wrote speaks of youth and immaturity. We all feel those/similar fears at all ages, but to believe them as reality is a very young thing to do. Especially comparing yourself to your one friend. Come back here when you're 25 to read what you used to write, and you'll probably cringe. ^ These thoughts and plans aren't real, you'll see. Relax and just work o…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 10:29 PM
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You will change a lot from 19 to 23. Huge shifts. 23-25-26 you'll be a different person. Thank your lucky stars you don't have to marry yet. If you find someone who will grow up with u, marry them at least after 23. At least. The only good excuse for marrying at 19 is a healthy relationship between 2 religious teens in love who are afraid of sin and would rather risk a divorce, than committing a sin.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 08:56 PM
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You plummeted your value in his eyes. Ignoring him probably can't fix it. He flat out told you he just wants to use you, heard you say you want commitment, and then got what he wanted. Seriously, his story doesn't matter. Also it's nonsense, he just needs to heal a bit, everything else is (self)deception. He'll jump at the chance when the right girl comes along. Also, men love bitches? What? No. Men love women with basic self respect.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/22 03:35 AM
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I've seen plenty of pick-me girls, but nothing to do with feminism. Feminist ones try to be quirky and "not like other girls" and also exaggerate confidence for the express purpose to seem more high value. Non-feminist ones shame women for not fitting into their narrow traditional worldview of what a "virtuous lady" is, ironically not seeing that same contempt proves they aren't a lady either. And it's impossible to hide. Bottom line they are just women who bash other women directly, or via faki…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/22 08:23 AM
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My bad. I mixed them up.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 03:40 PM
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Wanting a husband you love, who earns enough to support a family is "wanting traditional lifestyle". Wanting a "high earner" is being a gold digger. Just fyi I was put off by your initial statement and men who earn a lot of money are often chased by women because of their money and can feel this "I-swear-I'm-not-a-gold-digger" energy. That alone might make them bail. Also they tend to be very ambitious, hardworking and disciplined. They might look for a wife who resembles them more or less, beca…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 03:18 PM
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This sounds like India? Where are you from? Are you allowed to publicly date men? Anyone not from your culture will think this is immature and weird.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 09:25 PM
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Botox stays in the face forever, use sunscreen and get that stuff dissolved. It's the biggest beauty industry scam. Please look up plastic surgeons comments on the host of esthetic issues it can cause.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/22 11:47 PM
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