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i dont think social awkwardness is much of a killer to women's dating life compared to men. but thanks for responding. whenever i see comments saying they dropped out, i dont automatically take it as face value unless theyre a manhater or have had nothing but negative interactions with men because they're an extreme outlier due to something thats out of their control (deformed face, midget, medical condition, etc). its just that a lot of people say out loud that they've given up for sure while h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:38 PM
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are u facially unattractive in like the bottom 10% or obese or super poor? dating market surely favors women now, i cant see how you had no sucess unless you live in a small town. would u even refuse a date if a guy asked you out first?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:59 PM
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2) OP didnt really specify whether being treated well was in the context of already being in a relationship or in the talking stage. if a couple is already together, obviously both should be treating them as good as possible, but in the early talking stages, its unreasonable for women to expect celebrity/model treatment, especially if the woman is going for a man out of her league. realistically, the level of effort women (and men) can expect from the opposite sex is based on how much theyre wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:12 AM
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i dont realy agree with your range opinion since i dont consider self-evaluation to be a part of your range. but agree to disagree, otherwise i enjoyed the rest of your insightful comments
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:19 PM
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You're more likely to get treated correctly by an average man than the Chad thats not what woman enjoy or want tho, so it doesnt rly matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:15 AM
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i dont see many RP comments around this sub claiming women should date only men who are below them (assuming i understand you correct). most rp guys are complaining about average women not wanting average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:56 AM
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holy shit youre right. OP must be middle school or ESL. this is really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:58 AM
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isnt this just common sense? as a fattie, your competiton is so high if nearly everyone around you is skinnier and more attractive than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:32 AM
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if the average woman is already semi-reluctant to go on a first date with an average man whom she is not attracted to, hearing "wdyoubring" from him is borderline offensive and the man squanders his chances for a second date. even if we suppose there is a higher demand for women who bring more to the table (e.g, a woman who isnt fat), the average american man's value is not high enough to haggle for it. in an ideal world, men should ask themselves what value they get from being with such women, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:41 PM
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seems like nowadays the demand for women far outweights the demand for men. there will be a lot of women who simply aren't interested in dating, allowing the few women left in the pool who are, be pickier. men now more than ever have to put a show and convince the woman to date them in the same way the interviewee must impress the employer. having an interviewee ask the interviewer "what can you do for me" isnt the right thing to say when you're under their mercy. seems acceptable for women to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:55 PM
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lol wtf? im referring to people who comment that her body looks good/sexy/hot. these are photos of them showing off their huge muscles in the bathroom or gym mirror, not videos of them setting a benchpress record. but sure, go ahead and assume that i think compliments online = want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:36 PM
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yes. despite all the online compliments women get for showing off their muscles at the gym, i bet the majority of men are turned off by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:06 PM
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ive even seen this sht here on PPD by some guys lol. they mention their income, education, fitness; turns out they conveniently left out that they're short, dark-skinned and ethnic. some people just wanna try to ignore the things that matter the most to make it seem like their looks arent the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:10 PM
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the hell? how did you come to the conclusion that american women's standards are insane based off a few comments from this thread? if you looked at his google form, he's said that he's had multiple partners in the past, and he's still late 20s not late 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:35 PM
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just me or is this guy too much of a soyboy? wouldnt be surprised at all if the majority of women aren't sexually attracted to this. not saying there isn't a niche for these types of nerdy super in touch with my feelings guy, but it sounds over the top. felt like i got pushover vibes from reading this lol. if i didnt know this was a man i would have thought that it was written by a teen girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:31 AM
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Please do not "pickup" women anywhere in public. If you're not attractive, it's absolutely creepy and uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:06 PM
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If a girl is super ugly, she's likely to be bitter and spiteful because of bad experiences of people's treating her poorly. . If a girl is only mildly ugly, people are pity-nice to her, and she realizes she has to make up for her lack of looks by developing an above-average personality. . Super pretty girls are a wild card.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:44 AM
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If women weren't slut shamed as much, they'd be more honest about revealing their n count rather than to obscure it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:05 AM
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LMAO XD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:48 AM
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glad he's dead. was getting annoying to see a bunch of PPD guys quoting him as if his words were holy scripture. fuck all of that dumb echo chamber trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:24 PM
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that comment you replied to only applies to the dating stage, not the relationship stage. once a man becomes enough of a catch, he can start haggling to get what he wants, knowing that women have to make sacrifices to keep him around. dick being cheap does not make commitment cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:52 PM
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yup. women have it just as hard as men. getting commitment from the guy you want puts women at a huge numbers disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:09 PM
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thanks this made sense. a higher average for women 18-80, but men's 40ish range was particularly more picky, despite it not being enough to tip the scales. unexpected results according to RP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:52 PM
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crappy source
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:31 PM
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am i crazy or does this article contradict itself? for all age groups . . . women had a clearly higher minimum standard for the education level they wanted in their mate . . Over 40, men become more picky than women about the education level of their partner they claim women of all age groups are pickier about men's education, then they say men are more picky from age 40+. wtf? women are more specific than men in their preference up until the age of 40, then males become pickier than females fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:26 AM
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Mating Intelligence Unleashed: The Role of the Mind in Sex, Dating, and Love page?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:03 AM
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damn shiett, GL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:11 AM
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are you trying to find men through mutual friends or networks on top of the apps? curious to know what else you would do to find homebody men that probably go out in social venues less often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:02 AM
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not enough hot, good guys to go around
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:06 AM
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ur crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:11 PM
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ive no idea why you said the issue is about women not compromising and now you're backtracking to say that women's unhappiness is because of feminism. pick one and stick to it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:05 PM
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has no one in life ever told you that you can't have everything you want? there aren't enough hot men for all women. you acknowledged this already. 4/5 women will have to end up alone. thats just the reality that cant be fixed. there's no other option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:36 PM
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theres nothing wrong with this, nothing needs to be fixed. no one is entitled to marriage or a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:25 PM
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who is we in this sentence? the women on ppd? or women in general? if those traits that you mentioned were genuinely all that women required from men to make them eligible partners, far more men would be in relationships by now. safe to say your standards for a partner aren't representative of most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:21 AM
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guess we'll never know the real number, your guess is as good as mine. even on reddit where youre anonymous people dont like to admit their wrongdoings or admit to being shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:25 AM
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A whole lot probably. If ~20% of men and 13% of women admit to cheating, I wouldn't be surprised if there are a lot more who won't admit it. I've been cheating on my husband with my coworker for a few years now and he hasn't suspected anything yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:21 AM
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it is positive advice. he asked a question and he got a direct answer. the girl said she didnt want to be approached anywhere in public, not even bars. OP was able to narrow down the avenues where he can approach women: stick to OLD or through mutual friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:00 PM
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sry was a rhetorical question lol. i agree with all of your post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:59 PM
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relationship value as opposed to casual sex value
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:57 PM
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yup. men lost their value. the demand for men drops too. the average man no longer has the same RMV as the average woman. women have or will have $ and status now. why date an ugly beta when you already have $?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:33 PM
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what point are you trying to make when you nitpick between asking woman where she would meet a woman if she were a man vs. a man asking women where it is appropriate to hit on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:56 PM
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i dont see how her answer is incorrect. OP asked where can i hit on women outside of X places. she said nowhere is appropriate except X. just because you hear something you don't like doesnt mean its wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:57 PM
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yea this i can agree with. i think a lot of men mistakenly think women's standards are too high because they arent attracted to their looksmatch, but as opposed to the past, women nowadays have their own money so that they don't have to be tied to a man anymore. a LTR for her is optional rather than a necessity. she may remove a ton of men with her high standards, but she was never interested in those men anyway, and she wouldn't benefit from dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:07 AM
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Not sure how you can bring up supply and demand, and then say that a woman is only hurting herself if she's too picky. On a large scale, anything that happens to the other sex is significant. When millions of russian men died in WW2, many young women couldnt find someone cause of the M:F ratio. If most women have unrealistic standards (which I don't think they do) that keep them from pairing up, most men will have a smaller dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:48 AM
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did you even read the title? OP is making a claim about unattractive people specifically for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:54 AM
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no doubt its human nature to go for the best option first. but if a girl keeps getting knocked up by higher-tier guys until she finds commitment, she will have lost some of her RMV. its in her best interest to lock down the best partner she can afford without putting risk to her own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:02 PM
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then those women wouldn’t have been a lost cause. Sour grapes mentality on men's side tbh. Its like a broke, obese man saying "all you women are ruined, you could've had your chance with me if you werent all stuck up" Whats it matter if a woman is delusional or not, when she won't pick you anyway? If her ego is too high she wont pick you. If she knows her own value, that wont make her any more attracted to low value guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:55 PM
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only? when men can't get any matches on OLD, being acquaintances with women is very much worth his time if he wants to date. it probably is his best option. dont devalue it simply because my comment disagrees with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:17 PM
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I’m not even sure why a man would WANT to make female friends. It’s a waste of time. They can be useful if his female friend can matchmake him with her single friends. Mutual friends is among the most common ways couples pair up aside from online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:43 PM
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good lord, never have i seen such a misguided interpretation like this before. not to mention the other 5 commenters who can barely read
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:03 PM
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are you overweight or just facially unattractive/ugly? 3 times sound so little for someone your age. maybe you dont go out often?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:48 PM
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