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Troll better. Only gods are perfect
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/25 10:43 PM
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Ok, obvious troll is obvious.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/25 10:38 PM
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What do I need to cope about? I’m married, SAHM of 5 kids. My husband makes 6 figures, and while not perfect, he is very much in love with me.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/25 10:36 PM
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Yes you are. Your bitterness towards women is very clear. I’d even wager that you’re an actual incel that thinks they are entitled to a prime 18 year old girl.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/25 10:31 PM
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I don’t disagree with this. I actually think we’re saying the same thing, but you gave a much more detailed explanation. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 09:19 PM
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I’m sorry, but I don’t believe your advice is falling inline with the purpose of this sub. It IS a man’s responsibility to earn submission. Saying otherwise is against the best interests of women.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 05:59 PM
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No, sorry, this is wrong. Submission is 100% earned. Men don’t get submission simply for being a man. Competent, worthy leaders get submission, and need to exhibit those qualities before they become eligible for submission from a confident, desirable woman. Nobody gets the gift of submission until it’s earned. That doesn’t mean that it’s held over his head and threatened to be withheld, but submission is always contingent on having a capable leader.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 05:32 PM
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I’m a SAHM so have to figure out finances in order up separate. He has told me all the above and I told him I wanted a divorce. He then promised fidelity but continued to cheat behind my back.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/25 09:06 AM
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This sounds like my husband. He views himself as a king and therefore entitled to do whatever he pleases. I no longer love him because of it and plan to leave once I’m able to. He knows I want to leave and promises to stay loyal, but I only feel pain and anger towards him now.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/25 03:24 AM
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I’ve honestly never heard the phrase said before.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:06 PM
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I disagree, hence the existence of “trophy wives” but not the inverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:02 PM
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Men value commitment from women more than women value it from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:32 PM
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Right? Like, try telling a man “did you try looking at the instruction manual?” And see how easily offended they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:45 PM
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If a man asks me “can I take you out to dinner?” I’m 100% assuming they are paying per the wording used. Now if they say something like “would you like to meet up for coffee sometime?” I’d assume we’d pay for ourselves and I’d even consider paying for them if it went well and I had the money because I enjoy treating people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:28 PM
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I really think that’s a minority of women. All my relationships were casual hookups to begin with. I am more sexually attracted to my husband than any other man I’ve been with. Why would I want to commit to duty sex with someone I’m not attracted to for the rest of my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:51 AM
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It’s definitely conservative.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/24 08:35 PM
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Wanting a man capable of providing a good life for your family, doesn’t mean accepting just any beta male lmao. It means being more selective. What it doesn’t mean is continuously trading up. There’s literally no evidence of women doing this on a wide scale throughout history. I’m not sure why you’re in a women’s forum when you don’t understand female nature?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 06:01 PM
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You can say that all you want, but red pill theory is wrong when it comes to this. A woman simply wants to choose someone capable of providing for her and her children. That’s all hypergamy is. Hypergamy is not, continually trading up for better and better. That’s an extreme red pill twist on reality.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 04:47 PM
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This is something rp gets so wrong. You can’t decide that something that you do as a man, isn’t “that bad” or worse if done by a woman. Both genders go through the same despair and feelings of betrayal. Also, many men are still attracted to their so after they have been cheated on. And a woman cheating doesn’t mean she wasn’t still attracted to her SO.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 03:54 PM
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Do you not pay attention to their complaints? “I used to be a nice guy but I didn’t get anything out of it, so now I’m just a f boi.” That’s literally every redpill guys origin story.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:44 PM
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Most guys think they are part of the “good ones.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:32 PM
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lol at all the “good guys” that refuse to do good unless they are getting something out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:49 PM
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“Bla bla bla” is a childish response. Men don’t own their decisions anymore than women do. My comment held no excuses. Good luck in life with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:37 PM
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Are you a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:23 PM
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He pulled a bait and switch. She didn’t marry him as the post describes. He was loving and attentive in the beginning. Now she’s emotionally attached and trauma bonded which makes it harder to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:41 PM
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You’re hilarious. Worrying about what other, lesser men think is the most beta thing you can do. Contributing to society and shaping the next generation is alpha behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 10:20 PM
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By your definition. Human “alpha males” aren’t committing infanticide. All species are different. Alpha males of the human variety care for those that are less capable, including other men’s children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:31 PM
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Get back to me once those alphas out “in nature” wear Rolex and carry the latest iPhone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:36 AM
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Must be location specific because it’s common where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:31 PM
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I agree, I was just speaking in a language ppd can understand. There’s so many blended families, no one really cares in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:33 PM
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Or be more alpha and not give a fuck what other ppl think?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:17 PM
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At least you can admit a lot of white men are racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:17 AM
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Massages are physical affection, and quality time. I could name many other things as well, my point being that acts of service are not superficial. There’s a reason that’s part of the 5 love languages. 99% of men would appreciate physical intimacy or an act of service over a scrapbook. Making a scrapbook or memory book is friendship level to me. I’ve had a good girl friend make one for me lol You’re really virtue signaling here, but I’m not falling for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:15 AM
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I am definitely not making the case that women only appreciate what men do for them. Are you purposely misunderstanding me? It’s not the act of pumping gas. It’s him knowing that it’s something I don’t like to do, and caring enough about me to want to do it. Knowing someone’s likes and dislikes, wanting to make someone feel good, caring enough to know what your spouse will value does come from the heart. Maybe it won’t last as long as a scrapbook, but the memory and the feeling of being seen and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:02 AM
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But you just described something you did for her lol I get what you’re trying to do, making a case that women only appreciate men for what they can do for them. But whether you want to admit it or not, people show love by doing things for each other, being attentive, caring about the things they care about, spending quality time together etc. All of these expressions of love can be romance. You want to act like they are surface level, but if I know my husband would appreciate me getting all doll…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:23 AM
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Please describe what you consider romance? I believe things done simply out of love are romantic no matter how little or insignificant you might see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:45 AM
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To me, actions speak louder than words. Anyone can say some pretty words. Being attentive and learning my favorites and things that I like or dislike is so much more meaningful. Those massages, or little candy bars or pumping my gas are a display of the emotional connection in that he knows what would make me smile in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:49 PM
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Thank you! I had to delete my comments to him when I realized I was debating someone that had 0 experience with vaginas and has 0 knowledge on female anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:01 PM
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No lol, the elasticity doesn’t equal size.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:26 PM
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Dilation is of the cervix, not vagina. The vagina can stretch but the size doesn’t change. No, vaginas do NOT have more variance than penises. I recommend you doing research on female anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:23 PM
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I definitely don’t shame men for their size, but penis size can vary by inches, while vaginal width only varies by centimeters. So any vagina “size” would still fit an average penis snugly. What creates the “loose” feel is loss of friction caused by lubrication. For most men that doesn’t negatively affect them, unless they have been desensitized by excessively tight masturbation habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:15 PM
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Can you define what you see as feminine and pleasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:07 PM
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Yes. That’s my point. Women aren’t expecting men to uplift them, they just want to not be harmed. Women uplift each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:50 PM
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Women expect men not to harm them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:37 PM
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Maybe you should examine why you’re placing so much value on sex. It’s just one aspect of a relationship, and not even the most important one. I’m assuming you’re young, but once you get older and actually have relationships, you’ll see how immature this thinking is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:13 PM
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Eww. I truly believe this mindset is what’s keeping men virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:52 PM
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Do you only feel strongly about being the best sexually? If so, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:43 PM
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So the accuser is guilty of false accusations until proven innocent? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:03 AM
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Neither are natural lol. If it’s biological, there’d be a biological way to determine it. Men wouldn’t have to “try to find out.” You’re describing social conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:40 PM
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It’s not natural. If it was natural then there’d be a way to tell how many men a woman has been with, but there isn’t. If a woman doesn’t tell you, you’d never know. Therefore it has zero effect on the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:29 PM
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Nope. Ran through is just made up phrase that really has no meaning. Being promiscuous in the past doesn’t take away from the current relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:59 PM
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High quality men don’t consider marriage a price to pay for a woman’s body. Marriage to someone you love is a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:55 PM
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Not really. Not all people think the way I do. Some are more analytical. But she never should have given a rating and he never should have asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:02 AM
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It was stupid. Never ask a question you can’t handle the answer for. I don’t hate insecure people. Most people have something they are insecure about. I would have my feelings hurt by this, so I will never ask my husband to rate me. I never said he owed her a relationship so I don’t know the point of you saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:41 PM
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No they wouldn’t. I’ve seen it many times. They tell her she was stupid for asking a question like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:38 PM
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No one is making him out to be a villain though. Just saying it was stupid to ask such a stupid question in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:00 PM
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No one is pressuring him to stay. They just are stating their opinion that it’s a stupid reason to break up. But he can leave for any reason, or even no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:59 PM
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Being told you’re a 6 by your partner will most likely hurt the feelings of men and women. It doesn’t mean they aren’t attracted to you though. Rating your partner honestly seems crazy to me. I could never try to give an objective rating of my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:43 PM
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We see similar posts with the genders reversed all the time. If it’s the woman posting she’s told not to ask a question if she can’t handle the answer, if it’s the man he’s told it’s a trap and to never rate their girlfriend or to always tell her she’s a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:40 PM
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That’s a good point. I’m just a little self conscious of working out at home in front of him.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/24 04:23 AM
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Thank you. I’ve looked into Al anon but there’s no groups near me, only online. I know I need to find my own happiness, but it’s hard for me to not focus on what my husband is doing, or thinking or feeling. But I guess that’s because I have no life outside of him.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/24 04:20 AM
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This is actually kind of funny but I’m truly not materialistic at all and he knows that. His fidelity means more than money.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/24 02:56 AM
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I want a gym membership not just for working out but to get out of the house. I’m not out of shape or anything I’m 5’7” and around 125-130 lbs. I literally never go anywhere except dropping and picking my kids up at school and sports.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/24 02:55 AM
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I tried. She called me an insecure bitch. And then told him that he needs to put his bitch back in a kennel.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/24 04:44 PM
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Is that a podcast or how do you listen to her?
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/24 04:43 PM
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My husband loves sports so coaching depending on the season. He listens to music and attempts to make music, and is a heavy drinker(I hardly drink). Drinking is his main hobby. 4 kids, youngest is 1 oldest is 10
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 04:59 PM
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Maybe I don’t, but I feel like I’m too old to start over with 4 kids. I’d just like to make this work
/r/RedPillWives31/07/24 04:29 PM
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Thank you for the advice. Since I’ve been a stay at home mom I’ve completely lost any social skills I had so definitely need to work on that
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 04:27 PM
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No, I’m not happy, but I’m trying to figure out how to be happy. Or fake it til I make it
/r/RedPillWives31/07/24 01:04 AM
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Thank you. I appreciate you saying that. I think I give more weight to what he says because I’m not happy with myself either. I’m a lonely introvert and I constantly think that if I could just be that outgoing party girl I wouldn’t be so lonely.
/r/RedPillWives31/07/24 12:38 AM
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Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 12:22 AM
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Yes I’ve read her books and listen to the podcast from time to time. I understand her message, I just don’t know how to put it into action.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 12:22 AM
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I don’t understand what you mean…?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 11:09 PM
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Thank you 🫶
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 10:54 PM
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Thank you for your response. I always forget how important self care is.
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 10:45 PM
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Thank you for the advice. I’ve been telling myself this, that I should just focus on myself, but it’s easier said. I have a hard time not caring so much about what’s going on with him, or trying to get attention and affection from him. I don’t have a support system. Lost all my friends over the years due to being a huge introvert. I do have 2 sisters but they aren’t exactly supportive.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 10:37 PM
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I never wanted to be a traditional woman, it just became that way. He also wasn’t initially forward about his traditional views. More and more of them just came out as the years went on. He said he’s a king so I have to accept the idea of a lot of women wanting him.
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 10:33 PM
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I am treating my mental health
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 10:13 PM
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He actually tells me she wants to come in and take my place. That she wants to be here for him and take care of him, but yet he’s choosing me so I should be happy.
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 10:12 PM
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It might work on some women, but every time he compares me to her I seethe with rage. It literally makes me want to leave him. But once I calm down I realize that with the kids and being a SAHM that it’s better for now to stay, and in the meantime maybe I can improve to help keep the peace.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 10:00 PM
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But I’d like my healthiest version to be more happy and fun.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 09:56 PM
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He keeps promising to cut contact but then he goes to her house or calls her in the middle of the night while I’m sleeping. Then when I catch him he gets mad and says that it’s my fault because I’m over here arguing but she’d be having fun and making him happy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 09:49 PM
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I see a counselor and have a psychiatrist. I’d love to pick up a new hobby. I know it’s probably just an excuse, but I never have time off from the kids, and when they are asleep I’m dead tired.
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 09:38 PM
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I definitely have a goal of starting to work out. I’m working on convincing my husband to get us a gym membership.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 09:36 PM
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It might be, but it might make things better than they are now.
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 09:34 PM
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Fantasy or mystery/detective.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 09:33 PM
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I have read fascinating womanhood although it’s been a few years now. Thank you for the advice. I will try to follow these examples.
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 09:12 PM
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We have kids, and he was very persistent and made lots of promises.
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 09:00 PM
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I admit I am boring, so she likely does have a better personality. I’d like to be more like he describes her, I just don’t know how.
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 08:44 PM
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I read books on my phone. Or just scroll through Reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 08:42 PM
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Thank you for the thorough thought out response. I don’t have any other hobbies, and that is something he complains about, but he never gives me any relief from the kids so I don’t know when I could do a hobby. A do sometimes have the music on and dance around with the kids. My personality has stayed the same. He had expressed a few times before that I’m boring. He won’t describe the behaviors he wants to see, just says happy and flirty.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 08:08 PM
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We have kids so it keeps me from having to split custody in a divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 07:55 PM
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My relationship is definitely part of the depression, but trying to make the best of things.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 07:54 PM
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I honestly don’t have a good answer besides doing what’s best for the kids.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 07:52 PM
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I suggest you ask all the males on ppd this question since they are the ones that pass the most judgement on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:09 PM
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I mowed lawns for extra cash as a 14 year old 95 lb teenage girl, so definitely not something only “strong men” can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:29 PM
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Go down any road you’d like, but the reason men don’t have certainty on paternity is simply because of biology. That’s not debatable and doesn’t require any evo psych pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:38 PM
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Why does a woman get to know with 100% certainty but a man has to take it on faith? I’ll give the answer that red pill loves to give: because biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:02 PM
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Everyone does have inherent value. You just need to find the person that appreciates what value you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:57 PM
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I’m not sure what your comment has to do with people being reduced to a single body part. Everyone offers something to a relationship, more than just their genitals. You as a man might have trouble attracting women that value things other than what you offer, but it would be false to claim that there’s nothing that you are capable of bringing to a relationship. Just gotta find someone that values what you have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:50 PM
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Nobody only has sex to offer. We are more than just a body part. You might not find value in the other parts of her, but that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:12 PM
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Flew right over your dumb head. Oof. Little guy got offended and had to resort to 3rd grade insults. Well no point in further commenting now that I see your maturity level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:08 PM
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There’s your problem. You consider contributing to your own home and children’s care to be “choreplay.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:41 PM
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Really? You’ve never heard any man claim his ex was a manipulative bitch? I think this is a classic case of confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:43 PM
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You do realize there’s a middle ground between celibacy and cheating, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:37 PM
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I literally have zero desire to needlessly put others down. I was just making a point how ridiculous it is to put someone down for no other reason other than “just sharing the truth.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:17 PM
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I also do volunteer work. Please post a picture, with height, weight, length and income and I’ll happily tell you the difficult truth. I’m sure I can also recruit many more volunteers to share the truth with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:36 AM
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Did you ever stop and think that it’s not your job to tell these women your perception of the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:17 AM
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Fat women are constantly put down, let’s not lie here. Having casual sex, or having multiple past partners doesn’t make someone a hoe. But men like to call them that as an insult, or to put them down. Claiming that certain women are “for the streets”, or “recreational use only” is to put down and shame women you disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:59 PM
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Why do fat women deserve to be put down just because some men aren’t attracted to them? Why do women whose fathers failed them (daddy issues) deserve to be put down? Why do women that enjoy casual sex deserve to be put down?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:16 PM
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People aren’t just shit. Most people are multidimensional. They have a good and bad side to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:13 PM
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Stop giving red pill advice in an ex red pill sub. You’re just spreading toxicity.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 02:32 PM
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You’re on PPD so I’m betting you’re not as sane as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:41 AM
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Ok. Here’s some internal monologue for you so you can understand . Hmm what should we have for dinner? I’ll make spaghetti! Husband doesn’t like mushrooms, so even though I love them, I’ll leave them out of the sauce. It’s morning time. I’m going to wake up early so that I can make my husbands lunch for him. I’m also going to put his favorite chocolate bar in that I stopped at the store to get for him last night. I also take a little sticky note, and write “have a great day at work my love.” Fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:49 PM
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Did you not even read my comment? I said you should take your partner’s feelings into consideration when making decisions. But that’s entirely different than doing something explicitly for your partner with the sole intention of making them feel loved/special/adored etc. You’re response to me insinuating that I’m just a bad partner really has me losing respect for your debating abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:28 PM
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No, most actions should take that into consideration, but not all actions are done with the sole and express intention of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:20 PM
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If I’m the only person that gets the routine, it’s special.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:12 PM
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You’re sticking to a very rigid definition of romance in order to have it fit your world view. Can’t say I’m surprised coming from you. But to most people, romance is considered actions by your partner that make you feel loved, cared for, special, adored etc. Making these actions a routine, does not take away the intent of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:11 PM
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What way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:00 PM
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Stop saying routine is not romantic. You’re only saying that in order to downplay the things women do for men. Woman: packs her man’s lunch every day with a little love note inside Man: buys flowers twice a year That woman is making a daily effort to make her man feel loved and cared for. That man is putting in minimal effort twice a year, but because you want to invalidate what the woman does, in your mind the man is more romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:58 PM
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Every day actions can 100% be special because they are done with meaning and intent for a specific person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:46 PM
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But does the mainstream really believe that women are “angelic or good?” It’s very much mainstream to acknowledge toxic women. There’s many terms and sayings about toxic women: Gold digger Home wrecker Never stick your dick in crazy Mean girl Drama queen
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 11:13 PM
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No you have not seen feminists say that. Pair bonding is part of red pill pseudoscience, not feminism.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 03:15 PM
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I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:10 PM
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Yes literal punching bags. Men could beat and rape their wives with no repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:01 PM
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No girl, including fat girls, wants to be with anyone that is so desperate they’d fuck anything with a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:10 AM
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I was adding on to your comment about the okcupid findings, I had no intention to try to negate anything you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:34 PM
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The fact that you’re just adding in information not found in the study reveals you don’t really care about reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:36 PM
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Of course someone would move the goalposts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:28 PM
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If I’m not mistaken, It also showed that women were more likely to message men that they rated as average or below average in physical attraction, while men tended to message those that they rated most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:02 PM
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Why do you continue to comment? Do you just want attention? I don’t feel insulted, I just recognize that was your intention. You literally know nothing about my relationship that would enable you to make an informed opinion about it. You really need to learn the difference between fact and opinion. You seem to enjoy putting down women, which is what you were trying to do to me.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 11:11 PM
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Lol ok bud.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 10:37 PM
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Stop pretending like you were commenting in good faith. Telling someone their husband fucked up by marrying them, or god help their husband for being married to them was an obvious attempt at an insult.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 10:34 PM
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Do you feel like an alpha by insulting women that you literally know nothing about anonymously on the internet? Does putting others down make you feel better about yourself?
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 09:54 PM
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Good for you bud….
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 09:44 PM
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They literally are opinions.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 09:40 PM
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Those are all opinions. Opinions are not objective.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 09:37 PM
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There is nothing objective about anything in my post.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 09:33 PM
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If men aren’t attracted to women that behave that way, they are free to avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:05 PM
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Past relationships can definitely be neutral or even a positive experience. It’s crazy how men on ppd think that all men are so horrible that it traumatizes women to be in relationships with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:22 PM
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They try to completely destroy women’s self esteem so they will settle for them or not leave them. That’s why they try to push the narrative that women lose value as they age. Women lose value the more men they sleep with, women lose value if their father wasn’t present, women lose value if they were SAd etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:40 PM
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If you’re dating red pilled males? A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:33 PM
1

I plan on leaving, just have to get my things in order first
/r/ExRedPill12/10/23 01:23 AM
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I definitely don’t consume the media that he does. I actively avoid it, but I can’t help hearing it when he’s laying in bed scrolling through his phone. He’s definitely more than just a red flag, I’m aware of that, but for now I’m stuck in this situation with him.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 03:31 AM
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I find it very strange that the only red pill content you’ve seen is by women, I’ve only seen the male content creators. I do see women pushing the divine feminine content though. Many men might not fully subscribe to these beliefs, but it seems a majority of men do to some extent.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:51 AM
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It really does fuck with your self confidence. Even if we as women don’t believe these things, does it really make a difference if that’s what men believe? For example, I don’t believe that my value is determined by my body count, but if that’s what men believe then it really doesn’t matter what I think about it, since they are the ones deciding what they value in women.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:36 AM
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As a woman, I find it absolutely mind blowing that another woman would try to red pill a man. Thanks for your point of view on the topics I mentioned. In your opinion, what percentage of men are red pilled or naturally hold these beliefs? I feel like it’s constantly growing, and boys are being groomed to believe in it.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:33 AM
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I get what you’re saying about the detox, it’s probably not a bad idea. Except my husband has been listening to alpha male content with his phone on blasts, and has started frequently sharing “the truth that women don’t want to hear” with me. There’s no way to avoid the content in the situation I’m currently in. And even if I stop being exposed to the content, will it make a difference with redpill becoming more and more mainstream everyday?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:29 AM
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Red pill is so mainstream right now, that it makes it seem like the majority of men. As far as women only wanting the top 20%, that’s easily disproven by looking at typical marriages, although I know red pill will explain that away with their whole beta bucks crap. You know what surprised me? I hear so much about how being short is a death sentence for men, I was almost starting to believe it. But, I was just at a high school football game over the weekend, and their homecoming king was like 5’5…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:18 AM
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I’m glad you don’t want to view women this way, but the fact that so many men do is disheartening
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:06 AM
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I’m not in denial. I believe men think these horrible things. I know these claims aren’t true, but I can’t stop men from believing them.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:05 AM
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There are days I just want to just up and leave and block him, but we have kids together and I need to make a well thought out plan of how to leave. Once I do leave, I don’t ever plan on getting into a relationship again.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:03 AM
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Thank you for the kind words.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:59 AM
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I’m sorry you were hurt by the red pill. I truly don’t think most the women are the way red pill claims they are.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:58 AM
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I want to not believe this. Are you agreeing with the claims in my post?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:57 AM
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Well I definitely don’t think drugs are the solution, but I have no idea what is. I know there has to be men out there that don’t have these red pill beliefs, although I truly think the majority of men believe at least some of what I listed in my post. It’s really depressing for sure. I can barely stand being in the same room with my husband since I found out he was in agreement with Andrew Tate about so many things. I knew that he had a lot of beliefs that I would consider toxic masculinity, bu…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:30 AM
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Logically I know not all men believe this, but the fact that I see it repeated all over social media and even my own husband believing it, and trying to convince me that most men believe it, makes me feel like maybe it really is the majority of men, or at least a substantial amount.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 12:55 AM
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I’ve seen it said to both men and women, although probably more to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:48 PM
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Lol What you just described is illogical behavior, not logical.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 06:55 PM
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But he is making enough to provide for you. Does that not matter to you at all? Would you rather have him in a career he’s miserable with? Would that make you feel better to know that his only motivation is to provide for his family while ignoring his own dreams? You’re acting as if his dream is to be a professional skateboarder and he’s wasting time in a career that’s a silly pipe dream. That’s not the case. He’s making 120k a year in a career that most wives would be proud of, and that he love…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 11:03 PM
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I’ve accepted that I’ll never find another relationship as I’m over 30 with 3 kids. I’m an attractive woman, but I’m not ignorant to the views on single mothers.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 02:31 AM
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How are you able to assess that these women are the type the op described?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:08 PM
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Are you trying to say it’s not normal to have a few different partners in your life? You’re acting like sleeping with a few people is equivalent to having a steady stream of new partners constantly. You call it cock carousel to try to make it sound worse than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 11:50 PM
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You sound like you don’t really understand relationships or women. Women and men do have connections all the time. You don’t have to be someone special for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 11:57 PM
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It’s not a mutually loving relationship if one person’s selfishness is a detriment to the other. I still care about him and to this day would help him out if he needed it, but putting my happiness and health on the back burner wasn’t beneficial for either of us or the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 09:21 PM
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PPD didn’t invent the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:28 PM
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There are many households where the father stays home. Unfortunately society still views child rearing and homemaking as the woman’s job so you are correct that it’s not as common. Also what you’re saying really has nothing to do with love. After 4 years of my fiancé not contributing anything to the household, and just staying home drinking all day while I worked 10+ hour days just to be able to afford our bills and rent, I had to make the decision to leave. I still loved him, but having to buy …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:27 PM
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I didn’t make a mistake. I am using the actual meaning of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:19 PM
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I don’t care a single thing about status. I don’t even care about having a fancy car or house. Hypergamy is not in women’s nature. Statistics and studies have shown that hypergamy was prevalent when women weren’t able to make a living of their own so they had to rely on males. It was society that caused hypergamy. Now that more women are educated and have careers hypergamy is on a sharp decline. Of course there still are the gold diggers and those women that are amoral and will do whatever they …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:09 PM
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Most people wouldn’t be looking for love in a homeless camp. That’s humans in general and not just women. Of course there are exceptions, it looks like you were one of those, but I’m assuming you had self serving reasons. There are many people that love their SO through their hardships including loss of job and or loss of their home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:01 PM
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So basically, women are humans and are attracted to the qualities they find attractive...?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:26 PM
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Believing that no woman would love or be attracted to you the way you are to them is a sad way to live in my opinion. Unless you were referring to yourself in particular, many women are deeply in love and attracted to their partner and would even give their life for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:21 PM
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If you believe AWALT in regards to hypergamy, AFBB, and branch swinging, how do you explain the fact that hypergamy isn’t that prevalent nowadays?decline of hypergamy Not sure what you mean when you state “cock carousel.” Are you trying to claim all women are pernicious? That’s provably false. Although, more women are beginning to be more sexually open with the rise of sex positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:18 PM
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it’s a way to rationalize the way women behave irrationally What are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:00 PM
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That doesn’t seem like a pleasant or even accurate outlook on relationships. I’ve never seen awalt being referred to as this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:58 PM
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I understand the “people” are like that. But so many of the AWALT claims I see in here, TRP and mgtow are usually traits or behaviors that I see in men more than women. So it’s just never made sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:56 PM
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Ok I get this understanding. I’m a woman that has generally dated attractive men who have many options. I’ve always found it weird how all the claims of AWALT applied more to the men that I know in my life and social circle than to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:52 PM
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Wow. I didn’t expect to have someone write me a fictional novel. Thank you for the good read.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:49 PM
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None of those things are reasons that women generally leave men for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:44 PM
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But doesn’t the same go for men? If they lose attraction to their SO they will potentially cheat, lust after other women or dump them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:21 PM
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I’ve seen older married men that would in no way be considered a “bad boy” cheat on their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:21 PM
1

But it’s not an ingrained part of women’s nature to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:19 PM
1

Do you think about how cheating hurts your SO?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:18 PM
1

If sex with your fiancé is awesome, why do you crave other women? That’s something I don’t understand. If you love her, and sex is good, what makes a man want someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:17 PM
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Post wall
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:13 PM
1

I 100% agree. Just selfish people who don’t care who they hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:52 PM
2

Thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:46 AM
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I read it for entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:19 AM
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I never heard any denial that women cheat. I didn’t know a cult had to be created to spread common knowledge. Yes, some women cheat. Some women are shitty. Some women are gold diggers. This is all common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:03 AM
1

I think some women might then they are the catch, but others enjoy “fishing”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:58 AM
2

What do you mean the press lied? I thought it was mutually said they were separated. Also isn’t it common knowledge they have an open marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:54 AM
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Care to expand? Not all women cheat? Or all women cheat but not because it’s in their nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:39 AM
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Why can women never be the fisherman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:37 AM
2

Some people cheat. Men and women. I’ve never heard any women try to deny that women cheat. In fact women judge other women that cheat harsher than they judge women. No one believes that all women are sweet and innocent so I have no clue where you got that idea from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:24 AM
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I think your statement might be more accurate if it read “as long as their actions don’t affect me, I don’t care”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:21 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2f841o/red_pill_jargon_and_terminology_a_resource_for/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:14 AM
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...and continue to fish in secret so they don’t upset the original fish Do they not consider how upset the fish will be once they find out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:11 AM
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She is conditioned to recognize a declining alpha, as hypergamy also tends to continue seeking out higher status males even while with an alpha male. I couldn’t find “monkey branching” in their glossary it’s talked about in many posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:07 AM
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I’m not the one representing red pill like that. It’s literally in their sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:02 AM
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True. They also shouldn’t use “its my biology” to act immoral and treat others like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:01 AM
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No it doesn’t at all. I agree. Hypergamy technically means marrying “up” in regards to education and finances. However, red pill has taken that to mean what I said above. I’ve seen it said many times in RP that women are hypergamous by nature and will continuously “monkey branching” to the highest value male. I think a variation of that exact thing is in the red pill sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:49 AM
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I agree. So the sexes are equal but different. Both excel at different things. There are also things where both are pretty similar in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:28 AM
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So basically everyone is biologically programmed to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:27 AM
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What did I get wrong? I had other RP men agree with that statement in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:25 AM
1

Ok so when someone says things are “not equal” it means one is better than the other. The differences in height between the gender has nothing to do with equality. Neither are superior, they are just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:18 AM
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There’s many young women that aren’t ready to commit and would just like something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:15 AM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:14 AM
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Oh...so it’s more like people cheat and not “all women cheat?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:13 AM
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You in no way at all answered the question in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:12 AM
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In what way are men and women not equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:11 AM
1

As in having sex with many different women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:10 AM
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But why lie about commitment? Just FWB and be honest about not being exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:09 AM
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That might be the reason for some, but I’ve known men to cheat that have an active sex life with their SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:08 AM
1

Care to expand?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:07 AM
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What about the men that cheat who have an active sex life with their SO?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:07 AM
1

Thank you so much for your comment. Sometimes it’s hard to see value in ones self when your life is not going how you want it to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:19 PM
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Thank you for your response. My depression is being treated, but it’s not something that just goes away, it’s something that you manage. My idea of high value would be the whole package. A good, caring, kind, smart man with a stable job. Money does not equal high value to me. ETA: I just want someone that treats me good and puts effort into a relationship. I worry that no one will think I’m good enough for them to put in the effort and only use me for sex. I’m not ugly or fat, but I’m not the mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:17 PM
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