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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	We've all read many questions about the so called "friend zone", but my problem seems to be in pushing the relationship past first base		123onlyme	/r/seduction	25/02/10 10:21 AM

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1	Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself? I would do all the good things with a female version of myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 05:22 AM
0	This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app finds Solution; overcome your insecurities and learn to focus on what you can control instead of playing the blame game. Who gives a fuck about porn usage. Het men are overwhelmingly attracted to their partners and typically don't compare them to models. Unrealistic beauty standards exist on both sides for both genders. By blaming men for being insecure you renounce all agency or credibility. Only you can change how you feel about yourself and how you move through the word. Stop playing the victim car…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 06:31 PM
1	If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examples You dated a sex worker dude. That is another level of promiscuity...	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 05:47 PM
1	If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examples I'm not! This isn't all speculation. I am living a life that proves my narrative, as I'm sure you are. One of us is happy though. Life is more nuanced than you may think. There aree Levels and shades of truth to things. Some truths are only so because of self fulfilling prophecy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 07:09 PM
2	If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examples No it's not? Casual sex doesn't require loyalty. If people are promiscuous outside of committed relationships that doesn't mean they lack loyalty, it means they are exercising their freedom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 07:05 PM
38	If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examples Honestly I love sluts as long as they have loyalty. I don't want a timid inexperienced woman. I want someone who loves sex, knows how to fuck and is comfortable in their skin. Not all promiscuous women are disloyal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 11:43 PM
1	Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys' Lol man you must be miserable	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 06:43 PM
1	Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys' To get laid? Sure. To have access to lasting relationships with high value women? Unlikely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 01:57 AM
1	Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys' I know this for a fact. The majority of people in this world are jaded pieces of shit!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 12:19 AM
1	Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys' If you are contemptuous towards those that submit to you, you're an insecure wanker. True leaders, real men, do not hold things that follow natural laws with contempt. If female nature is to be submissive, one shouldn't hold that with any more contempt than the setting of the sun. Sounds like you're just a shitty person, tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/23 10:04 PM
1	Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys' I can't say that aligns with my experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:14 PM
1	Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys' Lots of people say toxic shit on occasion without internalizing those beliefs. This locker room talk is within the realm of highschool and college boys.. not an accurate depiction of men's perspectives. People can be shitty. Kids are really shitty because they lack wisdom, self awareness and perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 05:54 AM
1	Approaching women is a humiliation ritual that only psychopaths can win long run Why does someone need to be less than for rejection not to sting? Do you feel masculine being more fragile than a delicate flower? Real masculinity is knowing that no matter the storm, you can weather it without hating the sky. Be a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 01:29 AM
1	Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys' Amongst adults in progressive cities, it is not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 10:42 PM
1	Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys' Fucking eh. So many men stuck in this negative feedback loop or anger and misogyny. Thanks for your comment. Red pill only has value as a toolkit, not an ideology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 02:47 PM
–	Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys' The unhealthy attitude isn't what helps, it's being detached from outcomes or the need for validation. You can achieve that through healthy self-esteem and confidence. If you aren't seeking validation and rejection doesn't even matter because you know your worth you will have much more success with women. Achieving this attitude through misogyny is poison.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 02:45 PM
9	Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys' Consider that small towns and organized sports can also breed shitty misogynistic behaviour. A lot of attractive dudes that sleep with a lot of girls exist outside of those spheres that don't talk that way about women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 02:41 PM
2	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man Fucking is great. But if that is ALL you have to offer, you're an empty shell of a man. Humans have such incredible potential and aspiring to be attractive and appealing to the opposite sex is incredibly important as an individual and a species but...if that is where your aspirations end, and you are known for only that (as a fuckboy is), that is actually a great insult. It's a level of shallowness and superficiality that when seen in women, you would likely look down on them. Fuckboys lack inte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:45 PM
4	Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hook ups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speaking Ya different people with different view points have differing opinions. Imagine that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 01:24 PM
1	Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hook ups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speaking Yeah, red flag. "Testing" is pretty shit to begin with, but if a "test" ends up feeling like blatant disrespect I would be out of there in a split second.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 01:22 PM
5	Being bisexual and embracing redpill is very difficult once you experience what women do Millions of years of sexual and natural selection****	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 11:58 AM
1	CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself. Just checking. I hope you break through the illusion! One layer at a time my friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 05:17 PM
1	CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself. Sorry, did I hurt your feelings? Own your shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 03:32 PM
1	CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself. Because you are so focused on your preconceived certainties you don't even consider the nuances of actual life. You are blinded by an illusion so far from actuality, you insist on an imagined injustice that doesn't really exist. You may forever be so insecure that nothing you ever stand to have will be good enough. How sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 06:46 AM
1	CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself. How is a dollar value subjective?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 02:55 PM
1	CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself. See this is one of the issues... I'm not talking about stature...I'm talking about thoughts and mind. I hope it makes OP reflects on his own insecurity and projection. We call all be small minded at times. Takes a big man (big minded) to realize that and to own their shit. This post oozes beta mentality in an effort to feel superior to men that in many cases are way better men than OP in all the traditional ways he values. So sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 02:46 PM
1	CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself. You are comparing something that has objective value to something that does not. Step fathers also have children, sometimes in the same marriage that they care for the step children within. Your entire premise is based on your own assumptions that are not even true. Some step fathers are more "alpha" than the bio fathers of step children. Women that retain beauty, fitness, reproductive health and gain value in other ways can have upward social mobility and gain partners with inherently more valu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 02:41 PM
2	CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself. That's just a projection of your own insecurity though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 07:09 AM
–	CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself. You are obviously a very insecure little man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 07:08 AM
1	Women don't hate nice guys because they storm off after being rejected, women hate them because they create a secret, transactional relationship without the woman's consent. Yeah, you have to establish a deep bond with commitment before being able to be truly vulnerable. Would you want to date a girl that was constantly moping?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 05:59 PM
2	Women don't hate nice guys because they storm off after being rejected, women hate them because they create a secret, transactional relationship without the woman's consent. Listen, unless the attraction is immediate and intense you probably don't want to be upfront about fucking her. Women only date strangers that they are incredibly attracted to. Unfortunately for the average guy, it's not the case. Besides, even if the attraction is there most girls would probably be turned off by a prospective partner telling them they want to fuck. You can let them know through good old flirting and touching. Maybe start with a kiss eh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 05:56 PM
16	Women don't hate nice guys because they storm off after being rejected, women hate them because they create a secret, transactional relationship without the woman's consent. Hard agree. Being nice is different than being a nice guy. Adults are up front about their wants and needs. Creating imaginary transactional build up, as many guys do, is cowardly and lacks drive. Make the person that you desire feel desired starting with subtle acts like light flirting and casual touches, then progressively more obvious ways by turning the conversations more sexual and letting the casual touches linger. Rather than trying to "buy" companionship with gifts, and acts of service, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 06:34 PM
-1	Biologically: Fighting Prime Is The Same As Mating Prime for Males In Most Species. Humans Are Similar Is that accurate? And even then why are you conflating the men on this sub with men in general? Not the brightest are we?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 07:15 AM
0	Biologically: Fighting Prime Is The Same As Mating Prime for Males In Most Species. Humans Are Similar None of that is true. HUMANS act based on a combination of nature and nurture. You are all in your feels because you don't like the truth behind that. All humans are potential rapists, murderers, etc. All humans have to manage instincts. You aren't articulate, you aren't clever and you aren't even trying to understand the nuances of it all. No one is saying men can't control themselves. Some people are exploring the effects of instincts and biological drives on mating strategies and romantic par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 06:14 AM
1	Biologically: Fighting Prime Is The Same As Mating Prime for Males In Most Species. Humans Are Similar Big whoosh. Have you considered a more nuanced perspective?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 05:52 AM
2	Why do they say men are logical and women are emotional? What does it really mean? Horniness is not an emotion but a biological drive	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 03:04 AM
-1	Women with "Woke" or "Toxic Feminism" mentality - Is it worth the effort to date these type of women? You refer to equal pay as woke bullshit bro. You're the dumb one.	/r/seduction	18/06/22 03:59 PM
3	Why do most guys not need to do any of this stuff to find relationships with women? You probably aren't the prize you believe yourself to be. Maybe you're incredibly insecure, judgemental and critical of others. Not particularly attractive traits, eh?	/r/seduction	13/05/22 10:26 PM
3	Dear skilled wingmen/women: I need to help my virgin friend get laid. How do I become a better wingman and aid him on his path to victory? REEFERS [4]	/r/seduction	24/05/10 07:54 PM
1	We've all read many questions about the so called "friend zone", but my problem seems to be in pushing the relationship past first base Thanks a lot! That really does help especially since I wasn't willing to provide details.	/r/seduction	03/03/10 05:00 AM