12miki Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	How reliable is the information presented in the book "The Art of Seduction"?		12miki	/r/seduction	29/04/14 01:18 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Girls will always think cold approaching them is creepy if... I ponder about the "interview questions" portion of your section because I did that in my last approach and it felt bad and redundant. I asked about work and what she was doing at the event but I didn't genuinely care was just looking for something mutual and interesting that we could stick on to no avail. I was in an environment with people I knew little to nothing about if that's excusable...	/r/seduction	29/04/14 01:24 AM
1	I made myself seem really creepy and desperate. Can I salvage this? Yeah I would move on. General rule of thumb for texts is short and simple until you actually meet up. Another general rule is to not share too much starting out. Get to know them and slowly let yourself in if you enjoy their presence.	/r/seduction	29/04/14 01:14 AM
1	Could use a little help [19 M] Certainly! Many people have two big problems when it comes to this. 1.) Being too forceful. No one is obligated to care about or see things how you see them. Forcing your opinion, ideas, or interests down someone's throat without hearing or caring about their own will push people away. Alternatively: 2.) Being too passive. If it's obvious that you're not excited about or engaged in your own interests/ideas then its likely others will be bored of it as well. The best way to approach people this w…	/r/seduction	23/04/14 01:04 AM
1	Could use a little help [19 M] How do you approach people? Do you approach yourself with a self introduction or do you ask them about something relevant? Or do you not bother at all? Talk to people. More importantly: Have fun while doing it. Make a joke or two. I've seen conversations die or become awkward very quickly because it's obvious that the initiator is forcing themselves. What kind of things do you like and how do you socialize them in a way that's generally relevant? That's for you to figure out	/r/seduction	23/04/14 12:37 AM
0	was it me or was she just having a bad day? Sounds like she's just having a bad day yeah. I wouldn't worry about it.	/r/seduction	18/04/14 12:54 PM
3	Being Yourself vs. Being a Nice Guy Most people don't like being debated with. It makes them uncomfortable especially when it's unasked for. Everyone is living their lives to the best of their ability. It seems that you're being a bit too controlling of the conversation. Start by asking what they think about a certain viewpoint and then logically bring up your own counter poins in a way that doesn't challenge whoever you're trying to pursue. Maybe be a bit more open minded to where they're coming from.	/r/seduction	11/04/14 03:24 AM
3	Being Yourself vs. Being a Nice Guy There are ways of projecting your viewpoints that aren't as invasive. Please keep in mind that no one is obligated to care about the things that you care about or even hear about them. These women probably freak out because they feel pressured and judged for making their own decisions.	/r/seduction	11/04/14 02:35 AM