He called me to talk about his gf probs...this was first meeting after I told him I like him...when we hooked up thankfully we didn't have sex...he didn't kiss me. No foreplay nothing.
So he still keeps these things. Omg. Run sister run. Gift or something would have made sense. But panties. Whoa. I would run far away. Your past behavior was not ok yet This time trust yourself. This is weird.
It's not predatory. Even good men who care will become tired. This is the truth. It's not natural for a man to do the emotional work anyway. Even if he wants to.