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Haha I've never faked it but done the reverse fake, where I pretended I didn't cum. Was hooking up with this girl (who was friends with my best friends gf). After making out drunkenly at parties a few times, I got her back to my house. Things were getting heavy, I slipped on a condom and tried to put it in. Shit was a brick wall. Okay no big deal, figured she needed some foreplay. Proceed to go down on her until she's nice and wet then I try again. Impenetrable. I try lubing up, doesn't work. Ca…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/17 04:37 PM
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Might get downvoted but I'm of the opinion that her relationship is hers to keep, I'd have no guilt about hooking up with her. Don't just do it to get back at the guy who punched your friend though, that's petty. Know what you're getting yourself into though. 1) There's a large chance he will want to fight you now. Are you able to handle the consequences of that? How often do you run into this guy? Are you gonna have to duck him in public? 2) I would keep the relationship strictly sexual, I woul…
/r/seduction09/10/16 01:24 AM
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Well it depends. If you haven't touched/kissed/built any attraction with her yet, simply telling her you want to fuck has a really slim chance of working. Now, if you guys are making out and you pull away and then whisper in her ear "I wanna fuck you so bad right now", that will be much more effective.
/r/seduction26/08/16 02:48 AM
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Don't wait man. If you keep waiting for more signs she'll eventually become disinterested. Pull the trigger and go for it tomorrow.
/r/seduction26/08/16 01:54 AM
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You sound depressed. I know how it feels, been battling depression for around 6 years. Some days are harder than others. One thing that always helps is exercise, as cliche as it sounds. It gives you a hobby, a goal to work towards and you will build major confidence. Maybe you'll meet a few friends/girls in the process. What I think you need to focus on is being more social in general. Don't go out there only to meet women, making friends in general will help you with game. A good way to make fr…
/r/seduction21/05/16 11:46 AM
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Wouldn't we all lol
/r/seduction10/05/16 02:32 AM
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Hey man, I used to be a really shy, introverted guy. Not Autistic or socially inept, but really shy. Eventually I got sick of sitting on the sidelines while everybody was having fun and getting girls, and made a decision to change myself. It's not gonna be easy, it's gonna be hard work. It's not gonna happen overnight. But your negative attitude and lack of trying will not ever get you anywhere. Think positively even if you have to fake it at first, start learning a hobby or skill, and hit the g…
/r/seduction16/04/16 12:40 PM
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This is true and completely lost on a lot of guys. If you go into a date/relationship trying to impress, get somebody to like you, only to get laid, etc. you're gonna come off as desperate and needy. If you are there to see if the woman is up to your standards (regardless if you only want the relationship to be sexual in nature) you come off as confident, and the girl will try to qualify herself to you. It should be a mutual thing. I've had girls act like those hard case desperate guys before ju…
/r/seduction03/04/16 01:01 PM
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Probably won't work out, don't be too upset. She's just discovering her sexuality, she doesn't even know what she wants yet. Go out there, have fun, don't waste too much time and effort on girls that are confused. There are other girls in your school that will give you what you want.
/r/seduction22/02/16 06:32 AM
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Ice skating is way harder than roller skating. Although it could still work even if you suck at it. Either she'll be helping you, you'll be helping her or you'll both hold onto each other haha
/r/seduction20/02/16 10:01 PM
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If you really want to work towards being just friends with this girl, you're going to have to move on. You're going to need to give yourself some space away from her. Stop checking her social media so often. Treat her like any other good friend of yours. And get with other girls. Even then it might be hard to keep those feelings in check.
/r/seduction12/02/16 08:49 PM
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Buzz it short man. Nothing worse than a bald guy that won't let go and has long, thinning, receding hair. Starting to hit the gym hard and getting ripped isn't a bad idea either. Sorry dude, I know how it feels, I'm 26 and starting to thin myself.
/r/seduction09/02/16 08:00 AM
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Because he didn't take any social cues from the girl at all
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:05 PM
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Sorry man, not really a deal breaker though don't be self conscious about it. Like I said try some more fashionable glasses. And don't listen to these guys, you have a handsome smile but you seem like you don't put much effort into your appearance.
/r/seduction01/02/16 12:01 AM
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You're actually a decent looking guy but the way you present yourself isn't doing you any favors. I'm gonna break it down for you and I don't mean anything in a harsh way, I'm just trying to give you some advice. You need a different haircut. Looks like you just buzz it all one length. Try going shorter on the sides (I do a 1 on the sides faded to a 4 on top). You look like you have nice hair though, try going to a more expensive barber that specializes in trends instead of the $10 barber. Some …
/r/seduction31/01/16 11:53 PM
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The top one-tenth of one percent of people on Tinder are controlling 90% of pussy.
/r/seduction31/01/16 11:26 PM
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Listen, if you are straight up and honest with these girls about your intentions from the beginning, your conscience should be clear.
/r/seduction25/01/16 12:27 AM
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Haha would definitely be an interesting party if you get a bunch of girls to show up. Although when everybody gets to talking and realizes what you did a few of them may get upset.
/r/seduction25/01/16 12:26 AM
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Your clothes don't have to be expensive. You can shop at Old Navy or H&M if you know how to dress yourself and still look good. I have a friend that's around 5'6" and he gets plenty of girls. You don't get any because you're a crybaby that makes excuses for yourself.
/r/seduction17/12/15 10:23 PM
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I wrote a whole paragraph saying the same thing but then deleted it because your comment sums the situation up nicely.
/r/seduction25/11/15 07:39 PM
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Stop talking to her. If you aren't over her enough to have a friendship with her without feelings, you need to separate yourself from her for a while. Delete her from Facebook. Stop checking her social media. Meet new people.
/r/seduction25/11/15 03:15 PM
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Okay a couple of things that may help you out. 1) Don't jerk off between now and when you guys meet up 2) Don't drink or try to limit your intake to one/two drinks the night you guys meet up. The less the better. 3) Do a lot of foreplay! If you give her oral and make her cum first the pressure is off of you to perform (and even if you can't she'll still come back for more if she was satisfied). Also getting a blowjob for a little while can't hurt! Jumping right into sex can be difficult, I'm not…
/r/seduction23/10/15 06:59 PM
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Don't mention anything unless she asks. Don't lie though and tell her afterwards for sure. Practice putting on a condom beforehand and read up on cunnilingus! If you can't stay hard or finish too fast go down on her and make her orgasm. That way it was still a good experience for her and she'll want a round two
/r/seduction08/10/15 07:28 PM
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How about "You buy the beers, I'll buy the shots". See if she can hang, girls love taking shots and most people need a chaser. Also, you don't wanna be such a dick to the girl just to prove a point. I buy drinks for my friends all the time and they buy me drinks all the time. Nothing wrong with buying a pretty girl a beer sometimes and not expecting anything back in return. If you start financing her entire night out while she's grinding on other dudes then it's a problem. And if she ends up wal…
/r/seduction01/10/15 08:22 PM
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Seriously, it's gross
/r/seduction01/10/15 03:06 PM
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If a girl ever did this to me I would stop seeing her. It's disgusting.
/r/seduction01/10/15 03:06 PM
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Honestly there's not much you could do to prepare for a situation like this because chances are it'll never happen again. Never had to face such a level of disrespect but I've gotta commend you for keeping your cool because I don't do well with unwanted physical contact. I'd say it's highly likely you were hitting on his date or somebody he knew. Not much you can really do without it resulting in a fight. The best and most mature thing to do would be to walk away, have a drink and get back in fr…
/r/seduction30/09/15 04:55 PM
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I trim with an electric trimmer up top and use a Gillette Fusion for my balls. Never use an electric trimmer on your nuts, it always snags the soft skin. For the balls I usually take a cool shower (as cool as you can stand so your balls don't sag too much) and lather them in shaving cream/gel. Make sure you pull the skin tight so you don't snag yourself and take your time. Rinse the razor often. I rarely cut myself. The trickiest part is the dip between the two testicles. Make sure you get the h…
/r/seduction11/09/15 06:21 AM
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I'm a dude but I go trimmed on top, and clean shaven on the balls.
/r/seduction11/09/15 04:34 AM
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This. I've banged girls on the beach, the side of somebodies house, bathrooms, cars, etc. If the attraction is there and you get her horny with heavy making out/touching a lot of girls will have sex anywhere. For many, being in a public place makes it more exciting. Sometimes they'll bring you back to their place. If they really want you they'll make it work.
/r/seduction24/08/15 07:11 PM
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I think these guys are mad about your advice because they have to change so much about their own situation that it seems like a lot of work. But these are things I've been doing for years regardless if I'm getting laid that night or not. A clean, mature living space. Being well dressed, well groomed and smelling good. Having snacks and wine ready to go. None of it is that much effort but if you're trying to do it all at once it's too much.
/r/seduction13/08/15 01:44 AM
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Nah man you're completely right and it doesn't make you boring, this dude is just salty. My room is minimal but comfortable. I have a great entertainment center, a custom built PC and a nice bed with a headboard where I keep candles/my phone charger. That's about it.
/r/seduction13/08/15 01:39 AM
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If you're waiting for the day before your date to plan all this out then yeah, it's too much work. But all of this is solid advice. If you really want to attract women a dirty ass apartment and gross bedsheets aren't gonna cut it. And what if you manage to spontaneously bring a girl back to your place? You should make cleanliness a habit. Having a mature, clean living space, dressing nice, smelling nice, having snacks, wine....these are things you should be doing if you really want to step up yo…
/r/seduction13/08/15 01:31 AM
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Not necessarily a red flag, it's really up to you. Personally I don't mind paying for the first date but I would never consistently date a girl that always made me pay
/r/seduction25/07/15 06:20 PM
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Knew it. Ben Foster plays such an awkward character haha
/r/seduction22/05/15 11:01 PM
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Damn that's so disappointing to learn. Lambskin feels 100x better.
/r/seduction25/03/15 07:31 PM
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What's that supposed to mean?
/r/seduction31/01/15 01:10 AM
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How do they tell who is single? Are they going by married/not married? I fail to see how they could get an accurate number.
/r/seduction31/01/15 01:08 AM
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If you want to win over a girl, you have to win over her friends and family as well. Make a connection with her best friends, you'll have them helping you game her as well. You also gotta be able to hang on your own with her friends. Following her around like a lap dog because you don't know anybody is a bad move. Think about it, if you brought a girl out with your friends and you had to babysit her the entire time because she wasn't talking to anybody, how would that make you feel?
/r/seduction23/01/15 12:05 AM
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If they work at a customer service job, maybe you shouldn't. I work in retail and I hear the girls I work with every day complain about over bearing guys, or they try to hide in the back when those guys come in. When you work customer service you have to be nice and accommodating to everybody, it's hard to gauge somebody's attraction accurately. The best thing to do if you like that barista or other customer service rep is to be friendly, make quick conversation and just stop by regularly. They …
/r/seduction12/01/15 10:42 PM
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You're probably better off for not pushing the interaction any further. I hate being bothered at the gym, I can only imagine that a hot girl gets hit on endlessly while they're working out. You laid some groundwork down, and it sounds like you made a positive impression!
/r/seduction12/01/15 10:35 PM
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About smelling good, you don't even need cologne. Make sure your clothes are freshly laundered, and use one of those drier sheets. I'd also recommend using a nice smelling body wash. I use Old Spice. If I'm not going out somewhere nice I don't waste my cologne and I still get compliments on my smell. Of course use deodorant and keep up with your oral hygiene. I started using an Orabrush tongue cleaner and I've never felt fresher. A lot of bacteria forms on the tongue. Mouthwash and Listerine bre…
/r/seduction09/11/14 03:17 PM
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Sounds like this girl is just playing the field and only wants to be fuck buddies. Don't get clingy or make it weird. I would try to keep her around as a booty call. "If you fucked her once then you can fuck her twice" - Schoolboy Q
/r/seduction25/09/14 06:36 AM
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Try to be well rested when you go out. I tend to be sharper in general when I'm not exhausted. Also, make sure you stay hydrated! A lot of people here are suggesting alternating water between drinks but even every two drinks should be fine. Lastly, I would suggest sticking to one type of drink throughout the night, preferably beers with a lower ABV. Any good bar will have a bunch of different beers on tap, usually with a menu that shows the ABV. Beer won't get you drunk as fast so you're gonna b…
/r/seduction15/09/14 02:34 AM
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I second this. Learn to play an instrument, or sing, or produce music! Girls like musicians, it's fun and playing shows can give you a social life!
/r/seduction02/09/14 08:10 PM
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That's a good idea! How about investing your money in some stocks? You can tell people you're an investor and make money in the process
/r/seduction02/09/14 05:52 PM
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Great idea!
/r/seduction10/08/14 02:04 PM
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No problem! Solid FR. I just wanted to clarify for the less experienced on this subreddit.
/r/seduction10/07/14 01:12 AM
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I'd like to note it's a risky move to ignore the friend. It worked out for you, but that's not always the case. A lot of the time if the friend isn't having fun and being included she will cock block you.
/r/seduction09/07/14 10:16 PM
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I'd like to note you don't have to stay stone cold sober, but getting too wasted is going to hurt a lot more than it helps
/r/seduction24/05/14 11:21 PM
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If you're having fun dancing, ladies will want to join you. Never in the history of ever has a guy standing on the wall looking miserable picked up a chick. You don't even have to be a good dancer, just enjoy yourself
/r/seduction24/05/14 11:20 PM
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Great advice. Working out makes you feel so much better about yourself. It's not even about getting big for me (although that's a bonus).
/r/seduction23/05/14 11:26 PM
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Just a tip, I think if you start lifting weights it will motivate you to procrastinate less and eat healthier. You will feel more energized throughout the day. You'll want to eat healthier as to not fuck up all your hard work at the gym. Plus, healthy food is better energy for when you hit the gym.
/r/seduction23/05/14 11:22 PM
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How did you get home?
/r/seduction05/05/14 06:38 AM
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I don't watch sports of any kind, I don't see it as a problem.
/r/seduction20/01/14 02:30 PM
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Really, the part that got me was the orange Chuck Taylors. A nice pair of shoes is key when you're dressing up. Sounds like his top half was too formal (button up, tie, vest) and his bottom was too casual (jeans and sneakers). I would have skipped the tie and went button up, vest, jeans and a nice pair of oxfords or something similar.
/r/seduction26/11/13 08:05 PM
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There is going to be variance using any scale to compare the attractiveness of women. There are no criteria to accurately judge by.
/r/seduction28/08/13 06:48 AM
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i.e. he needs to get laid and end the slump he's in to get his confidence back up
/r/seduction23/06/13 12:03 AM
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I would've probably said "You're lame man, everybody has an ex, go bother somebody else". Then I wouldn't listen to anything else they had to say. Just a "Whatever man I'll see you later". You really don't even have to justify a response. Why bother fighting with the guy? He's obviously a loser, still stuck in the past.
/r/seduction08/04/13 03:03 AM
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I remember seeing some posts a while ago about the "BIT" technique. Befriend, ignore, then tool. You start with befriending the guy. Giving him a shot, introducing yourself, giving him the benefit of the doubt. It's completely fair for a guy to be feeling out your set. For all he knows, you could be her cousin. I usually make it apparent that we're dating but not in a butthurt way. A welcome handshake, eye contact and a smile and "Hi, I'm ______'s boyfriend/date". Most guys will back off. If he'…
/r/seduction17/02/13 05:42 AM
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Yeah I agree. Seems like HB Goth isn't girlfriend material but you want to make her one only if you run out of options
/r/seduction08/12/12 06:05 PM
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I think it's a genius line
/r/seduction22/11/12 09:46 PM
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If there is a mutually beneficial relationship to be had, and both people are honest about their feelings, then it is not oneitis. There's nothing wrong with starting a relationship. Be honest with yourself about your own intentions. Having feelings for a girl is completely 100% healthy until they're not reciprocated and you sacrifice yourself with no return on your investment. That is what people mean when they say "you have oneitis, move on".
/r/seduction15/05/12 07:48 AM
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I gotta say, the shoes are my favorite part. Nicely done.
/r/seduction30/04/12 06:19 AM
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Well every girl is different lol. It's good that you're looking for signals, behind adaptive in the bedroom is key. I just don't want you being the guy that just jams away at a vagina. Vary it up, slow strokes can build anticipation!
/r/seduction29/02/12 01:50 AM
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Idk about that whole "metal surface" theory man. It's more about keeping a steady pace than it is about speed. Even a girl that's really turned on will dry up down there if you're trying to light a spark with her vag.
/r/seduction28/02/12 11:38 PM
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Shit man I wouldn't want anything to do with a girl that didn't approve of my career.
/r/seduction26/01/12 01:21 AM
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Sometimes you have to let somebody go if the timing isn't right. Looks aren't everything. It's something I've had to do a few times. Never easy, but always for the best.
/r/seduction28/10/11 10:32 PM
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I have found their reactions to be that they pay what they owe haha. There ARE some girls that are stuck up and might not see you again but that's how you weed out the good from the bad.
/r/seduction02/10/11 11:18 PM
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I don't agree with everything in this article. While it's true that women like a man that is well groomed and has a good sense of style, clothes don't make or break the PUA. It can inspire confidence that will be good for game but charm and game is the most important thing. Looking good is second. Ever seen the fat/ugly kid with the really hot girl? He probably knows how to talk to women. I'd also disagree about status and pick up. My friend is a med student with a private plane and an expensive…
/r/seduction20/09/11 06:38 PM
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I feel you on this. I've had this problem for like 4 years. One night stands are always fun but it can be a lonely lifestyle, especially when you really like somebody and they only want you for sex. Sometimes it's nice to have somebody you actually connect with. It's all in your frame. When you get good at picking up, it's easy to treat all your girls as a PUA, even the ones you really like. You have to break the habit and approach her as a girlfriend. Don't rush into the sex, but more important…
/r/seduction19/09/11 09:56 PM
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The problem is the people who interpret negging as just insulting her. A neg should be a little sassy but not insulting in the least bit. Ideally I'd look for a response like "hahaha oh really?". Some people just think being a dick will get you chicks.
/r/seduction19/09/11 09:20 PM
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I think this is an excellent video. I have long since figured out these rules in my own way but hearing them elaborated by you only helped to affirm these to me.
/r/seduction15/09/11 08:54 AM
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I believe it's less about what you choose to do and more about that you're doing something interesting. Being a couch potato is boring. Being social is fun.
/r/seduction15/09/11 08:52 AM
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What he's saying is stop being a follower. Don't ask women "would it be okay if we did this" and "do you mind if we go to" and instead say "I think it'd be fun to" "I want to take you to". Don't ask her permission like a little bitch, tell her what you want. Be assertive. He's not saying go out and rape women, he's saying lay your offer on the table and don't give a fuck if you upset them with the offer. Start living for yourself instead of living for the woman. Nobody likes a pushover.
/r/seduction15/09/11 08:48 AM
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If you fall in love with every girl too quickly, you probably aren't comfortable being single. You need to learn to enjoy time with YOURSELF before you have a successful relationship. Your girl should only be one aspect of a fulfilling life, not every aspect. Once you are fulfilled in your career, social life, hobbies and self esteem, I guarantee you won't be so clingy.
/r/seduction08/09/11 06:28 AM
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Playing beer pong with a girl at a party is a great way to hook up.
/r/seduction06/09/11 02:54 AM
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I'm 22, literally live in my parents basement and I still bring girls back all the time. Barely a speed bump, let alone a roadblock.
/r/seduction01/09/11 03:10 AM
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Condom?
/r/seduction27/08/11 08:27 AM
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I second this. I usually am direct unless I end up talking to somebody in a naturally occurring manner. Making up some ploy cover up seems more lame to me and a lot of people can see right through it. You can't try and feel it out because sometimes the girl comes off as a bitch to test you. Last night I was out and me and a friend approached this set of four girls. We were direct and one came back with a "stay away from my friends blah blah blah I'm protective I'm a bitch". Ended up gaining her …
/r/seduction23/08/11 11:50 PM
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