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I think you're partially correct. Peacocking is about being as noticeable as possible, but in the context of attracting a mate. Just in the same way that a peahen is attracted to a peacock with the most extravagant tail, a man's goal would be to appear as attractive as possible to a woman. Of course, taste is subjective and a woman is going to be considering more than just plain looks, but there are common themes, such as being hygienic, wearing fashionable and well fitting clothes, being sociab…
/r/seduction24/07/25 12:29 PM
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There's just as many men that are as useless as the women you describe, ask yourself if you hate them too.
/r/seduction22/07/25 06:26 AM
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Could just be anxiety. I tend to pinch the inside of my elbow when I'm feeling anxious.
/r/seduction03/06/25 06:29 AM
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Whatever diet you choose, the only thing that matters is calorie restriction. You can lose weight with a diet of pizza, donuts and sitting on the sofa if you only eat 1500 calories a day. There's no fun way or easy tricks to lose weight, but if you commit and stick to a plan, you will achieve your goal.
/r/seduction01/02/25 10:05 PM
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It was more or less the same for me when I first tried OLD. It is disheartening, but don't let it bother you. Getting the matches is just the first step, which you have done successfully, so congratulations! The next step is working out what they want to hear, that took me quite some time to work out, but keep trying and you'll soon crack it. This needs to be tailored depending on the individual and what they're looking for, keep trying different approaches and you'll soon find out what keeps th…
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:32 PM
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It depends on the work place. If OP is working in McDonald's to earn some pocket money whilst they're in college, then go for it. If it is a professional job where OP is trying to make their career, tread lightly!
/r/seduction27/08/22 06:49 AM
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A lot of people are paranoid 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:40 AM
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Well it starts off as "I'm only going to use in situation X", then it's "I'm only going to use in situations X,Y&Z", before you know it, you're dependant and the root cause of your original usage remains unchanged and you're paying for drugs that you don't need. If you have anxiety, you need to deal with the causes of that anxiety, when it comes to approaching, I would recommend immersion. It will take time, but your anxiety will diminish and you'll feel so much better because you know it was yo…
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:18 AM
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Using drugs as a crutch is a slippery slope, I can tell you that from personal experience.
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:00 AM
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This. They want to feel safe and know you could defend them if needed, but hope it never comes to that. Violence should always be the last resort.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:05 PM
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"Just figure it out" is pretty shitty advice. If it was that easy for them then they probably wouldn't need to be reading books on the subject, even if the book is shitty too, it might be what they need to give them the confidence to start the game of trial and error.
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:47 PM
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You're 27, it's time to drop the games like "let them chase", I believe you're already doing the right thing, it's just a numbers game. You could try an app that's better for dating than hooking up like Bumble. I'd also keep in mind how you put yourself across, we can all think of some women that we'd love to smash but wouldn't marry in a million years, make sure there's more to you than fuckability.
/r/seduction25/05/22 11:29 AM
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The hardest part of a journey is often the first step, once the first step is taken you just have to keep putting one foot in front of the other. Keep trying hard, never give up, and you will achieve your goals!
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:07 AM
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It's women that are the problem!!! -Turbo Virgin 2022
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:15 PM
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You need to ask yourself if no/minimal sex is a deal breaker for your relationship. If it is, you need to tell her that and work out a solution that you're both happy with. This is just an anecdote but I have a colleague who has two kids with his wife. His wife has zero interest in sex, because of this she lets him sleep around because that way they're both happy. They still do all the family stuff that any family does, he just gets the sex elsewhere and that works for them.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:59 AM
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Keep trying and mix up your approach until you find something that works.
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:54 PM
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A guarantee you that a large amount of the most successful men you can imagine have slept with prostitutes multiple times. Sport starts, movie stars, politicians, you name them. If all you want is sex and then for her to leave, then a prostitute makes perfect sense. You're not a loser unless you believe you're accepting a measly compromise rather than working hard for what you really want. You can want to learn to be a great chef and still get a take out every now and again.
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:52 PM
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Exactly and that's not counting the times you strike out. If all you want is sex and then for her to leave, it's a no brainer. You're not a loser for knowing what you want and going and getting it. You're a loser if you know you're accepting a measly compromise instead of working hard for what you really want.
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:46 PM
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Not really, some people don't like relationships or can't always be bothered with the hassle of seduction and are simply willing to pay to get the job done efficiently. It doesn't mean that they aren't interested in the subject or that they have nothing to offer. It's like saying a cooking sub is doomed because someone is willing to pay to go to a restaurant or get take out.
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:39 PM
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People like you are just another reason for why humanity sucks. Imagine having a mentality so shit that instead of aiming to succeed by your own merit, you aim to succeed by sabotaging the merits of others.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:17 AM
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If the time isn't right now, it's probably not going to be right next week or next month. You're either interested or you're not, if you are, just touch her back! If you're not interested, just let her know so she can move on! ABE, "always be escalating!"
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:12 PM
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The main thing to keep in mind is that escorts are for sex only, if you have any issues that may stop you performing as you desire, an escort isn't going to fix them, they're not therapists or life coaches. The second thing to keep in mind is that there will be zero emotional connection, for some people this is vital and isn't something that can be simulated well via a paid transaction. If you pay for an escort and it doesn't go as you thought it might, you could end up even more frustrated than…
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:22 PM
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Yh, then I have to agree with the other guys in this thread. I recommend going quiet (not ghosting, but taking a big step back) and being prepared to move on. It'll be pretty clear if she wants things to continue because it'll be up to her to put the effort in.
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:29 PM
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I agree, a spark is either there or it isn't, it won't develop by waiting a few weeks or months. It's possible she's playing hard to get but that is very immature and not long term relationship material.
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:25 PM
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If you're young (teens / early twenties), play the game, see how it plays out and for better or worse, use it as a learning experience. If you're much older, tell her you're interested in her but not interested in a sexless relationship, that it's a red line for you and that it's something that you're not prepared to wait indefinitely on for her to make up her mind. Honestly it almost sounds as if she's baiting you in to breaking up with her so that she doesn't have to break up with you. Maybe s…
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:20 PM
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I somewhat agree. Sex ed for me was very clinical, only talking about the function of sex and associated risks, whereas porn only teaches you about the pleasure and kink sides of sex. What was lacking and crucially in my opinion was teaching the emotional side to sex, not just sex for procreation or for pleasure, but for something to enjoy mutually with someone you care about.
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:21 PM
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You look good, so if you're not getting matches it may be that your bio needs some fine tuning. Keep playing around with it until you find something that works and be patient! Good luck!
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:09 PM
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Fair point, I found the apps quite disheartening to begin with, but then I got good at knowing what the women want to hear. Ended up with more matches than I could deal with (not hundreds, but plenty enough for me 😅) and I'd say I'm average looking at best.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:38 PM
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Download dating apps and play the numbers game until your confidence is rebuilt.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:13 PM
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You can tell when they're not interested which is good. Just put it all down as an experience and move on. Good luck out there!
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:10 PM
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Choosing a career path based solely on approaching women is terrible advice 🤣
/r/seduction30/12/21 08:24 PM
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Watch the Olympics.
/r/seduction11/12/21 08:12 AM
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I've had this experience. If you're like me you have a double wammy of porn addiction (essential your brain is so wired to be turned on by porn, that even super hot real life women can't do it for you), combined with death grip (masturtbating to the point that your dick is losing sensitivity). Stop watching porn and go fap free for a length of time that could be up to three months. This will be hard but will build up your level of horniness and your sensitivity. It also helps to not focus too mu…
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:14 AM
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Brilliant post
/r/seduction25/11/21 11:56 AM
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That's what I used to be like, it's called incredibly low self esteem.
/r/seduction06/11/21 07:49 AM
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Discuss what you want from your escort before any money changes hands, if she's less attractive or not offering what was advertised, don't be scared to walk away. Escorts aren't a magic bullet for any problems you might have, if you can't perform casually, you probably won't perform at an appointment. Escorts are just there for sex, they're not therapists. I'm very much an each to their own person, if you want to try it, go for it, don't set your expectations too high. Personally I'd only pay fo…
/r/seduction05/11/21 02:05 PM
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More importantly are you interested in them? Work place romances can be a minefield. If you're not interested, make it clear, keep the relationship strictly professional, don't be a dick but see if you can steer the conversation back to work etc. If you are interested, take them up on one of their lunch offers or something and see where it goes.
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:25 PM
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Need ≠ want. If he's made it clear that he's sexually interested in her and she's just stringing him along then she is taking advantage of him and he is allowing her to.
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:53 AM
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If you're both happy with just sex then fine, but if she's not putting out by the third date, move on. If you want something more than just sex, move on.
/r/seduction09/10/21 10:46 AM
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Save the hassle. Before meeting up he should send "it's not working out, we should see other people. Goodbye"
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:29 PM
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For the people that have foreskin, I'm just going to add this here as I was a longtime sufferer and didn't even know I wasn't normal; Phimosis. Your foreskin should pull all the way back comfortably. Mine used to retract to about the size of a five pence and was pure agony to stretch beyond that, which of course was a big problem for proper cleaning. Fortunately for me I was able to fix mine with repeated and continuous stretching over many weeks. For further advice see your doctor, he/she will …
/r/seduction18/09/21 07:00 AM
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