143somuch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
270	FDS worked for me!	FDS SUCCESS!	143somuch	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/20 03:25 AM
125	Changing what you’re attracted to changes the game	STRATEGY	143somuch	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 05:58 PM
46	How do you respond when a guy suggests an inconvenient date spot?	DISCUSSION	143somuch	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/20 12:18 AM
39	Do you consider men LV if they ask you to go back to their place early in the courting phase?	DISCUSSION	143somuch	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/20 06:59 PM
35	OLD dealbreakers/red flags	DISCUSSION	143somuch	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 01:54 AM
22	What do you do if the guy doesn’t confirm the date until the day of?	DISCUSSION	143somuch	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/20 05:35 PM
21	What do you say when the guy asks you to pick the date spot?	DISCUSSION	143somuch	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 02:18 AM
13	What to do when guy adds you on social media before meeting?	SEEKING ADVICE	143somuch	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 08:17 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	What do you do if the guy doesn’t confirm the date until the day of? This is a first date. Before today, we last spoke on Thursday to confirm we were meeting on Tuesday (today). No specific time/place was confirmed. He followed up today at 9:30 to confirm the time and location. I took your advice and am glad I did. I said I made other plans since I hadn’t heard from him to confirm a time and place. He apologized for not confirming sooner, we nailed down a new date for the next time we’re both free (Tuesday) and he said he would text me Sunday to confirm a time an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/20 10:35 PM
3	What do you do if the guy doesn’t confirm the date until the day of? Thank you for the advice! Couldn’t agree more on the importance of men impressing us. I took your advice in the first paragraph and am glad I did. I said I made other plans since I hadn’t heard from him to confirm a time and place. He apologized for not confirming sooner, we nailed down a new date for the next time we’re both free (Tuesday) and he said he would text me Sunday to confirm a time and place. I’m glad that I achieved the desired outcome of him knowing I don’t accept same-day planning…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/20 10:33 PM
2	What do you say when the guy asks you to pick the date spot? Good point - he was light-hearted about it (used 😉emoji at the end of the text) but phrasing it as a question would have been more considerate	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 03:33 AM
5	What do you say when the guy asks you to pick the date spot? Good advice - thank you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 03:32 AM
3	What do you say when the guy asks you to pick the date spot? Insightful response - thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 03:31 AM
3	What do you say when the guy asks you to pick the date spot? Thank you for the advice!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 03:31 AM
6	What do you say when the guy asks you to pick the date spot? Edited to post to add that he used a 😉 emoji at the end of the text so I didn’t get the resentment vibe. Thanks for your response!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 03:30 AM
5	What to do when guy adds you on social media before meeting? Will ignore - thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 08:48 PM
10	What to do when guy adds you on social media before meeting? Will ignore - thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 08:48 PM
10	PSA Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you in his IG viewed-my-story list. Reciprocate energy back to fuckboys. Low-effort gets ZERO attention. I mute them so that their insta stories are “out of sight, out of mind” and don’t accidentally start playing while scrolling through stories. I intentionally do this instead of unfollowing/blocking. I feel like the fact that I COULD be watching their stories (since I’m still following them) but am choosing not to is the ultimate hit to their ego since it shows how little I care about what they’re doing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/19 04:03 PM
9	Dating Recap: W/E 22nd December, 2019 Ugh Carlos’ true colors are such a disappointment! Love “The Hinge Collective” in the rotation, great term. And Ryan did a good job redeeming himself until the bill came...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/19 04:00 PM
13	Changing what you’re attracted to changes the game Love that!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 06:23 PM
43	FDS Strategy: when he asks for polyamory, you kick him to the curb This is a really thoughtful post. Thank you for sharing your experience. I’ve always been skeptical of polyamory and I appreciate the perspective you provided on the specific ways it contrasts with FDS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 01:59 AM