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-9

You have to grow up in order to be a man.
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 01:43 AM
1

Not intentionally.
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 01:25 AM
-10

It's not women's job. Their fathers must teach them to be men.
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 01:24 AM
1

I mean, that was me. I was a kissless virgin until I was 21 and I still knew what I wanted from guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:39 PM
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Girls aren't stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:39 PM
1

Nope. I don't need to compensate for it. I've learned from it. I've never been treated well or been respected. I no longer expect it. And I focus on getting what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:45 AM
2

I did spend my childhood getting shit on. I learned to not need people except for basic needs like food and utilities. I learned that even that is a luxury that I should be thankful for, and that relationships are more than I should ever expect; fleeting glimpses of Heaven that never last forever. It's not delusion. It's life. Everyone learns this eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:30 AM
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They can start learning about DATING when they are 18, maybe 16 if it's a really mature kid. And I'm not even talking about socializing, they already should have been doing that since they were in diapers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:27 AM
4

Boys should leave girls alone and girls should reject boys. Both sexes of young people have enough problems already. Now go study, it's almost finals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:44 PM
2

Oh well, guess I'm mentally ill then. I don't need validation from anyone in order to proceed in doing what I want and pursuing what I want. Validation is nice, for sure, but not needed. If we all sat around and waited for approval from others before we lived our lives, we could never grow or evolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:35 PM
1

That's weak shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:10 PM
2

Exactly what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:09 PM
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Speaking for myself, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:06 AM
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I don't think my feelings would have been different had he looked more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:59 AM
3

That's not what I was implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:58 AM
11

That'll kind of what OP is saying men should do; to find some aspect of yourself that you can take pride in instead of relying on validation from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:18 AM
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I honestly don't know. Hos looks grew on me after getting to know him. It's like having an acquired taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:05 AM
2

I haven't been through anything really. I'm just unavailable. It's by choice. People who choose to stay single are viewed as flawed or toxic, but I promise we're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:47 PM
1

Apparently red pilled men think I'm toxic for not wanting to date them. In reality I want to be left alone and not date ANYBODY. In my opinion it's the aggressors, the pursuers who disrupt my peace who are the incorrigible monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:16 PM
5

It shouldn't even matter if the husband introduced it. If a person wants to use a toy they can and it's nobody's business.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:28 AM
1

No one is gaslighting you bud. People are allowed to have opinions and perspectives that differ from yours, your word isn't law. Most women echo what I'm saying and if you want to be pig-headed and not listen then you're the one losing out, not us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:26 PM
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Yes, and I'm a woman and I'm telling you something. You should listen. And if you can make broad statements about all women then I could too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:07 PM
1

My boyfriend looks like the live child of Paulie Shore and Bubbles from "Trailer Park Boys". I was/am absolutely not attracted to his looks. But he makes me feel good and he is kind. You should listen to what women have to say about what we value in a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:18 PM
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That sounds more like codependence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:00 PM
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Parents get non-material rewards from their children. Otherwise they just take care of them because they're obligated to and there are definitely sad cases like that. But with a partner there is no obligation. So why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:15 PM
0

What would such a relationship look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:54 AM
2

Nobody loves anything or anyone who doesn't add value to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:03 AM
1

You have to put a ring on it. The best marriages I've seen have been where the husband keeps romancing his wife and the wife keeps appreciating her husband. It's a lot of work to put in. You can lose your hair, etc. and that doesn't matter. What you must never do is take your partner for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:01 AM
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They don't get to say yes or no unless the guy asks them. I've never seen a man wait longer than five minutes after a break up to get another girlfriend. Often they start before the breakup or divorce os even final.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:17 PM
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I take anything online with a huge grain of salt. And men and women IRL are not middle schoolers so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:10 AM
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You have no way of knowing who is making those posts or why. Internet shitposting and middle-schooler gossip are about as meaningful as a bunch of ducks quacking. Probably less. We would all do well to ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:54 PM
1

Ah, those are not women talking about men. Those are kids talking like kids do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:41 PM
1

I don't think women really talk about male virginity much if at all. It's more the opposite. The whole concept was invented by men to judge the "purity" of women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:12 PM
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It's not truth. It's nonsense. Pure copium. But I understand how some would be glad to believe it. Some people need to lie to themselves a little (or a lot) in order to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:47 PM
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Your shifting the blame onto women. Men move from one love to the next easily, no matter how long they were with the previous one. Women are not "selecting" these men. The men go out and get them. So yes, men DO get women by desiring them and then taking action. Men are generally more pro-active than women and that's part of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:19 PM
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The ones I go to are full of cute little 20-somethings and older married ladies. And a few dudes now and then. Not every woman who's single is that way because no one wanted them. Personally, I'm single because I'm too busy doing other things to date right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:50 PM
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These women look ugly to me especially Vinetria. Their faces are masculine. 0/10 faces. 10/10 hair though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:39 AM
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Not the same. Presentation is everything. That's the core of advertising.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:01 PM
1

Who am I attacking? Read the whole convo please.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:25 PM
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Presentation matters. Why is it so hard to be clean, smile, and stand in front of some mountains or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:24 PM
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Did he imply that? I don't see "having 2 kids" in the comments but okay. 20-something women are horrible to deal with too if we're being honest. They're just ahead of the boys. Things tend to equal out in the 30's, though I've known my share of 40 year old dudes still acting like adolescents. Mental maturity is the crux of the conversation. Not fertility. No one is talking about fertility and parenthood so drop that talking point please. If you're not mentally mature enough to be a suitable part…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:28 PM
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Maybe. But the wives still work. I know because I work with them. They're doing temp work in factories and pumping during their breaks because they have nursing babies at home. That's the reality of being lower-income or working class.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:23 PM
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Nobody said anything about kids. And women over 30 are not past their prime. Not by a long shot, 30's is young. I never advocated against dating down either. And I'm talking about mental maturity. Mental maturity will always be desirable for both sexes and immaturity is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:36 PM
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They're in their dirty-ass bathrooms half the time too. I don't get it. My bathroom isn't always clean so I take a picture outside with some trees or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:11 PM
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I'm only talking about the high functioning. Forgive me if I've misunderstood your comment but it sounds like you are high functioning?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:03 PM
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Yeah and it's not working out so well for them. They'll realize this and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:01 PM
2

Personally, I lack the desire to. I would also be afraid of their jealousy. I would feel like a ho bag. And I like sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:00 PM
1

Teeny boppers aren't having serious relationships yet anyway so it's not worth discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:35 PM
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Who said anything about them being past their prime or having kids? He just said 30. 30 year olds are much more mature, self-assured, and overall nicer to be around than 24 year olds. This is especially in the case of men, who science says mature slower than women. I never liked guys my own age because they seemed immature to me, until I reached my 30's. It's okay. It's a human thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:34 PM
1

I work weekends and nights so that's me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:29 PM
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Try Match.com sometime. Lotta guys don't even smile or wear clean clothes in their pictures. Some look like mug shots. Like, I don't expect someone to have a professional quality profile picture but you need to at least not look like you just murdered someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:27 PM
1

I mean, we probably could. But we don't, for many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:22 PM
0

The majority of high functioning ASD sufferers get relationships just fine. In fact they tend to flourish because they're more "geared" for monogamy. ASD or other conditions are not an excuse unless you're profoundly disabled, as in can't communicate effectively or function independently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:19 PM
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That's definitely not normal friends behavior and they probably are having sex at their convenience. Going places together is fine. Cuddling in bed is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:05 PM
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I don't believe this is a common issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:02 PM
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They're not alone. They have girlfriends/boyfriends and are learning what they want and how to be in a relationship. Short-term relationships are practice for long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:00 PM
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That's an immature way to look at things. But you're right. You're not good enough for them yet. Grow up some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:57 PM
3

Awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:55 AM
1

So basically, become a third-world society. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:53 AM
0

Looks are only part of it. And how big a part depends on individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:34 PM
5

Workers will never get a higher salary. Immigration and overpopulation mean employers will always be spoiled for choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:31 PM
1

The point is once these assholes die we should do things differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:03 PM
12

Women have to work otherwise hubby and kiddos get evicted and thrown out into the street. How many men are supporting their families on one income? I have yet to see one in my age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:59 PM
1

That's all good. I would add don't start drinking or smoking anything. Don't even worry about dating. Focus on getting your career started before graduation. Everything else can come later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:51 PM
-1

I'm willing to ignore looks if we have hobbies in common, similar life goals, and chemistry when it comes to conversation. Online dating is definitely not about looks! If you have a bare-bones profile and you suck at conversation or put out weird vibes, you ain't getting nothing, no matter what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:47 PM
2

Well those men are pieces of garbage, like I said. You can't contribute to another person's downfall and then judge them for it. Not all men do this either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:41 AM
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Men get bored and leave no matter what women do. Some men are sleazy transients. I dated one for two years. He's had three more girlfriends and a divorce since we broke up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:58 PM
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"What social activities or hobbies do you honestly think young adult women are doing in mixed gender settings besides clubbing or related things?" I gave you examples. There are young women at them. I'll say it again, nobody "needs" to go anywhere. Normal humans like having hobbies and making friends. If you don't want to participate because there might be old ladies there, then don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:48 PM
2

Like I said, he failed his own test and no woman should trust him or take him seriously. He's a low-quality partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:40 PM
3

Meetups are a fun thing to do and nobody "needs" to go to them. The ones I go to have people of all ages including teenagers. I think being hung up on people's ages is silly. Since you're obsessed with young girls for some reason, volunteer at a horse therapy place or a riding stable. Or the Humane Society. There's 10 girls to every boy at these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:38 PM
2

The past no longer exists. There is only now and we are all constantly changing. It's normal to want something one day and something different the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:17 PM
3

What does paternity have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:16 PM
8

Meet-ups, outdoor groups and volunteering are overwhelmingly female. The real question is where are the guys? Oh, that's right, at home playing video games or watching sports, alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:10 PM
1

Let me guess. Computer science majors?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:57 PM
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He had sex with her then judged her for it. That makes no sense. How can you judge someone for something you had a part in?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:55 PM
1

There's no way that's accurate. Virgins? At 18? Fine. 30? No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:53 PM
-1

Just an observation. People are hitting it all over the place where I live. To be fair it's a college town.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:18 PM
1

There is only now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:17 PM
1

Degenerate bullshit, in other words.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:16 PM
1

That article is misleading and divisive anti-family bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:14 PM
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Rich men are too often weird and full of themselves. I've had plenty as clients in my business and I honestly pity their wives. If he's rich AND not toxic that would be cool. Everyone likes money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:11 PM
1

Those studies are definitely bollocks. Kids of same-sex parents actually get abused and neglected more. So do pets, even.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:09 PM
2

I'm a single gal and I don't try anymore. Men have never been interested in me for some reason and I'm tired of wasting mental energy on trying to figure out why. I've got other stuff to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:04 PM
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If he has sex with her then he failed his own test.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:57 PM
3

The past doesn't matter unless you caught something nasty or had a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:51 PM
1

7 is nothing, for either sex. All guys have numbers in the double digits by the time they're 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:46 PM
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There are things going on in the world that anyone would be justly enraged about. Negative emotions have a purpose. I'm not necessarily saying the red pillers are right about everything or even anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:34 PM
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Most women in their 30's are married and have at least one kid. I don't know what you guys are trying to say about the wall because you keep shifting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:01 PM
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Most women that age have been married and had their kids already. They're not on the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:03 AM
3

That's me. If I've hit some wall it hasn't affected my life in any way. I'm doing all of the things I want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:48 PM
2

Wall isn't until 50's or 60's when menopause is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:57 PM
1

Nearly all the men in my area are over 6' and quite a few of the women are too. When a short guy comes along he's like an exotic little piece of candy. Girls will fight over him LOL! If you are a short guy, just move to a German town in the Midwest of the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:36 PM
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I think the wall exists but women don't really care, nor should we. Most of us are either married or sick of men by that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:29 PM
2

By that age she's married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:27 PM
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No women can secure ANY man she wants for commitment. We're all born hitting that wall then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:27 PM
1

Where? Where do they advocate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:06 PM
0

Oh no the poor mens! I insulted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:56 PM
1

That's not what their words and behavior would indicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:00 AM
1

I've never heard of feminism advocating adultery. But even if it did, it would only be fair. Men of means have been having their cake and eating it too since forever. Feminism was a way for a broader range of men to also get that because of more liberated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:56 PM
1

I imagine that it helps to be near a large city where there are more people using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:22 PM
2

How's that relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:19 PM
0

Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:19 PM
0

It's really not absurd. Every disgusting millennial dude I know who uses that site gets hook-ups. "Matches" I assumed means more than that, as in dating long-term but I've never used it so IDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:17 PM
2

You said basic human touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:14 PM
2

Who are "PPD women"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:13 PM
2

Then the short one would get a mate instead of the tall useless one, obviously. Look at matriarchal tribes. Women loose patience with dumb men pretty damn quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:13 PM
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Not everyone needs to be reproducing. Plenty of women get weeded out of the gene pool, they're not a resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:11 PM
2

We don't care if you're picky. We're not looking at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:07 PM
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You made this post whining about how few HV women there are. Obviously you care. If you were hitting it on a regular basis you wouldn't feel the need to post about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:04 PM
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No because then a lot of inferior men would be passing on their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:00 PM
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That's the biggest lie of our age. Women didn't want the sexual revolution. Men did. Homosexual men, pedophilic men, and sexually predatory, enterpri$ing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:58 PM
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So what's the answer? Women hug each other all the time. Why don't you? Get your bro hugs in, maybe get a golden retriever or a cuddly cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:56 PM
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The average guy in this sub is an obese neckbeard who lives off his parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:50 PM
-2

Then stop looking on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:49 PM
0

I really pity any girl who gets roped in with one of you attachment disorder cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:45 PM
0

Why do you need casual sex? Why does anyone? There's no point to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:40 PM
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Prostitutes and cam girls don't care what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:39 PM
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He'd better be a gentleman to his family and my family, the community and the tribe too. And he needs to know how to protect and provide for us, using violence against outsiders as applicable. That's how our species evolved. Nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:34 PM
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It all seems like paranoia and insecurity to me. Just be thankful if you have a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:28 PM
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You are not mediocre if you have those features you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:09 AM
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There is no "generally accepted" top 5%. It doesn't exist. It's just the percentage that is the most accepted but that doesn't mean it's widely accepted at all. I'm not a statistics teacher so I don't know how to explain this better than I have. And speaking personally, once again, not everyone likes the popular kids. They can absolutely be garbage tier humans and they frequently are. Tell me who you think a top tier man is and I'll give you an honest rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:03 PM
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They're MY top 5% not THE top 5%. The top 5% is not even preferred by the vast majority of the population. That's not how statistics works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:21 PM
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That's not the point. The point is everyone is different and there's someone for everyone. Even Chris Chan had a couple girls who wanted to be his girlfriend. The problem was him. He was too stupid to do anything about it. That's the overarching trend with these perpetually single guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:02 PM
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Avail yourself of the numerous brain studies showing that music is healthy, increases concentration, attention span, improves mood and cognition, and fosters emotional maturity. Video games do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:57 PM
1

Not all demographics of women, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:58 AM
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Who cares you take them seriously. We're obviously not looking to date the same person. You should be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:14 AM
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I am a woman who harshly judges both sexes. Beyonce looks like an alien in a wig. I think Shelly Duvall was an adorable little vixen when she was young. You are free to disagree. That's how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:08 AM
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It's not "coping material". There is no objective standard of attractiveness. It's based on personal preferences. And I've seen these profiles you're talking about. The pictures are attractively composed if not overtly sexual, and professional grade. But I think the people themselves are ugly much of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:37 AM
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That's because we have a strong military and lots of ammo, for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:33 AM
1

I genuinely hope you stop exposing yourself to children. Bye groomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:46 PM
-1

Yeah pacifism only works if everyone agrees to it and I'd rather be the one doing the invading than the one being invaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:39 PM
1

Please tell me, why would parents want their kids being around sexually compulsive individuals like you are describing? Oh, lets let the freaks groom our children to be just like them because not doing so is meannnn! You're not going to win anyone over with that logic, except other sicko groomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:35 PM
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Yeah bit champagne bottles explode all over you. It's best just not to risk it. Women get killed by men they reject every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:30 PM
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Those aren't designed to rate attractiveness they're designed to keep people using the site.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:29 PM
6

More like trying to find the champagne bottle that has champagne in it when 48% or more are potentially filled with urine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:59 PM
4

Personally my oxytocin falls through the floor when I am treated like an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:52 PM
0

Men should do better. They're the physically stronger sex and we need soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:43 PM
1

The top 5% is subjective. Just date around a lot to improve your odds of finding the pot to your lid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:35 PM
1

We can't measure attractiveness in absolute terms. The bar is in a completely different place for each woman. My top 5% would be someone else's bottom 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:32 PM
1

I think we should each have our own assets except for what we agree to share. This is one reason I don't like marriage laws in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:25 PM
1

What are you asking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:21 PM
1

Those are less respectable, or at least not taken as seriously as a marriage between a young couple for the purpose of having children. The reason sex exists (both the act of mating and the sexes: male and female) is for reproduction. It can be for other purposes too but that's the reason it evolved. And no, our brains are not wired for homosexuality, that theory has no evidence. It's more likely a cultural thing. And it can change. Just look at what happens in prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:05 PM
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The thing is, there is such a thing as being so liberated that you lose self-control. Social pressure is designed as a support system and now it's gone. The HIV crisis is a shining example of what can happen. Promiscuity has never been healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:01 PM
1

I know it's hard for little boys to understand this because they think everything that women do is for them. I know y'all think the world revolves around you. But women don't wear make-up for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:56 PM
1

Post the full names of these people, spelled correctly, so I can copy them and paste them into a search engine. This will take five minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:56 PM
1

Um hello? Those are all behaviors. People disagree with those behaviors. You don't have to agree but you don't get to tell others what to think, or fill their children's heads with your beliefs against their consent. No means no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:51 PM
1

Well for one thing, pretty much everything the sexual liberation movement has encouraged. Removing consequences has allowed all sorts of cancers to spread. Consequences are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:48 PM
1

At least it increases fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:47 PM
1

Ah no, it's not the same flipping thing. One produces life, the other is just fornication. One deserves more respect than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:46 PM
1

Sorry not sorry, but preying on children sexually is wrong PERIOD and if you think it's not then you're a danger to humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:30 PM
1

I wouldn't call it a bold claim. With the exception of Machiavelli it's pretty well known. So well known that there are jokes about it, especially the ancient Greeks. You can use Wikipedia can't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:27 PM
1

The problem is they now want us, and our children, to play part in their lifestyles. They don't care if others find it immoral. You're a bad phobic person if you find it immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:57 PM
1

You are correct. These people are dragging us all off a cliff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:54 PM
1

Unhealthy behavior should have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:54 PM
1

I've never seen that 1% building infrastructure or uplifting anyone. Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:53 PM
2

And in mental hospitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:48 PM
1

That's different though. A eunuch physically is a different gender, just as a steer is a different gender from a bull. Only in the West do people "identify" as fictional beings purely because of their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:47 PM
0

Pedophiles have existed for ages to. In some cultures it's the norm. Doesn't mean it deserves respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:44 PM
1

Those guys were also pederasts. Just because something has always existed doesn't mean we should tolerate it or that it's healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:43 PM
1

This crap doesn't exist in the West either, people just pretend it does. It's a fad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:42 PM
2

And these guys end up stunted in all sorts of ways because of it. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:32 PM
1

Music and sports are good for the brain and body respectively. Video games rot body and mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:28 PM
0

In my view video games are a materialistic waste of time and money. Also I won't date men who play with toys. It just shows a lack of maturity. My own hobbies are either creative or active, so I would like a partner who's the same. Anime is ick because most of it is perverted and weird. Keep that shit out of my house LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:24 PM
0

Women do not want male attention but we get it regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:12 PM
2

Definitely NOT husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:09 PM
4

My Steve smokes too much weed and is a self-centered ass. But we're friends and used to be lovers. He'd probably take me back. Not happening though, unless he changes a lot which would be unfair of me to ask of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:08 PM
2

That's the only one I've heard of. And Beastars. You know, degenerate shit. I don't have time to watch shows anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:17 PM
3

Ah, the Okaycupid stats. Is that site still around?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:27 AM
1

I mean, it's just the law of economics. The more you invest, the more you benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:50 PM
1

Like Cuties? 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:48 PM
1

No dude, you just have a voyeristic fascination with death. You might be a psychopath. What about the person dying? What about respect and consideration for them? This is a human being leaving this world, not an art performance for your enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:10 PM
1

Beautiful? That's messed up man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:42 PM
2

I'm telling you that's an excuse and it's incorrect. If you don't want to make use of this information that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:08 PM
2

There are no stats, first of all. That would involve quantifying attractiveness which it's impossible to do. The whole beta Chad concept is meaningless. What's a Chad to me might be a loser yo you snd vise versa. How about we stop judging people?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:00 PM
1

He's whining because he doesn't want to try. He's saying all of us are the problem, not him. This guy can go fuck himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:57 PM
1

LOL no, they didn't hit on me. No guys ever talked to me or even looked at me, unless you count dirty looks. I would approach them and it would piss them off, like the guy who hated green.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:52 PM
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There's no counter argument to be made. You're flat wrong. Maybe listen to what people are telling you about themselves instead of asserting that you know what they want more than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:23 AM
2

Your situation is not comparable to a person getting raped. What a repulsive thing to say. It's no wonder you don't have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:20 AM
1

Apparently I couldn't back then. No boys ever talked to me in my 20's. Not a one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:24 AM
1

You assume you're the only one who faces these struggles but you're not. I'm just telling you that you're not making the required effort. In your mind perhaps you've made a lot of effort, but it obviously isn't enough. Either try again or shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:03 AM
3

Netflix is trash so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:44 AM
3

We are honest. We don't want Chad. You just choose to believe that the reason for your loneliness is us chasing "top tier" men. Also the post is about fictional women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:42 AM
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As a formerly young, thin, decent-looking woman I can say from experience that that's false. Men are picky as all hell and they reject these women. LOL the stupidest thing I ever got rejected for was wearing green, I kid you not!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:40 AM
1

If you made the effort to be social in class, at work, at concerts, in church, at da club, etc. then you would make friends. That's literally how everybody does it. You just don't want to put in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:34 AM
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Getting hit on by thirsty dudes all the time isn't a privilege, and it definitely doesn't help with loneliness. In fact I'd say it does the opposite. These men are not our friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:29 AM
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Women are not privileged, they put far more time and effort into building and maintaining relationships than most men do, thus they tend to have more of them. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:22 AM
2

I've never understood why people want to die with others in the room. It's morbid and creepy for one thing. Also if I were dying I'm sure I would be feeling pretty crappy and wouldn't want people around disturbing my peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:17 AM
1

Just my observation at university watching the 20-somethings. 36 ain't a bad average either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:13 PM
1

I'm not a troll at all. Projecting much? Imagine making a whole account on Reddit just to be anti something. Ew get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:10 PM
1

The heart knows not reason. You're hurting these girls and accepting no responsibility. That's fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:08 PM
1

Then find someone who also wants kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:33 AM
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Relationships are with people you could potentially spend the rest of your life with. No such thing as dating casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:32 AM
3

That's all certainly true. Back to the OP. Is a woman's dating value really judged based on fertility anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:29 AM
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Well you see, that's how filters work. They are multi-layered, to catch out different particulate. And even then someone can make it past all the filters and still not be compatible. The point of dating is to figure that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:15 AM
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No, I meant what I said. Autism is a diagnosis. And just because you're good at computers doesn't mean you're especially smart!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:35 AM
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The ones who are suitable are not on Reddit complaining about how shit their life is, for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:34 AM
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I live in a free country, so to speak. I have limited sympathy for either sex that chooses to stay in abusive relationships. Let the toxic adults kill each other I don't care. The only ones that need saving are the kids involved. And the pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:19 AM
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Let's be real. Computer guys are often autistic. And even if they're not, women have NEVER gone for nerds and there is a plethora of perfectly justifiable reasons why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:09 AM
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We don't wonder where they are. We know they are rare. We just wonder why the gap between good guys and the majority is so huge. Like, can I PLEASE just find a man who's gainfully employed, doesn't have kids and is halfway same? Please?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:46 AM
0

Top tier men are pretty mediocre these days. Women left and right are settling for obese dudes who play video games. It can't be that hard!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:44 AM
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Don't get into relationships with people you don't take seriously. That is hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:36 AM
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Considering there are millions of eggs in each ovary and they never "run out", this is a weird thing to bring up. Menopause happens because of hormones and age, not numbers of eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:35 AM
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Are women allowed to chime in? I'm active, fit and passionate about the outdoors. I'm a woman in my late 30's and I'm always getting hit on by 20-something men haha! Dudes my own age, not so much. I don't think that it's down to age preference on men's part. Most men are married by their 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:28 AM
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Women don't demand qualification standards be lowered for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:03 AM
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Yes they can. Be responsible, pull your weight, advance your career instead of staying in one spot like a bump on a log, basically do the things women already do. Women are surpassing men professionally and in the home. All we are asking is that men keep up with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 07:56 PM
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You'd better be a virgin yourself in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 06:13 PM
2

These guys are never slobs during the honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 06:05 PM
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After hearing many divorcee's testimonies, it's because the husband checks out during those critical years when the kids are little. He gets jealous of the attention the kids are getting, neglects his wife, has affairs, etc. It's so common it's a trope. It's not as simple as "women start the divorce". Men walk out on the marriage long before those papers are signed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 06:02 PM
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Shortness is a sign of bad genes. Edit: it's a sign of bad health too. Kids that grew up sick and malnourished don't grow as tall as healthy kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:57 PM
2

Women today don't "date up". There is no "up". Men are not ambitious like they used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:55 PM
2

Traditionally men had a wife and several young mistresses. That's what they want. Men have never wanted monogamy. Now women have the power to be with as many men as they want and be equal to men, and these dudes can not stand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:51 PM
1

I take dance classes and there are plenty of male butts there too. I'd say it's 70/30 female to male butts. We could use more men if you're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:46 PM
2

These guys don't do that. They stay in their rooms playing video games and treat their parents like servants. The workforce is mean, so they don't work or contribute either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:08 PM
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How are they supposed to do that if they don't work?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:42 AM
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The point of the post is they're not working or providing anything. They're just parasitizing their parents and not developing any life skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:34 AM
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This isn't how you do it though. These guys are not contributing by taking care of their aging parents, building wealth for the family or even providing grand-children. They're just leeching.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:31 AM
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Your parents have to support you, which means they have to work and you don't. Parents don't live forever. You don't see a problem with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:10 AM
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Adults sponging of their parents is not what humanity has been doing for thousands of years. What are these overgrown babies going to do when their parents die? They can't even heat up their own hot pockets in the microwave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:08 AM
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Laziness sprinkled with cowardice and low self-esteem. Not only do they date less, they go to fewer social functions and hang out with guy friends less than previous generations. Who needs a social life when you've got social media and video games to take the edge off the loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:04 AM
2

My generation is doing that and it's not going so well. The children suffer the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:00 AM
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Women and men both assume that hot guys are assholes and gorgeous women are bitchy. It's from a combination of Disney tropes and jealousy I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:59 AM
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Oh well, more jobs for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:57 AM
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They'll live in their mom's house until she dies, and maybe for a few weeks after. Grim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:55 AM
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A McDonald's job won't cover rent or groceries. I guess you could be homeless and play video games at the library. Whatever works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:50 AM
2

If women who you don't even know are touching you, they want your money. Expats have money usually. That's not normal male/female dynamics otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:46 PM
2

LOL oh dear. Are you in one of those ex-pat communities by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:08 PM
1

It's nobody else's fault that you're autistic or abused, except specifically the people who abused you. It's up to you and you alone to overcome those problems. The rest of the world doesn't owe you a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 09:24 PM
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Dude, that's not what lying means! If anything you're being dishonest because you don't want to reveal things about yourself that would be problematic for the other person. It's like you're trying to trick them into being with you. Why would you even want to waste time with someone that you're not compatible with? If she just wants to hook up she's not going to ask those questions anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:12 PM
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She didn't lie. She asked a question. And all your examples are normal things people do and there's nothing wrong with them either. I think you're just mad that there are social rules at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:56 PM
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You're acting like there's something wrong with that. What do you want them to do as an alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:43 PM
0

They're not dumping them for being open.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:30 PM
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Those are all just excuses and blame-shifting. And yes, I am going to blame men for men's behavior and attitudes. No one controls you but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:21 PM
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Toward their parents and husbands, they are. Not toward men like Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:20 PM
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Andrew Tate and all those girls are actors in a play.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:40 AM
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I enlisted as a 25 year old with a bunch of 18 year olds. Saying these males had a maturity level of 14 year olds is being very generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:35 AM
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Don't make out out like it's her fault that these guys lack personal development. That's their own problem to fix and no one else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:30 AM
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18 is way too fucking young to already be jaded. These guys are not going to make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:26 AM
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There's nothing wrong or deceitful in trying to figure out what a potential partners weaknesses are. For example if a guy I'm dating has homosexual emotions LOL I'd like to know ASAP!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:18 AM
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Men are supposed to be emotionally stoic. Personally I think both sexes need to be less emotional, in my generation at least. And I don't know that it has to do with productivity. These he-bitches are simply unmasculine and tiring to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:07 AM
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No sorry, that's nonsense. It is not hard to tell that your kid is yours just by looking at it. And most married women don't cheat. Men make those allegations in order to get out of responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:03 AM
1

Not in significant numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:55 PM
2

I've used OLD as a woman and only gotten one date. Woopity doo. It's not easy for either sex, and that's why fewer and fewer people are using it, especially women. Most of those guys just want to sext or get you to send them pics. Icky. I think it's far more feasible to meet people in social settings. Go to a singles event, I guarantee you'll get someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:53 PM
1

???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:05 AM
0

Okay well, again, that's all in your head. Maybe you don't understand what that means because of whatever ASPD is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:57 AM
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It's in your head because those are your preferences based on how you want in a partner. Others want different. Frankly this conversation speaks only of your own insecurities. You really think a woman who can earn equally to you deserves a "better" partner than you? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:32 AM
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I think men should aspire to find committed monogamous relationships with someone that fulfills them on a deep level. I think that people who brag about how many hookups they get are crying inside because they can not have that. I think that they're compensating through a hedonistic macho lifestyle (or pretending to) and they think that will make others respect them (it doesn't) and finally they act like they don't care about what others think but they really really do!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:28 AM
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Okay then. This is all in your head and more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:23 AM
1

Thought so. Please stop BS-ing, the USA is not even a tall country and it is the most diverse place in the world, there is something here for everyone. If you can't make it, it's not because of your height, it's because of you (I mean that in the general "you", not you personally).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:05 AM
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What county then? I'll look up the average heights for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:50 PM
1

Are you in the Netherlands or Scandinavia something?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:35 PM
1

It sorta does. All men grow beards because women selectively mated with men who do so and so men have those genes. Virtually all men are talker than women for the same reason. But not all men are "tall". Women mate with men of various heights. This sub seems to think they don't, or maybe it's a running joke that I'm not aware of IDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:17 PM
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Yeah they're not any of those things. Immigrants and wonen hold virtually all the blue collar jobs and skilled labor jobs. And I don't hear any of the Hispanic women in my factory moaning, they're too happy to be making good money compared to where they came from. You probably work in an office and never even see people like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:14 PM
2

That would imply that women only date tall men and there are no short dads. Do you like, see real people outside in the world at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:12 PM
1

I don't really get why you think you have to pay for those things instead of splitting it with your spouse like everyone else in the 21st century, but that's your choice I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:11 PM
2

Who says he brings more to the table or is the breadwinner? FYI the 1950's left a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:09 PM
3

By who's judgement are they more or less attractive? Why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:08 PM
2

Your friend sounds like a creep and ho's are all he is ever going to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:32 PM
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Men do that too. It's called playing the field. Normal people do that when they're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:30 PM
2

Why is it an unacceptable trade? The woman also works and her income goes towards the mortgage and the bills, just like yours. Why should she have to do that AND be your mommy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:27 PM
1

The Western blue-collar man is becoming obsolete. These young men don't want to work because they are lazy, and when they do work they do a half-assed job. It's why factories and warehouses are filling up with women and immigrants. And they're plenty fast, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:23 PM
1

Any time a guy says this as a response, you can tell he's not getting pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:17 PM
2

If that were true then there would be no short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:16 PM
1

Women do want love and relationships. I don't know any woman who doesn't want that. I just want a companion to build a life with, who is my other half. I'd rather stay single than be some man-child's mommy. Unfortunately for the women of my generation, our men never seem to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:15 PM
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Listen to women when they tell you that's incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:16 PM
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Way more than 80% of men are tall(er than women) and broad shouldered. I'd say at least 95% are. As for baldness and that other stuff, that's subjective. To me, bald dudes with beards are f-ing hot! Disagreeable assholes are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:25 PM
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I know that they do it. There's no rational reason to do that though. Why on Earth would someone who hates women want to fuck them? It makes no logical sense and reeks of self-loathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:23 PM
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I'm not even overweight or dumpy. Men just want hook ups these days. In my age group at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:21 PM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:20 PM
3

I think you're full of something. Not sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:39 AM
2

I've seen it go the other way more often. If there are no kids or the kids have grown up and flown the nest, the husband gets the house because he is the higher earner and can afford a better lawyer, or he can afford one and the wife can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:33 AM
-1

From my observation women date all sorts of different men. Most men by contrast have a "type". I've seen it with my own exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:25 AM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:24 AM
0

You're complaining and I'm offering coping strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:22 AM
-1

In that case get a dog or cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:32 AM
2

You have contempt and lack of respect for them. Why don't you just ignore them and live your life? They don't want you and you don't want them so might as well shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:31 AM
1

I don't think they would want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:27 AM
0

Get some medication that lowers libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:17 AM
0

Experience says that's false.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:04 AM
1

Why do you care what "lazy, narcissistic, self-righteous, woke slobs" think of you? Why is it even worth a second of your attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:00 AM
1

What's the point in even thinking like this? Pity serves no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:51 AM
0

People need to stop this victimhood crap. It helps nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:50 AM
1

Rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:49 AM
1

There's no consensus on what an ugly guy is either. Beauty is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:48 AM
1

Men constantly hate on women who I would consider to be flawless. Rating human beings on a 1 to 10 scale sorta shows how judgemental and picky they can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:47 AM
1

Stats for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:48 AM
-1

Not usually. Most sex weirdos and serial killer types are male.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:48 AM
-6

I'm talking about the socially inept nitwits who can't get a sentence out if there's a pretty girl standing in front of them. These guys often turn out to be freaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:46 PM
2

I wouldn't call becoming a single mother "winning".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:19 PM
-8

Yes. All.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:14 PM
-5

Cowardly men are not nice people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:13 PM
3

I've never seen any woman complain about NOT being disrespected by men at work or in public. I really don't know what subs you've seen that on but that's some backwards bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:11 PM
1

Nobody is saying be her friend in order to try and weasel your way in there. At least I hope not. Dating always starts out as friendship with both parties figuring out if it will lead to something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:08 PM
1

Marriage and motherhood make women miserable and the more options we have the more we avoid the whole thing LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:50 PM
2

I don't think the average woman who would marry those men (might fuck them but not marry them) hence why men like that tend to marry psychos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:38 PM
1

MGTOW would be great if these men would actually go their own way, be happy, and stop bitching about women. Veganism would be great if these vegans would just eat their vegetables, be happy, and stop bitching about meat. But, you know...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:34 PM
13

This premise is incorrect. Women don't find most men unattractive, they're just not attracted to most men. To attract a partner you just have to find that person that you click with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:23 PM
1

Your original post is peppered with disrespectful language and you come across as a judgemental ass. You wrote it that way to get a reaction. No use denying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:10 AM
0

You're judging people based on their looks and calling them ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:50 PM
0

"You must have been dating very unattractive women, which may have affected your behaviour towards them, maybe enough to give them second thoughts" You said that in a much kinder way than I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:20 PM
-2

Women tend to act like that when they realize that you have no respect for them. Good on them for moving on from you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:09 PM
0

Pregancy absolutely fucks your hormones and metabolism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:06 PM
2

Yes. If you have feelings about someone you should tell them. And they shouldn't take advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:13 PM
1

They are hurting these women who think they're the only one and maybe want commitment from the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:12 PM
1

They ask out the guys they like, or at least flirt with them to send the message across. Totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:10 PM
1

Is she holding his grandmother hostage? Threatening to frame him for murder? You can't manipulate a grown man in this way. Sheesh, these guys need to grow a spine!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:24 PM
5

Do the women ask these guys to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:19 PM
0

That's a male fantasy. Childish narcissism. Ask the girl on a date, and if she turns you down, leave her alone and move on. This coward bullshit of orbiting a disinterested girl you like just so you can be near her is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:18 PM
1

The fuck zone is flat-out wrong. No one should ever be having sex with someone they're not interested in comitting to or are at least considering. Friend-zone is all in the guy's head. If he has those feelings he needs to be forthright about it, or else get the hell away from her. The thought of our male friends secretly lusting after us is actually terrifying to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:09 PM
2

I think it's fine and we should do everything possible to make life more difficult for men who date harems of women at the same time. But it should require proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:03 PM
2

Go touch some grass, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:22 PM
3

You think criminals all have bad personalities? Most criminals are normies. They get married like everybody else. P.S. women don't raise men. What a gross idea. Be an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:29 PM
1

I do that when I accidentally make eye contact with anyone. Usually they're looking at me wondering why I'm smiling like an idiot in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:13 PM
2

A good man who cares for and protects his wife and children is not a beta. Whenever I read that it's like couldn't scream "daddy-issues" any louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:06 PM
4

I don't think that this is even a real issue. People who want to be in committed relationships get what they want. These red pilled guys don't want a comitted relationship, they want casual sex, and they're angry that women don't want casual sex, least of all with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:58 PM
1

I find many celebrities attractive but I would not want to be in the same room with them because so many of them are completely nuts and the entertainment industry is Satanic (and not the good kind of Satanic) Looks are great, but there are so many things that are much, much more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:48 PM
1

I'm just sharing my experience. And this has already happened to me again this year. I'm sick of being snubbed by men at or below my league and it may be better to just take up celibacy at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:39 PM
1

Sounds like she's mad that you won't commit to her. It's not her job to "get you to" do that. Shouldn't be in a FWB relationship anyway, that's just code for using people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:03 PM
1

Modern men don't even do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:55 PM
1

Redpill in this context is not politically right-wing or conservative. It just shares the same label.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:49 PM
2

None if these comments are honest. They won't pick the girl who displays these character traits unless she's smoking hot. They'll pick the nutcase who will make life a living hell for him and their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:28 PM
-1

This is a list of excuses to not do it because you're scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:00 PM
2

Had a guy do that to me fairly early in our relationship. It didn't work on me so he quit the act, though he never took it back or apologized. Later on he lost his job and his home and kept suggesting that he'd move in with me, like I had always dreamed of, according to him. I told him "Sorry, I can't have you that close to me if you're going to be with other women" and that really fucked him up LOL. BTW we're no longer together and I never let him move in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:55 PM
1

Judging by the comments it seems the consensus is that being red pilled is a luxury, a privilege if you will. I'm not sure how much I agree with that, but there is a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:24 AM
1

Blame inflation. Blue pilled have to go to work more hours so the economy doesn't crash like a suddenly deflated balloon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:21 AM
1

Young Sheldon would say: Just because thing "A" is relatively more suitable than things "B" or "C" doesn't mean "A" is suitable enough for its desired purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:18 AM
7

I guess I don't understand. When I am alone I let things slide but when I'm with another person I would be embarrassed if I or my home were dirty. I don't expect anyone to rise to my standard. I expect people to have self-respect and be clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:13 AM
1

Maybe so. I think that's probably why I have few female friends. If they're going to be unreasonable I just leave. Boy do men seem to love these quarrelsome women a.k.a trifling bitches. They can't seem to resist that shit. I'll never understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:02 PM
2

It would depend on the type of fight. If he was acting a fool and got beat up as a result then I would be disappointed in him and it might be a a problem if it kept happening. If he was defending himself or others against a fool and lost then I would take his side.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:19 AM
1

LOL triggered much?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:27 AM
1

They don't like actual bi women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:19 PM
1

Being gay is different from being straight, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:17 PM
2

Statistically, most women who have HIV got it from their guy who's on the down-lo. Also these guys are not trustworthy. The desire is always going to be there. Husband gonna to be sneaking off to truck stops and bath houses and shit. No thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:12 PM
4

Imagine what kind of guys knowingly let their girls whore themselves on Instagram. Yucky. I have no respect for men or women who let their partners cheat like that and yes, it IS cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:08 PM
5

Neither are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:06 PM
5

It's their own fault for being such shameless serial-polygamists. If you're in a relationship, why in the hell would you leave your dating profiles up? Or pictures of yourself with your previous girlfriend(s)? I see that shit on social media all the time and it's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:03 PM
10

If the sex was really good for them, they would want more of it. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:56 PM
3

I actually think it's the opposite. Most men have buddies, roommates, etc. and men tend to have each other's backs more in the workplace. With women it's always a struggle to maintain relationships because someone is always trying to start drama. I have one steadfast gal pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:54 PM
1

Can you learn English if you're going to troll, please?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:23 PM
0

Quit trolling. You're bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:22 PM
3

I have a single picture, and it's food, because food subs rock. I don't think I have expressed any anger here. I'm being realistic with you guys, and many of you are getting extremely triggered. Do you WANT women to settle for abusive destructive losers? Because no matter how fat we are, we don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:35 AM
1

A loser is any combination of: didn't finish school, never held down a job, makes poor decisions, doesn't have hobbies, smokes weed and drinks a lot, has baby-mommas, disrespects others, is overweight, lives like a slob, is intellectually dull, immature, makes excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:11 PM
-1

You can't force someone to kill themselves over the phone. The whole case is ridiculous and the court ruling was wrong. He was obviously mentally ill and suicidal to begin with and it is on him for listening to her instead of getting himself help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:07 PM
-1

She didn't force him to do anything, at all. She told him to do it, and he did. That's 100% on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:35 PM
2

Because I've seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:29 PM
1

Sure kid, whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:28 PM
-2

That doesn't stop them. They never seem to learn, and they always blame the other party when they get in trouble. Where I live there are no crazy Karens in grocery stores. Every time I see someone going nuts in public threatening or assaulting people, it's a gray-haired 50-something man. They are just the angriest people, probably because their T is decreasing, and it's everyone else's fault apparently. I keep an eye out for these dudes now. No way in hell would I date one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:08 PM
2

I've never used it nor plan to. It's a trashy hook-up site isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:04 PM
2

Everyone on Tinder is garbage. It's a hook-up site.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:03 PM
1

Average men are not my equivalent. Most of these guys are complete losers. The ones that are not losers are rare, hence they are not average. Maybe this is an American problem IDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:03 PM
3

They are poison. This guys will destroy women like they destroy themselves and everyone around them if they get the chance. I've learned my lesson about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:01 PM
3

I'm not talking about short, I'm talking about "average". Do you gave any idea how shit average single guys are by the time they hit 35, 45, 55...? There's a reason they're not already taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:56 PM
2

I guess so. Women choose not to eat poison that will kill them or make them ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:37 PM
-3

Um, no. These guys have no trouble showing their "emotions" LOL and terrorizing everyone and everything around them. Maybe we are not talking about the same group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:37 PM
-2

Okay so, she still ended up alone. None of them comitted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:54 PM
-1

Are they still woth those 5 to 6 guys? Like in a poly situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:52 PM
0

What are men in "their league" like? Women already do get with guys who have BPD, narcissism, all sorts of ism's and that results in misery and chaos for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:48 PM
6

These "average men" are about as edible as a rotten salmonella infested chicken carcass that a raccoon dragged out of the dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:45 PM
1

That never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:42 PM
8

It's hard for you to imagine but it is my life. I have approached all sorts of men, even some ugly misfit-looking ones because I thought, who knows he might have an awesome personality. Nope! They all snub me, in fact the worst looking guys are often the most rude and insulting for some reason. Oh well. Some people just aren't meant to have a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:38 PM
-1

Failed ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:11 PM
0

Once you've reached a certain age "average" single guys can be pretty darned scary. I mean I COULD go out and make friends with starving hyenas rather than stay locked up in my house by myself, but am I going to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:11 PM
6

And societal ones. People don't like to admit it but women face more discrimination in the work place and women's work is under-valued. I'm not even a feminist and I concede that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:06 PM
0

Forget academia. Let's look out in the every day world where all the regular people are. Most people are not attractive AND most people are married or in some sort of partnership. "Scientific" doesn't necessarily mean "realistic".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:03 PM
2

I don't think women are picking the most attractive men any more now than ever in history. If anything I see them settling for obese man-children which they never would have when I was growing up, because that's all that is available, and young women are lonely too. Social media is a big part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:54 PM
1

Well for one thing, working with them and having them as employees is a bloody nightmare. I don't think men who chase after them really know what they are getting. Joke's on them I guess. That's what they deserve for badmouthing older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:56 AM
0

My sources are them, their behavior, their attitudes, their ignorance. 25 year olds today act like my generation's highschool freshman and I'm not even very old. They're total babies. More and more of them look like babies because they're so soft, pudgy and with poor posture. Most still live with their parents and don't know how to cook or do anything for themselves. I'm in America BTW and am speaking of our early 20-something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:46 PM
1

Thank you for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:19 PM
1

The men/boys in this sub obsessed with Insta models and hentai schoolgirls, not actual young women. Finding dates is actually harder for young women than people think, unless they are gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:30 PM
0

They're not triggered, you flat out insulted her. Get your troll ass TF out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:27 PM
1

I'm not sure what you mean by women "bringing their best" in this context. Your young wife will get older. Will you then consider her mediocre?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:17 PM
1

40 year olds should have their shit together and be in a comitted relationship by now and not still dating. Dating is for young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:14 PM
0

Most young women these days look and behave like bratty teenagers. That's not attractive to most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:10 PM
1

This isn't ancient Rome. Women are citizens, they vote, pay taxes, purchase insurance, have jobs, and invest in society as much of not more than modern men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:56 PM
1

Yes and that's how all incels are. They don't even try, then they complain that they don't get any, LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:46 PM
1

Incels don't exist, unless they're in a coma, alone on a desert island, in solitary confinement, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:45 PM
2

You really need to take a step back from social media dude. You seem positively miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:44 PM
1

The ones who are get taken pretty quick I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:39 AM
0

Millennial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:29 AM
2

Guys here don't know what's good or healthy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:26 PM
1

Philippines women are shrewd and aggressive as hell. Only a tourist would say what you've said. Edit: LOL apparently saying this means I'm bitter. Oh well. Go ahead and learn the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:40 PM
3

The same can be said of men. Why would any woman submit to a selfish weakling who doesn't know how to lead and doesn't want to put in the hard work? Respect is earned, not given. But I partially agree. Both sexes are bad. It's just how people are now. I don't like 99% of people my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:32 PM
10

We don't push them. Our mere existence is taken as an insult by these entitled bastards. I encourage all able women to carry guns and have CC licenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:11 PM
3

That's men's own problem, not women's, not the world's.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:08 PM
6

"No" means no. Go cry about it some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:04 PM
4

Marriage and parenthood are anything but comfortable, it's hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:03 PM
22

Being a stressed-out sleep-deprived mom with a husband who doesn't do his fair share definitely doesn't increase one's libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:01 PM
-2

Men don't gain anything from casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:58 PM
16

I can't speak for this other lady, but in my experience men in my generation are not ready to be partners with anyone, and the few who are certainly don't want to be partners with me because they are traditionalists who want children, and I don't. Women face rejection too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:57 PM
2

Yeah, you do. As a rejected man you don't really know anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:53 PM
2

No they don't. Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:10 PM
5

Single women are not having sex. Women are by and large not interested in casual sex. They're not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:27 AM
0

That's not the case with women. Women aren't men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:30 AM
1

That's not how lesbians work, it's a media trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:28 PM
8

Japanese culture has always been like this. At one time women carried weapons just as men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:25 PM
12

I think women would be a lot more relaxed, feel safer, and find other things to do. And that's pretty much what is happening in today's world. When men don't make moves on women, women don't think about dating much, and thus more and more people are staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:22 PM
2

I'm saying that's in all likelihood not reality. Guys always take each other's side. I mean, he kind of sounds like this guy I dated who just used women for sex all the time. Maybe they wanted his information so they could orchestrate his murder LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:42 PM
2

That's 100% his side of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:11 PM
1

They're attracted to normal men who are not extreme one way or the other. Extreme guys are weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:09 PM
1

Most women are an exception, otherwise men would be like violent chimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:51 PM
2

I grew up in a similar situation and I didn't date at all until I had gotten out of it. It's a big world and poor people are not stupid or isolated from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:50 PM
1

They may end up in a bad spot now and then but they don't stay in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:46 PM
0

There are good men, just not on Tinder LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:45 PM
1

If he's dating that many a year it doesn't sound like they're putting up with him for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:43 PM
1

That's comical yet sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:42 PM
9

All these guys saying looks are most important better not be the same ones complaining that women don't choose them because they're not 6 foot with abs LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:37 PM
10

Men get beer guts because they are slobs who drink beer, not because of feminism. LOL I really doubt these dudes were liberal arts majors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:26 PM
1

45 is not old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:01 PM
1

People in their 60's and 70's are basically child-free. Once you're that age your kids will probably be out of your life almost completely. You're talking about younger people who are busy with family stuff. Older people I know are pretty happy that they have their lives to themselves now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:01 PM
1

We will be in our sixties and seventies then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:22 AM
3

I'm mid thirties myself. I'm pretty happy and so are my single friends. The ones that aren't happy do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:54 AM
2

By head game I mean getting caught up in one's personal insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:52 AM
1

Our boys are too fat, not fit, on too many medications, have criminal records, are dope smokers or all of the above. We're having to outsource. Quite embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:51 AM
2

That's one hell of a head game to play on yourself. Poor kid LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:08 PM
1

Even rats swim away from a sinking ship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:07 PM
1

I think men peak in their 40's. After that their testosterone starts decreasing and mental and physical health begin to decline. As a woman I don't find these men attractive at all. Few take very good care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:05 PM
0

If you're still playing around in your mid-30's those women are going to be crazy broads. Tread carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:01 PM
3

I think single childless people are the least depressed in general. No stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:59 PM
4

Women and immigrants are replacing our boys in the military. The answer is clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:58 PM
2

It must be really fun being you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:57 PM
1

You have to pay a lot of money to get a decent education in the USA. I went to private highschool and then a community college to get my prerequisites out of the way before going to university. Most of those classes were just busy work, except for some of my science courses that were actually pretty rigorous, and my state history class that was a blast. University STILL tried to waste my time and money with these stupid chemistry and calculus classes which were like my high school's level and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:57 PM
3

Imagine that. AI is smarter than redpillers. The emotionally intelligent robots will be getting women before you LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:12 AM
1

What red pill dudes think is absolutely wrong and it's not really worth it to try and explain reality to them. They've decided to drop out. Women don't know they exist or care. Just a real quick note for anyone on the fence, my first and strongest crush was on a soccer player who was nicer and more mature than everybody else. He was genuinely cool to everyone. He stopped bullies in their tracks with a single look. Like he could just take them aside and say "No" and they would crumble and forget …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:49 AM
3

Women in traditional cultures don't want these useless Western men. But they'll gladly use them for the money and citizenship then leave them when they're done. Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:04 AM
2

They can't attract women anywhere. These women use them to get money and citizenship then take them for all their worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:02 AM
2

It's not normal for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:49 PM
1

And if a husband doubts his wife's virtue she can get one to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:38 PM
1

Guy sounds like a real pig and I feel sorry for his wife. I'll bet she's given him children too, which is the main reason most women struggle with their weight. If that is the case I'd say the equivalent is the husband going off to war and coming back disabled and with depression. And then their spouse is not understanding and is unsupportive of their sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:15 PM
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No, that's not what I'm talking about and I think you know it. The guys I'm talking about ARE misogynistic pieces of shit! I'm talking about the ones who call E.R. their prophet and that their life is over at age 21 and the only recourse is to hurt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:59 PM
1

Your local social scene sounds fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:57 PM
1

See I just don't think the depressed guys are really incels. I think actual incels are virtually non-existent. It's mostly people making excuses, instead of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:56 PM
-1

I have never experienced that outside of social media, and from very insecure and pathetic adults. My suggestion is to find their weaknesses and fire back, or just laugh at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:54 PM
2

You're allowed to talk about your problems but I think you know that the kind of talk I'm referring to is not productive or appropriate, regardless of which sex is doing it. Women have a hard time with men too and when they vent and fantasize about doing bad things to men it doesn't help them or anyone, it only hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:51 PM
-4

No one actually cares if you're an actual incel in fact no one would even know about it if you never talk about it. The guys who do talk about it are misogynistic pieces of shit wallowing in self-pity and victimhood. No one likes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:40 PM
1

They don't vocally go off though, they just do it. Appearance matters most in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:36 PM
1

Marriage has always been a business transaction. The later half of the 20'th century was obsessed with love, romance and feelings of attraction. I suppose we are coming out of that and entering back into a more utilitarian mindset. Nothing wrong with that, of course. Maybe the next generations will be better and picking partners and actually staying together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:51 PM
2

No one is saying not getting sex makes you a bad person. The particular type of men who come online to complain and harass and hate on women are bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:47 PM
1

Wrong. That's a mutual relationship for the purpose of creating and nurturing the next generation. You using women for sex because you have no respect them is degrading behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:43 PM
1

That's all they want too. Maybe stop using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:16 PM
1

People don't tell the truth. People's friends don't tell the truth, assuming you even meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:54 AM
1

Yep. I expect to be treated well, and woe unto he who gets on my bad side. Life's too short to be nice to shitheads who use people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:54 PM
1

You're still in your metaphorical room. You're not putting your energy towards dating, you're doing other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:49 PM
1

LOL look at his history? How exactly am I supposed to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:45 PM
1

You're talking about women as if they are men. Women want relationships and love 99.9% of the time, not booty calls. And what does "bat above her level" mean? You think you're too good for these girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:42 PM
1

Well, your tells are pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:40 PM
2

Grow a spine dude. No one is responsible for you but you. "I didnt get into bdsm because I like slapping women around." Sucks to be you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:39 PM
1

They don't want him they want his celebrity status.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:37 PM
2

When it happened to me his friends all fucking loved him but they all turned out to be pieces of shit too. I basically lost a whole circle of friends with that break-up. Never trust anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:28 PM
1

Well I expect it to be one, and when people wrong me, they get what they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:26 PM
0

Your points aren't worth addressing. Others have pointed that out as well. You posted an angry little rant and now you're bitching at me because I keep responding instead of ignoring you like I probably should.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:39 AM
1

More like I didn't acknowledge or validate any of your excuses. And I'm not going to so you might as well give up, and quit posting in CMV if you can't handle things you might not want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:21 AM
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FYI these guys are great at putting on a mask. I've been screwed over by men who had lots of friends and respect and who were by all accounts upstanding... until they weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:19 AM
0

LOL I wasn't even talking about you specifically. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:17 AM
2

Or, he could just not be a piece of garbage. It's really not that difficult to treat people with respect and kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:15 AM
0

Um, I don't date women, but okay. Why did you make a CMV post if you're just going to argue and be defensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:13 AM
2

You're saying women don't want to be met by men in public. That's incorrect. You're just scared to approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:10 AM
2

This is just excuse-making for not making the effort to meet people. You won't make friends or meet women if you never leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:59 AM
9

I'm saying that you think you're entitled, based on the language you used. In reality no one is entitled to sex, or really anything from others other than to not be harmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:57 AM
12

Women are not all-knowing judges of character. Unfortunately the only way to figure out of someone is a piece of shot is to see them do something shitty first-hand. And I don't think anybody expects to encounter a sociopathic monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:50 AM
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"Sexually neglected" implies that you're entitled to sex the way children are entitled to care. Just don't go there, please. Unless you're married and trying to have a baby, you don't need sex. Nobody does.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:01 AM
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Women are never going to be attracted to unhealthy, unmasculine, poorly mannered, poorly washed slobs that are the average nowadays. Not everyone deserves to mate and that's okay. Not only is it okay, but it's a good thing that these guys are being eliminated from the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:37 AM
-1

These guys never leave their rooms. They don't have social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:08 AM
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You can't convince someone to be attracted to someone they're not attracted to. Also, women are not responsible for men's behavior in any way shape or form. They guys who do this are just pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:04 AM
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Women expect the men they love to act at least halfway human instead of like machiavellian apes, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:02 AM
18

Ha! Who said men were loyal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:51 AM
1

Nobody makes you do anything. If you're unhappy being a virgin, get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:47 PM
1

And how is being shot/stabbed/robbed in any way "acceptable in the West"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:16 PM
2

Keep saying random things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:43 PM
2

Nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:41 PM
1

In your dreams LOL I wonder if these women you think are your girlfriends are just acquaintances who are nice to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:17 PM
7

You literally think people want to fuck you if they smile in your general direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:12 PM
1

Not strangers at the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:40 PM
14

They said it was acceptable. It is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:17 PM
6

I hope you're joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:15 PM
1

I go to metal and punk shows and I don't see it happen. In America if you hit someone, there's a good chance of having to explain yourself to a police officer shortly afterwards. P.S. guys, I don't live in the hood. Most people don't live in the hood. Normal neighborhoods are not full of fights and violence, just people going to work, going to the store, and doing their little things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:13 PM
1

The more things change the more they stay the same. Every time a man gets rejected, in his mind it is an injustice. Men used to club each other over the head, now they bitch on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:32 PM
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Of course the majority of men are harmless. But there's no way to know how a stranger will behave. Sorry, the psychos ruined it for all if you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:26 PM
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Why would women ever need to give the "average male" the time of day, then or now? Women have always been taught to be cautious of men. There used to be rules of impropriety that both sexes were expected to follow, and men who violated them might get a slap across the face from that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:14 PM
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Women don't feel sexual desire toward random dudes approaching them so I don't see how it's relevant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:11 PM
4

Most men don't hot women. Bit some do. Women don't know which ones will or won't, so we play it safe and avoid all men we don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:09 PM
2

Where do you live that men are going around hitting each other? I don't think that's something adult men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:07 PM
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Not sure you've ever visited "the West" but men can't assault each other here. That's illegal and not socially acceptable either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:04 PM
4

Was she an employee?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:01 PM
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Strangers don't exist in my mind. They are bodies that get in my way or might be a potential threat. I could walk through any city all day every day and never see the same face twice. That's stressful, and dehumanizing. But we have no choice. It's easier to live and maintain sanity if you just don't see the faces at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:59 PM
1

Yes. Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:49 PM
1

Yes, they do it for male attention and because men pressure them into it. Edit: it's not letting me reply. The types that do it can't get enough attention. Even when when they complain about attention, that's another ploy to get more attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:06 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:05 PM
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Most women certainly DO NOT do homoerotic things with their gal pals. No offense but you have trashy friends. Women are so accepting of gay men it's a joke at this point. Most urban women have gay male friends. A woman can have male company who's going to act more like a big brother, rather than hit on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:01 PM
1

"A little over weight now. Drink quite a bit. And struggle with current relationships and finding a partner" That sounds more like someone with a lower-than-average count.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:40 PM
0

Having multiple partners at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:38 PM
5

The world doesn't give a damn about depressed women either. Our mental hospitals are full of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:33 PM
2

New parents are too "busy" and end up neglecting relationships. It's actually them who get discarded. Being married with children is one if the most isolating stages in life. Single people simply move on and make new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:31 PM
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*They long to be cherished and treasured by men. Fixed it for you. Women don't care about men's looks the way men care about women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:19 PM
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They notice the extroverted pretty ones most, the introverted pretty ones a little less than that, they notice unattractive extroverts equal to that but view them negatively, and they'd just assume the ugly introverted girls turn into dust below their feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:16 PM
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It shows that women are more conscientious and put more energy into improving relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:04 PM
1

Maybe carry a clipboard and a religious book in extreme cases. Then people will actively avoid you haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:04 PM
2

Okay. That's China. Not relevant to the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:16 PM
1

The men who want to start families are also younger, so that explains that. There is nothing wrong with women of any age. Different men prefer different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:54 PM
3

Compared to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:52 PM
2

The "wall" is subjective and based on the individual, their tastes, preferences and prejudices. It doesn't exist. I mean hell, old people are some of the freakiest swingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:04 PM
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Fine with me if it doesn't, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:35 PM
1

It's not. It sounds like London is full of morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:57 PM
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They don't need a therapist. You're the one with the problem who has to go around bothering folks because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:45 PM
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No, they don't. And who seriously gives a crap about what rich women in London are doing? They are such a statistically insignificant group.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:19 PM
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Because they're working at high paying lucrative jobs? They have savings. Women can have savings accounts now, it's not the 1950's.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:11 PM
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I'll ask again, what benefit could that possibly have for someone who's not social?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:59 PM
3

Why? What benefit could that serve for someone who doesn't want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:57 PM
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So, they're living their lives and being happy? These women are going to retire early with pensions and savings plans you and I could only dream of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:56 PM
1

Takes my money?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:54 PM
0

It's not an inconvenience. It's a social norm. All species have them, especially when it comes to mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:12 PM
-4

I think it's extremely obvious that I'm not talking about employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:06 PM
6

No one has ever said that talking to people without permission is impolite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:51 PM
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We pay taxes too. So nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:44 PM
13

You meet them at parties, church, work, neighborhood bbq's, through friends and relatives, and in public places ONLY if you see each other there often and get a friendly vibe from each other. This is common sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:34 PM
1

There are unfair rules for both sexes. And women do protest about it. Hasn't changed anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:31 PM
1

Yes. Per that definition you compared getting beaten by a broomhandle with marrying a non-virgin. You even quoted my comment in doing so. Hpw was that an "example"? An example of what? Domestic violence? People's values changing? We weren't talking about that. What country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:30 PM
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Headphones and sunglasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:27 PM
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Approaching a stranger who is not making eye contact with you, doesn't show any receptiveness with their body language, is not smiling at you or even looking in your direction IS impolite! Especially if it's on the sidewalks or a parking lot or something. That's inappropriate, you will rightly be ignored or told to f-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:21 PM
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I have an idea. How about everyone leave everyone else alone and mind our own business? Not everyone is social.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:09 PM
4

They're talking about randoms in public places that shout things at you out of nowhere. You NEVER engage with those types. It's quite dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:59 PM
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Get out there are meet people in an appropriate context. Don't yell things at random strangers on the sidewalk like a psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:56 PM
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A lot of times people who approach strangers like that aren't all there mentally to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:52 PM
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You must live near a military base LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:47 PM
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Most people aren't all that attractive. I wouldn't say there are more unattractive men than women these days. Most everyone is fat and frumpy now LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:45 PM
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Women are highest spenders when they are housewives/mothers. Single childless women accumulate wealth quickly and with almost no effort. The only ones who beat them in that are dual income couples without children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:35 PM
3

Nobody "hits the wall" fuck off with that pickup artist shit. Women don't ask men out. It's the man's job to ask her out. That's the rule of the game, it has nothing to do with serotonin or whatnot. Men ask and women get asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:29 PM
1

All you've done so far is try to criticize my word usage. With no source provided showing that it's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:22 PM
1

All men are Chad. They all want Stacey. They don't want the unfeminine little lump sitting in the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:08 PM
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Men INSIST on it. They like to be in charge and be the provider. It has nothing to do with women expecting it, in fact I've even had guys fight me over paying a bill or doing things for me. It's how they court. Women are also expected to play by the rules. I've yet to meet a man who accepted a woman's leadership who wasn't a fuckboy and a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:06 PM
1

Way ahead of you. I don't even date anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:02 PM
-3

Maybe start respecting us then, instead of treating us like ho's and booty calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:02 PM
2

Well for example, if I go up and talk to guys at the bar they act like they don't want to talk to me and they get this look of disgust. I've also asked men I had been dating to go out or be intimate more and the more I pressured the more they dug their heels in. I've given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:01 PM
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I don't see anybody downvoting me. The only person I'm embarrassing is you, that's why you can't give a straight answer. And it wasn't an insult. It's an objective fact that men obsessed with virginity are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:58 PM
1

Judging by how you act, you deserve both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:59 PM
1

Where did I insult you? Nevermind, don't answer, I don't care. The important is, you you rather be beaten by a broom handle? Or marry a non-virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:04 PM
3

Absolutely not. LOL speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:02 PM
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Men do all that stuff because they want to. Women can't initiate or move things forward, especially physically, or they will lose all respect. If a woman pursues a man he'll think she is a hussy. I've actually had men get VERY offended when I tried to take the lead even a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:59 PM
2

I don't know how anyone can amongst humans on planet Earth and think any of that. Very VERY few people are asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:17 PM
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The fact that you're so obsessed with that one word (which I used correctly BTW) instead of justifying or explaining your argument makes you look like a nutcase. Insulting me isn't helping your case. You're a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:31 PM
1

Who has ever said women have a "responsive drive"??? I've never heard of that in my life. BTW we cum in our sleep just like guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:23 PM
1

You said men never get hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:00 PM
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Nope. You made a comparison. You compared marrying a non-virgin to being beaten with a broom. Quit being obtuse. You're a troll and a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:50 PM
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Yes they can and they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:50 PM
1

The thing is, this post is wrong. Men DON'T want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:38 PM
0

Women do not find most men unattractive. This sub is full of bullshit and TRP is bullshit. You should lose weight for hour health.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:30 PM
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"14ers4days 3d Oh well. Men who care so much about that will either have to settle or stay single I guess. Reply u/Immediate-Impact-215 avatar Immediate-Impact-215 3d Hey, women who didn't want to be beaten with a mop handle had to settle or stay single a hundred years ago. Things change" Explain what you meant by that comment please. Troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:25 PM
1

That's a "you" problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:54 PM
1

The fuck does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:54 PM
1

Are you going to say something meaningful any time soon?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:53 PM
2

The 20% thing is not even reality but if it was, so be it. Not everyone deserves sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:07 PM
2

You see what you want to see. Why should anyone listen to you when you're obviously delusional? Nobody is out there beating people up for fun. Real life is not an 80's movie where bullies go around beating people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:23 PM
1

Most men are dating or married. I don't know what to tell ya bud. You're in a very small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:20 PM
1

I'm looking right at it. You know you can't say things on Reddit then deny you said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:20 PM
1

Average men get dates, hot on, married etc. Most men are in relationships. How do you suppose this happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:26 AM
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I'm telling you from experience that's false. NO boys paid attention to me in highschool. None. Not even the nerds. In fact the few times I took a chance to talk to them, they acted insulted and their friends proceeded to make fun of them. That's how untouchable unattractive females are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:23 AM
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I'm a woman who doesn't get any attention. Getting some would be nice. I don't think pretty girls appreciate how good they have it. Also I think average dudes get a lot more than you think, it's just that when it's from a woman they don't think is attractive, it doesn't count for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:12 AM
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How many times to women in this sub have to tell you that we don't care about height or looks, it's more about the effort you make and how you present yourself, before you'll believe us?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:08 AM
1

Based and gay-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:02 AM
1

Ol' Arthur married a 14 year old child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:02 AM
1

Men are never going to stop being insecure about their penis LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:57 AM
1

It's not hypergamy. They don't date you because you're not what they prefer. And that's perfectly fine, fair and good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:55 AM
4

Men and children decrease our quality of life so much that going without them is shedding a massive burden. For one thing single women make a lot more money. For men it's the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:50 AM
1

Your comparison is absurd and sick as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:30 AM
1

Asking your partner to change their behavior that has nothing to do with you is not akin to domestic abuse. Are men THAT fragile? Fuck's sake boys, grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:42 PM
1

If short bald ugly people weren't getting it on, then those genes wouldn't exist. Anyone can get a mate, if they have game. And game isn't genetic, you work on it. It's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:23 AM
1

Oh well. Men who care so much about that will either have to settle or stay single I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:18 AM
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Neither sex has a "wall". That is a horribly mean, weird, hypocritical and gross thing to say about people. All ages have their attractive attributes. It's all relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:10 AM
1

Always having to get your way. Not thinking of others. Having meltdowns. And in recent times, unfortunately (and this isn't the case for everyone, just a vocal minority) using autism as a tool to get sympathy and privilege over others, calling it a "super-power" and crap like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:49 PM
1

That's in response to them coming out and complaining, threatening, attacking, etc. Normal guys don't need to judge women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:51 PM
1

I've known lots who are. I have ADD and I have spent a lot of time in the same space as people with various special needs, I have an autistic sibling, and I can spot it from miles away. Y'all come across as selfish douchebags. I'm telling you how it looks from an outside perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:22 AM
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It's not the facial expressions or lack thereof. It's the behavior that people don't like. A lot of autistic individuals act very self-centered and immature much of the time. People are extremely accepting of some differences, but there is a line in the sand when it comes to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:03 PM
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They don't need a solution. Introverts don't necessarily want "help", as I understand it they like their lives as they are. I'm kind of introverted myself, not a virgin, but okay with my life as a single person. The ones we are shitting on are the "Why can't I ever get laid why is it so hard???" types. Sex isn't hard to get IF YOU LEAVE YOUR HOUSE AND MAKE THE EFFORT. These guys just suck at being human. Edit: no, I don't have a grudge and I don't know why you would think that. I want these peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:31 PM
0

Because men are 1. Extremely homophobic and 2. hyper-critical of women's looks. You can't be female, no matter what you look like or what body type you have, without men talking shit about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:00 PM
3

Because fitness was attractive in the 80's. Then at some point we all gave up and our butts got fat LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:44 PM
1

You're talking about teen and pre-teen girls, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:42 PM
1

All women get used. The type of men who use women look for easy targets. One sign of low self-esteem is being a ho-bag online but another is being shy and reclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:40 PM
2

A historical term would be a "libertine".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:37 PM
1

Learn to read please, because I didn't say any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:03 PM
2

Nobody "treats" Incels like anything. They do it to themselves. People leave them alone. Maybe if men would accept that celibacy is okay, and leave women alone for once, unless they want a comitted monogamous relationship, there would be fewer problems in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:29 PM
1

When men approach for sex, they are deciding when it happens. Both sexes can say yes or no. And you can't read another person's mind. They could have all sorts of reasons for saying yes to guy/girl 1 and no to guy/girl 2. People change over time, life situations change, times change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:25 PM
3

Men are the ones making women sluts, and then treating them according to how they think sluts should be treated, when they are the ones who created them in the first place. I'm talking about specific men who try to sleep with women and judge them for it if they succeed. That's the the problem I'm trying to explain. Such games really need to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:20 PM
5

That's not how it works. Men try to get women into bed right from the start. If they're going to be so judgemental of how soon women put out then they shouldn't do that. It's hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:13 PM
1

They must not try. IDK what to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:37 PM
3

Yes. They're as bad as they want to be, depending on what they're after.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:24 PM
1

That's not what you story implies. You seem to care very much, to the point that you call people assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:15 PM
-3

Yes it is happening dude, don't you have any male roommates ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:37 PM
1

Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:27 PM
-3

Most men are out there hitting it, and they have their puck and are picky too. I don't know why people here say they rarely get sex, or that it's hard. Make a Tinder profile. You will get laid within 24 the ext 24 hours. Unless you're completely socially incompetent. Maybe that's the real issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:25 PM
2

Yes it is a problem. You can't create a problem and tell others they are to blame. If you're willing to have casual sex, you must be willing to respect and love your partner. Otherwise you don't deserve a loving partner, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:16 PM
1

Can you use complete sentences and coherent paragraphs please?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:13 PM
0

Men puck who they have sex with too. They're not robots who can't turn women down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:12 PM
1

It doesn't matter how men feel about it. Unless they're the ones out there creating sluts. Then they are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:11 PM
1

I give these preferences no consideration at all. If men don't want to date or marry ho's, then they have no business fucking them. Only men create ho's.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:22 PM
2

Women are allowed to date more than one person and not be having sex with all of them. You have to be compatible in order for a relationship, of any kind, to move forward. Women are not commodities for you to get, they are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:14 PM
4

Men never want to wait, they constantly pressure and pester from date #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:11 PM
5

They all do it. Sometimes for years and years. They are users.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:49 PM
1

And that's hypocritical of them (TRP men).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:47 PM
4

Women are not gatekeepers of sex. Christ why so people say that? It's absurd. Every human being has self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:42 PM
1

You guys are so full of it. You don't know a thing, unless they tell you, and not even then, because they lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:37 PM
1

Ever heard of him. And there is one video of a woman yelling at some dude for staring at her that I know of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:29 PM
2

Nope. Not if they don't respect you or love you or see you as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:37 PM
2

Classical liberal is probably what I am. I just want the government out of our lives, but regulate industry. And if the people are conservative on issues like the definition of marriage or about immigration, then so be it. Let the states decide on the social stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:36 PM
1

I hear men say the same crap in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:50 AM
1

I'm using it as an example. That's exactly how men think. They talk that way in real life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:49 AM
2

Not talking about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:48 AM
1

If you're gay or trans, then date other gay and trans people. Why even mess with the conservatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:55 PM
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I'm conservative-ish and to me most men in my age group are too liberal. They don't think for themselves at all yet they think they know everything and I just can't have a conversation with someone like that. We all have it rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:52 PM
1

They are unbelievably so. I can't believe how critical they can be of women's looks. Just look at all the rate me subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:34 PM
2

I just thought you should know. You seem lost and wondering why people hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:32 PM
2

You are using people. And you're blaming your exes for what you put them through. You're not a cool dude, you are an asshole. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:34 PM
1

Hate to sound like a nicegirl™ but loads of men actively seek out crazy bitches and they ignore quiet, respectful, mature girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:28 PM
3

Men are picky as hell whatchu smokin?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:25 PM
2

I guess you're not working-class.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:07 AM
1

I said what I'm saying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:05 AM
2

It's still a self-perpetuating cycle. Want to fix it? Play sports or take dance lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:41 PM
4

If that were true then almost all women wouldn't get dates either because very few men have six pack abs. I don't think people are as picky as you think. I see so many fat dumpy couples and bless their hearts, I'm so happy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:39 PM
1

Almost everyone gets married at some point. Do you even try to date? By the time you're in your 30's it's all divorcees. 1% are freaks who no-one will touch. I'll conduct my own study and post it in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:36 PM
3

All men are Chad, if they can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:33 PM
1

Have you seen the couples out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:26 PM
1

Those men definitely are gay. They seek out the ones with male equipment specifically. But nobody wants post-op transformers LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:27 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:25 PM
1

They don't. The guys here bitching and moaning never leave their video game consoles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:15 PM
6

You have to actually leave your room to get sex. I should have clarified.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:15 PM
4

Not when it requires another person's body, and they are being exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:59 PM
1

Yeah they never look indistinguishable from real women LOL! Not to mention the faux genitals are in the wrong place and made of the wrong kind of skin. I hear it's actually dangerous for them to have PIV sex. These guys aren't convincing anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:57 PM
0

99% of men are getting sex and relationships my dude. At least 80% are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:39 PM
7

No man is ever forced to go sexless. There are all sorts of Tinder ho's, bar girls and homeless women who would go home with any man. Any.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:34 PM
10

I don't buy it. Men move on immediately, most of the time already shopping for new girls before they even end it with the current one. I don't think men bond to specific women, they just can't stand being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:28 PM
2

Yes, it is your fault. Stop using it. Nobody needs it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:16 PM
5

Because prostitution is inherently harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:05 PM
5

Absolutely nothing. Helping men is not a woman's job. She's not qualified. Men need to help each other, starting with fathers being there for their son's more and setting better examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:03 PM
1

It's pretty damn obvious if you're male or female, regardless of any surgeries they do nowadays. You physically can't change sex, reproductively speaking. That's relevant to the relationship here and now. A person's sexual past is not relevant to here and now, it's in the past, it's gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:00 PM
1

I'm not attacking your manliness. You have none. If you think suicide is in your best self-interest, maybe you need to take a look inward.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:56 PM
1

Uh, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:43 PM
1

I'm staying on topic and not humoring your histrionics. Real men don't blame others for the problems in their lives, nor make excuses for their own weak behavior. You and all the other MRA's whine like bitches. It will get you nowhere. No one has sympathy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:43 PM
1

No one is torturing these guys. Asking men to support their offspring and be good husbands and fathers is not torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:14 PM
1

I'm sorry, WTF are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:12 PM
1

Childish ones. But to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:39 PM
1

It absolutely negatively affects your self worth when half of your family, literally half of "YOU" doesn't care enough about you to bother being there. Anyone who says it doesn't is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:10 PM
3

More grown men than women also collect toys and build model trains. Men are more stuck in their childhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:06 PM
1

People kill themselves because they choose to, not because of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:52 PM
1

Whatever. Ignoramus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:36 PM
1

That's the vibe it gives off. Something is just not right, in a very real and probably dangerous way. Not even the guys who go straight into priesthood or whatever are completely trustworthy in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:29 PM
1

Sure. Why wouldn't he be? You don't understand that men and women value different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:50 PM
0

You're not going to be able to sustain a relationship on looks or tricking people by getting them drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:33 PM
-1

Even 9% may be overblown. There's no way to quantify if something is involuntary, or just due to lack of effort. The only people who are truly INvoluntarily celibate are prisoners in isolation, people in hospice care, the profoundly disabled, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:41 PM
-1

That's voluntary though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:38 PM
1

That's serial-killer territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:31 PM
1

They have everything to do with it. Sociologically, for a woman, being young and pretty is the best status.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:30 PM
1

LOL what is "Chad" I don't know what you're talking about. And yeah you can, just masturbate or something. Or meditate. Monks get along just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:55 PM
1

Men want to get with those fat single mothers who use drugs though. They always have multiple dudes going in and out of the house. So many single childless women who really have their shit together are lonely. They aren't what men are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:43 PM
1

It's not just hot men that want sex, it's all of them. All men are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:38 PM
1

And they were right. It's mostly ugly, creepy-looking, and otherwise unfriendly-aura dudes on there. The handsome ones are fake profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:37 PM
1

Why do people ask socially obtuse questions like this here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:31 PM
1

The site chooses who we match with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:19 PM
1

Men are hypergamous. What do you think their obsession with female youth and fertility is all about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:34 PM
0

Only women can be mothers, is the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:24 PM
1

Men have to be the primary providers because of how huge the burden of motherhood is. It doesn't really work out any other way. People have tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:22 PM
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Early 20's. It's a good thing to not be sexually active as a minor, obviously. There's no rule saying you have to lose it on your 18th birthday. But by 22, 23, 24... it's time to grow up and stop acting sheltered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:14 PM
-1

Men have tons of options. They don't have to put in any effort beyond making a tinder profile. You should see the dust balls on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:31 PM
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It's just like what pedophiles do, they move onto the next victim that's in their target age bracket as the old ones grow out of it. Gross. Youth-obsession is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:13 PM
3

Who seriously gives a crap about what other people think of your spouse? With the exception, MAYBE, of immediate family it's none of their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:03 PM
1

We're all human beings with brains. And a sexual relationship with a boyfriend would be heaven, but I've accepted that that's impossible for me in today's world. There's no reason a man can't be happy and celibate either. You have to choose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:31 PM
1

Was that some shade? When did I say anything about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:02 PM
1

Which is awesome. I can keep my life as simple as I like. No need to put up with men, children, and all their nonsense LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:15 PM
1

The husbands broke their vows and refuse to lift a finger to save the relationship usually. Women have to DRAG men kicking and screaming into therapy. After awhile the only thing left to do is to drag them kicking and screaming into court. And it's not 80%, it is 50/50 in most countries, and about 60/40 in the USA. You manosphere types were saying 70% last week. Now you're saying 80%. Tomorrow you'll say it's 100%. Why should anyone listen to you as if you have an ounce of credibility? You've pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:14 PM
1

We do live in nature. Civilization does not negate the laws of physics. Look at ehat happened after the Black Death in Europe. Did non-western cultures take over then? Of course not. Population size does not determine a country's strength. Otherwise we would see bigger countries dominating all the small ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:10 PM
1

Yes and that would terrify me. Luckily it's never happened, strangers never approach me, thank God.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:07 PM
1

That's because women aren't pursuing dates. They're staying single or are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:05 PM
3

Men are not dependable. Which is why women divorce them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:05 AM
2

I'm not looking to acquire STDs or get turned into a lampshade.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:53 AM
-1

I don't know why you think that. It's absolutely untrue. I think this is a "grass is greener on the other side" situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:18 PM
1

Okay No, I actually don't have to provide ANY evidence for ANYTHING. You didn't provide any in your post, only your opinion. I'm not a mind reader kiddo. How about you edit your post to include evidence of your position, and I'll respond with a counterpoint of evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:04 PM
-1

What makes you think that the average woman even gets a host of male suitors? Women have to put in tremendous effort to get men attracted. The rules are different for each but it's pretty much equal on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:48 PM
1

What evidence do you require?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:06 AM
1

Maybe I'll join then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:21 PM
1

It's more than that. There are websites and discussion boards for self-proclaimed incels. I just doubt that it's anuimore than role-playing/pity-party. The subject interests me because there are people who get taken in by these places and it ruins their lives. It's the internet being stupid and awful, as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:20 PM
2

Condoms or pulling out is the male equivalent to abortion. Once the child exists it is too late. It needs support from someone, and while there are justifications for a father not being able to do that, "I don't want to" isn't one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:15 PM
2

This isn't how flesh and blood humans work. There are no "bars", it's about compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:10 PM
4

I'm not even sure incels are a real thing, not even those mass-killer guys who self-identify as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:02 PM
13

I'm interested to know the answer to this. I'm a woman who has given up, knowing I can't compete with other women, mostly because of my hip:waist ratio and unfeminine looks and demeanor. I've never been happier. My life might seem depressing on its face but it's simple and it suits me. I wonder if men can also be happy alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:58 PM
0

It can be, but it requires a good bit of psychological self-mastery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:47 PM
1

Or we could always sell their organs, those are worth hundreds of thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:24 PM
1

And that's where the labor camps ought to come in. Won't support your offspring? Don't worry, the taxpayers will cover you, however you will spend the rest of your life in chains repaying that debt! And this would apply to women who abandon their children as well, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:58 PM
1

Men select too. They select which women they talk to. I don't get how someone can think that women do all the choosing. Do you think women never get turned down or ignored?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:56 PM
1

Just don't look at strangers in public at all. There's no reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:24 PM
1

That's bull. No one can solve this problem except for men.aybe we need harsher punishments for deadbeats, like forced labor to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:21 PM
1

The whorish behavior of women is not the problem here. It's the irresponsible behavior of the FATHERS (if you can eve call these bums that, they are little more than sperm donors) When men don't even raise their sons, there is not much the mothers can do to fix it, the boys are doomed from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:09 PM
1

It's not the female sex's job to control male behavior, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:47 PM
3

No, it's really very concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:42 PM
5

Sex appeal gets you a secretary job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:35 PM
-1

You are correct, that is how nature operates. But we are humans with minds and free will. We don't have to do things based on instinct, we can decide for ourselves what is important. Contrary to what you hear a lot on reddit, we CAN decide what arouses us and what doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:04 PM
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B because he sounds smarter, and I could probably have my own on the side, as our marriage would be more of a business contract. If people are forced to get married then it's better to keep things businesslike.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:08 AM
3

TALKING! Constant talking, about literally nothing. And asking personal questions at work. That's the worst, because I can't just stay out of it without being rude. I might just join that Discord.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:05 AM
1

You're talking about how everyone should want to be Amish or Iranian, because women are empowered sluts or something. Did I miss context?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:54 PM
1

Yes but sometimes people on the spectrum, which most red-pillers and incels are, fail to grasp the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:38 PM
0

It's better to release that frustration by yourself than to use another human being to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:34 PM
2

Most likely they've always done it and just didn't know that's what it's called.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:31 PM
1

I don't think women are at a disadvantage nor need to be provided for except when pregnant or dragging children around. Dating in the past was prospecting for marriage. Sex wasn't the goal like it is today. Women need compensation otherwise it was a waste of their time. Frankly, most men aren't good in bed and aren't looking for commitment either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:22 PM
1

I'm talking about populations in nature. There is nothing wrong with reducing the native population by 30, 40, 90%. It will rebound, as long as there are resources. The rule is that when populations crash, resources grow, and then the population grows as there is more to go around. I forget the name of the model but "it's basic math" yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:09 PM
2

Women don't like these guys. Men don't become promiscuous from goid behavior. They target whores and sluts (which women also despise) and vulnerable low self-esteem girls. They're low-down dirty dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:00 AM
1

Iran is a shithole because they let men get away with everything and only punish the women. Amish are much more respected because the men are held to an equally strict standard. But no, nobody in the West wants to be Amish who wasn't born in the sect. In fact people leave it all the time. And I'm pretty sure NO ONE in the West has plans to move to Iran any time soon (no offense)!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:54 AM
1

Sex doesn't use women up. And they are not "tainted" there is absolutely no way to tell if a woman has had 1 sex partner or 100, unless she has a bunch of kids with different men or something. And guys who have lots of baby-mommas are equally despised.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:47 AM
2

The Left wants men to be whipped little servants, always apologetic, self-flagglating, self-destructing, hating his race, hating his sex, hating his sexuality, hating his father, hating his country, addicted to vices, obsessed with women, obsessed with fornication, and completely weak, insecure, stupid, and useless. Anything else would be toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:41 AM
2

99.999999% of people only date within their own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:38 PM
1

Are people really this terrible at math?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:22 PM
7

Authority for what purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:15 PM
13

We notice them, not necessarily prefer them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:13 PM
1

Women don't settle. There's no reason to. Men are nice to have around but not needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:13 PM
1

What does that even mean? We don't need replacement birth rates. Populations naturally fluctuate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:59 PM
1

So date short girls then. Get ya a tiny little senorita from Central America.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:40 PM
1

Whatever works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:38 PM
1

Yeah IDK. Biden gave up Afghanistan, which is a place we really had no business being in in the first place. As far as needing immigrants in order to have civilization, I don't agree with that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:37 PM
1

Funny thing about that analogy. Most of those low-income jobs are filled by women. Like I said, it's a man's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:42 PM
1

They are the most beautiful people in the world in my opinion. Good diet maters. Maybe we need to talk more about diet-maxxing no one here is getting any better looking eating Cheetos and Coke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:40 PM
0

Scandinavia is less than 1% of the world's population. And the average women there are close to 6' too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:38 PM
1

But it's a silly number. In some countries like Iceland the women are 6' and the men closer to 7'. In other countries the women are tiny and the men are barely over 5'. And the worldwide average for men is way under 6'. So the whole argument needs to be thrown out. It doesn't matter what some studies done in a controlled environment say. It's absolutely not a deal breaker IRL if you're under 6'. If it were, then almost no men outside of Iceland would be getting dates LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:37 PM
1

They need to stop acting based on their hormones and use their brains. Most problems in this world is because of men and their dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:32 PM
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No, we don't know that deep-down. Women wonder if these men really like us, will fall in love, and marry us some day. Women are not like men, sex is an intimate bonding act for us. Yes we are attracted to these guys and usually hope that they are just as attracted to us. That's why it's so goddam hurtful when they use us as a living masturbatory tool. Do you get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:30 PM
1

That's now how it works hon. When you use language that makes you seem ignorant and up your own ass, people are not going to treat you as if your opinions are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:23 PM
1

Over time they will be. Just like how virtually all men have beards and virtually all women have boobs. We have these features because the opposite sex selected for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:21 PM
0

Disqualification of what? I'm talking about $$$. That's what matters in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:19 PM
1

Not remotely. I quit OLD after many sketchy dates. It's not for anyone who's seriously looking for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:19 PM
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Maybe if men didn't have sex with women that they have no respect for, these women wouldn't be so confused, disappointed and hurt. People don't like being used and tossed away like a cum rag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:58 PM
3

Admitted to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:55 PM
7

I concur. These women are straight hustlers. It's expensive to live in this world and if I were as beautiful and outgoing as they seem to be I would be tempted to use it for that purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:47 PM
2

Why is the arbitrary number 6'? Most of the world is a lot shorter than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:22 PM
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They don't care. Otherwise they would be selecting the 6' men and most of the world would be 6' tall. But the average in almost all countries is way shorter than that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:20 PM
2

Kids and divorces. I let others do the work of figuring out if this person is worth it LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:14 PM
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You might without even knowing. People don't have odometers unfortunately, there is no way to tell how many sexual encounters someone has had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:52 PM
2

Stop calling them "low value" as if it's a quantifiable thing instead subjective opinion. That is the part people take issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:18 PM
2

"Wall women"? You keep using these derogatory slurs that I've never even heard of. It must be so isolating and miserable to be so judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:31 PM
1

If I thought with my own hormones I would have killed a bunch of people and then myself by now. Severe PMS is a BYATCH!!! I'm trying to reason with an unreasonable person right now. I don't think you actually know what reasoned thinking is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:29 PM
3

LOL no thanks, I don't think with my hormones so it wouldn't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:15 PM
3

That's sorta how it works. There is observable reality, and there is mental illness that leads to delusional thinking and harmful actions, such as cutting perfectly healthy legs off and re-attaching them longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:13 PM
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It's fine to be celibate. Sex is overrated and pointless for the most part and people spend far too much time thinking about it. They also spend far too much time thinking about their physical appearance. Think about what you can accomplish in life instead. That's what actually matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:10 PM
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Oh well. It's the reality of things. No one lives inside your head but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:05 PM
6

What do you mean by "aren't that high quality"? If he likes her, she's high quality to him and vise versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:04 PM
2

Where is your dick telling you to go exactly??? If it's a preschool or something, chop it off please.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:00 PM
3

Or accept yourself as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:52 PM
1

How is it women's fault that men are insecure again? Women don't care if a man is over or under 6' feet. Only men care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:52 PM
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Don't use dating apps even if you're over 6'. Haven't we established by now that those apps are good only for spreading mental illness and STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:49 PM
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Men are not poor. They have the most power in society, to choose mates, and to choose what type of relationships to have with them. It's a man's world. If you're a socially incompetent pig to repulses and frightens women then yeah, you're gonna have a harder time, but that's an easy and simple fix. For starters, get rod of the mindset that the women who reject you have an ego problem or that there is something wrong with them. If you get rejected, that just means you're not what they are looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:09 PM
1

Not my problem. Bye now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:14 PM
2

Dudes don't get the option to reject sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:54 PM
1

Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:53 PM
0

I'm saying the hard non-Western savage cultures won't get a choice, they will be genocided before the crash happens because their technology is inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:53 PM
1

What down-voting? I don't even see votes in this thread. You are used to people who listen to and accept bullshit. I am not one of those people. I do not give one single pea-sized shit about men and their self-imposed circumstances. Children are the ones who suffer, and society suffers as a result. When you care about your own flesh and blood, you make sacrifices, you do whatever it takes, and you don't accept excuses. Real men make things happen, and they don't make excuses for their failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:13 AM
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We don't need replacement rate. As I already said, 99% of humans on Earth could evaporate today and we would still have thriving numbers as a species. And realistically it will take a looooong time before billions become a few hundred million, even with zero replacement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:07 AM
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Westerners are definitely having enough kids. The entire world is grotesquely overpopulated because the current system depends on constant growth. Well, we can't sustain constant growth. We CAN sustain smarter growth. Maybe limit (or stop) the growth of non-Westerners or practice worldwide eugenics or something IDK what the answer is but definitely it's not fighting fire with fire when the world is already a smoldering mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:37 AM
1

Women are responsible for their actions. Women are not responsible for the actions of men, or vise versa. It's really not complicated. Either you do the right thing, or you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:32 AM
1

I doubt you do much besides talk shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:30 AM
1

Every time you repeat that in this post, I'm reporting it for spam. You are either a very weird bot, or have mental problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:06 PM
1

"Character and diligence"? Wtf are you even talking about? This sub and this post are about dating and sex a.k.a. fucky-fucky. That's the whole reason you are here. And you keep making that wet hole joke to everyone so I don't know why you're upset someone called you an incel. Maybe don't act like an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:03 PM
1

Virtually every insult men use has something to do with sex, sexual orientation or sex organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:01 PM
2

This one is so accurate though. And apparently it really gets under your skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:59 PM
1

These men are garbage though. If you tell them they're garbage loud enough and long enough, eventually, might take a look inwards and see where the real problem lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:58 PM
2

At the extreme ends, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:56 PM
1

So, a cheater. You have no business judging others then, a cheater is the most disgusting thing there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:55 PM
2

This guy spams that wet hole comment everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:40 PM
1

Quit posting that same reply over and over. And quit posting that other one too. I'll report it for spam.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:31 PM
1

Fat ugly white dudes with $$$ who are also stupid and lonely = easy prey.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:26 PM
1

You said you were married in another comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:25 PM
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Problem: men are shit but they don't want shit women. Solution: men can stop being hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:23 PM
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I don't know why you think any foreign woman would respect, let alone desire a liberal man. There is nothing more repulsive and unmasculine than a man who whines about sexism all day and gets butthurt at a racist joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:11 PM
1

You live on Reddit and Tiktok I'm guessing. In the real world, overweight people are not happy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:04 PM
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I live in the fittest state in the US. It's absolutely the immigrants who are obese. You must not have spent much time in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:01 PM
1

Shaming works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:55 PM
1

No, it's telling men they are worthless because they can't even do the one most basic thing that the male of the species is designed to do: mate and reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:54 PM
1

That's what this sub is about genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:52 PM
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*worth a damn to men. And who gives a crap what men think in this day and age?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:52 PM
4

Where did you get your stats? 60% of marriages in the USA end in marriage, and it's about 50/50 for which sex files. Also what stat says we are "uglier" how did you quantify that? We're not the fattest either, that honor goes to Mexico, Kuwait, the UK, etc. Statistically more American men of marrying age are obese, so... Until American men do better, don't expect women from thinner countries to waste their time with you. They won't, and they don't. They might use you for your money and leave you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:35 PM
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30's isn't "older" for a man, that's still young. 20's through 40's people date each other and it's normal. It only starts to get weird when there is like a twenty year gap. And those bums shouldn't be bragging LOL I'm in my mid 30's, 30-something men are nothing special at all, they're just generally more mature and tolerable than college age boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:29 PM
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It's not disingenuous, I just don't have time for excuses. Children need their fathers. If dad isn't in the picture it is always 100% his fault, unless he's dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:24 PM
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They are deadbeats. If the mother shows up and the father doesn't, what does that say? It says he doesn't care about his kid enough to lift a finger. Listen to these men. All they do is complain about their money, like you just did. They don't act heartbroken that they can't be with their child every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:36 PM
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Nope. The 2% will the white Westerners who split atoms, invent modern medicine and send men into space. At some point we will invent viruses that destroy inferior genotypes, we will clone mammoths, and turn Earth into Eden. Humanity is evolving beyond patriarchy and matriarchy. There is a third option that you don't have the capacity to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:33 PM
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Not remotely. Turning down some weirdo asking for sex does not equate to having an inflated ego. Women are allowed to have preferences, self-respect, and be mindful of their own safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:17 AM
1

Nah, we are more like bonobos. Everyone can have everyone if they want to. Men are not being denied access, at all, in any Western nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:12 AM
0

You don't meet many gamers that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:21 PM
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For the guys they want, not randoms on the street who ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:19 PM
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People these days are so averse to the idea that we don't always get what we need or want in life, yet we can STILL be happy in spite of it. How spoiled have we become?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:07 PM
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"Friend with benefits" is a trashy thing to even ask for. What do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:27 PM
3

Speaking in general: men view women with low self-esteem as easy prey while women view men with low self-esteem as dead weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:04 PM
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The mother can't prevent you from seeing your own children, that's just an excuse deadbeats use. SHOW UP in court and fight for them! You'd be surprised at how many won't even put in that minimal effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:02 PM
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It's the man's responsibility to not get women pregnant and if he does to stick around and be a good father. But "condoms don't feel as good 😢😢😢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:53 PM
1

Women ARE pursuing men and trying to get them to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:47 PM
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"Lobotomized prostitutes" a.k.a. "dumb-ass ho's" LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:29 PM
1

The human species could go 98% extinct and would still have a viable population. Bring on the winter!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:21 PM
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I'd rather go extinct than be ruled by Islam or Christian imperialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:19 PM
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Too bad they don't act like it. Parents these days don't really care about their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:55 PM
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I can only speak for myself and I really enjoy being childless and having disposable income to do with what I please. I feel sorry for women and men who want to start a family but have to wait because they and their partner are not financially stable enough yet. The boomers really fucked young couples just trying to start their lives. As for how this affects dating, it goes both ways. You need two incomes to afford to start a family, so men need women as much as women need men to be well-imploye…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:52 PM
-1

The one made of cotton poly blend that you bought off Amazon?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:02 PM
-1

There are no female gamers. The ones on Twitch are there to make money off thirsty guys. Video games are for autistic boys with no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:55 PM
1

Nope. Girls do not give a single shit about things like video games or watching sports. It's biologically proven. These boys think they're going to find some gamer chick who will fetch them hot pockets and clean up after them. In their dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:52 PM
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Women are not interested in video games, at all. They do like spending time together though, even if it's an asinine activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:49 PM
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