1521 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	50 first dates, they all say no "spark" That’s really hard to say. He needs to find someone who thinks similar to ho he does. Maybe have a friend put together a little joke about something to do with trains or legos or something. I say have a friend do it because it needs to be funny… I think he will be surprised at how many women are in the same boat. But non autists guys will fuck a hot autistic girl while the hot autistic guy is not getting the same action	/r/seduction	26/06/25 05:17 PM
1	50 first dates, they all say no "spark" Same way they got them under 30 lol. Same guys too… I never noticed any difference other than your age range expands. At 20 I was dating from 20-30 say, at 50 dating 35-55. It hasn’t gotten easier just more people meet my qualifications. So At my age currently I, for the first time ever, have turned down women I would normally be all over because they were too young… I’m not into going through someone’s 20’s with them lol.	/r/seduction	26/06/25 03:31 PM
17	50 first dates, they all say no "spark" Tell us you are good looking (50 first dates) and have autism (0 second dates)	/r/seduction	26/06/25 03:30 PM
6	She’s not “out of your league” This was the biggest lesson for me. I always dated ‘out of my league” by far. I was 40 something before I understood that even though I dont look like a pretty boy brad pit style I am tasty in my own right. My partner at the time couldn’t believe I felt she was too hot to be dating me (mainly because she normally dated rich prettyboys). Appearently lots of women like regular uggos with working man hands…	/r/seduction	17/04/25 02:08 AM
3	Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls? This is so easy to miss the important parts of… I’m a big person and this has always happened for me naturally but sometime in my 30’s i realized the disconnect between my my looks (very manly lets say) and my personality (kind) is what is working so well for me.	/r/seduction	24/02/25 05:12 PM
1	Real eye opener about Miami after hearing about this, is this true? I’m not good looking or rich or slick but I am extra interesting and I’ve had a blast in Miami	/r/seduction	02/02/25 08:38 PM
17	Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do? So woman are the keepers of sex and divorce and men are keepers of marriage lol	/r/seduction	19/01/25 08:48 AM
1	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? Man. People are so delicate and so tough. I too am feeling like the only I can be more ok is by forgetting and that is so sad to me… I know time does most of the work but you have to make it through	/r/seduction	18/08/23 12:52 PM
1	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? Have you ever read it out loud? It’s really beautiful. I grew up around the King James Version of the Bible being read aloud so the metre of the words were familiar . The eternal ditherer was something I identified with as a kid. I have always seen all sides of things and it makes it hard to make decisions that will disadvantage someone (all decisions). Shakespeare and John Donne were my jam	/r/seduction	17/08/23 09:13 PM
7	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? She was speaking at a conference I attended. I spoke briefly with her there but only for a few minutes. Then, a few weeks later I’m at another conference, waiting for the speaker to come over (I’m a subject matter expert for this particular thing) and she was waiting too and we started chatting. I ended up getting her number. I didn’t call her cause she was way out of my league on every level. Figured it was probably a fake number anyway. Few weeks later I’m coming out of Powell’s books and who …	/r/seduction	15/08/23 05:35 PM
2	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? I can’t imagine losing my sister. I feel so terrible for you	/r/seduction	15/08/23 03:12 PM
2	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? That does happen. But I’d say in the groups I’m around all the models are dating/married to people several levels less beautiful. But as you point out different strokes for different folks. (It sounds weird to say all the models I know but like any work group they tend to hang in the same circles so if you know one you know lots of them…	/r/seduction	15/08/23 03:10 PM
17	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? It was a complete accident. I have been able to make a living doing what I’m interested in. If I get a new interest there is a 50% chance I will find a niche and create a business around it. I’ve become good at putting people better than me at business in charge after I get it going. That took 30 years to learn. I had childhood trauma (got raped in a foster home) but I never felt like I was alone in the world which is what I think makes people get fearful. So my trauma made me fearless. There is…	/r/seduction	15/08/23 03:08 PM
69	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? She died. I wish we were just divorced, then I could still talk to her at least	/r/seduction	15/08/23 06:08 AM
16	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? My wife made 12x what I did. It was fine. As long as everyone is bringing something to the table. It doesn’t have to be the same thing….	/r/seduction	15/08/23 06:06 AM
8	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? She had an aneurysm two years ago and died	/r/seduction	15/08/23 06:04 AM
12	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? They can do interesting things themselves and did, but sometimes when you are busy crushing in corporate America you might want someone around that has no interest in being like them but has interesting things going on that she could just go to. One of my wife’s problems with people she had dated was they wanted to be involved in her business. Even successful guys. I had no desire to do that. And not exactly Kate becensdale but more Italian looking. 6 foot tall and gorgeous and the smartest pers…	/r/seduction	15/08/23 05:59 AM
158	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? This is it. Be interesting. I too married an oxford educated model as a 50k a year 6. But Ive had an interesting life and everyone just wants to have an interesting good time and extra hot women get excluded from a lot of the stuff they might want to do because its hard or dirty or dangerous and people pigeonhole them as not being for that	/r/seduction	15/08/23 03:15 AM
62	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? I was married to this woman. It was sometimes really hard to not be jealous but ultimately she was the one to pursue me. Poor, not particularly handsome and all. Really hot and successful women like interesting creative people just like everyone else. And if you are a 10 you don’t really want your partner to be better looking…. You want your partner to be a solid 7. Or a very masculine or funny 6. (Or an artist 5). My experience was wonderful i must say. Not to mention she made 12x what I did. F…	/r/seduction	15/08/23 03:09 AM
2	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Fortunately there is a wide range if fit for men… I’m not skinny, 6’3 260 and I have surprisingly (to me anyway)good luck with women way hotter than I. It’s more important to be interesting…	/r/seduction	12/09/22 06:56 AM
3	What kind of men do highly confident women generally fall for? I’ve always been with very successful, very beautiful women. Ones in charge of most of the rooms they are in. I’m pretty normal. I do things that interest me. I make good money but not as much as them. They feel comfortable with me in charge as I’m good at it and am not an asshole. They just want a break from being in charge with someone they trust who cares about them and what they are doing. But not tryin to compete with them. Usually people with my personality type are trying to compete with …	/r/seduction	09/07/22 11:46 PM
1	How to be less boring of a person? What you need are some interesting friends. Then watch what they do and do that. It’ll be uncomfortable for a while but that discomfort is what turns into interesting later. And read more, its like having friends but quicker. I think most people at 19 are boring. You have a whole life to get interesting you’ll be fine	/r/seduction	14/05/22 02:53 PM
2	I hate dating as a man I don’t know how old you are but as an old head (well over 50)(and not super good looking, a solid 6 on a good day) this online dating stuff is great. Most of the women that like me are too young (not looking for a bunch of daddy issues, but they are way hotter than the women into me when I was 25)(and that’s super flattering and helps boost confidence when you’re talking to one’s you fancy) and the women of the age range I like (35- my age) are also much more interesting and lovely than I would…	/r/seduction	08/05/22 08:08 PM
0	What are signs that you are a hot, good-looking guy but don’t realise it? Fortunately for men beauty is not necessary to be attractive… in fact my observation is sometimes the women want to be the hot one and just want you to be manly (hard to define, but like porn, you know it when you see it)	/r/seduction	08/05/22 02:42 PM
1	Advice (simple and blatant as possible please) I think you may be in the wrong venue for your style (if you will) You being talented and good looking has the same weight as you being Asian in the club. In arenas that allow you to differentiate more, your athletic ability or any other talents you have will be more important than they are in the club. If you want to pick up in clubs you need to learn club skills (like dancing). If you can lead and you aren’t a total douche you will have a good time. It’s horses for courses…	/r/seduction	21/04/22 03:27 PM
1	how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only? That does not sound very fun at all.. I’ve only dated in big cities but not one like that. There are beautiful cool people all over, sounds like travel mode is in order. (Are you in Boulder?)	/r/seduction	20/04/22 05:39 PM
12	how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only? I think you may have missed the point. MEN are in an unlimited supply but there is just one YOU. Sounds like you may be being slotted into the good looking, successful fuc boi slot… there are a bunch of those too so maybe focus more on you, what you like, what you want in your life long term, and less on what makes any individual woman think you are cool enough to date (not just hook up with)	/r/seduction	20/04/22 02:33 PM
1	Tinder I found that I either get their # by day two of texts or I never get it. One of us will lose interest.	/r/seduction	13/04/22 09:01 PM
3	How do rich dudes get women at a large scale? Oh he’s getting that… he needed he’s parents to care about him instead of money	/r/seduction	11/04/22 02:16 PM
11	How do rich dudes get women at a large scale? One of my biz partners is filthy rich but so awkward (from being raised by himself among other things…) he is smart, good looking, rich , and had 18 years of dance lessons (and it shows) but couldn’t connect…	/r/seduction	11/04/22 06:23 AM
5	How to get dates with Hinge and Bumble My wife passed and I was over 50 and on bumble… it didn’t seem too bad to me (not particularly good looking or rich)	/r/seduction	05/04/22 08:25 PM
1	Why are men so persistent? Thank the gods a lot of women are like this.	/r/seduction	25/08/21 07:31 PM
2	When a woman tells you to give her space, how long do you wait before messaging again? 2 weeks	/r/seduction	08/01/20 08:21 PM
7	How can I, a 22 year old female get laid without dating apps? U/Tysquirt fucks....	/r/seduction	04/11/19 07:27 PM
10	Tinder in Asian countries VS europe NYC is the same... I get answers to maybe half of my messages and rarely does anyone message first in my normal city (west coast) but had 30 messages the first day I was in NYC. And the average was way hotter than normal... (I feel most comfortable in the 7-8 zone (as a 5+))	/r/seduction	09/03/19 10:40 PM
1	To all my “below-average” looking guys I'm a perfect example of this. Always dated women waaaayyy hotter/more educated/better paid than me. It is all about having an interesting life and being interested in what others are doing. Listen. Hear too not just sit there planning what you are going to say	/r/seduction	05/02/19 08:01 AM
2	It may not be a big deal to most but I walked out on a date who was late. Sounds like someone dodged a bullet...	/r/seduction	19/10/18 03:12 PM