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Moods. Men have moods.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/26 11:50 PM
2

Oh shit. Good point. She didn't think that through or maybe she has so much money she doesn't care.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 02:16 AM
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I also got that vibe from this
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 08:28 AM
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The comment got deleted. What was it in essence?
/r/BlackPillScience08/06/24 03:36 AM
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Ah, gotcha. Your mention of internet trends made me think there was something that happened two years ago that might have influenced her decision. I was thinking like the Barbie movie or something like that.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 04:11 PM
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Curious what you mean by this. What was the trend? How are you able to be so specific about this?
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 02:57 PM
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Then you're making the right choice. Don't ever leave your son.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 12:57 AM
2

Is that really an option?
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 11:07 PM
3

Move fast, but not so fast you make mistakes. She's in a honeymoon haze right now. It will be easier to get divorce terms in your favor. She thinks that branch she's grabbing is strong and stable. Let her think that. Fuck her.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 02:32 PM
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You should probably be mad. That means you've fully understood just how nasty this was and how diabolical she is. What exactly did you do/say? What led up to this? Why did CPS take your kids? No judgment here. Just helpful context.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 02:25 PM
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Hey man, I'm in a similar place and have similar thoughts. I think as men, we are looking at the situation logically and saying "it doesn't add up." It's hard for me to wrap my head around how someone could not make life decisions without factoring in the logical side, but, especially if your wife was an externalizer, that's not how many women operate. They're operating on emotion first and then, second, on the narrative they've constructed to explain the decision to divorce that was made based …
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 02:48 PM
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Hey, I don't think it's a terrible idea to build rapport going into mediation. Might help her be more generous. But, if this has a chance of going sideways and turning into conflict, maybe not. Also, mind if you share the specifics on the agreement on the house? We're looking to do something similar and I'm not finding a lot of good solutions online. In our case, she will be keeping the house but can't afford to pay me out right now. To avoid refinancing at high rates, I want to be flexible on w…
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 03:31 PM
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Make sure every other holiday is in the contract. If you end up doing them together, that's great. But at least having that written in their guarantees you a legal right to 50% of holidays.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 07:31 PM
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Women will bend over backwards to blame it on the man. "Well, what was HE doing that made her want to cheat?" Like, bro, that's called fucking victim shaming and we don't do that to literally anyone but men these days. It's so similar to "well, what was she wearing?"
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 09:22 PM
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What state are you in?
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 05:34 PM
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And your kids need you!
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/24 05:55 PM
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How long were you married? Curious about the no alimony. Any child support?
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 07:56 PM
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Thanks for sharing all this, man. I relate to parts of this, especially the feeling that I'm the only one that appreciates how much the divorce is going to affect the kids long run. My wife does not seem to understand that divorce is terrible for kids. Doesn't seem to think it's a big deal. It's frustrating, it really really sucks. Not sure what else to say. A lot of people around here say it gets better.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 08:48 PM
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And yet as men were expected to keep our baser impulses 100% contained 🙄
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/24 08:41 PM
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At one time, marriage was kind of a shitty deal for women. Now, the pendulum has swung really, really far the other way. Solution? Never ever marry again and tell all the men in your life.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/24 02:33 AM
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Time
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/24 04:46 AM
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That sucks bro. Sorry to hear how unfairly you're being treated. Total bullshit she would get half the current value when she didn't make any payments in the interim.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/24 12:19 AM
1

Oh damn. Yeah, definitely something to make sure no one else can see!
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 05:55 PM
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1 OP, she is NOT the one. It's hard, yes, but you MUST take this golden opportunity to cleanly cut ties and find the woman you deserve. This bitch AINT it. I promise you.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 12:48 PM
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It helped me to make a list of all the things I didn't like about her and all the crazy messed up shit she did over the course of our relationship. When I found myself wishing I could be with her, I'd review that list. Often, I'd add to it as I remembered even more things. This helped me to stop idealizing her and our relationship. Often, we are longing for a fantasy that only exists in our minds and we need a little help remembering reality.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 12:45 PM
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Ah nice tip. I'll prob raise many flags because I don't use it. Could be worth a shot though.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 01:57 PM
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How are you meeting all these attractive women looking for a fwb? Where are the hot single in my area?
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 01:18 AM
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How does one grease the edges?
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 11:14 AM
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Why do you suspect he may be a narc? I'm not making the connection.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 05:27 AM
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You are doing the right thing and freedom is within your grasp. DO NOT GO BACK. That story was really hard to read but it sounds like you're aware of your mistakes. Continue grey rocking. Stay strong. You're on the right path. We're here for you.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 07:48 PM
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Hang in there brother. Find a way to break the cycle. Give yourself 8 hours of screen time a day but commit to doing something productive with the rest. Exercise. Cook a healthy meal. Read a motivating book, take one step to improve your life, etc. It's not impossible and that's how I know you can do it.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/24 04:39 AM
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Hinge is working pretty well for me if you haven't tried it yet. Bumble not so much.
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 10:32 PM
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Ackhsually, karma, as Buddha described it, is exactly that... the sum total of your choices and the consequences of your actions. It's just a term that's been abused by pop culture and warped by religiosity. Buddhism is good stuff.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 06:49 AM
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Gotcha. Thanks! Sometimes I forget how useful newspapers are... and that they exist.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/24 07:59 PM
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Yeah, sounds like you might be horribilizing yourself a bit, OP. Your mistakes prob aren't uncommon and they didn't happen in a vacuum -- more than likely these mistakes happened as part of unhealthy relationship patterns you both contributed too. No reasons to blame yourself or feel unnecessary guilt.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/24 07:57 PM
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What kind of events?
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/24 02:04 AM
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Yeah dude sorry your dad sucks ass! Wtf. Cut that god damn kid-competing loser out of your life. At least keep him at arms length so he can't hurt you anymore. Fuck him.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 03:03 PM
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Holy fucking shit bro. I am so sorry. Reminds me of the chick from Gone Girl. Scares me there are crazies like her living amongst us. We could date them for years and never realize what they are hiding below the surface. Nightmare fuel. Never marry!
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 03:42 AM
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What's the deal with teachers? I would think they would be quality people?
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 04:37 AM
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What's the deal with teachers?
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 04:37 AM
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Ignore everything and don't react is great advice and I just want to add onto that... go into every interaction expecting that she will try to push your buttons. This is so you won't ever be caught off guard. When you see yourself feeling emotions and reacting, think to yourself "she is trying to push my buttons and the best thing I can do in this situation is to not react." My therapist told me to picture a stop sign in my mind to interrupt the trigger --> emotional response pattern. Keep a rec…
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 02:10 PM
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Things will get better. Hang in there my friend. Things will not always be this difficult. You can always count on things changing.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 06:07 PM
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Keep your chin up and hang in there. It is a longer process for some but the rest of your life will not be like this. You can always count on things changing!
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 05:27 PM
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Navy takes this very seriously too. Not sure about other branches. A buddy of mine had his ex locked up for adultery.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 05:23 PM
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Any advice for someone getting ready for first mediation session? I know to get 50/50 shared custody. What else? Any tips?
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 07:37 PM
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How did you find the proof?
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 07:04 PM
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Yeah OP, you definitely won't be alone through your 20's. Do NOT marry her because if that fear. It's irrational. Break up, date other women, and find the right one. You are SO young. Don't waste your youth with a sour meat suit. Get out there and get laid!
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 06:02 PM
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Curious about this too. Seems like a woman would just say peace out and find someone who will marry her.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 10:39 PM
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The effect on the kids is definitely the hardest part to cope with. But, remember, it's not all your fault this happened. In fact, in many situations no one is to blame. Two people just can't figure out how to get along. It happens and it's no one's fault. But yes unfortunately the kids have to deal with our mistakes. Very unfair but as long as you do a good job co-parenting they will be fine. Definitely try to get more time with them though!
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/24 06:54 PM
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Oh yeah, can totally relate. It's been about two weeks for me. And, yes, very mixed feelings about the relationship and what hurts the most is feeling like my family is gone. But, my family isn't gone, just different. As far as missing my wife, not sure how healthy this is, but it has helped me... I make a list of all the things I don't like about her and all the fights and bad memories. This helps me stay focused on the things that were bad rather than idealizing her, and helps me remember why …
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/24 11:58 AM
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You alright bro? Here to talk if you want to vent.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 02:32 AM
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Is this true? Wtf
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 11:43 PM
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What do you mean by this?
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 12:15 AM
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