| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Should I ask this girl for her friends number? Or what would be the best thing to do in this situation? | 15flows | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 07:25 PM | |
| 5 | How to have the ‘dating is just a numbers game’ mentality without having the numbers to back it up? | 15flows | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 01:20 AM | |
| 5 | time management question | 15flows | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 08:12 PM | |
| 3 | generally speaking, how do i stop feeling self conscious/bad about myself when i feel like i did something wrong? | 15flows | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 12:12 AM | |
| 1 | What do you guys do on a typical day? | 15flows | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 03:02 PM | |
| 1 | Would you advise changing my job, in order to improve my game? If so what type of job would you recommend to a 23 yo guy? | 15flows | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 06:43 AM | |
| 0 | How to ask for a girls number that you meet on the bus/train? | 15flows | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 05:27 PM |
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| – | Don't fear the friend zone. Friendships with girls are ok and she has friends who may be cute so don't be discouraged.while i agree with what you are saying, that is not really what i mean. that's almost the same as if you are talking about a coworker. what i mean is when a guy and girl go on a date (wether they met online, club, street, whatever) and only then does he get friendzoned, then that is what his reputation will continue to be (i assume). the guy in your college class, while there might be some interest (if you're hot and he's a guy), you'll be seeing him regardless, wether you want to or not. those … | /r/seduction | 29/10/18 08:21 PM |
| – | Which book do you like better? How to be a 3% man or Models?i've read models, not 3%, but by your description, does it not sound like they contradict each other? isn't keeping your emotions mysterious the opposite of being vulnerable? | /r/seduction | 29/10/18 08:02 PM |
| – | Don't fear the friend zone. Friendships with girls are ok and she has friends who may be cute so don't be discouraged.wouldn't this only work, if you (like you said) friendzoned yourself from the beginning? what i mean is, if you were actually trying to hook up/get laid, and she friendzones you, would that not be your reputation to the rest of her friends, from the start?? | /r/seduction | 29/10/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlmy thing is, when i'm out and about, and a girl actually smiles at me, just smiling back seems weird to me. idk why, but i even feel the difference when i'm genuinely smiling, and a girl smiles at me and i 'try' to smile back, as opposed to just smile back.. not sure if its just a lack of confidence overall, or what | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 09:51 PM |
| – | What do i need to do to become my self? And improve my self? And stop being the Weak Nice Guy?are you saying not to read self help books? didn't get that point otherwise, great list | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 09:35 PM |
| – | Help for Advice?! Trying to get the girl!i always have to clarify here that i'm a student, with mostly not much to say. that being said, could she not be using you just for attention? she tells you about her bf and all the other guys she fucks. she sends nudes and also mentions that she fucked the other guys on the first 'date', yet, knowing that you would be flying in, she says that you wont get any? implying that you would have to fly in a 2nd time? maybe she's playing you/seeing how far she can push you? based on the fact alone that… | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How to never run out of things to saywhile i agree with everything you said, my only question is (just trying to fill the holes in my logic) - i can easily bring up anything i'm interested in, and therefore talk about it with lots of passion, make it interesting etc, but wont it come off as very self servant? | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Field report: Took a red head home in less than an hour.lol 'I’m thin and lanky, even when I’m fat' sounds hilarious! | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | generally speaking, how do i stop feeling self conscious/bad about myself when i feel like i did something wrong?thanks for the feedback | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 01:16 AM |
| – | generally speaking, how do i stop feeling self conscious/bad about myself when i feel like i did something wrong?the 'stupid thing' i do is always different. this specifically probably won't happen again anyway, but the next time i'll do something else, which will still lead me to feel the same way. i need help with the emotion, not recognizing a girls intent when she raises her hand | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 12:34 AM |
| 1 | I always lose the ‘mystery’ when dating, how do I keep her intrigued?i've definitely made girls my number 1 priority as well.. the worst part, is that 'emotionally speaking' it can even make sense! here is a girl bringing you pure joy and pleasure, why would you not want it more? which is why it makes even less sense to us, when the girl has the opposite feeling about it. even if things started great.. feels like i never learn this | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | need help understanding (possible) signs from neighborfirst, thanks a lot for your reply! regarding her trying to say that she is desirable, i agree that if that is what she is doing, that is not an attractive quality to have, but, if we end up hooking up, do you think i care about the fact that she is only doing it because she is seeking validation lol ? regarding her 'age comment', that's definitely what i got from it as well.. and well, if she just wanted to bang me and not do anything else, that would be perfect. i'm really into older women, bu… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 10:48 PM |
| – | need help understanding (possible) signs from neighboryou think so? regarding the fact that she wants me, not that she is kind of like a wreck haha well, that's the thing, i will be moving out soon, so thats the the biggest deal for me. i just have never dealt with a woman that has a bf before (rightfully so, imo) but once the situation is presented to me, it's something different lol. but still a lot of questions come up, since i really confused wondering if i'm reading her correctly or not.. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | need help understanding (possible) signs from neighborlol idk... regardless, thanks for your reply! | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 10:06 PM |
| – | need help understanding (possible) signs from neighbortalked to her 15 minutes ago lol. well, in a way i feel you, on the other, i think i've seen the boyfriend only once, i would have not even known that he was her boyfriend if she did not mention it. and she does mention quite a bit, it's not like she is downplaying it, you know? that's the only thing against it imo.. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I know what my issue is, how do I keep a conversation flowing if the girl isn’t really telling me anything?yup | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 12:03 PM |
| 1 | I know what my issue is, how do I keep a conversation flowing if the girl isn’t really telling me anything?why not actually leave and seek a woman to who you have a connection with? i mean, if a girl you couldnt care less about kept trying to talk to you, is there realistically speaking anything she could say that you suddenly make you interested in her? | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Im going to tell you something which was never told before on this sub (advice for guys)technically true, but it is a lot harder to be confident with a lack of money, status or even looks for that matter (have a missing tooth that cannot be replaced due to the lack of money) having those things automatically gives one more confidence.. which is ultimately whats important. being confident without ANY of those, requires a lot more work and self improvement.. really not saying you are wrong, just that it is a lot harder to pull, at least i wasnt able to so far | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Approached a girl at the gymdef need to start paying more attention to lyrics lol | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 09:04 PM |
| 1 | If a girl (online) asks for my picture but doesn't reply, how to think of it?Yooo! I have def experienced this also and I gotta say that it def sucks!! Lol It has happened twice, where I started talking to some girls online, and when we exchanged pics, they went cold and eventually stopped talking. And I gotta say, each time, it killed me a bit inside. BUT.. that was during my Debbie downer days. Now that those days are behind me, it would still hurt a bit, but it just is what it is. You're probably a shy, introverted person. That's probably why you're online in the firs… | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 01:50 PM |
| 1 | If you feel that you are not ready for seduction, try friendship instead.Just curious, how did you meet these older girls? Thanks for your explanation, this actually makes a lot of sense to me. Specially, you making out with their friends lol | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 08:12 AM |
| 1 | If you feel that you are not ready for seduction, try friendship instead.So did you approach girls just to be friends with them? Or whenever you randomly met a girl, you just didn't try anything? Interesting post btw | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 04:22 AM |
| 1 | When a girl comes over to the house....This only happened to me once. Talked online a bit and she invited me over. Don't know if all girls act like her, but since I was expecting something to happen, I started trying to escalate within 5 minutes lol! And yeah, nothing ended up happening. | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Would you advise changing my job, in order to improve my game? If so what type of job would you recommend to a 23 yo guy?Thanks for your feedback!!! So technically I could get the same 'experience' working at kfc or so? Meaning, it's really just about the people? | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 04:22 AM |
| 1 | A girl bought me a drink for the first time, but...Did you ask about it? If so, you really shot yourself in the foot with that one lol | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Would you advise changing my job, in order to improve my game? If so what type of job would you recommend to a 23 yo guy?Why would you say it was a confidence builder for you? And honestly I thought about it, but I almost never see an ad from a clothing store, looking for new staff. Don't know if it's because I live in a small town or what lol | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Would you advise changing my job, in order to improve my game? If so what type of job would you recommend to a 23 yo guy?Thanks for the kind words I really appreciate it!! | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Would you advise changing my job, in order to improve my game? If so what type of job would you recommend to a 23 yo guy?in short: music. dont know how many ppl take that serious tho. the long version: i plan on keep making and start releasing music, make most of my money with djing, start a label, build a brand around it, so when its big enough, through my own parties under that name, etc. my goal is really to create an empire in this underground scene! but it def will still take a while. but it also will def happen :D edit: my goal in the long run is to have that empire. my short term goal is just be able to not… | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Would you advise changing my job, in order to improve my game? If so what type of job would you recommend to a 23 yo guy?I hear what you're saying. The reason I ask this here is because, the jobs that I would like to have, I can't get, and the ones I can get, I don't care about lol. I'd just be happy to meet new people. Once I 'reach my goal' and really start doing what I like, I won't have that problem anymore :D Thanks for your input man! | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Would you advise changing my job, in order to improve my game? If so what type of job would you recommend to a 23 yo guy?I don't really want to get a degree. I'm working on turning my hobby into my work. A degree really won't help me much.. And getting a degree JUST to pickup women, seems like a lot of work haha. Thanks for your input man | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 08:06 AM |
| 1 | For all those who are lonely and browse this sub to fix that....'the same way that a 5 foot 2" man isn't meant to play in the NBA some men just aren't meant to get tonnes of women' don't know how much i agree with this. technically it is true yes, but just because you don't make it to the nba, you can still play ball if you like it! just like, you prob wont meet new girls everyday and score everyday, but you can still put in an effort and meet some girls from time to time. but i also do think that its important to not let this become number 1 priority in lif… | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 01:52 PM |
| 2 | First day ever of daygame! Wasn't initially looking for today to be the day I try and pick up any girls, but it happened anyway and I feel AWESOME.That's what's up!!!!!!! Wow, you have been here for months? I've been in this seddit for a few days, hopefully I don't have to wait as long as you have. But yeah, great job man!! | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Should I ask this girl for her friends number? Or what would be the best thing to do in this situation?Thanks for your feedback BTW | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Should I ask this girl for her friends number? Or what would be the best thing to do in this situation?So, in other words, instead of me deciding if I should go after on or the other, I should try and feel her out and let them decide for me? BTW, the girl that wrote down my number, was the one that texted | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Today is the day! I am going to do some cold approaches during the day time.So how did it go? | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 10:03 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Number Close after a week of pickup. Feeling Euphoric.That's what's up man!! Great job | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 10:01 PM |
| 1 | FR day #8, nailed itYoooo great job man!!! I'm happy to see your making progress. Hopefully very soon I'll be writing something similar here | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Gaming with a busy schedule?Ok, thanks for the feedback! Tbh I think my main problem online is actually the first text I send to them. Most girls just have empty profiles with pics in front of the mirror. I sometimes find it impossible to come up with something. But yeah, thanks again:) | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Gaming with a busy schedule?So what would you do if tinder, or online dating in general, wasn'tworking for you? | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Today is the day! I am going to do some cold approaches during the day time.That's the attitude!! At days end let us know how it went | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 12:26 PM |
| 2 | [LRx11] - My solo 10-day vacation. Threesome, alleyway fuck, and a photoshoot. Part I (with pics)Yooo!! Seriously, what an amazing read!! I just joined seddit, but man am I looking forward to what's to come for me! I'm sure that song a tenth of this will be no problem once I figure things out! Also really looking forward to part 2!! | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 12:13 PM |
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