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COUCH CREATURES17430/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:48 AM
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SEEKING ADVICE17430/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 11:30 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITY17430/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 04:32 AM
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I HATE when men joke like that. I'd much rather we both work and have enough money to hire someone to clean the house, at least the job will be done properly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:55 PM
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But somehow everyone laughs at the "boy or abortion" joke?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:15 PM
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It might be love bombing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 12:58 PM
16

I have rather small boobs and I still hate NOT wearing a bra, it's not about feeling uncomfortable that someone sees my nipples, I just don't like it when they move a lot, especially since I often walk up and down the stairs and it's AWFUL without a bra. I found my perfect size and I don't even notice I'm wearing it. I'm surprised so many women hate them, for me it's like putting my hair in a ponytail so it doesn't bother me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:09 PM
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The worst times are these wasted at their places when they played video games while I stared at my phone bored. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:39 PM
18

I recently started figure skating and people like you who started as adults inspire me so much! So many people say that if you didn't start as a toddler you lost your chance. This sport is amazing even if I'll never ever do a triple jump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:37 PM
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I would only like to say that if they find these posts about themselves, they'll be glad they're getting the attention and that you're still thinking about them and analysing their words. I also feel like venting sometimes but I know it won't do me any good. It's best to block, delete, forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:25 PM
135

Goodmorning/goodnight texts are one of the best things about relationships imo lol. And it's such a basic zero effort thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:41 PM
32

Okay so one moment they are call themselves nice guys (but women prefer bad boys with specific jawlines), then they call out other men for being nice lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:27 PM
28

First there were white knights, then c%cks, now this, they never run out of words for normal men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:26 PM
14

It's so abstract to me, the fact that there are men who follow these accounts and write all these comments with rose emojis, it's like another universe, are these the same men I pass by on the streets, work with, am friends with? It can't be real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:53 PM
30

Omg my grandpa said to me (a vegan) once: "but you will HAVE TO cook MEAT for your husband". Two awful things in one sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:35 PM
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I've been with a narcissist, he did many awful things to make me break up with him because he didn't want to be the one to do it, so that later he could complain how poor and brokenhearted he is and what a whore I am :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 12:55 AM
24

LVM have these theories that women always fake their number, so they multiply it by 3 or something, if you're honest and say, for example, 4, they will think you had 12 partners lol. Even if you tell them they won't believe you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:24 PM
70

In my experience it was the ugliest/least groomed guys who had the most to say about my appearance, like who are you to judge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:18 AM
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Tbh I don't think they poop for that long - they just sit there on their phones while their poops float watching their asses from below and begging to be flushed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 10:48 PM
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Yeah stupid mom wants to save money and be more eco friendly, and makes his grown ass son lunch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:54 AM
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And usually the reaction is worse because he lied, if he'd just said it earlier you wouldn't be that mad. That's no excuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:37 AM
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35 but writes like a boomer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:33 AM
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IT guys tend to view themselves so above everyone else ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:30 AM
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I'm surprised too, even during my worst pickmeisha days I would never clean someone else's house. If a guy's house was really disgusting I'd just insist on dates anywhere else. I'd feel so humiliated going around his house with cleaning stuff while he sits on the couch, wtf. I remember a girl from my school who was invited to parties by guys just because they realised she would always tidy and clean afterwards, it was so sad. Free cleaning service haha :p Meanwhile these guys drooled over girls …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 10:43 PM
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there is a healthier sub r/truechildfree for people who are sick of the main CF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 08:52 PM
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And by God, stop procreating with them! A baby will not make a manbaby grow up, stop kidding yourselves. This! You'll end up having to care for two babies, one of which will whine that you care for the other baby and have less time for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:34 PM
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That's another thing I want to point out: he didn't lose respect for me because I wasn't "playing hard to get". He treated me well because he wanted to. NOT because I demanded it. Which is amazing to me. This is so important. I hate how, in a relationship, I could never show my true feelings, emotions, how much I like him, because that made most guys feel "safe" and would lead to them treating me worse and worse and taking me for granted. HVM don't play stupid games and don't need to be played o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 01:16 AM
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Tbh I had a puppy who stole my underwear from the laundry basket and bit it, I had to throw away many panties because of her D: it is a real scenario
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 01:06 AM
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This is one of my greatest fears in life, now I'm even more scared D:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:54 PM
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I was on a high dose of antidepressants and wasn't myself. When I think about these years, I don't recognise myself. I hate how many bad decisions I made because of the meds. But I'm back to my true self now, hopefully forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 01:12 AM
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I had an ex who would complain that I'm not a virgin in one message and then 2 minutes later ridicule me for only having one partner before him (he had 4). NEVER tell men what your experience is. No matter what you say, they will turn it against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:23 AM
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I'm unable to say if a guy is handsome or not. Maybe except some rare extreme cases (extremely beautiful/ugly). Most of the time I fall in love with his personality, the way we two "click", the fact that I can talk with him for hours and never get bored... Only after I start to like him I start to notice things about his appearance that I like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:43 PM
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I agree, I'm not saying kinkshaming doesn't exist or that it's okay, just in this situation it's a painfully inaccurate accusation. If anything, it's the guy that shames her for not agreeing to do stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:38 PM
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What kind of meds? Antidepressants very often make you unable to orgasm...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:35 PM
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"don't kink shame" wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:07 PM
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Really, what kind of anxiety does he have with a person he's been in a relationship with for a decade? He probably farts next to her, they've been through some nasty illnesses together, they know everything about each other. It's not a presentation in front of strangers, it's asking your girlfriend of 10 fucking years a question lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:51 PM
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Yes! Even long before FDS, when I was a (eww) pm-isha. If a guy showed me in any way that he might be losing interest in me/stopping loving me, my feelings automatically decreased. Maybe it was a defence mechanism not to feel to bad if he leaves? Idk, but it helped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:09 PM
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Literally I sometimes think the whole redpill is based on "there was this mean girl in my school and i happened to have a crush on her but she was with the handsome sporty guy all women are like this i hate them". Every school has a mean girl, a popular girl, all that stuff. Everybody has had a crush that didn't work out. You can't base your opinion on HALF OF THE WORLD'S POPULATION because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:01 PM
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ahh their worst enemy - men who "ruin the dating market"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:53 PM
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I hate feet, both mine and other people's. I'm a strong advocate for sex in socks and idc if people say it's not attractive. Bare feet are way worse. Just wear socks and forget about them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:57 AM
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Omg, how can anyone want this :( I've had an obsessed stalkerish bf and it was hell. Joe literally thinks he can excuse anything he does because he does it out of love. He has no idea what real love is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:18 PM
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I just finished the "You" series. It shows so many sociopathic behaviours it's perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:06 PM
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I've become much, MUCH less of a pickmeisha after I got a dog. She loves me unconditionally and I love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:04 PM
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me too, when did feminism turn into twerking into the camera for men to get hard :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 10:49 PM
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Good advice! Recognising just negging alone has saved me a couple of times from LVM. But I wouldn't recommend spending too much time there, it gets to your head and may mess with your mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:02 PM
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They just want to take whatever they want from traditionalism and feminism and create this weird hybrid that suits them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 12:53 PM
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Maybe they are young? In my early 20s I didn't want to get married too soon either. It changes with age I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 02:14 AM
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You just described my ex. I also now just agree with them - I'm too good for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:50 AM
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I love cooking, but I also love to have someone to do the dirty work for me like peeling potatoes or chopping some veggies while I do the more fun parts. Not only the food is ready in less time, but also he is engaged in the process instead of laying on the couch or whatever. It's perfect for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:19 AM
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Yes we will never find a man LIKE HIM. We will find an amazing HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:05 PM
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>No High Value Man would ask for them. No High Value Man would respect you for them. No High Value Man would send them. Exactly. The only man I've sent nudes to turned out to be the most toxic of all my exes. And ofc he blackmailed me later :) also the reason why I sent them to him was because he was so manipulative I literally lost my mind while in a relationship with him and it took me a long time to recover. Now it's one of the biggest red flags to me. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:03 PM
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shit I used to wear these shoes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 11:11 AM
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I wish somebody told me this 5 years ago, I can't stand myself for my past choices. Well better late than never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:31 AM
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Really, at your age I'd be more concerned if he had too much experience. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 02:46 AM
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animal lover fishing, hunting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:49 AM
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At 19 it's perfectly normal, no red flag here imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:48 AM
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I have actually been thinking about it quite often recently. I went to yt to watch some videos of it and it was so weird. The looks on men's faces - not happy or surprised, just confused and weirded out. I could see their respect dropping the very second they realised what's happening. It was all hardly romantic. I'm glad I've found this sub because I've been so deep into all the "equality" shit I actually considered doing it someday. It's not worth it, he's only going to treat you worse after t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:54 AM
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I need to puke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:19 AM
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Men picking you up on the street are like 99% indoctrinated by PUAs, this is why I ignore them. Luckily nothing bad has happened to me yet. I feel sorry for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 09:35 PM
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A guy I know said "until they go shoot schools I don't care". So yeah we have to wait for a real disaster for people to get concerned...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 11:38 PM
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They want a virgin who is a sex expert. They say how they hate feminism and want traditional roles, but will use the "but equality" card when it suits them. Kind of similar to point 6., they want a SAHM but at the same time hate the thought of having to provide for the whole family. They will complain women have no hobbies, but if she does then it's bad that she doesn't spend more time with him. They get depressed when a girl turns them down, but will post screenshots of how mean they were to gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 02:33 PM
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I hate it when it seems like a favor on their part that they eventually agreed to go on a fully planned trip where they don't have to do anything but will still complain. Luckily now I have two girlfriends who are always up for a trip and somehow it comes naturally that each of us do a part of planning. It's such a relief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 02:10 PM
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What's with men and trips? With all my exes, whenever I wanted to go somewhere, I had to plan everything because they couldn't care less. "You want a trip? Ok, I can go with you, but you find a hotel, plan activities, you're driving". Do they just want to stay at home all the time and going on any vacation is a huge favor or what. The part about her bday trip struck me so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 09:38 AM
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A guy once told me that he won't go to therapy because venting to me is enough for him :) well it was too much for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 08:32 PM
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My perfect breakup song is I Will Survive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:31 PM
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What you said is true, but she wrote about "giving her attention" so I guessed they're messaging her. It might still be a game of numbers, unfortunately, but she should notice this early on if that's the case with a certain guy. I just wanted her to know that she shouldn't feel inferior or not attractive enough to gain attention from attractive men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:29 PM
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So English isn't my first language and I'm not perfect at sensing when which word is appropriate, but I always thought "dear" is something grandmas say, it sounds so weird coming from a random guy lol. "Yes dear" when you showed you're interested in what he does and he could've just tell you more about it, instead he decided to ruin it. At least you only wasted 5 minutes on this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 12:43 PM
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If they swiped right, you're attractive to them. Focus on deciding who looks attractive to you, never think "am I enough?". Because you are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 11:17 AM
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Wow, it's good to know I'm not alone! I'll try everything you mentioned, thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 12:12 AM
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At first I was sure he meant pecks on the cheeks which are completely normal, but lips? Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 09:28 PM
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Tbh, wouldn't cutting her off be kind of doing what your bf wants you to do? He might then feel he can criticize anyone from your friend group and expect you to stop contacting them. You're putting him on the pedestal while neglecting your friend. He may not act like this now, but you'll enable him to do. I know your friend probably is frustrating, you may lessen the intesity of your relationship with her for your own mental health sake, but I wouldn't cut her off only because of a guy. I think …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 02:26 AM
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Today's lesson: never treat a man "like a KING"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 02:13 AM
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These are the guys who later complain on the internet about how little matches they get
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 02:10 AM
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I never pretend to have had an orgasm so I guess they should figure out the answer 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 01:59 AM
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My friend actually gave ger number to a guy like that, they scheduled a date and a day before it he texted her "sorry i met another girl in the meantime". I'm still so angry when I remind myself of that story. I have no respect for these guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 03:59 PM
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Generally if someone approaches me in the street or a cafe etc (and I'm alone), I'm almost sure they've read some PUA bullshit and have all these toxic ideas in their head, so it's best to not engage in any conversation with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 03:23 PM
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Tbh if you wanted official it would still work - you haven't fucked, you didn't send pics and he saw he had to do something more and ask you to be official. If you just gave him what he wanted he probably wouldn't bother. It's awesome how well it works. But if you don't want it it's also okay and I'm really happy and proud 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 09:41 PM
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Also a babysitter, since it's not her child and he won't let her adopt. Reverse the sexes and you have a perfect story of a betabuxx for incels to jack off to, but this way it's fine :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 09:18 AM
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Who the fuck says "suck your clit" in what world does it sound sexy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 12:36 AM
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This is so me, I'm so happy I finally know my worth but sad I found it so late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 12:37 AM
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If you had a good time then it's not wasted! There's nothing wrong in playing games for a while, we're talking about guys who literally do nothing else in their free time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 12:19 AM
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Right wing men love to treat women the conservative way and pull the "but equality!" card whenever it suits them (like making the woman pay)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:42 AM
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