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Are you really surprised that it’s easier for a woman to get random male attention and formulate those types of relationships than it is to find platonic female friends..? Men approach me a good bit. The only time I’m really even around other women to make friends with is .. work and I work for a private firm so there’s not a lot of turnover aka no new friends. But if I was into that sort for thing, I could easily get a FWB by just saying “yes” to any of the men who approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:35 AM
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I’m convinced men just want a surrogate mom they can fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:28 AM
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Apparently a ton of men here. Because if a random person on the internet insults you, it must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:35 AM
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Because y’all let it be. Just because someone says you have a small dick doesn’t mean you do? So who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:12 AM
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Literally nobody cares if you say we have small tits the way y’all cry about women saying you have little dicks. You can even say I have a loose vagina and idc because men will still line up to fuck a loose vagina. Shit call me fat too! Y’all let this shit get to you way too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:33 AM
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Discussing the fact that he made statements about getting away with rape in eastern countries and discussing his arrest doesn’t mean he’s being “perceived as guilty.” But arguable there’s a degree of existing probable cause. Discussing someone you like in a negative way doesn’t mean “assuming they’re guilty.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:35 AM
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You’re a good husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:33 AM
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Is there anything more disappointing than having your vibrator die right before you’re about to orgasm. 🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:52 AM
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Calling human trafficking being “scammed” is high key concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:20 AM
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There’s a handful. I saw someone a few months ago with “Tate-pilled” flair. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:06 AM
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I love that Andrew Tate prides himself on making money for being emotionally manipulative but his male fans can’t see that he’s ALSO emotionally manipulating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:04 AM
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Andrew Tate has convinced over 100,000 men to pay the $39 a month to join his “Hustler’s University” community. Just wow. Y’all don’t just simp for women, you’ll simp for anyone it’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:01 AM
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Literally everyone who says they’re 6’ tall, make 6-figures, and have “tried everything” but can’t get a single hookup while claiming that women only want 6’ men making 6-figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:54 PM
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Idk if straight women can answer your questions because I’m not interested in women so.. there’s like no alternative for me? It’s either date men or be single, so there’s obviously positives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:39 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:35 PM
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Did you not see that she’s copied a man’s post here about how he was talking to a 20 year old girl who’s alleged biggest crush was Chris Brown?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:20 PM
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I have ADHD so fasting is my baseline tbh. I just forget to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:41 PM
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I’m not even going to address this. If you’re not a troll, and these are your true, unbridled thoughts.. I think you being single is what’s best for women tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:39 AM
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Unlikely but I appreciate your optimism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:27 AM
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Truuuu. I hold you in high regard compared to this clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:14 AM
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Being single is as bad as rape. Ok drama queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:12 AM
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I think there’s some people who left for good. Their personalities were way too uh.. prominent to go unnoticed if they came back under an alt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:45 AM
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The fact that women aren’t available on Xbox Game Pass is an actual crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:56 AM
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Exactly the algorithm shows you more of the content you consume. My TikTok doesn’t have ANY of the stuff these men are on about with women bitching about men and spewing their ridiculous standards etc. Mines dog videos like what are y’all liking to get so pissed off. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:54 AM
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But women on TikTok said something else which ISNT what you said and I KNOW she’s pretty so you’re just ugly and jealous and lying. Admit you’re virtue signaling so that the lonely men here SIMP for you! We KNOW you rly care what they think about you. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:40 AM
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That’s 100% what happens. People post their grand exit then watch from an alt how many people cry that they’re gone. I have actual respect for the people who left & never came back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:39 AM
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Which is weird AF considering men also want casual sex so they’ve created this narrative that only women pair bond through sex. So causal = bad for women, but good for men.. so by pursuing causal sex they’re actively damaging women for everyone else. Sounds about right!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:11 AM
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FWB is “relationship lite.” It’s barely considered causal since most FWB are “exclusive” and do friend things + sex. That’s literally a relationship without a title. And most causal sex wasn’t INTENDED to be casual, it’s women who WANT relationships from hot guys that don’t want to commit so they thought having sex would win him over (hint: it doesn’t). Very few women truly have intentional ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:08 AM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:05 AM
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I don’t think I’d pay attention to the guy talking to another woman other than to think, “thank god he’s bothering her instead of me now!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:00 AM
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Until your young, hot girlfriend wants to hike and you can’t keep up or your performance in bed starts to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:51 PM
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Being nice to them doesn’t fix it. They just say, “you’re just one woman, you’re a unicorn/outlier!” Or they’ll say they have nothing in common with women and don’t want to be our friends unless we’re giving them pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:47 PM
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Big Jim is showing his age and needs to learn proper 2022 bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:44 PM
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I’d be sad if they weren’t such angry, jaded, woman hating cunts tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:39 PM
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This sounds v fake because Chris Brown has been irrelevant forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:27 PM
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I’d say the stereotypical trope/equivalent to bad boys is going to be blonde party girls. They’re superficial head turning hot in the same way “bad boys” are described to be. And when men here say, “I don’t like blonde party slurs!” I rebuttal with, the same applies to women & bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:48 PM
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People will just lie and we’ll have an influx of “just turned 18,” day 1 accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:06 PM
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🆘 this is a LARP kings, do not white knight and send dick pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:04 PM
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It’s been like 2 people calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:18 PM
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Or that having casual sex is a cognitive choice not a perverse sexual attraction & compulsion like pedophilia?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:17 PM
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How are you comparing being a hoe with an actual sexual attraction to children..?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:16 PM
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He’s married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:54 PM
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My husband bent over while naked yesterday to fix the Roomba and I had this same thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:26 PM
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Ok then why are men with blackpill flair who use blackpill talking points not banned for “incel content” because it’s absolutely everywhere. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:14 AM
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They’re all 1-7 day old accounts. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:18 AM
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Standby for the crash and burn posts when things don’t work out because they’re “in love” after 3 weeks and he throws another adult tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:17 AM
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Did you threaten her? It’s been like 3 weeks and you’re forcing her to say she loves you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:15 AM
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If you block RedditCares you won’t get the messages when people report you. 👌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:14 AM
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Having men you don’t want develop feelings for you.. develop feelings for you doesn’t make dating easier..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:40 AM
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Women are probably hesitant to be friends with men, who may develop feelings because of our kindness. Men on the other hand see a lonely, young woman and see it as an opportunity for just that.. romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:42 AM
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Yes, but he’s going to stretch the meaning of “young” to try to prove a non-existent point. But, I’m pretty sure the women here who are 30 and older all agree that they were naive and dumb at 18-22 compared to their late 20’s and older.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:13 PM
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If it makes you feel any better, I’m low-n and have never been complimented on it. I think most men here assume that “bitchy feminist” women (what I’m usually called) are high-n by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:10 PM
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Being short doesn’t mean you don’t have the sex characteristics of a post-pubescent, adult woman.. breast development, body hair & pubic hair, genital development etc. You seem to be thinking of a very specific type of petite, thin, small breasted woman (like the ones featured on “barely legal” porn), which is a lot more than “is short.” In that case, I do think men who fetishize women who have very juvenile features/prepubescent sex characteristics are suspicious and probably are sexually attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:58 PM
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I don’t have sex early on, but why would he continue to date me and spend money on me if he was disgusted & repulsed by me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:43 PM
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Why would height gaps be predatory..?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:42 PM
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I’m just here to tell men the truth they demand they want to hear from women which is why I laugh when they get mad at me like, “no, not like that!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:41 PM
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Misery loves company.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:33 PM
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And it’s totally fair for her to say no. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:33 PM
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Because dominating a man who’s bigger than me is what’s hot about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:16 PM
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I’m literally always asked for sources from men who then discredit my source based on some obscure criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:02 AM
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men here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:03 PM
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I’ve never dated a man who owned a turtleneck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:43 PM
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So if I’m so wrong, where’s the lines of women lining up to date LVM? I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:38 PM
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We are. Then men here call me “mean” for telling you want you want to hear. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:29 PM
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Men wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:27 PM
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Dick pics are out of style. We want cum shot videos with the sound on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:20 PM
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When men need a tutorial on how to be a decent man.. all things women in PPD have been saying for years, but we’re called virtue signaling liars. I pray to God you at least listen to this advice when it comes from a man. SMH.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:49 PM
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She does criticize women.. is my point..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:57 PM
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Criticizing men = “hating them.” They must conveniently not see any of your comments where you also criticize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:42 AM
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Virtue signaling is the new cope. I vote the mods ban the term. /u/Mrs_Drgree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:01 AM
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She’s allowed to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:14 AM
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So men can justify being pushy when women say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:50 PM
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Men want random women to “value” them by having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:42 PM
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He told her over and over again she can say no, so she said no and now y’all mad..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:39 PM
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So now women are supposed to fuck every dude who asks very nicely? Get out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:34 PM
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They talk a big game. These men don’t ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:05 PM
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Men here don’t believe any of the women here are happily married because we shit talk the men here, so we’re gonna do it back. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:40 PM
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Are they a problem here like foreign men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:38 PM
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No, it’s very obvious the difference between “traditional movements” like TRP and straight up foreign men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:38 PM
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Yeah but she’s different. The only one of her kind!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:22 PM
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You’re not wrong tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:21 PM
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I’m not jingoistic, but there’s an incredible divide between foreign men’s ideals and attitude and western dating culture. It’s leading to impossible arguments when they flood the sub with strict Islamic dating preferences and impose them on western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:21 PM
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I ask again. Can non-western men just create their own PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:06 PM
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PPD in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:11 AM
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Then why am I always on top. Tf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:10 AM
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You deleted your last comment and I saw [deleted] next to your name and then your profile wouldn’t load and I almost had a panic attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:45 PM
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Just let us put our ice cold toes on you under the blankets! Socks won’t replace this!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:43 PM
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No, it’s a non-human specific word that refers to the female sex. It doesn’t mean “women and girls” and let’s not pretend it’s used that way.. men use it to dehumanize and objectify women by removing their humanity. This is evident when they use “men” to refer to human males but call women “females” in the same breath. “I’m a man who prefers female doctors,” is copasetic. “Men are smarter and more rational than females,” is not copasetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:44 PM
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I’m 30, only a few of my friends are single, one of them could improve his position immensely but is too lazy to. I think if you’re CHRONICALLY single by 30+ there’s an issue but some of the previously taken “good ones” end up single after a LTR so it’s not necessarily a death sentence to be single at 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:05 AM
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Men are bitching because what they SAY women find physically attractive excludes the majority of men. Women outside of TikTok routinely say, “these aren’t the only things that matter,” and men here are like LIAR! Women never tell the truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:25 AM
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No.. men say if we have consistently high standards that we’ll end up bitter and alone with 800 cats.. they’re mad all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:23 AM
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It’s not that you had fun and now you want to settle, it’s that you actively left me for fun and then wanna come back when you get bored of it. I’d be totally fine getting with someone new who took advantage of the free shit and realized it was unfulfilling/wanted stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:59 PM
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No, but once the novelty of free shit wears off and you miss your old life where I cook for you, clear your plate from the table, wash/dry/fold/put your laundry away, replace your razor blades & soaps without needing to be asked, rub your back, cuddle & have sex with you etc.. I won’t be around. If all of that was replaceable with drugs and free video games, I don’t want you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:43 PM
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I don’t have sex with men who pressure me. I have sex with men I WANT to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:15 PM
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You’re welcome to scroll back to the beginning of my comment history.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:13 PM
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We want to fuck people were attracted to. If you’re “forcing” sex out of women, they’re not attracted to you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:11 PM
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Hating men here doesn’t mean I hate all men. I’ve never run into men like y’all in real life 😂 I’m well we’ll aware the men here are not all men, y’all worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:31 PM
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How do you know they’re LARPers and not actual hateful and misogynistic “angry white men?” I refuse to believe that time and time again these spaces are all being shut down because totally not misogynistic, not bitter, and not jaded men congregate in these spaces and have respectful, intellectual conversations about women? You can literally see it here.. it’s just countered by women instead of left to fester in isolation. Is every misogynistic, hateful man here conveniently a LARP like they don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:02 PM
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I started out trying to argue fairly, now I’m just ruthlessly honest because the men here are so insufferable & don’t deserve the headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:56 PM
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You might get divorced either way but you only have to pay out the ass in alimony in one of those situations; marrying the broke woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:29 PM
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I agree. Some women have insufferable personalities that even the hottest body won’t make up for dealing with long term, just like there’s some men who are only good for a free dinner. But none of us want to think that’s us. The number of “average” men here.. Conveniently everyone here makes 6-figures but accuses women of virtue signaling. I’d love to see this place if everyone was honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:26 PM
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I just really liked the 40 year old dude who thinks he’s Chris Pratt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:05 PM
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Men routinely ask the WORST “this or that” questions and then either argue or get upset when women are like .. neither? It’s honestly just proof to me that men here have NO IDEA what’s attractive to women but simultaneously won’t even TRY to listen to us when we tell them “that’s not what attracts us, this is..” “You’re not all women.” “Women always lie.” “Virtue signaling.” “Just answer the question, which I’ve carefully curated to try to pigeonhole you into the answer I want so I can AH-HA got…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:42 PM
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No this is PPD “average men” behind the scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:04 PM
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Men here making a totally normal approach but being rejected because of their “looks.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:28 PM
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Honestly, almost everything he does? When I’m cooking breakfast and he comes up and smacks me on the butt. When he kisses me. When he’s undressing. When he does this goofy fake-sexy “raises eyebrows” thing. When we’re snuggling in bed (we sleep naked). I love the way he smells, I love the way he looks, I love the way he makes me feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:46 PM
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I’ve rejected men I thought were objectively attractive, but I wasn’t sexually attracted to them. I’ve probably rejected an equal number of men for both looks and personality. Considering I only dated 4 men and been asked out dozens and dozens of times, most men were filtered out for a myriad of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:41 PM
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Sure, but is he not still a tentative option since she swiped on him to even GET to a first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:18 AM
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Men don’t understand that just because an abundance of men are available doesn’t make them an “option.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:14 AM
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Because she swiped right on him too in order to match in the first place??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:12 AM
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And not everyone is you. What a wild concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:27 AM
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Women aren’t complaining about being pumped and dumped because it added another notch in their bed post.. they’re complaining about wanting more than just sex but only being used for sex.. how is this not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:22 AM
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Also white passing people of other races/ethnicities. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:47 AM
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This is very not woke of you, all knowing being.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:46 AM
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I’m married, yes we’re monogamous, yes he’s attractive? Why would I marry someone I’m not attracted to.. almost all my friends are married IRL? You must be young.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:10 AM
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I’ve never had to change my behavior to attract men, and I doubt most other women have either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:21 PM
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This is factually true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:15 AM
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I used to keep my messages closed, because of a certain creepy AF user here. They’re open now with no issues. 🤞🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:15 AM
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100% true. I have a low n-count and am not attracted to the men they describe as BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:03 PM
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Please comment this to the woman who tried to “school” me about how women could have overthrown men so long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:40 PM
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Marginally, but “I’m lonely because I can’t find a partner,” isn’t going to solicit empathy from me. We all have ways to improve loneliness, even very ugly people get married and you can relieve loneliness with friends. Someone who’s truly THAT lonely either has other mental health issues or they’re just unwilling to put in the work to do their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:37 PM
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No. I would not. That’s an absolutely ridiculous reason to end your life, but ending your life is your own choice and right. Women don’t owe men pity pussy because they threaten suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:16 PM
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If you read my post in its entirety or quoted me correctly, you wouldn’t think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:00 PM
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Then don’t discuss it with me. I said my peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:01 PM
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100% co-signed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:01 PM
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Men aren’t FLOCKING to 2nd and 3rd world countries. Struggling men are largely sold on the fantasy that they can have their pick of beautiful foreign women as long as they flash their cash.. I’m not bothered by men making that choice. But it’s no different than the west; these women still want you for your resources, they’re not panty dropping because you’re white. You’re essentially buying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:57 PM
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Child birth and getting hit in the balls aren’t anywhere near the same. Let me know when getting hit in the balls causes weight gain, permanently disfiguring stretch marks, genital tearing, bleeding etc. Let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:46 PM
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I’m not mad but report it if you’re worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:44 PM
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If you’re going to argue this, quote what I said, not part of a sentence/thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:43 PM
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I didn’t fail to address anything. I addressed exactly what I wanted to address; you searching for my explanation of “why” isn’t a failure on my part. I never intended to discuss that, just the core concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:42 AM
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They’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:39 AM
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I’m not at war with anyone. Simply addressing a point made by men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:37 AM
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Some things can never be fair. Like how women give birth. There’s no male equivalent; women will always hold a certain power imbalance over creating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:36 AM
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Show me where I said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:22 AM
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I’m not FDS, I’ve never even been to their subreddit. I’m not bitter; it’s a fact of life. Men want women more than the inverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:19 AM
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They want it to be true so bad. 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:06 AM
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Nobody’s threatening you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:06 AM
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It has nothing to do with desperation. Men want women more than we want you. That’s all. You’re not “desperate” your gender just wants women more than we as a gender want you back. We’re more selective and it’s by design.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:02 AM
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I can’t control other women, Sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:42 AM
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Show me where I said any of that. Or create fake arguments that have nothing to do with my OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:28 AM
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A woman considering an individual man “too shelf” TO HER does not mean he’s universally considered so. 90% of women are only interested in 10% of men. Not the “top 10%.” Just 10%. Subjectivity and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:23 AM
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Women, as a group, aren’t being taxed at a lower rate than men because they’re women.. the majority of men still outearn women, so they’re simply in lower tax brackets. A man and a woman with the same income pay the same amount in taxes. 😂😂 Don’t marry broke women and they’ll pay more in taxes than the tax break. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:18 AM
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And they do. Women who work pay taxes and alimony is only awarded in about 10% of divorces, with the highest amount being awarded to .. women who don’t work… Men are the ones who say a woman’s education and income doesn’t matter and are then shocked Pikachu when they have to pay broke women alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:44 AM
4

Ok. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I don’t and won’t be having children so I’m not worried about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:40 AM
10

I’m fine with society crumbling if it means we’re not forcing women to choose relying on a man for a roof over her head and birthing half a dozen of his children. Society doesn’t make the cost of motherhood very appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:39 AM
1

Again, this must be your algorithm or age demographic, because this isn’t coming up on my social media at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:34 AM
1

I’m not angry, don’t read it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:33 AM
5

No chip, that paragraph was the lead in to “women used to need men to survive, now we don’t.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:30 AM
6

Do you really think I’m bothered by TRP so much that I go off on my husband at home and make failed men his problem? Use your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:18 AM
2

And yet, my husband chose me over other women who are, as you say, able to offer him the same things. So I’m not sure what’s your comment is trying to prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:13 AM
7

Who said anything about me being a victim? That sentence was clearly about women who did not have the freedom to get an education, earn their own money for own property.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:03 AM
15

Men and women make up almost equal percentages of the population. Theres definitely “enough [women] to go around.” However we don’t want men we’re not attracted to and we’re not forced to out of necessity, so we’re not partnering up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:01 AM
10

Nobody’s stopping you from moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:55 AM
24

I don’t feel guilty. I don’t agree that every woman wants the same top “shelf man,” I think that every woman wants a man that they’re truly attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:54 AM
4

I don’t see this, must be suggested to you based on your likes & algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:51 AM
6

That’s a revenge fantasy. Men still very much want women in their 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:48 AM
8

I’m fine with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:45 AM
10

You cannot make female attraction competitive and “fair.” It’s biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:39 AM
22

Revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:18 AM
9

So let them think that? Let those women suffer the consequences of their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:09 AM
1

I agree entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:06 AM
4

18-30 is a pretty long time when I can go to school, earn money, and take my time dating and deciding who I want to date instead of rushing into a mediocre relationship just to have a roof over my head because the stigma of being single was presented as being worse than having a disgusting man grunt on top of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:03 AM
18

Men: “women are never honest and don’t say what they mean!” Men when women are honest, but they don’t like it: 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:00 AM
3

Weird.. men don’t get it when women are annoyed at your TRP takes but when we do it back, suddenly it’s justified? This has been eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:52 AM
14

I have a low n-count and I’ve never sex outside of a committed relationship. Next?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:49 AM
7

On what, instagram so they can take your money?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:49 AM
7

My evidence is real life, where all my whore friends from college have nice husbands. I don’t know a single whore whose “suffering” for her choices to have hookups during college the way TRP desperately wants them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:48 AM
2

Don’t worry about it if it doesn’t apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:44 AM
2

I don’t agree with her that women had the ability to revolt and turn against men longer than 60 years ago. Christianity took hold of all of the west and countries rooted in Christianity did not allow women in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:43 AM
14

“Women don’t like me, an average guy, so I’m allowed to cheat and manipulate women to get what I want!” Sounds legitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:26 AM
4

The downvotes show they’re reading. 🤫 They say they want the truth, then whine when women speak it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:23 AM
0

I’m not a university student. Way to patronize.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:22 AM
2

Read their comments. Almost all of them report being married. Actually, most of the women regardless of n-count, pill affiliation, etc. are married or partnered up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:21 AM
7

So let them? You’re also allowed to have whatever preferences you want, just know that women aren’t changing society to meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:19 AM
3

Plenty of men are wifing up “the town bicycle.” The majority of high-n women in PPD are married. They aren’t aren’t complaining that men won’t marry them, they’re expressing their opinion that men demanding virgins is 50 shades of silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:16 AM
12

Maybe if you “sucked it up and dealt with it,” you’d also be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:12 AM
14

I’m incredibly happy with my husband, he’s an amazing and attractive man that I didn’t settle or lower my standards for, so I’m not sure what your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:11 AM
10

So let women who have what you believe to be insanely high standards suffer from the consequences of their standards/actions, but the bottom line is that women don’t want men anywhere near enough to lower their standards and fuck some Joe Schmoe they’re not truly attracted to when they don’t have any incentive to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:03 AM
20

I’m married so it’s worked out just fine!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:01 AM
15

I don’t. Have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:59 PM
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It wasn’t a pity fuck to help him lose his virginity though 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:21 PM
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Practice on /r/creativewriting first pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:47 PM
1

I don’t care, I don’t win a prize for an upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:56 PM
1

Your original comment was posted 12 hours ago during an active thread and you downvoted me to 0. Use your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:40 PM
1

You downvoting me to confirm your own bias? Very convincing. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:18 PM
4

You can just not date women who wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:24 AM
1

I really like that you used “females” instead of “women” in your emotionally charged edit. 😂 Tells me everything I need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:55 AM
4

I’ve been out of the loop for like a week and highly appreciate these. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:44 PM
1

100% I don’t even like actively analyze men I don’t find attractive, they’re just NPC’s and I’m going through the motions. They don’t even have to be ugly; just men I’m not actively attracted to are completely neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:17 PM
1

he is better than the military
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:37 AM
1

Ok which one of you is this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:55 AM
2

I’m not angry. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:03 PM
6

Even other TRPers get upset at William and call him blue pilled, white knight etc. The ones in the anger phase push back against everyone who isn’t as angry as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:31 PM
1

She’s looks good with bangs though. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:50 PM
1

Sexual selection is a form of natural selection. Domestic violence isn’t Darwinism at hand. People who were seemingly normal can develop mental illness, drug addiction, etc. which causes them to become violent later on in the relationship. Not every or even most men/women who are murdered by a partner started the relationship with a KNOWN abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:53 AM
1

Being a victim of domestic violence - male or female - is not the same as being on the receiving end of sexual selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:43 AM
1

Also they’re always going on about their biological imperative to spread their seed, where as women needed men to be monogamous to support and provide continued protection for their children in the community. I remember a few months ago, men were saying that women cheating is worse than men cheating because of “paternity fraud,” (even when no baby resulted from the affair) but men cheating is “just an emotionless need for sex.” But now they’re saying women cheat more. Idk I’m not a mathematician…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:38 AM
2

I’m probably pornstar good to some people, average to others, and bad to some. Everyone likes different things so if you don’t do things the way they like, it’s “bad.” This is why communication is important because sometimes it isn’t skills related and just preference. I made out with a guy once who bragged about being an amazing kisser but it was far from my style so it was “bad” to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:15 PM
1

Some. The average child custody case costs $6-10k. The average divorce case $9,500+ I charge $320/hr. So even broke people are coming to my firm. Tax season has a huge influx of new clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:28 PM
1

Maybe nationally? I make 6 figures in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:47 PM
1

Divorce and child custody is expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:08 PM
1

Sure, like county public defenders make kinda trash $ in my state, but I work in family law. Most tradesmen in my area aren’t touching attorney salary unless they own their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:30 PM
1

Significant margin. I’m a private practice attorney, he’s a tradesman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:12 PM
2

fact
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:02 PM
1

No he’s very smart. Dumb men aren’t hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:59 PM
1

I have no idea what that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:50 PM
2

I’ve seen this over and over again in my field, it certainly isn’t fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:52 AM
1

I exclusively play Spanish 21 (blackjack) and make all my money on the side bets.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:28 AM
1

I’m already the breadwinner he has a whole ass house with my money, but it’s going into a shared acc anyways he can spend it if he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:20 AM
2

My husband and I went out to dinner for a friends birthday, won $1400 at the casino, and now I’m gonna throw it back on his dick because he looks so good in plaid and he put up with my tipsy ass all night 🫣😏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:42 AM
1

It’s yellow for me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:29 AM
1

Lmao let’s not pretend that most men are engaged in altruistic productivity either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:27 PM
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It’s hardly about gossip. Talking to people doesn’t always mean gossip.. it means asking them about their lives, problems, remembering birthdays, planning events, etc. So please don’t dismiss “women being more social,” as “women gossip more.” Men and women typically have different employment interests. Men usually work in STEM fields and women work human-centric in fields like nursing, teaching, social work etc. So is investing time in relationships translates more into those fields naturally. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:29 PM
3

I don’t think men would achieve great feats if they weren’t thinking about sex. Women aren’t wasting brain power by not thinking about sex - most women invest that time and clarity into social relationships, same but different to men investing it into chasing sex. It creates longer, more permanent bonds with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:53 PM
0

Clearly then, we have different goals. What would you like us to “dominate?”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:26 PM
1

Then just call them women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:25 PM
3

A lot of childless women are significantly more successful than their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:18 PM
1

Is it not possible that a % of the love letters they get are from men..? I’m high key disturbed by the # of men who pretend to be women online to sext with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:15 PM
1

They view women agreeing with other women as being feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:02 PM
1

I gotchu - I’ve only dated men 6’0 and up. Let’s fight about it. 😊😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:00 PM
1

You should be less insecure about your height and more insecure about using the term “females.” Please don’t approach women until you see them as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:58 PM
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Johann Wolfgang von Goethe — 'You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him.'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:18 PM
1

Said basically that? What did they actually say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:32 AM
4

Lmao stop
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:31 AM
2

Girl, the number 3 is like being a cock carousel riding slut in these parts. These men are something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:22 AM
3

I have literally never seen a woman here admit to dating 5+ guys at a time while also having a FWB. Not once. What version of PPD are you reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:20 AM
4

This is my favorite PPD take. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:16 AM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:16 AM
1

I agree. 😭😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:17 AM
2

Idk, I’m the bread winner and my husband really likes to be able to enjoy the nice things we can afford, knowing he doesn’t have to work 60 hours a week just to afford them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:11 AM
1

Oh god no they’re great hosts and always insist on cleaning, organizing etc. They won’t even “let” you get up to get your own drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:10 AM
1

Ahahahahahahahahhaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:09 AM
1

When my husband and I started dating I found myself feeling happy & warm every time I thought about him (I still feel this way btw), I anxiously waited for his texts & calls, and hearing his voice on the phone just made even a bad day much better. I got nervous about how I acted around him, because I was still learning who he was and I was afraid that “myself” wasn’t good enough. I’d say the nervousness etc. was a good 6 months in?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:36 PM
5

No, cause it’s not men.. it’s just y’all who clearly have never spoken to human beings in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:29 PM
1

I don’t drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:52 PM
1

Ehhh it’s not just men. At this point in my life, all of my socialization is forced (work) and I can do without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:32 PM
10

Y’all really are so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:30 PM
12

Why are you discussing women like we’re a separate species you’re watching on a nature documentary, holy fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:18 PM
0

I’m sorry you’re being asked invasive questions. That sucks!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:31 PM
0

I like his family, I just .. don’t have any desire to make small talk with them all at the same time lol but they’ll judge him & me if I’m like look I just don’t wanna go and he goes alone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:25 PM
1

I wasn’t. I’m pretty religiously ignorant and don’t even know what that belief system entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:14 PM
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There’s no amount of government support that could make me want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:12 PM
2

Being an introvert married to an extrovert with a huge family of other extroverts sucks. I could care less about thanksgiving and I really just want to sit around at home, maybe wash my car and take the dogs for a walk but every holiday I end up having to go to huge family parties and truthfully, I just don’t want to go. Ever. But they’ll all think badly of me if I don’t go.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:06 PM
1

Neither. I’ve never put either on, but we have a “no tv in the bedroom,” rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:55 PM
1

There’s literally no way I could have done online dating as an introvert and had that many ongoing conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:40 PM
1

I’m not wrong and it’s weird you’d say that considering you refuse to admit being wrong. He said it twice. One of the times was while you were just repeatedly saying “you clearly don’t work in the US.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:03 PM
1

All the comments are deleted now. Should have read it the first time. He said it 2 times. Idk how to read deleted comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:39 AM
1

Whyyy my least favorite thing is being a white passing Latina. I’m pretty much forced to identify as white and my parents put white on all my paperwork growing up so I had a “better life.” I feel like I’ve lost so much of my culture even though we speak Spanish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:48 PM
1

No. But, you’re right in your OP that most sexual “choking,” is a blood choke and not an air choke like the inexperienced men who watch painal and other violent porn think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:25 PM
3

I like a hand on my neck, I do not want anything more than a light hold or to be strangled. I’m lukewarm kinky with the “choking”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:13 PM
2

I think if you expect exclusivity, you need to bring it up. I don’t consider any relationship exclusive without that talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:40 PM
2

Saving this forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:34 PM
2

Even autistic people have trouble dating each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:31 PM
5

Women don’t want to be COLD approached. When we’re grocery shopping, picking up something from the pharmacy, or getting gas, we don’t want strange men approaching us and trying to strike up a conversation to get our phone #. Cold approaches are really only widely acceptable in places like bars or clubs. We want there to be some type of familiarity. Similar social circles, friends of friends, hobbies, or places where we visit regularly and we’ve had a few non-sexual conversations. WARM approaches…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:26 PM
5

I know what I said, I don’t delete comments. But if you’re going to rely on your “academia” to call women liars when you say, “she was giving sexual IOI” and women say, “no I wasn’t,” it’s dangerous. Women are literally telling you, “this is not an IOI.” And you’re saying, “yes it is because books, you’re a liar.” I don’t want to know how far this way of thinking goes with people like you. “She wasn’t raped, she wanted it, the books say so!”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:15 PM
4

Men: “she gave me sexual signals to approach! I read a book about this!” Women: “I was not giving you sexual signals, please stop approaching me..” Men: “Liar!” Just.. Jesus Christ. I’m picturing you chasing a poor girl down berating her about how she’s ACTUALLY interested and just doesn’t know it yet because of (checks notes) academia. Please leave women alone you sound dangerous as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:00 PM
1

Objectively, I feel like he’s an 8. Personally, same, I’m just not interested. I couldn’t rate him, it’s just a “no.” The second guy I’d rate a 5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:58 PM
6

I like that so many of us have the same stories and instead of saying wow, all these women have a similar story, there must be something going on here.. it’s, “women are lying on the internet.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:48 PM
3

I like taking care of my husband, but I don’t consider it “babying” him. He isn’t a child who needs another mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:45 PM
6

“Look at what she’s wearing!” “She made brief eye contact for 0.3 seconds when she noticed me staring at her.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:28 PM
4

Women don’t want to be cold approached. Men want women to approach. The woman in OP’s post did not complain at all about how she wasn’t being approached. She explicitly stated that she saw a man she liked and approached him, they hit it off & have been dating for a year. Men here whine all day about how women don’t approach men.. until we do, and then y’all STILL whine. Not sure how your comment makes any sense tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:24 PM
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I don’t see a problem..? Women largely don’t want to be cold approached. You guys whine about how women don’t want to be approached but still expect relationships without ever taking the initiative to approach.. She saw and approached a guy she thought was attractive.. y’all WANT THIS. You scream it from the mountain tops. Now you’re being shitty when women do it? Just admit you don’t like women and cut out the middle man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:10 PM
1

Yes? Because they’re not .. here.. You’re blaming women here for things other women on another platform with no crossover are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:57 PM
1

If you can’t read I don’t know what to tell you. Im not going to go back and forth when the evidence is right in front of your eyes and you refuse to re-read the comments.. but you just look so silly now I can’t even pretend to take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:17 PM
0

Yeah you’re fucked like the rest of us now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:35 AM
1

Introverted men can be masculine, but they’re less “seen,” since they aren’t as social and putting their masculinity on display the way extroverted men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:33 AM
2

Only people who watch kiddie porn use Tor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:32 AM
1

I was banned for 30 days and came right back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:30 AM
1

Yes he did. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:29 AM
1

I’ll open them. The guy who made me close them got banned so it’s probably ok now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:53 PM
3

If you want to talk about my blackpill beliefs you’re going to have to DM me. I’m not getting banned for 30+ days again because y’all are luring me into talking about banned topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:41 PM
1

I’ll respond to this later, I only use mobile and just typed out an entire comment and lost it because I accidentally swiped away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:36 PM
2

“But I’m still happy with it,” is what these men take and run with as settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:25 PM
2

They don’t want you to “include” them unless it involves wrapping your legs around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:50 PM
3

I don’t think there’s a heavy crossover from Discord to here? The regular users are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:44 PM
2

I honestly think we need to find a new word other than “preference,” to describe this phenomenon to men because the spergs are very literal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:42 PM
1

Since there’s an abundance of short-average men, women who prefer short men and use dating apps probably pair up very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:40 PM
6

Considering men are biologically taller, heavier, and stronger than women, why are men surprised when heterosexual women view these traits as being masculine and attractive? Of course women aren’t dating men shorter than them. It’s not masculine or attractive to heterosexual women. But the majority of women are 5’0-5’4, so your comment doesn’t say anything about women only chasing after 6’5 giga Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:36 PM
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Men here don’t actually want to debate with women. They want it to become another incel circle jerk where they can provide each other with “support” without being burdened by women’s opinions, since this is the only RedPill/incel community that isn’t quarantined or banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:34 PM
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I blocked someone for a justified reason and wasn’t reprimanded for it. The mods were reasonable when I explained why he was blocked and told me to keep him blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:29 PM
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No, because I’m not getting banned again. I didn’t even use the word BP last time and was banned for the rhetoric. 30-days is a long time bröther.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:22 PM
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Blackpill is about looksism. It’s a red pill belief that women are fucking Chad (AF) and marrying men they’re not sexually attracted to (BB). BP says if you’re physically undesirable to women, there’s nothing that you can do to compensate for being short/ugly/etc. and that the best course of action is to remove yourself from the dating pool. BP doesn’t say women are marrying men they’re not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:21 PM
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This. The Air Force counter terrorism even researches incels and put out information about them as a terrorist group..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:17 PM
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Neither of these are particularly concerning to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:57 PM
1

I got banned for a comment explaining why I’m BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:56 PM
1

I don’t see how those things are related?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:56 PM
1

You must have missed my flair before I had to change it to stop getting banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:52 PM
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Men we do not want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:51 PM
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100% but I’m not allowed to say that or I’ll get another 30-day ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:51 PM
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They’re not complaining that men don’t want THEM specifically, they’re complaining about men wanting broke women then being shocked Pikachu when they do that and then cry about how “all women”’divorce rape etc. Just because they chose poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:45 PM
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By keeping everyone who subscribes to it undateable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:44 PM
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Cool, we never have to do idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:44 PM
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We don’t find them attractive. It isn’t a “hehe let’s make hot guys feel bad!” Yes, face structure is like 80-90% of the rating. Maybe women just ALSO like to look at women more than we like to look at men? I’m not bisexual but I see more attractive women who “catch my eye” and make me turn my head than I do men on a daily or even weekly basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:43 PM
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And we’re still not required to match or chat with everyone. The audacity that you think every kai deserves a chance and things have to be fair. 🙄😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:32 PM
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When will y’all realize that being 6’4 and not fat isn’t making anyone an instant 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:30 PM
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She didn’t say she made a mistake by passing on him.. she also didn’t say she thinks about being with him. This sub has convinced young men that tall, average dudes always score regardless of their personality and yet, she passed on him. So this sub makes her think about that interaction since the men here are clearly wrong based on her own experience with a guy the men here drool over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:29 PM
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Think what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:25 PM
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It’s fun. So I’ll stay. But thanks anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:25 PM
1

Most of the women complaining about men saying that a woman’s career & education don’t matter are in LTR’s or married so I’m not sure you’re making a point? Men say they don’t care about a woman’s career or income and then also whine about being a provider, I have news for you.. if you go after broke, I educated women who’s only job prospect is Dollar General, you’re gonna end up being a provider. Then they bitch about alimony and child support. Again. If you cared even minutely about her career…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:22 PM
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He said he worked in the US SEVERAL TIMES. Take your own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:20 PM
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And it’s kept dating steadily worse to keep its followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:20 PM
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Since it makes y’all mad when you pearl clutch your precious red pill, 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:36 AM
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More like the inverse and TRP doesn’t work. The goal is to keep you hooked on the content; you’re not gonna stay hooked if you partner up and bow out of the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:36 AM
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Not when more and more men act like TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:35 AM
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Men here, “the red pill is bigger and more popular than ever!” Also men: male sexlessness is at an all time high. Weird. 🙄😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:09 AM
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““There are more people in their twenties who don’t have a live-in partner,” she said. “So under those circumstances I think less sex is going to happen." Americans in their 30s, 40s and beyond, meanwhile, are much more likely to be married than those in their 20s. These age groups are now more likely to have sex in a given year than their younger peers.” Looks like the advice “gurus,” brainwashing young men into only wanting casual, NSA hookups instead of partnering up isn’t actually helping se…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:08 AM
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I didn’t say anything about AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:02 AM
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You really have to ask what personal compatibility has to do with mate selection?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:42 AM
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My favorite take on here is when men say they don’t want lukewarm relationships where they’re only being used for money/resources but the majority of men here only value women for sex.. time and time again, men say they don’t care about a woman’s job, income, or education, they don’t care about personal compatibility and mock it when women discuss how important it is.. they literally just want something young and pretty to stick their dick in but don’t want to be used for money to essentially “p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:16 AM
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Ok then don’t tell me to stop fighting my battle..? 😂🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:05 AM
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Then start correcting the men around here too, since you’re so fair and impartial. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:47 AM
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It’s been used as men/females for a very long time, let’s not pretend just one man made an oopsie and said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:45 AM
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I completely agree. However, until y’all get it right.. don’t be surprised when you see women use males/women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:03 AM
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Since men wanna keep using the word “females,” to refer to women, but refer to themselves as “men,” women are literally just doing the same thing back to y’all. Men clearly don’t like it.. so maybe that’s what it takes to get some of you guys to realize why it’s dehumanizing to use females/men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:25 AM
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There’s a lot of fishermen here who give advice but don’t catch any fish. If you’re gonna take advice from a fisherman, make sure he’s a good, experienced fisherman who can use his own advice to catch fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:01 PM
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So if you’re only interested in getting sex without commitment, there’s really no reason to complain about “having to pay” since you’re not interested in paying anyways? You can: date women who aren’t into hookups or only go for NSA/causal, but realize you’re not entitled to casual sex with someone just because they did it with someone else. Women aren’t commodities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:37 PM
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I find it interesting that you live an admittedly miserable life of pain, both physically and mentally/emotionally, yet are pro-life and want others to be born into the same painful existence. I’m not trying to be rude but it’s just interesting to me that you have such conservative views yet are entirely dependent on another for literally everything and the government for financial support.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:35 PM
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What was “given away for free?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:26 PM
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I appreciate that. Good karma is good. ✌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:52 PM
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Because you’re moving goal posts. You started with talking about approaching women. Now you’re saying, “so no behavior is universally unacceptable? Not even hitting women?” Hitting women, harassment, and sexual assault all have one thing in common: THEY’RE ALSO ILLEGAL. If something is deemed by law and society to be illegal, it’s unacceptable. Our conversation was about dating behaviors which have no accepted societal universal standard. Don’t move goal posts to “ah-ha gotcha,” and claim it’s t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:45 PM
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Cool? You asked a question, I answered. I’m not going to derail it by whether you personally think I’m pretty or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:42 PM
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Sorry, I know it confuses men when women don’t respond to your constant attempts to make us feel worthless and insecure so we settle for less. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:28 PM
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We agree on what behavior you can’t engage in, in the form of laws. There is NO BEHAVIOR that is unacceptable accros the board. That’s the point. It doesn’t exist. We’re not pearl clutching this information and just not giving it to you; it doesn’t exist. There are no universal dating laws because everyone either prefers or accepts different behaviors. Every human interaction is unique. Some people can say or do certain things with/to me. Others can’t. No universal standard. Sexual assault, hitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:20 PM
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Most people since I fit conventional beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:15 PM
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I like to be pretty. I do it want men to acknowledge I’m pretty without permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:05 PM
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The only people who are shaming men who don’t like obese women are other obese women. Their opinions shouldn’t matter if you’re not attracted to them, right?Lizzo is obese. It isn’t an insult or matter of opinion, it’s a medical fact. Here’s the thought about being “shamed,” you can simply just not give a fuck. You’re never going to make everyone happy. I don’t use social media so I don’t partake in any of the online cancel sessions or rants and raves. My life is better for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:02 PM
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Complex human personalities and interactions are not the same as laws. We all have different ways we like to be approached, we all have different personality styles that mesh with us. I don’t know why this is so difficult for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:57 PM
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I’m fine with men not being attracted to obese women, so I don’t know where that came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:49 PM
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Society has standards. Women do not have universal standards. Neither do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:44 PM
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Men say, “we want women to be honest.” So they’re honest, and then men say, “not like that. When you tell the truth it hurts my feelings.” So I’m deducing that men don’t actually want to be told the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:38 PM
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Some of us just really liked wearing masks because strange men didn’t tell us to smile anymore. Bring masks back 4ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:32 PM
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We want the silver bullet to get women, and we want it now!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:31 PM
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I think it’s due in part because men view big muscles and big dicks as more masculine so they place extra validation on women who also like those things. I don’t think those women are the loudest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:29 PM
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You can’t change your height but you also can’t make anyone be attracted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:24 PM
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Women aren’t NPC’s. Pressing X (approaching a certain way) isn’t going to give you a pre-defined “good” or “bad” response from every woman you press X on. Some women will like when you press X. Some women wanted you to press B. You need to be able to read social cues to figure out if the way you approach will be received well or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:22 PM
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First they dismissed you by assuming you were a woman, now they’re dismissing you by repeatedly ignoring & dismissing your responses about working in the US. You can’t win with some of these men tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:52 PM
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Women aren’t the only ones creating these ads.. 😂 Do some research into the gender breakdown of each of the companies who’ve hosted advertisements which negatively stereotype men. They aren’t feminist entities or even majority women. You can be mad, but directing it at feminists won’t fix your problem. The problematic ad is from Gillette. 59% of the company is male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:32 PM
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These aren’t anti-men ads created for or aired on international men’s day.. it’s men bringing up issues with the way men are portrayed in advertising. This isn’t rooted in “feminists making men look bad on TV.” Men also create a lot of harmful adverts against their own gender, and I’m glad they’re speaking up against it. But this isn’t “feminists tearing men down on their own day.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:26 PM
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There’s probably an overlap but fertile men who are child free exist. My point was that impotent men who can’t have children, whether they wanted to or not, still have value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:20 PM
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Also impotent men. They still have value despite not being able to pass on their family name.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:14 PM
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Nobody is giving anti-male PR on “men’s day.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:57 PM
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And those complaints are valid, but unless it’s a gay MEN only space, gay women are still allowed, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:56 PM
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I’ve never been attracted to “bad boys,” and neither have my friends.. anecdotal, but proves “not all.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:57 PM
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And you honestly think they weren’t heavily criticized for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:28 PM
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But real talk. Why does it take women bringing up their issues for men to be inspired to care about their own? Living in the shadow of someone else’s movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:55 PM
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You’re mad about things I never said. But go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:07 PM
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And you think women weren’t shamed, made fun of, or told they should stop and quit? Get thicker skin and fight for what you want the way women did when men laughed at us for wanting to vote, for wanting jobs, and a hundred other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:06 PM
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Do you think women have never caught shit for loudly campaigning about what we want?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:03 PM
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Nobody said anything about 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:03 PM
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We do. Plenty of men bitch about women’s only spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:02 PM
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The best I can do is this expired ketchup packet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:22 PM
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I pray for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:16 PM
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The difference between “international women’s day,” and “international men’s day” is that enough women want to celebrate international women’s day and push to create slogans, media, PR posts for their companies etc. Men don’t do this for their own day, then are like “why doesn’t anyone care?” Why are you expecting other people to do this for you? Do it yourself the same way women did. You’re not gonna ride on the coattails of women’s effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:16 PM
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What do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:08 PM
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Most women have responded that there’s 0 consequences for having high-n. Y’all wish there were.. because you like punishing women, but there isn’t. High-n are still marrying good men and they’re weeding out the “I want to keep my virgin wife’s hymen skin as a trophy,” men here. Win/win honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:39 PM
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I bought big tshirts to wear around the hide but they’re not the same was wearing hubbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:34 PM
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Men here harp on women for how sex = “pair bonding,” and how women “never forget their first.” I honestly find that to be true, but if you believe those things (that sex is an incredible emotional bond, and she’s low n so she’s only bonded that way with a few people), since those relationships ended despite their incredible bond, she’s likely to be more hung up on her ex than other women with a higher (read: not HIGH) n count. You’re more likely to be compared against the 1-2 LTR exes than a few…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:28 PM
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You defined it. Platonic = no sexual or romantic feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:22 PM
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I don’t have complicated relationships where I flirt or want to have sex with men other than my spouse. I find it incredibly disrespectful and icky to be friends with someone you flirt with and have sexual feelings for while married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:22 PM
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Most people consider it disrespectful to be in a relationship and have non-platonic friends, aka people you’d fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:59 AM
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from other drug users, in exchange for cheaper drugs. Finish the sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:10 PM
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It’s just a regular lip piercing with a stud. But it looks terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:18 AM
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Her lip ring is icky, but she’s definitely an 8-8.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:54 AM
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I have health insurance and have never paid anywhere CLOSE to 4-figures, let alone $5,000, to go to the hospital..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:03 PM
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You should be smart enough with your double dose of intelligence to figure this one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:01 PM
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Leaving. Adult men with toys are a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:59 PM
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Some of the photos are missing but uh, they all look above average. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:30 PM
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Wasn’t there a photo thread and all of the women were rated as being above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:31 PM
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I read this in a very concerned news anchor voice and it was 🤌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:25 PM
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This is a literary work of art.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:25 PM
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I had a client once who wanted a divorce consult. He said he lost attraction to his wife because she gained weight and “refused” to work on it. He’s incredibly, incredibly overweight himself.. blew my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:10 PM
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🤷🏽‍♀️ algo así.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:12 PM
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Why do you think that having a preference (or even a requirement) for a tall man is the same as placing the highest value on the tallest man? I say this as a woman who has height requirements. I still have to be attracted to his face, his personality, we need to have similar life goals and desires. Just because someone whose who’s also tall (or even taller) approaches, doesn’t mean he’s granted access simply because he checks off a box? Having requirements doesn’t mean my love and feelings are f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:48 PM
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Only thing better is having the ballsack in your mouth. 🤷🏽‍♀️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:21 PM
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“It’s not me, it’s everyone else who’s the problem.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:10 PM
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How is having sex with your SPOUSE being a whore?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:47 AM
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Ok? I told you my rules. I didn’t say they applied broadly to all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:38 AM
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That’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:24 AM
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That’s stated in the video I linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:12 AM
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I think he’s been in the sub before - I definitely recall similar posts a few months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:35 AM
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8th grade teacher caught filming only fans content inside classroom
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:09 AM
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I got banned for being BP here so shhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:22 AM
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6’+ Never had an issue dating within that preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:17 AM
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That’s a question that doesn’t really have an answer. I have a few requirements (height, for example) but I’ve never found a random man physically attractive. I’ve only ever been physically attracted to men I know/interact with, and they’re all physically different except for height. I make 6-figures, so I could care less about income or education. For example, husband is a tradesman who earns less than me and only has an Associates degree. Lesser earning women who want a provider probably place…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:02 AM
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No, money is not what attracts women overall (because American women aren’t lining up to date rich ugly dudes), but American women still place high value on a man’s income.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:57 AM
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They like their money. Just like American girls do. They might like them. But he way certain cultures view Americans is very “white people = rich Hollywood.” It’s more often than not opportunity, not true love. I’d love for these dudes to find true love, but, there’s also the reality of perusing other cultures like you’re choosing which brand of bottles water you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:53 AM
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Those things are true. We’re not complaining but if you’re gonna do duck things, we’re gonna say hey look! A duck! Don’t tell me you identify as an Eagle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:37 AM
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I don’t care if men go to other countries to find “better quality women,” I just find it ironic how Americans in general routinely view other countries and cultures as theirs to possess. In general, I think preying upon poor, submissive women who barely speak English to be your sex slave is wrong. On the other hand. They’re both using each other. He’s using her for sex, she’s using him for a lavish American lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:34 AM
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Why don’t you want to hear from people who like their jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:44 PM
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Because being entirely financially dependent on a man is a terrible idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:44 PM
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Do you not think that women who work are also keeping the house in order..?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:11 PM
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Men don’t wanna acknowledge this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:09 PM
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“Women why do you work?” “But not women who work in careers or jobs they enjoy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:01 PM
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no witchhunting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:47 PM
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Morro is slang for calling an adult a little boy/little girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:43 PM
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Show me where? I don’t recall saying, “if you don’t pay for meals, women won’t date you.” I specifically commented about how I wouldn’t be ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:39 PM
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It’s bullshit because .. why? Men statistically also chest or leave more often when women become severely ill as opposed to the inverse. Is that bullshit too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:57 PM
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You don’t care what women say either?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:56 PM
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Gotica Alqona is a song by Danboixx. The rest of it is: “introverted, asocial, disturbed and will dick slap you if you call me ‘Gotica Alqona’ stupid little boy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:54 PM
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Discussing past experiences in dating is something EVERYONE does here. Most of the me are single, they can only talk about their past dating experiences. A good number of men here are also married, they too can only talk about their past experiences. Bring me that same energy to them. Married men here and women here have an overlap in beliefs.. that should be something the single, lonely, bitter dudes pick up on since it clearly works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:48 PM
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Do you think that married women .. didn’t date .. before they got married?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:37 PM
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Call it what you want, but looks like my red flags warned off the right people. “You’ll never find a husband with those standards/that attitude,” is clearly not the insult one thinks it is when they’re saying it to a married woman is all my point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:33 PM
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My favorite rebuttal here is when I talk about what I expect in dating and I get a bunch of downvoted and men telling me things like, “spoken like a woman who will never find a man!” I’m married fellas. My husband is my dream guy in every way. You don’t have to like it, but it didn’t include you (or men like you). Clearly my process works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:04 PM
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I didn’t say women can’t be bad at sex, but women who just lay there and don’t reciprocate anything probably don’t want to be having sex and are doing it for you. I know this is a crazy concept to men, but women have sex they don’t want to have all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:02 PM
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Weird, cause I’m married to an absolutely wonderful man!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:01 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CkinDs9j8Kh/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Tooambitious.com
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:58 PM
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Co-signed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:42 AM
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That’s not what I said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:41 AM
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Just because they lay there doesn’t mean they think they’re doing a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:40 AM
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I think you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:08 AM
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Yes, but I don’t have to litigate them for criminal sentencing. I just have to prove why they’re substantial enough to warrant a specific outcome in terms of divorce or custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:51 AM
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I like that 1 guy here who can’t argue so he spends multiple replies crying about how he’s being downvoted so he can’t formulate a coherent thought. “I can’t continue this conversation because you keep downvoting!” 😂 Gets me every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:48 AM
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He’s chosen to devote his time to go out and court women. Yes, I want to be invested in and value my time. You asked me out on a date, you pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:44 AM
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This is why I choose family law!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:23 AM
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It’s the only way to shut up our bad communication. 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:22 AM
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I was never proactively interested enough in first dates to feel like paying 1/2 was “worth it.” If the first date goes well and I’m into you, I’ll pay my way thereafter because I’m ok spending money eating out when the experience with him is worth it. Men invest in things they’re serious about - I gotta know you’re serious about choosing me and not just going out with me because I was the only one of a string of women you asked who said yes. For every man who won’t pay for a first date, there’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:20 AM
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I really feel like if I have blind smell tested men to narrow down dates, vetting in my early 20’s would have been so easier. I could never date a man whose scent wasn’t alluring & sexy & made me feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:13 AM
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I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:07 AM
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I feel bad for the ones who speak respectfully about women and haven’t let being rejected cause them to be bitter or hateful. Those men deserve someone to love them deeply. The ones who are bitter and jaded and broken have made their own beds and they’re no less broken than the “modern women” they bitch about all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:01 AM
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My husbands armpits is incredibly comforting but the smell of his dick/balls at the end of the day when I’m going down on him turn me on like nooo other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:59 AM
2

Yeah. I couldn’t begin to breakdown the cost of labor for the number of things I do for my husband. It’s free for you though. 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:35 AM
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I have some friends who engaged in casual sex, I have some friends who didn’t. I didn’t and never once felt pressured into hookups because my friends were doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:07 AM
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Oh I couldn’t be paid to fake it if it ain’t there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:01 AM
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What’s the metric for quantifying it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:51 PM
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I literally hate Cole. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:50 PM
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The benefit is no longer suffering. It’s selfish to ask people who truly don’t want to be alive to suffer for our benefit. Who am I, someone who isn’t suffering in agony, that they should just continue to suffer because it’s better than death when they just don’t see things that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:18 PM
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I’m watching the new season of Love is Blind while writing a child custody rebuttal. Thoughts on the show?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:59 PM
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Depends. I’ve never hoped that, so I can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:32 PM
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That CAN’T be real. Omg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:59 PM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:12 PM
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There’s a non-0 number of women who will, we’re not all the same, but I don’t think it’s anywhere near the majority worth griping about. Obviously ugly people don’t prefer other ugly people. That’s why all the incels here who describe themselves as below average still want hot chicks. Height is more attractive, but a tall 4 isn’t better than a shorter 7. And 2 4’s is a toss up. They’re both 4’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:11 PM
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My husband and I know each others passwords, but we’ve never gone through each others phones. It’s mostly for practical purposes if one of us needed to answer a text, make a phone call, whatever. Is it ever ok to snoop? No, but this isn’t the same as, “should you NEVER go through their phone?” If you heavily suspect someone of cheating and you confront them without proof, you’ve just tipped them off to destroy all of it. The worst thing that’s going to happen is they get mad at you for going thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:04 PM
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Do you not consider the fact that they might have been thinner when they got together and aged/gained weight over time? Rose colored glasses and all once love is already established.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:58 PM
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Because it won’t. The height won’t compensate for a bad face. But generally, yes, women prefer taller men. It doesn’t mean they want tall men who are ugly just because they’re tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:56 PM
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No. Men here are obsessed with compensating. For me, it’s a no. There’s nothing that can redeem or made up for unattractive qualities. But just because I don’t find something attractive doesn’t mean other women won’t. That’s what’s great about dating - not everyone’s a match and you don’t have to settle for someone who compensates, you can just keep looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:49 PM
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I’m sorry, that absolutely sucks. What did she order?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:29 PM
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You’re the real hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:29 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:28 PM
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I agree with the premise - height and weight, aka, taller men are more masculine because biologically, men as being larger and stronger than us. The bigger the difference, the more “masculine.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:27 PM
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Q4W All the top comments are from men. Come on. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:49 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:58 PM
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I think that’s a thing men think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:14 PM
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Hardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:14 PM
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I dont identify as anything. I believe the way I’m attracted to men is similar to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:13 PM
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I edited my comment to expound upon my answer but no, the criteria for a man to be immediately physically attractive isn’t more strict. That’s what men here get wrong - they think immediately attractive men are Chad and everyone else is points below. Sometimes he’s immediately attractive because I got to see his personality/the way he carries himself, hear his voice etc. at the same time I saw him whereas with others, it has to build to get those same things out of him. Women are attracted to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:13 PM
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There isn’t a threshold. That’s the point. Men who are neutrally attractive (NPC) aren’t attractive or unattractive, they just exist until you find yourself attracted to something else.. the way he talks, the way he carries himself. The crush starts from the inside out. Now, you can’t imagine not loving his brown eyes because you love HIM. Doesn’t mean you’re gonna love all men with brown eyes. The cycle repeats the next time around. But there isn’t like a scale of 1-10 where all men who are a 6…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:03 PM
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I think it’s a weird thing to think about honestly. We’re together, why would I spend my time getting upset over the hypothetical idea of him being with someone else casually?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:00 PM
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I’ve never been attracted to or dating a man and consciously thought, “can he get casual sex?”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:32 PM
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Because they aren’t higher or more strict in the sense of, “he must be the tallest, the richest, with the most chiseled jawline!” It isn’t a universal, “top 20%” standard that’s portrayed here. It’s strict in the sense that individual women only find a small number of men immediately physically attractive. This doesn’t mean she wants to be with him; immediate physical attraction isn’t the defining characteristic of a successful, passionate relationship. They could be personality wise totally inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:31 PM
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Because women can have children at any age, so picking an arbitrary age to start discarding her preemptively on the basis that she might have kids? That’s not equality. If that’s the case. Why should employers deal with people with disabilities? Because they’re people and have equal treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:06 PM
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Men view their desire to fuck ASAP as good and women’s desire to fuck ASAP “slutty and gross.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:03 PM
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Women can’t override their biological drives to force dating equality, which benefits men, without sacrificing themselves.. so you’re asking women to selflessly sacrifice for your benefit. Women don’t see “every man wants to stick their dick in my body” as a privilege the way men do. You literally said that men have patriarchal privilege and if they’re going to give that up, women have to give up sex which is their privilege.. 😂😂 Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:31 PM
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I don’t think so. You’re taking something she never said to definitively prove something? That sounds more like reaching than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:29 PM
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Where their points are wrong is that just because things don’t happen on the same timeline doesn’t mean the love isn’t as intense. It just happens on a different timeline, but we’re conditioned to think that “faster is better,” for some reason. It just isn’t the case. The strongest love I’ve ever felt for a man was built over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:27 PM
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If you’re not making yourself as attractive.. how am I supposed to be as attracted?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:24 PM
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Treating people like equals doesn’t mean that every interaction you have with other people will be equal. I’m “equal” among other women but guess what? We’re also individual, unique people who are treated differently based on certain criteria. Talking about removing equal human rights because you’re not getting what you perceive to be “equal treatment” on dates is a really dangerous view. You’re literally suggesting women give up sex in order for fair job opportunities.. Women and men are separa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:20 PM
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And yet it doesn’t actually reveal that she slept with anyone else on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:17 PM
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I don’t think any school is letting people take so many credit hours to do 120 credits in 2 semesters??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:08 PM
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Women aren’t as interested in sex as men. Women aren’t as interested in men as the reverse. That’s why men have high sex drives and find most women attractive and women have lower sex drives and are more selective. It’s biology. You’re not going to change it. We can pretend we’re super evolved and smarter but we can’t control biological impulses without hormone therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:06 PM
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Women’s aren’t talking about other guys. Literally no woman is like “yeah isn’t it so funny that we waited 96 days to have sex but I gave it up for Chad on day 1! Lol how crazy of me, I was so dumb.” Men are mad about things that they’ll literally never know about. Women aren’t divulging gory details about their pasts with their current partners. Neither are men for that matter. Unless I just vet incredibly well, I’ve never had a man dish out details about hookups and sex with exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:00 PM
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Or you’re not as smooth as her ex was. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:58 PM
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I find the desire for “universal treatment” bizarre. Do I have to kiss you on the same timeline? Introduce you to my parents on the same timeline? Move in together on the same time line? The answer is no. They aren’t expecting that.. just sex. Human beings are so nuanced and individual. Unless you’re doing all the same things to convince me/woo me/etc. to have sex on the same exact timeline as my ex or the one before him.. you’re not going to get the “same treatment.” Are we talking on the daily…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:58 PM
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Ah yes; let’s make points about things that don’t actually matter in the real world (n-counts and people not actually discussing hard #’s) and compare them to things that do (someone’s job). Makes perfect sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:51 PM
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Men and women are equal but that doesn’t mean every interaction between people is equal and fair. You’re interested in a woman. More often than not, you’re more interested than she is and need to court/woo her to feel the same about you. This is done with gifts & acts of service. Almost every mammal on the planet has mating rituals where the male has to impress and convince the female to choose him over other males. Women aren’t as interested in men, as a whole. You want the woman, you gotta cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:11 PM
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Here’s the thing. Men aren’t asking. In the “real world,” nobody discusses their n-counts, because most adults realize that everyone has a past that didn’t include them, you’re more than likely not going to be 25-30 finding your perfect, chaste virgin who waited just for you. It’s like being 13 on MSN messenger and asking, “what’s your bra size???” Men just aren’t asking this right off the bat and the ones who are, probably aren’t making it very far in the relationship since it’s a very personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:06 PM
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Your first rebuttal proved my point. Women past a certain age aren’t “losing their humanity.” At 19, people aren’t thinking about the future.. once you’re out of the safety net of high school and college, things matter. We grow up and discover who we are - what we want to do for work, where we want to live, and we need to be with someone whose compatible with those desires. I could just was easily say that you lost your humanity because you wouldn’t move with her because of your job.. you expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:00 PM
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Everything about you impacts a woman’s view of you. Women like men for the totality of who they are. That includes what you do for work, because yes, in addition to work demands, I want to know why you chose xyz profession. Is it just a job? Maybe. For me, my job is my passion, and I want to know if your job is something you’re passionate about too and hear about that passion. You’re never going to get into a relationship with someone for just you, with nothing else factored in. It all matters. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:20 AM
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Our future includes immediate future.. do our schedules line up? Am I going to have to regularly rearrange things to see you? Are you going to be traveling out of town often? I’m not going to waste my time getting to know someone if they’re not going to let me GET TO KNOW them which includes things about their life, like their job. We do listen and we do invest. Smart people don’t invest unless they have all the details. You won’t change your way of thinking, but you’re going to realize one day,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:51 AM
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I’ll tell you now, your way of thinking and avoiding talking about things that are integral to having adult, long lasting relationships is going to hurt you. Women want to know what their future with you is going to look like. For example, I’m not interested in being with someone who works nights or travels for work very often. So I want to know, before I get invested in someone, what does their job require them to do? This is especially important if she wants children; will you be a present fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:29 AM
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What you do for work isn’t a, “how much money can I squeeze out of him?” What people choose to do for work, aka, what they spend 40+ hours a week doing with their life, is something people want to know. If the end goal is a LTR/marriage, I want to know what you do. Things I want to know about someone’s job: Why did you choose that career? Is it a job where you work 40 hours a week or 70+ and I’ll never get to see you? Do you work days, evenings, nights? Weekends? I want to know how your schedule…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:13 AM
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You wish. I just wanted to use you to get to Ned/Rapskallion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:02 AM
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They use “straw man” about as flippantly as I use the word incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:02 AM
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You can be a full time stay at home husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:41 AM
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Not far ⬇️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:32 AM
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Since Plugandharam thinks I’m going to get a divorce, I demand that if I ever do divorce, to be /u/Neds-Deklassified sugar mama.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:28 AM
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People like to watch car crashes. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:26 AM
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Yes. Alimony is based on financial NEED. The burden to prove the need is on the requestor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:26 AM
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No, in the US, only 10% of divorces have alimony awarded. It’s not the boogeyman the men in this sub think it is. Of course I’d pay alimony, I wouldn’t be happy about it but there isn’t much I can do if a judge orders it. Nobody who has to pay it is HAPPY about it? If a judge orders it, you have to pay it. Reverting to gender roles won’t excuse you from the payment? But I’m not getting a divorce so it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:19 AM
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But we’re not talking about conservatives as a whole. We’re talking about the lonely sexless men here, regardless of their political affiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:18 AM
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You’re the best. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:16 AM
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Again, alimony is almost never awarded unless your spouse doesn’t earn ANY income. Alimony isn’t automatic aka, the judge doesn’t automatically plug and play with income, it has to be requested and justified. Most of my clients are men. I have never seen alimony awarded when their wife is employed, even if she earns a fraction of what he earns.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:12 AM
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I haven’t seen alimony awarded in any of the divorce cases I’ve litigated. It’s not a thing unless there’s a MAJOR discrepancy in income, like a working spouse and a stay at home spouse, and even then? It’s temporary. I don’t really have to worry about divorce or alimony since I vetted well and have a great relationship & marriage. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:04 AM
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You know.. I just realized I’m arguing about abortion rights with men who will likely never reproduce. Time to throw in the towel here. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:00 AM
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Well I can’t speed up time now can I? So this is what I got. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:56 AM
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Red Pillers want women to suffer and sacrifice themselves for men. They don’t care about women’s happiness, just using us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:53 AM
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I’m not. 👌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:47 AM
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And yet my source disproves yours? So we’re at an impasse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:47 AM
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Yes. Morality is fluid and heavily based on religion and cultural beliefs. In Ghana, India, Indonesia, Jordan, Lesotho, Nigeria, Oman, Singapore, Sri Lanka, and Tanzania it’s legal to rape your wife. They’ve decided it’s not immoral or wrong to do so REGARDLESS of what you believe is moral. You don’t get to decide what is or isn’t moral and deny others the same right. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:45 AM
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Believing in something doesn’t necessarily make it “the truth.” But ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:42 AM
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Your own source still shows that more women are pro-choice than pro-life… 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:41 AM
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You’re clearly LARPing and virtual signaling to make men feel bad for no reason! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:40 AM
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I’m a family law/divorce attorney so I’m really not worried about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:40 AM
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Except, morality is fluid and non-universal. I don’t find anything morally wrong with abortion and neither do 61% of American women, and 48% of American men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:39 AM
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Then they wonder why we call them sad. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:33 AM
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Arbitrary or not, it IS the standard. Fetuses aren’t assigned social security cards until birth. Men don’t pay child support for fetuses. Birth is when we become people versus a fetus or baby. Science has pretty much unanimously stated that 21-24 weeks is when a fetus could become viable outside of the womb, aka medical technology could take over for a woman’s womb, therefore it’s unethical to abort a fetus that COULD survive without a host. Not allowing abortions IS forcing women to give birth …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:31 AM
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Most pro-lifers are not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:24 AM
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It has been for the last 5 years with no signs of things going awry. I vetted well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:23 AM
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Can’t relate. My marriage is wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:17 AM
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We’re also conscious and autonomous, fetuses are not. We were granted personhood at birth. Fetuses are not people. They’re human, but they do not have “personhood.” Forcing women to give birth is taking away her rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:17 AM
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Y’all have such sad beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:10 AM
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At the expense of another, existing, autonomous human beings rights and freedoms? So why does a clump of human cells trump an existing person’s rights and freedoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:09 AM
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Or they’ll end up like Aldabruzzo and be married with children but still moderate subreddits like WAATGM and continue shit on women in the worst ways possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:58 PM
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That requires the usage of another human being to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:55 PM
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It’s not about babies and murder as much as it is about using babies to punish women as a consequence to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:48 PM
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I just don’t agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:30 PM
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What’s not all men? It sounds like not all men.. which is the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:07 PM
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The bad boy trope is so lost on me. I literally have never met a “bad boy” the way TRP describes them. Adding to my anecdote: None of my friends have ever dated anyone like that. It sounds so movie-cliche.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:55 PM
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So we’re saying that redpillers have daddy issues? This is my favorite take so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:51 PM
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Yes, but I don’t know any women who say that all men are the same and just haven’t been caught yet. Most of the women who group men together into red flag categories are grouping men who display/exhibit certain red flag traits. It hardly encompasses all or even most men. Most of the here certainly don’t represent any meaningful population of men that we need to be worried about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:48 PM
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Women who don’t like other women are usually the ones who have a ton of orbiters and are territorial over the men who give them attention, so they don’t like when other women enter the group and threaten their throne; real or perceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:27 PM
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I agree with this. The men who are very anti-sports are usually more nerdy (computers, video games, sci-fi) and I just can’t find any of that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:24 PM
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My favorite was, “they’re all like that, they just haven’t been caught.” I’m so glad these men make themselves known with their toxic AF views so they’re easily avoided! But don’t worry, we’ll just be accused of Chad chasing for avoiding misogynistic men. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:21 PM
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This still doesn’t have anything to do with toxic masculinity just because men are paying for dates as a gateway to sex that they want to have?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:16 PM
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I completely disagree. Saying, “most, or even 50% of women have orbiters,” which can’t be supported is different than saying, “it’s gonna rain, I just know it.” If you don’t curtail the first, it’s harmful to women when it snowballs into the majority of a subreddit agreeing and believing something with no basis. It isn’t dishonest to challenge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:58 PM
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Why would it? If a man is insisting to pay and feeling less masculine when he doesn’t pay, even if the woman isn’t demanding or expecting it.. in a time where “going Dutch” or splitting the check is pretty normal, this isn’t toxic masculinity and it isn’t harming men as a whole. I’ve never had dudes be emasculated when I pay my way; they were usually relieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:55 PM
0

This isn’t toxic masculinity…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:27 PM
2

How is this toxic masculinity and how is some men insisting to pay for dates having a negative impact on men and society as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:22 PM
5

My 11 year old neice tells my brother she wants to get married and have 4 kids, she knows how many boys and how many girls she wants etc. Kids do it literally all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:12 PM
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For OP: An example to supplement your definition: fathers who believe that being stoic/“holding frame” is masculine and that being emotional or expressing negative emotions is “weak,” so they discourage their sons from crying or expressing “weak emotions.” This perpetuates a cycle where men are hurting but feel like (real or perceived) they can’t express their emotions so they bottle it up and end up anxious, depressed, etc. with no support system.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:09 PM
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That’s my point though, if you’re going to make an affirmative claim, you need to support it. Requesting he support his claims isn’t intellectually dishonest - it’s requesting that he give whatever evidence he used to make his conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:44 PM
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I love when toxic men think that their toxicity is the default and their first thought regarding women being equal is harming them. How twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:50 PM
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It’s anecdotal being a woman with predominantly female friends, but we just don’t have male friends in our group that give us gifts when it’s not appropriate (like office Christmas parties where we do secret Santa, that’s appropriate) or offer to do things for us that we could obviously do ourselves etc. Idk any women who have single male friends who just clutch on & do “boyfriend things,” hoping to get a crumb from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:46 PM
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The burden is on you to prove that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:40 PM
1

Domestic violence rates are absolutely not symmetrical. If you believe and push this narrative because, “poor men,” you’re going to do a lot more harm to men’s rights than help. This isn’t true. Show me proof. Women in PPD routinely tell men to seek therapy for being depressed and lonely. Men here routinely shut it down because “it doesn’t help anyways.” Sounds like women care more about mental health than men sometimes.. Read the link I posted. It covers it. Toxic masculinity was not “created” …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:39 PM
1

Chances are, nobody’s going to ask, so you’re making it out to be a much bigger deal than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:34 PM
1

Read my entire comment, I’m personally fine with it as long as it’s done legally and ethically. Paying a prostitute is no different than paying a girl for 2-3 dates for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:32 PM
3

I don’t think it’s most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:30 PM
2

I’ve never used OLD either, but for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:00 AM
1

The burden is on you to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:00 AM
2

Men have said similar about women for decades with no repercussions. I don’t see why, when women get fed up with being called worthless cum dumpsters and routinely being the victims of domestic violence, retaliate and say the same things about men that suddenly men are like oh no! Only we can say bad things about women! People do care about suicide. You can not force someone to get mental health treatment and prevent suicide. Men largely chose to forego an education because they can make more mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:59 AM
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If you’re constantly initiating conversation, entertaining, financially treating , and being physically protective of your female friends without any reciprocation .. I have news for you, you’re not a platonic friend, you’re an orbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:45 AM
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He’s talking about me because I said that NO, the act of paying for sex in and of itself isn’t what’s repulsive. If prostitution is legal? As long as he’s not cheating on me with a prostitute, I don’t care if a man legally paid for sex in the past. The idea that men are willing to break the law & risk going to jail with their name in the paper, etc. due to illegal prostitution and support human sex trafficking is icky. Not to mention the overlap between illegal prostitutes and other criminal act…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:41 AM
1

Your only option is to continue see prostitutes because you’re allegedly forced to out of “duress” and just not tell the women you date. You’re not going to change women’s minds about how it’s gross that men engage in criminal behavior and support human sex trafficking by using illegal prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:37 AM
1

Men really view women becoming equal as men “no longer being valued,” because they’re not the default. Stop. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:30 AM
1

They resort to prostitution out of “duress.” Give me a break. Bye. ✌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:27 AM
1

Breaking the law isn’t “done out of necessity.” Give me a break. I did not, at any point say that prostitution is equivalent to human sex trafficking. But YES, the MAJORITY of illegal prostitutes in the United States are victims of human sex trafficking. https://2001-2009.state.gov/r/pa/ei/rls/38790.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:17 AM
1

Sure, but you kind of proved my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:14 AM
3

Women view things like gift giving, dinner, seduction and nice gestures as romantic because it isn’t the default. Women are also romantic to men. They make them dinner, pack his lunch, bake him treats, take cute couples photos & show him off, do his laundry. The difference is, men don’t view these things as “romantic” because they EXPECT women to care for them as the default. They don’t see it as a romantic “she’s into me,” gesture because it’s expected. A woman who doesn’t live with you who coo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:09 AM
1

Yeah, I don’t vibe with people who are perfectly fine risking going to jail. Despite what men here think, no, criminals aren’t hot? Having his job prospects ruined and name in the paper if he gets arrested for soliciting a prostitute? Not someone I’m compatible with. And yes, MOST sex work in country’s where it’s illegal is heavily intertwined with human trafficking and other crime (like drugs). Just because you don’t want to believe it so you can “ethically” fuck illegal prostitutes doesn’t cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:00 AM
3

Also out of all the people here, the only ones I actually heard say they served in the military are women. There’s been several threads about the Russia/Ukraine conflict where men here were like noooope Fuck that I wouldn’t go to war for my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:55 AM
4

Men: “we don’t like being rejected, it causes/worsens our social anxiety and self esteem.” Also men: “I have a really great idea to absolutely obliterate a dudes self-worth, introducing.. OLD super rejection!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:48 AM
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The only reason I care about hookers is because they’re illegal in my country, so it isn’t the act of paying for sex that bothers me, it’s the fact that he’s willing to break the law & potentially go to jail on top of supporting human sex trafficking. I’m not compatible with a man like that. I’m fine with a man who legally sees a prostitute/escort/brothel. It isn’t the paying for sex that causes the idk factor, it’s the criminal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:38 AM
1

If it was while we were still getting to know each other and he went to a hooker, I consider that not being loyal to me. I’d feel the same if he saw an ex or another girl while we were talking - it shows he clearly doesn’t see me as a priority if he’s willing to flirt with, kiss, and fuck other women. Hooker or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:33 AM
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I spent way too much money on prime rib to make French dip sandwiches, but yumm. 4 hours on the smoker, home made au jus. 👌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:16 AM
1

It’s never something I’ve asked. So unless he volunteered that information, I’d have no way of knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:05 AM
1

So you’re fine having NSA sex, but won’t commit to a woman whose also had NSA sex, even just once? Don’t ever call women hypocrites for their standards then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:53 PM
2

I’d rather have them see hookers than harass normal women that turn them down or that they can’t approach for idk whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:45 PM
1

So you’re ok having NSA sex.. but not with women who’ve ever had NSA sex? The math’s not mathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:42 PM
1

Casually visiting a thread is now “haunting” them? Waiting for men to admit weakness? Show me where.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:23 PM
1

Because he did?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:17 PM
1

Of course, only chaste pure, clean virgins. 🙄🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:37 PM
1

Why is it worse having a body count of 1, but it was a NSA/hookup versus a girl who has a body count of 7 but they were all relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:01 PM
2

Honestly he didn’t say he wasn’t attracted to her, he said she’s not the type of woman he’s typically attracted to and she ended the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:42 PM
4

If you just block RedditCares, you don’t get the notifications. 👌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:40 PM
1

I like being 5’4 thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:08 PM
3

Yet men say they don’t care about a woman’s job, income, education, etc. It’s almost like men and women value different things in partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:07 PM
1

Arranged marriages aren’t and have never been a thing in my country. So we must be essentially talking about different worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:25 PM
1

People are just miserable alone instead of miserable under the same roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:19 PM
1

That’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:19 PM
2

Yes it was. 😂 People didn’t and don’t go from 0-married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:18 PM
1

My social circle is wealthy simply because of my profession, but height and attractiveness is all over the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:18 PM
1

I’d let her date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:51 PM
2

Yes you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:48 PM
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WE ARE TALKING ABOUT HIS MOTHER. You’re only proving my point that this is a mommy-issues fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:48 PM
1

Functional because you believe marriage, no matter what, is “success?” Men being married to women who are using them as a provider, even if it means being in a bitter, sexless marriage that turns them into a wage slave, alcoholic is the epitome of a successful, functional society? Seriously, what planet do some of y’all come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:46 PM
2

Do you not think it’s possible any of these people partnered up in their early 20’s when they were both much younger and more attractive, but aged like milk? There’s no argument to he had if you ONLY believe that all or even most women are hooking up with models in their 20’s and getting with short, fat men out of desperation in their 30’s. I’ve never seen that happen. I’m 30, most of the men I know who are married are between 28-38 and have been with the same woman since their early 20’s. I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:43 PM
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How are men saying the post about OP’s mom having casual sex and “not lying,” isn’t a mommy issues fantasy? Instead of saying, “my mom probably had hookups before marrying my dad,” he devoted his longest paragraph to describing his mom having hot casual sex with attractive bad boys and even fantasized about how the men she fucked probably looking nothing like him. Like ??? The entire post is disturbing AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:32 PM
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Instead of saying, “my mom probably had hookups before marrying my dad,” he devoted his longest paragraph to describing his mom having hot casual sex with bad boys and even fantasized about the men he fucked being attractive and looking nothing like him. The entire post is disturbing AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:29 PM
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They didn’t say it didn’t happen.. They were pointing out the fact that OP’s use of specific, descriptive details like “behind the bin,” is a 🚩that it’s fantasy driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:25 PM
2

Who’s giving anyone gotcha points? A 90% marriage rate was solely due to women NEEDING men to survive, so they were forced to marry in order to have a roof over their head. Men just replaced their parents in terms of providing. People are still partnered up in LTR’s they’re just not getting married since society as a whole is falling away from religion and there’s very few actual/exclusive benefits to being married versus being in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:23 PM
2

Yes, every generation has faced difficulties with dating. It’s never been easy. To your point: society has socialized you as well, you rejecting their socialization is not a failure on anyone else’s part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:14 PM
2

In before an edge lord whose mommy cooked his eggs too long this morning responds with, “women already do this huehuehue.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:03 PM
2

Securing a life partner has always required planning. Men have always been encouraged to go to college and get a good job to get a good wife. Men have always been told to clean up and look presentable. It was always taken strategy to approach women and get them to agree to go out with you. You know what they ended up doing? Married a bunch of people they don’t like because they needed resources. Men needed wives, women needed roofs over their heads. Guess what they led to? Alcoholism and dead be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:00 PM
3

You don’t go out in public and see women in relationships with all different types of men? I was just at a law conference and most of the guys there are married. They were mostly average men with a few very chiseled, clean looking men sprinkled in the mix. Short, tall, chubby, light skin, dark skin, fuzzy facial hair, clean shaven, big noses, deep set eyes, wrinkles, you name it. I wasn’t attracted to any of them, but somehow they’re all married, most happily so for 10+ years. I’m married. My fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:50 PM
3

They need it to keep the cog turning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:37 PM
5

I’ve never heard this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:35 PM
2

I’m not sure what this means? Wait! Edit: I was banned for 30 days. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:34 PM
8

Who called your mom a slut? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:34 PM
5

That’s the Red Pill sell. They take angry, lonely scorned men and they preach about self-improvement, then they sell it to them to continue being upset at women because these women are shallow, etc. when they only want you after all the Red Pill self improvement advice worked. So they turn you into a recruiter for the cause to get more lonely, pissed off men into the ranks. All “seasoned” Red Pillers are just the Grand Dragons of their Klan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:31 PM
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I find it really bizarre that some of the men here expected their mom to give them dating & casual sex advice.. Your mom isn’t going to tell her son how to be sexually attractive her.. and if she does, your family dynamic is 50 shades of fucked up. Women are so nuanced in what they like and want that there’s not much outside of general advice like, “groom yourself and be a good person,” that a mother can give her sons. It’s easier to give dating advice once they’re already in a relationship and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:28 PM
4

Redpill youtube videos obviously. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:21 PM
6

I’m a divorce attorney. Of course when you build a life with someone and then part ways, you don’t get to keep everything.. men largely consider not getting every cent they ever earned or owned or invested into the home returned to them to be “divorce rape.” They really don’t think the women who raised their children should get any portion of their joint assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:18 PM
4

I’m not giving up my Xbox even if the judge orders it! over my dead body, pry it out of my cold, dead hands
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:45 PM
17

Your longest paragraph is about your mom having hot causal sex with bad boys.. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:43 PM
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There’s literal paragraphs about their mom & family members having hot casual sex with bad boys who actually turn them on and then settling down with a man whose nothing like that.. How is it NOT a fantasy about their moms casual sex and wanting the details?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:42 PM
1

No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:39 PM
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The fact that OP is fantasizing about their mom casually fucking bad boys is a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:14 PM
2

Some do. Most don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:09 AM
1

The odds are 1 in 6 for women being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:28 AM
1

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cjst0HgOqCc/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:47 AM
1

You angel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:45 AM
2

He’s 100% a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:32 AM
3

It’s because he’s a creep in DM’s asking very intimate/private questions about my husband’s penis and how we have sex. He’s done it to uh.. most women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:28 AM
1

Do it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:27 AM
1

Link me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:26 AM
2

Is a general/generic “you” not allowed here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:25 AM
1

No, I don’t have any idea how to. I’m not social media savvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:15 AM
0

It’s not personal. It’s general you for all incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:14 AM
3

I’ll say it. Dbz Kai. He came back as CodyRose69, I suspect he’s back & lurking under another name but I haven’t locked down enough evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:13 AM
1

Meh, whatever’s worth the effort. Like you tryna get fancy and make requests you gotta pay me for my time but I feel like $5 is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:12 AM
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1, but his account is deleted now because he was banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:40 AM
3

We’ve never spoke but I’ll send anyone feet pics for a price. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:39 AM
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Neither am I. Weird of you to suggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:18 AM
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Whatever makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:12 AM
3

Tell that to OP who’s making the argument that women who won’t give pity sex to incels are cruel instead of arguing with me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:44 AM
5

Losing attraction to someone you once loved is nowhere near the same playing field as fucking a sad stranger?! What planet do y’all come from. In your example, unless the woman is forcing him to have sex, he’s likely still the one initiating sex with her whether he’s attracted to her or not because men will still have sex with women they don’t like or respect. Women being told we’re “cruel” for not having sex with strangers we don’t want to have sex with is literal insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:40 AM
7

Having sex you don’t want to have to make someone (lonely men, incels, etc.) feel better is absolutely a sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:29 AM
10

The fact that women don’t sacrifice their own happiness and their bodies for men to “give them a chance,” doesn’t make them cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:22 AM
4

This so much, because it means he asked me out after getting to know me and still liked me, not the imaginary version of me that he created in his head that I probably won’t even live up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:44 AM
7

Same. I, as a blanket statement, don’t want to be approached by a stranger. I’m inherently defensive over the idea that someone approached me and wants to go out on a date just because I’m pretty, without knowing or caring about who I am and what I like. Warm approaches where I know we have something in common from non-sexual conversation where I don’t feel like a sexual conquest are much more agreeable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:12 AM
4

Yes. It’s not that he paid for sex; men essentially already do that by paying for dates and gifts for women they’re courting. Engaging in high-risk criminal behavior is a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:02 AM
5

I’m not insecure but I would still be discouraged from swiping because of competition. I wouldn’t want to be a “plate” or side piece while I’m looking for something serious. I want one on one attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:59 AM
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Exactly. It’s about a man willing to go to jail over sex with an illegal prostitute while potentially supporting human trafficking. It has very little to do with the fact that he paid for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:56 AM
1

4 is below average. And yeah if they’re all facially ugly I think they’d all have similar rejection rates. And no I don’t believe that attraction standards are harsher, I think women are just more selective. I know women who turned down totally normal dudes and are insanely happy with men I find weird looking. The overall standard isn’t higher, the insane selectivity women have is what makes men strike out with most women. Since it isn’t just looks we’re judging it’s how you carry yourself etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:22 AM
3

Idk what to tell you. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:20 AM
4

These men are not fucking trolling. They sound exactly like that dude in the video & you’re dismissing their fucked up thoughts about women. I bet the dude in the video started off just saying things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:18 AM
4

I can debate/counter their other points, no matter how deranged they are.. arguing with someone who says, “you downvoted me!” and you’re like “I didn’t,” and they go, “tHeN wHy Do I hAvE bAd KaRmA tHeN?!?!?!” is just circular and childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:12 AM
1

Be civil. 🥱😂🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:07 AM
7

I’m 99% positive there’s either a downvote bot or someone just downvotes everyone because I get downvoted too, I just don’t whine about it. The number of men accusing everyone of downvoting is my least favorite PPD trend. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:06 AM
4

So the men here have schizophrenia and are not accountable for their insane beliefs? Gotcha. 🤢🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:44 PM
3

If you’re trying to be a sarcastic, you accidentally made a perfectly agreeable point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:35 PM
3

Wasn’t here for that. Regardless, the fact that men predominantly stalk women doesn’t mean women never get stalked by other women. But statistically, men are more likely to stalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:33 PM
7

When men literally stalk you and then gaslight you to make you feel like you’re paranoid like, “I just wanted to talk!” Fuck. Out. Of. Here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:23 PM
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And the fact that he espouses some of the same comments, almost word for word, as many of the men here is why we’re talking about it. Men here say they’re normal&average, women are just crazy for not trusting men, but then they either 1. say the same shit as this psycho stalker or 2. defend him, argue that it’s “not that bad,” because “only” 1 out of 10 guys is a true stalker the others “just want to talk to you.” 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:20 PM
2

Say it louder for the men here. 👏🏽👏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:14 PM
4

In the US, which is where I live: 19.3 million women have been stalked in their lifetime. 1 in 7 women have been stalked by an intimate partner during their lifetime to the point in which they felt very fearful or believed that they or someone close to them would be harmed or killed. 72% of all murder-suicides involve an intimate partner; 94% of the victims of these murder suicides are female. Women committing suicide in Europe doesn’t affect me. Having a 1 in 7 chance of being stalked in my hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:13 PM
6

The fact that this guy is defending him, “for every 10 guys you think are stalking you, 9 of them just want to talk to you.” The man in the example literally stated he too just wanted to talk to her. He just wanted to play her his song! But he was STILL STALKING HER despite what “innocent” things he said he wanted.. Men really are dangerous AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:55 PM
1

That’s the problem - you’re applying how men view and rate women to women. We don’t rate the same. Ugly face isn’t more fuckable because he’s tall. But for men, a busted girl with big tits and an hourglass figure is absolutely fuckable. Women just don’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:48 PM
1

Being 5’6 won’t change his 4 face down to a 3 or less the same way that being 6’5 won’t make a 4 anything higher. If I can’t stand to look at your face and don’t wanna kiss you.. being taller or shorter won’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:30 PM
1

Yes, a 5’9 guy with his face is still a 4. I had to google Adam Driver, I had no idea who he is, but I also don’t know anyone who finds him attractive. I haven’t even seen anyone say it online outside a select FEW women on PPD. I don’t even know what women rate Pete but I don’t find him facially ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:10 PM
1

I have seen average men and HE AINT IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:06 PM
2

Now you’re moving goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:58 PM
2

I agree with this entirely. Online men. **
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:57 PM
2

I know he‘d get FAR less without the camera. My point remains. Finding someone whose attractive AND compatible shouldn’t be easy, otherwise you’re just matching up with boring cookie cutter people with no personality who are using you as a resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:55 PM
2

Women don’t value height to the extent that being 6’ tall will make you above average (6) when your face is a 4. & a lot of women like Pete Davidson for his quirky/cute mannerisms, not because he’s tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:54 PM
0

He’s definitely below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:52 PM
3

It’s not her kids money. It’s her ex-husbands money. He isn’t paying for her to have a roof over her head, food, a car, etc. She doesn’t work or make any money - why should she relocate and fuck up her entire life and distance herself from her family & support network just so her ex can make more money? Y’all really be fucking tripping.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:50 PM
2

No, women are handed SEX on on a platter, not meaningful relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:47 PM
2

Of course I had an emotional connection to him. But it was in the past, I don’t have any emotional connection to him now & I don’t reminisce or think about any of my exes/the relationships, it’s unmemorable once you “get over,” him. Also, when you date someone for years & have sexual probably a hundred times over that span.. how are you supposed to remember every detail about something? Do you remember every detail about every time you take a shower? Or can you just tell me the basics like what …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:42 PM
2

Men value height in other men, so to men, who aren’t attracted to men.. they’re rating him a 6. Height will never trump facial ugliness. This dude is a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:35 PM
5

But she’s an ex and doesn’t wanna move for her ex-husbands job. It’s not HER money, it’s his since they’re not married. He doesn’t get to request or demand that she move. He can either move and take the new job with more money, but see his kids less or he can stay. She doesn’t owe him uprooting her whole life so he can have his cake (more money) and eat it too (also see his kids). Even if he makes more, the amount of child support he’ll pay won’t TOUCH the value of her living expenses being paid…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:29 PM
3

It’s not the most memorable thing, that’s the point. You mentioned the fact that women largely say they don’t remember sex with previous partners - I’m confirming with my own anecdotal experience that sex, even for women with low body counts, is largely NOT MEMORABLE no matter how much you ego driven men wish that it was. I can tell you basic facts like, “we did it at his house,” or “we did it on the couch a few times,” but I can’t tell you anything specific about the experience because it isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:08 PM
2

Do you only have sex with people you’re dating ONCE? Like of course I had sex with him more than once. 😂 The reason for fucking my boyfriend wasn’t “to create lifelong memories.” He’s an ex, I’m very indifferent to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:00 PM
3

My body count is low, single digits, I can tell you about the previous people I had sex with, like I know who they were but individual sexual experiences with those people are not memorable & I can’t recall a single specific detail outside of “we did it on the couch a few times,” or something. I don’t remember what their naked bodies or penises look like etc. My friends and I don’t talk about sex, idk their number and they don’t know mine outside of guessing based on the number of boyfriends I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:55 PM
-1

Hard disagree as a woman whose attracted to men, specifically tall men. I think you’re overestimating their attractiveness as a man who (I assume) isn’t attracted to men, so you’re not rating them from the female gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:52 PM
3

Equating the difficulty of dating, which is largely within an individuals control with “suffering” is just dramatic. Any “suffering” resulting from being sexless is self-imposed because of attitude & mindset. Entitled. Impatient. Wanting to buy what they can’t metaphorically “afford.” Being unwilling to break out of their comfort zone to make dating statistically more likely. I don’t feel a whole lot of sympathy for people who want their money and they want it now, without effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:52 PM
2

It’s difficult for a reason. A very good reason. Not everyone is going to be the right fit for you - whether that’s based on looks, personality, or (the more than likely) combination of both. Interpersonal relationships are wildly complex and love is extraordinary. Why should it be easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:24 PM
1

No, they want sex from hot waifu virgins because they’re “biologically repulsed by sluts.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:18 PM
3

Per the post where a guy asked 100 girls on a date, 19 said yes, and the OP did the math that if each approach took ~5 minutes, that he spent approximately 8 hours approaching women.. and then framed this as a negative. Please tell me why you think something as important as mutual attraction and compatibility should be easier..? There are a hundred different factors in what make someone physically attractive and most of how we determine if someone is sexually attractive or not happens subconscio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:08 PM
-3

A facially ugly man’s height doesn’t improve his score just because he’s tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:03 PM
1

Please tell me why you think something as important as mutual attraction and compatibility should be easier..? We have a finite amount of time on this planet, I’m sure as shit not going to waste my time placating someone I’m not attracted to because of their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:01 PM
3

I’ve literally seen comments from PPD “Redpill” men that sound just like this fucking guy..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:33 PM
3

So maybe take that into consideration when you lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:24 PM
3

Again, how do you know their answer is a lie? Or are you just assuming?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:55 PM
4

Would you understand a girl with an n>50 lying to you because she didn’t want to be dumped for being a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:55 PM
7

I have never downvoted you despite the fact that you’ve accused me multiple times. I’m starting to think you actually are a troll tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:19 AM
6

Not disclosing your body count isn’t “lying by omission.” If that’s the case, people in general “lie by omission,” about everything under the sun. The point behind lying by omission is that you’re intentionally omitting facts which are important to someone in order to foster misconception. If you’re never asked about body count, how are you supposed to know it’s important information they’re dying for you to volunteer? I’ve never been asked and I’ve never asked another man - not because I secret…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:18 AM
5

Except that most people are probably going to end up in a LTR with a hookup or casual thing. So now you’ve started an entire relationship on a lie. How would you even KNOW that they’re lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:15 AM
12

My favorite take on here is that men are terrified of women lying about their body count, but see nothing wrong with lying about theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:43 AM
13

Your continuous, “I’m smarter than everyone,” attitude comes off as trolling. What do you expect in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:40 AM
1

I like how you put “a woman” in quotations like you’re doubting my gender. Odd take. I haven’t said a word about your dating experiences. What I did say is that if you’re going to say that “finding a woman who just wants an average guy in 2022 is like finding a unicorn when just about every girl lives in social media,” doesn’t really have any credence to it since you admit to not using social media to know what media girls are consuming or how it affects their preferences. So how do you know it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:27 AM
1

I never suggested women would date men shorter than them? What’s your literal point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:16 AM
1

Height requirement of “taller than me,” isn’t the same as the “‘must be 6’ or taller” height requirement that’s peddled here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:15 PM
3

I can’t really recall specific examples since I admittedly didn’t listen to it. I just remember being told advice (several times), scoffing at it, and plenty of things bit me in the ass in my mid-20’s that, if I had listened, could have been avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:09 PM
1

Sure, let’s use height as an example (easy example, generally agreed upon). Most women aren’t attracted to facially ugly men men just because they’re tall.. a single “desirable” feature isn’t the determining factor. It’s the totality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:07 PM
2

What proof do you have that the majority of women are fucking the “same few” men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:06 PM
2

Even from your own article, “a study on women and men’s height preferences found that women are most satisfied when their partner was 8 inches (21cm) taller.” Most satisfied doesn’t mean that the average woman’s bar is “8-inches taller.” Actually reading the study though.. All participants were first year psychology students from a large European university who participated in exchange for course credits (N = 693). Participants first provided the following socio-demographic information: age, sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:25 PM
9

Just when I thought I had seen it all. PPD never lets me down!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:50 PM
3

Here’s the thing. There is not a single man on this planet who is universally attractive. Asking random women to give them advice on how to be more attractive is never going to give them anything other than very generic, cookie-cutter advice. If I don’t know what you look like, how you speak, and interact with the world, I can’t give you advice & even then, I can only give you advice on what I THINK other women would find attractive. Men I feel neutral to about their physical appearance can beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:08 PM
3

If you’re not just blowing smoke up my ass, I appreciate you! ❤️✌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:35 PM
2

You asked for a reason, I gave you a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:28 PM
2

I didn’t say I’d never fuck/date someone I rated as an 8, I said being rated as an 8 doesn’t actually mean I find you sexually attractive. It just means I know what conventionally attractive looks like & what features society values and rated you accordingly. If you asked me to rate a group of men on a scale of 1-10, I’d rate them objectively. If you then asked me “would you have sex with him?” to each of them, there’s no guarantee that I’d say yes to ANY of them, let alone only 8’s or higher, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:26 PM
3

Same. Most of the men I rate favorably do nothing sexually for me, but I’m aware of what society values & rate accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:21 PM
3

If you want the real answer? I’m never actually “free” and if I never tell you when I’m available I’m either not interested or I’m still deciding if you’re worth sacrificing a work, recreational, or relax/recovery priority over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:20 PM
14

Some of the posts men make here absolutely solidify the fact that they’ve never actually talked to an adult human woman who isn’t related to them. Stop comparing all women to your thrice divorced, alcoholic & BPD, childless aunties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:15 PM
9

Men believe that because women rate certain men favorably on a 1-10 scale that it means they’re sexually attractive, because that’s how men rate women. I’m aware of conventional beauty standards and how niche styles can boost someone’s overall rating. If you say, “women find the same things attractive because they rate the same men the same way,” follow up with, “would you have sex with him?” You’ll probably get a lot of, “no/not my type,” comments. To further drive my point home: If I rate you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:13 PM
1

Online dating can’t accurately reflect this. Men who indiscriminately swipe get thrown to the bottom of the list and women aren’t even seeing their profiles to know if there’s a chance or not. There’s thousands of men who’s profiles will never even be seen due to their swipe activity. Be aware that rating you objectively doesn’t mean you’re sexually attractive to them. I can rate someone on a 1-10 scale objectively and probably come close to other peoples rating based on the idea of objective an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:02 PM
59

When I was 20, I knew everything and didn’t listen to the older women in my life (30+) who gave me both advice and criticism. Now that I’m 30, I agree with them and wish I had valued their words more. I find myself just like them now. They were, largely, future me, and trying to guide me away from the mistakes they made. In some cases, I learned the hard way. I never felt resentment, disgust, or jealousy from older women over my youth & beauty. I did feel as though they were more parental figure…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:47 PM
1

You can adjust your behavior and place yourself in more socially open situations though. The only reason your only chance of meeting someone is on apps is because you’re expecting to be approached without any effort (going to social functions, making more diverse friends). Using apps further validated your, “get dates & attention without effort,” mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:41 PM
4

Men are still validating their perceived value by giving them attention. So why would they think they’re less valuable when they’re still being sought after & chased & desired by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:36 PM
4

I’m not sure what’s so hard for you to grasp - I didn’t say anything about the task at hand (getting groceries, per your example) being weird. I specifically asked you about your mannerisms and body language that are causing people to stare or worse. Mannerisms are unconscious gestures. How you you walk, how you look at people, hand gestures, vocal tics, etc. Body language - how close you get to people or how you behave around them. Chances are, you knowing you’re ugly (real or perceived) is cau…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:32 PM
3

Considering that snakes don’t evolve anywhere near as rapidly as the internet & social trends, yes, you should probably be somewhat familiar with CURRENT social media before you make definitive statements about how women are using it. Not just the “for you page,” girls, but the way actual & average women are using the platforms. Women aren’t demanding they be able to date men like Chris Hemsworth because of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:23 PM
4

Or has never been in a room full of men? The men I know gossip & spread rumors just as much as the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:10 PM
5

Women not wanting to work therefore, actually needing men, so they settle for less attractive men who earn more and can provide for them. This means ugly guys “get a shot.” Except the men demanding traditionalism don’t wanna pay for dates, don’t want women to choose them based on their ability to provide, and don’t earn enough to support a family on a single income. So they want women to be more traditional in cherry-picked positive ways while not being traditional themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:09 PM
4

Have you reflected to see if you have weird or socially inappropriate body language & mannerisms?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:05 PM
4

If you’re not a parent, you won’t understand the unconscious bias that comes with it. That’s just factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:56 PM
5

I don’t think most women think they need Superman, if you think certain desires are “Superman,” that’s your perception, but I do agree that both genders can be guilty of inflating their value and that’s likely why they aren’t interested in their equal. As a general rule, the type of person you attract is your “type” or equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:54 PM
9

Great, so there’s no problem? Like is attracted to like. Don’t know why people are so mad about being average and not getting what they want when they shoot for the stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:46 PM
9

You can’t stop it though. It’s not conscious. Viewing your child as the most beautiful/precious isn’t a decision you make, it just happens. It isn’t a lie. Biology and hormones tell us our children are beautiful and special in their formative years so they survive into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:38 PM
13

So how do you know what women are doing on social media without it..? Just assuming?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:05 PM
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I don’t disagree that height will never leave the checkbox. That’s biologically engrained in us - men are naturally taller than women, therefore “taller than me,” = masculine = attractive to heterosexual women. “Taller than me,” is a low bar to pass. In the US, the average height of women is 5’4, the average height of men is 5’9. I’m no mathematician but that’s 5” taller. Most women are dating painfully average men. If you think all women are living in la la land demanding Chris Hemsworth, maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:47 PM
15

Considering it’s the first thing you mentioned in terms of separating yourself (a self-identified “average” man) from other, allegedly higher value men.. yeah, this is another “wah I’m not tall enough for you bitches!” post. There’s little else that’s so far out of your control in terms of being an average man capable of partnering up but my point is that even things like height requirements aren’t as prevalent as this subreddit makes them out to be. Average men are just fine. If you’re not fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:36 PM
1

In terms of population, being worthy of reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:23 PM
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The number of women with hard requirements for height and income is nowhere near as large as the internet phenomenon makes it seem. You can just.. not date women with those requirements. You’re not gonna change their mind and make them suddenly believe that they should date a 5’6 dude who makes $60k a year. Focus on the women who will date men who are shorter than 6’0 and make less than 6-figures. I’ve been friends with a lot of women over the years and I’ve literally never met anyone with a 6-f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:13 PM
4

I’ve never had a male friend buy me a random gift? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:51 PM
0

Most men are average and unmemorable. Some are unattractive, some are ugly, but I’m not consciously evaluating every man I come across as a sexual prospect the way men do. Not constantly sexually evaluating men like, “would I hit or not?” to randos doesn’t mean I don’t find any men genuinely attractive. I’ve always been genuinely attracted to my partners and am wild about my husband. All women have a very small # of men they find genuinely attractive, it’s largely subjective with some overlap in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:46 PM
14

Do you not think that a “mother’s love,” means that she’s wearing permanent rose colored glasses and can’t objectively judge her child’s attractiveness because they’re apart of her and she’ll always find them beautiful? A lot of my friends are having kids these past few years and they can’t stop gushing about how cute their kids are but most of them are UGLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:35 PM
1

Not at all. The nature of things was never intended for everyone to “make it.” The ones who can’t adapt will be removed from the pool, everyone else will carry on. Can’t waste time on a “save every soul,” mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:30 PM
1

No clue what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:38 AM
1

Because you brought up mouse utopia. In the experiment, the population boomed, then went extinct. I’m discussing your own reference to tell you this ain’t it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:38 AM
3

The human race will be fine. There have always been sexless men. Women don’t need to sacrifice themselves to fuck losers just because y’all are like, “I’m not getting laid so nobody else is either and the human race is crumbling around me!” Plenty of people are fucking and reproducing. If you’re not one of those people, the burden to fix it is on you, not women, not society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:09 AM
7

It’s super weird to me that the men who want sexual socialism are typically very Conservative and capitalist. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:07 AM
6

I can donate to poor people - I can give them money, donate food to shelters, etc. I’m not sacrificing myself & my body so some loser who socially alienated himself can have sex. There’s no “resources” to help sexless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:06 AM
3

They make the cut, just not for the women they find attractive.. So they’ll complain that attractive women should lower their standards and have sex with them but won’t lower their own standards to have sex with ugly women. The math’s not mathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:01 AM
3

The human race isn’t going extinct because women won’t sleep with losers. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:58 AM
1

Because why in the world do I care how many men she slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:00 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:21 PM
1

The 20 hookups one? She said it was since 2020, so almost 3 years. Link the post cause I remember the Fjeifhfbru whatever bro was talking about it on Sunday and I read all the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:17 PM
1

It was 3 years..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:09 PM
1

It’s been in comments from the last ~year?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:46 PM
1

Did you miss the whole Tinder swipes thread about how the woman was called a slut for sleeping with men on first dates? Men are absolutely saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:35 PM
1

Haven’t you kind of admitted several times that you don’t try to get into relationships though? Experience isn’t going to manifest itself in front of you. If you’re unwilling to try to get experience, there’s little anyone here can do to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:28 PM
13

Men here: “women’s standards are too high, I’d rather just jerk off and watch porn.” Also men: constantly bitching about how hard it is to approach women. You already said you’d rather jerk off and watch porn, just leave women alone, fuck. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:09 PM
1

So you have a girlfriend who spends thousands of dollars on you but you spend all day bitching about women’s standards..? Ok. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:08 PM
1

Do whatever makes you happy. From the sounds of it from your incessant whining, you’re not successful even approaching women let alone manipulating them. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:51 PM
3

Marriage is on the low because people are deciding to stay in non-married, but committed LTR. The divorce rate isn’t skyrocketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:50 PM
3

Average women are just fine. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:38 PM
1

So women aren’t worth it and you’d rather watch porn but can’t shut up about women? The math’s not mathing, partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:37 PM
3

I’m 30 and married. 0% worried about the men I rejected in my 20’s. ✌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:36 PM
1

Then stop complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:35 PM
1

For someone who claims to be smarter than everyone else the fact you can’t comprehend social constructs is bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:16 PM
1

It IS compatibility. If you don’t match the oddly specific way I want to be approached - we’re not compatible. The “right guy” doesn’t have to analyze it and “act,” he just does it. It doesn’t even have to be “good social skills.” Just has to be the way I want/like. Women aren’t designed to just accept/approve of any guy who is “good enough.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:53 PM
3

Women are perfectly fine rejecting 99.9999% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:45 PM
2

You can be an objectively perfectly fine, good guy but still not be right for me just because you’re “good.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:41 PM
2

Poor people get married literally all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:15 AM
3

I have never felt lust, desire, and longing for any man within a 30 seconds - 2 minute window.. and that doesn’t mean I don’t feel those things or didn’t choose my husband in every sense of the word. I just choose more carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:37 PM
6

I co-sign everything your wife said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:16 PM
2

I’ll take “things that happened,” for 500.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:43 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:44 AM
1

It was awkward and ok. We were teens, he was my second boyfriend and we dated for 2.5 years through high school. It got better the more we did it and figured each other out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:27 PM
1

She’s still here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:26 PM
1

Either, because I don’t go to bars alone to pick up men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:23 PM
3

Posting photos of your family isn’t virtual signaling though…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:40 PM
2

I think you’re over estimating the amount of social media attention most truly average women get. Most of my friends get 30-40 likes and they’re all friends/acquaintances. Would you rather her never post about you and feel like she was ashamed of you? Most people use social media and post to it at least occasionally. I could virtue signal and get likes without wasting my time dating a disabled guy I’m not actually attracted to.. If she’s a normie girl who’s with you & whom you have a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:19 PM
3

Do you not want your girlfriend to be proud of you & show you off?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:00 PM
1

You mean to tell me that women are using a hookup app and hooking up instead of remaining chaste virgins?! How dare they!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:58 PM
4

Commitment = partnership, not ownership.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:33 PM
0

I’m glad you’re against commitment since you view women as objects/human fleshlights to be “owned.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:31 PM
3

Disagree since there’s about an even split between men and women overall yet the ratios are 7:1 men:women and even worse at 9:1 in some areas..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:29 PM
3

What do you expect from women who use hookup apps.. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:23 PM
3

20 hookups since 2020. Read the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:19 PM
1

I would consider cold approaching being intent specific and just talking to women casually (you know, like they’re people) and seeing how it goes to be true socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:00 PM
3

It was meant to be sarcastic but then all the incels started upvoting me. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:58 PM
1

I’m married so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:50 PM
1

Well I’m not a man, so I don’t cold approach, and I certainly don’t respond positively to 50% of the men who cold approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:48 PM
1

I truthfully wouldn’t consider that cold approaching then, since cold approaching implies that you’re approaching a specific woman soliciting an outcome (a phone number, date, etc.) and not just “cold approaching” strangers for practice socializing. Unless you consider making small talk with men to be cold approaching too.. but I’m going to assume you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:45 PM
1

I don’t. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:43 PM
1

Cold approaching is definitely not 50/50 unless you’re exclusively cold approaching in a night club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:41 PM
1

Not sure what you’re talking about. I’ve always had great experiences with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:40 PM
1

How often are your small-talk comments based on environmental cues leading to actual conversations that are anything other than socially enforced politeness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:39 PM
1

That’s not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:34 PM
2

Because it doesn’t align with your world view?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:25 PM
3

Easy - it was hard enough to get one woman to fuck them, so they latch onto her whether they have a meaningful relationship or not in order to get regular access to sex. Then they cheat on their gf when they finally find someone else willing to fuck them. Men agreeing to LTR’s is MOSTLY because they can’t get casual sex and it’s the only way they’ll get affection and pussy. Edit: I clearly dropped my /s chill out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:24 PM
2

Maybe for you. Ask the other men here about their cold approaching experiences since many of them have reported striking out immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:21 PM
1

No, as long as he’s open to using them together.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:19 PM
4

Socializing is mixing socially with others (conversation). Since most cold approaching never makes it to “conversation” territory where you learn very basic things about a person (their name, etc.) I don’t consider it socializing. Cold approaching is 9/10 a man asking a woman a question and her turning him down/rejecting the entire interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:18 PM
3

A. No. Example: I’m in a relationship and a man cold approaches me, I reject his advances, this doesn’t necessarily mean he has poor social skills, it just means I’m not romantically open. Same as if I’m traveling for work. I live in Maryland, but if I’m in California and someone approaches me.. I’m not into causal flings OR long distance so he’s going to get rejected no matter how charming or socially intelligent he is. Or if I’m just not open to being in a relationship at that time. Or don’t h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:10 PM
3

The thing that’s holding you back is that you THINK you’re smarter than everyone else, not that you actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:36 PM
3

I haven’t downvoted a single comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:08 PM
4

How earth-shatteringly woke and unique. 🙄😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:03 PM
4

Based on the grammar and content of your comments? I’m sure of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:58 PM
6

I’m not denying the bell curve, I’m aware of the studies. I’m denying that you’re actually smarter than every woman you’ve ever met and that espousing so is very delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:45 PM
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You’re so much smarter than all women? Ok, so being delusional and narcissistic is your actual personality flaw - got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:32 PM
5

You’re aware that you can determine whether you’re compatible with someone without getting naked with them, right..? If you’re sooo good looking and women still aren’t giving you a chance, either you’re overestimating your looks or you have major personality flaws that make you undesirable despite your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:12 PM
1

Keep looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:02 PM
1

Thank you! I love your posts!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:52 PM
3

Knowing you I’m sure the women with big asses wouldn’t say anything about it to avoid comments about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:05 PM
1

You’re just his type too! I don’t blame them for warning you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:03 PM
2

Literally everyone. He’s indiscriminate about his perversion. My bet is that dbz is CodyRose69. He’s in finance from Australia? Sounds hella familiar 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:53 PM
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He’ll make himself known eventually, he literally can’t help himself from sexting the women here asking for explicit details about their hookups & husbands penises while simultaneously slut-shaming anyone who isn’t a virgin. I’m here for it. 🫖
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:40 PM
3

I have very very long curly hair, so I usually can’t travel with just travel size shampoo/conditioners. Add in other things they take up space that men don’t have/use: make up, bras, feminine products if it’s that time of the month (or close to). Few other things but, mostly that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:39 PM
3

They’re probably banned. I have suspicions one of them is dbz19_kai. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:34 PM
2

Everyone I know who was a slut is now married and happy. Carry on with your revenge fantasy, but women aren’t being punished en masse for sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:30 PM
2

Being alive = being cucked? Ok bröther. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:31 AM
2

No. They’re literally average dudes. You’re thinking of a small subset of guys in the military but there’s just as many non-military guys who are muscular. I served. Never saw an abundance of hot dudes. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:41 AM
1

Nope, I was put in jail for blackpill rhetoric. Not being uncivil.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:39 AM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:42 PM
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I mean, if he can’t do any better.. isn’t being with someone who’s physically unattractive better than being alone and crying about how women who are hotter than you won’t give you a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:41 PM
3

Goof. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:31 PM
2

Being 🖤pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:30 PM
4

This subreddit..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:30 PM
2

Most men in the military are PAINFULLY average by all accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:26 PM
4

I’m a free woman after a 30-day stint in PPD jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:21 PM
2

No. I’m not interested in men who are sexually attracted to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:40 PM
8

They literally can’t fathom why a boob job wouldn’t be “for” them, just because they’re obsessed with boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:35 PM
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There’s 209,128,094 women over the age of 18 in the US. The 365,000 who got breast augmentations is.. 17%. Even if women DID get breast augmentations to be objectified by the male gaze, 83% of women do not. Breast augmentations ≠ “treat me like a fleshlight.” Men will really say anything they can to justify being perverts. Idk how tf I’m straight tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:13 PM
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You’re looking at this from the perspective of a man who wants women’s attention. Women, largely, do not want men’s attention and that’s why we call you all creepy. There is no such thing as “dressing like I want to get hit on.” You are perceiving certain attire to be a welcome mat to make sexual advances, this does not mean women are laying the mat down with their attire. It just means that’s how you’re perceiving it because you can’t control your gross horny brain and desperately want it to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:06 PM
3

I would not date a bi-guy even if his body count was 0. But I would date a heterosexual man with a body count of 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:54 PM
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There is no “line.” It’s never ok to treat women like they’re sex objects. Like I said, a very small percentage of women DO dress provocatively with the specific goal of being hit on but unless a woman says, “I want to have sex with you, yes you specifically,” NOTHING she’s wearing means she’s trying to tell the world to breed with her. Don’t harass women just because YOU find her outfit sexy. Treat people with respect regardless of what you think their clothing symbolizes. It’s not a hard fucki…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:33 PM
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Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:47 PM
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Oh you decided to unblock me. That’s adorable. 🙄 I won’t be arguing with you any further since you clearly have issues controlling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:47 PM
1

I also get approached more when I’m in business attire! I’ve never been approached in leggings fresh from the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:36 PM
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I like when disgruntled men block me & the trash takes itself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:28 PM
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Your example isn’t what I’m talking about Women wearing normal, albeit form-fitting clothing such as: tank-tops, shorts, leggings, etc. is not “sexual advertisement,” the way that literally exposing your bare breasts is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:25 PM
3

One “fringe case” (your words) isn’t “a load of evidence.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:19 PM
1

I agree entirely! I’m a smaller woman and even though I train BJJ, I still want to be protected from men who are completely unhinged and feel entitled to a woman’s body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:12 PM
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Yes, I’m saying that only a very small number of women wear close fitting clothing with the explicit purpose of soliciting male gaze, compliments, or being asked out. Edit: sorry incels, downvoting me doesn’t change this!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:09 PM
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I always cc, I hard agree with this!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:53 PM
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None of that is simply looking at someone. It’s specifically: staring, leering, and canvassing their body (elevator eyes). AKA you’re looking at them like they’re a human flesh light you can’t wait to put your grubby little dick in. Stop being gross to women and justifying it by saying “well she had leggings so she was being sexually suggestive!” You sound like a predator. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:52 PM
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You can approach and respectfully ask any woman you want out, but if you’re sexually selecting for women wearing leggings because you believe that women wear leggings to signal sexual availability or a green light that they want you to make comments about their body (like one commenter here is suggesting), that’s just not the move..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:50 PM
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Post the case law. Those leggings aren’t are “sexually advertising.” I don’t know why you feel entitled to a woman’s body or believe she’s signaling that she wants sexual attention just because you can see the outline of her buttocks and thighs in her clothing. Are women at the beach in swimsuits where you can see their thighs begging to get fucked? Don’t even say it’s different, it isn’t. Stop hyper sexualizing women and normalize their bodies. The fact that our bodies and curves exist is not i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:43 PM
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I don’t want to be pregnant and ruin my body, and I want everything I’ve earned in my life for myself. There isn’t anyone whose gonna convince me I’m wrong for wanting those things. If you’re so worried about it, find someone who wants kids and leave child free women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:34 PM
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I’ll say it for the people who are apparently confused, a woman wearing a low cut shirt or leggings is not “advertising herself sexually.” Women are allowed to wear clothing that they like and are comfortable in, even if YOU think that clothing is “sexy.” It isn’t for you. Wearing clothes that closely fit their body does not mean they’re in heat begging for a mate. It is not an invitation to sexually harass her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:32 PM
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You can’t harass someone by glancing at them, just stop. Nobody should have to cover up in a burka because you’re a hot dog. Grow. Up. Wearing leggings isn’t “sexually advertising” themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:27 PM
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I did block him and I do mind unblocking him. I’m uncomfortable with him as he’s PM’d me asking me questions about my husbands penis and has gotten nasty in arguments after I asked him to leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:25 PM
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And I see fat men with their pants sagging down below their buttcracks or their bellies out and somehow I’m able to behave decently. Someone wanting to wear tight leggings doesn’t give you the right to harass them or objectify them like they woke up and chose to wear leggings for you specifically. If you can’t control yourself because the outline of someone’s butt cheeks is visible, you need to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:33 PM
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The fact that you’re looking for her labia while she’s wearing pants is a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:02 PM
4

Women existing is now asking for male attention. How gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:55 PM
2

It sounds like you’re trying to legally define it. What a dangerous concept..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:52 PM
2

God bless you, Angel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:47 PM
1

I have a JD and my husband only has an associates degree, which he got at 28 years old, because it was required for his Union electrician job. The Union paid for the electrical classes over like 4 years. I think men overestimate the importance of “status,” for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:57 AM
2

Why do people need to help you make friends ..?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:52 AM
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“No reason other than hormones.” Those pesky little things which control our entire lives and sex drive..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:49 AM
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I don’t think I’ve ever rejected someone based on their name alone..?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:48 AM
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My favorite part of dates is the car ride there/back. When me and my husband first started dating, we went on a few dates that were like an hour or so away, so we’d get to talk and listen to music and enjoy the ride there. && Holding hands on a sleepy, quiet car ride home just enjoying being around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:47 AM
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Your comment still doesn’t address my point. Women who aren’t flashing their breasts are still getting unwanted sexual attention from men and it’s repulsive. They’re not “asking for it,” by wearing nazi shirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:38 AM
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Because men are the ones who were fending off unwanted advances from.. Women don’t do that. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:58 AM
2

Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:22 AM
2

I’ve only blocked 1 person here and I just truly find him insufferable in every aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:20 AM
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^ This is why I won’t engage with you. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:01 AM
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I’ve never been to a concert, but a small subset of women who go to concerts and flash their breasts doesn’t disprove my comment, which was about UNWANTED sexual attention. So you should re-read my comment. Women flashing their breasts are consenting to/asking for the attention. Normal women who receive an influx of male attention they didn’t ask for are not.. obviously? I’m highly concerned that you believe a small subset of women who flash their breasts in a very specific situation means that …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:59 AM
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Yeah, I’m losing interest. It’s you, not me. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:52 AM
3

Guessing this is how she’s telling the sub there’s trouble in paradise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:48 AM
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You think a woman are wearing low cut shirts is “revealing her assets” and that it’s asking for sexual attention so she doesn’t get BORED? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:46 AM
2

I already told you.. 🙄🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:43 AM
2

You’re high.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:34 AM
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I promise you that if someone pity fucks an incel, he still won’t be attractive to the women who make fun of him. If that was the case, incels could just lie about their body counts and nobody would be any wiser.. but it isn’t their lack of sex that’s unattractive, it’s them. You literally did make up a bunch of stuff and just call it “rules.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:32 AM
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No, I don’t care if a guy has a college degree or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:27 AM
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Women are just as repulsed by men they’re not attracted to giving them unwanted sexual attention as men are by men (who they’re presumably not attracted to) giving them unwanted sexual attention. The unwanted sexual attention is apples to apples. Who it comes from is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:20 AM
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I’m saying, you, as a man, consider yourself less attractive than some of your shorter friends but maybe women don’t agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:18 AM
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Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:52 PM
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Maybe women have different taste in men than you do. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:51 PM
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How does making fun of sexless men have anything to do with “wanting” to be seen as a breeding object..? The sexless men are sexless for reasons.. i promise you that women aren’t making fun of them because they want to have sex with & breed with them. 😂 None of what you listed has anything to do with wanting to be seen as sex objects or reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:41 PM
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I like men who are mostly introverted but are just outgoing enough to not be boring, because I’m very introverted, but I don’t want to have to drag my partner out of the house to meet up with family, friends, or go out for a date night etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:36 PM
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There isn’t an incel “problem.” The number of men who identify as incels is negligible in the real world, it just seems like a big problem in online echo chambers. Let’s not get male virgins confused with incels.. most men who are virgins into their 20’s aren’t incels, they’re usually either religious or shy, but they’re not hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:24 PM
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Of course I wouldn’t be ok with it, but I can’t really make them stay. And trying would just be forcing them to sacrifice their happiness for my own, which wouldn’t feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:01 PM
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What does any of that have to do with women being “sex objects made for breeding.” 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:59 PM
1

This is correct for me; if I’m attracted to you & find you attractive, I love to suck dick. If regular blowjobs stop, you should be worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:31 PM
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Why do you think women think that about themselves..?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:26 PM
5

Sounds like someone who shopped for therapists for validation and didn’t get the answers he was looking for, so any criticism or recommendation to correct his behavior was perceived as him being judged/ridiculed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:17 PM
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For a year? I wouldn’t leave my husband for that, and I would like to think I’d be able to love him forever without sex on the table, but sex is a very important part of love, bonding, and intimacy and I need sex in a relationship so I don’t know. I think eventually it would wear on me. I could handle being the only one paying the bills and doing all the housework, but losing that intimacy and being desired by him would be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:14 PM
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So you don’t respect women who choose not to enter relationships with men unless she’s doing something selfless instead? How bizarre..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:31 PM
1

Ok bye. ✌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:37 AM
5

My husband calls me every day on his way home from work or stops in to have lunch with me a few times a week. It’s really sweet. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:13 AM
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Uh-huh. I’m not mad, at all, and I find it really weird that you’re reading all my comments in an angry tone. I like men. I don’t hate men, I don’t wish harm on them. Most of my clients are men. I’m absolutely disgusted by certain misogynistic incels here on PPD. Let’s not confuse them with men as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:11 AM
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I know what it means and used it correctly. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:07 AM
1

Well, hopefully guys won’t have their quality of dating prospects hurt by posting shirtless photos because they copied their guy crush’s profile instead of tried to show who they actually, authentically are!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:03 AM
1

You saying that doesn’t actually make it true. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:01 AM
1

I’ve never used Tinder but I find the concept of using shirtless pictures on dating apps or social media to be unattractive 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:00 AM
1

I’m not angry at all, but painting someone to be a hysterical woman probably fits your misogynistic worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:57 AM
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Nobody! I’ve always dated really wonderful guys. It’s the disgusting misogynistic men here I can’t stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:56 AM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:36 AM
0

One that seems to perpetuate the idea that women only value looks or that attractive people can’t have other positive traits etc. This subreddit really hates to acknowledge that hot people aren’t dumb assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:35 AM
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Thank god hot guys of normal intelligence exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:13 AM
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I wouldn’t find it weird, if we’re having sex every day or so I wouldn’t really see a need for him to also masturbate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:50 AM
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Various styles of heels or dressy flats but the second I’m out of the office, it’s Crocs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:46 AM
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I wouldn’t even remotely consider this a “normal” amount of attention for anyone, even “Chad.” That’s incredibly excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:14 AM
4

And what do you think “normal levels” of attention from “normal women” is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:02 PM
9

So you’re trolling, got it. 👍🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:57 PM
8

Because you said so..?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:48 PM
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You came so close to the right answer in your own post: most women don’t have such strict preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:30 PM
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He’s objectively attractive but not someone I’d go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:40 PM
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Because so many of y’all have never done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:17 PM
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I’m one of these people ?? So yes, it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:56 PM
2

And yet, average men everywhere are dating and married?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:50 PM
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I don’t even know what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:25 PM
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I don’t think most men who claim to be average knows either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:25 PM
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I’m 30 and usually get told I’m too young to be an attorney, don’t even look old enough to have gone to law school. Etc. The wall only applies to people who really, really didn’t take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:16 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:14 PM
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Agree mostly but if you’re truly average or above average like the men here claim, there’s certainly something else missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:14 PM
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Yeah when you’re 12. 🙄 Most people outgrow their anime obsessions. Those who don’t, struggle to date women. Casually liking certain animes is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:01 PM
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Red Pill content is like DIY home improvement videos on YouTube where you have a project in mind, so you watch professionals tell you how easy it is to drywall your ceilings. The thing they have that you don’t, and why the drywall tape over the joints in your ceiling are too think in some spaces and peeling in others is that they have skill. You can’t just follow a step by step guide for something that requires foundational skills. If you regularly consume Red Pill content, you need to work on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:58 PM
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What do you expect from the kids who Naruto ran between classes and growled at people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:50 PM
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Some of them weren’t pRiVeLeGeD to have their daddy’s tell them how to talk to women and without very explicit guidance from an authority figure they’re incapable of learning about it on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:41 PM
1

My point remains. Men can do it forever but women are arbitrarily held to this “need to be the bigger person,” to absolve men of any repercussions from their shit. It’s sexism to say “we can do this and now because you’re doing it back, we admit it’s wrong and two wrongs don’t make a right. You need to stop the cycle.” You’re placing the burden on women to 1. Take it. 2. Be polite about it. And 3. “End the cycle,” after they’ve finally had enough and lashed out. It’s like a person who beats thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:20 PM
2

I’m simply treating people how they treat others. I find it funny when men are shitty and then tell women to “be the bigger person,” so they’re absolved of hurt feelings when they have no problem doing it to women. I’m not punishing random/all men, but men HERE who slut shame, use “feminist,” as an insult instead of “woman,” etc. are going to get RECIPROCAL TREATMENT. This idea that it’s fine they men do it but it’s outrageous, wrong, petty, etc. when someone mirrors their behavior is so ironica…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:17 PM
-1

Reciprocal treatment could be considered revenge, but it isn’t a “revenge fantasy,” y’all are misusing that term.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:36 PM
1

It’s a screenshot of the MensRights sub. I posted an article which I know you didn’t read because you responded and said “it’s I ASSUME about blahahblah,” and TWO LINKS FULL OF EXAMPLES. I’m done. The circular “I need proof,” and either outright ignoring what I post or saying, “that proof isn’t good enough,” isn’t it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:34 PM
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I read this as: “men treated women poorly and don’t like it when women misbehave and say mean things to men, so it’s very wrong and not fair that they call us virgins. Only we were allowed to be wrong to women! TLDR; we don’t like being treated the way we treat other people.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:30 PM
2

Heres a whole post with links. Have at it. Here’s another.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:24 PM
1

Read. It.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:24 PM
1

It did support my claim. 😂 That’s how I know you didn’t read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:23 PM
1

You asked me to post the proof that men were advocating secretly filming women having consensual sex, so I didn’t “misquote them.” There it is. You’re welcome to search for and read the entire thread. I haven’t posted any examples of them promoting hate yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:20 PM
1

I linked evidence that you dismissed without reading. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:13 PM
1

I’m not back pedaling at all, I stand by it. Here’s a screenshot, I’m on mobile and not interested in digging in the sub to argue with you specifically. It won’t change your mind since you’re just like MRA who use the word “woman” and “feminist” interchangeably.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:07 PM
4

You think I’m all women? You think the group of women here who say it are “all women?” But in the same breath say “because a group of men literally SAY ‘all women’ that all men really do this,” SO IRONIC I CAN TASTE BLOOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:07 PM
4

There’s no fantasy. It upsets ya’ll to be called virgins and incels so it’s working.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:00 PM
3

I’ve never read TwoX but no, there isn’t a “single” as in, “only one hateful comment has ever existed and since been deleted” about women on MensRights. They recently advocated for secretly filming their consensual sexual encounters to disprove potential false rape allegations.. any man who truly thinks they’re “protecting themselves” by secretly recording someone having sex and isn’t doing it to be a pervert is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:47 PM
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Men have never stopped calling women sluts and whores, they just got creative and started using terms like “the town bicycle.” So if they can flippantly shame women for their sexual history, regardless of it being based in fact, why is it wrong when women do the same? Because “two wrongs don’t make a right?” Aka only men get to be wrong to women. It’s a wild. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:41 PM
5

Men never went “all women?” Just stop. TRP literally has an acronym called AWALT. ALL WOMEN are like that. Oh but we didn’t really mean “all women,” we just said that. Followed by TRP heavy breathing, women never communicate clearly they never say what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:37 PM
-1

It was a typo for whore. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:34 PM
4

I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:33 PM
5

There’s examples all throughout the sub but the most prominent criticism of the MR sub and others like it (like ProMaleCollective) are that the subs are actually more anti-woman and anti-feminism than anything to do with actuel men’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:28 PM
6

We are, y’all just don’t realize how shitty you are to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:23 PM
3

And you don’t think that when other men whine about condoms she isn’t so horny she gives into them to? You’re just special? What a nice thought. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:16 PM
5

According to the men here, you must have sex with all women on the first date now in order to be “consistent.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:13 PM
8

The subreddit isn’t actually against men having rights, it’s against the climate of the subreddit called /r/MensRights because the MRA’s in the sub are toxic, hateful, and promote violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:12 PM
12

I love that men LITERALLY can’t handle being treated the way they treat women. Men have used “slut” and “whore” towards women for DECADES. It didn’t even matter if she really was a slut or not, the label stuck. It’s not even a thing of the past because men here heavily shame “high-n” women as being broken, damaged, undateable, more likely to cheat.. YET when women are finally like ok fine, we’re going to start treating men the way they treat us. Men cry and say “calling me a virgin is worse than…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:08 PM
1

I find it funny when men do it for decades, it’s normal & socially acceptable to shame women for being sluts - which PPD men still do here REGULARLY, yourself included but when women aren’t perfectly nice to men and say hey I’m gonna treat you the way yuh treat us, men start crying “Well two wrongs don’t make a right!” Men LITERALLY can not handle being treated the way y’all treat women. It’s astounding how you guys still can’t see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:04 PM
2

So did I. Who gives a shit? We have copies. They say the same thing. Let him cum on the original if he wants. I certainly don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:18 AM
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Oh you mean like how everyone used to shut down women they don’t agree with by calling them whores and sluts, even if you’re not a slut? Oh how the turn tables. My favorite part of modern women is when they do the same things men do to them and watching men cry about it. Like women havent been dealing with the same shit for years but now it’s not ok because a girl was meeeeen to a boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:17 AM
3

If Trump wants to jizz on the Constitution, what do I care. We have copies, they all say the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:13 AM
6

Who cares. The flute is literally fine and exactly the same. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:58 AM
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I didn’t say anything about feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:57 AM
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Why would someone be bothered by her playing a fancy, old flute?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:50 AM
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What in the world is flute-gate?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:37 AM
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You can just not tell people you’re a virgin who hates women and then you won’t be labeled an incel. Follow me for more LifeProTips.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:28 AM
1

I don’t agree with this at all. Basic advice and “how to talk to girls,” and “what girls like,” is different than teaching your child how to be sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:01 AM
3

I agree and those things by proxy will usually attract the opposite sex. Some people, despite being well groomed, well dressed, healthy, and social still won’t attract women or will still struggle with dating. It’s just the way of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:33 PM
3

Not only is it weird to say, “hey son, this is what I find sexually attractive, be more like this,” to your child, but you can’t make someone be sexually attractive to the opposite sex. You can give them advice but how many times have we heard men here say, “I’ve tried everything,” and they’re still unsuccessful.. I’ll listen to anyone vent, but I don’t think it’s a parent’s responsibility to “make” their children be sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:31 PM
1

Sounds like she likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:24 PM
3

Thinking about how big your child’s penis is going to be is weird as fuck..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:23 PM
5

It isn’t a parents responsibility to “make” their children sexually attractive to the opposite sex. 🎤
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:17 PM
2

Right but they exist so that’s why I said my advice was to tailor the date to the woman. Ice-cream might not be for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:16 PM
4

It’s not a parent’s responsibility to make their children sexually attractive. It wasn’t my parents responsibility to make me sexually attractive to men.. how weird is that? I’ll listen to my future child vent but you can’t “make” other people find someone attractive. If that were true, incels would have figured it out a looooong time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:16 PM
5

I’m not a mother, but it’s not my responsibility to play matchmaker for my hypothetical son.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:58 PM
4

This man is a professional troll. It’s clearly bait so women talk to him and deny they like serial killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:56 PM
2

You can’t make anyone do anything and there’s no guarantee that any of the advice I give him will work. Remember, many of the incels here claim to have “tried everything,” and still have no luck. There’s no guarantee that getting a haircut, going to the gym, or working at a 6-figure job will make anyone like you, especially if you’re very short or facially unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:54 PM
2

I didn’t think it’s about not liking ice-cream.. My best friend is severely lactose intolerant and could never do an ice-cream date because it would cause almost immediate, violent diarrhea which is very not-sexy on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:51 PM
3

What can you do..? I can’t make my son be sexually attractive to people. So I can really only listen to him vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:17 PM
2

And, if she likes ice-cream and isn’t lactose intolerant. That’s why I recommend tailoring the date to the girl. If it’s a cool fall day, donuts + coffee, cider, or hot cocoa through the park also sounds like a nice date!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:16 PM
2

This is a new one. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:02 PM
3

I don’t know why people think there’s so many rules to dating. Tailor your date ideas to the woman you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:08 PM
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Considering most women don’t engage in casual sec, he’s probably not going to have much success with casual/hookups especially if he doesn’t have much to offer (looks) for a single night. What does he do to try to date, already? Does he have hobbies? Does he ask women out? Does he use OLD? What type of women is he seeking? Is it someone whose “matched” in terms of looks or is he shooting for the stars?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:06 PM
2

It’s ok to be “weak” as a man too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:28 PM
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I love that as a woman, I have also experienced hardships that help me grow, make me more resolute determined and driven and that normal life experiences have helped me stay properly aligned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:26 PM
1

I felt like you were saying high-n women were progressive. My apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:46 PM
2

Not really. To who and for what would it matter? I’ve never been asked about or discussed n-count with any of my partners (to include my husband).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:36 PM
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I’m not entirely sure I agree. I have a low n-count, have never had a hookup or casual sex, and consider myself to be both very progressive and sex-positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:25 PM
1

My husband had glasses when we first started dating, but usually wore contacts. He ended up getting vision correction surgery (his choice) and no longer needs glasses/contacts. He was attractive with glasses but not needing them is probably my preference if I had to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:21 PM
1

Would I date a partner shorter than me? No. That’s not a height fetish. Fetish involves fixation and sexual arousal. I’m not fixated on or aroused by height. I don’t see a tall man and get wet. I work with two men who are around 6’2 and taller. I’m not enchanted or interested in them because they’re tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:20 PM
2

I hope it works out for you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:56 PM
1

That’s fine if you have a fetish, my preference isn’t so extreme that it’s a fetish. It’s simply that, a preference. I’m not you. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:56 PM
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Idk, I can be going through some shit and still be generally happy day to day? I think it’s abnormal to be sad all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:37 PM
1

Why wouldn’t they be worth it? I’m also eating leftovers today - I made hot sausage and cheesy potato soup yesterday, it’s even better today!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:33 PM
1

It depends on the preference. Example, a 40 year old man who’s preference is barely legal teens = creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:32 PM
1

Gross. What about after?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:31 PM
2

That’s really sweet of you. I’m glad he has you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:30 PM
2

What’s the new job?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:30 PM
1

I have a height preference, I have admitted as such, but I don’t have a “fetish,” which is what I reject. There’s no flip flopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:29 PM
2

It’s raining here - what’s everyone doing this Saturday?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:39 PM
2

Men here literally shit on me all the time for having a height preference. I could care less cause I’ve always dated the men I want, so them stomping their feet and calling me names doesn’t mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:25 PM
2

Who do I get along with better?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:41 PM
3

Models are hired by agencies, it’s a job so.. apply for modeling jobs to get paid. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:38 PM
10

Sounds like supply and demand. Both men and women want to look at women more than they want to look at men. Male athletes earn male than female athletes for the same reason - both men and women want to watch male athletes play sports more than female athletes in most sports. More viewers = more sponsors = more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:17 PM
2

It’s great. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:16 PM
2

Ok I was just trying to gauge whether your stance on what’s “moral” was hypocritical or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:11 PM
2

Literally never. Men, even attractive ones, are NPC’s until we’ve at least had a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:09 PM
3

I wouldn’t say super rich, but I’m well off on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:09 PM
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Didn’t you try to hire a sex worker and ask about refunds if you couldn’t perform due to your disability? I’m not trying to be rude but how is that more moral than casual sex with someone??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:06 PM
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I have never been aroused by just looking at an attractive stranger.. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:02 PM
2

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:00 PM
9

I’ve never seen a fist fight that wasn’t on tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:37 AM
1

I don’t agree with that. With the idea of transactional relationships, someone only “gives” if they can also take and a specific element of transactional relationships is score keeping. Example: “I gave her 3 back rubs and she still hasn’t had sex with me, which is what I expected in return for these back rubs.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:21 AM
1

Yes? I have sex with him because I want it. I initiate it, not as a reaction to something he did for me or payment for nice behavior like a dinner date..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:18 AM
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Somewhat. For example: I don’t believe in things like 80/20 (or whatever else) like the Red Pill that suggest the idea that all women pine after the same men or find the same traits attractive which excludes large groups of men and causes sexlessness. I believe that individual women have their own subjective tastes/preferences for what they’re attracted to, but that genuine physical attraction is still the most important aspect of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:15 AM
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I don’t feel like my sex life is transactional at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:07 AM
2

Yes, I know what engineers do. Computer/software engineers and civil engineers spend most of their time in an office. (I’m aware those aren’t the only types of engineers but that’s who I’m referencing).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:12 AM
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Yes. I’m just not attracted to men who work in offices all day like insurance agents, financial advisors, engineers etc. I don’t find isolated computer work attractive regardless of what it pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:39 AM
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Attraction is non-negotiable, physical attraction is the key to true attraction and it can’t be changed. Most red pill strategies like learning “game” is useless. Most TRP stuff is c*pe. Society as a whole needs to change in order for men to be successful. Inceldom is due to societal beliefs, not the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:35 AM
0

Yeah. But true black pill not whiney incel blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:11 AM
3

When the waitress asks “same or separate checks?” You just say, “separate.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:14 PM
1

This is a truly unpopular opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:05 PM
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I’m a family law attorney and completely agree, people will throw money at you to try to get what they want. I’ve turned down clients before for unreasonable demands, but guess what? There’s always someone willing to pick them up as a client.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:31 PM
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Honestly, nobody ever thinks it’s fair. Men don’t usually get 50/50 right off the bat, and this is usually because the father worked 40+ hours a week and the mom either worked part time or not at all, so the children are with mom (even as a married couple) the majority of the time. Divorce is really hard on children and taking a child away from their primary caregiver 50% of the time in the name of fairness to the adults can be really traumatic. Most of my clients start off with visitation and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:16 AM
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Define fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:42 AM
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Considering I see the outcomes, I’m not sure how I’m going to bat for women regarding divorce rape? Why shouldn’t women get anything from a divorce when they contributed to the household, usually both financially and in terms of unpaid household tasks? I wouldn’t advocate for a man who was unemployed with his wife being the breadwinner or head of household provider get nothing - I’d advocate he get what his contribution to the household was worth or a portion of what they built together as a fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:49 AM
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Did you miss the part where I said most of my clients are men? I regularly go to bat for men. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:39 AM
2

I assume that she finds him physically attractive and it’s ok if he’s not your type since you’re not the one marrying him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:16 AM
2

I like that gyms, which could be considered private clubs and not necessarily “public spaces” were closed - you know, places where people have to pay to enter, wipe down equipment, everything is regularly sanitized etc. but people without running water could go touch everything at Walmart and congregated there to “get out of the house” because it was one of the few places open. SMH. Makes no fucking sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:13 AM
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Reading RP arguments about divorce rape as a family law attorney who literally litigates divorces regularly.. I don’t think most men understand how divorces are settled and that “divorce rape” isn’t real.. && most of my clients are men. Men here consider the fact that they bought a house with their wife and she sometimes gets 1/2 the house in a divorce to be “rape.” Like ?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:11 AM
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Excuse me, babies only matter before they’re born. Stop being ridiculous. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:05 AM
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I’m not convinced that a man who lives independently would have this point of view, even as a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:00 AM
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I want to believe that’s the case but this is honestly not even close to the worst take I’ve seen from men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:20 AM
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I’m a family law attorney, trust me I know! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:20 AM
9

Hands down, they just want to control women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:55 PM
2

I’m 30, I use Snapchat as a primary means of communication with my husband and for most of my friends. It’s just easier idk. I literally don’t respond to texts unless they’re work related.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:28 PM
10

He should ask his parents, who he most definitely still lives with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:25 PM
11

This dude is on some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:08 PM
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Why does he have to be a high earner? Because he’s going to have to support himself, myself, and our children. I’m not trying to live below the poverty income guidelines or struggle to pay our bills. It has nothing to do with him buying anything for me, and everything to do with the fact that I want to live a comfortable life. The solution? I make 6-figures, I have the life I want and my husband is a very welcomed, pleasant addition to a quality of life I already had. We’ve now built a life toge…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:02 PM
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Being dependent on a man means I’m going to have to secure a man who can provide for me, meaning he has to be a high earner. This is going to eliminate a huge pool of men I might be happier or more compatible with because I want to live a comfortable life and require a man to provide for me and our children. Solution: I provide for myself and date the men I truly want to date, not the men I feel like I have to in order to survive. If I forego an education and a career, this man can leave me year…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:22 PM
2

I’d never get back with an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:46 PM
1

All that aside, it’s really not less invasive to have a breast reduction than it is to have a full mastectomy to flippantly say “just get a breast reduction.” All surgery leaves scars and comes with risks. It’s not as simple as like, breast fat lipo like you made it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:31 PM
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Breast reductions also leave scarring. They have to remove fat, excess skin/tissue, and reposition the nipple. The scarring is pretty significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:57 PM
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I don’t see any reason to get unnecessary surgery and have ugly mastectomy scars which might cause a lifetime of pain when men can just stop being shitty about women bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:50 PM
3

But he doesn’t know that? Just tell him you lied to make him jealous and it backfired.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:44 PM
3

This guy probably feels like a second choice or like things didn’t work out with the “new guy” so now you’re circling back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:38 PM
4

It depends on the surgeon, they don’t typically remove the mammary gland but the invasive nature of a mastectomy can negatively affect breastfeeding. Also, most women don’t want to remove their breasts so no men find them attractive.. we just don’t want to be constantly sexualized. I should be allowed to wear a tank top in the summer time without being accused of having them “on display” or “taunting men.” They’re a natural, normal part of my body that exists and I shouldn’t have to hide them en…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:34 PM
2

Is there any reason for a transgender FTM not to get her breasts removed? No. Is there a reason for cis-women not to? Opposite sex attraction and breastfeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:24 PM
2

People look around all the time. Most people aren’t giggling and making fun of strangers. Sure, some people make fun of people - it happens, but nowhere near the frequency that some people make it out to be. Main character syndrome & spotlight effect is a hell of an ailment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:17 PM
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Exactly. Insecure people tend to suffer from the spotlight effect, they think everyone is looking at them and judging them. A group of girls laughing with their friends probably don’t even notice him, let alone care enough to laugh at him - they’re probably laughing about something they actually matters to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:31 PM
3

That’s the thing though, they believe that women are inherently only “truly attracted,” to tall men so if a woman who’s attracted to 6’ tall men dates (or marries) someone who’s only 5’9, they “settled.” They simultaneously want women to lower their standards and date average men but don’t want to be settled for either. It’s a lose/lose for them & their conflicting beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:16 PM
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So, since (according to you) women have been horny throughout history and now there’s a decline, maybe it’s not “modern women” who are the problem but “modern men” who caused the shift hmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:31 PM
2

💯 Please do not come up to me while I’m pumping gas and offer to pump my gas and try to talk to me about where I’m from.. I’m capable of pumping my own gas & I have somewhere to be. That behavior is creepy no matter what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:13 PM
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When I call someone creepy, it’s because I can see them “hunt” me before approaching me. Following me around, I realize they’re probably building up the courage to approach and time it right, but being followed around feels awful and I can’t shake it. When I call someone creepy it’s because I turned them down and they continued to try to break me down & convince me to give them my number or go out with them. Or because they said something outright overly sexual. I don’t care if you’re attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:11 PM
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I’m not turned on by my husband doing chores. But we both work full time jobs, so when we split the workload at home, I’m less stressed out & tired and have more time to be intimate. && I feel more love without resentment in an equal partnership where we both pull our own weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:58 PM
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I didn’t think I was, but if that’s how you feel, I’ll stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:40 AM
6

You guys shared her post with her username and photo.. and expected her to what? Shut up and take it? How ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:28 AM
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My issue was with the “get to,” part. But honestly why should women fuck men they aren’t highly interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:27 AM
2

Gotcha, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:26 AM
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