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I'll be blunt....it sounds like you were just their side piece because you weren't hot enough for them to have any sort of commitment with. Guys are extremely liberal with who they'll sleep with. Commitment, not so much. If you can't get commitment from the men you like, then you're out of your league
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 09:06 PM
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So your boyfriend takes care of everything financially, including an allowance, and you contribute nothing and you're still wondering if it's not enough? Yes, you have a lot of internal work to do
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/25 03:47 PM
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Beautiful story, thanks for sharing it
/r/seduction20/08/20 11:53 PM
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Definitely seems week. If you knew you were going to sleep with the girl that night, what would you say?
/r/seduction14/08/20 01:17 AM
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:)
/r/seduction03/08/20 07:17 PM
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The real question is, why are you dependent on people who don't share your values and interests?
/r/seduction03/08/20 07:11 PM
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how profound
/r/seduction01/08/20 10:06 PM
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I don't understand. This wasn't a field report and I posted it under "Inner game". How am I supposed to get advice on this?
/r/seduction01/08/20 10:00 PM
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Thank you
/r/seduction01/08/20 08:46 PM
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Can’t argue with that
/r/seduction01/08/20 01:54 AM
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Lol that’s funny af and a rare gem indeed
/r/seduction01/08/20 01:53 AM
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I think that's a better strategy
/r/seduction31/07/20 07:46 PM
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Haha I hear you bro. I used to smoke a lot and have been there. Just say no ;)
/r/seduction31/07/20 07:41 PM
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Yes, there is a window of an opportunity and if you don't seize the moment, she might think you're either not interested or not confident enough to make a move. Trust your gut and pull the trigger. Also, smoke weed after you get laid bc it will more often than not it will fuck up your game.
/r/seduction31/07/20 07:34 PM
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Love "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and Todd. I will definitely check out the other two. Thank you and great post
/r/seduction31/07/20 10:58 AM
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Yea I know and nope, haven’t read that. It sounded funny in my head for the half a second I thought about but realized afterwards that it was miscalibrated
/r/seduction30/07/20 12:05 AM
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Thank you, I needed this
/r/seduction28/07/20 11:46 PM
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Thanks a lot for your help and that makes sense. My first week of doing this before I had the courage to approach a girl, I'd just say hi, give compliments, ask for compliments, etc to everyone and it felt great after awhile. You're right, I usually approach after I've been working for hours on end on my computer and need to get the juices flowing. I'll try your advice and will warmup and stop counting. I've been tracking everything like a maniac and definitely put a ton of pressure on myself. T…
/r/seduction28/07/20 09:25 PM
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Yea, great call and it’s probably more that. I don’t care after I get rejected but hate myself every time I don’t do it bc I let fear win. Every fucking day has been a battle with my inner demons and overcoming fear. Any advice?
/r/seduction28/07/20 07:23 PM
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Yep, it's Todd Valentine. He included this video in one his products and explained what happened here and why it went down the way it did. It's on youtube somewhere.
/r/seduction26/07/20 09:58 PM
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Are you prepared for the potential, repeated social awkwardness if she rejects you? I might do some subtle flirting and information gathering first (i.e., find out if she has a boyfriend) because the odds aren't great for you if you can't even tell if she likes you or has a SO. You're basically tossing a coin in the air hoping that it lands on heads when really your odds sound less than chance.
/r/seduction26/07/20 09:20 PM
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You sound bitter and welcome to reality.
/r/seduction26/07/20 04:11 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to respond. She already had a smoothie in hand so I could have just asked to sit and chat but personally prefer to walk around so it feels less like an interview. I agree though that the wording I used for a date needs to be tweaked. I also agree about just changing the subject when the dude came up. In the moment, I thought I would just try to pick it apart but realize that's too logical. I should have included this in the initial post but she actually had a haircut a…
/r/seduction26/07/20 04:06 PM
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It's the AA talking because you're doing this to become INDEPENDENT of people's reactions, not dependent. A couple of older guys look confused but then still gave me a compliment. They then asked afterword what it was for and I told them I'm trying to become more confident. They smiled and we parted ways. The best reaction was when I approached a mixed group and had them all compliment me. After the group had walked away, two girls who were sitting nearby/watched me, complimented me about how br…
/r/seduction26/07/20 02:32 PM
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Awesome, it’s good for the soul :)
/r/seduction26/07/20 11:45 AM
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I think you would have a greater chance of success if you restructure your approach. Think of it as a ladder, you need to climb each step before the next and right now I think you're trying to go to steps 2 or 3. I struggled with this for a while and here is the 7-day plan I made for myself that worked for me. On the 7th day, I was going direct and hitting on girls. I'm not promising that for you and encourage you to tweak your own approach, but I think it's worth trying out. One of the key comp…
/r/seduction26/07/20 12:15 AM
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If you go out consistently and learn from your mistakes then your odds of succeeding are exponentially higher than not going out. Everyone pays for success in their respective field. With seduction, you pay for it in rejections, awkwardness, and embarrassment which become increasingly inconsequential with time. Go out
/r/seduction25/07/20 05:05 PM
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Completely agree and thanks for the feedback
/r/seduction24/07/20 09:10 PM
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The whole dance of seduction is a game. To think otherwise is blue-pill naivety.
/r/seduction23/07/20 04:26 PM
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I think genuine friendships are great and important if they start on an even playing field (e.g., school, work volunteering, etc), or if he initiated the friendzone and not her. However, he'll always be the guy she friendzoned which isn't equal. If and when these girlfriends come along and they ask the girl how they met, what's she going to say? "Oh he hit on me and I wasn't interested so we became friends." Good luck with that
/r/seduction23/07/20 12:18 AM
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First, I'm not saying there's a right or wrong answer but I think it's worth considering. Second, I get rejected all the time during daygame. I also have a ton of female friends that I don't use as pawns to get pussy. All I am saying is that someone's time may be better spent with girls you have a chance with, rather then trying to lay the groundwork with someone who finds you amusing and knows that you want to fuck her, in the hopes that one day you might be able to use her to get some other pu…
/r/seduction22/07/20 10:10 PM
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At what point did the girl share with you that she's not interested? I get you to need dating experience/reference points but I think there is an argument to be made to get the fuck out of there if she said that shit at the beginning. You're there to seduce her, not befriend her.
/r/seduction22/07/20 04:44 PM
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Do it now because what's the alternative and what do you have to lose?
/r/seduction22/07/20 01:48 PM
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Ok thanks, I was just fucking around with that comment since she had already said she had a boyfriend. I do agree about the tonality and approval thing generally though, it's something I need to work on.
/r/seduction19/07/20 01:18 PM
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Great, could you be a little more specific as to what makes you say that so I can work on it? I'm older than 20 and less than 30.
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:56 PM
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Yea, I saw it from a SASHA daygame video actually. I am definitely not trying, nor do I feel aggressive when I ask about the boyfriend. I am smiling and doing it playfully. My rationale is to try and push the interaction one step further after an objection to see what happens and not just walk away when it's uncomfortable (a sticking point of mine).
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:56 PM
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I hope I recognize you and give you a hug
/r/seduction19/07/20 02:51 AM
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Me and my autism are offended
/r/seduction19/07/20 01:47 AM
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😸
/r/seduction19/07/20 01:47 AM
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Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction19/07/20 01:17 AM
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Yea, I drive an hour a few times on a week to a bigger city and I'll be moving in two years once I finish school. For now, it's adapt and overcome.
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:11 AM
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I mostly just used sex in the past to validate myself and "fix" my low self-esteem. Also, the 80+ was more quantity than quality which is one of the motivators to work on this. I am thankfully more mature now and my main goals now are: Live with less ego Learn how to love myself regardless of anything external Develop a greater locus of control on my emotions Gain deeper understanding of myself, the world, and reality Have more options with high-quality women I appreciate your perspective and as…
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:09 AM
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Thanks and agree, I just tried to make way all the interactions more sexual with eye contact and innuendos. It was fun :)
/r/seduction18/07/20 11:57 PM
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I think part of the dread is still the AA experience.
/r/seduction18/07/20 04:35 PM
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What's the alternative then?
/r/seduction18/07/20 04:35 PM
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Thanks for explaining more and I agree on some of the attraction part. Finding attractive girls for me isn't easy in my location and I've also already been with a lot girls 80+, (some of them hot) and am not desperate to fuck just anything. I am on the fence about female attraction part bc while I think it is binary for guys (there/not there), I agree with Jock that good game is about being able to convert the ambiguous ones (comparative to sales) but I am not speaking from experience so we'll s…
/r/seduction18/07/20 04:32 PM
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I completely agree and thanks for your response. The numbers here are a problem bc I live in a smallish town and finding hot girls isn't easy. No excuses though and I won't be in this shit area forever.
/r/seduction18/07/20 04:25 PM
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:)
/r/seduction18/07/20 04:23 PM
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Yea, you're profound AF but instead of quoting Einstein and trying to sound sage-like, can you provide an alternative solution that I can take action on? :)
/r/seduction18/07/20 04:23 PM
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Love this
/r/seduction18/07/20 12:29 PM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction18/07/20 12:36 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction17/07/20 10:50 PM
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Thanks and will do
/r/seduction17/07/20 10:50 PM
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Ok, could you elaborate on why this isn't real attraction and what is the alternative then? Regarding the pickup illusion, I wouldn't exist if my dad had not hit on my mom at a department store in the 70's.
/r/seduction17/07/20 10:09 PM
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Masks are mandatory where I live and I get several numbers each week picking up girls wearing masks during the day. You can make a joke out of it with them ("I know there's a pandemic right now but I thought you looked lovely and wanted to meet you"). I think it's more difficult if you're wearing mask because it's harder to build rapport so I send a pic of myself after the interaction to build attraction and stay on her radar. Of course, it's not the best time to pickup up women right now but th…
/r/seduction17/07/20 08:17 PM
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