18hourbruh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	This was on my LinkedIn feed with hundreds of likes and positive comments about how clever and hilarious it was. Good points and great perspective. I’m honestly so glad I posted this cause it’s nice to hear how y’all think about it. Everything you’re saying makes sense to me. And I can’t agree more that having kids is the most high risk endeavor to do with a man, and can definitely be a nightmare when with a man who’s not relationship oriented. (But again, marriage certainly does not guarantee that a man is going to be a decent father.) Eta: “ The idea is to avoid situations where you’re ready to marry, be…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 05:31 AM
3	This was on my LinkedIn feed with hundreds of likes and positive comments about how clever and hilarious it was. I am younger than that so quite possible I’ll feel differently if I’m dating at that age, it’s true.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 12:36 AM
4	This was on my LinkedIn feed with hundreds of likes and positive comments about how clever and hilarious it was. Hmm… then I must be not understanding. Are they advocating for long engagements then?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/03/22 11:38 PM
119	Men are two-faced & will say one thing to you & a whole other thing about you 100% would rather know than go on the date like an idiot	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/03/22 08:34 PM
70	This was on my LinkedIn feed with hundreds of likes and positive comments about how clever and hilarious it was. I have to admit I disagree with FDS on the emphasis on quick marriage. I understand not getting trapped with a commitmentphobic man if marriage is important to you. But marriage is such a huge financial/emotional/legal risk, assuming you don’t also see it as a spiritual risk! And women are by and large the ones who lose in a bad marriage. Marriage is NOT a victory end game for women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/03/22 08:27 PM
38	tw: rape. the comment section is full of angry scrotes blaming her, telling her she didn’t get raped, not to ruin the guy’s life because it’s her fault she was drunk. It’s an extremely common trauma response to not identify rape as rape and to even retroactively convince yourself you consented in some way, that it was your fault, and/or to even go back and have consensual sex with your rapist. These all serve the same essential psychological purpose: to rewrite history so that you had control and were not completely violated. People who are ignorant and disgusting (which includes a huge % of cops and prosecutors) often think women lie about rape to psychologi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 07:59 PM
63	tw: rape. the comment section is full of angry scrotes blaming her, telling her she didn’t get raped, not to ruin the guy’s life because it’s her fault she was drunk. It sounds like she knows she drank a lot — the most common date rape drug is alcohol. Don’t underestimate it just because it’s legal. Men are able to understand when a woman is wasted, obviously a woman actively puking is wasted. There is zero excuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 07:54 PM
1	In my country, a father killed his 2 special needs sons, dumped their bodies in a canal, and caused the police to go on a manhunt. Yet, the top comments on Facebook are people sympathizing/rationalizing the father’s behavior. Even when men murder, society excuses their behavior. Yeah, it’s very very hard to get a payout on life insurance due to murder, it’s a rare and dumb scheme. Life insurance is worth it if you have dependents who would be fucked without your income. Otherwise no, probably not.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 04:56 AM
21	Do you think you would have an easier time finding a HV partner if you were attracted to women instead of men? Women are naturally turned on by looking at sex, even more than men are. There have been interesting studies to this effect. Most porn is made by and for men so doesn’t attempt to appeal to women as much, and many many more women than men are conscious of and repulsed by the reality of the industry, but women can certainly be turned on by porn-qua-porn.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/21 10:53 PM
7	Times I should have left my fiance I'm so happy you have your family's support!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/07/21 06:22 AM
3	🎵If he's married and you know it, just say no,👏👏 if he's married and you know it... No, Don’t Ask Don’t Tell was the law of the land starting in the Clinton admin. Starting in 1993 gay people were allowed to serve on the basis that they weren’t open about their sexuality. It wasn’t about harassment, it was literally a cause for discharge. It was finally repealed in 2011 under Obama.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/21 06:56 PM
1	From Bo Burnham's poetry book I’m not a huge fan of his (for aesthetic, not political, reasons) but I was very impressed at how he ruthlessly skewered his own “good guy” persona in Promising Young Woman.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 05:34 AM
62	There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?” No, education was the exclusive domain of men not long ago. Teaching also lost most of its prestige and pay when women started doing it en masse	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 05:35 AM
32	Don’t be me Unfortunately, recreating our traumas in our adult relationships is all too common and easy to do. Don’t beat yourself up over it. Forgive and love yourself with abundance for all of the injuries you didn’t deserve, and take that love and spend time healing yourself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/21 12:26 PM
2	Science finally admits that it's a myth that we fall off a fertility cliff at 35 Yeah, especially because these studies tend to only track first pregnancies. A woman that never had an accidental pregnancy until her 40s is, on a statistical (not individual) level, more likely to have had fertility problems from the jump.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 06:07 AM
7	Terry Crews: Men Don’t See Women As ‘All the Way Human’. We already knew. Absolutely, that’s why so many addiction recovery groups use this language. It’s easy for addicts (or anyone who did something they regret in the past) to fall into a kind of trap thinking, “That’s not who I am,” “I’ve changed so I shouldn’t be blamed for that,” things like that. It’s a gesture towards accountability and a way to remind yourself not to dip back into unhealthy/triggering behaviors because maybe you can “handle it” now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 07:28 PM
144	Terry Crews: Men Don’t See Women As ‘All the Way Human’. We already knew. This is pretty common language in other addiction recovery groups, so I'd guess it's that. It's common to say "I AM an addict," even if you've been sober for years.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 01:02 AM
3	miss me with that coddling bs Yeah, men loudly proclaiming their feminism is a red flag to me, based on my experiences with that kind of man. I definitely think men can be powerful allies — men are some of the very few doctors putting their lives on the line to provide third trimester abortions in the US, as one example that I find particularly meaningful — but it should be more about actions than just loudly proclaiming feminist credentials (I think this is true for most forms of allyship, not just gender).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/03/21 04:01 AM
38	miss me with that coddling bs Yes, it’s fine for men to cry and for many men unlearning misogyny is tightly interwoven with internalized toxic masculinity. But the point of feminism should never be for men, and it’s sad to see that even the literal women’s movement is so full of women trying to appease and heal men. Feminism should always be about and for women. A good example case is porn. Yes, not watching porn may be good for men. But the reason porn is bad is not primarily that it gives men floppy boners or makes them lo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/21 05:57 PM
37	Remember ladies, anyone who says this sub is "redpill for woman" or "female incels" chances are close to 100% that they are an MRA or incel. They're just bitter their fave sub got banned. It's the same mentality as a child throwing a temper tantrum when their toy gets taken away. Literally a key red pill concept is AWALT — All Women Are Like That. They literally philosophically teach that all women are fundamentally hypergamous, incapable of loving men and don’t have the same kinds of inner lives men do. This doesn’t even touch on the straight up emotional abuse and sexual coercion they teach as practice. It is intensely misogynistic and nothing like anything I’ve seen here.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 03:16 PM
8	Why overt and extreme misogyny is a problem even for misogynists: It results in women being armed with knowledge misogynists never intended them to have (that they are openly hated, and they will be hated no matter what they do), and this activates women’s “jezebel” side. It’s so interesting how quickly they lose their “dog eat dog world, you can’t change biology” justifications as soon as they fall behind in any category, isn’t it? Men are doing better in STEM fields — well that’s just how it is, and nothing you little ladies do will ever change it. Elementary school girls are pulling ahead of boys? Fuck, somehow this system, which was literally created by and for men and didn’t include women until very recently, must be biased against us! It’s the same with rac…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 10:35 PM
11	After discovering radical feminism and FDS, I can't unsee the sexism in the world today Omg I already liked this sub, but seeing someone recommend Dworkin as a top comment is amazing. I agree fully, Intercourse should be mandatory reading for anyone who wants to have, well, intercourse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/20 03:06 AM
16	Man using his girlfriend as a literal sex doll; she’s worried about offending him for not wanting sex 6 TIMES AN EVENING. Ugh. Yeah, my boyfriends love language is touch (don’t pickmeisha tag me yet pls lol) and for him it definitely means hand holding, massages, cuddling etc. He would be constantly non-sexually touching me if he could. But he’s totally respectful when I’m touched out and need some space. I think this should be pretty easy to get a read on tho, if he’s not pursuing non-sexual touch, it’s not about his love language, it’s just a more “evolved” excuse to pressure you into sex.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/20 06:52 PM
3	Status, attractiveness and sexual success: possible implications for TRP But it's not a natural phenomena like height or something, it's socially pressured. I'd imagine there are a relatively high number of people with 1-3 partners (religious or serial monogamists).	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/17 08:15 PM