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| -1 | flirting with other girls while on a dateYeah as a girlm I'ma chime in and say if we wenton a date and you were flirting w other women I'd not be going out with you again. Dob't get me wrong. being friendly to everyone is great. You making me feel second choice to a girl whom is in your vacinity while WE are on a date.... no good. I'll be bitchy and ignore your calls in future. Just my 2c. | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Got stood up. Next or try again?Based on title i'd say next. Based on story I'd say try again. As a female, I have waited up many a night for a text from a hottie. I want to see them. i do my hair and makeup and lay in bed waiting for them to get home from a party or for their bro friends to leave, whatever. Waiting till past midnight can be a task! She likley really did fall asleep. She told you that she thought it would be late and she asked you to hang earlier in the night. She probably woke up, was panicked, missed your ca… | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 05:54 PM |
| 1 | (23, m) I have Asperger's and I'm ugly (pics included), I feel totally inadequate around girls and don't know how to deal with itFirst of all dude, you're not ugly. You're not Edward cullen 10/10 all star hottie. But ugly is too harsh. You look like a pretty average guy :) so don't dwell to much on that. the uglier you think you are the more "im ugly and unhappy" vibes you give out. vibes like that are ugly. your face isnt. ok. UMMMMMMM as a female I'm not sure really wha tot tell you next. sounds like you need to re adjust your attitude. try being nice / smiling / dont feel as judged. I know its not something I can just … | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I call this girl out for leading guys on?that she's just playing a game and no matter what I say, she probably won't change and I should just move on THIS. even if you have a huge blow out and feel great about yourself and beaking out this girl, she won't change her habits. she will stop talking to you, call you a bunch of names or insults, possibly make you more upset then you need to be, block you, and continue to be a maneater. You can't save other dudes from her unless you warn them yourself. I'm sure she's 100% of how she is treat… | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Just got shut down for an engineer who writes lovey poems. How many of you write poems for girls you're interested in? Is it too "romantic"?It sounds like what she really enjoys about him is his passion. Love poems, show passion towards her. His studies and work shows he's passionate to better himself/his work. If someone wrote me a love poem or a song I'd be impressed not by the ryhmes or the vocabulary, but by the thought. A love poem shows passion, dedication, and romance. I'm not saying you need to write poems, but if you want to win over a honest/cute/interesting girl, you will have to show her passion/dedication/romance someho… | /r/seduction | 19/06/15 07:46 PM |
| 4 | What's up with people telling me that girls check me out / stare?Just people noticing that you are getting attention, they see you do not notice the attention, and want to help you out. Next time this happens ask who. Look and make eye contact with the person who is checking you out. Smile. If they make eye contact and smile back For Sure go over and talk. Say hi, how are you today?? If you look and see someone who interests you, but you do not think you were being checked out..... approach anyways! They will not bite. Be polite, smile, make eye contact. You … | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 06:51 PM |
| 1 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..To be completely honest w you the dude I'm seeing now loves my attitude. he loves that I'm a sassy bitch with my own opinion. different folks. different strokes. maybe you want a barbie bamboozled gal who has no brain and cant argue a point for herself, oh and is prettier than me..... but someone out there wants me just the way I am, so there is no need to try and make me feel poorly about myself. Accepting yourself, and being accepting of others..... a beautiful thing. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 06:51 PM |
| 2 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..So because you don't like my attitude I am a dyke? | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..people have different tastes. You dont liek me already based on our convo. I have plenty of friends and potental dates who find me attractive, and most important of all I find me attractive. So stop tryna bring me down. I just came to this thread to warm guys that hitting on girls at the gym makes us unhappy. No need to request to see a pic of me then try and insult me. you are the douchiest redditor ive had the experience of squabbling with in a while. sorry about your terrible attitude bro. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 06:33 PM |
| -1 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..the easy target comment was not for OPs situation but for other gents commenting that gym girls are meant to be hit on if youre dumb enough to bother me during a workout, i get to act however I want. if that means shaming you for bothering me during my workout, so be it girls get dressed up and go to night clubs to dance and drink and possibly go home with some dude, WAY MORE OFTEN then they go to the gym for those reasons. in fact your last point is so absurd i cant even..... if im at a bar and… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 06:26 PM |
| 1 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..different strokes for different folks. make sure you can read people before you approach them or prepare to be disappointed | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 06:21 PM |
| 0 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..in my case the answer to that would be strength, loyalty, dominance etc etc. So essentially, as you pointed out, value. But I also want to be valued. And I dont feel valued if I am at the gym, and a guy knows I will be there, sees me as an easy target, and interrupts my workout. I would feel more valued if he were to approach me when I am not working hard. If I were not to feel threatened or trapped, I would be comfortable to receiving his proposition. The gym is not the place for that. Maybe so… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 05:49 PM |
| -4 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..And some of us, dont want to be hunted at the gym. all I'm saying | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 05:26 PM |
| 0 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..obviously, haha, this is the internet im guessing you thought i was a fat slob with no motivation that doesn't actually get hit on at the gym. well let me tell ya. i been going to the gym for over a year 5/6 days weekly, and i did not make these gains by chattin up dudes. go fuck yourself. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 05:25 PM |
| 8 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..as per request | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 04:50 PM |
| -2 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..Im really glad you compared me, an able bodied woman with my own thoughts, to that of a deer about to be slaughtered. Great analogy. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 03:22 PM |
| -4 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..You'd be fuckin surprised actually :D | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 03:14 PM |
| -37 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..I wear make up to the gym because I go after work and I wear makeup to work. I wear yoga pants if I feel like it because the are comfy and I am old enough to choose how to dress myself. Sometimes i wear basketball style shorts and sometimes i wear tight short shorts, Again because i am old neough to dress how I want. and you can be DAMN SURE I dont wear yoga pants so you, a random man, can stare at and enjoy my ass. I wear yoga pants because i want to. for me. fucking chauvinistic pig, eugh, | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 11:30 PM |
| -1 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..Dontn eed to be snotty and generalize people based on what I said. Just saying that. As a female, I don't like to feel TARGETED at my gym. I do enjoy sharing interests with men I date. Doesn't mean it's an open invite to come chat me up / hit on me / oogle me / make me feel uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 11:18 PM |
| 2 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..Business card is severely less annoying and will probably warrant a smile. But still creepy that you go to the gym to give out cards to girls,.... you should just work out and leave them be. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 11:07 PM |
| 23 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..Right. we are working out and out of the corner of our eyes spot you watching or approaching us. My thoughts are usually, eugh, don't..... dont.... dont/.... crap pops our earphones awkward conversation ensues, wait for disturber to leave me be.... back to working out, now thinking about how awkward that dude was / how uninterested I am in things other than GAINZ. Again. Not tryna be a hater. If you see a girl at the gym / shes your dream girl .... maybe thats your chance. But if you purposely g… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 11:06 PM |
| 373 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..As a female who frequents the gym: I do not like to be approached for dates when working out. Makes me feel uncomfortable. It will make me awkward about going to the gym. If i see you next time i am there i will feel awkward. I go to the gym because it's like my sanctuary, don't take that from me by creepin me out and approaching me at the gym. Also, "I have a BF" is my fav go to line for when people ask me out and I am taken off guard / not interested. Not trying to be rude. Just thoughts for y… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:50 PM |
| 1 | A random girl says "you have beautiful eyes", what would be a good reply to that?A genuine thank you works fine. | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 07:18 PM |
| 1 | What's something funny/flirty to say when checking a girls I.D.Agreed. As a female, even if my ID is nice, I don't want comments on it, sorta awkward. I'll just giggle, avoid eye contact, and book i tout of your store. Try being friendly in other ways. | /r/seduction | 20/02/15 10:44 PM |
| 2 | 21 years old, almost kissed a girl for the first time last nightDo what feels natural. If you over think it is possible your awkwardness will give away your kiss virginity status. But if you are natural and smooth she doesn';t have to know. Have some confidence in yourself. Also drunk kisses are the sloppiest of kisses so even if you're bad or you think she's bad.... if you're both drunk it needs to be given a sober chance before you go judging kissing skills. | /r/seduction | 30/01/15 09:57 PM |
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