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| 1 | I think divorce is inevitableThat's normal, but not preferable. I would say to talk to your therapist specifically and say that you don't want either of you hijacking the conversation and you want them to lead it. Or else it just goes nowhere. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | I think divorce is inevitableCouples therapy? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/25 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Who is she?The unfortunate truth is that people change, you've changed, your ex has changed. Sometimes it's for the better sometimes it's not. Good luck out there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/25 05:12 PM |
| 10 | Lets say you have rock solid proof that your wife cheated with a married man. Do you tell the wife of the AP or keep silent to maintain the peace for the sake of your kids?Tell your friend to Say nothing until the divorce is final, then 100% tell the AP wife | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/25 05:11 PM |
| 4 | Who is she?At the end of the day, you never really know a person or what they're capable of. Just make sure it doesn't color how you view women because not all of them are like that | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/25 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Who initiated the separation/divorce? You or the wife?Separation is dumb, with 3 kids!, she suggested it and told me to go live somewhere else. I laughed and served her with divorce papers. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 11:44 AM |
| 2 | What are the best/worst aspects of life post-divorce? What has helped you rise again?Ouch | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 11:39 AM |
| 11 | What is a reason that will stop you from remarrying?Common sense. I now realize that if two people are truly committed to each other they don't need the ring. and if that's the only thing keeping them together or keeping them from cheating then they don't need to be together anyway | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/24 11:32 PM |
| 0 | My wife just threatened separating.I think it's ok for her to say this. Imagine if she suddenly became very unattractive to you, like maybe gained insane amount of weight and let her hygiene go. Would you simply stand by and say I'm gonna love you no matter what you do or say or would you more than likely say for the relationship? These are my needs, etc. What if you actually went back to being a viable partner again and made money? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/24 09:22 PM |
| 7 | Were signs there before your divorce? Pre-marriage specifically?Narcissists, learn the behavior | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/24 09:27 PM |
| 5 | My wife mentioned divorceGive her an inch and she will take a mile, sever things immediately and let her do her thing. Odds are she will come crawling back and that's when you need to stand firm and move on without her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/24 01:37 AM |
| 2 | My wife mentioned divorceWeird, does she know how much she's getting? Like a couple of others I was wondering if this was about money. If not, then she's just fucked and you need to move on. Sorry man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/24 01:02 AM |
| 3 | My wife mentioned divorceHow can she not touch it? Was there a prenup signed? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/24 12:58 AM |
| 2 | My wife mentioned divorceHow's that possible since you "make a good amount of money "? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/24 12:56 AM |
| 4 | My wife mentioned divorceSo how much does she stand to gain from the divorce? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/24 12:54 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with borderline wife?You know the answer | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/24 10:11 PM |
| 5 | Tonight is the first night I felt like filing for divorceRules for thee but not for me | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/24 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else get told this after the divorce starts?I've had multiple people tell me that same bullshit but also I've had multiple people tell me to take a year to myself. I actually fucking hate it but to each their own I think it really depends on what type of marriage you had and the issues therein. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/24 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Women keeping their ex-husbands last name after the divorceHaha wtf. What a dumbass | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Women keeping their ex-husbands last name after the divorceHow?! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Getting a vasectomy in your 40s, why it might not make senseThey are so easy and cheap, took 15 minutes total, $1300 and only slight discomfort for like three or four days. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 11:31 AM |
| 1 | On the fence!!Couple therapy should be where you turn to first, if you haven't tried that already for a decent length of time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/24 10:47 AM |
| 9 | ChildishDon't let them see you get upset | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/24 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Considering 50/50 custodyStay strong, lawyer up, fight for every single thing | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/24 02:38 AM |
| 8 | Advice, but you’ll ignore it.*Jennaaaayyyy | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Men what is a reasonable weekly or monthly sex output from your wife?Like other people have said, stop being a prick and making bullshit posts like this on this sub. Do it on some other sub Reddit. People on here are looking to find a real way to move forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Divorceehhh something else is going on or you're not telling us the whole story. 3 divorce threats...come on, what's really going on? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Considering 50/50 custodyFor sure, there are always extenuating circumstances, but you couldn't keep me from seeing my kids and I would do everything in my power to make sure it's 50-50 for the mom sake as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/24 01:45 PM |
| 7 | Considering 50/50 custodyIt should always be 50/50, otherwise the parent is shit, imo. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/24 01:32 PM |
| 6 | Reveal cheater during divorceCourts don't care. Doesn't matter in mediation. Split everything 50/50 and be done. Send her or her and her family the proof if you want to be vindictive...or just move on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Another day closer to divorceAre you two in agreement of the separation/divorce? How did you get to here? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Walt was your real the first move towards separation and divorce?!What's the worst that could happen? If you're asking that you haven't done enough research. You need to get a lawyer ASAP. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/24 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Walt was your real the first move towards separation and divorce?!If both of your names are on the lease or any mortgage or anything, you cannot be legally thrown out. Also make sure you don't leave your kid or else that will be considered abandonment. If you two are separating, you need to get a mediator or lawyer up | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/24 11:25 AM |
| 7 | Burner accountsI think it's important If you don't want people looking back at your history on your main or if someone in your life knows your main account name and you don't want the two paths to cross. Nothing shady but I don't want work friends knowing my life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/24 10:38 AM |
| 4 | Officially Divorced! BOOM!My question as well, I couldn't imagine getting less than 50% | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/24 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Wife Buying me out of Mortgageare you divorcing? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/24 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Might be rare but does anyone else feel relief?Relief and a decrease in stress | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Feeling disconnected from my teenage son.This makes a lot of sense | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Feeling disconnected from my teenage son.Would you be able to post in a teenager sub asking how you could connect with your son? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/24 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?Dating would be ok just don't get her pregnant nor financially support her. Set boundaries and stick to them. That being said...the overwhelming opinion is no. Try dating but take it super slow don't ignore red flags or your gut. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | How long did it take you to be happy againTry looking at it from a different angle, go to therapy, put yourself in different situations, try to move on | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/24 11:53 AM |
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