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I enjoy yoga and have practiced yoga at many studios in my city. Unfortunately, the demographic tends to be women in the 45+ range. Lots of MILFs with big diamond rings, but no women close to my age.
/r/seduction12/04/23 01:42 PM
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The problem is that the same behaviour is interpreted differently depending on how the guy looks or whether that particular woman finds the guy attractive.
/r/seduction05/10/22 01:14 PM
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I can’t think of any particularly funny stories, but one hook up I had was so odd that I still have trouble comprehending it. Matched with a gorgeous girl on tinder. We exchanged messages for a bit until the conversation died. A week or so later, I messaged her again, the conversation ramped up, and we made plans to meet at her place the next evening. I get to her apartment at the agreed upon time and she answers the door in a trench coat closed and tied around her waist. Upon entering, I immedi…
/r/seduction05/10/22 03:16 AM
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I think US, man.
/r/seduction03/10/22 11:29 PM
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I have sex with a lot of girls, but I haven’t been in love for nearly a decade. While a hook up can lead to love, hooking up doesn’t mean you’re in love.
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:18 AM
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Dude either has zero standards and I attracted to all human beings who look female or he lives in one of those areas where the women all just happen to be attractive
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:12 AM
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This is good advice, but doesn’t always work in practice. I, for example, spend the majority of my time out of the house surrounded by people but have almost zero interactions or chances to interact with attractive single women. I work in a public place, I go to a public gym, I go to a public yoga studio, and I go to a public spin class all in addition to going out on Friday nights. All the attractive women have wedding rings or are known by my close female friends to be in relationships. Someti…
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:08 AM
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Tinder, bumble, hinge
/r/seduction15/09/22 01:33 PM
7

I have the opposite problem. Want to swap?
/r/seduction15/09/22 03:18 AM
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An unsustainable use of time.
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:43 PM
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Yes. The girl from South America was a native to that part of the world, as were the girls from Asia, Europe, Africa, and North America.
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:00 PM
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Kind of. My goal is one girl from each continent. Only need Australia.
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:57 PM
3

I have gone to two salsa classes in the last three months, and while the age distribution was similar to how you described, all the attractive women were married.
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:54 PM
9

What’s hard to believe about OPs story? A similar occurrence happened to me
/r/seduction10/06/22 07:23 PM
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I have a 12 hour rule. No matter how busy a woman is, if she is interested, she will respond to your message within 12 hours. While there are exceptions, it’s a general rule that I find exists even when I have been talking/flirting with ER doctors, lawyers, etc.
/r/seduction30/05/22 06:04 PM
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This has more to do with the woman than what you say or do. Some women will never, ever make the first move. I have had several women invite me back to their place without being prompted. they all shared two traits: they were all very confident and were will to take action to get what they want.
/r/seduction16/05/22 05:20 AM
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You can, but it’s more likely to occur when a woman has a boyfriend. If the boyfriend finds out, it’s incredibly easy for the chick to place all the blame on the guy and say some variation of “he assaulted me, I didn’t mean to” as she tries to save face. It happens all the time.
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:21 PM
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Bad idea. He may score a kiss or more while she is a few drinks in, but once the buzz wears off and she reflects on what she did, he could easily be looking at sexual assault charges. As a criminal defence lawyer, I’ve seen this happen multiple times.
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:32 AM
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OP says charges were “dropped”, not “thrown out”. There is a huge difference. He would also have to counter sue to get compensation for his financial loss.
/r/seduction08/04/22 06:50 PM
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If you have real game and are a guy women want, alcohol is not needed by either party. My rule is to never hook up with a chick who has been drinking, and I have not had difficulty getting sober women to bed even on first dates. The only real difficulty can be in meeting sober women. Depending on where a guy lives, there may not be a sober equivalent to a club where it is feasible to meet many women in a single night.
/r/seduction08/04/22 06:48 PM
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Simple: the guy mans-up and doesn’t let it phase him
/r/seduction05/04/22 12:47 AM
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Which app is better is region specific. In my region, all of the women on bumble are fat. It’s the worst of the big three.
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:52 PM
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I’m 30, and my family has teased, and continues to tease, me anytime I express interest in women or a women expresses interest in me. I have a lot of success with women, but overcoming and avoiding this teasing is something I have had to work at
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:58 PM
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It feels like it. I go to the most expensive national chain gym in my city. While the staff are mostly female, the patrons are overwhelmingly male. During a typical workout, there may be 1 attractive female for every 15-20 males.
/r/seduction19/02/22 03:19 PM
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There are women at the gym you guys go to?
/r/seduction19/02/22 03:27 AM
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I hate when this happens
/r/seduction09/02/22 06:22 PM
2

Not ok
/r/seduction07/02/22 07:35 PM
4

While each woman will have their own motives, I think the answer is no just like how loyal guys with girlfriends work out in tight muscle shirts
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:34 PM
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He said “hottest models” not any model. The inference is that OP wanted to go for the top of the top, and not any attractive model.
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:16 PM
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Building these four characteristics will guarantee you success in this venture: 1) be conventionally attractive; 2) be in the top 0.1 percent of wealth (capable of living the wealthy socialite lifestyle); 3)have significant social status; and 4) spend time in environments that place you in contact with the hottest models Edit: nothing short of developing these characteristics will lead to consistent success with the hottest models because women who meet the definition of hottest models all posse…
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:28 PM
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This sub is going to shit
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:04 AM
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I met her on tinder. She was extremely attractive—attractive enough that I initially thought she was a bot—and the sex was good, but afterwards, she talked ALOT. The hair wasn’t too bad, but she had obviously done some very recent grooming.
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:01 AM
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This sounds very rapey, but I have hooked up with a Muslim women. She was not the kind of Muslim gal who wore a Hijab, though.
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:46 AM
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I know a few guys like this who say similar things in their social media videos. No one respects them. The only women who seem to be into them are really trashy, gold digger type women.
/r/seduction02/02/22 12:08 AM
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Get vaccinated or deal with the consequences of your own poor decision making.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:46 AM
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How does one get over the fact that one simply does not enjoy nightclubs and loud bars? This fact is my biggest impediment to having success at nightclubs and bars.
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:09 PM
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I have no idea. A company called Dream Connections offers something very similar.
/r/seduction29/01/22 05:50 PM
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Lmao this is 100% a mail order bride setup. They just call them “socials” instead of “tours” now.
/r/seduction29/01/22 05:37 PM
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I have had success inviting women from tinder over to my place for a first date. Oddly enough, I have had an even greater amount of women invite me to their place for a first date. When considering whether to invite a woman over, you have to carefully gauge what kind of vibe she is giving off and what she is looking for. Some women will be very opposed to meeting at your place for a first date.
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:40 PM
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The 1000 lay claim has pretty much been disproven between 1) the sheer logistical and human difficulties created by trying to have sex with that many women, and 2) statements made by blue face which contradict his claim. Regardless, though. Games do seduction is only for average people. When you are rich and famous, you don’t need game
/r/seduction24/01/22 02:00 AM
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“Any hole is the goal” is about standards not choosing between a ONS and a relationship. OP can pursue sex, but doesn’t have to pursue sex with women he doesn’t want to just do he can have sex
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:36 PM
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Don’t listen to the above commentators. Any hole is not the goal unless you have low standards. If you have sex with women who you aren’t into or who otherwise don’t meet your standards, you’re likely going to have a bad time. Not only will your chances of performance issues increase, but you may suffer post sex shame, loss of confidence, and possible social stigma if your peers do not approve.
/r/seduction23/01/22 01:26 PM
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My home is furnished quite spartanly. I have the basics like a couch, coffee table, bed, etc, but no art work or decor and I just now purchased a kitchen table after 6 years. Some women comment about how I need to add some life to my place, but once a woman is at my place, it’s too late. In response, I usually make a serial killer joke, and then we carry on. I have never had a women back out or suddenly resist my advances after seeing my place. Edit: as long as your place is neat, clean, and not…
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:51 PM
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I’m 30, and seem to be only able to meet 30+ women on tinder. Once I hit 30, the average age of my matches on tinder jumped to mid 30s
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:50 PM
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Not socially acceptable, but I do this anyway. It has worked to varying degrees, but never gone terribly wrong and I have never been shamed or kicked out of any of my gyms
/r/seduction09/01/22 04:32 AM
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A few years ago I was dating a woman who wanted me to be a stay at home dad if and when we had kids. She liked her job, earned several hundred thousand per year, and believed one partner should always be a stay at home parent. Your gal could be for real, but you need to have a serious conversation with her before you quit your job.
/r/seduction05/01/22 02:22 PM
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The women who are willing to enter into a friends with benefits type relationship will have sex on the first date. The fact that you have to take the women you date on several dates before they are willing to have sex should tell you that they are not looking for a friends with benefits relationship.
/r/seduction05/01/22 02:17 PM
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This sounds exhausting
/r/seduction05/01/22 02:04 PM
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Can confirm. I am currently fwb with a travel nurse. She is incredibly horny
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:48 AM
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In my experience, this is not true. I find that if a woman does not respond within 12 hours, she simply won’t respond at all. In addition, I find that women who do know respond relatively promptly also do not provide quality responses.
/r/seduction25/12/21 06:05 AM
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The fact that you are this invested, and feeling such strong emotions, makes it clear to me that you will not succeed, but you do you. Good luck
/r/seduction24/12/21 03:04 PM
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Forget about approaching her. Not only will you have to overcome the student-teacher obstacle, but there is a pretty significant age gap between the two of you. Part of being a successful dater is knowing when to shoot your shot and when to not.
/r/seduction24/12/21 02:15 PM
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If a woman doesn’t respond to you within 12 hours, she isn’t interested.
/r/seduction24/12/21 02:11 PM
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9 months. She caught feels, I didnt
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:44 PM
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I disagree strongly with the contention that there is no such phenomenon as one person being out of another person’s league, but will agree that considering a woman to be out of one’s league create a self-imposed mental hurdle.
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:21 PM
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That’s fair. No two women are the same and no two men will have had the same sexual encounters.
/r/seduction18/12/21 08:05 PM
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I’m 30, currently have a fwb relationship with a 33 year old. I get quite a lot of interest from women 30-35, but I prefer to date women in their 20s. Women in their 30s seem to have better sexual skills, but seem to prefer more boring and mundane sex.
/r/seduction18/12/21 12:40 PM
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If OP is dead set on this idea, he should at least phrase it more casually by saying something like “hey, want to grab dinner at XYZ. I’ll buy if you drive”
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:56 PM
9

As do horny milfs
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:43 PM
1

The problem for a lot of us, myself included, is the hobbies we enjoy are all solitary activities
/r/seduction02/12/21 01:34 PM
2

Clothes don’t make the man, but they strongly impact how the man is perceived.
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:45 PM
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You’re placing too much emphasis on money. Women don’t care about money unless you’re spending it and live a lifestyle of conspicuous consumption. An unattractive guy in a Jaguar or Maserati is going to get far more attention and results than an unattractive guy with maxed out retirement accounts. Education and setting yourself up financially is important, but not as important as being attractive when it comes to seduction. Don’t let your appearance fall by the wayside.
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:27 PM
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I’m in the same boat as you, my fellow possibly Canadian friend. Our options are to take advantage of social circle game or take up new hobbies where the regulations are either more lax or the participants are less likely to strictly adhere to them.
/r/seduction27/11/21 03:21 AM
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As a criminal defence lawyer who runs roughly one sexual assault trial per month, this is completely false and removed from reality. Simply being accused of sexual assault can bring life altering consequences, one of which is a stigma that doesn’t fully go away even when the accused person has been found to be not guilty by a judge.
/r/seduction13/11/21 08:08 AM
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Serious question: how do you have time to spend so much time trying to meet women?
/r/seduction11/11/21 03:16 AM
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This is great advice if it leads to interactions with women. I’ve been doing this for years, and while it has lead to great success financially and professionally, it has gotten me no where with women. If focusing on doing what you enjoy doesn’t lead to interactions with women, at some point you’ll have to start doing things just to have the chance to meet women.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:25 AM
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This is the correct advice.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:00 AM
2

People overlook this because it is the harsh realization no one wants to think about. People prefer the fantasy that they can get any woman into them if they say or do the right things.
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:19 PM
1

You’ll be fine.
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:52 AM
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If a girl is saying these things to you, she is not interesting in having sex with you, only in mocking you.
/r/seduction28/10/21 04:32 AM
0

if you can approach in a way that doesn’t interrupt their party, and the rest of the group thinks you’re attractive, they may help you try to pickup your target. Go for it. I have known several women who met guys at bachelorette parties.
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:04 AM
1

This applies to that cringey thread about Russel Brand from the other day and to all other male celebrities.
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:01 AM
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For a sub intended for picking women, women in many places seem off limits: the gym, waitresses, other on the job women. Basically the majority of women many guys meet during the day.
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:46 AM
1

Confidence and looks are the only two things that matter
/r/seduction14/10/21 10:05 AM
3

There is nothing wrong with being a waitress, it’s just discouraging that no matter where I go, the only childless, moderately attractive women between ages 20-35 I meet are waitresses whom hitting on is not always appropriate or possible. The reality at the gym is 25-30 dudes to ever 1-2 females without considering their attractiveness. The situation at my local grocery store is slightly better with the balance of men to women being equal, but almost none of the women who frequent any of the gr…
/r/seduction12/10/21 11:56 PM
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Where? No matter where I go, there are no dateable women. I cannot seem to find places where women are in real life other than waitresses.
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:15 PM
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The amount of horrible things men to women is mind blowing. The media barely scratches the surface.
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:53 PM
1

Damn, I wish there were attractive women going to my gym
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:51 PM
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How do you meet women in bars? The culture of bars in my region is very similar to that of a restaurant. You go in a group and stay with your group at one table.
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:59 AM
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Go to the gym on a Friday or Saturday evening. Not a grungy gym, but a nice gym. The majority of the guys will be single
/r/seduction19/09/21 12:20 AM
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Dudes are getting slaughtered online for hitting on chicks in public. Scary times
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:29 AM
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I have done this many times. 1.5-2 hours gives enough time for me to gauge whether the chick is a psycho or someone I would not want at my place.
/r/seduction21/08/21 03:42 PM
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Absolutely
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:21 PM
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I would disagree. I know plenty of successful lawyers, doctors, dentists, etc who make bank and get laid despite looking like trolls. I think what it comes down to is a “have two of three” scenario.
/r/seduction04/07/21 12:15 AM
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Engineers play an important role in society, and you should be proud of your career, but engineering was never viewed by women or even society as a sexy or high status profession the same way medicine, law, and a few other professions are. If you tell most women you are a doctor, lawyer, investment banker, etc, you’ll be have much better results than a guy who is of a similar level of attractiveness. I’d even say this is more true for women who themselves are in high status professions.
/r/seduction11/04/21 02:29 PM
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How is everyone meeting women with Covid restrictions? In my region, the government had imposed a requirement that non-associated people are to remain 2-3 meters (6-9ft) away when in public.
/r/seduction21/03/21 02:14 PM
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