1Hf9n8X Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	"Working the room properly" or how to behave at an event where you don't know anybody		1Hf9n8X	/r/askTRP	13/07/16 04:14 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The only advice I would actually give every single young person, but especially men. One thing I want to add to this is something I learned from studying Stoicism for the past month. OP mentions beating competition and being #1 several times throughout this text, however, those are the things we have little to no control over. The better way, I think, is to find a puprose (as OP stated) and set yourself a goal of doing everything in your power to fullfill your purpose, not becoming the best in it. This is the rational and realistic way of setting goals, which will never result i…	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/16 11:46 PM
1	major point in trp I had recently started reading The Charisma Myth by Olivia Cabane, one of the books that are often advised here. I can already say that since I had started my self confidence went up significantly. One of the problems I had that really undermined my confidence was a constant groundless feeling of stress. Like you know, when you realise that everything is going fine, but still find yourself stressed out for some reason and something always feels a bit off? If you have something like this the firs…	/r/askTRP	19/08/16 06:54 PM
1	How Forgiving Yourself Gets You Success With Women The post is motivating and may be useful for those of us who are currently beating themselves over some past failures too much, but even for those guys it is of little help: the author does not go into specific details on how to find inner peace, he only "soothes the pain" instead of helping cure it. I don't believe in the idea of deserving something. Believing in it implies the existence of some "great justice", a mechanism that punishes morally bad and rewards morally good behavior, and agreei…	/r/TheRedPill	01/07/16 02:33 PM
0	Advice on being confident in public speaking Rehearce a lot, you don't have much time left but several hours will do. Record yourself (preferrably on video) and watch the recording. Find things that you can improve both in terms of verbal - tone, pace, content and non-verbal communication - posture, jestures, movement and so on.	/r/askTRP	16/06/16 09:30 AM
1	Not picking up girls, but reacting to annoying shit question. What stops you from replying with just "yeah, I know. Anyway..." without any following justification/explanation? It really should not bother you, at least it should not appear as it bothers you. I agree with nu121x - ignore/shrug it off/joke about it (not in a self-humiliating way), and if it really concerns you, get a tan and find ways to look older.	/r/askTRP	15/06/16 10:46 AM
2	I already workout but I'm not physically attractive enough for the girls I want what can I do? What makes you think you're not physically attractive to girls? It may be your outfit or your game that sucks. Try improving in those areas.	/r/askTRP	14/06/16 03:31 PM
7	(FR) Stop talking about yourself In this case by working on yourself you mean simply becoming more interesting as a person, educating yourself on different topics, getting into new hobbies, etc, or something else?	/r/TheRedPill	20/04/16 03:16 PM
34	(FR) Stop talking about yourself How do you change from a person who supplicates to always-telling-long-and-fun-stories-about-themselves type of person? I have a couple of friends who always have group's attention focused on them telling about themselves, and they don't come off as needy/supplicating type, they're actually pretty fun to be around.	/r/TheRedPill	20/04/16 02:46 PM
11	Which Country is most congruent with The Red Pill Ideology? The question is why are you interested in a RP country in the first place. A man who follows RP principles will do better in blue pill countries simply due to lack of competition.	/r/askTRP	27/03/16 06:31 PM
5	Mateguarding- Don't do it. This seems as overinvestment in fake dread to me, but on the other hand I get that playing TRP on hard mode may require that. As a sidenote, it'd be really nice to have a post about keeping abundance in marriage, if there is none yet.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/16 07:41 AM
3	How do you meditate ( what method do you use)? You can start with Headspace, which is a guided meditation website. They offer free 10 day meditation course, and also separate meditation recordings for various life situations and goals you might have, e.g. SOS situations when the stress is killing you. Also if you're short on budget you can download all of their stuff at a famous swedish website.	/r/askTRP	09/02/16 10:28 AM