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I went to this girl's party when in high school who I knew had a crush on me, because she had skinny dipped with me the previous week. I was so oblivious at the time that it took a girl completely disrobing in front of me for me to get a clue. Protip: if a girl is willing to swim naked with you alone at night, she just might like you. I arrived at her house late as I had just gotten back in town from a trip. Her house was was littered with passed out drunk teenagers and the tackiest nicknacks th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 06:33 AM
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My aunt is a professional academic and published feminist. I have watched her emotional abuse her male son, my cousin, for his male privilege, disrespect her male husband, my uncle, who despite it all loves her and pays for everything including her education, which allowed her to be an academic, and her publishing, and all the while propagating her spoiled brat daughter to fuck up her life because it is her choice and she can do no wrong. My cousin did not get to choose his gender, and yet she p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 04:44 AM
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That said, I would not take what TRP says too seriously. As you said, it is largely ideological, though I would not say it is ideological in the ways you propagate. It used to be more apathetic before it became popularized, and as a result quality has largely gone downhill. The top post are largely just of clickbait quality, and it is getting increasingly rare to find posts with any substance. Much of its founding principles have been morphed to be more dogmatic than was intended, but that is wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 02:20 AM
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This is why it is important to cite your sources, because without context, every quote you just listed is not evidence. They are just words, without any backing to them; hearsay, or as you would say, ideology. We can not measure empathy, or more accurately conscientiousness, as empathy seems to be subsidiary to consciousness as a trait, with any degree of certainty. It appears that EQ tests are highly biased. http://musingsofanaspie.com/2013/01/22/taking-the-empathy-quotient-test/ You critique t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 02:15 AM
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That is comically ironic. Thanks for providing a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:25 AM
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Only about 30% of psychological findings are replicable https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Replication_crisis Terence Kealey, Vice-Chancellor of the University of Buckingham, gives an excellent lecture and discussion as to why this is in the following video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_PVI6V6o-4 It is the university's job to pump out academic findings, and publicly funded universities fight over limited grants, so as a result researchers often procurate studies with limited data used to support…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 05:26 PM
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Emotional intelligence is largely regarded as a myth propagated by popularized psychology and not by clinical psychologists (doctors who actually went to medical school and do research). It appears rather that what people call EQ is more so conscientiousness, which is one of the Big 5 personality traits, and conscientiousness appears to represent itself in a broad spectrum across the genders. One of the biggest prerequisites of conscientiousness is intelligence. https://qph.is.quoracdn.net/main-…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:44 PM
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Men are playing monopoly, women are playing hopscotch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 06:49 AM
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Do you think that's too technical? Not at all if that is what you find to be useful. I just wanted to emphasise that there are exceptions, even if exceptions are a rarity, as people tend to lump all dating precautionaries as a red flag. If people prescribed your differentiation between a yellow and red flag as if it were the norm, then we would probably not have people posting questions like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 03:47 AM
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A red flag is usually a deal breaker under most circumstances. How is this different from what I described? That just seems overly technical to me. It is not as if we are describing the nuances of vehicular traffic laws here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 05:00 PM
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You are projecting your experiences onto the sum of others and generalizing a hypothesis. Are there others who travel like you? Yes. Do all people travel like you? No. It is called a red flag because it means proceed with caution. It is not a rule. There are no rules, just tendencies, and there are always exceptions. The real red flag behind travel is impulsivity. The bad side that can occur with impulsivity are brash not well thought out decisions with lack of regard to others or the self with …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 07:18 AM
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a little more douchey A tasteful touch of douche is all you need.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 04:52 AM
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I stated behavior tendencies, not a definition. Psychopaths are distinguished by their reduced tendency to feel any, or all, of the following: guilt, shame, fear, remorse, pity, empathy. Which can lead to the atypical behavior of a psychopath that I stated. There are what is considered "functional psychopaths", yet there is a reason for the stereotype being what it is as 25% of males in prison are psychopaths, and even the functional ones make questionable choices. Psychopathy is not something y…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 02:01 AM
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Hybristophiliacs love psychopaths.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 04:08 PM
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Sluts are just more likely to encounter you, so maybe you're self-selecting sluts and that's why you think everyone is a slut? But, but, but, AWALT! On a serious note, good post. Stating a bias shows a lot of self reflection. Just in terms of writing, a conclusion would benefit the post at the end in how your post flows. It definitely challenges some of the victim narratives one often sees here. It will be interesting to see how people react to this. People, especially when emotional, seek to va…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 09:13 AM
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Do you know what the word psychopath means? Psychopaths lure week victims in to manipulate to their twisted desires of rape, torture, and murder, which is why their victims are often empaths and children. Many women love jerks, which is somewhat akin to the weak willed victim and psychopath relationship, but the overstated generalization of psychopathic traits being a technique that "gets gurlz" is just nonsensical pop-psychology.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 08:01 AM
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It sounds like she wants to retain control, because submitting to her would be exposing her vulnerabilities, which would mean you might see her as she sees herself. Ultimately control issues are often a sleight of hand so that you don't notice the person's massive insecurity issues, but this is just a guess without knowing anything else. so it is EXTREMELY hard to communicate Communication is the basis of a functional relationship, if she doesn't understand that and make an effort she is just wa…
/r/askTRP10/03/16 09:37 AM
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In my opinion men have a little more leeway due to the nature of reproductive differences in men versus women, but no where near as much as most people at the Red Pill would say. Sperm is economically cheap compared to eggs, therefore women set the supply in heterosexual relationships. Promiscuity is promiscuity, and rarely is there exceptions regardless of gender. Engaging in sexual activity with an abundant number of people damages a person's ability for engaging in romantic relationships, or …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 07:05 AM
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This is the best quality any person can bring to a relationship. Self awareness begets the awareness others, begets group awareness. It roots out self deception. Self deception corrupts the senses you use to navigate reality, and ultimately creates a dysfunctional life. Most of the women I have known, and most men for that matter, could have easily corrected the dysfunction in their life had they just been self aware. Congratulations on unlocking the Unicorn Hunter achievement, or at the very le…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 01:23 AM
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One man's trash is another man's treasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 01:08 AM
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The Red Pill is not absolute law. Everyone is free to apply it in their own manner, or disregard it completely.You are thinking in absolutes, which do not apply in any observation of human behavior. Some woman do what the original comment said, some people apply what you described, but as a general rule (key word: GENERAL) most people would rather share a luxury item than a common one. It does not mean everyone. Do you guys even listen to yourselves? Do you listen to yourself? You are accusing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 01:05 AM
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I have the same disregard for someone who littlers. It is ill mannered, makes the whole place a lot less orderly, and is left to others to pick up the slack thereof. More of a nuisance than anything else, but easily becomes a hassle when everyone partakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 12:07 AM
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Likewise. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 11:56 AM
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What do you want from me, a song and dance? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 11:42 AM
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You're totally missing my point, and have not debated any of my arguments. people are not supposed to be aware I never said they were aware. Instead just restated your original points without explaining them or giving any examples, but now with a couple ad hominems in there. You brushed off one argument with my ego, then another with. "oh well that is just one example out of millions," and the last one with, "no, what I said was perfect." When someone starts relying on fallacies and has nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 06:55 PM
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Awe the old Hitler argument. That is just a strawman example. People followed him because his economic models got Germany out of debt and prospering when just ten years earlier the German populace was starving to death and inflation was so high it took wheelbarrows of the German currency to buy a loaf of bread due to the Treaty of Versailles. Germany was roped into WWI, and as a result they fad to pay the war debts of the allies' war debts which sent them into an economic turmoil and Hitler chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 11:13 AM
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You are overgeneralizing it. Are all omissions lies? No. Are omissions with the intent to deceive the same as a lie? Well that is what I would call a lie by omission, but call it whatever you want. We both agree that omitting vital information a form of dishonesty.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 08:55 AM
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Lying by omission is still a lie. It likely means she is keeping other things from you too and not just things of a sexual past. It is manipulation, plain and simple. She is manipulating a false image of herself for you, and manipulative people should be avoided. The fact that she never told you means that you can never be sure she is telling the truth. People will say it doesn't matter, but that is only if you do not plan to invest anything more in the relationship. Trust and communication are …
/r/askTRP08/03/16 02:05 AM
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Yeah, his post makes me wonder who the real beta is, him or the new boyfriend.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 01:51 AM
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Beats by Dre headphones They are a status symbol and marketed as such. No one needs a Lexus or any other luxury vehicle. What they convey is that you have high economic status and money to burn. Some people want to appear like they have status and are willing to pay the price, some people see it as a waste of resources and seek status elsewhere, like the status that comes with advocating the attainment of commercial goods to be a folly. White people are more ignorant to the crimes of their ances…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 10:55 PM
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There a select amount of artifacts and archaeological sites that remain isolates we literally have no clew about, but without any context there is little data we can infer from them for now. They would be groundbreaking, if we knew what they were, and if people even had any interest in them to begin with. Most of the information out there is public, it is just not popular as it is not the type of thing most people have any interest in besides reading an article here and there about. In compariso…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 10:38 PM
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I was not referring to you.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 12:26 PM
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I would say that the heart of my argument is that the actions a person takes in their life have effects on themselves and others. Actions of a certain nature have good consequences on the self, on society, and make it so likewise people will affiliate with you. Actions of another nature have bad consequences on the self, on society, and make it so likewise people affiliate with you. If one attempts to optimizes their actions to a certain mode of conduct, then they will find their life in a struc…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 12:01 PM
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The religious part comes off a bit more preachy than I intended, and is rather rushed. I should have took more time on it, or perhaps scratched it all together. I was trying not to advocate religion, but more so point out its utility in as a way of giving life meaning through the actions it advocates. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 10:29 AM
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I think the real lackluster of traditional Judeo-Christian stories as a way of conveying a value structure comes from the belief of the institutionalizing of these stories as dogmatism by a means to seize power. The logic follows the same as how many Marxists view money: The elite use money to control people, therefore money is bad. or... The church used these stories to control people, therefore the stories are bad.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 10:00 AM
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sophistry Fair enough, care to explain?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 09:18 AM
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An engineer is the only subspecies of human who has yet to figure out how to turn financial success into mating success. A friend of mine told me that once.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 08:51 AM
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-5. Girls just wanna have fun. You are putting too much thought into it. Girls don't think, they feel, and then rationalize it later to fit their narrative.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 08:12 AM
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What I have a low regard for is the use of cryptic language.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 08:01 AM
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I garnered as much, I just felt the need to clarify sense it was brought up.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 06:49 AM
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You can get more clarity from a magic eight ball.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 06:46 AM
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All value is subjective. What values are subjective? Otherwise this is just anecdotal. You can see the longevity of Nietzsche's Übermensch philosophy in present society in things like Common Core What? My point about this is relevant to your your next critique: The ubermensch is a goal, not an existing phenomenon. The ubermensch is an idealized man of the future who creates new values to fill the void left by nihilism. As in it doesn't exist. It is an "ideology" as you stated, something to aim f…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 06:39 AM
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Did I say that? Wait, no, I didn't. What I said is that humans are more complex than fruit flies. At least rats organize themselves more similarly in social structures than fruit flies. What I am suggesting is that you do not take a singular study on something like a fruit fly as dogmatism correlating to the way people conduct their actions, unless of course you are a fruit fly. I thought this was obvious enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 06:14 AM
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Would you then say that much of the world is stuck in the "anger phase"?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 01:40 AM
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And we share 99% of our DNA with chimps, yet they don't build skyscrapers do they? Isn't it amazing how such small differences in our DNA, even the ones between a human and another human, allow for such variance? The most infinitesimal amount in difference in DNA can have the most drastic effects, like cancer. You would know that if you hadden't missed that day in the biological genetics class you never took.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 01:32 AM
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I am not in favor or nihilism. I think it is a dumb way to think and is suboptimal to the individual.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 01:29 AM
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Natural Laws are an invented human conceptualization which we impose on the world, for egotistical reasons. Not exactly. They are generalized observations to be used as tools to help us conduct our actions. Regardless of whether they are real or not people treat them as if they are real, and it doesn't matter what people believe, what matters is how they act. The whole is more than the sum of it's parts. Electrons do not die because electrons are not alive. You are clinging for immortality. I ha…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 09:40 PM
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"Yes, yes you are." You have to say this with a shit eating grin. Likely there will be a lot of backlash if she is interested. Just keep it playful. If she is not into you she will get mad or just give you the shoulder, move on from there. Also ten minutes is cutting your time a bit short form making a move with most girls. Talk to her, get her interested more.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 09:24 PM
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If you do not have this issue then why are you even asking about it, as you already have the answer. Why don't you just wait until somebody has this as a real problem, quit wasting people's time, and stop thinking your endorsement means anything more than the badge on a boy scouts uniform?
/r/askTRP05/03/16 09:16 PM
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In other news today it is found that the sky is still blue, and water is wet. This is nothing new, both genders seek out diversity in mates. Diversity equals diverse offspring, which correlates to possibly more offspring surviving. It has already been proven that the DNA of past sexual partners can be found in human females, it is not exactly a stretch of the imagination to determine why, and has already been suggested. However, the correlation that what is somehow beneficial to fruit flies, is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 09:06 PM
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How old are you even?
/r/askTRP05/03/16 11:00 AM
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One of the best ways to get comfortable with one's sexuality, in my experience, is to actually have sex. You sound really insecure. You give high praise to a friend that plays both of the girls you are hanging out with and leaves you behind, and then proceed to belittle yourself. So yeah, I would work on those things. You are waiting for the girl to take the initiative because that would make you feel wanted and soothe your self loathing. You are looking for someone else to accept you so you do …
/r/askTRP05/03/16 10:13 AM
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Well she was lying to you to get you into a relationship, and then she later told you after you broke up to get under your skin because she felt wounded, and perhaps a bit guilty. It seemed that her tactic worked. You hurt her ego, she hurts yours.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 09:45 AM
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The hardest part about rollerblading is telling your mom you're gay.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 06:17 AM
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You tell me. I did. It is the market. People purchase that which they value. So essentially your argument is that a select few rich recruit and own sexy talented pop stars to indoctrinate society through song and dance to social engineer people to follow less than ideal ethics, and white people are stupid, but not you? You propose white people to be cattle and have little to no free will at all except for the choices laid out for them by the wealthy elite, except for you of course. Your argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 09:38 PM
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No scientific field is without its errors. Science in general is often overly reductionistic, yet despite the flaws in its process it has lent itself to the creation of technological world of convenience and to our further understanding of the world we inhabit. It is process that is slowly refined over time through constant trial and error. Academia is highly competitive, and funding is reserved for those who constantly purpose new and exciting research. As a result many people are trying to res…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 09:26 PM
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Rationale is subservient to paying attention. It is a cheap intellectual trip to explain away things. Don't think, watch. Edit: typing on a phone is hard
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:48 AM
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Most of what is marketed out there in the fitness industry is done so by steroid users bear in mind. Your biggest enemy is just time then. The more you can hit each group a week, the faster your results, such as with a full body routine. Some people only respond to heavy volume though. Your body will get used to whatever you throw at it so make sure you are adding sets, reps, or weight at a minimum of every three weeks. Keep reps between 5 and 15 sets. Most studies on a hyper trophy range are in…
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:10 AM
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Winstrol is a type of steroid. Steroids make is so what takes years to achieve can be done in a shorter time. /u/winstrol was making a joke based off of his user name. I have never used steroids, and likely never will, but fuck they were appealing at times.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:51 AM
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Who are the people making these supposive stupid people famous? It is not some cunning person in the shadows hell bent on hypnotizing people. These people exploit the market based off of what people value. Perhaps there is a malicious agenda behind all of it, but at the end of the day it is the market that sets the demand based off what they value. So who is really stupid here? I agree it would be a great thing if people were more reinforced to exercise virtue, but not exercising it has an appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:46 AM
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We have barely any idea what human life was life was like before most knowledge of our past was erased and/or replaced in the crusades. Not true. I am not sure as to where you got this information, but it sounds like conspiracy theorist hearsay. We actually have multiple historical sources spanning across time. True enough, history courses are more concerned with the winners and the losers and always carries an air of nationalism too it based off the country you are in, but there are multitudes …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:31 AM
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To an extent I agree with you on this. People tend to be very isolated and without community which really preys upon how they function. A lot of what the media markets are mechanisms to cope with this, but for a price. However, there is no indication as to what you can teach as valuable for any particular trait. That is a Nietzschean construct, and is ultimately where Nietzsche fell short in his argument. The human mind can do beyond that which it has evolved to do biologically. There is some le…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 10:33 PM
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The arrogance that goes into the belief that somehow the doctrines of our civilization can rewrite what is the product of millions of years of evolution astounds me. Humans are not playdoh. You are also not critically thinking about what money and power symbolizes with any concrete analysis, but instead looking at it one-dimensionally. More in depth, the allocation of these things lends itself to traits such as being a future oriented, having intelligence, being socially savvy, having a provider…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 10:07 PM
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The first step in solving your issues is learning to pay attention, like to the sidebar, that thing to the right over there.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 09:01 PM
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Having women friends is a great way to meet other women. That said most women make terrible friends and offer very little value.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 08:31 PM
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Interestingly enough, the belief that a person can have a personal relationship with god is fairly new, and most sections of Christianity find it to be sacrilege. The idea that something like god could speak or move through you without killing you does not exist in the Bible. The ancient Hebrews believed that even to say the name of god is a sin as it puts a label on limitations on god. God is something not to be comprehended by human minds. If you substitute "the universe" for "God" in the Bibl…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 08:25 PM
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Already new this. Science once again proves self evident facts correct. I was referring to the study mentioned that proves people religiously indoctrinated at a young age are less able to comprehend the world critically.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 07:47 PM
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their brain is scientifically proven to be less able to comprehend the world critically I would like to see this study. I tried to search for it, but nothing came up.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 10:21 AM
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Username + response = results
/r/askTRP03/03/16 08:14 AM
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Your point is very interesting and well thought out, but I disagree. I think women are more dependent on the group then men are for resources and security. As a result they have more of a herd mentality, but in no way do I think that they serve as the society's glue.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 07:05 AM
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I know. I'm retarded for dating her. At least I learned a few things. Yeah, me too buddy.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 06:57 AM
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Well for starters both of the people you listed used steroids. http://nattyornot.com/jeff-seid-natty-or-not/ http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=142838201 If you want to get big, you have to lift big. There is no shortcut. Even the steriods users you mentioned have to put in a ton of time and make sure their diet is on point, that they do heavy compound lifts, and allow proper rest periods.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 06:49 AM
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You sound like a troubled girl. This post makes use of pop psychological terms that you most likely do not understand and is filled with self loathing, and reads as "awe-is-me" rhetoric. The codependency is not chody in the regular sense You say that and then go onto describe atypical codependent behavior. The only person you are trying to convince is yourself. all people suck And like you are a fucking picnic basket filled with rainbows and joy based off of what you described. You need to grow …
/r/askTRP03/03/16 06:36 AM
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I was overweight form second grade until the middle of high school. I was never morbidly obese, but I was large enough to be a starting junior varsity offensive lineman my freshman year of highschool. I grew up in a rural area with a controlling mother, who I decided to move away from to live with my dad, so high school became a sink or swim type of scenario in terms of social development, so I tried out many things. I tried the jock thing, got really into music, smoked weed, and tried to go the…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 06:11 AM
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I went to college in a new-age hippy type densely populated area. I met a few types of people like this, and dated one even. In my experience the type of people who believe in this stuff feel like they lack importance or power in their lives, but rather than try to do anything actually concrete about it they instead deceive themselves into thinking they are somehow special by buying into the fact that they are psychic or somehow transcendental; they in place imagine superiority. In particular th…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 04:13 AM
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In other news today the sky is still blue.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 03:45 AM
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Again, a healthy level of self respect is what dictates a healthy level of self control. A person with autonomy and self efficacy should set and enforce boundaries for how they conduct their behavior and expect others to treat them, but they should also respect other people's boundaries of a healthy mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 08:30 PM
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So what you're saying is that men are more prone to circumstantial depression, while women are perhaps more prone to physiological depression. I never said that. If you are going to make a counter argument to a person, please go off of what they say, and don't imply things. It's often true that an individual has limited or zero control over being at the bottom of the hierarchy, but that does not mean that all these men are suicidal or will eventually kill themselves. Never said that either. Men …
/r/askTRP02/03/16 08:23 PM
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It begs the question as to who the person with the control problem is then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 10:44 AM
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People who exuberate an unhealthy amount of control on themselves or others are usually doing so to cope with a feeling of lack of control within themselves. They are trying to micromanage their feelings so they do not trigger any internal trauma, or just a feeling of general weakness, by controlling the world around them. Ultimately this attempt fails which leads to lots of drama and ultimately pushes people away, save for those with an even weaker self esteem. And yeah, I avoid these people li…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 09:59 AM
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Man and His Symbols by Carl Jung would be a good one. It was his last book that he intended for the everyday reader and not just other psychologists. He draws a lot of his influence from philosophy. His other works explore a much darker side of humanity. Crime and Punishment by Dostoyevsky is a work of fiction by which he tries to underline the dangers of a utopian society. Here is a lecture of Jordan Peterson's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gwUJHNPMUyU
/r/askTRP02/03/16 08:30 AM
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Understandable, but where exactly is a person drawing revenue from while on vacation? How are they bolstering their career insuring that they are a valuable, or at least will be, hard earner? Perhaps some people are in a position to do this, or they just do this with allocated time off, or they already allocated the enough funds in their life, in which case great for them, but most would not fall into this category. The people I met who "travel" are young. They work, save, quite their job, and t…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 07:59 AM
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For starters, I think antidepressants are a vital option to anyone feeling suicidal and looking for help, but it is important to look at the data when asking such a question. http://www.save.org/images/1/New_Images/2014_Leading_Causes_of_Death_stats.jpg In 2014, suicide was the 10th leading cause of death at ~12%. It seems to fluctuate around 10%. It is estimated that 25% of women use psychotropic drugs, where as men use 15%; a difference in just 10%. Women are reportedly seek out healthcare 100…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:22 AM
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Emotional intelligence is a myth and largely used in pop psychology to generate sales. What most people are referring to when they use the term is conscientiousness, which is one of the big five personality traits, which further breakdown into other traits. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits Most clinical practitioner psychologists, and not therapists, agree that a person is born with a random mixture of different levels of these five personality traits as by some combinat…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 06:51 AM
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Actual psychopaths single out weak minded people and engage them in an abusive relationship which can end in that person's murder. If a psychopath has chosen to engage you, there is really not too much you can do about it as they carefully chose you as a target for this reason, but I would advise going to the police.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 03:41 AM
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Evolutionarily it would never happen. The nature of a dominance heirarchy dictates that some people are on top, and some are on bottom. Dominence heirarchies are at least ~400 million years old, older than trees, from what we can tell in the fossil record. They are most likely older, but it is hard to study a fossil's biological behavior. What you are referring to is rewriting millions, if not billions, of years of something refined and selected for across time. It is why Marxist regimens ultima…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 02:21 AM
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"We stayed up all night discussing our feelings and how many cats we are going to own in the future, as well as their names in alphabetical order, all the while holding hands staring deeply into each other's eyes. Did you know we share the same love for Skittles?"
/r/askTRP01/03/16 08:52 PM
3

Fuck bitches Get money Gym ... More bitches
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 07:56 AM
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Most depression is a reaction to feeling low in relative social hierarchy. Very few cases of depression are caused by a chemical imbalance; think less than 2%. Even lobsters, a ~400 million year old species with serotonergic neural systems, respond to antidepressants when beaten in a fight by a more dominant lobster. So start with the basics. Are you healthy? It is good that you go to the gym. Do you avoid unhealthy foods and alcohol? Both are depressants. Do you have friends? Do you have friend…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 07:49 AM
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Very few girls, if any, critique their social behaviorisms with any scrutiny, and many men are in that regard as well. They just are along for the emotional ride and chalk it up to "feelings".
/r/askTRP01/03/16 04:56 AM
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Seemingly infinite options in a high resource society where needs can be simply met with a screen and a quick trip to the grocery store in which no effort is required making it so people stay isolated and only socialize with select individuals while pitting traditional and new values against each other as opposed to encouraging cooperation and communication? No, not sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:23 AM
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You are begging the question and drawing a conclusion based off incomplete reasoning. Someone getting dump because their partner prefers a more reserved person, versus someone getting fired, having charges filed against them, and having a charge and firing on their record will forever alter and possibly destroy their lives are strikingly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:07 AM
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When chimpanzees encounter another chimpanzee in the wild that is from another group, they immediately tear them apart as they are considered too much of a variable. When hunter gather groups encounter a new group, they map out what the supposed boundary between them and the other group and live goods there for the other group. If the goods are still there they establish a closer boundary, if the goods are gone and the group left their own goods in reciprocation, then they begin to establish tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:59 AM
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Thanks. That sums it up very well.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 12:15 AM
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Do you know of any article you can link to that refers to bpd's getting stuck at a certain age? I thought that this was just a standard manipulation tactic done by any person, and that bpd's just were highly unstable and manipulative do to abuse and neglect. It is interesting to find out it would be hyper expressed in bpd for a reason.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 11:38 PM
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Interesting. What do you think was the base motives for dropping her voice when manic, and raising it when coming down? What do you think she was trying to evoke, or how was she using this behavior to her benefit and or manipulate?
/r/askTRP29/02/16 10:50 PM
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I am genuinely interested in your view on how you believe this characteristic is symptomatic of BPD, if you would please elaborate or give an example. I see a lot of girls do this. I just thought it was them trying to revert to a child like charm as a manipulation tactic do to being spoiled or controlling, and not underlying a any deeper issue.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 10:35 PM
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Just reply,"How about now?" immediately afterwards. Tinder has blown up and is not just populated by outright skanks anymore, but the reputation still stands. Some girls will try to play the "not yet" card so they can feel more reserved, or just to see how you will react. If you are still getting the number and meeting up in the end, who cares. There really are no rules. Just see it for what it is and push through.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 09:57 PM
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Great explanation. I would add you are looking for a magic pill to make everything all better. There is no magic pill. Anyone who says otherwise is selling you something, or has already purchased it and swallowed it themselves.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 09:45 PM
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TRP has a hyper rational view of the world that is cold and calculated, which does not fit into the way most people conduct their actions. The problem is we are not always hyper rational, there is a irrational behavior underlining our base motives. You cannot just turn off your emotions, unless of course you are a psychopath, in which case your problems with relationships will be much greater, despite the idealistic view upon them by many. Much of what the TRP advocates is a way of streamlining …
/r/askTRP29/02/16 09:36 PM
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Spot on analysis. Unless you want to make your life a reenactment of Shakespeare's Taming of the Shrew don't bother.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 09:12 PM
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Kill her ego even further, don't answer.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 11:01 AM
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Push and pull dynamic. Yup.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 11:00 AM
2

People seem to get confused here when advice is something other than "lift", "fuck ten other women", or something else that does not comes out of a PUA handbook. OP, fuck this one up at your own peril. This is were the best experience comes from. Sink or swim.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 10:51 AM
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She is obviously jealous based on her use of language, which indicates she still has some sort of feelings for him. It was not just an observation on her part, it was something that struck a nerve in her. Whether they are good feelings, negative feelings, or she just wishes the guy was still pining after her, this is a huge red flag. As with all red flags, proceed with caution, and be ready with one foot already out the door. As for what to do, I personally would confront her on it, making speci…
/r/askTRP28/02/16 11:38 PM
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My end game is to be able to afford a vast amount of land and kill the woodland critters living there for sport, but that is me. If you are not quite sure what your goals are, I would advise you to watch yourself for a couple weeks like you do not know yourself. After observing yourself, think about what it is that you like, what you are good at, and what you would possible want to do. Try to distinguish your own desires, from other peoples and societies desires. When you find something that int…
/r/askTRP28/02/16 11:17 PM
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So long as your cardio and your workouts are about two hours apart it should not be a problem. Aerobic exercises puts much more strain on your cardiovascular system, as opposed to your muscular nervous system with anaerobic (lifting) exercises. Choose low impact exercises like walking, swimming, or bicycling if your legs are sore. Once your body gets accumulated to the exercises, after a month or so, you shouldn't be sore for more than a day if not less. If you decide to a HITT exercise like spr…
/r/askTRP28/02/16 10:59 PM
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I would direct your fitness questions to another more fitness related subreddit if you want a more detailed answer. If this is your first time lifting you will most definitely make gains no matter what. Having to choose between gains and fat loss comes into play only after a body has accumulated to the stress caused by lifting, and is more of a concern for bodybuilders and not novices. In theory you should be able to still make some gains on a not too detrimental calorie deficit while working ou…
/r/askTRP28/02/16 05:33 AM
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I am not all the way done with reading your post yet, but this a fantastic write up on abuse paradigms used in a relationship. I would encourage you to write more posts like this. There are too many posts these days from people just whining and trying to pass their own menial view point on while not contributing anything to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 04:14 AM
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Depends on whose past, and who is telling the story. There is always an inherent bias in history that depends on a multitude of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 04:03 AM
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While I agree it is best to draw from your own experiences and mistakes to make decisions, one does not always have the best, if any experiences to draw from. There is a monumental amount of bad advice and poor influences out there, which is why people seek out this subreddit to begin with. I would encourage anyone in touch with themselves to listen to their gut (i.e. solar plexus), but if you are not in touch with yourself and your emotions are a bit chaotic, it is best to follow in someone els…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 11:52 PM
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One of the biggest intellectual fallacies is for the intellectual to be in love with the creations of their intellect refuting the contradictions others and reality points out to them. I would encourage you to research "begging the question" and other logical fallacies.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 11:05 PM
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I need a beer, to cope with having to live in this cultural paradigm.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 10:17 PM
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It's been fun while it lasted.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 10:14 PM
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Again, purpose, as defined by utility, not meaning. This is just new age pseudo-intellectualism.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 09:45 PM
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That is a statement, a painstakingly obvious one. I fail to see how a single sentence expands upon your argument in anyway. If you have to resort to childish antics like name calling and questioning my mental condition to get your point across, then there is no point in continuing this any further. At this point your are relying on incomplete self masturbatory pseudo-intellectualism, of which a magic eight ball can do a better job at. It is not about trying to find out what is right, but about t…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 09:40 PM
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This is all kinds of stupid, either that or you just have a rather particular kink for scuba diving and Chinese food. Sex is a much more intimate and personal action between individuals that involves all sorts of biochemical reactions and layers of trust, intimacy, validation, mate selection, and safety. I am not sure how one can equate this to a dining experience, but then again, perhaps I am in need of a restaurant recommendation if these types of needs are being met from a meal you eat out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 09:26 PM
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To be honest, it sounds like it is just your social circle. If a low partner count is something important to you, seek out people with a more conservative background; they trend towards a more reserved view on sexuality and relationships. Granted people of that mindset are harder to find in the western world, but depending on the area you are in it can be done. Metropolitan and general liberal areas have a liberal view on sex and relationships, and generally people of those areas have a signific…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 09:12 PM
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I agree with you. This is an example of what Nietzsche was referring to when he referred to people following idealistic structures to cope with the destruction of their societies moral foundation. For everything I personally find wrong about Nietzsche, his predictions of modern culture where amazingly accurate.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 07:09 PM
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You are just begging the question at this point, especially if you have nothing to add to your argument, or any response to mine for that matter, other than repeating your question, but with italicization.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 07:07 PM
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Well it is good that you can admit it. That shows a lot of self reflection. At this point in my life I would not have done it at all. There are way too many feelings and already an established previous relationship to not have it lead to inevitable drama. Repetitive sex, and especially good sex, releases the hormone oxytocin, even more so in girls, which makes you attached. Being, or having someone attached to you that you do not want to be attached to creates drama. An ex is an ex for a reason.…
/r/askTRP27/02/16 07:18 AM
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Meaning lends itself to a more personal introspective observation in regards to personal feeling. In nihilism, meaning would describe questions like, "Why are we here," or, "What is it all for?" Purpose lends itself to a more utilitarian viewpoint, which you described. Purpose and meaning, though similar, are inherently different, as they touch on different layers to a similar conundrum. One could argue that the purpose of life is rooted in biology and is to have mating success, viable offspring…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 07:02 AM
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It is inevitable. Humans tend to fluctuate between R and K mate selection as civilization becomes more prosperous, thus leading to the inevitable decline of every civilization, but collapse takes centuries sometimes. As far as what to do about it, I am not sure it can be changed. The only thing you have control over is your own personal life and your small sphere of influence. As far as what I try to do, I try to do what I know to be right without becoming a martyr seeking attention, and influen…
/r/askTRP27/02/16 06:50 AM
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They treat you that way because you let them, simple as that.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 06:34 AM
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My advice, this girl can do way better than you. You are playing stupid games that we accuse women of all the time, and the worst part is now she has proof of that, in text. Furthermore, getting back with an ex in anyway is just going to lead to drama.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 06:29 AM
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Well, nihilism is in the title of your post, and how to escape it. You seem to make the argument that having purpose equals an escape from nihilism, and that purpose comes from utility, and thus because everything has its utility, then no person should feel the existential crisis brought about by nihilism. Sounds rather like a Descartes argument. Well congratulations! You solved what Nietzsche, one of the most influential and bright minded philosophers of the modern era, drove himself into a men…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 06:18 AM
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My thoughts exactly. At this point I would not call her back, ever. It sounds like you have a bit of an ego, which is often in place to mask feelings of inadequacy, and I am sure that this girl sees right through it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 05:42 AM
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Feminism is just Marxism with tits.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 12:32 AM
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Strategy: Don't walk, run, run away. I have had a couple of girls tell me this, one of which I believe was genuine. She had a tremendous amount of issues and was constantly trying to escape them. Drama insured. You can keep seeing her if you like, just know what you are getting yourself into, and that there is nothing you can do to help her. She has to want to help herself.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 12:21 AM
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Well for starters I would say she is not likely the love of your life, but it sounds like it could possibly be a test, or that she is hesitant. Most modern people have a fear of intimacy and need to to be shown what they want and have likely never even experienced. You might have screwed things up already by showing her your disappointment and hesitation, and the fact that she even said anything in the first place leads me to believe she could sense your overinvestment. When a girl does this to …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 12:16 AM
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Nihilism arose out of people's reaction to the scientific revolution's undermining of religious structures by which society sat upon. As a result people began to doubt the foundation of not only their society, but of life itself. Nietzsche saw two different pathways people would trend toward in this environment; that of nihilism, and that of strict political idealism, and predicted that the two would clash. You can see this trend today, as people gravitate towards strict Marxist ideologies, or t…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 08:59 PM
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Poor example. Your roommate was never her first choice. No girl just talks to a guy they are interested in for two months without having things move forward in that time, and no self respecting guy with any clue about relationship dynamics tolerates such behavior. It sounds like she was just using him for a sense of validation, further proven by her finally agreeing to dinner with him after being rejected. He was always on the back burner. The key is to be her first choice so that this never hap…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 08:45 PM
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The key is not in what you do, but how you act. Words are cheap. Infuse the principles that you find to be virtuous and right into the way you conduct yourself with yourself and others, and those who are of right mind will see your example. When your teacher, or any others for that matter, start to tell you something you know not to be true, just don't engage or listen. Often it is just attention they are seeking and withholding it is all that is necessary. Only a fool pays a fool's credence.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 07:41 PM
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How to make alpha tacos: Step 1: Be alpha ... Absolutely hysterical.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 08:35 PM
3

People like to think of social nuances as if they are rules, when in reality it is just as if they are rules, and there are always exceptions to the rule. Not all people with with a high partner count are a bad relationship prospect, yet there is enough of a majority that it should be a concern because a high partner count is often symptomatic of other residual negative characteristics. A high partner count is usually a symptom of something more troubling about the person. The aforementioned tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 08:14 PM
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Let's leave the name calling for SJW's. The wording in the above post might not have the most tact, but since when has it become the theme to hound someone for trying to give advice on having standards for the company they keep. Do whatever it is you are going to do, but know that fucking someone you do not respect is the real thing that is most likely going to make you even more angry, unless of course you actually do have some sort of mental disorder.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 07:12 PM
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This is just nitpicking. "I found a singular example of something contradicting common excepted knowledge backed up by mass quantities of data, thus refuting everything we know." You sound no better than an SJW. After listening to some of his other podcast with his wife I believe it is safe to say that this is not a common experience. Remember AWALT. Even Bill Burr is subject to having his woman act out of hand. Does anyone expect any man to be on it with his women 100% of the time? https://www.…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 07:24 AM
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Short answer: No. Long Answer: So long as you play the game, pass all her shit test, and keep your distance you can keep this going for a while, but you are already getting attached and buying into her manipulation and in turn seeking condolence on the interwebs to manipulate the situation. She will either push the game further upping the bet, or in the rare chance she is an honest person and does want an emotionally unavailable person, will ditch your ass. As for keeping your distance, you are …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 07:06 PM
2

Women choose a mate based on a wide variety of reasons that go being failed to mention for the most part. All humans, though more alike than not, have inter socio-cultural and psychological reasons for why they choose a certain partner on top of biological factors, but these reasons are much more varied from person to person and are harder to generalize when engaging in mass dialogue. Thus why the Red Pill focusses so much on hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 05:40 PM
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Thank you, yet again. You point route to an ascetic oasis in this vast hedonistic desert.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 05:28 AM
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That's what I get for only watching five minutes then.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 07:13 PM
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Five minutes in and it is painfully obvious to see why each one of these women are single. You are not "strong and independent", you are insecure and mask it with a bitchy attitude. No man with any self respect would anchor himself to your lacking sense of self worth that gradually sinks in the despair that is the sea of your over inflated ego.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 11:47 PM
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Late to the party, but whatevs. In my experience, good sex can only do so much for a relationship, as there is a whole array of interpersonal socio-cultural and psychological elements that come to play within the dynamics of a given relationship; not all women are the same, and not all relationships are the same. Being good in bed, whether alpha or beta, keeps them coming back, but doesn't make them stay.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:18 PM
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It seems that every girl I have ever dated would always forget to eat. Whenever this would happen I would always elaborate in detail to them about how having a girlfriend is such a big responsibility. You have to make sure that they are well fed, that they get plenty of exercise and sleep, and that they require constant upkeep or else they get grumpy; making it obvious that I was comparing them to a child or a dog. It always got a laugh, and let them know their role in the relationship. The only…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 10:18 PM
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People like to have their self esteem, or lack there of, validated to aline with there sense of reality, whether subconscious or not. They take what they think they deserve. All one has to due is find out what this is if they wish to obtain anything from that person. This is Mirroring 101. You can see the effects of this principle everywhere; the genius who works as a custodian, the gorgeous woman who pairs herself with an out of shape unemployed looser, or your obese friend who boasts about the…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 09:30 PM
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To the average women, "I did my best," means, "I showed up."
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 09:04 PM
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This. This is what trp is truly about. It is about shedding the veneer of external based validation to supplicate a weak sense of self. Living for one's self and deriving one's own happiness from within is really the most dominant and rewarding characteristic of all. To do this one must be fully aware of their autonomy and have a high enough self worth to not delude themselves of their shortcomings. When one lies to themselves it creates a cyclical motion in which there is no moving forward towa…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 09:02 PM
2

Your post reminded me of this artical: https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2012/08/17/brendans-definition-of-a-slut/
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:02 PM
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To put these relationships into context, these were back when I was in my early 20's pre trp in college, as were the girls in question. I am not much older now, but I have always been more dominant. In college, especially here on the west coast, girls are told to explore there options and establish themselves first. This is the dogma preached to them in there formative years, and if they go against it they are seen as a failure to all that feminism has done for them. Girls being subordinate fall…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 12:25 PM
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I have had several girlfriends attempt to break up with me because they wanted to "explore" more, but had hopes to stay in touch and rekindle our relationship later in life when they were ready to settle down as they believed they would likely never do better than me. When I proceeded to promptly end things with them going no contact after this discussion they all pleaded to get back together at some point stating they were wrong and that they had no idea what they were thinking. I know what all…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 05:33 AM
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People like to entertain the notion that they are "getting it out of their system" so that they do not crave it later on in life. This is an utterly illogical and profoundly stupid belief. You do not deter forming a habit by partaking in it, that is how you get it in your system.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 09:37 AM
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A slut is a slut, and a slut, by definition is impulsive and requires external validation. Such people make for one sided insecure relationships and though they may add value to one's life, the cost in maintaing such a relationship will likely far outweigh any given value. I have met many sluts who were extremely interesting individuals on the outside, but once you get to know them you can see through the veneer of their grandiosity to reveal their interpersonal insecurities which poison their s…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 04:06 AM
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Independence is the opposite of dependence. For women, their natural state by which they adapted to is a state of dependence. The are dependent on a man to allocate resources for them and their offspring, and likewise, their children are dependent on them for care. A woman who idealizes her independence essentially denies the functionality of her evolutionary history for selfish gain. Self absorbed people with a dysfunctional view on reality make for bad parents.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 07:32 PM
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To reinforce the self perception of being a "special snowflake" in a world filled with 7 billion people who have the same biological composition as you, one has to either have such a weak sense of self that they reinforce with a false sense of grandiosity to mask their insecurities, or be truly naive as pertains to understanding how the world works. Both options represent a bad mate choice.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 05:28 PM
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There is a visual exercise that I use when trying to describe the difference between external (ego) and internal validation. Imagine if you will a vase. It has value in that it functions as a vase because that is what it is; it just is. Imagine that same vase, but now broken into many pieces. It no longer has value, but if you glue it back together, piece by piece, it becomes a vase again, but it is has less value as it is now weak and damaged only being held together by the external implementat…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 01:03 AM
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Overly promiscuous individuals, regardless of gender, are essentially a hallmark of that individuals lamenting insecurities. They do not accept themselves, and in turn seek validation from multiple sources via exercising low standards and pour boundaries. They lack the resources to keep any of these sexual interactions consistent due to their crippling insecurities, or feel the need that it is never enough, because in turn they are never enough for themselves. Insecure people, make for insecure …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:52 PM
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I apprenticed under a chef for a short while before fully committing to school after I realized how hard of a career choice it would be. Needless to say, I learned how to cook really well. I can cook better than almost any given restaurant save for a few types of ethnic food, and maybe a some higher end restaurants. I have intimidated every girl I have ever dated and cooked for, save for one who's father was an executive chef. That said, they always aim to impress me. If they suck at cooking, I …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 08:47 PM
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I will venture to say that there is a third route that some women take, which is a combination of the two. A girl who will chase after conquests, piling up numbers in partners to an excess amount, but hold out on sex from each and everyone when it comes to that point; ie, she will do everything (excessive flirting, making out, foreplay) to garner male attention, but have sex. I have met many damaged girls who have this approach towards sex. It is as if they are trying to gain power by diving in …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 08:55 PM
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